He recognized in me a strong, independent person with empathetic qualities, a retired R.N., with the desire to help, heal & fix. He was able to manipulate me to an extent, but once I educated myself (through videos like yours) I begin to distance myself which resulted in a discard. It was then that I blocked him. 🚫 Idk whether that makes me a super anything, I'd just had enough.
I’ve always been able to pick up cues when people are hiding something. I always have felt that my love would heal people. I walked around the world thinking everyone had good intentions and that because I was open and honest….everyone was the same…..until now. Now that I know I was mirroring others in my “worst moments”…..I’ve realized there is nothing wrong with me. I thank all the broken toxic people….because now….now I know who I am and what power I hold.
What a Super Empath really is is a person who had a traumatic childhood but healed themselves in their own unique way. Don't get me wrong, a Super Empath is far from a saint. We have narcissistic traits we use to protect ourselves, the loved ones, and those who are too afraid to defend themselves. We're well aware that the world is not a perfect place to live in. We're more cautious, and we can pick up red flags sooner than non empaths and ordinary empaths. We can turn off our emotions like a light switch. We can give the narcissistic stare just like a narcissist can, and that narcissistic individual will see the same thing in the Super Empath that they are putting out there (this is called mirroring)
Very good, I just can not stand abusive people, because my family was distroied by 2 (my parents) I will face any Toxic person, with eyes wide open. 😂 And i know love does not hurt 😉❤
Umm I found this particular video incredibly manipulative and serves no purpose other than getting people to jump to his course, the tilted and what he said is 2 completely different thing. It’s also misleading because he said it’s because people don’t know who they are or their purpose they’re attracted to narcissists or the narcissist are attracted to them , completely ignoring the fact that narcissists mask themselves lies n manipulate us to begins with. Blaming the victim in a way, which I find it incredibly selfish. At the end of the video you can see his true intentions as he promotes his businesses by first click hating us, then process to said he does not know super empath then narrates the story in a way where the victim needs help since we don’t know ourself, of course not talking any responsible nor mentioned their parts basically putting it all on us, classic gaslighting tactics, then the grand finale bam promotes his stuff. 😭😭🤔🤔 isee through it all. But these video is 9 months ago I hope he isn’t the same. I’ll check out some of his recent video.
I don’t think you have ever come across a SE based on this video. We have the traits of an empath, and we also have the ability to completely turn a narc’s tricks back on them. We do not enjoy this, but we know exactly how to identify a narc’s deepest vulnerabilities and secrets and turn it back on them. We actually have a lot of skills in how to support others and guide others, however we DO NOT fall victim to manipulation or gaslighting as our sense of self is very strong and we know all the tricks in the book so when a narc starts putting on their show we just play along and pay attention and then put them right back in their place and target their ego. SE traits are not entirely different from a dark triad/dark empath. The difference is a SE does not have malevolent intentions and we do genuinely care about all humanity. Loving kindness and compassion are at the core of an SE, however that does not mean we tolerate poor or harmful behaviours.
This is a perfect description! We absolutely have dark triad traits from surviving a lifetime of abuse and getting CPTSD which can mimic BPD. We use those traits while still retaining our empathy to bully the bullies and defend the vulnerable against narcs and call them out and expose them as abusers to the community.
I'm an SE, and we are all different too but this is a good basic breakdown I thought! We have heightened skills and can often rapid adapt to what the narcissist needs, we actually come from the same pain, most overlook that. Our brains change in development too. Narcissists fall to the lower empathy scale and SEs go, as suggested, super high. There's a lot of misconceptions, as there is with narcissists. We can be just as easily ensnared by toxic people as regular empaths, only it can go far, far deeper, just as Ben said. A Super Empath does not have "narc immunity" by nature lol that's another misconception. Infact, we tend to be drawn to those in the most pain. Good job, Ben. Do more of these! x
It sounds like you're describing a regular empath who hasn't leveled up yet. Super Empaths shut narcissists down and have developed their spiritual discernment to be able to identify the demonic entity operating in even the most covert of narcissists and block them before they even get started the second they get a whiff of their BS. Super empaths have narc traits they developed fighting back against narcs their whole lives but are still empaths. We use the narc traits to fight off narcs but don't use them on good people who are good to us. We reserve those nasty toxic traits for the toxic people who think they can try us. We also have solid bullet proof boundaries unlike regular non aware empaths. Super empaths aren't afraid of narcs like regular empaths are and not afraid to fight them. Super empaths aren't afraid to stand their ground and bully the narcs right back and fight fire with fire, we can get really petty too just like them lol. I'm a super empath and have made even malignant narcissists and sociopaths cry and piss themselves in front of me lmao.
