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  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  Před 3 lety +5

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  • @TheTablewithTonyD
    @TheTablewithTonyD Před 4 lety +186

    I would never be with someone who rejected me.

    • @nxbxxha_1764
      @nxbxxha_1764 Před 2 lety +20

      It's their choice, not their fault but if they start falling for you TRULY, then why would you reject them when you still love them?!

    • @axomorlora3625
      @axomorlora3625 Před 2 lety +12

      @@nxbxxha_1764 no need to ever accept your rejecter yes 👍

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před rokem +1

      @@nxbxxha_1764 Because it’s up to the person if they will romantically accept them or not. I did that with an ex suitor who mutually loved and wanted to marry and yet I still rejected him. It turned out to be a blessing in disguise. It turned out he had had a child by another woman and left them to find someone else. I refuse and reject being an interloper to any other woman’s child, and I refuse to be a polygamist’s wife or get involved with a divorced man. He made his bed, he should lie in it.

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před rokem +3

      @KenyaGirly There is no one who is good except God only.

    • @Shron21
      @Shron21 Před měsícem

      true but it's hard when you develop feelings, got rejected like a week ago, and i said I liked her to one of her friends like 7 months ago and we started off at first good,she seemed interested but I am the introverted traditional type (Live in algeria so it's pretty normal to be traditional about it , but in my situation I was really shy around her) so I told her that I get shy around you and we probably need to talk more in text as she expected me to talk to her and such ,and that my intention is to engage hopefully in a few years from now and wanted each other to be in touch until we get comfortable ,like each other in the process, idk if she was interested at first but she I think she was, but since the difference in character the situation went down hill she doesn't talk to people much but she isnt the shy type she is reserved is all she has a different character than me ,those few months were hell to me I went through hard times to figure out whether she likes me or not cause she didnt say anything or ever talked to me or engaged in with me she was waiting for me to talk most likely ,I got out of my way and help her in her work in class as we work with computers most of the times ,but still I couldn't figure out if she liked me or not cause I wanted to be sure and I asked her a couple of time throught the months. after all of it I told her good bye like 2 months ago I started missing her since she changed the class I was in beacause the semester has ended and they put her in the same class I was in and she got seperated from her best friends (girls) It cooled off for a while .and a week and a half ago ,I talked to her friend to tell her that I wanted to talk to her since I can't contact her and since the classes are different we get different subjects in different days of the week so unlikely to meet, she blocked me on instagram as well as I found out afterwards . like 3 days after I asked her out she started ghosting my messages for the excuse of her not using insta much and such as she doesn't , but still you would make effort for a person you're interested in if they wanted to talk on text and to get to know each other, it seemed that I missed that part and was on delusional mode the whole time . Anyways when I told her friend to tell her that I wanted to talk to her, I had infact bought her a gift for her birthday since her birthday was like a week after and put a little message there , a paper to tell her my intentions , my feelings and my goals in the future with her, I got out of class from an exam early and waited for her for like 10 minutes she got out of class with her friends, went and asked if i can talk to her , she came and I went and got her the gift, she said ,''No I refuse'' about the gift, I put it in a bag she had been carrying anyways and she said '' I don't wanna give you hope" and i froze for a moment not knowing what to say tbh then I asked her if she blocked me on insta cause I was suspicious if she blocked me or closed off her insta , she replied'' yes I did, and I blocked a bunch of people including you'', then I just told her to read the message and left ,The three days after that felt really hard I couldn't do anything , I still struggle with the rejection now but not as much. Next time I am never confessing unless I am 100 % sure the person I like liked me back. It's hard cause you start loving a person after the interest develops after a few months. But fuck it , is it what it is.

  • @charitycolumbus6849
    @charitycolumbus6849 Před 4 lety +213

    I was rejected at 32 in 2012 and now he’s chasing me at 39 2020 and I rejected his ass. you see how the table turn.

    • @vibrationfrequency-aloha6522
      @vibrationfrequency-aloha6522 Před 3 lety +4

      Good on ya amazing lady🌹👏😎
      An ex lover contacted me after 7years no contact and then ignored me in the middle of communication...only replied my email 2months later ...similar to you... I just played along : replied few days later...played it cool...exchanged phone numbers and he thought he could hook up with me lol 😂 only to be told “I don’t think so” the last minute when he texting wether we still meet up or not lol
      Karma is a bitch!
      Let them beat their own games

    • @nxbxxha_1764
      @nxbxxha_1764 Před 2 lety +8

      WAIT WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT, THEY ONLY REJECTED YOU, WHAT'S WRONG IN THAT????? It's not their fault, It's their CHOICE...and we should RESPECT that! REALLY, Dude...Would you have preferred been LIED and LEFT instead? Well, It's better that they were HONEST...Why you so sad that they rejected you??? Why you blaming them???

    • @charitycolumbus6849
      @charitycolumbus6849 Před 2 lety +35

      @@nxbxxha_1764 yeah I respectfully rejected him. Now it’s my choice when the tables turned.

