This video pretty much sums up what life is all about. After having a job, roof over your head, hobbie, self-care routine... human connection is what you'll be left yearning for.
@WhatsUpDude: Cheers for this, I have been researching "what are the characteristics of an extrovert" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (do a search on google ) ? It is a good one off guide for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
This is just superb, been searching for "how do introverts feel comfortable?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (do a search on google ) ? It is a good exclusive guide for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my m8 got amazing success with it.
What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I've ever heard of. At no point in your rambling incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this comment section is now dumber for having listened to it. Therefore God have mercy on your miserable soul
It only harms your health IF you get lonely. Having a lot of social connections does not preclude the possibility of experiencing loneliness, and vice versa.
I use to be that person that hides in the corner and never wanted to interact with me people. But now I want to put myself out there now and meet a lot of people. However, a lot of people seem to be hiding in corner nowadays. Idk, a lot of people were out going and socialable when I was an outcast. Now everyone is too afraid to show themselves in public. It seems like the roles have switched now lawl. I could live without interaction for a bit. But sometimes, interaction is what drives me forward and improves my self esteem at times.
Could not agree with you more Nate. It is great that you are putting yourself out there to meet and interact with people. Building relationships and connections with people definitely improves self esteem. Keep doing what you are doing my friend and thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.
@@SeansMagicalOdyssey I like this man. My brother who passed away 2 years ago "may his soul rest in peace" was about 40 years old. He was always the smartest in the room but was never successful at anything he did. One time before he died, he told me listen brother "if I only knew one thing in my early years, my life would have been a lot better" I was like what is that? He said "social relations ( connections)". He was telling me about how happy he was once he realized what he lacked earlier in his life and was so excited to begin the new journey. I feel bad he wasn't able to go through with his plans, however I am proud he made that decision before he was gone. I am 30 now and I am starting to think about this very seriously. Wish you guys all the best.
All of these things are good, but none of them replaces the joy I have knowing that I get to have a personal relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. There have been times of stress and joy, but nothing can fill a void in my life as Jesus has. Times are tough, BUT Jesus has overcome the world. I used to not fully understand that until I gave my life to Jesus Christ.
It's all about how you mentally accept things. If you where never a socialized person your brain knows only one way, if you where then become not socialized that's where problems start mentally.
This pandemic has robbed me of my most valuable values.Ihave always been a social animal.This has been a loss to me.I think it has affected my well being.A great loss to me.😥😥
.I find this pandemic has robbed me of my very valuable meaning to my life and mental wellbeing. A feeling of sadness a great loss to someone who has lived my life being a very social animal.😥😥
Let’s be honest. Maybe it has always been humans’ true nature- but because of most people being selfish, socializing with the right people is so hard that trying hard for making connections can be ultimately useless. Most people around us want to use other people- for emotional, economical, political, professional reasons- but it is all about using people. Almost nobody loves somebody else- and human love basically is limited to parent-child or owner-pet love. Everything else is based on fallacies and wishful thinking- religion, romance, and about 98% of all friendships are all a lie.
National Day Nurseries Association (NDNA) is a national charity and membership association representing children’s day nurseries across the UK. As part of our online training material, NDNA would like to include the above video to support our e-learning modules. I would be very grateful for your permission to link to/embed this video as part of this online course.
Hi, I found your video very useful. Would you be fine with embedding this in a presentation to an internal team in my organisation. The focus is on Building and leveraging social connections. Thank you
Hey there! Would you mind If I do a video in Portuguese about this topic following your train of thought? I'd like to show it to some people but I think they won't really grasp the whole idea with subtitles. If you allow me let me know so we can discuss about how should I give you credit for this later!
people are at constant and consistent disappointment. there is nothing important about dealing with that. I have been absolutely happy as a loner for years. no one can be trusted since you can't fully trust them knowing that they will do something to break your heart. I could care less about anyone. the only thing that has ever showed me anything unconditional have been my dogs. other than that? I have no interest in devious, deceptive in narcissistic behavior. I'm not a wrong on a ladder and I am not allowing myself to be that ever again. your theory is bullshit and it is just that, a theory.
I would like to show this to my students however, it is not 'modelling' proper grammar when the I is written as i and there are not periods at the end of a sentence. I wonder why you prepare the video in this way.
