ANSWERING Questions You CAN’T Ask Trans People... (Male to Female Transgender Transition)
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- ANSWERING The Questions You CAN’T Ask Trans People... (Male to Female Transgender Transition)
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I’m sure you can imagine some of the ridiculous questions I get on the daily.. most of the time I won’t even entertain these invasive questions, but that’s what today’s video is all about- answering the questions you WANT to ask, but CAN’T.
There’s also “Why don’t you look trans?”
Because that’s the point
periodd
Ikr and she's really cute
and "ur so pretty, for a trans person"
if i didn’t know samantha was trans, i wouldn’t even guess she was trans. her makeup slays
witchycatbean y e s
The transition to the sponsorship add was literally as smooth as your hair.
I don’t think it was sponsored lol
Gabriela Chang Ping-Nions yes there was lol
Gabriela Chang Ping-Nions it was so smooth you didn't even notice it
Ikr
The,,, *t-transition*
I have a trans boyfriend and I knew him before he started his transition and i dated him before he came out, and since he came out, I've basically been watching channels like this and reading up on what I can do to make everything easier, more comfortable, and less dysphoric for him, so thanks for shedding some much needed light.
Edit: people are praising me for being an amazing partner. I'm not. I'm being a decent person and accepting my boyfriend for who he always was. I may have fallen in love with someone who I thought was female, but it wasn't the body parts I fell in love with. It was him I fell in love with.
Same one of my friends is trans I love her she’s the best I actually found this channel when I was trying to figure out what was going on when she transitioned
Honestly, I just want to be prepared in case one of my future children comes out as being transgender some day. For example, if I have a little girl who one day realizes that she's actually a boy trapped in a girl's body, in my eyes she'll still be my little girl while I'm adjusting to the transition, but I'll still support her and help her be the boy she is trying to be on the outside. I don't want to make any mistakes if any of my future children come out to me as being transgender, and I know I've probably made some mistakes with a friend who might be transgender. He might also like dressing up in drag, but he's not entirely sure himself since he hasn't even come out to his family about it yet.
He is lucky to have such sweet and supportive girlfriend! This is wholesome 😍
@@nerinablais6623 god your kids are lucky. The world needs more people like you. I wish you well.
@@wormonstring5381 I don't have any kids yet, but someday I will. No matter where my future kids fall in the LGBT+ community, I want them to know that they're still loved by me. Even if they're just straight allies, I'll still love them. I feel bad for everyone in the LGBT+ community who has been disowned by their families because of their sexual orientation and/or their gender identities, and you're right, the world does need more people like me. If more people were more open-minded and more willing to love their children unconditionally then the world would be a better place.
Her voice is actually nice in my opinion. Kind of raspy like Sophia Bush
Omg yessss I can totally hear it now
Sophia Bush is EXACTLY who i thought she sounded like!
Right though? I love her voice
Ya, I like her voice, its really pretty.
Yeah I love her voice too
I’m adopted and people always ask me what my “real name” is and I’m like “it’s Mia” and they’re like “yea but what was it before?” And my adoption in general is very emotional for me to think about let alone talk about because it just reminds me that I may never see my birth family again and idk if they’re even alive and that’s just a lot to be asked and I don’t like it at all. My real name is Mia and it doesn’t really matter what my birth name was because it’s the only thing my birth mom could give me and it’s now my middle name and it’s just a very personal thing that has a lot of emotions tied to it. The only person who has ever called me it is my birth mom and so that is the only person that I would allow to call me that. I know it’s not the same thing as transitioning and choosing your new name or anything but I get it in the sense that the name we have now IS our real name and I know people r just curious because they want to understand and it’s not to be mean but something so personal that is attached to trauma shouldn’t just be asked by strangers.
I have controversial opinions, but the "real name" thing sounds dumb. People change their name all the time. I understand wondering what their "old name" is or something, but "real name" comes off as denying who they are. Like that Sense8 mom who wanted to force her into detransition and call her by her birth name. Force isn't gonna do any good for anybody. Everything has to be a personal choice.
