I walked away after a week of no contact. Toxicity, mistrust, and disrespect of my love and feelings gave me enough reason to walk away and move on. I deserve more and better.
I walk away from my wife of 9 years after having a baby boy 3 months after she cheated on me with the next door neighbor I knew she was doing something he was always at the house I thought she was a good friend to me I don't want a cheating woman this is 2 years I didn't go around her and my son I nearly lost my mental health job and my oldest daughter didn't know what to do I had to get my daughter help all now my daughter is not the same one this with walking away is you have to stay away
10 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Willing To Walk Away? 1. A willingness to walk away indicates an abundance mindset. 2. A willingness to walk away eliminates neediness. 3. A willingness to walk away projects confidence. 4. A willingness to walk away projects fearlessness. 5. A willingness to walk away projects strength. 6. A willingness to walk away is the key to freedom. 7. A willingness to walk away protects your integrity and self-respect. 8. A willingness to walk away protects you from being taken advantage of. 9. A willingness to walk away helps you get what you want out of life. 10. A willingness to walk away will bring you peace of mind.
I know what you mean …. I applied no contact…and told her it was the best choice for me…then she appears at my house two days later… then we went at it again..then one night she looks at me and says…. “I don’t know about this… but I’m just going wing it..” .. I paused … and said to myself… she will be ghosting me again … two months passed… the all of the sudden… a message … “ I hope you are doing well in life… since I haven’t heard from you I realized and respected what you once said about what is better for your health. I’ll always remember you..hugs”… I was like wait what… so the fact that you haven’t heard from me was of what I said …??… is shifting the blame and taking no accountability… ..
Because you're doing it wrong. Walking away is respectfully and nicely letting them know before you walk awak. Ghosting is no contact out of the blue without any respectful communication before you end contact
Very true, I walked away from my ex and cut communication completely. It was difficult in the beginning, sometimes I get lonely but being able to sleep with peace of mind is far better than worrying what my ex boyfriend doing in his phone in the middle of the night. And by walking away it helps me re-evaluate and do personal inventory! The very reason I’m here watching your channel. Get more insights! Thank you another great video.
I did the same thing. I've been in no contact for 30 days. It has been one of the hardest I've ever done. I was disregarded sexually and disrespected. I went back to my x bf because if thought I could give the relationship another go, but it was not the same. There was tension between us. The conversation became worst. I was not allowed to have a committed relationship. It was evident that I was losing myself. I became dependent on him. Until I had a conversation with my friends, I was happy I had taken the advice to walk away from my x bf. It's a challenge each day. But I'm glad I did. I was getting my self-esteem and trusting myself better.
I've walked away and it's been 4 years and I find myself missing her some times. Narc free and glad she's gone for good. Newness is way better and finally got me a feminine woman unlike the ex masculine narcissist. Smh missing her doesn't mean that I want the ex narc back.
#1. Respected More #2. Attractive - Regain your power, go no contact #3. Wiser. You cannot help people who won’t help themselves. #4. Better Living. No more trauma, abuse, lies, manipulation, betrayal, stress,.
Unbelievable😂I’ve been married 30 yrs but altogether 35. I was very happy for 20 -25 yrs. So I was able to make it finally walked out. I’m interested in writing a book for awareness about Narcissists only because I’ve known about it 3-5 yrs ago & realized not to many know of what a narcissist is and what’s interesting is how it was so subtle and looking back how he was able to be so admirable in public eyes all along he was to impress people and then making everyone say oh what a great husband. One thing I can’t say is that how can anyone be so *#*#!?❤❤
There's so much power in just walking away, respect yourself and value yourself, don't let know one steel your happiness from you, and learn to let go of these toxic people that don't serve you nothing at all.
Thanks for sharing. Good to know I'm not alone. I walked away from toxic parents, relationships and I'm very happy. Next step is career change. I never give up.
I’ve been dating someone for two months and she has disrespected me, as in cutting me off when I talk. Whenever she didn’t like I was saying she would cut me off and stated she didn’t wanna talk about it. Her past was this big secret. I told her yeah you can’t disrespect me like that. If I’m talking I expect to be heard just like I do to you. Two nights ago at a diner things got heated and again she disrespected me. I got up while she was in mid sentence and paid the bill and left her there. She texted me like what happened and she didn’t think things were going to go that way. I responded wtf did you think? I was going to sit there and let you disrespect me yet again? She clearly didn’t acknowledge anything what she did but instead tried to turn them around. I said ok cool. And that’s it. She hasn’t texted me nor will I respond if she does.
