Behind Closed Doors 2 | Official Film (2021) Holly Prentice, Vasile Marin

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  • Behind Closed Doors 2 (sequel) Storyline:
    Lisa Crawford struggles to get through the covid19 lockdown, trapped behind closed doors with her abusive husband, Mick. Aaron tries to cast encouragement for her to leave her situation before it's too late...but will she make the right choice?
    𝐂𝐀𝐒𝐓
    Holly Prentice as Lisa
    Vasile Marin as Aaron ("Mr Smith")
    Ryan Graham as Mick
    Ellie Mulhern as Alison
    Summer Rose-Churchhouse as Mollie
    Naya Lotan-Buckley as Kayla
    Adam Sanderson as Aaron's boss
    Eva Von Mitzka as Lisa's Mother (Telephone Audio Scene)
    𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐖
    Director - 𝐊𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐥𝐲𝐧 𝐋𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐱𝐚𝐥𝐥
    Camera Operator - 𝐋𝐮𝐤𝐞 𝐀𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐲 𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝
    Assistant Camera Operator - 𝐉𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐂𝐨𝐛𝐛
    Music Composer - Miquel Carrion Benevant & Josh Rogers
    Screenplay Writer - 𝐃𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐞𝐥 𝐋𝐢
    Story by 𝐊𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐥𝐲𝐧 𝐋𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐱𝐚𝐥𝐥
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  • @lindaeverett9836
    @lindaeverett9836 Před 2 lety +127

    Its not just men that can be abusive so can women, but if a woman hits a man its either laughed at or ignored. A man should never attack a woman and a woman should never attack a man, it's wrong.

    • @kathyharrington546
      @kathyharrington546 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes that is true
      But you don't have to be hit man or woman. Stand up.. be strong. For your self and your children.. 💪

    • @Saleigh
      @Saleigh Před 2 lety

      Agree

    • @ashwiniupasani2120
      @ashwiniupasani2120 Před rokem

      So sorry you had to go through this. Is there any public information available where people have been booked for domestic violence

    • @katrinahindley2242
      @katrinahindley2242 Před rokem

      💯 agree with this

    • @erinalyward8418
      @erinalyward8418 Před rokem +11

      A person doesn’t need to be hit for it to be an abusive relationship. Verbal, mental and emotional abuse is just as bad. Words do hurt just as much as sticks and stones. Women abusers are really good at this type of abuse

  • @sandismith5349
    @sandismith5349 Před 2 lety +96

    So many years of abuse from a narsacist manipulator. I took my two daughters and left. Drove 12 hrs. To another state,thats the best thing I ever did. The small things you leave behind,is just stuff. Starting over is well worth it. I say this with all my heart,to the men and women that live through this kind of abuse

    • @tttcloud7285
      @tttcloud7285 Před 2 lety +6

      I hope and wish that you are now living the life you deserve…. Happy future to you ☺️

    • @faithoye-akinpelu127
      @faithoye-akinpelu127 Před rokem +3

      Thanks so much. I was there too.

    • @MC-mk6gs
      @MC-mk6gs Před 10 dny

      I l had to give my daughter up because of my ex narc and they are NARCS as well

  • @anitakoorn3448
    @anitakoorn3448 Před 2 lety +20

    Ive been away from my monster for just over 5 years now. I finally have my power back. The leftovers from the assault that almost ended me, are balance and memory issues. I beat Vertigo, though. He got one year on ankle bracelet and got to keep his job. I am aware that he could appear at anytime, but I'll be ready for him. Be strong sisters. If we stand together, we can heal and grow ✨ 🙏 💖❤

    • @dianajames4717
      @dianajames4717 Před 6 měsíci

      dam sorry you sent through that. You deserve better. What made you date such an idiot?

  • @daniellewolff2902
    @daniellewolff2902 Před 2 lety +91

    To all of the women and men who are being treated like this, there's always hope for a new and better beautiful life! I hope you can go find out you're better than you think!

    • @lizziandlewy8803
      @lizziandlewy8803 Před 2 lety

      Lovely comment! 🤗✌️

    • @maxinemoore6077
      @maxinemoore6077 Před 2 lety +1

      Danielle Wolf, absolutely, I put up with it for 6 years and left him when my daughter (to him) was 2 years old, I knew I had to get away for my daughter, I couldn’t let her be witness to him hitting me, PLEASE , GET OUT if you are this situation, if not for your own sake then do it for your kids

    • @pamelahamrick4230
      @pamelahamrick4230 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you been there it's the kids that are hurt emotionally

    • @magicmoonart
      @magicmoonart Před 2 lety +2

      Even if you leave an abusive relationship you can still be in a lot of emotional pain that can continue to ruin your life so I'd suggest resetting your body and mind with dianetics. It's an interesting book. It explains how you don't have to put up with emotional scars

    • @mickiroberts3804
      @mickiroberts3804 Před 2 lety +1

      Even when you leave they try and ruin everything you've moved onto. When you have kids with them you never get rid of them. Especially when he brainwashed the kids. I ended up with not only him but my 2 kids also joining in.

  • @samkringle3456
    @samkringle3456 Před 2 lety +31

    This is not love just a demon in human form. Sending prayers for all thoes women and men that didn't make it out. Sending hugs to all the Survivors🙏

  • @tarawehry7105
    @tarawehry7105 Před 2 lety +36

    Never judge a woman being battered by a boyfriend or husband

  • @sueridgard9068
    @sueridgard9068 Před 2 lety +111

    Sending love and caring to all the people out there who have sustained domestic violence. Glad that it is being talked about more. It's not the victim's fault at all. I can understand that it's extremely difficult to get out of the situation.

    • @watchme6848
      @watchme6848 Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah it is.

    • @BetriceMWold
      @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +1

      It is but I often ask myself why do we keep going back? Can't find answer for this question..

