Normal Teacher vs INFJ Teacher
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 27. 04. 2023
- Normal Teacher vs INFJ Teacher (comedy sketch)
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I would love to see an intj teacher
This poem was absolutely wonderful!
INFP teacher!!
Normal mom vs isfj mom
Or teacher, or anything. I'd like some good isfj content haha
The rhyme is a treat! đ
"How can I help you help me help him help himself" is 100% INFJ (not just teachers)
This indeed is one of the most sentence of all time
Aplico eso con mi hija, le hago pensar jajajjaa!!!
I love the fact that that is perfectly viable sentence. Not only in its structure for some kind of a funny showcase, but actually something someone would use in a real life application context.
I help, therefore I am đ
Self actualized INFJ here! How many INFJs are here with me?
Me
Present!
Here!
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P.sâŠ. I was the 70th likeâŠ. RIP 69
âđł Me.
As an INFJ teacher, the part of calling parents is way too accurate đđđđ you can't talk shit about a student, you just can't.đđđđ
It's PERFECT! đđ
Dont pick up dont pick up dont pick up đđđ
Right?! Weâve been called tf out
Itâs 15 years since I stopped teaching and watching this Iâm thinking that I đŻ completely avoided calling parents. Was I ever the one who initiated a phone call?!
@@jennyhorner oh I never initiate phone calls if I can help it XD XD XD too scary. Holy hell this was accurate af
Love the part where the teacher silently stares until the children quiet. Such an INFJ thing to do, lol.
So effective too. Saves my voice. Had a teacher whose voice went out from yelling when I was absent but I just looked at that student the next day and I didnât have to do anything to get the desired result.
@@cheyennemoore8380 I did that too in my class
I most definitely use thisâŠand Iâm not afraid for it to go on as long as necessary. Nailed it!
As an INFJ teacher, I have done this with most of the classes that I have taught.
As an INFJ nanny... my silent stare is loud and effective
My daughter is an INFJ - this is so her, especially the silent glare to quiet the class. Her silent admonishments are boss level.
I've always thought Paddington Bear was an INFJ with his hard stares.
I totally do this as well đitâs so much easier on the voice than yelling
If they are ignoring my death stare too long I will turn out the lights or occasionally storm out of the class to take refuge in the empty hall while fighting every instinct I have to just run down the street never to return.
Damn making ENFJ over here feeling powerless and jealous lmao XP đ
@@cheyennemoore8380 I need notes
I like the INFJ teacher using Platoâs analogy of the cave to teach. Very INFJ.
I was waiting for someone to say it đđ
Lol đ
Pavlov's Dog as well
I literally do that
Taylor Swiftâs song âDaylightâ appears to be alluding to this
"How can I help you, help me, help him help himself?" đ€Łđ€ŁThat is the ultimate question! I think the INFJ teacher will be more effective in the long run with all those life lessons! Hilarious and so true to our type! đđ
yes!!!!!
This was scarily on point đ
thatâs the most accurate part for me in this video
I'm also an INFJ teacher, and this was insanely accurate, particularly second guessing all of my life choices! đ
same :D. also the one when he was calling the mum about his kid :D. "how can I HELP you help ME help HIM to help himself :D"
â @Valerie Bee I haven't said this one in those exact words, but I have basically said that multiple times xp
For some reason I misread the video title as INTJ not INFJ and only realised when I saw your comment :o
nice profile pic đ
Yay, INFJ teacher here too! đ
As an INFJ teacher, I literally write a flowchart with several options to responses whenever I have to call parents đź
OMG this is a great idea.
Thank you!
I just send an email tellijg the parent I need to talk with them in person, mich easier to me because although I'm still young, I am not afraid of scolding parents who clearly don't care about their children, luckily the parents I have had to soeak with are chill, I dread sending the email but talking face to face is easier lmao
could you share this with us đ
I would except they never pick up lol
@@TsugMt I taught for thirty three years. Scolding parents....as in telling them their wrong? Let us know, dear, how that works out. Just curious, how do you approach your scolding process?
