"Monsters" by James Blunt - Emotional Reaction and Vocal Analysis

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • You know the drill... grab your tissues. This was a tough one, but it's a beautiful song that I'm happy to have finally heard. Today we're watching the official music video for James Blunt's song "Monsters."
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Komentáře • 378

  • @austinseven4720
    @austinseven4720 Před 3 měsíci +297

    According to James, there were a lot of tears shed at the recording, except for his father! Who apparently said something along the lines of "why is everyone crying? I'm not dead yet!"

    • @rimskykorsakov2892
      @rimskykorsakov2892 Před 3 měsíci +16

      @BIGURSU No he's British that's what we do

    • @pierreschlagenhaft7952
      @pierreschlagenhaft7952 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Thats just british Humor.

    • @RedcoatT
      @RedcoatT Před 6 dny

      His dad was a colonel in the British Army, stiff upper lips are mandatory

    • @MLaak86
      @MLaak86 Před 2 dny

      The response of a British soldier.
      "There'll be plenty of time to mourn after I'm gone."

  • @k17reactions
    @k17reactions Před 3 měsíci +153

    James Blunt delivered this performance intentionally raw, in one take, refused to let them autotune it & it was also the first time his dad heard the song.

    • @davidmueller9342
      @davidmueller9342 Před měsícem +1

      His vocal chords are studied by autotune

    • @MLaak86
      @MLaak86 Před 2 dny +1

      I'm stunned his father kept himself together as much as he did, just patting James' arm, clearly hearing that he meant *everything* to his son.

    • @k17reactions
      @k17reactions Před 2 dny

      @@MLaak86 What I heard James Blunt say in an interview is that when the song was finished, everyone in the room was crying except his dad. His dad said something to the effect of, “Why are you crying, I’m the one dying.” Or something in that vein.

  • @jameswiththegermanshepherd6628
    @jameswiththegermanshepherd6628 Před 3 měsíci +74

    My dad passed away 17 years ago at the young age of 68. I’m now 66 and a paramedic so I already knew what his outcome would be with lung cancer. The night he passed in the hospital I did get to tell him I loved him then he replied “I love you too son”. I think that’s the only time we ever said those words to each other, I’m so glad we did. He was a very good man and I miss him every day.

    • @dougel4709
      @dougel4709 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Thank you for sharing your story. My dad was 69 when lung cancer got him. Towards the end he really couldn't speak without getting out of breath. But he never complained through the whole sickness. As long as he had a Reds baseball game on he was still as happy as could be. I got to watch a last game with him the day before he died.

  • @sixslinger9951
    @sixslinger9951 Před 3 měsíci +69

    I lost both my parents in a span of one month. 6 years later, the pain and loneliness without them is still there. Never take parents for granted.

  • @BledsoesInternalBleeding
    @BledsoesInternalBleeding Před 3 měsíci +75

    Yikes!!!
    This is a ROUGH one!! 🥺
    The tears I couldn’t cry at my father’s funeral start flowing almost every time see this.

    • @dennisn5308
      @dennisn5308 Před měsícem +1

      Yep, I feel you. This song came out not long after my dad passed away suddenly. I kept my shit together for my mum and younger brother, but holy shit, every time I hear this I just lose it.

    • @Jvl81387
      @Jvl81387 Před měsícem +2

      It kinda feels less lonely to know that there’s others who’ve had similar experiences. I’m the oldest of three and my dad passed away suddenly at the age of 43, literally one day after I had started college (which I had to drop out from) and I never got to mourn him because my mom and I had to put food in the table.

    • @dennisn5308
      @dennisn5308 Před měsícem +2

      @@Jvl81387 you're definitely not alone. Much love to you and your family

    • @Jvl81387
      @Jvl81387 Před měsícem +1

      @@dennisn5308 same brother! Blessings to you and your loved ones

  • @user-ro8qq7nx3t
    @user-ro8qq7nx3t Před 3 měsíci +40

    If someone hasn't said it in the comments already, his dad got a transplant he needed, and as far as I know he's still here on earth.👍🍀

  • @EricWatkins7
    @EricWatkins7 Před 3 měsíci +58

    I lost my dad a year ago next week. There are so many songs that express this common and devastating experience most of us will suffer. My heart goes out to all who are experiencing this. For those who haven't yet, I'll just repeat what all others have said. Get the words out now. Don't leave any guesswork for later. Make your love and appreciations known now. Peace.