I'm like you, but you may be a little ahead of me. I'm still training on narcs. I'm pissing off a narc at my job as I type this. Good to see people like you out here.
A super empath is a healed empath and the major difference between an empath and a super empath is that a super empath has high self esteem and know who they are. They get sucked in because of the initial facade but they sense narcissism pretty early on, don't get gaslighted and know exactly how to deal with a swine.. oops, narcissist!
If they are healed they aren’t an empath. Being an empath is not good or healthy. They don’t get gaslighted? What? The abuser is the one who gaslights. So an “empath” prevents a narcissist from gaslighting?
I was born a SE. Me being one wasn't apart of trauma. I experienced trauma later when my mother discovered I was empathic like my father and a truth teller. I've always been able to read people; its advanced over time. I more introduce them to a path and questions that lead to healing on accident.
Super empaths definitely know their purpose, you can’t relate to that because meeting one is super rare. It takes a lot of work for a normal Empath to become a super Empath.
Wow listening to the way you described the super empath gave me a perspective into you. You don't have a shred of an idea of how they really work, which I find fascinating. You cannot fathom that someone could be so powerful, yet not let it go to their head. I can tell your ego was inflamed here as you scoffed at the super empath traits which is clearly a projection of how shallow and underdeveloped you are that you cannot comprehend someone would be something so great because everything you do is from a perspective of you first, your understanding, importantce, consciousness and experience. You can only comprehend things from your own perspective and that's likely from trauma where you had to become self reliant at a young age as a survival mechanism to survive your traumatic childhood. This caused your development to slow down or halt in certain areas. it's almost like an emergency force field around a spaceship, a activated by a red button that you press as a vulnerable child to protect you as you brace for impacts. When your caretakers are failing to safely navigate and facilitate your growth, you press the emergency button and it shuts down empathy at the cost of stunting growth - anything to make it through, and rightfully so. It may be a better way to survive the impacts in life's asteroid field of hurdles than letting your parents navigate you while you grow. Now that you've found a way to a clearer space, it's time to turn off the emergency systems - you can do it and you know it deep down. You turned it on and you can turn it off. Sure you'll still be that young, vulnerable child from so many years ago, but you'll have more experience and knowledge and a safer space. Now is the time to grow, it's better than when you were younger, and you can grow and strengthen even faster because you have the knowledge. You can finally learn what it's like to truly love, and experience the wonderful emotions and spectrum of life that empathetic people do. Or you can stay, a small weak child cowering in the corner with the alarms blaring - too scared to do a damage report, speeding through space - no one in control
Hay Ben what this lady said is almost the same thing I was thinking when I started listening to this video, trust me a SE has become strong from a narc relationship but still with their EMPATHY AND CAN RECOGNIZE RED FLAGS FASTER THEY HAVE ON A NARC GLASSES AND ANY NARCISSISTIC GAMES WILL BE EXPOSED
The spiritual empath/ awakening super empath/ empowerment empath is an empath who has gone beyond duality.. Who not afraid to danced in the darkness, who has known their inner demon, they are not attached, do not enter competition about winning or losing, they simply will not allow themselves to be affected or influenced by manipulation, they build boundaries, they just silent and just observe quietly for narcissists or manipulators, just be quiet and let karma work for them and that is when the real victory is.
This doesn’t really sound different than your basic empath & narc relationship. I lean more towards the super empath is the empath that escapes & doesn’t go back.