We INFJ under estimate ourselves so much. We want to make the difference so much that we donât realize we are already doing just by being the way we are, thoughtful and actually caring if we are helping the kids.
Aww â€
Truth
Yes!! It took me 20 years of teaching to realizeđ
and actually funny đđđ never understood why people smiled so much about my behavior. Now I do đđđ
As an INFJ I can entirely relate. I was often told I should be a teacher when I was younger but there is no way I could have stood being stuck in a classroom all day with a bunch of kids. Kudos to all those teachers who can.
đ same
I am an infj teacher, it's a cool feeling. You get used to being in front of class, here in Mexico we still require to use masks so it's a HUUGE help to be in front of a group with my mask on haha, I feel protected
My mom used to tell me all the time that I would make an excellent teacher, and I told her that if I became a teacher I would end up in jail for killing my students. I am now a school administrator.
â@@shireads2954 lol đđ
I understand. Iâm an INFJ teacher but man, can it be hard not to say whatâs on my mind when they misbehave lol.
đ€Łđđ€Ł@ the đ âDonât pick up! Donât pick up! Donât pick up!â refrain! đ€Ł
Thatâs definitely me. đ. Pleeeease donât pick up the phone!
In high school, I had one social studies teacher, who said on the first day of class, when asked why he was staring at the clock, replied, "Because that bell is about to ring and no matter how much I threaten you all, I'm powerless against it." He looked totally defeated. Best US History teacher.
But some teachers in Taiwan will keep teaching after the class break(10 minutes)bell rings for like 5 minutes or even finish their class just before or after the next class bell rings, or even after the next class's teacher has come to the class.
â@Yian ć°æć OH, we have to get up and go to different teachers. The teacher is the one staying in the same classroom. Also if a teacher wants to try and keep us after, we would get in trouble by the next teacher for being late, regardless if it was another teacher's doing. We also only get 5 minute bell breaks, not ten. I think that's why American students have come to be so reliant and accustomed to the bell.
As INFJ English/Drama teach, I approve! I've actually said "Do you want to stay in the cave your whole life or do you want to experience the sun." đ
Only an INFJ or INTJ could so seamlessly incorporate Plato's Cave like that.
Plato's was infj right?
I am not even a teacher and I've said this. Who knew Plato was so popular.
INFP former teacher Plato's cave fanatic here.
@@morganlefay5048 Taylor Swift seems to be alluding to it in her song âDaylightâ
"...Or if I should have just become an accountant."
-Frank James, the INFJ who actually did become an accountant
@@AnniePants367 Yikes! You are not alone.
I didn't know Frank was an accountant? I've been watching his videos for years. Se blind strikes again?
I'm an INFJ teacher, and I DO say "thank you" after my students say something outside the topic, then continue from where I was interrupted.
As an intj, I'd appreciate an infj teacher. Or friend. Or whatever. The point is you guys make my life a little less miserable so thanks for that. đđ
You are very welcome, friend!
U welcome!!! đđđđđđđ
you're so sweet đ«¶đŒđ„č
All these infj's replying to my comment. Hmm is that a trap? đ cuz it's making me produce some oxytocin đ
@@darkspice6339 đđ«đŸđ§
As an INFJ with an INFJ philosophy teacher (favorite subject are we surprised?), I honestly found that profound glaze to quiet the classroom so accurate. Also most of the times I catch him zoning out lost in his own thoughts, which somehow makes me feel not so alone and more understood. I find other INFJs such interesting individuals and they always leave me wanting to know more about them (or should I say "something"? I'm aware of how private we can be).
Love philosophy. Yes.
How do you know he's infj? And why do infj love philosophy that much?
Infjs are natural philosophers
@@the_antiquark philosophers or psychologists?
@@afrosamourai400 both!
This is so accurate!! As an INFJ, I have literally used the Plato Cave analogy in conversation. đ
1:23 I'm going to adopt this line, "How can I help You, Help Me, Help Him, Help Himself." Great Show!!! đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Its good to know I am not the only one who says that.