    • @crxckhexd5199
      @crxckhexd5199 Před 2 lety +6

      Good choice, girl ✨

    • @gajavallisubhashini4349
      @gajavallisubhashini4349 Před 2 lety +2

      Lucky person

  • @tamiapinkston2517
    @tamiapinkston2517 Před 7 lety +357

    I like your video's quick and short and gets straight to the point ! lol thankyou.

  • @familyofislam
    @familyofislam Před 4 lety +293

    I got rejected by a girl I'm in love with. It hurts a lot.

    • @Bulletbill_1999
      @Bulletbill_1999 Před 4 lety +48

      It's ok buddy. I'm in the same situation. I had a crush on this girl and she said she likes me as a friend and she is not interested in dating anyone until after college. I was starting to forget about her but this past week, she keeps popping up in my dreams almost every night so it's making it hard. I NEVER try to contact her anymore and I've been trying to focus on myself but these dreams are making it extremely difficult to forget her. It's aggravating.

    • @Sandrahans
      @Sandrahans Před 4 lety +6

      Me yesterday 🤣😭its hurts but what to do

    • @juangusto6117
      @juangusto6117 Před 4 lety +2

      Hahhah. Poor. Guy.

    • @theresaaubry2481
      @theresaaubry2481 Před 4 lety +16

      👀 I'm sorry that she did you that way.... being rejected by someone that you deeply love and admire a lot mind fucks you... Similiarly, I'm experiencing this too right now in my life sooo..... I can definitely relate.......

    • @allenbaker578
      @allenbaker578 Před 4 lety

      Loser

  • @guitarman813
    @guitarman813 Před 6 lety +144

    Sums up my situation almost perfectly.
    There's a girl that I like at my workplace and when I got rejected by her, most of me has moved on. But at the same time, a part of me still likes her.
    While it's hard to fully move on, one has to. Like the guy said, there is a chance that your crush will come back to you. But that is not guaranteed. And in my situation, I think there would be too many factors that would prevent us from dating anyway. It's a shame in some ways but some things in life do not work out as you hoped that they would. 😳

    • @kristenmoonrise
      @kristenmoonrise Před 5 lety +10

      Same. Any updates on your situation? I'm planning to switch to another department at my job to avoid my crush (it's not the only reason but definitely a major factor).

    • @charltoncooper4128
      @charltoncooper4128 Před rokem +4

      Same here. Got rejected by a girl at the gym. Slowly letting go but part of me still cares about her

  • @freespiritxoxo7343
    @freespiritxoxo7343 Před 6 lety +77

    Please keep doing these videos. You dont blabber on about nonsense. Straight to the point. Love it!

  • @arthurjanssens4464
    @arthurjanssens4464 Před 6 lety +177

    Just got rejected today 😧😭

  • @l3l3Cakes
    @l3l3Cakes Před 5 lety +76

    The best thing to do is remove your presence from the person. You’ll know there’s a chance if they come back missing you. Gotta let them miss you first though

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před rokem +1

      That doesn’t always work. I missed an ex suitor that I dumped but I made the decision to leave the past behind and move on. Best decision I ever made.

    • @ja_353
      @ja_353 Před rokem

      ​@@EmilyGloeggler7984let them miss not all people are same like you

  • @cicikizable
    @cicikizable Před 5 lety +47

    When they come back and act like they did nothing wrong, show him the door or just ignore them.

    • @Ace_Streamz
      @Ace_Streamz Před 4 lety +3

      When you still wanna be friends with a person that rejected you because its awkward and because you realized you will die alone.

    • @luisperalta2019
      @luisperalta2019 Před 4 lety +2

      Eh thats deep

    • @Ace_Streamz
      @Ace_Streamz Před 4 lety

      Luis Peralta thank you.

    • @fr_625
      @fr_625 Před rokem

      Good job 👍

    • @genesisdeguzman9074
      @genesisdeguzman9074 Před měsícem

      I'will got my revenge

  • @devianthamburgler1169
    @devianthamburgler1169 Před 6 lety +42

    You're her last chance, don't give in.

  • @F0BBYLEE
    @F0BBYLEE Před 7 lety +60

    I want to move on.. but I got the "want to still hangout with you and like your company"... but when I reach out.. all I get is.. "I'm busy, I have plans tonight, etc.." and doesn't seem to give me an alternative option.. I'm seriously getting fed up with all this! I'm 99.9% sure that I wanna just call it quits and move on..

    • @DreamBeatsBakery
      @DreamBeatsBakery Před 7 lety +33

      Abe Linkin My suggestion would be move on and never contact her again. Let her do all the initiating and focus on other girls. That profile pic tho 😂😂😂

    • @F0BBYLEE
      @F0BBYLEE Před 7 lety +8

      DreamBeatsBakery thanks you. I needed to hear that.. 😊

    • @hostiletoxictomdowneyburne6469
      @hostiletoxictomdowneyburne6469 Před 6 lety +7

      Abe Linkin just remember if someone wants to be with you, they will make it easy. You keep asking shoes you not only like her but you have no life BUT her. Not good for her and esp not good for your life. Women are like.protein shakes, a supplement, not the meal

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety +4

      Abe Linkin if she told you that she likes your company she was just trying to be polite, (because her actions don't match her words.)

