The Most Reported Mom Account On Tik Tok
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- 27 year old learns that Mc Donalds has apple slices
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The fact the daughter chose apple sauce over donuts spoke volumes.
First thing I thought when I saw it!!
My son used to when he was 1-2, and he very rarely had sugar. He’s 4 now and only recently started eating chocolate. He loved fruit and veg as a 1-3 year old
yeah, and the sad part is those apple sauces are just processed sugar too! this poor baby just needs some vitamins and real food.
@@fancydeerI mean, kids don’t see apple sauce the same way as a fruit/vegetable/“healthy”. So if she gets donuts often, the sweet, likely also sugar filled applesauce, would have a higher reward value to the child.
the sad thing is that alot of kids love fruits and vegetables, but if you give the kids just fast food, ofc the kid doesnt even know what that is
If she’s too depressed or unbothered to feed her kid properly, she doesn’t need to have her kid.
@@Noradoryexactly
this is neglection and as a mom im super lazy ( compared to my mom that cooks from scratch) but even i can give my kids bread, cheese and fruit for breakfast or müsli.. that takes 20 seconds and is healthy 😂😂
That is proper, kids are supposed to eat nuggets and fries and chips and applesauce and pancakes, don't go by the diet that social media people be giving their kids
@Ash_NuggTato bro what?
@@Ash_NuggTatowhat are u on
As a teen girl who lives on a small farm, we feed our animals higher quality food than she feeds her kids... and we have 75 animals.
Damn, animals get better food than these poor children
It’s really awful. It’s not that hard to be able to add a little nutrition or healthy foods into your CHILD’s diet, especially if you can do it to 75 animals.
(And also you have a farm? That’s soo cool! -another teen girl)
@@crazylady11 Exactly! It's so sad. Also, thank you! :)
😂
It's a good thing you care about your animals more then she does.
It’s depressing to realize that this is childhood for so many kids.
Yeah that’s why everyone’s bratty
It really is.
There are many people out there being terrible parents and receiving no consequences.
This doesn’t look like some postpartum depression. This looks like some that realized they have to take care of someone other than themselves and they simply don’t like it.
My sister had postpartum depression with her first child and he was so clingy on her. Constantly scream crying. And her birth didn't go so well, she was in pain and had no one to help, but she loves that child so much. She will always put their needs first (she has two sons now) She made me realize how strong women are.But this woman just disappoints my soul😡
While I agree she is a bad mom for the way she is feeding her kid, saying she is not depressed and probably just lazy based on some tiktoks is not a good thing either. You don't know her situation or her mental health, so nobody should speculate on that, we aren't doctors. That obviously doesn't excuse her behavior, but still
@star-rock6466 I mean I think the issue is that she's posting this on tiktok like there's nothing wrong with it. I think suffering from PPD and not having access to help can result in similar behaviour, but, as a mom, there has to be a certain amount of awareness from the parent for me to have sympathy for anyone neglecting their child's needs. Posting that neglectful behaviour on tiktok for the world to see just... isn't it.
kayyy sugar tits i had post partum depression and I'm manic depressed/anxiety disorder (before child) on record...on my first child and I still fed EARTHS BEST baby food to my kids! DAMN. THERE IS NO EXCUSE OTHER THAN LAZINESS! She couldn't get parenting lessons? Or seek help before starting child obesity?
This ain't depression she js don care about her kid
I grew up with lazy, abusive, neglectful parents. I had a milk allergy as a baby and instead of “wasting” money on the plant based formula that the doctor recommended my parents decided to starve me instead. I was fed only one meal of thawed out (not even microwaved) chicken nuggets a day until I was 4 years old when I moved in with my grandparents. I was severely underdeveloped for my age and malnourished. All the while my parents were obese and ate whatever they wanted. Now, even as an adult I struggle with disordered eating because it was ingrained in me as a child that I wasn’t worth the effort or money that came with food.
I'm so sorry, I hope you're doing better
This made me feel so sad , I too hope you are doing better now ❤
I'm so sorry for you. It's lazy. Just lazy. I show up for my grandkids and I'm familiar with food allergies and it's not to be messed with. This is plain lazy uncaring and lacking
I’m sorry that happened to you 😔 prayers you find healing and happiness ❤🙏🏽🥺
I feel bad for your sorry excuses of "parents". They have to deal with the fact that they missed out on someone as amazing as you, and I hope you're doing better now :)
As someone who’s struggled with infertility and is only now pregnant, this just destroys me. She’d probably be enraged if someone were to actually offer to adopt her child, as if the child was just a possession to her. It breaks my heart.
i completely agree with you and congrats on your pregnancy!!
Was it just me who was DYING over the fact she cut up the fast food wth scissors at the end😭💀
UR NOT THE ONLY ONE 😭😭😭 I WAS SHOUTING “BAE THATS WHAT TEETH ARE FORRRR” 😭😭😭
UR NOT ALONE, I WAS DYINGGGG 😭😭
That is child abuse.
I agree someone in her state call CPS. She just throws those plastic trays very odd behaviour all the way around.
I know right this is child abuse
but it was 8 mins ago how did you watch this 24hours ago T-T
@ayowhatdidyoujustsaid11 memberships
For real...💀
The fact that she's breathing that heavy standing still should be a sign she needs to do better if not for herself for her child good grief lady...
Huffing and puffing while throwing nuggets on a plate is wild.
That's what I was thinking.
Like I was like "why tf she breathing so damn heavy just like....putting things on the plate!??!" Ain't no way she's outta breath.
I can only imagine how this poor kid is gonna grow up with how this mother is holding herself :(
I don't think she will get to be 30 years old.
Im not in the greatest shape myself but we at least try to cook our kids decent meals
She's not in good health physically or mentally. She can't speak full sentences, she forgets basic words, she didn't think to pick up the hot nuggets with a utensil instead of her hand, she has a difficult time with cutting the donuts.
Is nobody else seeing that the mother seems to be mentally impaired?
Reminds me of my own mother. My mom hated cooking period. She bought nothing but convience food, just so she wouldn't have to get up and cook. She would rather rot on the recliner and watched tv than get up and feed her own kids. Kicker is that she never worked in her life and always been on benefits. So it wasnt like she didnt have the time, money, or even energy to not cook 3 meals a day. She just didnt want to. Half of the time, she wouldnt even do chores. I remember how much mold would be under the bath mat due to neglect from cleaning, and i had to bathe in there. 🤢
Having a mom that doesn't care is just the worst. A parent who doesnt care will do far less than the bare minimum. Any legal guardian that just throws a plate of doughnuts at their kid, is not fit to be a parent whatsoever.