I had a date today for 12pm He called at 3pm saying he got held up at work Ok fine you couldn’t let me know beforehand walked away won’t give him another chance to fake and this was our FIRST DATE
This is an outstanding video. Instead of focusing on the devastating and unchangeable aspects of the narcissist, it focuses on the survivor in such an empowering way. Much appreciation!
Thank you SCG, the point that you made that you are still single (is encouraging) I walked away almost 90 days ago with No Contact since. Yes in your other video you said that it sucks (but it was the right thing to do) I will get through this and be better for it. No I will not go back... you and others have proven that it would only be worse. Thank you for your work.
Fantastic video and it is all true I come from a very toxic negative family background and as I started my journey now to walk away my life is getting better. I never ever want to turn back and be around any of my toxic family members ever again. 😊😊😊😊😊
I have given it all…4 years and at the end of it you realise you were never respected, devalued, emotionally abused etc…I have lost myself in that relationship to the point where months after I am still picking up shards of me “I WANT MYSELF BACK” and there is no space or way back and the only way is to🚶♂️🔚 Back to myself: -Absolute beast physically -Absolute beast mentally -Absolute beast spiritually This is me…no more drama and covert violence and manipulation…
In this life its very very important to learn to let go ,,,, get up and leave! in other words walk away dont be scared to leave. The outcomes shouldn't matter "never delay the inevitable" at some point things get better for all of us, after we take the first step but sometimes we all gotta make sacrifices like my dad says sometimes to do whats better for us. Its necessary to leave people, things and pets in our lives to move on to better things ,,,, but,,,, we need to be willing to do it its about WILL POWER and state of mind ask yourself first what is it that you want for yourself? and whats making you suffer? then end it there.
I made a new friend a few months ago and we got close. 10 days ago he told me not to call or text him again so I will walk away from him.. no contact, nothing..
I just realized this. I’m 6 months no contact, but there was a car ride one time. She had just succeeded in pushing and pulling me back into sex. Then on the car ride home, she asked me if I didn’t have any principles because of how she used pathological jealousy, always telling me I would look at and be interested in other girls (projection). I think now that maybe this sly remark of hers was a purposeful admittance of how putting up with her nonsense and insecurity was actually the lack of principles she had referred to.
people who discard you were never really with you. they were with the idea of what you provide. and people who discard tend to regret leaving when it doesnt work out with who they discarded you for. people who discard you keep you in the loop for and try to use you for a means to an end. ex- attention, comfortability, a back up plan. PEOPLE WHO WALK AWAY, WALK AWAY FROM SOMEONE THEY LOVE BECAUSE IT IS BEST FOR THEM.
@@ang695 👏. Thank you so much! I’m so glad to read your comments. I walked away after feeling discarded. Year later he reaches out! Then went ghost when it came time to meet! I’m strong. I’ve put him back in no contact for the time being. 😂🎉
@@irielion3748 nope he took my (c**p) as well. I am able to see it now. My way of thinking was not working at all in my past relationships. I’m free now. ✊
It sucks but whatever......I'll think of something else....I'm never going be a professional fighter or to get a beautiful girl.....I have to rediscover who I am.
@@SCGSHOW Having nasty fall out.with my @£#& neighbours that's why desperate for non reactive vid, cos I'm naturally very! I pride myself on my 'Mafia Temper', not too wise I've noticed! - I just fall sick and other party gloats):
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I walked away after a week of no contact. Toxicity, mistrust, and disrespect of my love and feelings gave me enough reason to walk away and move on. I deserve more and better.
Thanks for Watching!
I walk away from my wife of 9 years after having a baby boy 3 months after she cheated on me with the next door neighbor I knew she was doing something he was always at the house I thought she was a good friend to me I don't want a cheating woman this is 2 years I didn't go around her and my son I nearly lost my mental health job and my oldest daughter didn't know what to do I had to get my daughter help all now my daughter is not the same one this with walking away is you have to stay away
10 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Willing To Walk Away?
1. A willingness to walk away indicates an abundance mindset.
2. A willingness to walk away eliminates neediness.
3. A willingness to walk away projects confidence.
4. A willingness to walk away projects fearlessness.
5. A willingness to walk away projects strength.
6. A willingness to walk away is the key to freedom.
7. A willingness to walk away protects your integrity and self-respect.
8. A willingness to walk away protects you from being taken advantage of.
9. A willingness to walk away helps you get what you want out of life.
10. A willingness to walk away will bring you peace of mind.
Thanks for Watching!
Well said 👍 there's so much power in just walking away
Walking away means taking back your power which somebody is abusing It for a long period of time 🥰😅
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I decided to walk away after a few days of no contact. I wish the best for me!
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Hey, how you doing?