As an INFJ teacher this is so funny, love it đâ€
Me toođł
Could this be more accurate?
Nailed it. Laying in the dark wondering if I'm making a difference in the world is basically my nightly routine.
And thats why we get insomnia đ
2:14 That ending was insanely true. I'm the INFJ who became an accountant like my mum wanted, and now I honestly do feel less guilty for having less of an impact on the development of young people... And of course, NOW I feel guilty for not feeling AS guilty as I COULD have been feeling! LoL đ
I am an INFJ Teacher and can confirm that this is a documentary.
This video proves INFJs can't be categorized in the "normals" Lol đ
Love ur content Mr. Frank James â€
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As an INFJ whoâs a elementary music teacher and wants to be a counselor one day, this is fantastic! This is as close to my thoughts throughout the day as possible đđđ
Keep striving towards your goals, and I'm sure you will succeed AND SOME! I can certainly relate to having those thoughts on a daily basis.
Omg! I'm also an INFJ elementary music teacher!! Hi! Yeah, this is all so relatable đ€Ł
Music decreases consciousness. It's harmful for the human heart and soul
@@etherealrosegold Not true. It depends on the type of music. Some music is bad for the mind/soul, of course, but some music is very inspiring, uplifting or Calming. It has even been scientifically proven that certain types of music are very helpful for learning. I am guessing you are Muslim, since I know many Muslims have negative views about music. But it's kind of like saying that books are bad for you, because there are some very bad books. What about all the good and inspiring books? I'm not judging your beliefs about music though, just giving another viewpoint.
â@@margaritakleinman5701INFJ school counselor here! We teach sometimes but counselor roles are sooo much our style
Not a teacher, but a therapist and an infj. Definitely resonates.
My husband is an INFJ so I can confirm this is accurate. đ I'm an ENFP so he's frequently just like mystified by my energy
Like a lawyer arguing a case in a courtroom đ€Ł
As a INFJ who wants to eventually be a teacher, this speaks to me.
Gl. The silent look saves many a voice. Learn yours and use it well. I have stopped kids who I donât even teach from bad decisions this way đ(and welcome to our crazy world). Hope they treat you well.
My sister is an INFJ 1st grade teacher and sheâs absolutely amazing! She teaches her students how to identify their emotions, process them, and express them in healthy ways.
As an INFJ and a former teacher , that silent glare is so accurate! đđ I used to do that all the time.
As an infp I can relate to this INFJ Teacher.
I also feel sorry for the kids because they are going through a terrific education system!
Why must you air my innermost thoughts on the internet. đ
Except I never became a Teacher, because the education system is broken and... I'm an Autistic INFJ, and I think we're built a little differently.
â@@AutisticAthena"the education system is broken" it absolutely is
đđ»ââINFJ teacher here! 100% accurate. Literally dead after I get home every day⊠and talking to parents on the phone is my least favorite thing to do EVER.
Infj teacher here. This is how I always quiet my class. I just stand there and stare at them. It always works. đ I saw my daily school life in this video.
I taught elementary school for year over seas in Micronesia. It was 6-7 graders. One mistake was to inform a parent his son was disruptive in class. The poor child was beaten brutally by his own father for it and was then afraid to come back to school. No Child Protective Services there. So one has to be more like the INFJ in this case.
As an INFJ teacher, it takes me a whole night to regain whatever I lost being in school day so the last one hits me to the core hahaha
As an INFJ, ESL teacherâŠthis is painfully accurate đ
E-Sports League Teacher?
Right on, home person, those video games don't teach themselves.
*holds hand up at semi-appropriate height for someone of unknown height to reciprocate with a high-as-many-digits-they-have*
â@@kristianjensen5877 It's for English Second Language đ
â@@michic9912 Dang, that's a shame.
I think schools should have E-sports in addition to regular sports on their curriculum.