    • @beagletje75
      @beagletje75 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @EricWatkins7 iam very for your lost❤🙏🍀

    • @brycez.4879
      @brycez.4879 Před měsícem +1

      I am so sorry for your loss and just know any proper person knows he was a great man.

  • @JoshuaFritz
    @JoshuaFritz Před 2 měsíci +20

    Wow, this song nailed me. I didn't know what this song was, and it hit hard. My dad passed away on April 11th, he had been battling dementia and Parkinson's for the past 8 years. Such a powerful song. He had a delusion, walked over to the area without getting help to walk, tripped and broke his hip, required surgery and before surgery I got to talk to him for about 30 minutes and it was the first time in many years it was him, it was the dad I remembered, we said we loved each other and said goodbye and he passed away a few days later after not waking up from surgery. I'm glad I got that 30 minutes of actually him, not the man trapped in mental prison. Thanks for sharing this song.

    • @scopeofjustice
      @scopeofjustice Před 2 měsíci

      There's a song called "Mr. Forgettable" by David Kushner that deals with the topic of dementia. Very good song and music video.

    • @sauce2000
      @sauce2000 Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing that beautiful story man. Now make your dad proud.

  • @kathyrhode6252
    @kathyrhode6252 Před 3 měsíci +38

    Thank you for letting the song play through. It is so difficult because that was written while his dad was very sick and he didn’t know if his dad was going to make it. I love that his dad was sitting there with him. I love your analysis

  • @mgrogan4126
    @mgrogan4126 Před 3 měsíci +33

    You managed to at once be professional and personal. Nice job. Thank you.

  • @roseybut
    @roseybut Před 3 měsíci +19

    As a cavalry officer who led his men into battle. He shows us as men it's ok if/when our fathers/heroes are terminally ill/die our emotions are OK

  • @YoreHistory
    @YoreHistory Před 3 měsíci +32

    The song hits me in a different way as I did not have a father I was close to. He wasn't there for me for most of my life and when he was he wasn't truly present. He passed away a couple of years ago and man it would have been nice to have had what James has...that is where my sadness comes from...admiring what these "two grown men" have.

    • @traveller9292
      @traveller9292 Před 3 měsíci +9

      I wont go into my experience but I totally get your pain of what we didnt have but this video still brings a different pain and tears of what should have been

    • @antlersnelson2955
      @antlersnelson2955 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Part of the pain is losing something you wish you had. I lost my dad at 11 so I never got to have a relationship with him when I was an adult. The song hits but for a different reason.

    • @tivaudi6079
      @tivaudi6079 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Dido!

    • @jaimepradenas4762
      @jaimepradenas4762 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Tu consideración viene de un corazón lleno de amor desde donde no hubo, eres una gran persona, y se que eres o serás un exelente padre,
      Y sabiendo esta verdad, mi consejo con respeto, perdona en tu corazón, hazlo por ti, porque te lo mereces y porque por la grandeza que expresas, eres merecedor de vivir con felicidad, no permitas q las faltas de otros
      Arruinen, tu percepción de lo q es un padre,
      Con respeto ❤

    • @jackwhitbread4583
      @jackwhitbread4583 Před 21 dnem

      For me it was my choice to completely disown my father, mainly for the abuse he inflicted on my mother. I haven't had contact for well over 20 years and not even this song could change my mind. This song still wrecks me every time though, some people vomit when they see another doing it and I'm the same with crying. I dont like to see the pain of others, you could practically torture me and I wouldn't cry for myself but show me a video of another human suffering and I'm just gone immediately.

  • @joyceharkin3641
    @joyceharkin3641 Před 3 měsíci +18

    The last few seconds of the video which you didn't see was his dad patting his arm - offering comfort - breaks me every time.

    • @Shadowspawn66
      @Shadowspawn66 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Exactly. The whole song is about how the roles are reversed and it's the son's turn to take care of the father. But the father will always feel the need to to care for the son.

