Help! My Best Friend Got A Boyfriend... - PRETTY BASIC - EP.170
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It's finally here! This long-awaited episode addresses the Cupid-sized elephant in the room. The girls dig into how their friendship evolved when Remi got into a serious relationship; They delve deep into how they made things work in their friendship, fostering healthy communication, the honeymoon phase, and what makes their “ride or die” friendship so unbreakable. The girls also answer the listener question that is the thematic centerpiece of the episode; what to do as the best friend in a relationship or the person whose best friend just got into a relationship! This episode is fantastic for besties and great for anyone who wants to learn how to navigate the most awkward and inevitable of life’s trials.
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we are so happy you enjoyed this episode! let us know what topics you want to hear us tackle next ❤️
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More about the business side of CZcams and what it takes to be an influencer/work for one! 💕
pls do more trivia…but drunk 😂
@@zrrz724 .m
maybe dating/dating app tips? I loved when alisha was talking about how hard it was to start using apps. I would love to hear how she got comfortable on them and maybe funny dating stories?
Petition to change alishamarievlogs back to VLOGBBY11
YES MIA
love u queen
slayyyyyyy mamaaaaaaaaaaaaa
MammaMiaMakeUp ✨💕
YES PLEASEEE honestly just sneak into her house and change it Girl
Everyone thought Alisha got a boyfriend from the post lol.
I think she's more of a soft launcher so we'd know before the pod.
Exactly
I actually don't believe it
I was sorta excited
I diddddd
Not me thinking Ms. Alisha Marie got a boyfriend. And this was her announcing she is taken. 😂🤭
It was clickbait. Like always
Hearing Alisha talk about how she is with new people is seriously me . I’ve known this but it’s nice to hear someone else that’s like this and see that she has ride or die friends. Unfortunately I don’t have any except my sister but it’s so nice to hear that there’s people who get it/ understand
no same i thought i was the only one tbh 💀 like i can feel myself being soo fake and over the top when i meet new people (not necessarily in a bad way just not me ya know) that im literally embarrassing myself. like i get embarrassed for myself, but i don’t know to act or how just be chill
I’ve NEVER related SO much to Alisha or anyone else in my life. I can’t do dating apps bc of the same reasons, and I need to be friends with someone first. Alisha described exactly how I feel in social situations when there is someone new. I can’t be myself. And it’s so hard to explain. I keep my personal life personal (including friends) and I can only be myself amongst those people. So when someone new comes in, I just can’t be myself. And Im also really really bad at reaching out. Like I NEVER reach out. …. As a friend I’m also super chill. If my best friend want to spend the night at a guys house, I’ll let them. I’m cool as long I can get home or have something to do in the mean time. If my best friends ever get in a relationship I know I’d probably back off, because I want them to feel free to have some time together. But I might also to back off because I don’t know that other person. I will always be friendly tho
love Alisha mixing her words and accidentally saying “bread and bekfast” 16:50
Hahah I thought I was the only one that noticed
this is TRULY, one of y’all’s best podcasts
I love this. I’m 33, started my channel in 2011/2012 and I’m finally buckling down and doing this full time, but I’m a mommy channel and I don’t get made fun of but a lot of friends and family don’t really understand what I do, but I’m still doing it punching fear in the face. Also enjoy the single life. I had my 2 kids at 30 and though I love my kids obviously I wish I did more on my own during my single life. Enjoy it! Work on yourself, and find what you truly want in yourself and in your partner. Never put your self worth in anyone else but yourself 💜 love ya girls
This is SUCH A GOOD EPISODE!!! like alisha said, I love that it's an open conversation rather than bullet points. Seriously enjoyed this so much
Guys....hear me out- an episode of how you met and all the memories you made throughout the years, call it REMI-NISCING
Bruhhh yessss 👏🏼👏🏼✨
this is literally the only podcast i listen to, could listen to y'all talking about anythinggggg y'alls synergy is just so good
This episode is so good. It’s more of a vent/healing session between you two but it’s so cool to hear how a healthy friendship works through things. Big fan
Wow, I can really sense what a close friendship you two have and that’s special. I love your honesty. What a good subject. I’ve lost a BFF that started dating and our friendship went south.I think it happens more than we realize. This just shows the growth of your friendship.
Omg when Remi talked about the greeting thing, I completely agree!! If you don’t greet my parents when you enter their home, they don’t want you to come back LOL I always greet people in their spaces
13:10 I feel exactly like this!! I've been single for so long that relationships kinda scare me because I'm afraid I won't know how to deal with the other person's feeling.
I'm so used to being independent that guys look at me funny when I want to pay for things or drive myself to the dates or hangouts.