It could be an engaging way to teach kids cooperation/teamwork, emotional regulation (when they inevitably get dunked on) and creative thinking / problem solving. đ
Omg same ..... The accuracy... ! The death glare....! Just like looking at those kids who can barely tie two words of English together... while also giving them the philosophy lessons of their upcoming days of adulthood! Relatable! đđđ
âHow can I help you help me help him help himselfâ thatâs literally how I talk to people when I see a problemâŠ
Love that Allegory of the Cave reference đ
As a INFJ who taught 6th grade English for four years, I can confirm that this is 100% accurate. The "don't pick up, don't pick up" was SO accurate. đ€Ł
As an INFJ I feel both validated and simultaneously attacked
The amount of infj teachers here is just wow đ
I actually homeschooled my two. It was great! I was not about to send my lovelies (ENTP & INFP) to that "broken education system". I tried a year as a full teacher, but my super was not thrilled with my 'Tell it like it is', method.
Good job for homeschooling. That's a lot of work for the parents, but I've known so many homeschoolers who were way more educated than most from the public education system. I'd like to do it with my own kids, but not sure if I'm up to the task, since I never went through it myself to know how it works.
@@faolan2174 Are you in the US? Thereâs so many groups and resources to help out. You have the freedom to home educate however you like, each state has its own regulations on how you show your childâs learning. I love it even as someone who graduated public school because besides required subjects, what works best is what works for your family and if it no longer works, you try something else!
Iâm homeschooling my three now (5, 8 & 10) I couldnât imagine them ever being in school and how their personalities would had formed with that experience. I wanted to be a teacher when I was in school but then decided I didnât want to go to collegeâŠonly to become a teacher anyway đ
So basically, you're lessening your children's opportunity to have friends. The education system is broken for sure, but it is a way for children to establish relationships through connections.
@@quamorant133 That's a common misconception. There's plenty of opportunities for homeschoolers to make friends without having to be stuffed in a classroom full of other kids who aren't allowed to socialize anyway while the teacher is talking. There's tons of people who grew up with little to no friends at school, despite being surrounded by their peers all the time. Some of them even develop antisocial behaviors as a result of being bullied by other kids.
Meanwhile, I've known many homeschoolers who were very social and had lots of friends, because they made friends through ways outside of school. They played with their neighbors, or joined a local community group. (Local theaters, band/orchestra, sports groups, church, community events, etc). It's not like the only way to get a social life is at school. It's just the easiest way.
School can be a great place to make friends. I went to public school, and made some great friends. It can also be a terrible place. I dealt with some pretty crummy kids and teachers too. There's bullying, strict teachers (never let you make friends in the classroom), bad school environment. Some people have a great experience with school, while others have a terrible one. Both happen.
Sure, homeschoolers can be limited from making friends and socializing with their peers, depending on the community they live in, how much they and their parents are engaged in local activities, and how interested the kid even is in socializing. But they could also have loads of socializing and friends if they/their parents take advantage of the opportunities available to them. Kids can have a great or terrible experience via homeschooling. Both happen.
To say that school or homeschooling is naturally better/worse at those things just isn't true. It comes down to the environment created by the adults (at home or in the classroom), and the kids and how much they're willing to engage with their peers. (They could be just as antisocial at the school playground as they would be at home, so forcing them into a school classroom isn't going to change that, and may even make it worse).
"Don't pick up, don't pick up, don't pick up"
As a teacher, I felt that
Im an INFJ art teacher. I had a kid the other day who wouldnt do their artwork. I let them know that these are truly the best years of his life if his worst problem is having someone force them to draw a picture.
That was good đđ
hahahaha! as an INFJ student i used to sit through class compiling future notes to myself of things my teachers said that I WOULD NEVER EVER SAY.