  • @miamcknight9138
    @miamcknight9138 Před 3 měsíci +23

    Another James Blunt tear-jerker "The Girl That Never Was". Go on, react to it!!! And I'll watch your reaction with my box of tissues

  • @BassMatt1972
    @BassMatt1972 Před 24 dny +2

    It became too late for me, on Sunday, 28th of March, 20 years ago..
    I lost my Father to suicide..
    I now dont remember the sound of his voice..
    Love everyone, as much as you can..
    Im glad I got to share this with you.. it was beautiful..

  • @derekmoore779
    @derekmoore779 Před 3 měsíci +11

    My father passed away over 20 years ago, every day I miss him, I'm 65, he was my world and my inspiration. The words in this song have finally expressed what I have always felt about the most wonderful man that I have ever known. Long live E. D. M. My loving Father and greatest man ever, in my life. Thank you for your wonderful review of a song that will bring many to tears. You are a tower of strength. THANK YOU!!!!!! D.B.M.

  • @yvonnevanwaegeningh-tiggel4577
    @yvonnevanwaegeningh-tiggel4577 Před 3 měsíci +17

    It's so powerful and so fragile at the same time... I think we might say that this very special sound is a trademark of James. And when he sings it feels so very heartfelt, that's what music is about for me. Don't be ashamed of any emotions, they are what makes us human... (But I know it can be hard to talk when crying). It's a powerful reminder for all of us to be grateful for what we have. And I'm so glad that a donor was found and his dad is still here.

  • @Atroll_man
    @Atroll_man Před 3 měsíci +11

    James wanted this video done in one take for authenticity because he knew it would be emotional for him and wanted it kept that way.

  • @clarisaexplainsitall79
    @clarisaexplainsitall79 Před 3 měsíci +31

    This song kills me. Every single time.

  • @serkansonmez6021
    @serkansonmez6021 Před 3 měsíci +14

    I lost my father about 3 months ago. I didn't know this song existed, thanks to you I learned about it. The song really shook me and I still haven't recovered. Most of the lyrics in the song were spontaneously sung by me to my father.. I'm still in shock, how could this happen... You are a very kind hearted, very precious person... I'm glad you're here. Love to you

    • @dennisn5308
      @dennisn5308 Před měsícem

      I understand how you feel. This song came out shortly after my dad passed away, suddenly. I break down every time I hear it, and reading this comment section does not help. I feel for you and my love and strength goes to you and your family.

  • @astonvillaization
    @astonvillaization Před 3 měsíci +6

    I also love the movement of his father to the music ❤

  • @ilikeito
    @ilikeito Před 3 měsíci +12

    Loved your reaction and analysis, had me tearing up.
    Couple of things I found out about this song:
    He adapted this song from his sisters poem.
    It was done in one take with no rehersals.That's why it was so emothional and everyone cried besides his dad. It was all real.
    And the lyrics "I'm not your son, you're not my father. We're just two grown men saying goodbye" was what his dad said to him when he went off to the army.
    And at the very end of the video, which I find a lot of reactors seem to miss is when his dad puts his hand back on his sons arm again.
    But overall fantastic video.

  • @johns20901
    @johns20901 Před 3 měsíci +21

    such a great reaction Bethany. Thank You

  • @AviatorLuber
    @AviatorLuber Před 3 měsíci +12

    I wasn’t ready for that. This one hit close to home. I have never heard of James Blunt or this song before. His vocals and lyrics were amazing and hit such an emotional spot, about such a difficult time in life. I have dealt with the passing of both my parents and recently my only sister. I felt every word of that song. The emotion he sang with added so much to it as well. The song made me think about the last times I had with each of my family members, both when I didn’t know they would be the last time we would speak and also at the end. It never seems to play out the way you expected. Thank you for doing this song. I think you did a great job getting through it and analyzing his vocals and the song as a whole, and as always helped in appreciating it even more. I think I need to go get something out of my eye…

    • @aicarnie
      @aicarnie Před 3 měsíci +1

      James Blunt is a strange one. His words and music creep up on you when you least expect it. Much of his work is deep, and speaks to aspects of our lives that we don’t often want to take out and examine. I can only suggest that you start with his first album and work through his catalog. Even if you don’t think you are a fan of his type of music. You’ll be surprised how much of it resonates.