Worst nightmare here lol only after years of abuse . Now I'm pissed off n that's not a good thing 4 my narc lol. Because I have intuition n know him 2 his core lol. Hes running from me now and I dont feel anything but amused lol
To be honest I feel I’m a super empath but I feel like I’m the narcissist sometimes but I need to give him sucker punch sometimes in a none physical way. I feel bad for him but then I remember what he does to the kids and I.
When I was in my high school, my biology teacher would often say, "I think you are the 8th wonder of the world, man". And in my workplace, a woman spoke infront of all of my other colleagues, "I am unable to understand as to if I am a man who is unable to be understand if he is good or wicked". And even the religious narcissist friend, because of whom I became trauma bonded, said infront of all others, "Hey guys, remember this word of mine, which is that he who is going to become the next terrifying vigilance officer of our institute". Ben, tell me if I am a sigma man.
Intentions differ between narcissist and empaths. Empaths wanna help. Narcissists wanna use. Thus said, empath are not perfect angels, they can use or manipulate people sometimes but for a quick purpose, not like a compulsive exploitative long terme purpose. Sometimes I wonder if narcissist are "all" bad intentions, or if they can sometimes do unconditionnal nice gestures. That's a mystery to me. Are they always bad ? Because empaths are not always "good"... they just are 90/95 percent of times.
Narcissist are codependent whereas super empaths are independent- opposites attract - so they say . Super empaths know who they are vs an empath that may not . Those are the differences I have seen .
Super empaths are confident, intelligent, social, friendly, successful, and they have a strong core identity. People are naturally drawn to super empaths and even if an extroverted empath, they still need quiet time to decompress after being around and interacting with so many people. Not a fan of the word super, though, it implies better in a sense and that is the last thing that any empath would want to imply. Low self-worth is not a feature of super empaths. However, low self-worth is seen in codependents, borderlines, and narcissists. Despite a keen awareness of the destructiveness of those diagnosed with a Cluster B disorder, I can recognize the humanness and empathize with them as people who are thinking, feeling, suffering beings, so it is sad that anyone has low self-worth. Super empaths attract Malignant Narcissists, not lower level, as they intimidate the lower-level narcissists (the lower level narcissists have a lower sense of self-worth and often perceive a super empath as out of their league, in a sense) and they pose more of a challenge which is something that Malignant Narcissists seek. H.G. Tudor has published detailed and more accurate information on this topic.
Man I love narcissists I always hurt them when they try and play me I don’t know who I am imma ghost I have multiple after egos but I love abuse turns me on so idc fr 😂
The Empath no but some time We put dwon your ispitit by Nat listining to your ange Gardien there let us dwm People beleave your Ange Gardien from beleaver ❤❤❤
I'm not sure your explaining super empath correctly. I realize your a self aware narc so of course it's difficult to explain how the dynamics evolves between a super empath and a narc. Both come from similar childhoods. One decided they were going to choose the light and one the dark. With that being said one trys to heal and one try to hurt. It's a push pull dynamic until the empath has had enough. This is where the real toxic features of a super empath take form. Super empaths start mirroring the narc, manipulating, gas lighting, giving back handed compliments, etc. You see most super empaths were raised in a narc family so do we know how to mimic the narcs behavior? Yes !! When we do this we turn the tables. Now the narc is wondering what just happened. We go cold, turn off the empathy and wa LA show the narc nothing but pychocopathy. Does it hurt us? Yes because it's not in our nature. We would rather have peace over chos. So Ben do your research. I know you know a lot about narcissistic tendencies but empaths are the other side of the coin. We can be empathetic to the point of feeling your pain bit we have enough self esteem to turn it off and rise like a Phoenix from the ashes and slay a narc. It's not pretty.
I don't think so, as from what I have learned over last few months... Love bombing should make any normal person fall for them. So, an SE also will fall for it since he/she is confident enough of his decisions and knows how to adjust according to the situations. An SE's courage and independent nature would allow them to fall or care for others... While they might be sensing actually there is something wrong as well, but they will probably attribute this to something else... Later on, when the narssisist shows their true character, these SE's will understand why they did sense something was wrong with the person in question in the first place. As they see more of these bad behaviours, SE's will eventually make a decision to quit on these people and live their life on their own.. They wil focus on other interesting things for them... knowing that the bombarding love was not real, They will be more aware of the red flags and they won't be questioning their intuitions there after.