    • @freedomgrrrl3263
      @freedomgrrrl3263 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes and the fact that it is difficult for people to get out make some look complicit in the act

    • @lorrainerane2158
      @lorrainerane2158 Před 2 lety +3

      @@BetriceMWold it's because we are afraid of being alone, afraid of not finding love again, afraid of the finances, and usually it is that things will change

    • @BetriceMWold
      @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +3

      @@lorrainerane2158 I know you are talking real facts .and this is why we stay in uncomfortable situations. 💯👌🖐👍👊👊

  • @Ann-qh3kb
    @Ann-qh3kb Před 2 lety +27

    Never ceases to amaze me how they are surprised when they leave

  • @elizabethcampbell1182
    @elizabethcampbell1182 Před 2 lety +76

    Once you have witnessed violence against women you are never a child again - my sister died aged 52 the first victim of violence I ever saw. Rest in peace
    Hetty.

    • @deannahudson6873
      @deannahudson6873 Před 2 lety +10

      So sorry for your loss...

    • @irenecostilla462
      @irenecostilla462 Před 2 lety +5

      My heart goes out to you .an angel gone to soon.she is with the angels .my condolences for the list of an amazing angel sister Hetty .love and care from San Antonio Texas

    • @deannahudson6873
      @deannahudson6873 Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you...kinda sad when you morn for people you love while they are still alive...

    • @lisalisashellman7640
      @lisalisashellman7640 Před 2 lety +7

      I'm So Sorry R.I.P HETTY🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @NYCBIGAPPLE
      @NYCBIGAPPLE Před 2 lety +5

      Sorry for your loss. May she rest in everlasting peace.

  • @Anna-or9pu
    @Anna-or9pu Před 2 lety +20

    Even if you do leave, having to share custody with a monster is the worst feeling. I left over a year ago, but soon we will have to go to court for custody and I have the terrifying reality that he may well get unsupervised contact with our children. How do mothers leave innocent children alone with an abuser? The system is so flawed. There is still the belief that even if a man is abusive, he can still be a good father and his parental rights are more important than the children’s rights.

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Před rokem +2

      Watch Dr. Ramani on youtube!

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 Před 4 měsíci

      @@utrnagel9441 Dr Ramani is amazing, isn't she? She has been of immense help to me in opening my eyes to what is narcissistic abuse. You should also watch Dr Gabor Mate, he's an expert in trauma and the connection between stress and disease. ♥

  • @amelkatrin3464
    @amelkatrin3464 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Very nice film. When she was leaving (min.20) my heart started pounding so much,afraid her husband would come just that moment!

  • @lindapatrick2296
    @lindapatrick2296 Před 2 lety +49

    I stayed 18 long yrs, everyday of those scared to death when the next big beating will be. I thought when I was pregnant it would no be as bad, but he actually aimed for the baby within me. He threw me to the ground and tried to kick my 8 month pregnant stomach, I wrapped my arms around my knees to protect my unborn son. My neighbor called my aunt (our renter) to ask if she should call the police, she told her no. I finally saved enough money to pay cash for my divorce. Worked 4.5 yrs as an domestic violence advocate. The reason women don't leave is: you must find them a job, daycare, home for her children, food etc, its easy to say " she stays cause she must like it" which my dad would say.

    • @cafe80sarigachu
      @cafe80sarigachu Před 2 lety +10

      Now that i read the BIBLE and read the verse saying Days Are Evil…I believe so..lThats Why We Have To Know The TRUTH…so we will not be naive to know evil people.

    • @BetriceMWold
      @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +10

      No woman likes to be beat it's insecurities

    • @BetriceMWold
      @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +5

      @@cafe80sarigachu I truly like your remark

    • @BetriceMWold
      @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you I would not turn my bk on my babies especially if a man is hurting them I'm eide or die with minds

    • @leannemicheliene904
      @leannemicheliene904 Před 2 lety +9

      So resonate, it was 18 years for me too, had nowhere to go, was told by mom, "you made your bed now you sleep in it" on her doorstep with 2 children, battered bd broken knuckles from been slammed into a,wall over an over....written book to be published, been free since 2012 And been a counselor to those in this dark pit of hell. Nobody understands why and what we go thru , we are survivors xxxx

  • @sherriewilsey8613
    @sherriewilsey8613 Před 2 lety +74

    I couldn't watch this. My ex-husband was very narcissistic, verbally abusive even in front of our children. He always had to be right, had to win. I had always told him if he ever hit me I would have him arrested. I want people to know rape happens in marriage too. Eventually I did get hit, in the face in front of my two older children. And I had his ass arrested. A lot of good that did, the judge sent us to counseling for the sake of the children. As far as I was concerned, I was done. The divorce was bad, financially devastating for me. He paid child support only because the district judge had his wages garnished. That was back in 1996. Here it is 2021 and I'm still single. It can lonely sure but I'm contented and I will fight for peace.

    • @carolegray1598
      @carolegray1598 Před 2 lety +11

      Yessss girl I've been single since 2010 & I'm loving it & i love my peace & will protect it by any means necessary good for you sweetie good job ❤️

    • @jennyvigar752
      @jennyvigar752 Před 2 lety +8

      Sounds like my story. It does get lonely but I'm content with my own company and my girl (my dog) I just want peace and a happy life

    • @marinaountoekpo
      @marinaountoekpo Před 2 lety +6

      It's not lonely it's a blessing being single

    • @magicmoonart
      @magicmoonart Před 2 lety +2

      Yea it's better than being stuck in abuse

    • @NYCBIGAPPLE
      @NYCBIGAPPLE Před 2 lety +2

      Glad u (& I) survived. "Angels" were sent to protect us. We have a greater purpose in life & it is not to be a human punching bag for those who are filled with hate & evil. (Wished I had the knowledge, courage & resources to have taken action sooner but I'm still standing ... and the "red flags" go up quicker now).