  • @MakoyUnggoy
    @MakoyUnggoy Před 3 měsíci +12

    My father was diagnosed with asbestos poisoning and within 6 weeks he had passed, This song came along not that long after and I didn't know anything about it...I think It could floor even the hardest hearted person

  • @jeffstevens4262
    @jeffstevens4262 Před 3 měsíci +12

    What a beautiful vocal analysis. You hit so many nails on the head, thank you so much. 🙋‍♂

  • @rb10465
    @rb10465 Před 2 měsíci +4

    MONSTERS BY JAMES BLUNT: THE SONG THAT MADE THE WORLD CRY!! 😢😞😭

  • @546Scott
    @546Scott Před 3 měsíci +9

    Beautiful reaction by you young lady. I really love your channel!

  • @alxhades6231
    @alxhades6231 Před 3 měsíci +268

    Self reminder..... Don't listen this song in public.

    • @martinrayner6466
      @martinrayner6466 Před 3 měsíci +17

      So much more powerful, when you know his father (next to him) was really dying at the time... (There is a good ending, because of this song). _He was not acting in this one take master peace!_ And this beautiful truthful moment applies to all of us with living parents.

    • @astonvillaization
      @astonvillaization Před 3 měsíci +11

      I listen to it on a drive from london to Glasgow, it came on the radio as I was driving through the Lake District in sideways sleet, I turned it up really loud to drown out the noise of the weather outside, then started blubbering and had to pull off the road because I couldn’t see with the years, grief can hit you at anytime if you’ve held it in for a long time. This song reminds you that you have to tell and show people that you love them while they’re still here. ❤
      Great reaction ❤❤❤

    • @andyhorner1446
      @andyhorner1446 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Or a beach, a swimming pool or while eating..

    • @kazumajay
      @kazumajay Před měsícem +1

      I first heard this song in a public bus. Worst decision I made in music.

    • @andyhorner1446
      @andyhorner1446 Před 24 dny

      @@kazumajay 3 times not to want to cry.. On a Beach, On a Bus or while eating.. 🤣🤣

  • @douglasmays3597
    @douglasmays3597 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Your raw reaction is what we look for. Thank you 🙏🏻 you did outstanding considering the content.

  • @oslo456
    @oslo456 Před 3 měsíci +5

    My dad died of cancer back in '85, when I was in college. Thanks, Bethany, for sharing this.

  • @23marian
    @23marian Před 3 měsíci +7

    This song...I can't. It's beautiful but it hits so hard in my case. Thanks for reacting to it ❤

  • @itsthewayyouwalkthroughfire
    @itsthewayyouwalkthroughfire Před 3 měsíci +4

    I love James Blunt….every single line, evert single time. ❤

  • @pablojimenezquiroz9362
    @pablojimenezquiroz9362 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Really really a great and emotional reaction, thanks for being real, from the bottom of my heartl. I love this song and the emotion that envolves it... i mean, i just can't watch the full video without crying!! Hope your doing good in everything, i love your work and keep it going!!! Tons of love from Chile ❤

  • @allengray5748
    @allengray5748 Před 3 měsíci +11

    DANG! Seen this many times and still the BLUNT Force Trauma hits! If you also listen to THE GIRL THAT NEVER WAS,,,, same effect, Beautifully Done. We cry as a witness. Can't imagine the living of AND the crafting process!! Nice Work Bethany! Peace 🕊️☮️♾️😎

    • @peikathryn
      @peikathryn Před 3 měsíci +1

      I agree, that one, especially the official video rips my heart out every time.

    • @allengray5748
      @allengray5748 Před 3 měsíci

      @@peikathryn Ya. Not a album I would jamm to.

  • @patriciahetherington3380
    @patriciahetherington3380 Před 3 měsíci +10

    This song started as a poem written by James Blunt’s sister and James put it to music. It tells goodbye to their father who was diagnosed with kidney disease and was dying he needed a kidney transplant. This video was filmed in one go. James told the crew we are doing it in one go, as emotionally he couldn’t do multiple takes. Spoiler alert he got a kidney and is still alive. This song will always be a reminder of how close he got to loosing his dad. You should see Iam Tongi version of this song on American Idol, both Iam Tongi and James blunt got to perform this song together on Idol. **WARNING** Tissues are required for both versions!!! ❤

    • @thomasmacdiarmid8251
      @thomasmacdiarmid8251 Před 3 měsíci +5

      The failure of one kidney does not ordinarily require a transplant or even dialysis. But Charles Blount had already given a kidney to another person in need, so his failing kidney was the only one he had.

