Life After Divorce: Reinventing Yourself

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  • čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
  • Hey y'all! Welcome to the 3rd and final installment of the Life After "Divorce" Series. Thank you so much for walking this journey with me over the last two videos.
    Today features a Plot Twist like never before. I have been hinting at it for two videos and now its time to share this moment in my life and how it displays the GOODness of God.
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    #divorce #marriage #single #dating #relationships #christian #God #heyshannonrae #mydivorcestory #heartbreak #redemption #love #joy #happiness
    Chapters
    0:00-Intro
    0:53- Topic Series Intro
    2:20- The Plot Twist
    9:35- Rediscovery
    12:49- Re-establish
    20:45- Reinventing
    Bible Verses
    Zechariah 13:9
    Genesis 17: 4-6
    Matthew 16:18
    Life After Divorce Video Series Links
    My Divorce Story: • Life After Divorce: My...
    The Healing Process: • Life After Divorce: Th...

Komentáře • 41

  • @GiftsByMzM
    @GiftsByMzM Před 12 dny

    Thank. Just finished watching all 3 in this series. Very helpful for the road I am about to embark upon. My spouse has asked that we separate. All the red flags were there in the beginning but I chose to ignore them thinking we could work through them. I love him but I have lost myself during these last 5 yrs. I worked hard after my first divorce. You reminded of my favorite verse...Jeremiah 29 11. Thank you.

  • @thepowerofshe5124
    @thepowerofshe5124 Před 2 lety +5

    Amazing! I know I had to go through all that I went through to know who and whose I am and that is from nobody but God. I know there is purpose in my pain. My journey has changed me and I can never be the person I was and I don’t want to. I know everything I go through is preparing me for the next level God has for me. God Bless 😉

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety

      That’s such a powerful testimony! God bless you and your journey!

  • @keniavallejos2867
    @keniavallejos2867 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Sorry for all the comments but been binge watching your videos. They are so helpfull to me! After my divorce, I ended up keeping our dog, which he gifted me. I feel safe walking around now, I still have to find an apartment for us, so many don’t accept dogs where I live😢but I know God will make a way for us. Since I’m gonna be living alone for the first time, I will feel safer with my dog 🐶. Let us know when you’ll get one ☝🏽 we want to meet him! ❤

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 9 měsíci

      I love this so much! Thank you for watching. We are in this thing together. And I’ve been having trouble too with places that accept the type of dog I really want (I want a pitbull)!

  • @bonitadavis6060
    @bonitadavis6060 Před 2 lety +2

    Another ridiculously powerful message …but the part that really struck me was when you said your lawyer called and told you the judges ruling and you said “that’s ok”…that statement was overflowing with peace and trust in Christ …love it

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety

      Trusting the Lord changed everything, most importantly how I see my purpose in this world-thank you SO much for watching!

  • @gruivis
    @gruivis Před 2 lety +1

    Such deep insight, the Lord has really blessed you. Your talk reminds me of how important identity is and how, for the believer, it is usually established through the fire of adversity.

  • @dawnanderson5611
    @dawnanderson5611 Před 10 měsíci +3

    This and the video before this was really helpful. I am currently going through a divorce ( that I don't really want) but I'm not gonna fight to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I have been feeling ALL the feelings most of all STUPID. Wanting an answer instead of peace, the constant question of why, feeling like a failure and humiliated. Feeling embarrassed and self-conscience wondering if I will be alone forever or even be healed enough to trust and be vulnerable with anyone again. I feel like why would God put me in this situation if this is the way it was gonna then out? What is all this for? What lesson am I supposed be learning? How long will I feel like this? Did he ever really love me? Was I that thirsty to be wanted that I didn't see the signs? And on top of all of that I have to keep in my mind he is suffering from a Mental Illness(Schizophrenia) I felt like was on the mend of the grief but now I feel like I did 8 months ago smh I wouldn't wish this trauma on anyone. God Bless you for sharing your story 🙏🏾

    • @keniavallejos2867
      @keniavallejos2867 Před 9 měsíci +1

      He clearly has some issues to resolve due to his mental illness. My brother has schizophrenia too and he has a hard time dealing with himself. Maybe God didn’t want you to go through that with your ex. Only He knows why. Maybe it wad for your protection. But God loves you and for sure there was a lot to learn from that marriage. Nothing is ever wasted with God.

