Marriage is tough. Does everyone live like this? [Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.12.24]

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  • čas přidán 24. 12. 2018
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    Hello Counselor EP.393
    - Seo Inyoung, Luna, Yun Seongho, Shorry, Dong Hyunbae
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Komentáře • 225

  • @harundaniel7705
    @harundaniel7705 Před 5 lety +515

    it's only been 2 months since her giving birth, obviously she's gonna be sensitive. She's got post partum depression which is a severe type of depression, there's been cases when mothers hurt their child (abuse / murder). For those people who say she's being over sensitive, you need to understand that's its not so simple to 'grow up'. I hope the couple all the best.

  • @mahdianajem4851
    @mahdianajem4851 Před 5 lety +299

    i understand that postpartum depression is a serious issue and should not be taken lightly, but it seems she was sensitive before and now that they got out of the newly wed phase and things died down a little, she feels a bit neglected. she’s very sensitive without taking into account the depression. also that stuff at the beginning that girls communicate like that is not true in most cases, and it can cause some huge misunderstandings. there are plenty of girls i know who are straight up and honest wit what they want, including me, and it bothers me when people assume i’m trying to say something else or beating around the bush when i literally mean what i say.

  • @Jana_7
    @Jana_7 Před 5 lety +178

    A bad combination of lack of communication, post partum depression, and having to deal with growing up and being a young married couple with a new baby. Lack of money and sleep can also add to this because he is still looking for full time work and babies that age don't sleep thru the night. I wish this couple well on their life journey together. I think in time they will be fine.

  • @ArcticFalcon
    @ArcticFalcon Před 5 lety +76

    The word "communicate" sounds easy, yet many relationships lack it.

  • @csoniah4432
    @csoniah4432 Před 5 lety +52

    She just seems to be a very sensitive soul and postpartum depression is not something to be taken lightly. They are very much in love with each other you can feel that they just need to talk and mature together , they are rly cute when she called him teddy I died lol .

  • @Goldievoi
    @Goldievoi Před 5 lety +158

    I feel like she needs to communicate more and he has to be willing to listen more. She needs to be more direct too because the husband seems like a teeny bit of an airhead. From what I see, they need to improve themselves to meet in the middle. I really hope the best for them

  • @yunatina4542
    @yunatina4542 Před 5 lety +104

    25 is young? In my country 25 is the perfect time to married😂

  • @elbowhair
    @elbowhair Před 5 lety +20

    If you calculate the fact that they only met in sept.11 of last year and their child is already 2 months old, that would mean that they were probably forced into marrying one another so early cause she got pregnant. I think if they had a chance to have a better understanding of one another before marriage then things wouldn't be this tough.

  • @e.a.1548
    @e.a.1548 Před 5 lety +42

    I hope she can overcome her depression, it must be hard, but her husband is trying his best. She's very lucky, I hope they have a bright future ~

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm Před 5 lety +8

    I was just cracking up at Dongyup's face throught this video!

  • @adachyuta493
    @adachyuta493 Před 5 lety +147

    why did it always man that have to understand women first? I actually dont get it even though me myself is a girl. I dont understand about girls silent language/sign, i would get frustrated too, same case as the man, when they only married for a year.

  • @icyflamer
    @icyflamer Před 5 lety +4

    Ladies stop expecting a guy to read your mind. Just like you can’t read his. Be honest and straight forward and that way you won’t be disappointed 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @martine440
    @martine440 Před 5 lety +14

    Postpartum depression is very serious. So, until the wife gets some kind of therapy or care for it until it dissipates, the husband will always seem like he's lacking in some manner to her. She's trying to rely completely on the husband but there's only so much he can do while she's in this state. I understand that she's looking for him to give her more attention and the same level of affection he once did before. However, she needs to learn how to communicate and stop running to his parents to complain. She keeps pinpointing his flaws. I'm sorry but if that's what he's dealing with on a daily basis... he's going to end up not being as attentive or affectionate before.

  • @mansibhandari3257
    @mansibhandari3257 Před 5 lety +56

    I really dont like people who get mad easily and start crying

  • @RhubarbPlantz
    @RhubarbPlantz Před 5 lety +5

    This show always gets me anxious about these marriage concerns, but I was pleasantly surprised that this problem was...fairly normal. Or at the very least, relatable. Flexibility and productive communication does wonders in a relationship!!

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah5604 Před 5 lety +9

    they.need.to.grow.up

  • @mahadoomar6510
    @mahadoomar6510 Před 4 lety +5

    I like the episode so far it was chessy lovely romance 😍😭😂 these three emotions were mix

  • @Bee-zx2yk
    @Bee-zx2yk Před 5 lety +49

    Why is Luna overreacting to everything, it's hard to focus whenever they show her.

  • @txfannyleong9042
    @txfannyleong9042 Před 5 lety +5

    They should have used condoms if they are so tempted to have sex. Of course after you give birth,the baby should be top priority, you should know that before giving birth.

  • @hirumayoichi21
    @hirumayoichi21 Před 5 lety +32

    why it is expected for a guy to be able to understand and cater for the women? why is it unacceptable if the guys do not understand the lady's language? In any relationship, both should have participated in give and take, have the same level of respect, effort and love if they want to make it works. I know the wife is a bit more sensitive after giving birth, but they should have tried to understand and communicate more to solve the issue