    • @patrycjaw8323
      @patrycjaw8323 Před 4 lety +1

      Then tell them you want space and don't hang out. You set your boundaries.

  • @asiaaaaaaaaaa
    @asiaaaaaaaaaa Před 4 lety +18

    I WAS REJECTED BY HER. ITS OKAY MAN IM OKAY OVER HERE :')

  • @miguelohara9534
    @miguelohara9534 Před 3 lety +11

    I got rejected but I still think she is a good person, and I respect the fact that she was honest with me but if she didn't want me now. Now sure I want her later either.....

  • @goddessvibes08
    @goddessvibes08 Před 5 lety +36

    The only man I watch for advice. No nonsense advice

  • @kj1816
    @kj1816 Před 5 lety +28

    I rejected..more so pushed away a guy that I REALLY liked because he said something that hurt my feelings..in front of his brother. He was acting "hard" in front of his brother and I was offended so I dropped him. He said sorry and wanted me back. I said no, then realized later on how much I liked him, how much I missed him and how I could have addressed the situation better.

    • @amlib7723
      @amlib7723 Před 2 lety +2

      U did good

    • @akashachuas
      @akashachuas Před rokem +7

      He doesn't love you. No man will insult the girl they like infront of others

    • @nocte.animam
      @nocte.animam Před rokem

      You handled that greatly! Self-respect is one of the most key elements in relationships. You deserve better.

    • @amlib7723
      @amlib7723 Před rokem

      @KenyaGirly ???i would neevr be witth a guy who rejected me? even if he wanted me back

    • @ty70056
      @ty70056 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@amlib7723good 👍

  • @gokinezula1689
    @gokinezula1689 Před 5 lety +15

    I had told this dude I like him and he rejected, but now he acts all nice and always sits by me.

    • @xuxu0366
      @xuxu0366 Před 4 lety

      and then what happened? was he just being nice?

    • @bulldozer3582
      @bulldozer3582 Před rokem

      Kick him quick

    • @ja_353
      @ja_353 Před 8 měsíci

      Show him the door

  • @meghavrm42
    @meghavrm42 Před 5 lety +31

    I also got rejected today. According to him I'm not the one he wants for himself. I want him to realize my importance.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane Před 2 lety +4

      I know this is old but did anything ever happen with that guy?

    • @bulldozer3582
      @bulldozer3582 Před rokem

      ​@@MySweetAriane she beat up the guy after that when that guy came running into her

    • @ja_353
      @ja_353 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@kenyagirlysame goes to you if a guy rejects a girl and if the girl beats him will you defend her would you ??

  • @DawoSida
    @DawoSida Před 4 lety +14

    Just got friend zoned 🥺🥺🥺 by my dream girl

  • @zapzapzoumi3501
    @zapzapzoumi3501 Před 4 lety +51

    Once you become succesful, they will come back even though they are married. They will get a divorce just to be with you because of the money

  • @DeanRendar
    @DeanRendar Před 5 lety +4

    This was such an abstract idea in my head about identity and form I just had to ask it and this was result number one. Yet the message is obvious I know nowthat I am not the exception.

  • @crxckhexd5199
    @crxckhexd5199 Před 2 lety +9

    Ye, it happened to me few times with the same dude. Guy who was playing me on repeat in middle school came back with his dirty a$$ shoes into my life again, to be specific after 6 years without having contact just to crush anything that I've been working on and when I finally get my $hit together. Funny thing he occurs everytime I show no attention and when he can see me glow. This time I won't let him play me, I actually rejected him with flair. Sooo..To sum up, don't worry If someone didn't like you back, prolly they gonna try to get you back after some time and then they gonna taste their own medicine. However don't expect it, focus on yourself and be happy without them 'cause people who treat others like toys ain't worth $hit, especially your precious time and positive energy. Period 💁🏽‍♀️✨

  • @MarkieMcG.
    @MarkieMcG. Před rokem +13

    I rejected a man because his level of interest was almost non-existent. He barely calls, barely texts, finally asked me out but I just couldn't go. I let him down softly and left the door open for when/if he ever gets a clue though. Sucks because I REALLY did like him. Could've been something worth while, but alas... Not meant to be, at least for now. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @covers2343
    @covers2343 Před rokem +10

    I'm inlove with this guy and got rejected " I'm sorry I only see you as a friend" , it hurts so much but because he rejected me I love him even more and I hate that I love him
    Update: I stopped talking to this guy and actually moved altogether. I met this nice guy and we are actually dating. I realize the other guy was full of red flags so I'm kinda glad he rejected me.

  • @LivingToLiveAgain3055
    @LivingToLiveAgain3055 Před rokem +1

    I just believe if I get rejected, I’m not important enough for you! Which is fine! 👌🏽

  • @becker2278
    @becker2278 Před 6 lety

    Excellent advise, sir. 👍

  • @fernandosalas8589
    @fernandosalas8589 Před 3 lety +5

    I have friend that had a heart of steel he loved some girl and she wouldn't want to be with him. But he kept telling me I'm going to get her it took a while and guess what he's married to that girl he chased for a long time. I even tried to tell him to move on I think no one has the right to tell someone to move on because it's very difficult. Let that person persist until they get worned out. Even in real life if you get rejected keep at it keep asking for that job or business don't let people tell you move on me bold stick with it.