Umm I found this particular video incredibly manipulative and serves no purpose other than getting people to jump to his course and him benefiting from their advantages again. Let’s starts with the title (click bait) of these video and what he said is 2 completely different thing. It’s misleading because he said it’s because people don’t know who they are or their purpose they’re attracted to narcissists or the narcissist are attracted to them , completely ignoring the fact that narcissists mask themselves lies n manipulate us to begins with, does not mention this part. As if he is putting the Blame onto the victim, hmm these feels familiar ohh I know remember when the narc cheated on you and then blame you for being dumb or not trusting them enough that’s why they do it ! Yeahhh that same same here . Then you starts to wonder, what’s wrong how can I fix these, ohh don’t worry guys here comes the best part BAM! At the end of the video you can see his true intentions as he promotes his businesses. So he first clack-baited us b, then word salad admitted he does not actually know super empath then proceeded to narrates the story in a way where the victim needs help since we don’t know ourself, of course not talking any responsible nor mentioned their parts basically putting it all on us, classic gaslighting tactics, then the grand finale bam promotes his stuff. 😭😭🤔🤔 isee through it all. But these video is 9 months ago I hope he isn’t the same. I’ll check out some of your recent video. Hello this is how Super empath are btw
He recognized in me a strong, independent person with empathetic qualities, a retired R.N., with the desire to help, heal & fix. He was able to manipulate me to an extent, but once I educated myself (through videos like yours) I begin to distance myself which resulted in a discard. It was then that I blocked him. 🚫 Idk whether that makes me a super anything, I'd just had enough.
You had self love for yourself. Enough to discard him. Good on you.
A super empath usually mirrors back the narcissistic person.
I’ve always been able to pick up cues when people are hiding something. I always have felt that my love would heal people. I walked around the world thinking everyone had good intentions and that because I was open and honest….everyone was the same…..until now. Now that I know I was mirroring others in my “worst moments”…..I’ve realized there is nothing wrong with me. I thank all the broken toxic people….because now….now I know who I am and what power I hold.
What a Super Empath really is is a person who had a traumatic childhood but healed themselves in their own unique way. Don't get me wrong, a Super Empath is far from a saint. We have narcissistic traits we use to protect ourselves, the loved ones, and those who are too afraid to defend themselves. We're well aware that the world is not a perfect place to live in. We're more cautious, and we can pick up red flags sooner than non empaths and ordinary empaths. We can turn off our emotions like a light switch. We can give the narcissistic stare just like a narcissist can, and that narcissistic individual will see the same thing in the Super Empath that they are putting out there (this is called mirroring)
Glad to meet you.
Very good, I just can not stand abusive people, because my family was distroied by 2 (my parents) I will face any Toxic person, with eyes wide open. 😂
And i know love does not hurt 😉❤
This post contains a more well-articulated and knowledgeable perspective than the entire video.
Umm I found this particular video incredibly manipulative and serves no purpose other than getting people to jump to his course, the tilted and what he said is 2 completely different thing. It’s also misleading because he said it’s because people don’t know who they are or their purpose they’re attracted to narcissists or the narcissist are attracted to them , completely ignoring the fact that narcissists mask themselves lies n manipulate us to begins with. Blaming the victim in a way, which I find it incredibly selfish. At the end of the video you can see his true intentions as he promotes his businesses by first click hating us, then process to said he does not know super empath then narrates the story in a way where the victim needs help since we don’t know ourself, of course not talking any responsible nor mentioned their parts basically putting it all on us, classic gaslighting tactics, then the grand finale bam promotes his stuff. 😭😭🤔🤔 isee through it all. But these video is 9 months ago I hope he isn’t the same. I’ll check out some of his recent video.
brandy, i think you got it. good one. hahaha
Super Empath or a Healed Empath doesn’t stay with a narcissists.