  • @freedomgrrrl3263
    @freedomgrrrl3263 Před 2 lety +25

    Thank you so much for this beautiful encouraging message as I'm about to embark in a whole new beginning

  • @rhondawalker2020
    @rhondawalker2020 Před 2 lety +5

    Be aware of the red flags very early on. Most of us grew up in very unstable homes, and environments where we were not validated or encouraged. So, this behavior is "normal" and loving. The narcissist love bombs us and seems like a wonderful person at first.
    The red flags are, the first time he/she insults you or belittles you; that's the deal breaker.
    I never saw it coming, I got ensnared. Once I understood what I was dealing with, I divorced him! Yes, at the age of 69, I divorced that monster! It's never too late! Get out, stay out! I still have panic attacks and PTSD and I'm free! These short movies are really very good!
    Thank you for bringing awareness about domestic violence!

  • @bfd670
    @bfd670 Před 2 lety +68

    This whole story is so known to my life! It is amazing how spot on it really is! Thanks for sharing the much needed awareness!

  • @gyrlgeorge
    @gyrlgeorge Před 2 lety +33

    This sends the wrong message. She jumped from one man to another, her therapist at that - who’s shown he too has a temper! (in part one when he fires his receptionist, quite unfairly I may add) Wtf? She needs to get on her OWN two feet.. I repeat, WTF?

    • @Dragons4life0323
      @Dragons4life0323 Před 2 lety +6

      I agree, I did get out of a 15 year abusive relationship and in another one luckily my new partner has never been abusive but his family has been to me and I never learned to be on my own or take care of myself and I think it’s important to learn who you are before jumping into another relationship and as her therapist he should have known better.

    • @marieantoinette1360
      @marieantoinette1360 Před 2 lety +7

      Completely agree! He took advantage of her in the first one and made me not want to continue with it tbh

    • @buslady3705
      @buslady3705 Před rokem +8

      He got too friendly too quick and gave me the creeps. Then he kisses her? Unprofessional, and in the US, illegal. He would lose his license.

    • @magicmoonart
      @magicmoonart Před rokem +1

      @@buslady3705 he must be American as he said mom

    • @liviavallendenez
      @liviavallendenez Před rokem

      The receptionist deserved to be fired

  • @TripleG69
    @TripleG69 Před 2 lety +68

    Spousal abuse will never ever be ok.

    • @neddyconstant5816
      @neddyconstant5816 Před 2 lety +4

      Sad film thank God she & her
      Daughters left that Abusive
      JACKASS.
      Time 3:03AM Fri 8/27/21

  • @TripleG69
    @TripleG69 Před 2 lety +68

    No matter what they will never change!

  • @tiffanylee6475
    @tiffanylee6475 Před 2 lety +20

    From my experience. I was broken when I met my abuser. I was neglected and abandoned by my parents and my grandmother mistreated me. The perfect setup for a narcissist. We split over 10 years ago and I’m still hurt but continuously healing. I was working him for 13 years. My 20’s were taken from me.

  • @loricopus3293
    @loricopus3293 Před 2 lety +12

    This video sure hit home ( NO pun intended ) I was beat for 3 years straight I can't even to begin to say a the abuse I went through it was pure hell trying to get away but finally one day my dad rescued me but I now have trust issues with men and suffer from PTSD and I get nightmares all the time thinking he is comming for me and I'm going to die 😢

  • @cynthiamornago7328
    @cynthiamornago7328 Před 2 lety +30

    They never change

  • @zinhlenosipho952
    @zinhlenosipho952 Před 2 lety +22

    The story it was very touched say no to abuse women .my boyfriend he abused me i lost everything in my self esteem and my proud it was jot easy to walk away but i did it i was very proud of my self thank you for sharing

    • @lueezec358
      @lueezec358 Před 2 lety +4

      Well done for moving on. Yours is a sad story but I hope things are still getting better now.

    • @irenecostilla462
      @irenecostilla462 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm happy to hear you ended it .that's not love. You are strong worrier woman .truelly proud of you. Never look back .you deserve a wonderful happy life . congrats.

  • @kayr4502
    @kayr4502 Před 2 lety +6

    This counselor is just as disturbing as the husband. He is throwing out alot of red flags himself.

  • @ButterfliesAreNinjas
    @ButterfliesAreNinjas Před 2 lety +15

    As a survivor of not only sex trafficking by my own mother and with the help of extended family throughout the southern states, with my two younger brothers as well where we would find ourselves in the ghetto's of Atlanta, GA(me age 4, brothers 3,2) thank god this man was amazing and protected us and did not harm us for whatever reason! I can remember he bought us a set of matching white German shepherds, but the main abuse of SA, DV and verbal were all directed onto me up to 6th grade. We moved around all over and were left with family or strange men or I was.
    The breaking point was when I was 11 my mother hit me for breaking up a fight between my brothers and I punched her back and told her if she ever touched me again that would be it for her. She admitted to abusing me, selling me all because she wished I had died instead of the son she lost before me.
    I have CPTSD and PTSD from childhood trauma but also being in four armed robberies with the latest being in September 2020...For the record I tried to get her chance after chance so my kids could have a grandmother even though I hated her but she picked one of my four and blatantly favored him and I put a stop to that immediately.'
    Also I have severe anger issues I am well aware of and I have blocked out most of my childhood before 6th grade and scents, music, sounds, lights, etc will trigger emotions. I know a main trigger is someone touching me especially if we are in a heated discussion not even in a fighting way and I know I see red literally. Why this is I have no idea but it has happened three times and I literally loose my sight, sound, hearing, and all I see is red and I feel rage. I don't even remember doing anything until the event is over and people have intervened. I have no memory from the time I'm touched until I'm removed. It's like a blank slate.
    Yes I know my trigger and I do tell my friends not to touch me without asking me same with doctors, etc. If I feel triggered I remove myself asap I'm also in therapy and I know what to avoid for the most part but when you compartmentalize you can't always guarantee you know all your triggers...
    It breaks my heart to see women in this situation as I was in it as a child and I can still be put back there without the physical abuse but by certain actions and words of others. I always tell everyone never ever lay a hand on me or it will be the last thing you do. Mine is more of a mental prison but it can then trigger a physical reaction.
    I also from a young age was able to tell men that were not good people like I knew my real dad was a pedo(I'm not sure if he started hurting me and that caused their divorce or what as they both are liars and he was a alcoholic) and I can still tell ones that like the kiddies...women as well.