My mom would get almost $800 in food stamps and yet she would tell me that healthy food was "too expensive". Only to discover 20 years later, she was just using that as an excuse not to cook. Ironcially we never ate rice and beans or went to food banks like poorer families did. In fact my mom had TWO freezers full of ultra processed junk and thats not including the cubards. Considering how expensive processed crap is, that was INSANE.
My 10 year old ass would be chugging a 2L of mountain dew and eating a family sized bag of Doritos without any intervention. My mom did NOT care at all. When i started packing on the LBS, i didnt hear the end of it. She hated that j was fat and unhealthy, but yet she wouldn't do a damn thing about it besides shaming me.
She couldn't put her 2 brain cells together to come up with an idea on how to get me to eat healthier. She acted like me becoming obese wasnt her problem nor her fault.
To this very day, i struggle with an eating disorder because, my mother decided to be emotionally unavailable and, not do her job as a parent. I deal with so much shit now that im in my late twenties.
I am alarmed by the sheer lack of color. Where’s the leafy greens? Where’s the orange from some carrots? Where’s the red from apples? WHERE IS THE FUN??
I know not all kids love vegetables or fruits but it is the responsibility of the parents to at least give them the option.
As a kid, my favourite meal was pasta with broccoli or with tomato sauce. I loved those colours.
everyone saying "oh she just doesnt have time to make a proper meal" has never heard of meal prepping. its not that hard
plus she has the time to set up a camera, record, and then edit/post the tiktoks.😔
@@lovelilsy_people like this genuinely shouldnt have children
Yeah and I mean there are healthy meals that are easy to make.
Also, the little amount of time it takes to dump frozen veggies on a tray and put it in the oven, yet not e single vegetable shown. I,m not for shaming people, cause parenting is hard, but she’s not lazy. She just doesn’t care
@@ceciliekjrsgaard8028exactly! It’s not that hard to set up veggies. I buy baby tomato’s in a container and it takes 5 seconds for me to take them out and pack them in my lunch, she doesn’t have an excuse to only feed her kid junk food.
If it's child abuse to starve your kid, it should be child abuse to over feed them or only provide nutrient deficient meals
This is literally a form of child abuse. The problem is, it's hard to force parents to do what is right and they could use all sorts of excuses that keep them out of trouble. The fact is though that there is no excuse. You can't use poverty as an excuse because food banks exist and so does "food stamps". Both can be sources of healthy and nutritious meals. You can't use mental health as an excuse as there are plenty of medications out there to help and counseling too. Plus, your personal issues should not bring harm upon someone else (the kid). It's actually healthier for the kid to eat too little than it is to get them to eat too much junk. Neither is great, but overfeeding is by far worse on long-term health.
To be fair, just because she's putting all that food on her plate doesn't mean the kid eats all of it. But I guess that's positive thinking
@fallenbee I have a binge eating disorder due to similar behavior. I will eat the entirely of whatever is in front of me, even if I'm full. Sometimes to the point of puking, just not on purpose. My nickname as a waitress was the Human Garbage Disposal because I would eat customers' leftovers (pre-covid). I'm not saying this is the case here, but she could portion the food out to what a 1 year old could eat
Also idc if you put 15 donuts on your kids' plate, and they only eat 3. The problem is that she's ONLY serving them food like this.
@@taylorpatterson8845I'm not trying to claim she's doing right by them, she definitely isn't. I'm just hoping they're not actually eating it all for their sake, I didn't mean for it to sound like I was defending her lol
It is starvation, nutrient starvation. So I agree, this is child abuse
I feel bad for that kid bc she looks so sweet but her mom is literally abusing her.
Feels like she is disgusted in every video, it is so painful to watch
She's just enforcing a belief I've always had: you have to learn how to properly take care of your own body, to be able to take care of another person.
Preach!
Absolutely
I will now keep this phrase in my mind
She's going to make her child as big and unhealthy as her
1000% I was never taught so I'm currently learning as I teach my own kids.
It's not even a money issue, because fast food and those sugary donuts are way more expensive than frozen veggies, or even fresh veggies
And she has fresh nails..
Is it good that my mom only buys organic non-gmo food? Like she buys organic version of pop-tarts, organic version of Cheetos, ext..
And it taste so bad. Like one time I asked for takis and my mom said no because it ruins ur healths and is very unhealthy for you.
She never buys like the good food like corndogs, toaster strudels, lays chips, ext. I wish I had like good food that taste good😢
@@lani.1uvwell it wouldn’t effect your physical health like eating no organic food would but it certainly isn’t nice either. I would try asking friends for food
@@lani.1uvcough cough almond mom cough cough
@@samanthastarr4107 huh, what is cough cough almond mom? she’s just trying to protect me from those fake artificial ingredients in the bad food so i don’t have health issues when i get older,
Never let her cook again.
Fr😭
Never let her reproduce again!
YAY NO MORE BAD FOOD
@@ASHER-kt2bg FRRR
She don’t even cook at all 😔
This poor child is probably gonna grow up on tlc💀
🥗My 600lbs life🥗
As an object show fan, my brain has melted so badly, I read that as the acronym for The Locker of Losers
The way she just tosses the plate on the counter and then joylessly dumps food on it like a farmer giving his pigs slop shows that she doesn't enjoy being a mom. Her child and their needs are an annoyance to her.
Honestly, it does look like that but what I gathered from it it was more for like a reaction from viewers like I’m gonna answer like I’m fucking miserable she still totally could be fucking miserable and not like your kid but I still believe she’s doing it for reactions
Ikr bro!
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@@Beepbeepbeep12I do think that with the rise of influencer culture, which includes a lot of moms, there is this expectation to see people displaying unrealistic levels of happiness and enthusiasm always, even when doing the most mundane tasks. And honestly, it looks exaggerated to me, like she's just having fun with people by being as miserable as possible.
Miserable or not, that kid's gonna get diabetes
the fact that they are three adults in that household and not a single one takes their time to cook actual food...
I know right
Only white women behave this way. They are the only ones with the level of privilege it takes to reach this level of laziness.