I don’t think you have ever come across a SE based on this video. We have the traits of an empath, and we also have the ability to completely turn a narc’s tricks back on them. We do not enjoy this, but we know exactly how to identify a narc’s deepest vulnerabilities and secrets and turn it back on them. We actually have a lot of skills in how to support others and guide others, however we DO NOT fall victim to manipulation or gaslighting as our sense of self is very strong and we know all the tricks in the book so when a narc starts putting on their show we just play along and pay attention and then put them right back in their place and target their ego. SE traits are not entirely different from a dark triad/dark empath. The difference is a SE does not have malevolent intentions and we do genuinely care about all humanity. Loving kindness and compassion are at the core of an SE, however that does not mean we tolerate poor or harmful behaviours.
This is a perfect description! We absolutely have dark triad traits from surviving a lifetime of abuse and getting CPTSD which can mimic BPD. We use those traits while still retaining our empathy to bully the bullies and defend the vulnerable against narcs and call them out and expose them as abusers to the community.
It seem's you are right. Let humanity prevail in all circumstances, but not fall for bad behaviour.
I'm an SE, and we are all different too but this is a good basic breakdown I thought! We have heightened skills and can often rapid adapt to what the narcissist needs, we actually come from the same pain, most overlook that. Our brains change in development too. Narcissists fall to the lower empathy scale and SEs go, as suggested, super high. There's a lot of misconceptions, as there is with narcissists. We can be just as easily ensnared by toxic people as regular empaths, only it can go far, far deeper, just as Ben said. A Super Empath does not have "narc immunity" by nature lol that's another misconception. Infact, we tend to be drawn to those in the most pain. Good job, Ben. Do more of these! x
It sounds like you're describing a regular empath who hasn't leveled up yet. Super Empaths shut narcissists down and have developed their spiritual discernment to be able to identify the demonic entity operating in even the most covert of narcissists and block them before they even get started the second they get a whiff of their BS. Super empaths have narc traits they developed fighting back against narcs their whole lives but are still empaths. We use the narc traits to fight off narcs but don't use them on good people who are good to us. We reserve those nasty toxic traits for the toxic people who think they can try us. We also have solid bullet proof boundaries unlike regular non aware empaths. Super empaths aren't afraid of narcs like regular empaths are and not afraid to fight them. Super empaths aren't afraid to stand their ground and bully the narcs right back and fight fire with fire, we can get really petty too just like them lol. I'm a super empath and have made even malignant narcissists and sociopaths cry and piss themselves in front of me lmao.
This comment is everything.
I'm like you, but you may be a little ahead of me. I'm still training on narcs. I'm pissing off a narc at my job as I type this. Good to see people like you out here.
A super empath is a healed empath and the major difference between an empath and a super empath is that a super empath has high self esteem and know who they are. They get sucked in because of the initial facade but they sense narcissism pretty early on, don't get gaslighted and know exactly how to deal with a swine.. oops, narcissist!
If they are healed they aren’t an empath. Being an empath is not good or healthy. They don’t get gaslighted? What? The abuser is the one who gaslights. So an “empath” prevents a narcissist from gaslighting?
I was born a SE. Me being one wasn't apart of trauma. I experienced trauma later when my mother discovered I was empathic like my father and a truth teller. I've always been able to read people; its advanced over time. I more introduce them to a path and questions that lead to healing on accident.
Super empaths definitely know their purpose, you can’t relate to that because meeting one is super rare. It takes a lot of work for a normal Empath to become a super Empath.
Wow listening to the way you described the super empath gave me a perspective into you. You don't have a shred of an idea of how they really work, which I find fascinating. You cannot fathom that someone could be so powerful, yet not let it go to their head. I can tell your ego was inflamed here as you scoffed at the super empath traits which is clearly a projection of how shallow and underdeveloped you are that you cannot comprehend someone would be something so great because everything you do is from a perspective of you first, your understanding, importantce, consciousness and experience. You can only comprehend things from your own perspective and that's likely from trauma where you had to become self reliant at a young age as a survival mechanism to survive your traumatic childhood. This caused your development to slow down or halt in certain areas.
it's almost like an emergency force field around a spaceship, a activated by a red button that you press as a vulnerable child to protect you as you brace for impacts. When your caretakers are failing to safely navigate and facilitate your growth, you press the emergency button and it shuts down empathy at the cost of stunting growth - anything to make it through, and rightfully so.