    • @diannh2894
      @diannh2894 Před rokem +1

      I feel you ❤

    • @codzy3532
      @codzy3532 Před 11 měsíci +1

      keep u in prayers sweetie you need comfort love peace contentment only through God he will give u these things God heals what satan scumbag damages satan has moved through these ppl to destroy you God will defend you give him a chance God bless u sweetie u an your bros keeping u in prayers always xox 🙏❤💐🌹🥀

    • @marcellemccalla6325
      @marcellemccalla6325 Před 8 měsíci

      Yeah any of us that got abused as children seem to have the " spider sense" about pedophiles. And it's not just the ones who were sexually abused, even the ones where it was strictly mental or physical seem to have it.

    • @teresa5007
      @teresa5007 Před 4 měsíci

      Please look up Dr Gabor Mate, an expert in childhood trauma, addiction and a myriad of other subjects. He can guide you in how to heal from the trauma that was inflicted on you as an innocent child by the very people who were supposed to love and protect you. I wish you well and hope that you can heal and find happiness in this short and fleeting life! ❤🍀

  • @sweettexaslatina54yrsyoung
    @sweettexaslatina54yrsyoung Před 2 lety +50

    Trigger when Boss says: "Let her go." "It is her life." "She chose that life."
    As a true survivor of DV/Abuse myself , we don't just wake up one day and say "Oh I choose to be abused today !" We survivors of DV/Abuse are not at fault at all for the abuse our abusers do!! 🤗💜🦋✨✨✨

    • @KaitlynLorraineBoxall
      @KaitlynLorraineBoxall  Před 2 lety +4

      I completely agree, Tina. Behind Closed Doors is a very controversial production and I am glad it raises these debates and helps victims speak out openly about what they have been through.

    • @daisybenton7784
      @daisybenton7784 Před 2 lety +1

      Right very well said

    • @daisybenton7784
      @daisybenton7784 Před 2 lety +4

      I too am a survivor.

    • @mariasartzis-pellicier1723
      @mariasartzis-pellicier1723 Před 2 lety +2

      @@daisybenton7784 I am a DV survivor also. Glad you made it out. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @mariasartzis-pellicier1723
      @mariasartzis-pellicier1723 Před 2 lety +2

      TINA- 💯. I am a DV survivor too. Glad you made it out❣️❣️

  • @cafe80sarigachu
    @cafe80sarigachu Před 2 lety +82

    The moment he slap your face, run and never look back.

    • @sherriewilsey8613
      @sherriewilsey8613 Před 2 lety +8

      ABSOLUTELY! Never believe for one moment, if you stay you can change him? Ain't going to happen.

    • @jewels7282
      @jewels7282 Před 2 lety +1

      or hand

    • @kathyharrington546
      @kathyharrington546 Před 2 lety +6

      Fight back ladies. Don't think you can't whip a man
      Cause you are stronger than you know. I did fight back. And this shit never happened ever. Again. Believe in you. 🙏💜

    • @anneeddrief6055
      @anneeddrief6055 Před 2 lety

      I DO AGREE PLEASE JUST RUN !!!!!!!

    • @lynncoop4022
      @lynncoop4022 Před 2 lety

      A shove or a push will be a fair warning

  • @phyllis5332
    @phyllis5332 Před 2 lety +23

    Warning, spoilers ahead!
    These two short films are well done and obviously well intentioned. They are both problematic. The martial situation is clearly abusive and the film does a good job portraying how hard it can be to leave an abusive relationship and how help from friends and professionals is sometimes not welcome.
    The therapist displays several red flags for future abuse. He blocks access to a door to prevent the client from leaving his office, he grabs her arm, he crosses ethical lines, and he puts her in danger by seeing her outside his office and without her prior consent. He’s also angry and verbally aggressive with the woman answering phones. This may be an attempt to show that the counselor is passionate about protecting women and he is stymied by uncaring coworkers. This is evident when, in part one, the woman answering the phones is seen as bored and indifferent. It contrasts with a later scene, in part two, of the wife on the phone. She is friendly, enthusiastic, and helpful.
    The pregnancy test in the ending scene does not bode well. It was especially disturbing when the therapist caressed a photo of the wife’s bruised face. His tactics are not the way to help people experiencing domestic abuse. He doesn’t really listen or offer steps or a real plan.
    The film does show how abuse in the home harms children.
    How about a film where a mother puts up with abuse for years because of her children. Then her daughter comes home from a date with a cut lip or bruises on her arm. The daughter dismisses it because she learned that’s acceptable in a relationship. Closing scene pans out to a car in front of the house. Inside the car the same woman’s son is telling his girlfriend “You would if you really loved me.”
    Yes, it’s hard to leave. Get out anyway. Document the abuse, have a backup plan, leave a getaway kit with a trusted friend. Take time to heal. Watch out for people who invalidate your experience.

    • @phyllis5332
      @phyllis5332 Před 2 lety

      Getting out may not mean you’re safe. But you’re not safe at home and your children aren’t safe in an abusive home. Get real help and support to get away and stay away. It’s difficult but worth it.