It just feels good to know my best friend and I aren’t the only ones that can’t stand each other’s husbands 😅
This was a much needed conversation 🤍
I love this conversation, because my best friend is in a relationship with someone who is just okay, but I know she can do better. But her last relationship was so so toxic and borderline abusive, so it's hard for me to bring that up, because she so deserves happiness, and she is so much happier right now with this guy. I did say a little too much and I felt really bad about it. I'm trying to just be supportive at this point, but I do think eventually I want to voice my feelings again, maybe in a better way. This has given me some really good ideas on how to approach it when I do. I care about her and just want her to be happy, but I also want her to see her worth and see what she could do, so it's hard to balance that and figure it out.
girl yes i would be so thankful if my bff told me the truth good luck just make sure to tell her you are only letting her know because you care about her and love her ❤️
Episode suggestion: old school YT tag: your fave creators, your fave types of videos, fave tags, iconic videos, etc.
Okay but I am exactly like Alisha. I hate small talk, i want to be friends first, literally everything! Even the fact that I need my family and friends to like my significant other because i cared too much 😂
This was such a great episode! From being on both sides I’ve learned a couple things as well and gave me a different perspective on a couple things!
I loved this episode! As so,done who had a friendship break up after I got into a relationship, this just brings clarity to it all!
Hey Remi, I think another reason as to why the greeting people thing is important to you is because it’s a seen as a sign of respect in Asian culture so it makes sense!
I think foreign culture in general cuz same but I am kind of like Cal too but for me I wouldn’t want to give guest an opening to start conversations with me (my social anxiety is so bad lol)
Too relatable!!! And honestly I applaud Alisha for being open and welcoming to Cal. I've been with my man for 6 years and my bestie never wants to hang out with us lol
girl that’s a red flag for ur mans, do u think he is good for u? do u think she thinks you deserve better? i think u should ask her because what she thinks matters a lot because i’m sure she loves you very much❤️
@@8CheerleadingGirl8 Exactly! 6 years is a long time to be avoidant for no reason
@@8CheerleadingGirl8 maybe she just doesn’t like third wheeling. I stopped hanging out with a friend bc it’s just not the same, I can’t talk about personal things with a guy idk.. Eventually I got in a relationship too but our bfs are just sooo different
@@_ngrc_ You said it perfectly. This is pretty much what my best friend said even though she has no problem with him. Also some ppl are just shy and take a while to warm up.
@@8CheerleadingGirl8 @hailey okafor Lol thankfully my man is great for me. But there are alot of factors as to why the two dont interact much. Like his work schedule used to be insane with no weekends off for almost 5 years, i only recently moved in with him so prior i had my own place where my bestie and I would chill, and she's single af so her idea of fun is brunch, shopping, bar hopping, city nightlife... all things he isnt into. Also, she planned my engagement WITH him so if there were red flags i'm gonna need a real good explanation!!
This was such a great episode! I’m a lot older than y’all and I just remembered my own love life playing out like Remi and Cal (my husband is also an Aires and those personality traits are spot on) as much advice and preparation you want for when you’re finally in a serious relationship I have to agree you have to jump in and experience it for yourself.
the respect between the two of them makes me so happy like so happy
When a Remi vlog drops at the same time as Pretty Basic podcast= cancel my plans! Love these ladies 💙💓
I love Remi's fun makeup in this episode!!!! So excited for this episode!!!
i lovedd this raw and open conversation kind of episode because i’ve always wondered this but also got the vibe that like you guys could easily balance your relationships. and not many people know how to do that so i really love and envy your guys’ bond and friendship -also maybe the universe knew you couldn’t marry Alisha so it gave you a boy version of her 😂
I CLICKED SO FAST! i love you girlies and your friendship… i deff needed to hear this one ❤️
&& im dead that we all really though alisha got a man’s by that 1 post , the time will come yall
the last two video intros have been STELLARRRRRR I’m obsessed i love the style
Really loved hearing your opinions on this topic, I went through this with both of my friends at the same time so I definitely had to adjust😅
I relayed a lot to Lida in this video and I always have connected with her so much (first CZcamsr I ever watched haha) but I appreciate all the advice and information she had. I’ll take it going forward even though I already have been in a lot of the same situations or feelings she has, I’m still going to use her advice!
I’m pretty sure I’ve listened to every one of your podcasts. Hasn’t so much of this been said before? Am I going crazy?! Lol
loved this episode and love the fact that you had this conv openly
This is soooo real and such good advice that I think gives greatttt PERSPECTIVE and it makes me feel less alone🥺❤️
hi remi & alisha! i definitely knew that this was about remi & cal! 💗 you guys are so amazing! I love you both so much!
I've been a fan since day one and this is my absolute FAVORITE episode.
Love this relationship related video so much. Please do a part 2
alisha's reaction when talking to guy on dating apps is exactly how I feel 😂😂 glad to know I am not the only one
i'm so glad remi answered the mrsremiashten question lol that question was haunting me😭
FINALLLLYYY THE MOMENT WE’VE ALLLLL BEEN WAITING FORRR WHOOOO!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Damn seriously thought Alisha got in a relationship! But so happy for Remi and Cal and how far they have come, can’t wait for Alisha’s turn🤗
I love this episode & I was agreeing to the whole thing lol. Also love that Alisha said Ashley bfs name!! Like I never heard his name said, but that could just be cause I missed it. Lol
DID ALISHA JUST NAMEDROP ASHLEYS BF???????