It may be a better way to survive the impacts in life's asteroid field of hurdles than letting your parents navigate you while you grow.
Now that you've found a way to a clearer space, it's time to turn off the emergency systems - you can do it and you know it deep down. You turned it on and you can turn it off. Sure you'll still be that young, vulnerable child from so many years ago, but you'll have more experience and knowledge and a safer space. Now is the time to grow, it's better than when you were younger, and you can grow and strengthen even faster because you have the knowledge. You can finally learn what it's like to truly love, and experience the wonderful emotions and spectrum of life that empathetic people do. Or you can stay, a small weak child cowering in the corner with the alarms blaring - too scared to do a damage report, speeding through space - no one in control
Thanks for sharing this! Im sure others will find this insightful. To talk about growth, love and life itsfelf
Hay Ben what this lady said is almost the same thing I was thinking when I started listening to this video, trust me a SE has become strong from a narc relationship but still with their EMPATHY AND CAN RECOGNIZE RED FLAGS FASTER THEY HAVE ON A NARC GLASSES AND ANY NARCISSISTIC GAMES WILL BE EXPOSED
The spiritual empath/ awakening super empath/ empowerment empath is an empath who has gone beyond duality.. Who not afraid to danced in the darkness, who has known their inner demon, they are not attached, do not enter competition about winning or losing, they simply will not allow themselves to be affected or influenced by manipulation, they build boundaries, they just silent and just observe quietly for narcissists or manipulators, just be quiet and let karma work for them and that is when the real victory is.
This doesn’t really sound different than your basic empath & narc relationship. I lean more towards the super empath is the empath that escapes & doesn’t go back.
1% of the population are classified as super empath I myself don't consider myself super yet I am very different from others of my kind.
Worst nightmare here lol only after years of abuse . Now I'm pissed off n that's not a good thing 4 my narc lol. Because I have intuition n know him 2 his core lol. Hes running from me now and I dont feel anything but amused lol
Good thank you brother
This ou we are🎉❤❤
To be honest I feel I’m a super empath but I feel like I’m the narcissist sometimes but I need to give him sucker punch sometimes in a none physical way. I feel bad for him but then I remember what he does to the kids and I.
When I was in my high school, my biology teacher would often say, "I think you are the 8th wonder of the world, man". And in my workplace, a woman spoke infront of all of my other colleagues, "I am unable to understand as to if I am a man who is unable to be understand if he is good or wicked". And even the religious narcissist friend, because of whom I became trauma bonded, said infront of all others, "Hey guys, remember this word of mine, which is that he who is going to become the next terrifying vigilance officer of our institute". Ben, tell me if I am a sigma man.
Can a person who could see through a narcissist's hidden intentions, even while being trauma bonded, be a super empath?
Intentions differ between narcissist and empaths.
Empaths wanna help.
Narcissists wanna use.
Thus said, empath are not perfect angels, they can use or manipulate people sometimes but for a quick purpose, not like a compulsive exploitative long terme purpose.
Sometimes I wonder if narcissist are "all" bad intentions, or if they can sometimes do unconditionnal nice gestures.
That's a mystery to me. Are they always bad ?
Because empaths are not always "good"... they just are 90/95 percent of times.
Narcissist are codependent whereas super empaths are independent- opposites attract - so they say . Super empaths know who they are vs an empath that may not . Those are the differences I have seen .
SE love Narcs. Narcs love SE. Empaths will give unconditional love.