HAHA I am an INFJ who wants to be a teacher in the future and that is 100% me during the school day
Well I am INFJ doing my teacher's licence degree, and this makes me feel overwhelmed on so many levels đ
đ€Ł INFJ Homeschooling Mom here, and I will say, I do have an emotions wheel, and I have said or thought absolutely everything in this video, only I don't go home and lie in a dark room, because I'm already home and I will be found, instead, I hide in my closet with oreas if I can and pray my children will become decent adults someday.
Thanks for the videos, I can always relate. âșïž
They will be just fine. đ
From another INFJ homeschool mom.â€
I'm an INFJ and also an elementary teacher. Trust me, James captured my daily life in the classroom perfectly đđđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł especially when I stared at my students in the hope they would calm down by themselves.
As an INFJ teacher I can say this video is too accurateđ€Ł, it was hilarious, the part about calling the parents is totally real and the constant question of...If we are really changing the world or better I change my profession hahahađźâđšđ€Ł and the terrified look, it's međłđ€Ł
Frank I just hope you see this and know that YOU DO MAKE DIFFERENCE in the world, and help a lot of people! Loving these funny and relatable videos, and also thank you for the more serious ones! Stay awesome, sending love from Hungary ~ ~âș
Iâm an INFJ teacher and I was just talking earlier about how I need to take my lunch in a dark room so I donât get completely overwhelmed.
An ENFP here, I wish I had an INFJ teacher to discuss philosophy with 30 seconds before the bell went.
As an INFJ teacher this was pretty accurate, especially the bit about contacting parents đ
Ah yes, during my elementary school years, I thought being a teacher meant I get to be creative, wise, etc. It wasn't until Highschool did I realize just how limiting the gosh darn school rubric is.
You should try "16 different personalities in cooking." đ
Yes! Iâm not motivated all of the time but occasionally get a whim with cooking whereas my entj husband loves planning a meal, chopping up different ingredients, and making dinner. But it may have nothing to do with mbti and everything to do with his having the same love language his mother has-she also finds a good amount of identity in making food for others whether itâs cooking or baking.
Itâs not that I canât cook or wouldnât if he didnât want to, he just decompresses the best from his work day by chopping ingredients- why would I rob him of something that gives him joy when cooking is just survival for me? (With my random, hmm what spice smells best today? Iâll try that I guess)
@@LunaR2017 Hehe, I'm the same way with cooking. I grew up thinking that "eating" is quite a chore, but it's probably because my culture have a deep connection with "food is love" that my mother is always shoving food toward us kids throughout the day (and there's 6 of us at the time).
A lot of my cooking is random/wing-it-all/mood too, because I just toss whatever I have excess of (like produce/bread going bad soon).
Iâm realizing now that the âhelp you help me help him help himselfâ is actually how I think 90% of the time, I just donât say it out loud
As a non INFJ teacher, I cant confirm this :(
The stare to silence a room đđđ„
Kudos to FJ for his seemingly endless great video ideas. It's a really good Idea for making INFJ teacher video given the fact that they are one of the worst at being rude. Jokes apart all kind hearted selfless teachers out there putting up with little devils are unsung heroes
"How can I help you help me help him help himself"
Well, Frank, if you're just going to call me out like that... This is my entire playbook. đ
INFJ professor here. I feel like Iâve actually said some of those things verbatim.
My INFJ sister is a teacher and that's exactly how I imagine her teaching
As an infj teacher I am currently sitting in my dark room thinking if I'm making a difference in the world or I should start looking for a new job.
INFJ teacher here... Oh my, how spot on. xD THE STARE!
That last line about being in a dark room lol.. when my hubby comes home from work he'll walk to my home office to say hi and he'll always flip the light switch on in my home office because it's so dark lol đ
As an INFJ kindergarten teacher I often catch myself saying stuff like: âOh nice, would you color that a bit more? ⊠(kid says no)⊠No actually, you HAVE to color a bit more buddyâŠâ or âLetâs do ⊠, okay?! I mean: Youâre gonna ⊠right now!â đ
The video was very accurate. Iâm currently in my dark room recovering from a loooong weekâŠ
Oh this one! Too funny. INFJ here and I was a teacher for 19 years. You nailed it! đ That whole cog in the wheel of education stuff OMG đ±đŻ
This is so true of INFJsđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Best line.. "So how can i help you, help me, help him, help himself" đ
Oh my gosh I fell right into the right field then!! Iâm an INFJ/ENFJ therapist and Ive started many sessions with wheel of emotions đ and just about every other everyday conversation đ
"Don't pick up! Don't pick up! Don't pick up! Don't pick up!" HAHAHAHAHAAAA!!! LOVE IT!!