I am working on a 3 hr training for the state of Ohio Child Welfare System and I would like to embed this video clip, "Social Well Being, Importance of Social Connections" czcams.com/video/RijQpsWEdrE/video.html. The content is a good supplement to a section in the training that helps participants see the importance of their own social connections and the losses suffered by children and families impacted by foster care. The video would be used in it's entirety and credited. The training is not for sale or commercial publication but would be used for educational purposes in Ohio and could be shared with other state or international child welfare systems. If you are willing to extend this permission you could reply here or email the foster and adoption contact at the following training link ocwtp.net/Forms/OCWTP%20Contact%20Form.html. Please include information on how you prefer your work credited. Thank you for your kind consideration.
Hey Sarah, thanks for asking for permission to use the video. Yes you can use the video in whatever way will be beneficial to you. As far as crediting me, just say something like "What's Up Dude? CZcams Channel", honestly, if the video is going to help some people out, how I am credited isn't all that important to me. I am glad to hear that the video can be beneficial to someone, thanks again for asking, and keep doing good work in the world Sarah.
this video feels like it should be given to aliens that have never had a relationship. very intuitive stuff here. not sure why it needed to be made into a video
Thrown yourself there stop fooling yourself with the thought that loneliness is better if you want to socialise go there smile ask question and the more you feel nervous the more try to listen and ask questions
This video pretty much sums up what life is all about. After having a job, roof over your head, hobbie, self-care routine... human connection is what you'll be left yearning for.
100% right on Abigail, you can have all the riches in the world, but without any human connections, you have nothing.
Life is not about this and if you think that i think you should find what its really about
@WhatsUpDude: Cheers for this, I have been researching "what are the characteristics of an extrovert" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (do a search on google ) ? It is a good one off guide for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
This is just superb, been searching for "how do introverts feel comfortable?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Deyriannal Startling Dominance - (do a search on google ) ? It is a good exclusive guide for discovering how to stop your shyness and anxiety issues minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my m8 got amazing success with it.
What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I've ever heard of. At no point in your rambling incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this comment section is now dumber for having listened to it. Therefore God have mercy on your miserable soul
It only harms your health IF you get lonely. Having a lot of social connections does not preclude the possibility of experiencing loneliness, and vice versa.
9:27 Thank you 😊 for sharing 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
Trying to find those good people to surround myself with. It's very difficult. Great video, thank you!
I use to be that person that hides in the corner and never wanted to interact with me people.
But now I want to put myself out there now and meet a lot of people. However, a lot of people seem to be hiding in corner nowadays. Idk, a lot of people were out going and socialable when I was an outcast. Now everyone is too afraid to show themselves in public. It seems like the roles have switched now lawl.
I could live without interaction for a bit. But sometimes, interaction is what drives me forward and improves my self esteem at times.
Could not agree with you more Nate. It is great that you are putting yourself out there to meet and interact with people. Building relationships and connections with people definitely improves self esteem. Keep doing what you are doing my friend and thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.
It took me until my 40's to realize hey its okay to be me and that I can interact with everybody, I am very secure with who I am.
@@SeansMagicalOdyssey I like this man. My brother who passed away 2 years ago "may his soul rest in peace" was about 40 years old. He was always the smartest in the room but was never successful at anything he did. One time before he died, he told me listen brother "if I only knew one thing in my early years, my life would have been a lot better" I was like what is that? He said "social relations ( connections)". He was telling me about how happy he was once he realized what he lacked earlier in his life and was so excited to begin the new journey. I feel bad he wasn't able to go through with his plans, however I am proud he made that decision before he was gone. I am 30 now and I am starting to think about this very seriously. Wish you guys all the best.
1:13 note how the success sharers are depicted as men, while the hardship sharers are depicted as women. Says a lot about what is and isn’t allowed
All of these things are good, but none of them replaces the joy I have knowing that I get to have a personal relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. There have been times of stress and joy, but nothing can fill a void in my life as Jesus has.
Times are tough, BUT Jesus has overcome the world. I used to not fully understand that until I gave my life to Jesus Christ.
It's all about how you mentally accept things. If you where never a socialized person your brain knows only one way, if you where then become not socialized that's where problems start mentally.
This is a really important message and delivered with amazing clarity. Thank you!
I totally agree, a lot of people struggle with this nowadays
This was a powerful and profound video. Thanks, What’s up Dude. 👍🏾👊🏾
This pandemic has robbed me of my most valuable values.Ihave always been a social animal.This has been a loss to me.I think it has affected my well being.A great loss to me.😥😥
Man this is the most superb explanation I have ever seen 100 out 100 for you sir
Thanks for the kind words my friend.
Thank you, I really needed this video. Love from Italy 🤍
Let's see... I exercise, have good health, don't drink and I'm a deep sleeper. Struck out on the symptoms there
Cause all quiet people are insane lazy pieces of trash.