🤢 even more disturbing
@@Firestar-TV exactly
@@Firestar-TV exactly
i grew up with this type of mom because she was sick and pretty abusive and violent (she had bpd). she loved me and i know but she would rather take me out to eat often, and i still struggle with this. i have a BED (binge eating disorder) and im a slightly over weight for my age (around 10lbs too high) and I hope this child gets better food and that this mother finds it in herself that she has a daughter to take care of and she needs proper food to grow healthy as she is in charge of a human who has a future in life.
I have bpd and I’m a mother and I would do anything to make sure my daughter has everything she needs & wants. There was a lot of stigma with me because of my mental health issues during my hospital stay. It’s down to the parent to sort their shit out and realise they now have a huge responsibility, if not, they suck
The grape being a choke hazard epiphany you had was hilarious! The whole time I was cheering you on “think about it, think about it, why would she be cutting grapes like that, you can figure this out!” And you did it!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
The fact that just ANYBODY can have children is absolutely unbelievable…..
Ikr everyone can have kids but not everyone can be a parent who deserve to be called parent. If You know what i mean .
Yes, it is, there's no excuse for this kind of neglect, it's not hard to prepare tasty and nutritious meals for children!
If you live in the U.S., it's only going to continue to get worse.
It's not unbelievable at all..living beings do procreate. What is sad though is that people have gotten so lazy and degenerate that this is how they live.
The problem is once you start regulating who can and can not have children that opens the door to the eugenics discussion.
The way she’s standing there mouth breathing while awake is already a red flag 🚩
😂😂😂 no you did not 😅
not everyone can breath through their nose💀thats not a red flag if it’s something they cant help
the thing is she cant breathe properly either trough her mouth or nose because of her horrible physical condition, like it looks like shes having trouble brething just while standing literally still@@nani-hm1qd
@@nani-hm1qd nah
@@jenniferjennifer9973 fuck you mean nah??
This is my first video of yours I’m watching. When you talked about how people say they’ve been trying for a baby and you wonder why they need to share that, I subscribed instantly 😂 I feel the same way
I just know them burgers salty 😭 14:26
They gonna be saltier than the sea😭
Just an FYI to parents: Teachers can tell which children were fed crap for breakfast. It's unfair to set the kid up to be sugar crashing and sluggish by 9am in the morning. The kids have no clue why they're struggling and it really damages their attitudes towards themselves as learners. Stop feeding them crap! (I'm talking to the school districts out there, too! )
Just an FYI yo the teachers: some families can’t find the time or the money.
I used to show up to elementary school with my dad’s leftover large Diet Pepsi from McDonald’s.. He didn’t think it through, love him so so dearly and am so grateful for him, but I ended up being EXTREMELY unfocused in class (due to the sugar). One night my sister and I heard our mom yelling at our dad behind the closed door to their room, so we eavesdropped listening to her tell him that the teacher called her to say that they need to stop giving me large sodas before school and that it was putting me at a huge disadvantage. Suffice to say, I completely agree and still dislike the taste of soda to this day
@@daynasafranek7807time??!! For what? Slicing fruits and vegetables?! Lmao stop the excuses to be a bad parents
Truth, my mum is a teacher and one of the kids isn't feed at all at home. His mum gets bunch of money from welfare check but spends all on herself. She is posting on facebook all day and doesn't give a damn abt her kids. It's sad to see a childhood trauma happening in real time. This girl on the video won't have it easy not just bc of obesity but bc of how selfish and narcissistic the mum is 😑
porridge/oatmeal costs next to nothing and takes fuck all time to prepare.
I just noticed the poor 1 year old daughters shirt said THICK THIGHS.... wtf!!?
why would she do that bruh its a fucking CHILDDD 😭😭 thats creepyyy..
I was wondering why layze didnt point that out as well.. im not sure what is said im the wntire shirt but wtf
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I need the timestamp if you don't mind
@@Demonic..Pallete 8:16 its a bit hard to see, but it says "Thick Thighs, Pumpkin Pies"
One of her videos appeared once on my instagram, and I was so furious. As someone who was raised like this and has tons of eating issues now bc of it, it’s so sad seeing kids who don’t eat at least one piece of fruit per day or a glass of milk or something like that
6:26 as an 11 year old i could have that meal and be satisfied there's no way a 1 year old should be eating that much
For real though.i don’t even think I could eat that much,btw,I’m *14*
@@DaisyIsRandom2013 What im saying! Im 16 and i might be full after that. but a 1 year old..? a chicken nugget, a couple of those fries wouldve been WAY BETTER. Veggies would've been nicer tho..
AS a 15 year old I'd feel gross to my stomach after eating that, like just eating plain processed food just that and nothing else would make me feel crappy let alone that much, I feel so bad for her kids
I can tell she did not want kids. It's written plainly on her face and how she feeds her daughter. Even in the breakfast video she just tossed the plate instead of putting it down gently.
Yet she has 3 of them. She didn’t “not want them” that bad.
@@l-train7876 She doesn't have a job; evidently, none of the other 'adults' do either. She had those kids for that good ol' welfare and food stamp increase. So, she may not want them, but she wants them enough because they serve a purpose for her. If they didn't, safe to say, she wouldn't bother.
She hates that child. Since the beginning. It's really sad to see childhood trauma happening in real time.
That isn't true.
yep. as a child with a mother EXACTLY like this, she hates them.
Why are kind people who are ready to care for children unable to have children, while irresponsible mothers have children in batches?
Lol batches 😂
Because it's not hard to get knocked up usually. Only takes one slip up for the average person, and sadly, the average person is a dumbass. This is not an attack against anyone specifically, but the dumb people far outnumber the at least not that dumb people. It's a matter of numbers. Dumb people are more likely to screw up and get pregnant. Dumb people are more likely to repeat their mistakes. Dumb people are more likely to "wing it" and shift blame at every opportunity instead of trying to do things right. The people ready to have children and are prepared to have children tend to be smarter and this can actually hurt their chances at getting pregnant. The older you get, the harder it is to get pregnant and have a healthy baby. Smart people don't tend to "accidentally" get pregnant at an early age.
Yeah. It's sad how it works.. like whenever you find the parents who are so happy, ready, and willing to have a child cannot, yet the ones who don't even care are able to have children and even have multiple.
@@mamamiaWAAAHHHkinda ironic I know
Life is just unfair
Not to mention , kids grow depressed when their parents are expression less in front of them.