I was adopted too! I’ve never met my birth parents before, I was put into and “orphanage” ig? Almost right after I was born and I stayed there for about a year and a half until I was adopted. No one would’ve guessed I was adopted until you compared me to my parents. I’m Asian, while both my parents are Caucasian. I kind of understand where your coming from, it’s just not that emotional, more so uncomfortable considering I never had much of an emotional attachment to my brith parents. A lot of the time when I meet new people and tell them that I’m adopted they’d ask things like, “Oh, what’s it like being adopted?” And I *really* don’t understand the point in that question? Its the same as if my adoptive parents gave birth to me. They took care of me for 14 years, possibly even better than my birth parents ever could have.The only difference is that we’re not tied by blood. It may be different for you though, since you’ve met your birth parents?
I freakin.c.c.brndndnsn I KNOW it's like, the past is the past and the past isn't the present so why do you care and it's none of yo dang buisness.. anyways I'm so sorry for what you've gone through but I'm sure that things will get better for you mwah you're loved
Ok
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I think you forgot the classic, "Do you ever regret transitioning?" line
@Blood yeah, i think most people who detransition are the "transtrenders" who do it for attention.
its extremely rare for real trans people to detransition unless they decide they are genderfluid.
also, because of the "transtrenders" more people are looking down on us, especially after trisha paytas and stuff.
Trivekz detransitioners arent trenders. they just got a bit confused and it doesn’t happen much at all. a lot of detransitioners suffered with sexual abuse and confused the disgust with their body for disgust for their gender
I would like this comment but it’s at 69 and I’m not dumb enough to ruin that lol
@@ronan1686 actually a significant portion of detransitioners do so because of a hostile/unaccepting environment. Some trans people end up not feeling better, not because they aren't trans, but because dysphoria is easier to deal with than constant abuse. For some people in some places it's not safe to be trans.
@Zdub 23 Do you have any kind of source to back this up?
GIRL literally the first thing I thought when the video came on was “aww her voice sounds so cute” I never comment but since you said you hate your voice I thought I’d share 😂
Her voice is so special
i think so too ☺️ i love girls with raspy voices lol
i know right i love it :)
Fr it's so nice 🥺
I agree! Her voice is so cute 🥺
I met a beuatiful trans woman on a dating app and we already talk everyday on the phone and videochat. We both can't wait to meet in person when the lockdown ends for me. When getting to know her I did politely ask her some of the questions because I want to get to know her since we are potentially going to be in a relationship, but i would not ask those questions to a random trans woman that i dont know, because i know its rude. She is 100% feminine and i love her and I she has a kind personaility and i feel like she apperciates me more than a born woman.
It’s good to seeing a cis male saying the things that you’re saying about a trans woman. It’s sad that people like you in this society is looked down upon and bullied because of their preferences that isn’t hurting ANYONE . Glad you’re different , trans women ARE WOMEN and deserves to be loved and treated like the queens they are ❤️
Michael I’m trans and I disagree with Samantha on this. It’s okay to ask someone about these things if you’re going to date them. As the person’s partner or potential partner you have a right to know what the person’s genitals are, or whether they’re planning to get bottom surgery. The reason nobody has to ask a cis person those questions is because what’s down there is obvious, but for trans people it’s not obvious, so it’s okay to ask. I think it’s important to ask them respectfully, but there’s nothing inherently wrong with it, especially when you’re going to be intimate with this person.
Jibri Trawick yeah it kind of depends on the context, and how you bring it up? Like if you just meet somebody on the street and that’s the first thing I ask that’s a little disrespectful, but it’s different if y’all are talking or flirting or something
Why can't you appreciate a trans woman WITHOUT making negative assumptions about bio women. There's no reason to compare them just appreciate what you have and be happy😊
So very romantic ❤️
it’s called a dead name for a reason, people need to STOP ASKING WHAT IT WAS bc it doesn’t matter
its sooo disrespectful. I'm not trans and i cant speak on something i dont know about and have no experience but I will never EVER ask for a dead name.
Idea: Opt out from answering?
may i ask why ? like why does it hurt trans ppl so much to evocate their dead name ? no offense, i'm just confused, i hope you don't take it wrong it's not my intention :)
@@morinette8162 i can’t speak for the trans community’s experiences bc i’m cisgender but i’ve been told that it’s just disrespectful bc that name never fully fit who they are. being called or talking about their dead & gendered name like “michael” or “emily” would make someone whose name now fits their gender identity uncomfortable as it never felt correct to them. this is all according to what i’ve been told and seen on social media and by people i know who are trans. (again, i can’t speak for the trans community as a whole but i’m trying to explain it from what i’ve been told i could be wrong!)