    • @alexanderolkhovskiy8272
      @alexanderolkhovskiy8272 Před 2 lety +2

      Is their marriage successful? Are they happy? I am really serious about one girl and usually I wouldn’t persist. I got rejected by her, and I’m not trying to be forceful but still making effort to show her what I am about. I think the main issue is because she is a bit younger and it’s difficult for her to communicate as she admitted she never had serious relationship talk even.

    • @fernandosalas8589
      @fernandosalas8589 Před 2 lety +2

      @@alexanderolkhovskiy8272 yes they're happily married he sends me pictures. Use the law of assumption believe she's your girlfriend now. Keep imagining she's yours stay constant. Bit don't bother her anymore you'll make it worst. Just believe she's with you now.

    • @alexanderolkhovskiy8272
      @alexanderolkhovskiy8272 Před 2 lety +1

      @@fernandosalas8589 wow, amazing. It’s not my first time being rejected but now I am quite certain that I would want to stay with her until we leave here. Yes, I’m not pushing anything right now, just message her occasionally.

    • @fernandosalas8589
      @fernandosalas8589 Před 2 lety +2

      @@alexanderolkhovskiy8272 yea just be cool. Don't be chasing it will turn her off don't look desperate. Believe she's your girlfriend now but don't be all over her.

  • @suleymannsulo3217
    @suleymannsulo3217 Před 3 lety +1

    That happens a lot of time but don’t focus on that.

  • @TheBonniedee816
    @TheBonniedee816 Před 7 lety +101

    You need to move on with your life 😂😂😂🤣🤣 just found this channel, and I'm dying here. You are funny 😂

    • @brycecarr8262
      @brycecarr8262 Před 6 lety +4

      Tech Geek:don't move on resign, moveing on is giving up and showing the person you never wanted them in the first place.

    • @Mzalendo2295
      @Mzalendo2295 Před 3 lety +1

      What he said is the real truth. Move on with life. It may seem not easy in the begin but with time things gets better.

  • @johnharris2213
    @johnharris2213 Před 3 lety +1

    I receive it! Thanks!

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva Před 2 lety +25

    It could just be that the person is just not ready for a relationship and serious emotional issues and commitment-phobia due to their fears and experiences. But it's still unacceptable. There's never right person, wrong time imo.

    • @robinxraven4245
      @robinxraven4245 Před rokem +1

      well miss i agree with most of the stuff u said regarding women when it comes getting their shit together regarding to some reasons they reject guys however i slightly disagree with what you said on the last part saying it’s still unacceptable. on most parts imo some women don’t really mean to reject you maliciously if they did that’s a sign that u need to move on completely from her but if she isn’t that’s when u see she’s going through a lot of things in her life and not wanna be in or involved in a relationship

    • @laurag2704
      @laurag2704 Před rokem +1

      BS, they say they are not ready because emotional issues,self love, commitment issues all of that is BS because after they reject you, in a few weeks or months they are in a situationship, stuff like that doesn't just change that quickly. The person rejected you because they did not like you and you were not their type. That is the main and only reason.

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Před 11 měsíci +1

    I think so. I got rejected by someone but it was under unusual circumstances and maybe I rushed her into making a decision. A few years later we're still in touch. I see her on a deeper level and I think we have a mutual connection. I haven't asked her out again yet but I think she may say yes if it's under less stressful circumstances with me not coming on so strong.

  • @RteeAlvarez
    @RteeAlvarez Před rokem

    I rejected someone out of fear despite I like him but still think of him til this day

  • @dixoncider1526
    @dixoncider1526 Před 4 lety +4

    I got rejected by my crush , I have kept my distance and she has booked 2 shifts that I'm on . Could just be 1 big coincidence that she wanted to work 2 days in the row on the same shift when she could have chosen other more interesting shifts 🤔.
    We shall see

  • @Daniel-br1fn
    @Daniel-br1fn Před 3 lety +8

    Just got rejected today. It was my first time i was in love with her for like an year and then when i got enough courage to ask her on a date i got rejected idk why but my mind wants me to text her but i know it will only make it worst i dont blame her for not loving me a person cannot choose who they love but i still feel sad and idk when will i fall in love for the second time but my first love history has ended ik i must forget and live my life thinking that ill get a girlfriend who will love me as much as i will love her but today atleast i cant ty if you read this

    • @ja_353
      @ja_353 Před rokem

      Good job you are a brave warrior 💪

  • @dennisbot4567
    @dennisbot4567 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you sir

  • @mig2cool982
    @mig2cool982 Před 5 lety +2

    Hey got rejected March 6th two months later here I am. I hung out with the girl that rejected me to catch up and see how things were. I invited her to dinner and we went to Walmart. She wasn’t talking to me about other guys which was respectful of her. Someone please help give me some tips and tricks that are new to her that I would have not already shown her whether it’d be body language, touch, words etc.. Go!!