“Kids should not be eating this, but I can!”😂😂😂
As a Mexican when he said "Gordona Ramsey" and in Spanish Gordo or Gorda means fat I burst out laughing 💀😭🖐️
Thank you for that needed context
I appreciate the translation Mi Amigo 😂😂
@@kelseybrexit5224 np! 🤣
Yep...just spit my drink out laughing. He nailed it without even knowing it lol
@@AlisonCasilli fr!
I know I thought the same thing!! 😂😂😂
The saddest part is there are people defending her.
"I see nothing wrong with this. That's what I feed MY kids. Sometimes you just don't have the time or energy to make a healthy meal."
Exactly, there's nothing wrong if SOMETIMES you kid eats a little bit of junk. SOME TIMES. Not every meal. Kids under like 7 years old should be consuming virtually zero sugar. Nothing is ever truly zero sugar, but you need to keep their intake to as close to zero as possible.
There's nothing wrong with giving your kid a donut every other week. Or mcdonalds once a month. It's called moderation.
She's just a super lazy parent and anyone defending her should be investigated for child neglect. Yes, child neglect includes improper diet.
Should be investigated?? I’m guessing you don’t know how few resources CPS has
@@jordyb57 so you don't care about kids being neglected. Got it.
@@jordyb57 oh, so we should neglect abused kids because CPS has few resources. good thinking.
@@jordyb57 CPS don't even help beaten kids, they won't help them either
The fact that even someone commented under her video mentioning the food bank & affordable frozen veggies jus show mfs are dumb & need to b sterilized. If they wanna eat unhealthy like that then that’s on them but A CHILD no way Jose!
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11:23
the shirt tho
" thick thighs and pumpkin pies "
What makes me so irritated is that the CPS service took me away from my mom because of a false rumor a family member told them, and the only way they gave me back to my mother was because they saw I was healthy and didn’t miss school. These parents treat their children horribly and nothing is done to their children by CPS. America is a joke .
CPS takes children away from good parents and sends them to bad one all the time, it’s all about making money, they don’t care about family they’re about spitting up families
CPS is notorious for doing things like that. They don’t care about actual abuse
Meanwhile I had evidence videos on videos on my mother abusing me but no not enough evidence all because my mother said I was lying. CPS can’t do shit they are stupid and useless
CPS took me away at 6 years old because my moms roommate had meth in their room (she didn’t do it or know about it, nor was it done in the house). She cooked us 3 meals a day, took us to the park every weekend, and took an hour to help with homework every night. and I wasn’t allowed back with her until I was 13 years old. It’s BS parents like this can keep their children but they are so quick to take from good moms.
America is a continent of 34 countries, the USA that you are likely referring to is one of the Rich countries that hate children the most and women second. If ever one gets to travel the world they’ll see how corrupt the USA is and where the tax dollars go besides lining the pockets of those who run it, the rest go on war fare to deplete the populous thus circling back to why they hate kids and women who bare them.
People literally record themselves abusing their children these days. This. This people is where our society is.
thats because good parents dont even post their children online
@@alexspies-pronouncedspeezbingo. no matter how cute your kid is, you’re not putting their ass on the internet knowing the weirdos there are.
@@sugma148genius
I suppose there's a positive side to it, if they're providing proof of the abuse and exposing themselves maybe it'll be easier to rescue the kids
She obviously isn't abusing them, because abuse is when you are aware. I don't think she is an abuser, she just need some food guidance. Some people don't know about nutrition and health.
Same saying everytime… every child needs a parent, but not every parent needs a child. If your too tired to do the bare minimum such as a simple home cooked meal or even just some veggies and fruit once in a while then why have kids you cant 100% take care of? Cause this CAN lead to child obesity and a bad relationship with food.
That's so terrible. Your own mother basically slowly killing their own child
2:25 I’m a physician, and that is EXACTLY what is happening. Her body is literally trying to protect itself from all the fucking sugar.
Doctors need to report this incompetent parents. This is child @buse
@@FransceneJK98 It is. There is zero reason why I should ever see a tween with T2D, but I have seen at least a dozen. Yes, CPS was called.
@@FransceneJK98multiple pediatricians spoke on these videos and said the kid is fine. The diet is fine.
but the apple sauce has sugar in it anyway? and im not excusing the donuts, but how is pancakes and syrup any healthier than donuts?
@@bryannacloutier4018 thats good to know, so many parents feed they're children pancakes and syrup as if it isnt just as bad as powdered donuts
Somebody call the state on her. She’s setting that child up for an eating disorder and bad health.
Like I understand it can be hard to feed little kids veggies, but like atleast give the kid some apple slices, oranges, carrots or something! What this woman is feeding her daughter for breakfast is more sugar than what your kid should have for dessert.
@@heartsforurmumthat’s literally what we’re saying lol 😂
Yes! Someone needs to do something about this before it's too late.
the whole state is doing that bro
@@user30106 the obesity levels are increasing so high in the us its cuz of parents and culture
5:56 exact moment I subbed lmao randomly came upon this video after I saw this lady on instagram and ngl bro you’ve gotten a couple laughs outta me so far wish you had more subs cuz ur actually pretty funny
This hurts to watch someone save these kids!!!
This is pure laziness. Scrambling an egg or two and slicing an apple would take about as much time as this crap she’s feeding her child. I get being depression, I really do, but go get help. Especially if you’re a parent. Stuff like this is borderline triggering to me who is basically infertile. I’d do anything to even have a child, meanwhile this woman is proudly showing off her inability or unwillingness to parent. This is a disgrace😮!
She's feeding her child exactly what she eats. Does it look like she's eating fruits and veggies. Her diet is horrible and she sees nothing wrong with feeding her kids it
@@danielleburke87 No it does not, that’s why I didn’t say that🤔.
Does nobody else think there might be some type of mental delays contributing to this? I think it might go beyond laziness. She seems to have a hard time executing simple tasks, and issues speaking as well.
@@tikusblue There could be, I did think of that too. But, does it really matter? She's still a neglectful parent and should be held accountable for contributing to her kids poor heath. If she does have mental delays, her family and the kids father take on way more of the weight of the responsibility but she's she accountable. Remember, she's capable of running a tiktok account.