    • @dawnanderson5611
      @dawnanderson5611 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@keniavallejos2867 thank you 🙏🏾 yes only God knows I will continue to trust him

  • @kieralarkins1294
    @kieralarkins1294 Před rokem +2

    Thank you thank thank you for sharing your testimony ❤❤❤❤ I watched all 3and experienced God’s Grace in my spirit in all 3. I can’t even put in the comments how much I relate to this because it would be a whole book but thank you so much for your obedience and transparency because I needed to hear it. If we never cross paths in life just know I have so much love for you in spirit. I experienced Gods love and Mercy and promises for me in this series.God Bless 💕

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před rokem

      Not me crying on a Thursday while reading this beautiful comment. Thank you so much for watching and for sharing your experience. A beautiful gift, truly. Aren’t we so blessed that God allowed us this moment together. It’s what I prayed for when making these. Thank you beautiful.💕

  • @angelaamos
    @angelaamos Před 2 lety +3

    So incredibly proud of you Shannon, this series was amazing ♥️ Keep producing fruit -love you!

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety

      Love you!!! Thank you and thank you for watching you made my day!!!

  • @brittanydinkins6125
    @brittanydinkins6125 Před 2 lety +2

    Amazing 🙌🏾🙌🏾! Thank you so much for sharing your story!! The best part is your faith walk!! I hope others were just as encouraged as I was!!! I really enjoy your channel and I look forward to continuing to support you 💗💗💗!

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for your support Brittany! I really so appreciate it 💜💜💜

  • @shays.9874
    @shays.9874 Před rokem +1

    This is powerful!! Thanks for being so transparent and allowing God to use you!

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před rokem

      Thank you beauty that truly means a lot to me!

  • @cdrom1685
    @cdrom1685 Před rokem +1

    This is crazyyyy good! God bless you sis 😭🙏👏

  • @allthingsicandy2740
    @allthingsicandy2740 Před 2 lety +1

    This is such a great display of God’s grace and peace over our lives!!

  • @drmamii973
    @drmamii973 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. God bless! 🙏🏽

  • @LaTasiaspeaks
    @LaTasiaspeaks Před 2 lety +1

    Praise God, your passion and conviction during this one 🙌🏾 God is so good. He and He alone tells us who we are🙏🏾 thank you for sharing and letting God use you..

  • @jajarachel
    @jajarachel Před rokem

    “You are God’s love story to the world.” Thank you for this!

  • @SimplySheilaB
    @SimplySheilaB Před 6 měsíci

    I’m currently divorcing after 24 years of marriage. I’m the one who filed but he’s the reason. Trying to keep things amicable for family and especially out daughters who’re now 19 and 21 so I’m not sharing details just telling everyone we grew apart. I’m pretty heartbroken but stepping into my new normal in this new season. I have 4 dogs and they’re literally the best on the tougher days. I know that my God and my dogs will keep me safe. ❤

  • @chaundrealee6466
    @chaundrealee6466 Před 2 lety +1

    Loved this and love you ❤️ Thank you for being so open and honest with us. You truly are a light.

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety

      Love you beautiful! Thank you for always supporting!!

  • @kiyenaevans6192
    @kiyenaevans6192 Před 2 lety +1

    IT IS WELL! 🙌🏽 such an amazing series! Your light is back and shining so bright! Keep going strong sis!

  • @chelle617
    @chelle617 Před rokem

    Wow. Thanks for sharing

  • @tishlb723
    @tishlb723 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this!!! God is amazing 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety +1

      Without a doubt 💜

    • @tishlb723
      @tishlb723 Před 2 lety

      And you know this hits me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @celesteakinwale4028
    @celesteakinwale4028 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @fariraimapiye9491
    @fariraimapiye9491 Před 5 dny

    You just gained a new Subscriber❤

  • @chloenealy3926
    @chloenealy3926 Před 2 lety +1

    Can you talk about your hair? I'm so intrigued. Are they sisterlocs? Microlocs? Did you start with twists? They're so pretty and neat.

    • @HeyShannonRae
      @HeyShannonRae  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey there and thank you 💗Yes these are microlocs. They are on a grid (similar to sisterlocs but bigger spacing) it was really important to me to have straight lines and be able to part it in different ways. We started by interlocking and just twisting the ends. Best decision ever!