@@keeks9751 ok ty for your answer, it helps :)
I don't understand people who don't know someone is trans but when they find out and start misgendeing them etc and say "I'm sorry it hard to get used too" like tf do you mean you were fine before finding out.
Well as someone who had a trans Bestfriend, I didn’t know he was trans and once I found out I couldn’t forget that information but I never actually called him by an incorrect pronoun. I think it’s more of an issue when others call them he or she because they forget their actual selves?
@@shorthaircats6368 i guess so but my dad called my sister friend by the right pronouns till he found out. My sister kept correcting him he got upset "saying it was too hard"
Omg is EXACTLY what u mean. I’m FTM and I had this ‘friend’ he didn’t know me before I transitioned. By the Time he knew me everyone around us was calling me a guy but the moment he found out I was trans he ‘accidentally’ started calling me she. Unfortunately this has actually happened a few times it sucks. It’s a clear sign that the person is uncomfortable with u being transgender and disaprove in a way. Helps me tho cuz it lets me know who to give the boot.
There is this girl- Omg at my school SHE CONSTANTLY DEAD NAMES AND MISGENDERS- and I stg I- she uh *no* I swear
What I dont understand is the trans people who don't take the time and effort into being who they are. They say they are a she or he but they dont dress or present themselves in that way and then get mis gendered and get mad even though they look male or female.
"Whats ur real name"
Did you mean "dead name"?
It is "dead name" but that's how these people phrase it, because they're probably asking so they can misgender you :/
Tendo64 fr, they really don't need to know??
@@Tendo641 Maybe it's because they'd rather call people by the name their parents gave them
@@brunusmagnus3976 *Maybe it's because they refuse to understand or respect why they abandoned the name in the first place, not caring how much it hurts them when it's used, because they're selfish, lack empathy, and think their disrespect for trans people justifies invalidating them in any way possible
FTFY.
They should ask "what was your original name"
There was a trans boy at my school and my brother and his friends were all in agreement that they would refer to him with female pronouns until he gets the surgery. I still referred to him as a guy and called him by Marco since that's what he wanted but this was still before I really knew anything about trans people and the things that they have or still go through in their lives and I feel horrible for never speaking up and trying to tell my brother and his friends that they were being disrespectful.
creamy soup what assholes. my brother does the same too, keeps referring to my friend with she/her pronouns 💀
@@-rin2836 kick his ass, being transphobic in 2020 is like thinking the earth is flat
I hope your brother and his friends gets well soon💕
Yeah no that brother and his friends need actual help like he’s a HE gosh dang
@@tillysaway how so? the majority are transphobic.
I hate it SO SO much when my mom keeps asking about the dead names of some trans friends of mine, like I don't know it either and why would I? It's none of my or anyone's business really
Also when (mostly my mom) talks about "my past" Using my dead name and won't accept that I feel extremely uncomfortable with that!
I am not advising you to do this but I would ignore anyone who would use my dead name because it is disrespectful to do that is a person
Have you told her its hurtful for her to keep bringing it up?
@@Sophia-vk5bq yes
Mom needs to learn.
@@frocco7125 well that's hard when she's too stubborn to listen to anyone
She even refused to get me the right medication I got prescribed because of my depression (which both of my parents think is not real) and instead got something else completely
As someone who is starting MTF transition myself I have noticed a required tool is a handbag that's good for slapping. 😂
I'll let you in on a secret...You need a handbag with another handbag inside with ANOTHER handbag...it's a secret weapon.
Don't forget to put a half-brick in it.
Good luck Amelia.
@@wolf1066 I've been using a bowling ball, works well too
@@verymuchadisappointment168 How do you fit anything else in your handbag? Timelord technology? Mary Poppins' bag? Or the bag described in Paul Petersen's 1962 song _She Can't Find Her Keys_ ?
Obviously "don't ask people about their sex life" is my disclaimer but you would be amazed how many people think discussing genitalia is normal.
I'm generally not very comfortable talking about that stuff unless I'm dating said person which for most people is like a prerequisite to...y'know, doing the do so even having just friends ask me stuff like what I prefer or am into is like "why tf would you ask?"
The most innocent question I can think of is "If you haven't done it with a guy, how do you know you're bi?" which...uh...for the same reason a straight guy knows he likes women even if he's a virgin?
Even then, what do you want me to say, that I watched-ahem, videos on it?