  • @moonstar1431
    @moonstar1431 Před 5 lety +7

    Got rejected last week 👊🤪 😭😭

  • @samirayusif4496
    @samirayusif4496 Před 5 lety +3

    IF the person is indecisive

  • @RosalindGraysurreal
    @RosalindGraysurreal Před 7 lety +5

    Makes sense

  • @becker2278
    @becker2278 Před 6 lety +39

    It's happening to me, sort of. We belong to t same social circle (church. ) she turned me down. But now, after i have been ignoring her for some time, and after me being friendlier w other ladies, she is always (many times) looking at me when I am not looking at her, and then when i have noticed her looking at me, she turns her head quickly and looks away. It has been happening many, many times
    What does it mean??? Help me, please! 🤔😥

    • @prateektigga4231
      @prateektigga4231 Před 6 lety +44

      She is wondering "what if she had said yes?". Let her make the approach this time and choose whether to say yes or no based on your feelings. Do not go after her again, have some self respect. Good luck.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety +9

      prateek tigga 👍 I thank you very sin cerely for your comment and your help. I needed this kind of support.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety +2

      Free yourself not really

    • @imawarawara
      @imawarawara Před 6 lety

      daco same

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety +1

      Free yourself sometimes. But just the normal pattern. ?????

  • @mysticjen379
    @mysticjen379 Před rokem +2

    I rejected a man I really liked when I found out he was married. I don’t think he was being nefarious - I genuinely think he’s a nice guy - but he just didn’t want to tell me for whatever reason. Hurts, but what can I do? 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @bettycooper9383
    @bettycooper9383 Před 5 lety +3

    I pray that he'll come around to me,,, Tried moving on but it's really hard,,, Especially when he keep staying in contact with me

  • @yourformalpresidentobama4347

    I Will just move on

  • @maritzadiaz984
    @maritzadiaz984 Před 7 lety +11

    you are sooo kool

  • @honestfella836
    @honestfella836 Před 4 lety

    First situation done.... thanks 😂

  • @eisaeraan
    @eisaeraan Před 5 lety +1

    Welp I feel happy when he is around tho lol he does look at me a lot but I try not to make eye contact cuz I’m the most shy and anti social chald everr

  • @grandoldsoul4691
    @grandoldsoul4691 Před 6 lety +4

    the more i learn about the female brain the more i am fascinated

  • @eml3077
    @eml3077 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @kenchino0161
    @kenchino0161 Před rokem

    The girl doesn’t have to be in your circle for there to be a chance…

  • @itsme6050
    @itsme6050 Před 2 lety +1

    I am the king of rejection . I might call Webster and ask them to put my pic underneath the word (reject )

  • @mohamedbenanasbaghour
    @mohamedbenanasbaghour Před 5 lety

    👌👍thx pro !

  • @wilkinstokarev5705
    @wilkinstokarev5705 Před rokem

    I got rejected by girls three times this year nah miss right will come to me i don't need neither one of them.

  • @taraswertelecki9886
    @taraswertelecki9886 Před 2 lety

    Sure, but most men will assume that is not to be.

  • @Jkl306
    @Jkl306 Před 3 lety +3

    Yeah i dont give chances to a man thats played games w me.

  • @bebychange1394
    @bebychange1394 Před 3 lety +5

    I got rejected before even start 🤣

  • @lydia_d505
    @lydia_d505 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I got rejected by my male best friend, but I still have romantic feelings for him and I don’t know what to do. It’s not like I can turn off my feelings and I don’t want to lose him.

    • @Daniplaysrh
      @Daniplaysrh Před 9 měsíci +1

      I know, it’s rough. I was rejected by one of my male friends as well. I never thought I’d get over it but eventually I did. The feelings just switched. Focus on yourself, your amazing and lovely. You will find someone for you!

  • @verogarcia9089
    @verogarcia9089 Před 5 lety

    u right man

  • @jacewoods1680
    @jacewoods1680 Před rokem

    I got rejected yesterday by a girl I really love😭😭😭

  • @mixedbby-tv
    @mixedbby-tv Před 5 lety

    Thanks

  • @Angellady11
    @Angellady11 Před 4 lety +4

    I don’t give second chances

    • @bulldozer3582
      @bulldozer3582 Před rokem

      1 time rejection is ok give them a second chance but after being rejected 2nd time by the same person don't ever give them any chances

  • @Sb-ib9cv
    @Sb-ib9cv Před rokem

    I’m in the same situation known this girl from uni who would always ask to see me n I didn’t even like her that much at that time but recently I’ve found myself thinking about her all the time and I can’t tell if she still likes me the same way. I saw her at the club the other day cause she came up behind me and grabbed my arm and said about meeting up soon now she just ignored me

  • @faezahjumahat4196
    @faezahjumahat4196 Před 3 lety

    Hi Good Nights From Singapore! Yes I Totally Agreed With You! Can A Male Friend Be More Than Just A Friend Or Develops Feelings to A Woman They Like What They Sees?

  • @mixck
    @mixck Před 4 lety +10

    I got rejected by a woman that I really like, who said that she could not date me because she had just started dating another guy and she did not want to hurt his feelings. I responded with "Alright. I understand". What do you guys think? Is there a posibility still or is it all done? Did I respond well?