Her baby is at her most crucial stage of life in so many ways and she's pretty much guaranteeing her physical and mental health (disordered eating) issues in her future. I'm obese, even larger than this mom, and I'm completely addicted to those same processed foods her 1 year old daughter eats multiple times a day. So much of the population is these days. It's a hell I wouldn't wish on anyone. And I'm someone who enjoys fruits and vegetables and was fed a nutritious variety of foods as a baby...so I can't even begin to imagine the struggles this woman's kids are going to have with their nutrition throughout their lives. It's just sad.
@@sagmangoesthe only difference her having mental delays would make is if she is aware or her own neglect. Like if she genuinely is just delays she can get help and be better mother, if it’s not a mental issue then her children absolutely need to be taken away for neglect.
This is what she's willing to show the world....what is she hiding?
😭🤣Nooo🤣🤣
Facts
You don’t know people’s story. Sometimes people don’t have enough money, don’t have enough knowledge, etc. Please try and educate the person or mind your business instead of hating.
@@AlixDaAxo healthy food is way cheaper than that shitt
@@kaisla_onerva no not where I live
She don’t need any comments she needs jail or CPS.
13:44 I’m going to throw up 😭
The fact that my mother fed me better when she barely had any money to even buy food speaks volume. I really don't think the issue is money,it's laziness and not wanting to take care of her own children
those little debbie bags are around $5.
Right! My mom struggled economically but she managed to keep 3 stomachs fed, full of veggies and protein
Shotuot for your mom for trying her best for you! ☆ And for all the hard working lovely moms, they deserve more recognition. ♡
@@nadiacorimayo3157 hell yeah,shout out to the mothers that do their best to have their kids live a good life
A bag of chips is $6 now… ten pounds of potatoes are $5 or under (I get them for $3.99 in CA) and can get 25lbs of rice and flour for $10 each in CA. A bag of frozen broccoli that’s big enough for two meals for my family of 4 is 99 cents… junk food isn’t cheaper.
People who defend her in her comments are so concerning. They are part of the problem. Like seriously? Your defense is that at least she is feeding her kids? Doing the bare minimum is something to applaud?
I agree. I call these unhealthy supporters pit bulls ready to attack. They are probably feeder's. Have A Fabulous Sunday ✌️
They defend it because they are also perpetrators of this. They either feed their own kids or themselves like this and feel ashamed when called out so they double down
@@alexthegr8esttI have some picky kids but I would never! Now there are special days like “donuts with dad” where I’ll give them something small at home. Probably apples and peanut butter, they don’t eat much in the morning.
I think the “at least she’s feeding them” comes from so many accounts where children have literally been starved to death. Neither is acceptable, but I don’t think telling her over and over she’s abusing her kids is going to help either. I think the people adding helpful comments like, “cut up bananas and strawberries it takes the same effort” are the ones that will be the ones that will get her to move in the right direction.
Telling people they are terrible doesn’t really help. Pushing people in the right direction with constructive criticism does. You can see at least she made one step forward with what appears to be grapes and did cut them up properly for her small child. She looks like a very unhappy person herself, maybe she needs some serious encouragement to move in the right direction for not only her children but for herself as well. Positive reinforcement and encouragement always works far more effectively than negative feedback or punishments when trying to change. No one commenting actually knows this woman or what her actual situation is, she obviously has reason she is willing to post these things online and willing to subject herself to this criticism. This isn’t in anyway a defense of her actions, because she does need to work to do better for her entire family including herself.
@@kreggie891 enablers are part of the problem and that it’s just a fact. Telling a problematic person that they are doing great although they obviously don’t it’s not okay. Neither those who tell her that she is the worst but after so many viral videos she clearly thinks this is a joke and she is mentally incapable to take proper care of her self, let alone those poor kids. Not only she is abusing them ( even if she understands it or not) but she is also unemployed, in a relationship with 2 other unemployed adults and this is for sure not a normal environment for these poor souls to grow in. It’s so sad because she is f up in so many ways. The food she is giving them it’s only the tip of the iceberg and it’s not okay
8:03 she’s giving her daughter donuts for breakfast at that age but when I was 1 I was eating soup that my parents made and not some junk food 🤦♀️
0:43 once my math teacher said she and her husband were trying for a second and had been for a while..all I asked was if she wanted another baby😭
And even I COOK better meals for the kids I babysit!! They’re not even my kids and I don’t get paid but I ALWAYS make sure I feed the girls well! This is insane😧
She's feeding a baby what she herself wants an excuse to eat, that's why there's so much. She's planning the whole time to eat the majority of it and call it not being wasteful.
I don’t think she’s refraining from consuming anything she wants. So…
She’s probably making herself a similar plate. Then eats what the daughter leaves behind too. Little kids don’t eat that much. Everything she gives these poor children is junk food. When the pediatrician asks her why they are so overweight she will probably scratch her head and say I don’t know. I feel bad for the kids. They trust their parents to care for them properly. This is not that.
The pediatrician is just as much at fault, she sees these under nourished kids and the heavy weight lousy excuse of a mother and doesn’t report her
@@lilosnow1759Does she even take her daughter to the pediatrician?
This is child abuse, she doesn't need to have children.
It’s not child abuse, it’s child neglect.
The likes seem botted no offense as theres no replies
Welcome to life. Start to imagine how many parents are like this. A whole lot. - and there are a whole lot more in the making.
We’re animals.
Fr
I absolutely hate how anytime someone tries to stick up against her all of the people say "But she's trying her best!!" or "at least the kids are getting food!" But seriously? IF chopping small donuts into two is the best she can do then damn my standards must be too high.
"Smothies... ,smolies. , smolies?... Smolinggies? ..Smo .smo?...."
11:47
I can’t even go thru the video at all I only got thru 8 MINS of this bs it’s just so painful this women does not deserve her lil girl,her daughter deserves sm better
The dog food commercial said it best, "no living being should eat processed food for every meal of their life".
who keeps having sex with this chick.
Ad was right about food for all dog, cat, and people!
@@catladynikki2024 no, it was very judgemental. the general population cannot afford to feed raw, as long as the dog is fed, happy, and healthy you can feed kibble all you like. stop judging people because they feed kibble and not raw
@@taytakesthedub what? You judging my comment. You don’t know what’s in my mind. Don’t control me. Did you read @Traewing’s comment? You attack my comment too fast without feeling. You better be nice.
@@taytakesthedub I said ad “advisement” talk about eat well healthy with money afford on television many times for all people, cat and dog. Advisement always show different type of foods including store clothes, Amazon prime, foods store, and news.