    • @kalipono1
      @kalipono1 Před 2 lety

      I was noticing these things as well with the therapist however you're overreaching on an abusive therapist. they didn't know how to portray a passionate therapist because he lived through the sake abuse and lost his mother to his father. that was my immediate thought, not abusive. it's what the writers tried to convey. I see this more clearly because I, myself, am a writer. they should have done a better job portraying a passionate therapist. I got the point, though. I think I'm going to write a screenplay about an abused husband but make it look like he is the abuser....give it thatvtwust jn the end. I think this is more important to portray because of its lack of representation in any film or script. this is something that should be talked about. I had a dear friend who was almost killed by his wife. she was physically, emotionally, verbally abusive and he said nothing and she tried to kill him by poisoning him. this kind of abuse goes unreported and happens even more than people could imagine. to this film. it was well done. so tough to watch knowing this happen daily.

    • @NeverendingTori
      @NeverendingTori Před 2 lety +3

      @@kalipono1 Like you, I'm not totally convinced the therapist was showing signs of future abuse, but he was still a terrible therapist. Sure, he was passionate about helping her because her story hit close to home for him, but there was no need to insert the romance between them. That was the most problematic aspect for me, and it was completely unnecessary. He was her therapist, and he hit on her at the first sign of vulnerability from her. That is NOT OKAY, and any therapist in the real world would have lost their license for that shit. It was downright uncomfortable to watch.
      If they cut all of the creepy romantic shit from the therapist out of both parts, and his character was just a supportive, empathetic, PLATONIC therapist who was passionate about helping her because he related to her, and occasionally crossed some professional boundaries to make sure she was safe, it would have changed NOTHING about the story, and it would have been much more effective.

  • @thebestcoolest5276
    @thebestcoolest5276 Před 2 lety +17

    Heartbreaking😥

  • @annawright4545
    @annawright4545 Před 2 lety +15

    Oh, I understand perfectly - the bird knows that evil is infinite but at least it knows the one within the cage, not the outer one....It choses the one it knows.

  • @jaymierae9890
    @jaymierae9890 Před rokem +3

    I weep for abuse victims who have not broken free. It took me 14 long years to finally leave after many attempts. After years of therapy, I see with much clearer eyes and will never allow anyone to abuse me again.

  • @taracollins5597
    @taracollins5597 Před 2 lety +24

    I'm surprised her ex-husband was so accepting of her leaving him, she didn't even have to hide from him very long. He sees the kids too, wow. Many abusive spouses don't 'let go' as easily. She was lucky.

  • @clairewilloughby7750
    @clairewilloughby7750 Před 2 lety +18

    If that was my daughter I would help her what a horrible woman her mum is

  • @kerrymetcalfe2737
    @kerrymetcalfe2737 Před 11 měsíci +4

    To all the victims of domestic violence ❤ keep strong 😊

  • @carolyndaly9368
    @carolyndaly9368 Před 3 měsíci +1

    All my bruises were on the inside. Gradually grabbing, pushing, throwing stuff. Empty promises to change. After 11years i fled from Florida to Virginia where family lived. He go deep deliverance and inner healing from horrid childhood and adulthood. He changed! Very very rare

  • @mustangsally5051
    @mustangsally5051 Před 2 lety +38

    Ive lived this....I know what it does..😢

  • @valeriegarcia6081
    @valeriegarcia6081 Před 2 lety +9

    I thank God! I got out alive!!!

  • @noraphillips461
    @noraphillips461 Před 2 lety +14

    To all women, it is not ok to get beaten . No excuse, no one deserve to get beaten. Break the silent, it's another step for you to get away from da danger ur facing. Don't let you down, step up & be strong to fight it.

    • @priscilladavies2270
      @priscilladavies2270 Před 2 lety +2

      This video made me cry. I went through abuse as well. I was told by a counselor and the minister from the church,that I was ungrateful. You are a stay at home mum, with a house, what more do you want? I was beaten so badly I lost my vision for two years due to the blows on my head. I was pregnant at the time baby was stillborn. I wasn’t allowed to go to the funeral. This was in the sixties. I stayed until he died. Things were so different in those days. I tried to get help. It still hurts to think I couldn’t get help from anyone. I had thoughts of killing my kids and myself. If I knew how to kill them without pain, I would have. That’s how bad it was. I’m okay now. I have my family, grandkids and great grandkids. God bless

    • @noraphillips461
      @noraphillips461 Před 2 lety

      @@priscilladavies2270 awe I'm sad to hear you went through with domestic. May you be happy with your love ones & God bless to you!

    • @dianajames4717
      @dianajames4717 Před 6 měsíci

      i just dont understand why women would date and marry idiots like that to begin with? i would never date any abuser.

  • @chezza2116
    @chezza2116 Před 2 lety +10

    I got out of absolute hell... .. you can too!!!!

  • @irenecostilla462
    @irenecostilla462 Před 2 lety +9

    To all worrier women out thier .you deserve happiness respect most of all true love . Believe in yourself .keep your positive mind your strength on moving on .it's never to late to start a new begining n leave the old behind .don't wait on one to change if he / she hasn't don't it yet .learn to cut your losses n move on to better magical life .cus it awaits you .time to change the page to your life .make a new chapter .it's time to shine..Let the Journey Begin.💕💯🙏 .you can do it !!!

  • @halbertbrandydechaume8430
    @halbertbrandydechaume8430 Před 2 lety +22

    No one deserves this fight back .. once they do it it will happen again again they say I never do it again bs they always do it again

    • @joyfullypacinglife8847
      @joyfullypacinglife8847 Před 2 lety +3

      I can relate. This happened to me. The only way out is to leave quietly without telling anyone, not even your own mother, father, siblings.

    • @marys7206
      @marys7206 Před 2 lety +1

      @@joyfullypacinglife8847 ami mi mald... esposo todavía me golpea, des pues de 30 y tantos años., nadamos que cambio la táctica , ahora el maldito me golpea, "dormido"

    • @joyfullypacinglife8847
      @joyfullypacinglife8847 Před 2 lety

      @@marys7206 If I were in your situation, I will not be able to sleep at night knowing that my enemy is next to me.