Super empaths are confident, intelligent, social, friendly, successful, and they have a strong core identity. People are naturally drawn to super empaths and even if an extroverted empath, they still need quiet time to decompress after being around and interacting with so many people. Not a fan of the word super, though, it implies better in a sense and that is the last thing that any empath would want to imply. Low self-worth is not a feature of super empaths. However, low self-worth is seen in codependents, borderlines, and narcissists. Despite a keen awareness of the destructiveness of those diagnosed with a Cluster B disorder, I can recognize the humanness and empathize with them as people who are thinking, feeling, suffering beings, so it is sad that anyone has low self-worth. Super empaths attract Malignant Narcissists, not lower level, as they intimidate the lower-level narcissists (the lower level narcissists have a lower sense of self-worth and often perceive a super empath as out of their league, in a sense) and they pose more of a challenge which is something that Malignant Narcissists seek. H.G. Tudor has published detailed and more accurate information on this topic.
Man I love narcissists I always hurt them when they try and play me I don’t know who I am imma ghost I have multiple after egos but I love abuse turns me on so idc fr 😂
Thats not even close to what a real SE is. You looked at bad research sites (probably others Narc posing as a SE).
The Empath no but some time
We put dwon your ispitit by
Nat listining to your ange
Gardien there let us dwm
People beleave your Ange
Gardien from beleaver ❤❤❤
I'm not sure your explaining super empath correctly. I realize your a self aware narc so of course it's difficult to explain how the dynamics evolves between a super empath and a narc. Both come from similar childhoods. One decided they were going to choose the light and one the dark. With that being said one trys to heal and one try to hurt. It's a push pull dynamic until the empath has had enough. This is where the real toxic features of a super empath take form. Super empaths start mirroring the narc, manipulating, gas lighting, giving back handed compliments, etc. You see most super empaths were raised in a narc family so do we know how to mimic the narcs behavior? Yes !! When we do this we turn the tables. Now the narc is wondering what just happened. We go cold, turn off the empathy and wa LA show the narc nothing but pychocopathy. Does it hurt us? Yes because it's not in our nature. We would rather have peace over chos. So Ben do your research. I know you know a lot about narcissistic tendencies but empaths are the other side of the coin. We can be empathetic to the point of feeling your pain bit we have enough self esteem to turn it off and rise like a Phoenix from the ashes and slay a narc. It's not pretty.
Would a narcissist's inability to love bomb a person mean that unable to be manipulated person is asuper empath?
I don't think so, as from what I have learned over last few months... Love bombing should make any normal person fall for them. So, an SE also will fall for it since he/she is confident enough of his decisions and knows how to adjust according to the situations. An SE's courage and independent nature would allow them to fall or care for others... While they might be sensing actually there is something wrong as well, but they will probably attribute this to something else... Later on, when the narssisist shows their true character, these SE's will understand why they did sense something was wrong with the person in question in the first place. As they see more of these bad behaviours, SE's will eventually make a decision to quit on these people and live their life on their own.. They wil focus on other interesting things for them... knowing that the bombarding love was not real, They will be more aware of the red flags and they won't be questioning their intuitions there after.
Umm I found this particular video incredibly manipulative and serves no purpose other than getting people to jump to his course and him benefiting from their advantages again. Let’s starts with the title (click bait) of these video and what he said is 2 completely different thing. It’s misleading because he said it’s because people don’t know who they are or their purpose they’re attracted to narcissists or the narcissist are attracted to them , completely ignoring the fact that narcissists mask themselves lies n manipulate us to begins with, does not mention this part. As if he is putting the Blame onto the victim, hmm these feels familiar ohh I know remember when the narc cheated on you and then blame you for being dumb or not trusting them enough that’s why they do it ! Yeahhh that same same here . Then you starts to wonder, what’s wrong how can I fix these, ohh don’t worry guys here comes the best part BAM! At the end of the video you can see his true intentions as he promotes his businesses. So he first clack-baited us b, then word salad admitted he does not actually know super empath then proceeded to narrates the story in a way where the victim needs help since we don’t know ourself, of course not talking any responsible nor mentioned their parts basically putting it all on us, classic gaslighting tactics, then the grand finale bam promotes his stuff. 😭😭🤔🤔 isee through it all. But these video is 9 months ago I hope he isn’t the same. I’ll check out some of your recent video. Hello this is how Super empath are btw
Sounds codependent or Communal narcissist.