Love the zoomed out a little but look where we can see the table and both gals. Close up side by sides are cute too
love yall soooooo much y’all will be sisters for life 💜❤️
Sobbing because I wish this episode was longer 😢😢😢😢 I love you both sm!🤍🤍💕
I love that I randomly came across your pod ugh the best 💚💚
The best of wednesdays, love you guys 💖💖
Everyone’s days better because of pretty basic
omg yay!! can’t wait to watch!!👏🏽💗
MISSED YALL SO MUCH OMG
Me tryna figure out who the friend was that Alisha didn’t fuck with 🕵🏻🤔
PRETTY BASIC SLEEPOVER EPISODE PLEASEEE
this was a good episode i related a lot and liked this topic!
This was one of my favorite episodes!
I also had the same problem Cal had by not saying hello and welcoming people, i just pretended like they weren’t there and my brother also had to tell me it’s not okay because people will think I’m rude when I’m not trying to be. But it’s because i was also raised to not have to do that and mainly by my social anxiety.
Same. I’ll literally hide in my room sometimes and just chill there. Even when it’s someone I know well enough to say hi. I get anxious
My sisters relationship with my husband is similar to Alisha with Cal. They are not bffs, they get along well we love doing stuff together but I think it would be weird if they were like bffs and always talking.
Uh oh, Alisha you said the name of Ash’s bf!!! 👀👀👀
yes literally my best friend basically disowned me when i got a boyfriend!!!
Are we not going to acknowledge “bred and beakfast” 😂😂😂
my bff tossed me to the curb once she got a boyfriend girl i had to do the overwhelming intervention it was so hard.. he broke her heart of course and they broke up after two tries at the relationship but honestly i can forgive but never forget. it hurts
ahh I get so happy when I see that a new episode is out
one of my favorite episodes yet!!!
by far one of my fav epsiodes
Thank God! I was getting anxious
It’s interesting to think about but if I’m being honest I didn’t really notice the change between you two, I think it transitioned really well
I love y’all’s show 😅
Uh oh…I’m totally a Cal… I’ll try to take into consideration the tips u gals mentioned! Thx
The way I thought Alisha got a man 😂😂😂 this was an amazing episode!
yes excited for this episode
I love how I have the last name as alisha , but every knows me as my middle name😂
i love how relatable this conversation was! My question is, could you do a podcast where us the viewers write in our situation and hear your advice? Im going through a relationship problem right now and would love to hear someone elses view on it :)
If they don’t end up doing that then you should try writing in on Alisha’s sister’s podcast with Taryne! Unsolicited Advice
@@Mollywashere yes! I’ve tried to look up how but couldn’t find it! Do you know how?
omg you guys should do a dna test and talk about it here (the one that has personality traits, diet, etc)
I LOVE Alisha's laugh
Really good episode 👏🏽 👌 👍🏼
great ep
16:50 full on bread and bEkfast 😂😭
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! TURN IT UP!!
Hi I love this episode ❤️❤️❤️ I was wondering if you could do another help episode (where people dm you their issues and you giving advice as to how to go about it) or the am I the asshole (wild til 9 did something like that and I was wondering if you could do it too?)
YESSS QUEEN AGREED!!! i love wild til 9 i want lauren and jeremy to come on pretty basic ❤️
I absolutely relate to the not knowing how to act when one new person is there I literally lose my mind and my entire personality
Not the Fullerton men!! 😭😭🤣🤣
Me in my head tryna busy out my remi knowledge to figure out who this "friend" was that summer that was new and alisha wasn't vibing with....ugh I'm so nosey 😂 LOVED THIS EP GIRLIES
Need to know 😏
My guess is the dakota soul cycle boy she and oli were attached at the hip with
I relate so much to Remi!! 🥰🤗
remi ............your hair in this is vid is😍😍😍😍😍
Aww clickbait got me 😂
Taking notes 😆
I thought Alisha got a bf 😭 but I’m still excited to watch
I feel so baited. I was so excited thinking this was about Alisha. Go Remi and Cal but this episode is like two years late haha.
My Queens 👑🏰 👑
Never this early, let's forkin go 🤣🤣🙌
Alisha where is your green jacket from!!! I love it
Would be funny. "TheMaries'Vlogmas" XD
So here is a question, how would want to be approached if your boyfriend hit on your best friend? And would you tell your best friend he hit on you? I have had “friends” tell me they wouldn’t tell me. So I want to get pees thoughts.
We will never know when Alisha gets a bf but I’m sure there will be signs
I feel like we will see the signs and she won't acknowledge it and then one day she will post a vlog like "Going shopping for an anniversary gift"
she’s such a queen she don’t need a man ❤️
LMFAOOOO I KNEW IT AAA ;-;
love alishas hair
Wait I been watching Alisha since I was 8 and now just knowing that’s not her actual name 💀💀💀
I get nevers talking to someone me thinking omg what I say then I would say hey how are then what I say. I hope remi and Cal get married they are so cute together. 😘❤ Alisha we dont need no man just love yourself. Beautiful girls ❤