CPS needs to be called, she’s not feeding her child properly. Her child is visibly overweight. A one year-old baby should not be that heavy. And not only is she being lazy she’s being abusive by not feeding her child the proper nutrition she needs.
This is a disgusting and ignorant attitude to have. The parent here obviously has a bad relationship with food, and they need support in order to help their kids grow up with a healthy relationship with food. They need to be less apathetic to the effort people have been making to encourage her and give her knowledge to do better. This is true.
However, there is nothing happening in these videos that is worth taking a child out of a loving (even if imperfect) home and dumping them in a bs system. It's honestly astounding how ignorant and hateful you people can be.
The system is overrun and underfunded, it is not a joyride, it's not a new perfect home, and it's not free of issues or problematic people (Guess what? Those people may also have a bad relationship with food and/or feed the children less than ideally! Shocking). It is very often an abusive environment, real abuse, not due to something as simple and workable as a parents terrible relationship with food.
It is traumatic to be taken away from the family they love, and it is not the magical fix you seem to believe it is. I hope you put in the effort to educate yourself.
@@twitchy_bird u acting like u smart and shit. u aint. ps you definitely liked your own reply. xx
@@SuperSimpForTheStars I'm sorry for you, but some people are smart lol. You could be part of that group, if you tried.
No... I have no need to like my comment, though I do obviously like what I said. I said it after all.
Empathy is free, and education on the subject? Also free! Shocking, I know.
The only people who say stuff like this have no idea what CPS actually deals with. No one is going to care what she's feeding her kid, the only thing that matters is that the kid is fed.
Taking out of the family is extreme yeah, But your comment is extreme too. Not feeding a child the proper nutritions their body needs for developement is reportable. They need protein for their brain in that life stage. If they do not get enough of it leads to developement issues. Most countries have child developement professionals who check on your child in the first 3 years. And diet is one of the things they check. Not having the proper nutritions can cause autoimmine diseasea, diebetes, movement issues, hormonal issues, the list is endless. Not having enough protein can lead to learning difficulties, It is clear she was probably raised on a diet like that, but it is also clear she is lazy and negligent. There is no way a person in 2023 doesn't know a child needs vitamins, and protein. All that she eats is carbs and refined sugars. Teachers can tell which child was fed with proper nutritions and which were not. They can even tell who ate trash food for breakfast and who didnt. Giving a child unhealthy food every once in a wgile is okay but what she is doing is straight damage to her health. You defending the woman and straight up ignoring a baby is truly upsetting. Just cuz she has an unhealthy relationship with food doesnt justify her ruining her child's health. @@twitchy_bird
They're going to be obese for their entire lives, no doubt in my mind. If they have only been fed fried or frozen or fast foods they're not going to want anything else. Plus, the amount she gives her 1 and 4 year old would be appropriate for a 7 and 10 year old like.... so much.
But there's no way they'll get out of this cycle. The mom was definitely fed the exact same way as a child
I have a one yr old sister and seeing this honestly stresses me out sm☹️
This is neglect. I can’t imagine having fed my son like that. It doesn’t take long to cook something. Esp something for kids. I was tired. I had a lot to do. I think she’s on substances bc she fumbles her words a lot. She has a hard time opening a damn bag of DONUTS. Man, I’d have even been happier had she had freaking tv dinners for her kid MINIMUM even though that should be rare. Protein, veg, fruit, milk and snack. Pretty damn common balance for kids…I’m blown away. I’m happy I had more sense than that and I was very overweight and unhealthy. I lost the weight for my health but what triggered it was I wanted to be a better mother for my son. To be able to catch up to my son. To play with him longer, go on farther walks, etc. to show him how to eat properly! I was 280lbs and that extra weight makes you TIRED, in PAIN, & everything is a lot more effort. Things like walking to the bathroom are a chore…I lost 140lbs. I only gained back 20lbs during the pandemic which I’m working on already losing some but 160lbs is a WORLD dif than that. Maintained for 9yrs no problem. I feel for her on the level of I understand how hard everything is obese, but I also am upset seeing the changes that should be made not being made. Genetics do not make you fat, they can make you PRONE to getting fat if you do not make good choices. Genetics do not prevent healthiness it only makes you choose a dif route to healthiness. People pass down bad eating habits and that is fact.
My son is now 14 & healthy. I do fear for kids like that
I’m the oldest of 3 kids, we are 3 years apart but our parents always encouraged us into sports. Our parents could also feed us reasonably healthy food- despite all three of us doing different sports and running around all afternoon driving us around even if it was as simple as pasta with veggies. Occasionally we have pizza when we really need a quick dinner and they can’t make anything, or mc Donald’s when we are going on trips(like driving 3 hours for camping) or sometimes as the oldest I’ll cook up a small meal for my family. I’m not saying we eat perfectly healthy(cause we don’t) but we try our best and what she’s doing is plain wrong! Congratulations on your weight loss!!! That’s a big accomplishment!
I’d be careful accusing her of substance abuse. I have the same symptoms you mentioned because of an auto immune disease.
@@TheSamjane4 I understand having physical issues bc I do. However I do not see many with auto immune diseases eyes roll or not open a doughnut bag. It’s not consistent. I’ve also been through treatment & have been around countless people under the influence. Even if it’s physical or legal prescriptions it cannot interfere with proper care for children. That’s just law and it makes sense
It takes 2 minutes to cook a scrambled egg there’s things you can make that are quick and easy for your *growing* child
@@Ivy30 there’s a big dif between accusing & making an informed observation in opinion. “I think” and “she is” are dif things entirely. I am not just someone reaching Ive noticed little details BEYOND the limited mobility or possible health issues. I do know from my own life, those who also went to treatment and the people I now help. One is an opinion the other if accusing would be “she IS abusing substances” declaration statements. Don’t try to give me shit and relate this observation to yourself and your own experiences. If you aren’t using then you know you’re not. I highly doubt allergies is the cause of your symptoms that may appear to be stoned maybe if even that. Sorry people have wrongly suspected you or even actually accused MAKING DECLARATION STATEMENTS AS FACT, but your wrong accusation does not negate the possibility & the reasonable suspicion of others. To whom
I was kind to not list bc there’s many and making I think statements leave room to be right but also proven wrong. Chill
The fact she struggling to breath walking with donuts is bad in itself
Lmao
That breakfast is not enough for a child. Children need way more than that.