  • @paulhester2588
    @paulhester2588 Před 3 měsíci +6

    A beautiful song. A beautiful reaction, Bethany!

  • @joannem8405
    @joannem8405 Před 3 měsíci +5

    A beautiful analysis of a beautiful song. Thank you.

  • @chrishodges8246
    @chrishodges8246 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I absolutely love your heartfelt reaction. I'm an emotional person to begin with and so many different things can bring tears to my eyes. I should have known better to watch this video while I'm trying to eat dinner 🙂.
    I always enjoy your videos and the knowledge you share with us.
    Thank you so much for just being you. ❤❤😘😘

    • @Jennifer-fy3jq
      @Jennifer-fy3jq Před měsícem

      So 😢sad but beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lyngleslogic1180
    @lyngleslogic1180 Před 20 dny +1

    Every time I watch someone react to this song it’s so interesting to see how much introspection they go through.

  • @bretsmilyk7808
    @bretsmilyk7808 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I really wish someone would go down this rabbit hole. James Blunt, more than any other singer I have experienced, brings such personal emotion and expression to his music. He has an incredible background serving in the military which has influenced a lot of his early music. His live performances are whirlwind of emotions. Even if you can’t react to it I hope you take the time to watch “Goodbye My Lover” live at Oxford Union (2016) as another incredible example of painting emotions into his musical performances.
    Keep up the amazing reactions. So glad I subscribed and have been along for the ride.

  • @tcat6133
    @tcat6133 Před 3 měsíci +10

    James is a really fantastic songwriter and you just can’t help but be drawn into a story that most people can relate to. Have been touched each time and I’ve watched this many, many times. Awesome reaction!

  • @MarkoMakela-kk7qf
    @MarkoMakela-kk7qf Před 3 měsíci +3

    When this song came out and I was aware of the real condition of James Blunts father at the time, the sincerity and emotion is so present that it almost feels like you are the person who is going trough this hard time in your life and you can both hear and see, that James is singing here from his heart and means every word as he almost struggles to sing and keep himself together. Very beautiful and honest reaction from you Bethany!

  • @SeanCleverly
    @SeanCleverly Před 2 měsíci +2

    One of the most emotional and most beautiful reactions I have witnessed. This song is incredibly touching and at the same time most gut-wrenching.

  • @bradmoyer9737
    @bradmoyer9737 Před 3 měsíci +3

    There is a truly an overwhelming number music reaction channels on CZcams. Yours and a small handful of others are comprised of true music professionals, who have lived most sides of the music industry. I’m a lay person who only knows what I enjoy in all genres of music. You are able to explain music in terms that allow me to understand how all that beauty is created. To see your humanity and empathy when listening to this and others like Amazing Grace, reminds me that first and foremost you’re a good human being. Thank you.

  • @ssvr3dl1n38
    @ssvr3dl1n38 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you for a great reaction Bethany and for being vulnerable enough to share your emotions.
    As an empath, this music video has made me cry more than once. I can't help to shed a tear every time I watch this and it makes them cry.

  • @dagmar.6954
    @dagmar.6954 Před 3 měsíci +9

    James dad was actually dying from kidney disease & this was his tribute & farewell to his dad. Thankfully his dad received a donor kidney & is doing okay now. If this song doesn't get to you emotionally, there is something wrong with you. This song resonates with me as I was my dad's caregiver for 5 years until he passed away a few years ago.

  • @wxdave5448
    @wxdave5448 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Bethany, thanks for the being a setinmental human. Further, thank you for leaving in your reactions. It’s meaningful. A song like this is so emotionally charged, it’s very hard to evaluate objectively….and perhaps it shouldn’t be.

  • @stephanietip
    @stephanietip Před 3 měsíci +15

    It was one take.The producers wanted him do do it a second time but he refused because he wanted the cracks in his voice in the song.He wanted it raw, real and emotional which is exactly what he felt Making this tribute to his terminally ill father

  • @pjstartv6798
    @pjstartv6798 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Most of the time I've heard songs before watching someone react to them but this one I had not heard and it caught me by surprise. Such a powerful song.