There is no response that I can make here that does not make at least one of us uncomfortable!
@No Nope Call me crazy... But if you're not gonna date her, don't ask about her genitalia
No Nope That’s why they said it’s ok to ask if you’re dating that person. It’s NOT ok for strangers or even friends or family members to ask intrusive questions like that.
So accurate! I'm trans as well, and while I don't necessarily get offended when people ask these questions, it is kind of weird to ask. I answer them purely because if someone doesn't answer the questions of people who are trying to be informed how do we, as trans people, expect people to understand what we're going through? Like, the surgeries are scary and the results vary person to person. I think some people are curious so they look to trans people to inform them... which honestly, I give them credit for actually asking instead of assuming or just going through life ignorant about it. While the questions are weird, I try to make my answers not be about me or my specific thoughts and choices, but about trans people as a whole generically, because every trans person is different and that needs to be made clear.
Waaw, this was such an amazing explaination and this is so random but, I love yall! 💜 Trans people are the best.
@KStar If everyone went by your logic, no one would post answers online anyway because no trans person should need to answer these questions and just dismiss them off onto someone else, so there would be no answers there either. It would make it a closed secret and no one would even be able to empathize with the trans experience. Being dismissive only makes trans people out to be uncaring. If trans people expect respect and understanding, they need to be willing to explain their experience.
I mean, you're going to have these questions in your mind. And there is this process where you just want to understand it all to the best of your abilities. Sometimes to avoid mistakes, sometimes because it's something you just know so much less about and that makes it interesting on its own. It's great that there's all these video's on youtube. I can still learn more about the topic and I don't have to bother my trans friends with it too much. It honestly does help to put everything in more perspective and have more empathy for the situation in my experience :) In a weird way the whole JK Rowling also 'helped' with that, because it sort of highlighted the level of hate some people have. Like, seriously, I knew that some people are just cunts, but that it could be THAT BAD, and THAT persistent.. I honestly wouldn't have grasped the scale of that. It's completely weird to me to react that way. But I get the defensiveness some friends get much more now, because seriously, that's some heavy stuff.
You’re the prettiest girl on earth, even without makeup. Slay queen 😍❤️
You're so Beautiful and such an inspirational person 💜🤩
she's too pretty for this world
YASSSSS
S I M P
Debatable
I love that you posted this!!! I started my transition at around 19...I'm 48 now. I'm very open about being trans since I've worked in NYC nightlife since I was 17. The amount of inappropriate questions I've gotten over the years is mind blowing. Thank you for sharing this. I don't think most people realize how sexualized & fetishized we are, and how disparaging that can be. Hopefully it clues people into being mindful when their curiosity is piqued...and maybe just minding their own business! 🙏🏻♥️
you are gorgeous!!!
Uhhhg you’re perfect! 🧡🖤
The sexual partners I've had in my transition overwhelming lol. 315 in about two years. Lol very exhausting
No Nope bro google is right there you don’t have to be passive aggressive 😔
No Nope google is free luv ❤️
Baby girl your eyebrows are on fleek 😄😄😄😄
Mine arent
S I M P
@@thereelzeno54_ I feel you 😂
@@sleepyexe644 there's a difference between that and completenting someone
Hey Sam, I really like listening to your voice. It's raspy and gives of this calm vibe. You're a beautiful woman, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life with us. It must take a humungous courage to do so. But by doing so you are educating us into becoming more understanding human beings. Take care, love from Panama.
0/10 for the straightener i’m still gay
Omg I'm weeeak!!! Lmao
Wat does that have to do on asking trans-ppl dumb stupid questions? I don't get it
Ok meeeee
I love her “I think I showed it to some of my close friends when I was drunk” girl, I would never 😂👌
When u say trans comunity is being sexualized ,me : PERIOOOOOODDDDD is so annoying !
Sexualize noo we just want to know how the whole thing works its bizarre
Sexualized in secret and hated in the public 🥰🙄
@@_samanthalux they always gonna hate! U just keep living your best life ! Thanks to help ur comunity with this videos queen ♡
@@lilsamantha1 It's not bizzare:) if you actually looked it up, there was an entire institute on transgender studies, full of records of trans people and research and scientific analysis, in the 40's! The Nazis burned every last book.