All this talk of "adding the seasoning while you mix the meat"... She didn't even MIX the meat! I can still see the pristine lines from the factories MEAT EXTRUDER! I'm laughing but its only to keep myself from crying.
The way she even throws the plate at the camera everytime just shows how much she cares about doing this for her children. I think her problem is she doesnt care to even try.
Yeah imagine that she’s actually behaving better for the camera than she normally would - horrifying!
@@michellemartinov6267 omg right!
She actively hates her children and is likely using them to get welfare money
This mom looks stoned and like she is very inconvenienced by having to take care of her child
I don't think stoned is the issue. She is completely detached and could care less about her child.
personally i struggle wit depression but never in a million years will i be depressed enough to feed my kid unhealthy shit
Not an excuse, I know plenty ppl that smoke and cook. Its not that hard. She just doesn't know how to cook.
@@CHARZANNA82 literally.. its a survival skill and also just a basic thing a human needs to know. she looks like she dont gaf about her kid and i feel bad for the lil girl.
I'm 12 and this is just depressing. I'm just feeling bad for her kids because unlike her, they don't wanna become big back dinosaurs
I get being tired, but I would wake up at 4 to take care of my nephew, even when we were sick, I still tired to give him at least a fruit and veggie with each meal even if he didn’t eat all of it. There really isn’t any excuse to not give your kids a good diet, that’s an immature mother.
Exactly.
Even when my husband and I struggled with money (we made “too much” for assistance, but not enough for comfort with living paycheck to paycheck for basic necessities, bills, gas, and food), and there were times where the nuggets and fries for lunch along with a leftover soup I had made for dinner the day prior were about all we had to offer … but I still went out of my way to try. We decided to start meal prepping - really extended a buck and helped tremendously.
I then started saving seeds from fruits and veggies we had bought at the store and began growing them in the ground out back in our yard after tilling up the dirt (by hand with a hoe and mattock as I had no idea what I was doing lol).
Ended up with a decent mix for my first time: some tomatoes (big and cherry ones), bell peppers, cucumbers, little bit of corn stalks growing, green beans, some potatoes, sunflowers (for the seeds … we had SOOOOO many), tried my hand at strawberries, watermelon, and found out we had a slew of blackberry bushes along the mountain on our property that u netted off to protect from wild animals.
Once it came time to harvest, that was our snacks. We had so much that I could even freeze some for later down the road. I had to learn a lot from trial and error, and yea some had to be thrown out, but what we were able to get was enough to help us through rough patches.
I’d save those seeds from that batch and extend more areas in my yard to grow for next season … and all it cost me was a few bucks and an hour or two a week planting and tending to things.
That’s why I refuse to give in to people that claim eating healthy is too expensive/impossible. It’s really not. You don’t even need a big yard to do it - can even grow a mini garden on the balcony of an apartment complex if one put in the effort and tried. Plus, it’s so much healthier and the feeling of taking a bite of and cooking with something you personally grew is pretty cool. It’s also been a great way to help me get over my depressive spells by spending time in a garden and clearing my head.
I highly recommend it as it is basically free continuous food at that point.
That lunch was her lunch. No doubt she overfills her daughter’s plate then eats everything the kid doesn’t eat by reasoning “at least I’m not wasting it” to herself. The sad thing is, her kid will grow up thinking this is how you should eat, just like mom. She’ll be picky and will only want processed foods.
Fr
Some people dont deserve to be parents.
I agree. Keep your legs shut or use rubber. These poor kids
It always seems to be people who wnat nothing more than to be parents who can't become them 😭
@@FransceneJK98bro 😂
@@harpermckernan3033like bruh
@@harpermckernan3033like what type of sorcery is that
9:25 yes they have apples but instead apple slices
Ive had a mother who never taught me how to make anything, yet expected me to make myself every meal except dinner. She also got mad at me if I ordered food from outside, and I had to learn basic skills myself. I'm really concerned for her child, because I'm scared shes gonna end up with an eating disorder
yeah my mom never taught me any life skills either. She just expected me to figure it out on my own. Its not like i could cook either because there was never any raw ingredients to begin with. No oils, seasonings, or spices.
Bruh the drive thru scene where he goes “can I have a happy meal for my son? He’s depressed.” 💀💀💀💀
💀🤣😂🤣😂
"Kids should not be eating this....but I can 🥰" lmao
Lmaooooo funniest part of the vid fr
he doesnt even know it aint mcdonalds but ok lol
@@moyo6606"I can see why those kids are fat."😂😂
I'm not even halfway through the video and I'm already disgusted and worried for that one-year-old health.
Can a 1 year old have solid food yet?
@@jennawebb4225 they can if its cut up in size able pieces
Sooo dramatic
@@ramiiibm its not but okay🤷🏽♀️
@@Weathergirlnamizo it is
As someone diagnosed with depression this isn’t what depression looks like although it’s different for everyone, it doesn’t give u an excuse to not parent for your 1 year old when they desperately need a proper mum
I genuinely feel bad for the innocent children. Like what did they do to deserve a mom who put's herself before them? The audacity she has to even post it on social media just proves how much she doens't deserve those angels.
How is this not being flagged by CPS.
Because this is just par for the course in 🇺🇸
It's not CPS worthy. We may not like what she's feeding her kid but her child is being fed and she looks clean. There's no real neglect and when kids are really being neglected they still don't do anything
@@niriajnai4906but this is neglect on her health. Eating sugar and no proper diet is neglect.
@FransceneJK98 I personally had a CPS worker laugh because someone called on me and said I wasn't properly feeding my child. So you know the applesauce packets that were in the video my son loves them and the dole gel fruit cups. So I pack them when we go on our outings this So called friend "goes that's all I see him eat you need to do better" a week later CPS is at my door saying they go a neglect and child abuse report on me. I let the worker in and as soon as he saw my son he started cracking up and was like this is a waste of time he said he was expecting to see a malnourished child. Long story short he checked my fridge and cabinets ( saw real food and snacks), didn't check rooms or anything else. Told me when he got back to his office he's closing the case and he did. He also said people call alot about kids not being fed properly but if they look healthy and are up to date with doctors visits it's nothing they can do. I'm in upstate NY and that was my experience.
