Is Masturbation Good for Men after Prostate Surgery?
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- Three masturbation benefits for men with Erectile Dysfunction after Prostatectomy, including what the latest clinical research says.
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Meissner, V. H., Dumler, S., Kron, M., Schiele, S., Goethe, V. E., Bannowsky, A., ... & Herkommer, K. (2020). Association between masturbation and functional outcome in the postoperative course after nerve-sparing radical prostatectomy. Translational andrology and urology, 9(3), 1286.
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Very clear, and informative. Thank you very much for the video.
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This is definitely correct, I had prostatectomy at 74 after having had very strong erection history. Slowly but surely, I went from zero to 90+% in 18 months. Required a lot of "work", visual and manual stimulation plus a c-ring and Cialis, but it has paid off, my strong libido is being answered.
Hi Peter, thanks for sharing your rehabilitation experiences. We are so pleased to hear that you have achieved such great results!
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Wonderful presenter! Delivers really useful info in a clear but fun manner. Keep the videos coming Victoria!
This is the best help we have had.
Thank you for your feedback Marie! I am so pleased you're finding the videos helpful 😊
Wow Victoria really interesting as usual you have great cut through!
Thank you David! 😊😊
Just had surgery a few weeks back and looking up info. Thanks so much for your posts. I am finding them very helpful. There were several questions I didn't think to ask my urologist, one of which is this topic. First surgery of any kind and worry about damage, plus I did not think I would be so easily aroused so soon afterwards. I do have an appointment with him in a few days and we will talk about this and other rehab options.
But hey, if having a good wank will help with rehab I do not have to be told twice :) Just waiting for the all clear!
Excellent video, Victoria. I particularly like your phone call analogy! Partners could get involved too, if both parties are okay with that. They could even "play" separately next to one another - this is fun. :)
Love that idea Fiona! Thanks for sharing 😊
You are amazing. I tell everyone on Reddit about you!!
Very informative! Thank you.
Thank you for your comment, Russell!
Lot of Thanks for valuable guidance.
You are very welcome!
Gentle, humorous discussion! Thank you.
But wait-- what she isn't telling, is that prostatectomy surgery can have an ostracizing effect. I had surgery six years ago, at 69, and found I had lost my erectile function, and orgasms were very, very weak. I went back to the surgeon, and he said: "Well, you must be one in twenty prostatectomy patients who had an oopsie."
...They removed too much prostate tissue?? Never being able to hit the chandelier on the ceiling anymore?!..
Can I apply for a crowdfunding?
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Thank You Victoria most helpful.
Thank you for your comment Brod, I'm so pleased you found the video helpful
Thanks for the great review! I have read the article mentioned and it's very promising. As someone that doesn't want to rely on drugs, or (god forbid) penile reconstruction; I'm very optimistic of the natural benefits of masturbation. Also, it just makes intrinsic sense that this would help heal/motivate that part of the body. Maybe you can do the next study on this topic?
Hi Mark, thank you for your insightful reply - I absolutely hope this study stimulates (pardon the pun) a lot more research into the impact of masturbation post surgery, definitely a research topic I am interested in pursuing post PhD.
Thank you. Very helpful.
I'm so pleased to hear that!
Excellent. Thanks so much.
You're very welcome!
Thank you for this educational video.
Hi Rod, our pleasure!
Fabulous presentation! Who would have thunk!!!!!
Not only love the presenter and her style but enjoyed the good news story.
Hi Malcom thanks for your comment we appreciate it!!
Excellent Victoria.. thank you. The phone analogy is just brilliant but I must say this is just GOLD…..”giving yourself a really jolly good hello below” 😄
Hahaha thank you Steve!! I was pretty pleased with that one too 😂
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Thanks. I had the op 2 weeks ago.
Hi Vlad, no problem so glad you found this video helpful!
Yes it is good Post surgery, remember to use it or lose it
Infomartiwe god thanks you
Hello, we are so pleased to hear that you found this video informative!
This is a very sensitive topic for most. It’s all very recent for me. That comment, “a jolly good hello below” cracked me up. The topic is not funny and causes me concern which may be why this made me laugh so much.
Thanks for your lovely message. I'm so glad this one resonated for you. I understand your mixed emotions on the subject its a tricky one
I had my laser surgery 4 days ago and I masturbate today and felt great.. my penis kept getting erection so I did him a favour… was scared and happy I found your video.
Thank you.
My advise is Masturbation is on by sex inter-course I will wait for at least 6 weeks as risk of infections.
Hi Luigi thanks for your comment and sharing your rehabiliation journey so far it sounds like things are going well for you!
I am 80 and had a prostatectomy three years ago. I have used a pump but it has not brought back full functionality. I am considering of trying a Phoenix ultrasound device to break up plaque in the blood vessels. I would like your thoughts on this approach?