We're not some new craze. We have existed throughout time- but there is a reason you think we're new. And it's not your fault
If you want to know more google the Hirschfield book burning
@@_samanthalux Yep. All the guys who say the rudest stuff to us trans women are low key the same guys that want to get with us. You always make such truthful videos girl! Stay safe and we love you Samantha! (You were one of the first trans youtubers I started watching when I started my journey)
The name you were born with is not your “real name”. It’s a dead name, a name that carried you through many years but doesn’t matter anymore. A name that you hate to be called. It isn’t your name. It’s not yours.
It’s called a dead name for a reason.
I was adopted so my last name changed
So whats your real name then?
@oscar
Their chosen name, whatever it may be. In the case of Samantha, it's Samantha, and what she used to be called doesn't matter.
Your so undersubbed . Your so informative and one of the trans youtubers doing good on your flatform . God bless you Samantha 💛
I think often the questions do not come from a bad place. I am thinking of closeted transgender kids who have nobody to ask and are scared. They are maybe these anonymous users online.
Just wanna say as a parent to a trans girl myself I love to see people like yourself making content that I can show my child in the future and say “see there’s people who are just like you. Visible, proud, intelligent, powerful.” Thanks!
Bruh she's beautiful wish I could look like that
@Oompa Loompa your mother
Is "When did you realize you were trans?" an acceptable question to ask?
Maybe, it depends on the person. But that's definitely better phrasing
Ofcrs it is
yes
Not for me bc its a. Uncomfortable question
It's not transphobic or anything. IG some people wouldn't be comfortable with it and you should always make sure that its okay not to answer if they don't want to but I don't see a problem with it.
Sis, even in pj’s...you’re still the cutest♥️ that beat today is 🔥🔥🔥🔥 keep educating the children, you’re incredible!!!!
I got approved approved for Bottom and top surgery IM SO EXCITED
Hey, I know we don't know each other but I'm so happy for you! I want to let you know that you've got this! Things will seem scary and hard sometimes, but that's completely okay! I believe that you can do this! I'm a non-binary/female and i understand this excitement! Good luck! (or seeing as this was 3 months ago maybe you're done already? Either way best wishes!)
I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!
Good luck with surgery!!!!
For what it's worth, I LOVE your voice & think it's super sweet and melodic
I’m a trans guy... didn’t go through surgery, I’m also into men and i get alot of questions and hate for it as “you just want attention! You’re not even trans lol you’re a straight girl”
And let me tell you what, my beard is literally thicker than the hair on their legs bro.. like wtf cmon
Not all of us are emotionally ok with having surgery.. not all of us have an understanding family who are willing to accept us the way we wanna be
I’ve been having hormones issues since i was young and it affects me horribly yet my family refuses to let me see any doctor or try to fix myself and live the way i want
Have some respect to trans ppl yall
We’re normal ppl i swear
Nobody knows you more than yourself, that is what my teacher said to me.
I worry about that too but i think it's stupid to think being trans is a trend and to gain attention
Fun fact: you helped me come out as lesbian😃
aw cool! :D congrats
Then by making these videos, think how many "uncomfortable moments" you are saving people out there. I am grateful for the information you put out there. Answering these things helps a great deal. Thanks for your posts! I have a family member transitioning, and it helps to know what they may be facing in their life ahead, even if it's topics she would never want to discuss. Perspective is everything sometimes and you are helping to build that.
“if i made any decision in this whole process it was to be honest with myself and to live happily” yes. yep.
Hi Samantha, I am an avid watcher of the content you put on your channel. I thank you for all the insight and information you put out by keeping it down to earth. I am in transition myself on HRT and your videos always help me get through some of the hard time. I thank you so much.
So I guess one of the questions you don't ask a transgender is, " can you recommend any good hair straightener"?
*transgender person, transgender isn’t a noun
@@ftgihf467 it's actually different with sexualities and genders. Idk if its proper grammar but many people use it like that :)
@@_aldcdaydreams umm well I wouldn’t call u a dumb because dumb is not a noun I would call u a dumb person
@@_aldcdaydreams "trans·gen·der
/transˈjendər,tranzˈjendər/
adjective
adjective: transgender; adjective: transgendered
denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.
'a transgender activist and author'"
it's an adjective. not a noun.