    • @nikkicas260
      @nikkicas260 Před 3 lety +9

      It’s done, usually girls and guys make up a lie “I have a boy/girl friend” to let you down easily. It’s more polite to say then being straightforward and telling someone you aren’t attractive or flat out no. Just move on and improve yourself others will come around

  • @luigivg5838
    @luigivg5838 Před 3 lety +6

    I met a girl last month who started out as being interested and we hung out a couple times and half kissed once (she was quite inexperienced with relationships) but then last week she rejected me but she still likes to hang out with me and talk to me, she reaches out to me sometimes and I find her group of friends to be totally cool and hung out with them, I still feel kind of attracted (I wouldn't say that passionately) but it sucks that even though she is friendly and jokes around me we can't have more than that, so I'm undecided whether I should keep on hanging out with her, my doubt is that if I tell her that I'm still sort of interested and ready to move on her group of friends might distance from me as well, and it would be kind of sad

    • @Bosswigger42
      @Bosswigger42 Před 3 lety

      Friends mean NOTHING. If she’s not putting out then she’s a worthless npc to you. As far as I know we only have one life so stop wasting the fleeting time you have on bullshit and go find another female that’s gonna let you fuck, there are plenty out there for everyone. If you distance yourself from those people they wouldn’t give 2 fucks so why should you? What you gonna do once you deep in the friend zone and she gets a boyfriend will you sit there and watch them kiss?? Do you think she’d give a fuck how you felt watching it? NO NIGGA. I’m gonna guess you’re under 20 and if so I know very well the fairytale you live in. If the message I send to you doesn’t help you deal with your situation then in time you’ll figure it out yourself and that’s ok.

    • @luigivg5838
      @luigivg5838 Před 3 lety

      @@Bosswigger42 Actually I'm 20, you might have misunderstood what I'm talking about

  • @ryanyu8320
    @ryanyu8320 Před 6 lety

    I’m like sure she likes me, but her friends don’t like me. She’s rather shy, so she might not want to talk about it with me. Ps sry for the late comment

  • @alexandriaveranacevedoarag8142

    What does it mean when a guy friendzones you and continues to call you up all the time and asks if you're dating anyone?!

    • @raheemcamal998
      @raheemcamal998 Před 6 lety +1

      Alexandria Acevedo Aragon are you sure he friend zoned you

    • @sunvavachi
      @sunvavachi Před 6 lety +1

      He's interested maybe

    • @samirayusif4496
      @samirayusif4496 Před 5 lety +17

      He wants u as friend with benefits

    • @karenmkindaro9764
      @karenmkindaro9764 Před 2 lety +2

      Friends with Benefit for sure! He always checks if I'm dating anyone. He goes out on dates with other girls but never ask me out so I put an end to that toxic friendship/relationship.

  • @alexlaurencastillo
    @alexlaurencastillo Před rokem

    Yeah I liked them later later on lol but we were friends and they rejected me

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml Před 5 lety

    This is the very first video that given hope. Even if there’s a small chance

    • @Rebeccaluna696
      @Rebeccaluna696 Před 5 lety +5

      Just move on beleive me

    • @sirbedivere5670
      @sirbedivere5670 Před 5 lety +4

      Dude, I have been in your position and there's only one advice I can give you: Implement No Contact and move on, like forever move on. That small chance exists, but what makes you think you belong to that small percentage?

  • @DesignGurl
    @DesignGurl Před 6 lety

    I can't move on until he actually rejected me, I gave my crush my phone number, and he hasn't text or call me its almost 2 week, I actually start to ignore his present, we don't work at the same outlet...

    • @Louiesavage
      @Louiesavage Před 5 lety

      So what happened? Did y’all ever hook up?