The "don't pick up, don't pick up, don't pick up" would be me literally anytime I would have to call the parents.
Loved it! Iâm an INFP through and through, but I sure can relate to INFJs sometimes!
Hahaha always right đ Iâm an INFJ and every day I ask myself am I making difference đ
As an infj, music teacher, I can relate to it 100%. The when kids don't stay quiet I just can't afford to waste my energy of shouting I'll just stand quietly till kids notices me and realise that they need to be quiet. And the random knowledge about adult life that half of them probably don't even understand but I often spend half of the time in class talking about life and how their behavior now will effect them in the future. Talking with parents is the hardest part my face hurts the day there's a PTM in school from faking a smile all the time. đ It takes a lot of efforts to socialise.
As an INFJ, I did substitute teaching for a week, and found it impossible to do.
The fact that INFJ made it as a teacher is incredibly impressive
I freakin love the wheel of emotions!!! đđđ And I.d want everybody to check in on it and their emotions at least .... twice a day đ
I can't wait to have an ISTJ of this series cuz I feel we are already pretty much portrayed by the "normal" side and in an ISTJ video it will look like two "normal"sđ
So true. We're like motivational speakers, philosophers, and therapists.
The "don't pick up don't pick up don't pick up don't pick up" hits hard.
As an INFJ teacher, this is more than accurate. I don't ask my students to stop talking with words, my eyes tell them. I also don't actually answer any question directly, until after I have given a "profound" speech about how this will help them in life. Lastly, "Please don't pick up. Please don't pick up. Please don't pick." Followed by a passive aggressive explanation of why I called. Well done Frank, well done.
INFJ here! I work as a chameleon, I try to look on the outside like the normal teacher while in the inside I just think what de INFJ teacher says. The dark room is very b accurate đ
P.s. the stare and the call represents me 100%
This man comes for my throat. Every. Time. The stare does come in handy though. Every time a parent sees me utilize it, they just stare at me in awe.
The Allegory of the Cave referenceđ!!! Totally INFJ to use metaphors vs straight answersđ€Ł!!!
The staring and "don't pick up" parts couldn't be more accurate, that would be me if I was a teacher haha good one Frank
I'm an INFJ and a teacher, and I can say you're rightđ
INFJ teacher here who somehow turns into an INTJ as soon as she enters a classroom.
"How can I can help you help me help him help himself ".
I need to write it down.
Iâm an INFJ and a former teacher. This was funny!
Franklin, thanks for the B-day đđ Message! Everyone sign up for his emails!! SO fun!!
Iâm an INFP teacher, but this basically encapsulated my experience. Except Iâm enough of a control freak to yell at them when they start packing up early.
That bell convo reminded me of that experiment with the dog salivating for food when the bell rang. Yes, INFJ in here, thank you đ
Frank, you're brilliant. I am so happy to have found your channel. All of this really helps and inspires me to be me. I really appreciate you as a person and creative sharing with us (as much as the parasocial connection allows me, of course, I'm not delusional, but you know, it just this feeling of deep.. argh, ok, nevermind, you know what I mean!!!) THANKS. â€ïž
đ infj teacher here and my students will say this is 100% me. Me standing silently waiting for them to be silent is spot on. And questioning my life choices at the end of a dayâŠ.
I feel so seen. đ
I felt the infj "Why are we learning this?" response in my soul!! It's so accurate!!
0:13 noo, but I do this at home đ like some didn't say please, I stare them down.