@@Tendo641 it's different with sexualities and genders
"bUt YoU dOn'T LoOk TrAnS"
Yeah. thats kind of the whole point
Yeah, those kind of questions aren't because of the quarantine - they're solely because we're trans ... Lol! If I had been given a choice, I would have chosen to be a cis female so I wouldn't have to put up with all the crap that comes with being trans! I would so much rather have to put up with periods and pregnancy scares than have to deal trying to relieve my dysphoria.
Whenever someone asks me about my transness, I start talking about my dysphoria. I always get one of two reactions depending on whether the person is trans and trying to police me or not and the questioning stops. The two reactions are "Yeah, me too" or "Holy crap!" Much love and great video! 😚💋❤💃💞
@Put your tongue on my Ass Lol! I don't offend easily and there is nothing I find offensive in your post anyway, so ... I stand by what I said though - my dysphoria has been crippling at times and I would much rather be cis than trans. For me it's a no brainers of a choice.
This is a very intelligent insight! Thank you.
Get psychiatric help.
@@maxkorfendagus9336 To transition you're supposed to see a psychiatrist. You sound stupid lol
I'm MTF and I find not getting preggers to be one of the best parts about being a trans woman. Then again, I'm also a lesbian.
I GOT THE HAIR STRAIGHTNER AND DAMMMMM YOU NEED TO GETTT ITTTT! IT DOESNT MAKE IT FRIZZY AT ALL!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
“If I made any decision in this whole process, it was to be honest with myself and live happily.”
💕
girl, i LOVE you and all your stories, and how honest and candid you are. keep rockin it!!
Oh girl.. your voice is beautiful! I could listen to you all day. In fact, I *have* listened to you for an entire day when I first found your channel and binged your videos.
This person was meant to be a woman. From birth.
I love your voice you are so pretty and nice !!
Ur such a sweetheart thank you 🥺🥺
Thank youuuu for the ad!!! I NEEDED a new straightener
I don't know why I waited so long to start watching your videos but I'm spending the morning binging your content. Much love from one Samantha to another!
Thx for this powerful message and Have a Marvelous Day 🍒🍒🍒😻😻😻
I just want to say that I have the upmost respect for you, you are a beautiful woman, and keep doing what you’re doing!
its so important that you are able to get personal to educate everyone that wants to know these answers.
I discovered u yesterday and OMG U ARE ONE OF MY FAV CZcamsRS ALREADY :D
4 minutes in and now we’re talking about hair straighteners...
He or she i s a b o y
SoiSky ? She is female-
SoiSky hhh?
@@soisky How's it feel to be fucking b l i n d?
SoiSky by birth SHE is a boy unfortunately but currently now, she has all the features and parts of a female so I don’t see how she’s not?
My sister(13 years Post gender reassignment surgery) showed me her vagina about 2 years after surgery and it looked just the same as a cis gendered woman's vagina.
I laughed and said at least yours is in a better condition than mine after giving birth to 2 kids, especially with one weighing 10lb.
So funny
Our trans sister gonna look better than we are 😂 I'm jealous.
I have to tell you that it took so much courage to do a video like this. You are a true queen.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 This video is beyond generous and I look forward to a world where no one hears questions like this.
Girl ,I'm a biological woman and my voice is pretty low and I can assure you, you sound awesome, not all ladies have high piched voices. Tbh I love the tone of your voice, remind me of my own ;D
You’re just so beautiful Samantha 😍💖 I hope you’re doing well and staying safe ❤️
Your hair always looks fantastic. Hello hair model. Also appreciate the emotional labor you’re putting in to educate nosy ignorant people.
Really glad you made this video. Everything you said was completely valid. I can't believe some people think they can be so invasive with trans people. Thank you for your courage.
I actually find your voice so soothing
Your voice is, in my humble cis male opinion, beautiful and feminine. I actually love your slight vocal fry. Not every woman has to sound like an anmie girl...
Love your videos! Just started hormones a week ago and you've been among the CZcamsrs and other people in my life who helped make this decision
You're an inspiration to so many. Congratulations on being authentic and true to yourself. 💖
Every time I watch your videos I can’t decide if I rather be as beautiful as you or end up with someone as beautiful as you, inside and out?
Your voice have so much character I love it!!!
The video is very good as per usual and I'm not only so glad that I found your channel a few years back, or so it seems, but also that our ages are so far apart but I know exactly what and where you're coming from. That's what also makes you very special to so many. All the best and stay safe, sweetheart.