    • @monicaandolina4295
      @monicaandolina4295 Před 2 lety

      This happening to me before I was in middle school my ex boyfriend throw me into the poles I rushed to hospital because of him. He wouldn't letting me eat anything

    • @marys7206
      @marys7206 Před 2 lety

      @@joyfullypacinglife8847 a veces no puedo dormir. :(

  • @JamesSmith-ei5xf
    @JamesSmith-ei5xf Před 2 lety +10

    Question?? If you marry someone and love them why why do men beat there wife's. It make me very very sad and hearts me very bad for a man to do this to his wife. He needs to be beat on show him what it is like. 😭😭

  • @ginaalexander167
    @ginaalexander167 Před 2 lety +11

    I grew up in this kinda home. Watched my dad beat up my mom for years.

    • @samkringle3456
      @samkringle3456 Před 2 lety +1

      I am sorry you had to witness that ... Sending prayers for you and your mom healing

    • @ginaalexander167
      @ginaalexander167 Před 2 lety

      @@samkringle3456 my mom died when I was 16. I am now 41.

    • @ginaalexander167
      @ginaalexander167 Před 2 lety

      Thank you for your prayers

    • @samkringle3456
      @samkringle3456 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ginaalexander167 I am so sorry for your loss. I pray your mom is finally at peace now ... I am a survivor I know I only made it out. Cause God had a purpose to tell your story and others before. Studying to be a DV advocate.... I belong in that field. That's all I've known my whole life. I finally live in a stable home in 3 years. Just me and my kids. The guilt I carry still is want drives me to help anyway I can .... I am so very sorry I pray you find some comfort your mom is a Hero... I am 36

    • @uniquepurpose03
      @uniquepurpose03 Před 2 lety

      Me too Gina Alexander, they're divorced now

  • @kimbrown6307
    @kimbrown6307 Před 2 lety +6

    This makes me so glad I'm single .No man will ever get the chance to do this to me again and yes I've felt the punch if a man and thank God I didn't marry any of them

  • @sleehahbobbi
    @sleehahbobbi Před 2 lety +3

    Any counsellor who would disclose his past to a woman living in a violent home should be struck off, because that's a clear breach of professional ethics. In fact, it's inappropriate to disclose his personal life in any way to someone with whom he's in a counselling relationship. If I thought I had sent a woman to see a counsellor who behaved this way, I'd feel ashamed and angry. His behaviour is also very controlling - it's just that in your films, he's being a nice guy.

  • @chrystalwilliams1216
    @chrystalwilliams1216 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank God she got out🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @annamariachristopoulos4263
    @annamariachristopoulos4263 Před 2 lety +22

    I'm a pretty tough chick...I don't understand how the HELL women take this...I would make sure the first time would be the LAST.

    • @Zihannya
      @Zihannya Před 2 lety +9

      annamaria, this may be true for you, but it is not the case for millions of women living this right now. Please do read up on how this does happen.

    • @irenecostilla462
      @irenecostilla462 Před 2 lety +4

      Stay strong we are worrier women

    • @kathyharrington546
      @kathyharrington546 Před 2 lety +1

      Yay. We all need to be strong. Man or woman. Stand up.. nobody has to live like that
      🙏🙏

    • @eileenkelly4760
      @eileenkelly4760 Před 2 lety +2

      Your ignorance is showing. You know nothing about abuse clearly

    • @nichole9943
      @nichole9943 Před 2 lety

      I tend to think that way too and although I think men who abuse seek out woman who are more passive and mild mannered it can happen to anyone. You have to think too that abusivers are manipulative and guilt trip you and make you feel crazy. So that's probably why they stay longer than they should.

  • @LightworkBeacon
    @LightworkBeacon Před 7 měsíci

    For any woman, child, or vulnerable person that is in this position, know that you are prayed for. I think of those I may not know yet who need to feel there are people in the world who care.
    May you find strength and be delivered.
    We must talk about this. We must be aware of the support and ongoing resources needed.
    To start: unplug and be a good neighbor. You never know who needs you to pay attention.
    🙏❤️🕊

  • @NA-tf8dj
    @NA-tf8dj Před 2 lety +2

    This is so hard to watch. But needed. 💔💔💔💔

  • @lesleymcshanemitchell9651

    This is a Band Aid Treatment film. It goes much deeper than this. And spans acroos eath education and Class. So glad there shelters now and a Female Policewomen is attached to All buse Cases

  • @Funnutter38
    @Funnutter38 Před 2 lety +3

    My ex husband to be stopped going for my face after I told him my workplace had obviously started to clock my black eyes and slip lips and were noting it down as they have a duty of care for me. The bastard them stopped goin for my face and went for my body and back of my head. Six years after fleeing him I have a permanent slit on my upper lip which is quite painful in winter, doctor told me I’ve took that many slit lips my lip won’t fuse back together.

  • @orchidlilly7518
    @orchidlilly7518 Před rokem +1

    Sending love to All who have suffered physical, sexual, mental & spiritual abuse.

  • @amydavies7222
    @amydavies7222 Před 2 lety

    Very emotional

  • @juliamncube7551
    @juliamncube7551 Před 2 lety

    So heartbreaking 💔😢...

  • @petrarivera7724
    @petrarivera7724 Před 2 lety +5

    This is a lesson movie. I have left a buses boyfriend, never hit me around my kids, but when they went to bed I knew it was my time, I got sick and tried and I shaping a stew drive, and got to my door he opened it try to hit me and that's when I decided to fight back

  • @zanaib4923
    @zanaib4923 Před 2 lety +36

    People who loved had children in lockdown. The people who weren't really in love they became divorced or beaten.

