Domestic Violence: Faces of Fear (TW: Abuse Documentary)
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There's an ebb and flow to issues such as AIDS, drug abuse, health care and education. They take turns in the national spotlight, especially if there's a scandalous story to feed the buzz. But the issues don’t go away or stop affecting countless lives just because attention shifts.
Produced by Janice Selinger, "Domestic Violence: Faces of Fear," may seem like old news, unless it's happening to you or someone you know, perhaps for the first time. In that case, this informative, frank hour documentary hosted by Diane Sawyer, could be a lifesaver. The film is a timely and comprehensive exploration of physical and emotional abuse in our society.
Representatives of an impressive and varied array of advocacy groups, law enforcement officials, judges and lawyers, medical and mental health physicians, social workers, grass-roots programs and victims, make it clear that domestic violence is an issue in virtually every community, regardless of socioeconomic status or ethnic background. Faces of Fear urges anyone who needs help to call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline, (800) 799-SAFE.
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What about adult women abused via coercive control by narcissistic/sociopathic parents?
Abusers don’t get away with abuse because of the victim/survivor. They get away because of the people around them; the people that blindly support them.
Very true, they believe it's normal living. It's NOT.
Yes I agree
I can’t even imagine what the statistics are now decades longer than this was shown. 😢
Still very underreported …
Women today are getting arrested for violence more than ever.
I feel so sorry for anyone who has been in a domestic violence relationship my grandmother was in a abusive relationship
I was married to a vicious alcoholic. He was only abusive when he was drunk was my excuse for staying so long (12 years) but before he passed away on our 12 yr anniversary he was drunk everyday. Any moment he was awake he was drunk. My abuse was terrible. And it didn't look like the traditional abuse relationship because i faught back most of the time until i couldn't because he started macing me or choking me so I pass out. I don't even know how I didn't get unalived. The mental abuse was bad too. I took jail time for a crime he did. The kast few months of his life I was trying to get away from him but I was in a state where i had no one but his family and every time i went to his mom she said no I won't tell him you're here but she did everytime. Please if you know someone who is being abused, be patient with them. Before i experienced it first hand I wod get frustrated with .y friends if they were with an abusive guy. But I know now all they needed was a friend to encourage them and be there on the days they were brave enough to leave for a night or 2 or a week. Usually they go back but still they already get judged enough by this monster. Men are abused as well and need the same kind of compassion because often times they're in denial because they're the man and this doesn't happen to men.❤❤❤
Best explanation I've ever read.
Prayers for your continued healing and strength.
Sorry not sorry I am glad for your sake that he is not alive.
I've unfortunately experienced domestic violence and abuse in my past.
U are brave and i am sure u will over come this
I presume you were the abused?
American women have a voice in this country so I am grateful for this! In other countries women don’t have a voice 😢
So true!
Love this channel and the topics on it. Sadly, this topic is all to familiar for me but thankfully I have healed after all of these years. ❤
I'm truly happy for you ❤️
You were the abused,?
@@yyxy.oncesaid I was!
@karamason2340 thank you 😊
11:40
CALL the police!
When we lived in a townhouse years ago, the townhouse directly backing us had a couple living in it. We could literally hear the punches and slaps though the walls. We called the police every single time.
As much as we all know it’s the correct thing to do really , however in these cases for the woman it’s worse as he’ll be blaming her for someone calling the police, it’s your fault they called the police on me , if you hadn’t got me angry I wouldn’t of had to hurt you. That’s why when a female is telling a person intervening to stop getting involved leave my husband alone, it’s because she knows there’s going to now be a consequence
@@Taylor23890 Doesn't matter if they blame her or not, they're going to find something to hit her over either way. At least in this case it's on record and the cops show up.
I wish someone would have helped my mother. She lived in fear so did I. I watched my mother get beat and i couldn't help her, my dad never touched my brother not sure why. I was that baby with black eyes. Not even my aunt nor uncle's helped. Today my mother suffers severe Epilepsy, and other Mental health issues. Me I'm a tank, no man will ever touch me again!!
This is why im single no relationships for me I'am in my mid 40s and happily single if i get lonely I'll rather settle for a dog or a cat instead
I currently live in fear of the next time I'm going to be attacked by the person I love, it's so hard. I walk on eggshells when he's super angry bc at any second he could charge at me, knock me down, thrash, drag my body , get on top of & choke me.
But even more difficult to explain why I haven't left.. We are together 12 yrs this Sept..it's not always horrible that's a big reason I've stayed & I tell myself "well we've made it this far.".
I stay bc I'm loyal & I love the good parts of him. I don't want 12 yrs of life wasted and to have to start over again at age 37..
He was raised by a narcissist in dysfunction wasn't taught or shown real tender love, instead betrayal over and over by his family especially his mother.. so I try to have empathy for that. Tho this man is now 38 yrs old he knows right from wrong. His view on women is horrible- he lacks the precious respect he should have instilled within him for Women & girls.. he has low self esteem yet has an Ego at the same time...
He beats his mother & me ..he started on his mother as a teen they NEVER did anything about it now he's a Grown Monster w/ Anti Social Personality Traits- his mother is the instigating cruel narcissist I am NOT. I wouldn't ever treat him badly, I didn't hurt him & do all the things his mother has & still does.. but yet I am treated like her by him 😢 ..that part I don't understand..