Hello Carl, thank you for your message, I have heard good things about ultrasound for the use you describe but haven't heard of this particular device. Dr. Jo Milios may have more insight, she is a men's health physiotherapist and uses ultrasound as an approach in her practice. You can learn more about her and this approach via this recorded webinar: www.atouchysubject.com/peyronies-disease-prostate-cancer
80 Is A Long Time And All Parts Wear Out Eventually.
SHOCK WAVE.
Good to know.
Hi Victoria, I just discovered your channel and you have some excellent information and great presentation skills! I’m 70 and I'll be having my prostatectomy on July 15. The postoperative ED is probably my main concern and any info on treatments old or new are appreciated. Thanks for what you do!
Hi not sure if this will be answered as the last comments have been quite a while back. I recently had a prostectomy and I know part of the surgery was the reattachment of the urethra, my question is can getting an errection or mastubation damage or risk the urethra becoming unattached from the bladder? I have an unusual fear about this for some reason.
Hi there, great question! We can understand you would be feeling concerned about that. Rest assured it's not possible for that to happen from masturbation or having an erection.
@@ATouchySubject Thank You so much for your reply!! Have been watching and loving your videos, very helpful and informative!! Thanks again!
Yep, use it or lose it 😊
i have the embarrassing fear of hurting myself or doing something perverted. i find it difficult to overcome this!!!!
Hi Joseph, thank you for your honest share. I bet other men are reading this and feel relieved that they're not the only ones that feel like this. Societal messages about masturbation are usually, unfortunately, quite negative and it can be challenging to overcome these deeply help beliefs, even though the effects on well-being and physical health are positive. I hope you find some affirming videos on my channel and also CZcams in general (search for 'overcoming sexual shame'), to help you approach self-pleasure without fear in the future. You may also find a lot of benefit in seeking out a sexuality therapist/counsellor, they are trained in helping people overcome these challenges.
Just do it. And Trust yourself. It will not hurt you but help you
Thank you very much, this was very helpful.🙏
Hi Rodrick, thanks for your message. I am so glad it was helpful!
Can masturbation help with urinary incontinence?
We are thesame, its so prostating i tried 2 kind of tablets and vetarus cream. Vitarus helps a little bit but I feel pain in my testicles my nurse told me thats only in the begening I tried already 8 times. The problem is my wife it seem don't like to be touch already. I just put in my mind that if my ed will not coming back as long as my cancer will not come back anymore thats fine for me. I told already to my wife if she don't want to stay with me then thats fine too. I don' t care anymore.
Kegel exercises may help too.
Absolutely! A must-do for men pre and post Prostatectomy. Learn to do a kegel exercise here: czcams.com/video/XLxu1R2fVkw/video.html
I had 45 days of radiation for my prostate cancer and it really made it difficult to masterbate. I can't get an erection but have been advised by my Doctor to use a pump and ring to get and maintain an erection. I'll give it a try and see what happens. Just might work.
Hi Joel thanks for your comment. Hope your rehabilitation has been going well!
Nerve sparing laparoscopic prostatectomy 6 weeks ago. Taking 5mg tadalafil daily. Absolutely nothing happening yet.
Hi Jeff, thanks for your comment. It is still very early days for your recovery, you may like to check out our Free Penile Rehab Program for more information on recovery timeframes and options available to you: www.atouchysubject.com/help-for-ed-post-prostate-surgery
I hope this helps!
Absolutely nothing helped me. surgery at age 61. Killed EVERYTHING. My wife would barely let me touch her. Rarely got a hug. life sucks.
Hi Mark, thanks for your comment.
Thank you for your message and for sharing your story with us.
We are so sorry to hear of all you have been through. It sounds like this has been, and continues to be, an incredibly challenging time for you.
We can hear how strongly you desire a physical and emotional relationship with your partner. I can imagine it's difficult to find a way forward with the relationship without your partner's involvement.
Please know you are not alone in figuring out such a challenging situation. In case it helps at any point, or is a new approach to try, there are free support groups online and in person: www.atouchysubject.com/blog/online-support-groups-prostate-cancer) where people who are also going through life with prostate cancer go to share their stories and seek community understanding and wisdom.
In particular, we've heard good things about the [Sex Love and Prostate Cancer Facebook Group](facebook.com/groups/sexloveandprostatecancer).
It can sometimes also help to hear how other men are managing life in a similar situation via [podcast stories here: rshealth.com.au/how-to-listen-to-the-penis-project-podcast
I hope this helps
Get a new girl!
I feel your pain brother. Surgery at 61. Pills, vacuums, creams, injections, nothing was a satisfactory solution. My wife also closed shop on me. I get an occasional hug. But it seems mechanical with no warmth. Life indeed sucks.
@@josephphelps5696bc she's got a new man.