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před rokem

    Honestly, it’s up to the one who was dumped and who is the dumper. If the dumper develops feelings, they don’t have to go back. They can focus on healing and moving on and improving themselves. Likewise the same goes for the dumpee, if someone did come back. They don’t have to accept them back, even if they mutually love, desire, and want to marry the other. In the case of divorce though, that is far far far worse. As God put it wisely - "For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, for it covers one's garment with violence," says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." (Malachi 2:16)
    God hates divorce. It is treachery to divorce one's spouse (Malachi 2:13-16), as Jeremiah 3:20 illustrates.
    "Surely, as a wife treacherously departs from her husband, so have you dealt treacherously with Me, O house of Israel," says the Lord. (Jeremiah 3:20)
    God calls it treachery and violence. Why? To begin with, it rips apart flesh.
    But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. (Mark 10:6-8)
    Marriage creates a union between a male and a female so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. When divorce hits, it violently rips this union apart, a union that is designed to die only when one of the partners dies (e.g. Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:39).
    Moreover, divorce does violence to the vow before God, that is, the marriage commitment (see Proverbs 31:2, "son of my vows"; Malachi 2:14, "wife by covenant"). Marriage is a commitment for life (Genesis 2:24; Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:39), and when the spouses are still alive, yet divorced, the commitment has been violated; and the person who divorced their spouse is manifested to be both unfaithful and hateful (Titus 3:3).
    Moreover, if one is married to an unbeliever who is unwilling to live with them and then who departs, the unbeliever is the one to blame for the divorce. The unbeliever is the one who has separated what God had joined together (Matthew 19:6) by refusing to live with their spouse and they will be held accountable for it.
    Finally, divorce typically leads to adultery, as Christ said, "whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery" (Matthew 5:32). Jesus does not say, "If sexual immorality is committed, it is OK in the sight of God to divorce your spouse for such an act," or anything like this. Jesus addresses the issue of adultery, and how this is being committed in divorce and remarriage. He does not address when it is right, or OK, in the sight of God to divorce your spouse. He answered this issue earlier in verse 6 with, "what God has joined together, let not man separate" (Matthew 19:6). In other words, it is not right in the sight of God to divorce your spouse. The command from Christ is basically, "Do not get a divorce." Any man (or woman) who separates a marriage is going directly against the words of Christ (Mark 10:9).
    In conclusion, divorce covers one's garments with violence (Malachi 2:16) and how it is treacherous (Malachi 2:14-16; Jeremiah 3:20). Yet, for some, it would seem that divorce is almost a virtue or reward. The practice of divorce is quite common today both in the secular world and the realm that falsely calls itself Christian. Whether it's a secular divorce or a "Christian" divorce, Psalm 119:158 well describes a godly perspective on the matter.
    I see the treacherous, and am disgusted, because they do not keep Your word. (Psalm 119:158)

  • @NihaalC-lh7zy
    @NihaalC-lh7zy Před 2 měsíci

    What about when a guy rejects a girl? What makes him think about her again?

  • @panicatthehoetown8440
    @panicatthehoetown8440 Před 6 lety

    Would of he regected you and he starts to like you and want something more.

  • @notorioustia
    @notorioustia Před 6 lety +26

    What if you work together?

    • @Despoina-jk2bp
      @Despoina-jk2bp Před 4 lety +1

      notorioustia avoid him like the plague

    • @arc-1709
      @arc-1709 Před 4 lety +1

      Don’t eat where you shit

  • @stonesfan285
    @stonesfan285 Před 2 měsíci

    Nope. Reject me once I will move on.

  • @fabioalvesshow
    @fabioalvesshow Před 3 měsíci

    When they get fat, childs, divorce then maybe she go after you

  • @njokalizzy1662
    @njokalizzy1662 Před 4 lety +1

    Or maybe am over reacting 🤔

  • @juangusto6117
    @juangusto6117 Před 4 lety +5

    I have been rejected by girls my whole life. Its. True. It hurts. But. Once. You get. Use. To. It. It. Doesn hurt. Anymore. Puro. Pa lante. Cabrones.

  • @user-uu7tb7oj9i
    @user-uu7tb7oj9i Před 7 lety +2

    Hey @datinglogic I bumped into a guy who outta a sudden started ignoring me because of something I did... he did not reply my text and all... but I met him in a hookah lounge. We were there for about five hours and we did not talk. Is there any reason why he did not walk up to me?? 😩

    • @sabsays4091
      @sabsays4091 Před 7 lety +3

      Pandora,s BOX
      Because of what you did.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety

      D'Real Pandora something like that happened to me with a girl i liked a lot! She hurt me very deeply. Now, after some time-- a year-- we're in good terms again. Therefore, check in -- honestly -- in your conscience and ask yourself if you ever offended or hurt him. GBY.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 Před 6 lety +1

      Sabrina Sainte i agree w you. But the problem is that we don't know exactly what she did to him. Or what happened between them. ???

  • @zion4183
    @zion4183 Před 7 lety

    The tEoh

  • @katerinaberhami3770
    @katerinaberhami3770 Před 2 lety +4

    If he rejected you cause your a virgin and said he doesn’t want to hurt you cause he might use you… does this count

  • @jerryholbrook13
    @jerryholbrook13 Před 4 lety

    She agreed to date and exchange numbers. She's my neighbor. So I approached with my number a few days later after our first conversation. Anyway I approached her with my number she then said I don't want to talk to anyone now its not you jerry honestly its not you. She doesn't get much sleep her neighbors are very noisy she works six days a week in logistics and very stressful job. I literally did nothing negitive to her. I think I may have dodged a bullet or headache in my view. Anyhow what do you all think?

    • @adrianchico8886
      @adrianchico8886 Před 2 lety +1

      You didn’t do anything wrong bro it’s HER you did everything you can and that’s all you can do

  • @michaelkemp26
    @michaelkemp26 Před 2 lety

    Ok I have question this girl always separate herself from the crowd and I see her staring at me from a distance but she is always on the phone talking through her earbuds But she has her entire body facing me It’s been happening for a few weeks but today I try to walk up to her and she turned her back on me so I just walked past her but she keeps staring and I never stare at her I glance her way and she just keep staring what do you think about that?

    • @fr_625
      @fr_625 Před rokem

      It means nothing just move on

  • @michaelsalazar8505
    @michaelsalazar8505 Před 3 lety +1

    move on !