  • @benwalker8918
    @benwalker8918 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This song hit home so hard! I was at my dad's bedside when he passed in 2017 and listening to this song, the tears came flowing! Thanks for the review, and thanks to James Blunt for the song in and of itself!

  • @sibertiger1970
    @sibertiger1970 Před 3 měsíci +9

    This breaks me every time. Another one that breaks me is Dean Lewis "How Do I Say Goodbye". Dean Lewis is a great Australian artist.

  • @KennethSavage-nn2vv
    @KennethSavage-nn2vv Před 3 měsíci +2

    The emotion of sadness + music = Physical Tears… This song gets me every time. Nice reaction and review 👊🏻

  • @user-cx6fw4jw2i
    @user-cx6fw4jw2i Před 3 měsíci +2

    You are incredible. Thank you so much 🙏❤ I like your videos. It's cool 😁😎

  • @dustinrios5885
    @dustinrios5885 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this reaction.

  • @iceelf-gs1492
    @iceelf-gs1492 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow! I have no words except to say I believe so many of us can relate to this song in our own personal context. Beautiful! 😢 Thanks Bethany!

  • @michaelrollo4147
    @michaelrollo4147 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This broke my heart for the fact that my own father ever made me want to write such a beautiful song about him

  • @Antti79
    @Antti79 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Oh this one is a killer. James Blunt's music is a rabbit hole I'd look to see you go down. You're Beautiful, Goodbye My Lover, and Bonfire Heart are great songs to check out.

  • @Swesent
    @Swesent Před 3 měsíci +1

    Such a heartfelt and lovely reaction, not to mention professional and insightful analysis! Now I can't wait for Blunt's "The girl that never was"! Would be a true treasure to hear you analyze that one as well.

  • @slap_A_flamingo
    @slap_A_flamingo Před 3 měsíci

    Come the second verse i was crying like a baby. I still have my dad with me, thankfully. After hearing this song i sat him down and spoke with him, not just talked. Never take a second for granted. Everyday we get is a miracle and not a given right.

  • @Alastair_
    @Alastair_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    Few things to note, this song was written about his dad being diagnosed with cancer, thankfully though he was able to get a transplant and is now doing well.
    Also, James donated all the profits of this song to Help for Heroes, a British charity setup to support veterans of the British armed forces.

  • @robinmoore8347
    @robinmoore8347 Před 19 dny

    A beautiful reaction to such a powerful song. A big thank you! 🫶

  • @martymcpeak4748
    @martymcpeak4748 Před 3 měsíci +3

    wow that hurt. but it's so beautiful

  • @judegraham463
    @judegraham463 Před 3 měsíci +1

    profound point you made about how the singer may well have sung that line 'don't be afraid', even if it was subconsciously, to ease his own fear about death.

  • @huberthicks9080
    @huberthicks9080 Před 25 dny

    Wow! Great song, great performance and such a real, incredibly raw reaction. You are a treasure. Thank you for another enjoyable video.

  • @tonyhunt9980
    @tonyhunt9980 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Great reaction from a beautiful lady.
    Greetings from the UK.

  • @traveller9292
    @traveller9292 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I've watched this video a few times and for me I get the most sentiment watching you and your reaction to this video, yours is a from a place of real feelings and from the same perspective we get from watching James's performance and apparent but possible real tears

  • @metracy42
    @metracy42 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love how you share your knowledge with us. You don’t act “above” us, if that makes sense? I feel like we’re just having a cool conversation. I love that you cry with us or similarly “headbang” on metal songs with us. I have learned a lot from you about singing, not that I can sing at all. But at least I know why it’s so difficult haha. At 57 it’s too late for me (due to personal illnesses). Both my daughter & son, in their 30’s have been singing since they were very young. It came so easy to them. Sorry I’ll be quiet now haha. Great reaction as always. This song gets me every time. You did a great job explaining through the tears.

  • @davemcsorley
    @davemcsorley Před 3 měsíci +3

    Always a heartfelt reaction - thanks for listening to this powerful piece. If you've any tissues left, you should look at "Goodbye My Lover" and "The Girl That Never was".