I have no social life I'm always alone
.I find this pandemic has robbed me of my very valuable meaning to my life and mental wellbeing.
A feeling of sadness a great loss to someone who has lived my life being a very social animal.😥😥
Why hasn't this be seen more?
Love this...makes perfect sense
helped me with a project cheers
Good to hear Callum Duncan, thanks for watching.
Yeah me too!
Let’s be honest. Maybe it has always been humans’ true nature- but because of most people being selfish, socializing with the right people is so hard that trying hard for making connections can be ultimately useless. Most people around us want to use other people- for emotional, economical, political, professional reasons- but it is all about using people. Almost nobody loves somebody else- and human love basically is limited to parent-child or owner-pet love. Everything else is based on fallacies and wishful thinking- religion, romance, and about 98% of all friendships are all a lie.
I'm going to reduce social interaction. Cope harder with it.
Thanks ... very usefull..
Perfect video! keep going man!
National Day Nurseries Association (NDNA) is a national charity and membership association representing children’s day nurseries across the UK. As part of our online training material, NDNA would like to include the above video to support our e-learning modules. I would be very grateful for your permission to link to/embed this video as part of this online course.
Sure, you can embed the video. Thanks for asking for permission.
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now I feel bad about myself hahaha
You can always turn it around :)
😂😂😂
Needing friends is a sickness
This is a great vid. Good job
So no relationship is bad, but bad relationship is also bad
good,
i have to watch this for school 🤕
Life is not always good
Hi, I found your video very useful. Would you be fine with embedding this in a presentation to an internal team in my organisation. The focus is on Building and leveraging social connections. Thank you
Absolutely Anu, if the video can help someone improve themselves or a personal skill, I'm all for it. Thanks for asking.
World, please be my friend.
Hey there! Would you mind If I do a video in Portuguese about this topic following your train of thought? I'd like to show it to some people but I think they won't really grasp the whole idea with subtitles. If you allow me let me know so we can discuss about how should I give you credit for this later!
Sure, no problem.
All dislikes are from introverts...like me
man I need social help St work
k.
people are at constant and consistent disappointment. there is nothing important about dealing with that. I have been absolutely happy as a loner for years. no one can be trusted since you can't fully trust them knowing that they will do something to break your heart. I could care less about anyone. the only thing that has ever showed me anything unconditional have been my dogs. other than that? I have no interest in devious, deceptive in narcissistic behavior. I'm not a wrong on a ladder and I am not allowing myself to be that ever again. your theory is bullshit and it is just that, a theory.
Do people actually share their succeses and struggels with others? That just seems like braggin and uncomtable to me🤷♀️
I would like to show this to my students however, it is not 'modelling' proper grammar when the I is written as i and there are not periods at the end of a sentence. I wonder why you prepare the video in this way.
I am working on a 3 hr training for the state of Ohio Child Welfare System and I would like to embed this video clip, "Social Well Being, Importance of Social Connections" czcams.com/video/RijQpsWEdrE/video.html. The content is a good supplement to a section in the training that helps participants see the importance of their own social connections and the losses suffered by children and families impacted by foster care. The video would be used in it's entirety and credited. The training is not for sale or commercial publication but would be used for educational purposes in Ohio and could be shared with other state or international child welfare systems. If you are willing to extend this permission you could reply here or email the foster and adoption contact at the following training link ocwtp.net/Forms/OCWTP%20Contact%20Form.html. Please include information on how you prefer your work credited. Thank you for your kind consideration.
Hey Sarah, thanks for asking for permission to use the video. Yes you can use the video in whatever way will be beneficial to you. As far as crediting me, just say something like "What's Up Dude? CZcams Channel", honestly, if the video is going to help some people out, how I am credited isn't all that important to me. I am glad to hear that the video can be beneficial to someone, thanks again for asking, and keep doing good work in the world Sarah.
@@whatsupdude2778 Thank you very much!
Jesus is the truth…
You don't need relationships, period!
Really you think we could be happy forever with zero social life no friends, family, lover etc?
@@RyanAmero Speak for yourself. Not everybody needs a social life to be happy.
this video feels like it should be given to aliens that have never had a relationship. very intuitive stuff here. not sure why it needed to be made into a video
Thrown yourself there stop fooling yourself with the thought that loneliness is better if you want to socialise go there smile ask question and the more you feel nervous the more try to listen and ask questions
turn off music please I need words only thank you
THE VIDEO IS BAD
It was good until you started lecturing me on social media, but not a bad video overall.
Jesus is the truth…