  • @illmeeillmee9373
    @illmeeillmee9373 Před 3 lety +1

    this is wrong. Im female, and the amount of women in a man's circle has nothing to do with if I want him back. I never want any guy back, if I rejected...I HAVE A DAMN REASON! Im not one of those "Grass is greener" pieces of trash who reject good ppl just because I think I can find "better". PPl come back when they realize the grass isnt greener and the dating world is tough on everyone! Good looking,rich, famous,etc!!! all ppl have a hard time! Ppl run from a good thing only to find themselves in horrible situations and missing what good they had! many ppl on their death bed according to staff regret in LOVE! not in career or anything else..IN LOVE! also, ppl usually come back more then not so I dunno what he's talking about!!! not that you should dwell on this! and the chance of someone coming back doesnt depend on whether theyre in your physical social circle!

  • @squdache_5108
    @squdache_5108 Před rokem

    So there was this guy and we go to school together. I wrote a note to him saying that I thought he was very good looking and I wanted to get to know him better and he showed the popular girls and they made fun of me and he rejected me bc he is talking to another girl. What do you think?

    • @jhimpcaca5718
      @jhimpcaca5718 Před rokem +1

      Never approach or make the 1st move for a guy............it will only make u a fool or desperate....................there's a reason he's not talking to u........he already have a girl.........

  • @salinarai203
    @salinarai203 Před 3 lety

    I got rejected and he told me to not to wait him but he tell me he we are best friend when I was try to leave him so there are Chance we can be together in future. Can any told me about it

    • @gouthamkumarg2153
      @gouthamkumarg2153 Před 2 lety

      Hey ma'am see maybe he likes someone else....so yaa least chances...i had the se situation where i liked her but has feelings for someone else...told the same thing to not wait.

  • @aa-jm7js
    @aa-jm7js Před 6 lety +2

    🤔 So, is he's saying to the guy to hang out with more women, and to make sure that she notices that? Then, if she comes around tell her you're not interested in her anymore because you have built yourself a harem of multiple women instead of having just one of her?

    • @denzel9455
      @denzel9455 Před 5 lety

      Nah most of the time when y'all reject us it's for multiple reasons, let's say we do the same sport and train in the same gym even at that point it's for multiple reasons, but let's say the other females from the gym and from the sport are openly talking to the guy. I can tell you that the girl who rejected him will hate that deep down inside and will always try to talk again with him or try to interrupt all of the conversations he has like nothing happened, i'm totally against doing things on purpose to get back to a person. But if it happens like i was saying there is not much you can do about that.

  • @cicikizable
    @cicikizable Před 5 lety

    So true 💋

  • @paulgeorge8746
    @paulgeorge8746 Před 5 lety

    I ask a lady co worker at my job for her number and she said "my boyfriend wouldn't like that" but 2 months later she's now liking my pictures on Instagram, and sitting at my table in the break room at work. I found this weird. Come to find out her and her boyfriend broke up. Should I ask her out again? I don't want to get rejected twice. Or should I wait until she steps up and ask for my number?

    • @benlacson9117
      @benlacson9117 Před 5 lety +4

      I say get to know her first and start from bottom to top. Becareful she might use you as rebound. But it’s up to you your choice.

    • @Despoina-jk2bp
      @Despoina-jk2bp Před 4 lety +1

      Attention seeker lol

  • @miroslavpetrov3006
    @miroslavpetrov3006 Před 2 lety

    I got rejected by the girl I love, it hurts, I moved on, now she is coming and likes me, GTFO low value girl.

  • @bb8219
    @bb8219 Před 5 lety

    1K like

  • @njokalizzy1662
    @njokalizzy1662 Před 4 lety

    I fell for someone at work n had to tell him but he told me not possible but liked our friendship. We were good as friends after that. But weeks later he visited me n about leaving he kissed me passionately. Since then,I can't get him off ma mind n wat I felt for him has grown I can't really hold it. Though I control it but seriously I still got attracted to him. Pls wat does he really want? Can it be that he's falling for ne now or just wanna play a fast one on me🤔

    • @Nehaa18
      @Nehaa18 Před 4 lety

      njoka lizzy How is your relationship these days?

  • @gabez8
    @gabez8 Před 6 lety

    so basically i need to make a girl jealous to want me back after rejecting me?

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan

    Very very very bad apartment with only two chairs , and not very well designed

  • @realmaninca
    @realmaninca Před 5 lety

    Not very insightful, I hope you have another line of work.

  • @ShitpostShuster
    @ShitpostShuster Před rokem

    So heres the situation for me
    Met a cute guy on instagram, we talked a bit.
    after a few days of little messaging i asked him out and he said no.
    HOWEVER
    about a week after that , we started talking more and more on instagram, about like an hour and a half a day.
    he said he's glad he met me, and that im a super funny guy,
    and in general we talk a lot now and i dont know what to do now.
    should i ask him out again? should i wait and then ask him out? should i wait for him to ask me out?

    • @ja_353
      @ja_353 Před 8 měsíci

      Do you think he is only talking to you or is interested only in you if the guy is cute or handsome he might be having many options or is talking to many girls