  • @mickmiah7605
    @mickmiah7605 Před měsícem

    Flipping heck. I had not heard this song before. I must be one of those "sympathetic criers" cause this was difficult to get through. James Blunt is one of those amazing musicians who uses music to explore wider emotions. This song feels rather apt to me at the moment.
    TY for vocal analysis, and your tears-they made mine burn a little calmer.

  • @gottabeemee
    @gottabeemee Před 3 měsíci +1

    This song is raw, and exposes emotions we cannot fight...in a way it's good to have a good cry...but you did a great and admirable effort at containing your tears....Thank you for your reaction...PEACE!

  • @luckycoady
    @luckycoady Před měsícem

    Such a beautiful masterpiece of a song.

  • @Jayke1978
    @Jayke1978 Před 2 měsíci

    besides the fact hat i loooove your analysis... i always keep thinking about how the dad felt... it's emotional for sure. Amazing song, and amazing woman reviewing it :D

  • @paulinestraker8656
    @paulinestraker8656 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You did so well to get through this track. It's a killer.

  • @barriehull7076
    @barriehull7076 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wikipedia:
    James Blunt was born James Hillier Blount on 22 February 1974 at Tidworth Camp military hospital, then in Hampshire. His father, Charles Blount, was a cavalry officer in the 13th/18th Royal Hussars and then a helicopter pilot, becoming a Colonel in the Army Air Corps. He is the first of three children, with two sisters.
    The family has a long history of military service, dating back to the 10th-century arrival of their Danish ancestors in England.
    Having been sponsored through university on an army bursary, James Blunt was committed to serve a minimum of four years in the armed forces. He trained at the Royal Military Academy, Sandhurst, in intake 963, and was commissioned into the Life Guards, a reconnaissance regiment. He rose to the rank of captain. In 1999, Blunt volunteered to join a Blues and Royals squadron deploying with NATO to Kosovo. During Blunt's Kosovo assignment, he had brought along his guitar strapped to the outside of his tank and would sometimes perform for locals and troops.

  • @MrHws5mp
    @MrHws5mp Před 3 měsíci +1

    When you lose your last parent, there's an additional, very specific and peculiar feeling that's quite distinct from the normal feelings of grief at the loss of a loved one. That feeling is something like, "damn: it's all on me now". There's no older, wiser, more experienced people in the family left to turn to for help, advice or comfort. That's you now: you're the Older Generation, you have to be there and do that for everyone else, ready or not (and you never are). You're now in the shoes of the people you've been reacting to, and against, all your life. So yeah, when you said his "don't be afraid" was as much for the singer as the subject, I think you were spot on.
    You should definitely do James Blunt's song "The Girl That Never Was" (also based on events in his life). Might want to leave it few weeks though. And get another box of tissues...❤

  • @johncrocker-nh7ey
    @johncrocker-nh7ey Před 3 měsíci

    The importance of Songs Like This is to remind us of our Humanity in this world we can shut off a lot of emotions and when we are moved we become more human love the reaction love the analyst and it's certainly a song I prefer to listen to in the privacy of my own closet

  • @davidkelly5459
    @davidkelly5459 Před 3 měsíci +1

    As IF the video isn't hard enough to endure, you're right, sympathic emotions had me bawling with your tears. You don't even have to watch the video to keep SEEING his emotions. Great review.

  • @jasonstehlick452
    @jasonstehlick452 Před měsícem

    Last year my father passed away in Feb and I randomly stumbled upon this song shortly after and it broke me. I haven't had the courage to listen to it since, but I couldn't skip your analysis of it. Felt freeing to give it another listen, and as a very analytical person, I appreciate your deep dive on the musical components of it. You gave me a chance to attempt to finally take in the composition of the song as I could not do that at first listen. Appreciate your content and thank you specifically for this one.

  • @michellecobb8403
    @michellecobb8403 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for your authentic reaction! ❤

  • @rcm944
    @rcm944 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I found my own father on Thanksgiving day 2019 who had passed. We were very close and became friends as we both got older. He knew I loved him, but man I wish I had been there for him 😪I miss him so much

  • @craigloves-metallica5843
    @craigloves-metallica5843 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Raw and beautiful

  • @BallisticAero
    @BallisticAero Před 3 měsíci +1

    The strength of a young man's heart is far in a way one of the most powerful forces on this earth.