    • @supernova7848
      @supernova7848 Před 2 lety +7

      Marital r*pe still happens. Women can still get pregnant from an ab*sive partner. Just because women have babies doesn’t mean the relationship is good.

    • @justinjacobson5076
      @justinjacobson5076 Před 2 lety +1

      Very true

    • @justinjacobson5076
      @justinjacobson5076 Před 2 lety

      Fact

    • @NYCBIGAPPLE
      @NYCBIGAPPLE Před 2 lety +1

      Praying for the victims. (And to think this wasnt even considered a crime before 1970's. It was considered a "family problem" & police did not respond)

  • @lynncoop4022
    @lynncoop4022 Před 2 lety +4

    My sister didn't stand a chance,,,The Authirities found her decapitated in the back seat of her car,,,She was disemboweled 😢 Our Family will live with that for the rest of our lives!!!!💔

  • @sherrywilemon5011
    @sherrywilemon5011 Před rokem +2

    I am a survivor of domestic abuse myself but it wasn't my Son's Dad, he's actually a good man that still helps me to this day. My Son did see one of my abusers hit me, but he saw me fight back and beat the living hell out of him then call the law on him. Both my Son and I played it smart and let him leave marks on us, my Son was like 12. I beat my my ex unconscious and tied him up with a jump rope to the railing on the front porch, the police came and got him and later called twice once to say he was peeing blood, the 2nd time he was misbehaving so I told them if I could beat his ass so they to get busy lol 😂

  • @oliverking1019
    @oliverking1019 Před 2 lety +16

    It's better for me to leave in the street and have my peace. Than to leave with a beast in a home?

    • @magicmoonart
      @magicmoonart Před 2 lety +2

      I have always said this but I guess some people are too scared to face uncertainty like living on the street. It can be rough. Not just because you don't know where your next meal is coming from but also because of homeless politics. You can very well be abused by other homeless people if you unknowingly invade their turf

  • @babyparinas4341
    @babyparinas4341 Před 2 lety

    It's a good movie.

  • @tarantulamum4322
    @tarantulamum4322 Před 2 lety +3

    wth nice to know lisa can turn to her mum for help, omg I'm shocked. my daughter came to me this exact time lady year 4 help her ex bf beat her up, I took my daughter in as a mum would x

  • @megansland8920
    @megansland8920 Před rokem +2

    men can be assault and domestic survivors too. Sending light and love to all out there who have survived and fought this.

  • @valdirmertchaikovsky2290

    Good for you. You got the courage to leave that violent situation . I was brought up I that situation farther violent to me my brother beating we took. He beat my mother too

  • @briannathomas8460
    @briannathomas8460 Před 2 lety

    Well done Lisa

  • @tammycavazos1606
    @tammycavazos1606 Před 2 lety

    I was and a victim so every body in this situation is different never give up keep the faith in you and your family and mainly in your self you are the shield

  • @deborahmcgee7970
    @deborahmcgee7970 Před 2 lety +2

    When they get to the stage that they don’t even care run run run and never look back if it’s not to late. God help everyone in this predicament I was there I know what it’s like. But I was lucky I had a great mother who reared my children with me. I’m a grandmother now and thank God my sons have great respect for all women My daughter would take no crap from any man But you have to get out they don’t change

  • @lisatorres2377
    @lisatorres2377 Před rokem

    Haven't seen this movie, but I will tonight. Miss my mom and dad..they never showed me fighting, only love to each other..but I did respearince abused from my husband and don't know why I lived that

  • @RoseDawsonworld
    @RoseDawsonworld Před 2 lety +1

    There's one little detail people need to truly understand: you can not help someone who doesn't want to be helped.she just kept going to therapy because she started to like the guy. I know people will go wild in the reply section but I believe these women don't have a backbone. This is a simple matter: your significant other starts disrespecting you, you call him out and put boundaries. He crossess them you walk away. Violence needs to start somewhere and these women accepted disrespect until it turned into violence. I honestly have no sympathy for these women

  • @joycewright5386
    @joycewright5386 Před 10 měsíci

    If I live to be a 100 I will never understand the relationship of domestic violence. I don’t criticize the victims, I just struggle to understand. That’s why I keep watching videos like this.

  • @jewels7282
    @jewels7282 Před 2 lety +8

    you know why dont you ? the first time or times you call the cops the cops let them go to do it again and again and wont do a thing to stop them.

  • @robinc3385
    @robinc3385 Před 2 lety +2

    Story seems incomplete. Her husband is such a nasty abuser that usually one'd expect him to become a stalker and her killer. Wish it is so easy for these victims to walk out like this film shows to bear no horrible aftermaths.

  • @zoedark7101
    @zoedark7101 Před 2 lety

    In lockdown this trippled

  • @lizharley5723
    @lizharley5723 Před měsícem

    I wish that the end of the film would also include a scene of the husband being arrested.

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 Před 2 lety +1

    You're right

  • @kimbrown6307
    @kimbrown6307 Před 2 lety +4

    If you say you love someone ,why hurt them like this ??? Makes me wonder.

    • @utrnagel9441
      @utrnagel9441 Před rokem

      They are Narcisst! Some are Psychopath! And even more worce! The not able to have emphatie! Watch raw motivation and mental healness on youtube and also Dr. Ramani on youtube!

  • @carissablankenship6538
    @carissablankenship6538 Před 2 lety +1

    Love how coldplay song was n the end of other

    • @ren9143
      @ren9143 Před 2 lety

      What's the song's name?

  • @BetriceMWold
    @BetriceMWold Před 2 lety +11

    Why did she do her daughter like that this is so messed up what are mothers for.

    • @MsClemmons
      @MsClemmons Před 2 lety +1

      Do them how ???

    • @NYCBIGAPPLE
      @NYCBIGAPPLE Před 2 lety +3

      Alot of parents do not want to get involved. (Can they really be called "parents"? I'd lay my life down for my child). Healing for us all who are survivors.