So much judgement around DV by those who NVR experienced it too. Which keeps me stuck so to speak
I am so sorry! There is always help if you ever decide to leave, as I know very well, how hard and complicated that decision is. ❤
Are you kidding me.Get outtà there now
@@yyxy.oncesaid ty Sincerly for caring enough to even leave a comment. With all do respect Truly..
& From personal experience..
Most men including women who have not experienced DV just dont understand. It's so easy for someone to say -Leave.. it's never that easy for most DV victims. If it was DV wouldn't be such an issue.. even still..
@@RLFinTX ty.. have u done it B4?
Sorry dear, that is NOT love.
I was the main breadwinner in my relationship, and even with that being said, I still ended up in the Food Stamp office. It’s a grueling process to break away and I’m here to advocate for reform and victims rights. God bless all of you who are surviving right now.
God save all these women and keep them safe 🙏🏻
I would like to see more documentaries that are the within our time period and not so old.
I didn’t get notified in time. Bummer. DV happens in all walks of life. Power and Control.
Married a wife-beater, divorced him. Counseling. Years of Good life. Later, became victim (& survivor) of a Stranger Stalker. Turned my life upside down, no anti-stalking law, all legal counsel told me I had to run. Had to go into “hiding”. All my life plans, everyone I knew, gone.
Later I worked at a DV shelter. Have PTSD.
God Bless the women at the DV shelters who let me filter thru their network (even tho’ mine was “imported” violence, lol).❤❤❤❤
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Its fucked up because a person decides to inflict pain on you for as long as they want its sick and twisted
Restraining orders don't work. My ex broke it several times and the police refused to enforce.this man was stalking me
I think it's fine to delete them as self defence.
This had to of been shown back in the mid to late 80s. I remember when she looked that young I remember when the world was a better place back. Then now it’s all going to hell.
Exactly what I thought. This was back when people actually cared and weren't just virtue signalling.
Its not physical itself domestic abuse can be emotional abuse as well sadly
I was in forced relationship with a FASD narcissist. Very violent.
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Statistically women are in more danger when they leave. The abuser feels they have nothing to lose at that point. You need to make a plan and not just run. Find the things you need to start over - birth certificates, social security cards, if you have access to bank accounts take some money with you. If not you can go to a shelter and they will help you get what you need. They can get you in to therapy to build you back up to believe you can live without the abuser and how to start to move forward.
IMPORTANT DOCO❤❤❤
As a certified domestic Violence advocate volunteer, I can tell you that doctors also need to ask male patients about if they are being abused because men are also abused, not just women.
I just experienced this
& thankfully got away
this makes me so angry 🤬
10:40 I don't mean to make a joke but I dont understand what this is for. Were there lots of men attacking people in Liz Claiborne stores?
Lol! I think they're just highlighting the fact that Domestic Violence knows no address. It happens to wealthy people as well as poor.
@@GenerationJonesi you are right
@@GenerationJonesiit happened to Rihanna the singer
❤God Bless
What year was this documentary made?
As a survivor myself, it angers me so much that women bring kids into the situation.
How many females are forced to have sex, and the way there’s bans on abortions , women in the third world have no access to contraception. And perpetrators often keep women pregnant as they know women are extremely vulnerable whilst pregnant. Still angers you that women bring kids into the situation?
Those are reported statistics. Most victims go unreported
Yeah mine would come to my work or call me over and over again or come and sit down to eat!
Yikes.
Does it say somewhere what time this comes on?
Sure. Click on Notify Me and it will show you the time on the screen.
19 min from now it’s 2:59 pm Texas time.
15 mins now.
@@lindabranum6686 Thank you so much! I’m in Texas too!
@@RealWomenRealStories Thank you!!
This "Documentary" is one big Victim blaming job!
We have a LOT of work to do!
I've been assaulted by two girlfriends in my life. I was raised not to hit girls so I just take it.
you were raised well ❤️ bless them..
I'm deeply very sorry..
I'll never understand women who have the gaul to abuse men physically. They will some day do it to someone who has the right as you do.. to defend themselves and will! That's when those chicks will go flying..
or end up deleted off the earth. Smh.. it's a disgrace. No one male or female who isn't being violent ..deserves to be physically attacked.
My best advice to you is if you're not dependent in any way on any of these women, love yourself.. respect yourself and have dignity..if you have no reason you must stay around them.
Cut them off just leave- there's many none Violent Non abusive women who love Gentle respecting men.
if you're not abusing them in any way you certainly don't deserve to be abused EVER!
@@karamason2340 I'm happily married now we both have a Christ centered life. I love this life.
@@DubstepHeroDH that's amazing news Good for you. Bless your family.. 🌞
@@karamason2340 yours too.
I'm happy you are out of those situations but just because a man shouldn't hit a woman doesn't mean he has to "take it". The thing is, the majority of men are much stronger than women so that's why most men won't hit back BUT you should still restrain the person if they are hitting you and obviously LEAVE the crazy b far behind right after!
Its always there partners fault not his fault
Honestly, i think women need to grow a backbone and 1. Not get themselves into such mess, 2. LEAVE if the husband becomes violent or abusive!!
AMEN
You talk as if it is that easy and women ask for it...be quiet. Easy said then done smh
Any mom who lets the father beat their kids is NO mom..Id die fighting him for the safty of my kids...
A childs body is too delicate to deal with a mans strength...horrific