@@FransceneJK98unfortunately that doesn’t count even though it’s horrifying to us when it comes to CPS that doesn’t fit the criteria
just because her mom eats like that doesn't mean the child should too.if someone is watching and knows the woman, knows where she lives, he should report it to the social service
Cps*** 😆 Seriously! They will hook her up with resources, to improve her mental health & a nutritionist. They don't always just remove kids.
A 1 YEAR OLD!!!! idk, but i think thats not good for a toddler! bruh im 11 and i dont get to eat like that (most of the times, for reasons). i hope the kids are safe and healthy. God bless those children
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child 😢❤
Apple juice is basically just sugar. A nurse told me a story once about this very obese baby that came into the ER. So they were asking the parents what they were feeding her. The parents said vanilla pudding cups. That’s it. They said the baby liked it so that’s what they gave her. Jeez 🤦🏾♀️
This woman gave her baby sugary drinks, then when she tried giving her child a nutritional drink she didn’t like it. I wonder why? I mean all you’ve been feeding your child is sugar, if they get used to eating shit like that, they’re not going to like healthier foods. And the whole ‘but they liked it’ thing is so weird, and a crappy excuse.
It was apple sauce not juice but Ik what you mean
@@DemiSuatonexactly
@@DemiSuaton My son's school has banned all drinks except water and there's always an issue with first graders who never drink water at home and will wait until they almost pass out from thirst before they accept they aren't getting a sugary drink.
I love when they blame the child 🙄 “cheese puffs, they’re her favorite!!”
This is why we got to stop saying everyone needs to have kids cause not everyone is made for them, it’s a lot of work and care.
No one I know says that. Maybe cult members say that?
@@michelleb7399not everyone says that but way too many people hint at it or pressure people to have kids. I made a decision many years ago that I don’t want kids and I’m not cut out to raise kids, and when the topic comes up I get so many different reactions from people (I don’t tell people unless they bring it up first). I get a lot of questions about why I don’t want kids, comments that maybe I’ll change my mind, comments like “oh everyone thinks that at some point, just give it time.” And no It’s not just cult members who say this stuff.
@@michelleb7399 a lot of people like to pressure other women to have kids (it sucks)
@@michelleb7399 Elon Musk straight up said that on Twitter lmao. Some governments around the world are also trying to push people to have more kids, it’s a growing movement. It’s bad enough that Roe v Wade got overturned in the States. It’s sad :/
@@michelleb7399here in my country they keep asking adults "when they would have children?" and tell them that they need to start having a family and shit 😂
This is absolutely someone annoyed that they have to make food of any kind for someone else.
10:23 NO, NOT THE ADOPT ME TOY..
She’s abusive and has the right to be the most reported
What would reporting her accomplish? You must be like those white women who call the police on black people selling lemonade without a permit instead of helping them
She’s completely checked out. I feel sad for those kids. 💔
I was about to say… bro it’s pretty evident there’s A LOT more to this story… lookin at her eyes she’s completely checked OUT.
I mean even her trying to get the bag of the donuts open, it was like she was fighting to stay in her body.
Even her trying to form words… the constant pausing/ buffering. That’s a sure fire sign of lack of dopamine production.. HUGE sign/symptom of hardcore depression.
Also someone mentioned she’s not the only adult in the picture??
So… their are other adults around… who literally just, don’t care.
It’s not like she’s withholding food from them or feeding herself differently.. this is HOW she lives..
It’s pretty evident she needs help man.
Yeah, that’s how I feel. I feel bad for the whole family.
@@OoooshetriesSs I wasn't able to put this into words but that sounds right. Just something about her face and the way she moves in her videos is unnerving
@WtFil
She has a boyfriend/husband and they have a live-in girlfriend. She is the ONLY one with a “job” (the tiktoks). In fact she and they refuse to work because they think the tiktok is enough.
What a horrific selfish monster.
Omg I’ve never laughed so hard in my life you just got a new subscriber 😂😂
Just looking at her pisses me off. She seems so out of breath doing the least.
I got the power
I am ur 100th like
She is disgusting
the problem is that this girll(the mom) is complaining about her child being picky which the only reason she’s picky is because all the child’s life the mom has given her what she wants (food wise) and all the sugary/processed food and never given her actual protein that doesn’t taste as good so she is more picky
Wasn’t exactly sure how to describe it, you said exactly what I was trying to say.
Is it good that my mom only buys organic non-gmo food? Like she buys organic version of pop-tarts, organic version of Cheetos, ext..
And it taste so bad. Like one time I asked for takis and my mom said no because it ruins ur healths and is very unhealthy for you.
She never buys like the good food like corndogs, toaster strudels, lays chips, ext. I wish I had like good food that taste good😢
yea it would’ve gone better for her if she had fed her fruits or even vegetables growing up. Small portions of it would’ve gotten her daughter used to it and she wouldn’t be so picky. The donuts for breakfast honestly seem more like a snack as well.
9:28 yes there are apple slices in happy meals btw!
The kick to tne "baby" after ya dropped it got me howling!!!haha!!
Please bring Stormy more often, it’s so cute how much you care for her and call her “my daughter “; it’s just adorable and she’s such a cute kitty
The reason why she’s so clearly unhealthy, lethargic and depressed is most likely caused by the same thing she’s giving to her child. Viiiiiiile parenting
Well, I wont judge her parenting because I've seen MUCH worse. But, I do agree that her own weight is not healthy and sugars do bog you down mentally and physically, causing fatigue.
Seeing much worse is NO excuse. She's an awful, neglectful and absent mother. NO excuse.
Exactly
@@stefyroxanne7567 ??? Someone feeding their kids cancerous junk food without any nutritional benefits or thought IS NEGLECT. I haven’t seen much worse parenting and just because there are many bad parents doesn’t mean we can start saying “oh she’s abusing her kids by neglecting basic needs but I’ve seen someone hit their kids so who cares if her kids grow up obese with illnesses and an unhealthy food relationship that will torment them for the rest of their lives”. 90% of what she gives them isn’t even legal in Europe. It IS vile parenting
Every child deserves a parent but every parent doesn't deserve a child 😢
As a almost adult with a chubby figure, this is not healthy for a one year old to eat everyday. I would feed my child/toddler/baby something healthy and give em something for a snack like some sweets or something but not all the time.
And miss ma'am is like tired all the time?? Like gurl im tired yet i'd make sure my child is okay and well fed. Like shame on the mom tbh.