    • @ursulasmith6402
      @ursulasmith6402 Před 2 lety +2

      It happened to her, too.

    • @taracollins5597
      @taracollins5597 Před 2 lety

      Sadly, not all mothers are good mothers. My mom divorced my dad after many years of marriage, claiming he was boring but had been abusive to her (he was a hardcore alcoholic & I know he was verbally abusive not sure about physical)...but when she left my dad she was already in A MUCH WORSE relationship with a disgusting demon in human form. And she subjected her kids & everyone who entered that house to his abuse...she never stopped it. He abused her too. So not all moms are good moms.

    • @NYCBIGAPPLE
      @NYCBIGAPPLE Před 2 lety +1

      @@taracollins5597 some do not know how to get out of the abuse; others suffer with PTSD (& to them, the narrative in the head says, this is all you're worth). Fear paralyzes alot of us from doing things (fear of the unknown holds us back). I pray for safety & more resources for anyone in an abusive relationship (no one should live in fear or terror). I pray for healing for all victims.

  • @rodneybass8353
    @rodneybass8353 Před 2 lety +3

    A friend of mine hit me my shoulder and back with his hands he did not say he was sorry he lives 5 miles from me. Afraced to be around him. Thank you

  • @sta7o
    @sta7o Před rokem +1

    She’s happy now

  • @diannh2894
    @diannh2894 Před rokem

    Was this filmed in Philadelphia?

  • @jerilemons5281
    @jerilemons5281 Před 2 lety +1

    I Saw Part 1 This Morning

  • @susanneohmes1044
    @susanneohmes1044 Před 2 lety +2

    So .. it's ok for a counselor to get involved? My goodness, what message are you sending?

    • @ElaAusDemTal
      @ElaAusDemTal Před 2 lety

      Voll an der Realität vorbei...So ein "Therapeut" hätte schon längst seinen Job verloren, und das zu Recht.
      Ich frage mich, warum die Schauspielerinnen das mitgemacht haben? So ein 💩Script. Und "Mr Smith" ist obendrein komplett talentfrei.

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 Před 2 lety +1

    Face everything and run or face everything and rise u got a new subscriber

  • @jennifercurtis6071
    @jennifercurtis6071 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for download but it doesn't turn out like this for many. I'm glad you're safe but for many it doesn't work out that way.living in a car nothing or no-one to help. Financial, emotional homelessness and all round trauma. You protect your kids but who protects you 🙄😥

  • @neeruahuja2014
    @neeruahuja2014 Před rokem +1

    These wounds, people can see, how about the wounds on brain ,soul and mind?

  • @wanda3004
    @wanda3004 Před 2 lety +2

    It's sad wen a person is so obcess with someo e they love. May sure to tell friend and family what you suspect so they can call on you.

  • @kattkennedy8821
    @kattkennedy8821 Před 2 lety +12

    My ex life for sure! Hard to watch!

  • @sammy5453
    @sammy5453 Před 2 měsíci

    After 5 years , by the Grace of God, I got Lucky & He died...It was getting worse by the minute. I would have have died if he didn't...all the years I tried to leave but couldn't...he always found me.

  • @lennisefuller5075
    @lennisefuller5075 Před 2 lety +5

    This man/ any man could never close his eyes in front of me...not even for an instant!🤬🔥

  • @melodieestes7006
    @melodieestes7006 Před 2 lety +2

    Been there good luck 👍

  • @28478cw
    @28478cw Před 2 lety +21

    I would be making a pot of HOT Grits for him

  • @Louislemairias
    @Louislemairias Před rokem

    It remind me of the “behind the closed door” in 2009

  • @anniemoon580
    @anniemoon580 Před 2 lety +4

    Not afraid of doing time to "assist" some S.O.B. in taking it out of its misery! Won't do harm to nobody else...thats for sure!

  • @divinedevil
    @divinedevil Před 2 lety +2

    What I'd really to see is, the wife smacking the monster with baseball bat & then, walk into a DV Shelter and press charges.

  • @mbehhess8546
    @mbehhess8546 Před 2 lety +2

    ITS NOT EASY TO ESCAPE YOUR ABUSER I. FILED FOR DIVORCE HE STALKED ME HE HURT ME AND MY FAMILY PHYSICALLY 10 YEARS UNTIL HE DIED OF SARCOMA BONE CANCER MARCH 9 95

  • @vondahart3706
    @vondahart3706 Před 2 lety +15

    I would be doing a whole lot of jail time.

    • @kaydencefreeman6043
      @kaydencefreeman6043 Před 2 lety

      Yeah if you make it out alive

    • @vondahart3706
      @vondahart3706 Před 2 lety

      I would. Trust, grew on the west side of Chicago. I know how to survive. I’m just glad that I know what narcissist are and codependency is.

  • @bonniebutler7301
    @bonniebutler7301 Před 2 lety

    Me too

  • @MsClemmons
    @MsClemmons Před 2 lety

    People always say just leave not that easy my husband saved me n i thank god 4 him he should me the real meaning of love he dont call me out my name and if we have a argument he will walk away until we are both able n clam down to talk

  • @beverlylewiskokoue2452
    @beverlylewiskokoue2452 Před 2 lety +2

    Once trust has been violated in such a manner, healing is never complete. It is a constant battle to keep going if you have experienced long-termed abuse. It is not easy--Nor is it meant to be, if healing means forgetting the lesson. From this point onward, be mindful of how you allow people in your life to treat you.
    There is no excuse for the abuser. Never feel badly or take the responsibility onto yourself for someone, who hurts you. Know that you are enough. You don't have to be in a bad relationship to feel complete. You deserve to feel safe, and you deserve happiness. You are enough.

  • @getoutmyface101able
    @getoutmyface101able Před 2 lety +2

    My so called mother was the same way