@@troycarpenter3675 hey! I’m doing better now. It’s not as bad as what I thought it’d be 🙂. I’m moving forward
Awesome bro! Don't look back!
@@troycarpenter3675 thanks bro!
The toxic people we walk away from call it ghosting and make us out to be the villains
if they mad it's actually good, bc remember the opposite of love isn't hate or anger....it's indifference.
I know what you mean …. I applied no contact…and told her it was the best choice for me…then she appears at my house two days later… then we went at it again..then one night she looks at me and says…. “I don’t know about this… but I’m just going wing it..” .. I paused … and said to myself… she will be ghosting me again … two months passed… the all of the sudden… a message … “ I hope you are doing well in life… since I haven’t heard from you I realized and respected what you once said about what is better for your health. I’ll always remember you..hugs”… I was like wait what… so the fact that you haven’t heard from me was of what I said …??… is shifting the blame and taking no accountability… ..
Because you're doing it wrong. Walking away is respectfully and nicely letting them know before you walk awak. Ghosting is no contact out of the blue without any respectful communication before you end contact
Toxic people don’t matter, let them rot.
Very true, I walked away from my ex and cut communication completely. It was difficult in the beginning, sometimes I get lonely but being able to sleep with peace of mind is far better than worrying what my ex boyfriend doing in his phone in the middle of the night.
And by walking away it helps me re-evaluate and do personal inventory!
The very reason I’m here watching your channel. Get more insights! Thank you another great video.
Thanks for Watching!
I did the same thing. I've been in no contact for 30 days. It has been one of the hardest I've ever done. I was disregarded sexually and disrespected. I went back to my x bf because if thought I could give the relationship another go, but it was not the same. There was tension between us. The conversation became worst. I was not allowed to have a committed relationship. It was evident that I was losing myself. I became dependent on him. Until I had a conversation with my friends, I was happy I had taken the advice to walk away from my x bf. It's a challenge each day. But I'm glad I did. I was getting my self-esteem and trusting myself better.
I've walked away and it's been 4 years and I find myself missing her some times. Narc free and glad she's gone for good. Newness is way better and finally got me a feminine woman unlike the ex masculine narcissist. Smh missing her doesn't mean that I want the ex narc back.
#1. Respected More
#2. Attractive - Regain your power, go no contact
#3. Wiser. You cannot help people who won’t help themselves.
#4. Better Living. No more trauma, abuse, lies, manipulation, betrayal, stress,.
Unbelievable😂I’ve been married 30 yrs but altogether 35. I was very happy for 20 -25 yrs. So I was able to make it finally walked out. I’m interested in writing a book for awareness about Narcissists only because I’ve known about it 3-5 yrs ago & realized not to many know of what a narcissist is and what’s interesting is how it was so subtle and looking back how he was able to be so admirable in public eyes all along he was to impress people and then making everyone say oh what a great husband. One thing I can’t say is that how can anyone be so *#*#!?❤❤
There's so much power in just walking away, respect yourself and value yourself, don't let know one steel your happiness from you, and learn to let go of these toxic people that don't serve you nothing at all.
Thanks for sharing. Good to know I'm not alone. I walked away from toxic parents, relationships and I'm very happy. Next step is career change. I never give up.
Thanks for Watching!
💡Walking away is humbling and the peace of mind is so much better to adjust to than toxicity. Thank you God for helping me to walk away🙏🏽👏🏾🙌🏽💪🏽
I’ve been dating someone for two months and she has disrespected me, as in cutting me off when I talk. Whenever she didn’t like I was saying she would cut me off and stated she didn’t wanna talk about it. Her past was this big secret. I told her yeah you can’t disrespect me like that. If I’m talking I expect to be heard just like I do to you.
Two nights ago at a diner things got heated and again she disrespected me. I got up while she was in mid sentence and paid the bill and left her there. She texted me like what happened and she didn’t think things were going to go that way. I responded wtf did you think? I was going to sit there and let you disrespect me yet again? She clearly didn’t acknowledge anything what she did but instead tried to turn them around. I said ok cool. And that’s it. She hasn’t texted me nor will I respond if she does.
Walking away from a town a state for their bias towards you and never looking back!
So true!
I had a date today for 12pm
He called at 3pm saying he got held up at work
Ok fine you couldn’t let me know beforehand walked away won’t give him another chance to fake and this was our FIRST DATE
This is an outstanding video. Instead of focusing on the devastating and unchangeable aspects of the narcissist, it focuses on the survivor in such an empowering way. Much appreciation!
Thank you SCG, the point that you made that you are still single (is encouraging) I walked away almost 90 days ago with No Contact since. Yes in your other video you said that it sucks (but it was the right thing to do) I will get through this and be better for it. No I will not go back... you and others have proven that it would only be worse. Thank you for your work.
walk away and dont look back..lots wife looked back and was turned into a pillar of salt.....
