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  • čas přidán 7. 08. 2017
  • Kory is so inspirational to me. He came out in a situation where everything and everyone told him he shouldn't. Coming out isn't always easy... but there IS a light at the end of the tunnel and there WILL be people who will love and support you
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Komentáře • 28K

  • @tara26777
    @tara26777 Před 4 lety +5459

    “There are people to this day who will not talk to me who called me their brother.” That broke my heart.

    • @robyncollip1116
      @robyncollip1116 Před 4 lety +55

      omg i know, sobbing

    • @eat1ng_0rph3ns
      @eat1ng_0rph3ns Před 4 lety +23

      Tara Daviie ikr I’m not even out only to my bffs not even my PARENTS but they are kinda catching on 💖💜💙

    • @taylorlauren3521
      @taylorlauren3521 Před 4 lety +2

      Tara Daviie Ikr

    • @cjd.346
      @cjd.346 Před 4 lety +6

      @kim burley how is it tragic? it's just biology it's hardwired in their brains it can't be tragic if they can't do anything about it.

    • @cjd.346
      @cjd.346 Před 4 lety +6

      @kim burley why? its a normal thing it's not like it's bad

  • @ashlynwheaton3982
    @ashlynwheaton3982 Před 4 lety +6579

    I kinda feel like Colleen saved kory from going down a dark path

    • @raffhighland4735
      @raffhighland4735 Před 4 lety +114

      100%

    • @carlyscott3673
      @carlyscott3673 Před 4 lety +131

      SAME like suicide could have happened w out colleen

    • @mnb9162
      @mnb9162 Před 4 lety +44

      I wonder if Colleen would have got with Kory if he asked her out in that way and didn't come out to her.

    • @cottonskies4552
      @cottonskies4552 Před 4 lety +12

      Ikr

    • @paitynl0l574
      @paitynl0l574 Před 4 lety +19

      Cory is his own person

  • @quackitysleftbuttcheek6090
    @quackitysleftbuttcheek6090 Před 4 lety +4514

    Who else rlly just wanted to just give him a big hug when he started crying

    • @sirthisisamchutaos8697
      @sirthisisamchutaos8697 Před 3 lety +12

      Mee

    • @SamieSupreme
      @SamieSupreme Před 3 lety +9

      Meeeeeeeeeeee all the way.

    • @SamieSupreme
      @SamieSupreme Před 3 lety +13

      I just want to say that I completely understand why it was so hard for Joey to be a i Eric come out to his family and friends. I to am gay and found it really hard to come out because I didn’t know if all of my guy friends would be worried out or if they thought that I was going to like every boy in my year group but that wasn’t the case. I just didn’t look at girls on that was but that doesn’t mean that I look at every boy and say oooo he’s fit or I like him because it wasn’t like that. I just looked at boys that I fancied in that way if you know what I mean. I first came out to my family then friends and then it got spread around my whole school so I didn’t need to worry about telling anyone else. What I am trying to say is that it isn’t always that easy to come out to people because for about 6-7 months I would come home crying my eyes out because I was so upset about all the bullying. It was just really hard and know how hard it was for kory to be open about it which I respect him for so much. Sorry for the million word essay. I just really wanted to explain how hard it can be for some people to come out especially when you don’t think that you can trust anyone. Love you kory and love Colleen for being so supportive of him. Your amazing, fabulous and will always be my inspiration. By for now. ❤️

    • @animallover4lifedoglover107
      @animallover4lifedoglover107 Před 3 lety +3

      Me!!

    • @jaymani1709
      @jaymani1709 Před 3 lety +2

      Kore is like soo nice and I would give him a hug

  • @mayakappesser2264
    @mayakappesser2264 Před 3 lety +576

    I feel like Kory and Colleen saved each other. I want a best friend like them.

  • @sokoseru5035
    @sokoseru5035 Před 5 lety +5766

    She protec
    she attack
    But most importantly
    She’s got Kory’s back 🏳️‍🌈🧡

  • @cass7569
    @cass7569 Před 5 lety +7945

    This is why I look up to Colleen
    She doesn’t judge
    She’s not mean
    And she loves people for who they are
    Love u Colleen ❤️ your awesome
    Edit: omg TYSM I’ve never had so many likes ty soo soo soo much everyone 💖🥺

    • @bridmcgrath5363
      @bridmcgrath5363 Před 5 lety +21

      Lucas Stoodley ABSOLUTELY!!!! Inclustivity is something I inspire to have every single day!!!!🖤💖💜✌🏻

    • @MyTurtleApril
      @MyTurtleApril Před 5 lety +4

      @@dee-oy6fz uh... i support them?