I settled for Radiotherapy & Tamsolusin + Finasteride. I've lost EVERYTHING as well - Not a glimmer of an erection for 5 years now. Good luck everybody!
I had Greenlight Laser Surgery on my prostate to remove some tissue 4 weeks ago. How long should I wait until I can have sexual activity? I still have some blood clots that come out once in awhile. My doctor said that is normal and could possibly occur for a couple of months. Is sexual activity good for that?
Hi Bob, we recommend that you discuss this with your doctor or practitioner.
Hey, Bob I'm 66 and thinking about green light. What do you think?
@@fokkerd3red618 it definitely seemed to have helped with an issue I was having. I of course would talk with your urologist, but I do think it helped.
I have a question that is a bit odd. Has prostate removed doing well. If you masterbate or just have sex - can that cause a return of prostate cancer? I know the easy answer is no because I don't have a prostate - but what if I a dormant cell somewhere and what if masturbations' increases testosterone (don't know if it does) can this increase my percent of reoccurrence?
Hi Scott, we would recommend that you discuss this subject with your urologist as the first point of call.
Oh I just wanted to add thank you for your video this is a great video I think a lot of men should watch this and I know I recommend it I know I After my surgery I don't have to drive for sex but I I love intimacy with them Girl I'm 58 and Even though I don't have to drive And I don't get lonely okay you still I still have a girl that isn't here right now but I want to Or look forward to being with her And this lady hears helps open up Think doors or things that man don't have to be sure if you'll self conscious because Actually I'm more open the bad at now than I was before I was kind of took away my shiner said cancer surgery I don't know I just don't really care I feel like I can talk about it if I want to I don't have a The drive for it but I want the drive again I guess.
Sorry about the typing I'm using a text to speech I was using I have it fixed now so anyway you just have to guess on what I was saying up there it's taken a while to heal I feel pretty open about the way I feel maybe it's my age I don't know but man's got to do what he's got to do to keep things working of course I want my girl to be happy too just like anybody and I think the saying that you don't use it you lose it is true.
I also think it should be legal for a woman to supply physical therapy to help a man get an erection and have an orgasm shouldn't have to well it doesn't work is good by yourself anyway when it's for medical after a surgery it should be legal because the female does the best job for most men
Hi Otis, thanks for your comment we are so pleased to hear you found it valuable!
I'm assuming this apllies to post TURP also.
Question: how long after a TURP is is it safe to recommence masterbation?
Hello thanks for your question, it is best to check with your urologist or medical team on this one!
If I remember correctly, I waited about 8 weeks after my turp before attempting any kind of sex. First time with wife was great, and then, ouch ouch ouch. So waited a little longer.
Had radical prostatectomy yrs ago and am still impotent.
Hi Ken, thank you for sharing where you're at, I bet there are many men out there reading this and nodding, you're not alone. I hope you find the resources here helpful, I also have a free course that might give you some new ideas on creating erections/improving erection health moving forward: www.atouchysubject.com/help-for-ed-post-prostate-surgery
Me too! 9 years of ED from RP
And it's fun too . . . 😁 😂
Yep - excellent positive side effect! 😂
can't agree with anything in this video. Had prostatectomy 11 years ago at age 62. Followed every instruction ( daily viagra, pumps, injections, kegels ) given by my urologist, including twice daily penile massage, and I'm still unable to get any kind of an erection. No night time ones, no morning wood and definitely not when it is needed the most. I can only assume that the socalled nerve sparing surgery was not and the nerves were damaged so badly that is why no form of penile rehabilitation has even come close to showing signs of recovery. I've read that stem cell therapy may help repair the nerves BUT it's way too expensive. To be honest I think most urologists that give out information of this type are all BS artists. I might change my mind if I get told about something that actually works. I've NEVER seen an data on how to repair the cavernous nerves once they've been damaged. Perhaps urologists don't know how to have those nerves repaired, even though they are the one that damage them during surgery.
Doctor I uñder go TURP surgery before 7 weeks sperm dosent come out .
Hi Shelton, thanks for your comment. At A Touchy Subject, we create resources that help men with sexual challenges specifically caused by prostate cancer treatment. It sounds like what you could be experiencing is a side effect from your procedure but it would be best that you get a diagnosis from your doctor first. A medical professional such as a urologist would be able to provide you some tailored treatment options for your exact situation. If the options they recommend include devices such as a vacuum erection device, then we have a wealth of resources that can help - you can check out our website here: www.atouchysubject.com/
@@ATouchySubject Thank you
The RING & The Vacuum PUMP Will Work Wonders For You .
Thanks for your comment Charlie!
No Bud Light for me, thanks.
Jolly good hello bellow lol lol
Five finger boogie!! Lol
I gotta find a Aussie girl to help me with my recovery! I am turned on just by the accent. This girl is cute too.
Your voice needs some training to be more clear and strong. It sounds like youre having lung infection.