So true!
Fantastic video and it is all true I come from a very toxic negative family background and as I started my journey now to walk away my life is getting better. I never ever want to turn back and be around any of my toxic family members ever again. 😊😊😊😊😊
Thanks for sharing!
I have given it all…4 years and at the end of it you realise you were never respected, devalued, emotionally abused etc…I have lost myself in that relationship to the point where months after I am still picking up shards of me “I WANT MYSELF BACK” and there is no space or way back and the only way is to🚶♂️🔚
Back to myself:
-Absolute beast physically
-Absolute beast mentally
-Absolute beast spiritually
This is me…no more drama and covert violence and manipulation…
These videos about ex's etc, have really helped me to no end. Thanks dude 👍🏻
Glad to hear it!
great video thank you this is very spot on
Sometimes the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
💯💯
In this life its very very important to learn to let go ,,,, get up and leave! in other words walk away dont be scared to leave. The outcomes shouldn't matter "never delay the inevitable" at some point things get better for all of us, after we take the first step but sometimes we all gotta make sacrifices like my dad says sometimes to do whats better for us. Its necessary to leave people, things and pets in our lives to move on to better things ,,,, but,,,, we need to be willing to do it its about WILL POWER and state of mind ask yourself first what is it that you want for yourself? and whats making you suffer? then end it there.
Sir thank you so much your videos makes me awakened more and realized my selfworth keep doing love and light to you sir .
You're most welcome
I made a new friend a few months ago and we got close.
10 days ago he told me not to call or text him again so I will walk away from him.. no contact, nothing..
Been waiting all weekend for this! ❤️☀️ thank you SCG
Hope you enjoyed it!
Such powerful confident voice 👍
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in 44 years ,now out 1 year ...now ,like the song from the 70s "" I was so much older then,I'm younger than that now. "
Wow❤ I give creditGod bless you🙏🙏
I wish i can walk away from someone.
I just realized this. I’m 6 months no contact, but there was a car ride one time. She had just succeeded in pushing and pulling me back into sex. Then on the car ride home, she asked me if I didn’t have any principles because of how she used pathological jealousy, always telling me I would look at and be interested in other girls (projection). I think now that maybe this sly remark of hers was a purposeful admittance of how putting up with her nonsense and insecurity was actually the lack of principles she had referred to.
Thank you so much 😊
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Can we have a video about “should you block them during no contact”?
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Dont block be strong enough to not reply
If you block them they will think you don't care... Are you trying to hurt them or love them?
@@SCGSHOW Is that your go to response for everything? camon dude
Surrounded by bunch of toxic gas lighters, gotto do just that! Tkss
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@@SCGSHOW My Pleasure! Will continue (: Just luvv your Walking Away Series - Coz, I'm at, its Threshold!🏃... ...
What is the difference between someone walking away and discarding someone ?
people who discard you were never really with you. they were with the idea of what you provide. and people who discard tend to regret leaving when it doesnt work out with who they discarded you for. people who discard you keep you in the loop for and try to use you for a means to an end. ex- attention, comfortability, a back up plan. PEOPLE WHO WALK AWAY, WALK AWAY FROM SOMEONE THEY LOVE BECAUSE IT IS BEST FOR THEM.
@@ang695 👏. Thank you so much! I’m so glad to read your comments. I walked away after feeling discarded. Year later he reaches out! Then went ghost when it came time to meet! I’m strong. I’ve put him back in no contact for the time being. 😂🎉
@@hilo5901 Don't ever go back. Watch vids on narcissism here.
@@irielion3748 nope he took my (c**p) as well. I am able to see it now. My way of thinking was not working at all in my past relationships. I’m free now. ✊
thank you so much it's a great.
It sucks but whatever......I'll think of something else....I'm never going be a professional fighter or to get a beautiful girl.....I have to rediscover who I am.
Same goal bruh, mines be a pro fighter 💯
Facts.
No contact only possible way 💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💥💥💥♌️♌️♌️😈😈😈😈
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I can't seem to find your " Being Non Reactive" vid. Could you help
Hi there, I deleted it because it will be on my new sister channel in the new year, stay tuned!
@@SCGSHOW Ayye No Wonder, will await then! Tkss for reply 👌
@@SCGSHOW Having nasty fall out.with my @£#& neighbours that's why desperate for non reactive vid, cos I'm naturally very! I pride myself on my 'Mafia Temper', not too wise I've noticed! - I just fall sick and other party gloats):
Love your message, but those videos are so corny!