    • @hreshi3085
      @hreshi3085 Před 5 lety +6

      And she gets emotional easily.*

    • @LittleMilkJug
      @LittleMilkJug Před 5 lety +17

      @@dee-oy6fz This film is about Colleen and Kory. Nobody has said she is the only one who supports LGBT+ etc. This is the story of her and her best friend Kory. What exactly are you trying to shade?

    • @canyounot810
      @canyounot810 Před 5 lety +10

      D a n n y
      Ffs, no one implied that she’s the only person who supports LGBTQ+ , your comment is pointless.

  • @tiana482
    @tiana482 Před 4 lety +653

    When he started crying I wanted to hug him so bad.😭😭

  • @rubyheaney287
    @rubyheaney287 Před 4 lety +191

    “There are people that were my brothers that wouldn’t speak to me”🥺💔

  • @katiekizer7871
    @katiekizer7871 Před 6 lety +1206

    I started crying when Kory said friends who called him brother wouldn’t talk to him anymore. No one should ever be treated like that! We’re all human! My heart is broken! God loves us no matter what! God Bless You!

    • @notalaya9551
      @notalaya9551 Před 6 lety +7

      YourLadyKatie me tooo

    • @sarahdoiron305
      @sarahdoiron305 Před 6 lety +5

      YourLadyKatie I felt the same way like no one should have to go through that all he was doing was being himself

    • @acapellarequests5801
      @acapellarequests5801 Před 6 lety +5

      Last sentence I disagree but I would replace I hope you have a great life or something

    • @kaitlynbenedict6689
      @kaitlynbenedict6689 Před 6 lety +2

      YourLadyKatie same🤧☹️

    • @tracyjeanpierre2368
      @tracyjeanpierre2368 Před 6 lety +3

      Aw u are so nice and sweet we need more people like u in this world 😄☺😊

  • @harpermolewyk1091
    @harpermolewyk1091 Před 4 lety +923

    "You can't control who your attracted to." Amen!

    • @atharvvir
      @atharvvir Před 3 lety +4

      Fun fact hinduism is OK with homosexuality. No seriously
      Check out @mind_splash.co on Instagram they have a post on it

  • @eliza9758
    @eliza9758 Před 4 lety +320

    Christianity is supposed to make us better people. I'm a christian and by the time I was 13, two of my best friends had come out to me. All I wanted to do, is give them hugs and cuddles, and tell them I accepted them. The fact that I needed to say that... to say that I don't think of them any less... I'm sorry you had to go through that too.

    • @binx414
      @binx414 Před 3 lety +11

      Exactly! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @haleymarshall1527
    @haleymarshall1527 Před 3 lety +84

    “There are people to this day who will not talk to me who called me their brother" that made me immediate burst into tears, i still watch this video to this day bc its so inspirational

  • @baileybennett3612
    @baileybennett3612 Před 5 lety +492

    this shows how attached colleen and kory are, because when he started crying, she started crying. it’s so sad

    • @idek9970
      @idek9970 Před 5 lety +8

      Bailey Bennett it’s not exactly sad, it’s beautiful❤️

    • @baileybennett3612
      @baileybennett3612 Před 5 lety +7

      •So Basically• i agree 💕

    • @trinitylivingston1286
      @trinitylivingston1286 Před 5 lety

      More beautiful than anything. That's true love right there.😗😗

  • @bayleerobbins45
    @bayleerobbins45 Před 4 lety +3286

    When my brother came out to me I thought he was trying to steal my hot pocket because he made me leave the kitchen while I was waiting for my hot pocket to come out and he started crying and told me he liked boys and I body slammed him and said doesn't mean you get the last hot pocket and that I already knew and I love you I don't care who you love I'll always support you

    • @custardtart8214
      @custardtart8214 Před 4 lety +469

      Moral of the story hands of my hot pocket

    • @sydney_h6389
      @sydney_h6389 Před 4 lety +509

      Being gay= support. Taking the last hot pocket= not ok

    • @ethanlivemere1162
      @ethanlivemere1162 Před 4 lety +257

      You were waiting for your hot pocket to come out, but instead...

    • @munchistuff3603
      @munchistuff3603 Před 4 lety +119

      What we learned - GET YOUR HANDS OFF MY HOT POCKETS!!

    • @miag1528
      @miag1528 Před 4 lety +144

      Moral of the story: being gay: perfectly fine. Touching my hot pocket: I’ll hurt you 😂

  • @Samuel-ij8og
    @Samuel-ij8og Před 4 lety +342

    When he started crying I kinda died a little.

