How to Get a Toddler To Listen | Dad University
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- We all know that getting a toddler to listen isn’t easy. A toddler is learning the ways of the world, exploring their boundaries, and pushing limits. However, it is possible to get your toddler to listen. In this video, Jason goes over 5 simple techniques you can use to get your toddler listening.
It doesn't involve bribery, yelling, or discipline but instead understanding what a toddler is capable of and how they best respond. Jason also provides some tips and suggestions on things to remember when you are trying to get your toddler to listen. These are 5 important things to keep in mind.
If you are dealing with a toddler that refuses to listen, use these techniques and let us know which one worked best for you.
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00:00 intro
01:15 patience (5 things to remember)
01:59 their brains are still developing
03:25 repeat constantly
04:06 realistic expectations
05:24 don't take it personally
06:03 get down to their level (5 specific techniques)
06:57 use simple words
07:57 provide options
09:35 tell them what to do, instead of what not to do
10:33 positive reinforcement
1. Patience (5 Things To Remember)
2. Their Brains Are Still Developing
3. Repeat Constantly
4. Realistic Expectations
5. Don’t Take It Personally
6. Get Down To Their Level (5 Specific Techniques)
7. Use Simple Words
8. Provide Options
9. Tell Them What To Do, Instead Of What Not To Do
10. Positive Reinforcement
Every kid and parent situation is diff. Just always make it fun
My daughter runs towards the cats dish , picks it up , smiles at me then tosses the food all over and laughs. Where to start
We're expecting our first kid early next year. This is really helpful advice, and I'm surprised it does not have more views than it has! Thanks for this!
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This is amazing advice. Thank you so much. I recently discovered your videos and now I can't stop watching them. Extremely helpful information here. You've made me realize that as a father, I'm not putting in as much effort as I can or should be. I wish my own parents were able to give me this helpful advice but I feel as though they themselves struggled with these very same things when they were raising me. I can't tell you how helpful these videos are for me and my family. Please keep posting new videos. You have elevated me from being a good father to an AMAZING father. And I can't thank you enough.
So glad that you are finding value from the videos. We are happy to have you as part of the community. We need fathers like you who are putting in the effort. It is powerful so thank you!
It so great! It works for my littles. Also I am very interested to learn more from Dad University to help my society.
Thank you for these reminders
Thank you for your suggestions 👍
Best video ever. Thank you so much
Absolutely love the advice and love your videos!
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Thank you for your brilliant ideas ! I really need them now
Thank you for this video!!
Love the simplicity of explanation...just came across your videos..going thru few challenges and glad I heard some tips
Great video thanks
Thanks for sharing these are really helpful points 👍🏻
My 2nd video really appreciate it them and you taking the time to share
My daughter just turned 2 and man she’s smart and very strong willed. She won’t hold my hand and wants to run in a public place. If I try and grab her hand she will fall to the ground and it’s embarrassing. I have to pick her up as she screams and yells while all other parts with young kids just walk hand and hand with no issues. She very very strong willed. Hellp
I can totally relate to this!!!
Definitely the hardest part about taking them places is this behavior 😤
Thank you for making This a lot
Love it ,true😮
How to get my toddler to eat her food? She doesn't want to eat most of her meals in a day
very helpful video. on a side note though, one doesn't always have the time to give the child options, there times when they'll just have to do as mom/dad says period. when it's time for them to face the real world out there, like school for instance, more often than not they will have to obey without necessarily being given options. I think balance is key here: sometimes you do let them choose so they can learn to be in control, other times they still need to listen and do as asked.
It's not about winning or losing but you will lose, if you not patient
I need so bad to be patience with my kids, and I also suffer of migraines and get frustated so fast. 😬
Yes I’m having trouble with my 4 year old son he’s been saying so much bad words and I don’t know how to control it !! And his behavior too
What if they bite other kids?
I’m struggling with my toddlers been trying to repeat and getting down to their level it’s like they ignore me been putting in corner too but that’s just escalated the issue so please help
I am having such a hard time with my toddler she doesn’t listen to a word that I say at all.
Yes my toddler never listen to me or anybody else what would I do to make her listen to me or to anybody ?
Try the things in the video over and over and over and over. Stick with it even if it's 100 times.
...i have 2 toddlers
My son likes to scream a screechy, loud scream, and he will not stop. It only happens once in a while, but it makes everyone else in the room say no, stop screaming. How can I handle this other than asking him to speak quietly, which does not work at all.
I have this problem as well - what I do is give him another sound to make instead. It’s a sound he likes to make (sounds like “mmNAH!”), so when he gets in scream mode I remind him of the other sound. It doesn’t always work, but a lot of times it does. I also sometimes remind him to hush by saying, “quiet,” or “sing if you’re happy.”
Saying “no screaming” or “don’t scream” isn’t great because he hears the word scream and keeps it in his mind.
What can I do to stop my son crying for everything. He doesn't listen any words if I tell it nicely or rudely. He always say no.im really really struggling with him.i lose my temper .when he cry for everything. I don't have any one alse to look after him as he stay with me 24/7 and being annoying all day I lose my temper sometimes. And one thing I don't like it he don't use his normal voice at all.he always use really annoying voice sounds. His 3 years 2 months old How can I stop please help me
You need a break. Find another parent and watch their child in exchange for your own time off.
Providing options only worked for one month for my son. So what else can I do?
How old is he?
@@DadUniversity he is 3 and a half year old now. If neither options aren't what he like he would either ignore me or just said no.
Stick with it. He is going to begin being more defiant. Part of that is wanting to be in control. He is going to be pushing boundaries and your buttons to see and learn how things work...and how far he can go. If you are inclined, you may want to consider my Parenting Program.
I wish he would just get to the point