Samanthaaa!! Your voice is beautiful don't feel insecure about it. Its an energetic voice and makes me want to listen to you your voice is so amazing girl. ❤❤❤
I can't get over how adorable your nose is
Samantha: No body decides to be black
Nakita Dragun: ._.
people are born black and they are not “assigned black at birth”
bro sam is so pretty like how does she always looks like an absolute goddess just wow.
Haven’t watched you in a while but I’m so happy to see you growing here on CZcams ❤️
Hey girl thanks for sharing 👍❤️
Even in her pjs she is like sooooo pretty.
I just recently subscribed and I love her!! She has such positive energy and she seems so sweet :)
I absolutely love your videos!! Thank you for being so transparent 😊 😘
okay but I LOVE HER EYEBROWS DANG
Omg love This girl!
Hi, Samantha. I'm glad you are doing well. Thx for sharing the video. Very informative. Your voice magnifies your radiance. Stay safe and stay healthy. 👋
I think Samantha has a lovely voice regardless of how she wants it to be. Sometimes I'll just listen without listening its so beautiful in my mind.
Questions I have asked my other, non-cis friends in the past 3 weeks: "DO YOU WANT A GOD DAMN QUESADILLA OR NOT?!" Thank you for coming to my ted-talk.
First Queen✨.
This is literally what I’ve been looking for!!
I genuinely enjoy your videos and your makeup also looks flawless!
Omg you’re so pretty I can’t take it!!!!
I actually got notified of this video.
I like your voice! On another note, I am actually in awe of your makeup skills
Very informative. What are the RIGHT questions to ask since someone who may be interested in really knowing you will really WANT to know all about you. Sharing personal information is how bonds are created.
You’re so pretty and I love your voice. I hate mine. I’m pre everything and my voice is so high and is so cringe. (I’m FTM). I contacted my local trans clinic and hopefully I’ll be on the journey of transitioning physically soon. I’ve already socially transitioned and have been going by the opposite gender publicly for a few years and even changed my name in the school system a few months ago. It was hard to do because I’m so damn nervous about everything, never mind my gender identity.
Samantha: Don't fast forward!
Henry: *Fast Forwards
i love your voice so much it’s so soothing 🥺
don't forget the classic "so what started all....THIS" *gestures to my person*
As a transman- it's generally rude to ask people how old they are or what their weight is, unless you are their doctor don't ask about their junk either. Unless you BOTH are planning to have sex, then it's irrelevant anyways. Asking someone for advice because you think you may want to explore different appearances is a bit different, but can still be rude if you aren't kind about it
Thank you Lux, you are fabulous!
Girl, your hair and makeup is bomb ❤️ love your channel
This is the first video I’m seeing by you, and personally I love your voice! You’re very pretty and seem like a fun person 😊
Oh god I’ve asked how the surgery works in the comment section of someone’s video
I’m so sorry! I had no idea it was offensive and stuff, to me it just felt like asking “hey dad, how did they do surgery on your shoulder?” but now I see that was SO insensitive! Especially about the parts that are... okay maybe I shouldn’t go into that. I don’t think you were the person I asked but I want to apologize here anyway in case the CZcamsr sees and just I did something that someone shouldn’t have done that was in this video. So just, one more time, I’m really really sorry
And I’m really sorry if I invalidated anyone who doesn’t want surgery and such. You are still you no matter what you look like or the lengths you go to to stop having dysphoria. I just knew that particular person got surgery and had no idea there were different types! Sorry if I worded anything bad and I’ll stop asking intrusive questions try to be better in the future. Also if you’re reading this you’re beautiful and I hope your voice gets better
Hi i'm a random person and anyway i think it's great that you've learned and are trying to be more sensitive :)
@@talieateste2405 Aw, thanks
I’ve been trying to think before I speak lately and I hope it’s paying off
@@talieateste2405 (by paying off I mean not making people feel uncomfortable, invalidated, etc.)
I personally don't choose to do surgery
I absolutely love her voice so much, it’s so kind! ☺️
That ad placement was excellent and so clever 😂❤️
Me: been saying yessir all Qurantine
Me to a trans female:YESSIR- OMG IM SORRY!!!!IM SO SORRY!!! (It’s happened before 😿)
I'd advise not to over do the apology like that. Just correct and move on. Making a big deal is what transpeople are usually trying to avoid.
@@mat-with-one-t Yeah, that's cool