    • @heidinickel
      @heidinickel Před 3 lety +3

      I had to skip past it ooooooommmgggg 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @benronald
    @benronald Před 4 lety +1687

    5.9k homophobes disliked this video. Hopefully none of us ever have to speak to any of them

    • @aidenandwigglesart
      @aidenandwigglesart Před 3 lety +60

      I had to speak to a homophobic person and they made remarks about how I sounded like a girl when I sang and I asked why it mattered and then they said you have to be masculine and tough. I no joke punched him in the face and told him I’m pan! And then I left
      Edit: it sounds rude yes but he also said gay people disgust him and a ton of other things.

    • @benronald
      @benronald Před 3 lety +17

      @@aidenandwigglesart fair enough go you

    • @benronald
      @benronald Před 3 lety +4

      @@justarandomperson8281 aww. I'm bi too. Yeah the world can be a scary place. I get bullied a lot in school but nothing ever gets done about it. Just remember that while you're making something of yourself, they're the ones slaving away in factories doing hard labour and getting underpaid. They have nothing better to do. Tbh all homophobia is is wanting to control what people do in the bedroom and tbh that sounds pretty gay to me if they are trying to control where a guy puts his junk

    • @parentingwithmentalhealthissue
      @parentingwithmentalhealthissue Před 3 lety +3

      Or they dislike the video because they dislike what he went through. Bit of an assumption to make.

    • @benronald
      @benronald Před 3 lety +11

      @@parentingwithmentalhealthissue I mean if they don't like what he went through why would they dislike the video? Surely they would appreciate him opening up about it

  • @judithendricks233
    @judithendricks233 Před 5 lety +1509

    If it weren’t for Colleen.....
    I don’t want to think what would happen.

    • @maisy3526
      @maisy3526 Před 4 lety +1

      when i read the last bit i jumped

    • @emilydanielle8707
      @emilydanielle8707 Před 4 lety

      Watch this: czcams.com/video/sqIF50lSNVo/video.html

    • @offbrandsix8609
      @offbrandsix8609 Před 4 lety

      Emily Danielle what is it, it won’t load

    • @imsophie
      @imsophie Před 4 lety +1

      Emily Danielle thanks for making me stay up until 3:00 am sobbing for an hour and a half. what a greeeeeat way to start the new year :/. just kidding, it was actually really good, and i’m glad i watched it :).

    • @dandycandy5813
      @dandycandy5813 Před 4 lety

      Judit Hendricks oh no! I’m gonna cry!

  • @cassidykunz
    @cassidykunz Před 7 lety +17594

    at first I thought Colleen was coming out

  • @bianxa_5236
    @bianxa_5236 Před 2 lety +33

    Kory stands for
    K - kind
    O - outstanding
    R - remains BRAVE
    Y - yet he is always caring

  • @iljenjohansen6338
    @iljenjohansen6338 Před 3 lety +110

    Personally I think you shouldn’t have to “come out” i think it should be normal to date and love anyone you want. And the fact that people are scared to come out is horrible. If we all just accept that people are different nothing like Kory’s story would of ever happened. Sorry I’m just sad and kind of pissed. Have a good day!.

    • @thejupiter2574
      @thejupiter2574 Před 3 lety +2

      #Truth

    • @martacadena8337
      @martacadena8337 Před 3 lety +2

      You couldn’t tell it better! #loveislove

    • @charlotte6887
      @charlotte6887 Před 2 lety +3

      Yess this is the exact reason I refrained from coming out for so long because i didn’t want it to be a ‘thing’ lol I just wanted everyone to know without having to tell them especially my parents and some of my closest friends I still haven’t told most people because I don’t want to have to have that conversation. When I told the couple people that know it was the most stressful thing ever not knowing if they would still love me the way they did before and I’m so lucky they both support me but ik there will come people that won’t and that is so scary that one day I will have to tell them. Sorry that was my little rant lol :)

  • @caseyben7846
    @caseyben7846 Před 4 lety +2311

    When he started crying thats when I just broke down and started cying too.

  • @emmadorman2343
    @emmadorman2343 Před 5 lety +1798

    When Kory started shaking I literally cried my eyes out

  • @autumn365
    @autumn365 Před 3 lety +104

    The fact this has 6k dislikes is horrible and disgusting this was so hard for him and people have the audacity to dislike the video is horrible

    • @thejupiter2574
      @thejupiter2574 Před 3 lety +7

      IKR , it's just so sad that there is still so much hatred and Homophobia in our world and on youtube smh.

  • @kelsi4513
    @kelsi4513 Před 4 lety +65

    I'm FULL ON CHRISTIAN, and I honestly thought God says to love EVERYONE. Like why do people take Christianity to be against them.