  • @davidsugawara2274
    @davidsugawara2274 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Very emotional reaction. Very well conveyed emotionally and technically. You should rewatch the video
    to the very end and you will see James' father give him a reassuring pat on his arm which conveys a parents way of comforting their child.

  • @jamestenorio7324
    @jamestenorio7324 Před měsícem

    You are beautiful and I love how you break down rawness of his words thank you

  • @bobblebardsley
    @bobblebardsley Před měsícem

    I think those last few lines "I will be the last one, so I'll leave a light on, let there be no darkness in your heart" are really astonishing the more I think about them. Coming right off of "you can feel my hand on your arm" it really is the final moments (maybe that's obvious but it took me a few listens to fully appreciate it) and the power and significance of being the last person to hold somebody's arm, or to leave a light on for them as they leave this place, that all really resonates with me.

  • @kellyroque1660
    @kellyroque1660 Před 3 měsíci +5

    My god, how lovely & sad, its the 1st time ive heard this, tears ru ning down face right now😢 its also 1st time ive seen this lady & she has made me cry too just by watching her, & then i started reading the comments & wow you people have made a wreck out of me, what absolutely lovely comments even though sad i cant even see through the tears now ,❤❤❤❤

  • @marywashburn4164
    @marywashburn4164 Před 10 dny

    I think you hit it right with "Desperation." Anyone at a bedside in the final hours knows how you desperately want them to find peace and let go.

  • @EsoxLucius21
    @EsoxLucius21 Před 2 měsíci +1

    truly emotional as my dad approaches 80 and my mom a few years younger. 4 years ago my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and had 6 months to live. She had half a lung removed, and is still fighting, but these types of songs crush me with what is to come, and for many what is to be. Thanks for your candor on this.

  • @rb10465
    @rb10465 Před měsícem

    I lost my oldest Brother Jerry in 2003 to a Heart attack, and My Dad in 2012 to stomach Cancer; and My Tears start to Flow every time I hear this Song, cause I miss both of them so much! From one veteran to another; Thank You Captain James; the World needed this Song!!😳🥹😢😞😭🙏🇵🇷

  • @brianwhitney9181
    @brianwhitney9181 Před 2 měsíci

    It is good to see you cry because it shows your human.❤

  • @MrLynch-ei4dc
    @MrLynch-ei4dc Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow....right in thr feels. Lump in the throat as well.

  • @Prsboy78
    @Prsboy78 Před 3 měsíci

    At the time of this one take performance his father was on a waitlist for life saving transplant and they were preparing for it to not come.
    Fortunately he received the transplant and is now well.
    The words and the moment were beautifully caught.
    Great reaction

  • @dennisn5308
    @dennisn5308 Před měsícem

    This song came out shortly after my dad passed away suddenly from a massive heart attack. It breaks me every time I hear it.

  • @TheNotedHero
    @TheNotedHero Před 3 měsíci +1

    His songs "No Bravery" and "Carry You Home" are great as well (he's at his best writing about his lived experiences), but I love his music video for "The Greatest". It hit so hard during the covid pandemic, a fantastic nod to all the healthcare workers.

  • @ht_x8499
    @ht_x8499 Před 2 měsíci

    Genius songwriting, expresses father son relationship with more depth than any psychologist I've read. I would not have been able to comment at first listening beause of too much emotion ..

  • @bernadinelett2192
    @bernadinelett2192 Před měsícem

    This song always,make me cry.

  • @traveller9292
    @traveller9292 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I missed these special moments, my stepmother that didn't like me never informed me of his sudden approaching death or funeral, later telling me his friends that she had poisoned against my sister and I wouldn't have wanted us there, 22 yrs later I am still suffering that I couldn't be there to say goodbye to my father

  • @steve1964
    @steve1964 Před měsícem

    men struggle with their emotions through the generations, love is implied, I'm 60 years old, with 6 siblings and never heard "I love you" from my parents but I know they loved me and my family, through their actions, god rest their souls, mom in 1998, dad last year

  • @henrikmodin4235
    @henrikmodin4235 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You missed the end. James father gives him a pat on his arm. I love it.