  • @kaib_0798
    @kaib_0798 Před 5 lety +416

    When he started shaking, I cried so much, and I'm so glad that kory has a amazing friend like colleen, and yes it is so hard coming out, but you will have friends that love you, and support you very much

  • @LuviinqMill
    @LuviinqMill Před 5 lety +661

    The people who disliked, don't understand what coming out means

    • @amandahelton2719
      @amandahelton2719 Před 5 lety +2

      True that

    • @Karina_frfr
      @Karina_frfr Před 4 lety +1

      Yep

    • @cottoncandybunny4385
      @cottoncandybunny4385 Před 4 lety +1

      Amelia Davies yeah

    • @holaamigo8906
      @holaamigo8906 Před 4 lety +8

      Amelia Davies they had too many tears in their eyes and tried to hit the like button

    • @chanheenator9824
      @chanheenator9824 Před 4 lety +4

      Amelia Davies i was ignorant and closeted (i still am, but not to myself or my best friend) when i saw this so i disliked back in 2017 but i literally just saw this in my recommended and immediately upon clicking the video took it back. i ended up watching the video and crying because what this man went through is what i’m afraid of and i relate so much :(

  • @erincliff194
    @erincliff194 Před 4 lety +342

    This is is just disgusting that this still happens today
    Colleen will always be here for you kory 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @rosyreads
    @rosyreads Před 4 lety +44

    i know this was posted long time ago but i feel like it needs to be said, i'm also out to everyone in my school but not my parents since when i came out as bi they told me i'm confused, they didn't raise me like this, they think it's a phase they said i know i don't like girls that way.... i came out at December 2019 as gay then, this January i fell in love with this girl who happened to be my last years crush, she still isn't out and hearing this story broke my heart, being with a closet gf is hard at times but it's never ever OK to tell everyone that she or even he is not straight, i would never ever do that to anyone and especially my gf.. yes there will be struggles at times but telling everyone without their acknowledgement is just horrible, just like how we all were in closet, it's scary, so plz respect them

  • @analysemolina
    @analysemolina Před 4 lety +5436

    i’m a christian but it disgusts me how that college judged gays. i’m sorry that’s how you experienced our beliefs.

    • @allyg8254
      @allyg8254 Před 4 lety +255

      analyse molina for real. i’m christian but i’m bisexual

    • @cc-fd2rz
      @cc-fd2rz Před 4 lety +364

      Yeah I’m catholic and God tells us to love and appreciate everyone no matter what. It’s a shame that some Christians and Catholics don’t do that

    • @autumnfalls8857
      @autumnfalls8857 Před 4 lety +155

      @Kreia so random but my priest is gay and it makes me so happy that he's accepted still

    • @fryingpan6873
      @fryingpan6873 Před 4 lety +90

      right?!?! like I'm Christian and my bros gay. it would break my heart to know that this could have happened to him.

    • @luluthenugget9229
      @luluthenugget9229 Před 4 lety +42

      I’m Muslim and we can’t be gay but if someone told they were gay I would just be like ok that’s completely your decision.

  • @jozettelujan3690
    @jozettelujan3690 Před 5 lety +531

    Omg this is so sad, he's lucky to have someone like Colleen in his life.

    • @moremotatiana
      @moremotatiana Před 5 lety +7

      Jozette Lujan they are both lucky to have each other 🌈 ♥️

    • @flowerpie9750
      @flowerpie9750 Před 5 lety +5

      I agree but ur profile pic is putting me of😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @elizadaubert9686
      @elizadaubert9686 Před 5 lety +2

      Jozette Lujan I need someone like her to have as a friend because I have to do something like this

    • @jozettelujan3690
      @jozettelujan3690 Před 5 lety +1

      @@elizadaubert9686 me too

    • @isobel6959
      @isobel6959 Před 5 lety

      He's not lucky that's just common human decency

  • @alishanadeem95
    @alishanadeem95 Před 3 lety +35

    I want to give cory a hug when he started crying😓😢

  • @cherriblossom0825
    @cherriblossom0825 Před 3 lety +29

    You could tell that his thought process has been manipulated by all the lies that school has put him through a all the rejection his friends put him though, as you can see in his eyes he’s definitely thinking back to that time and see his fear returning to him as he starts to talk about coming out to Colleen. When he starts crying you can see his hand shaking out of the pure terror he felt of losing everyone he loved and I am EXTREMELY sorry that he had to go through that

  • @NoirMariaa
    @NoirMariaa Před 7 lety +894

    I wanna jump into the screen and hug him

  • @maggiep_arker
    @maggiep_arker Před 4 lety +2835

    The second he started crying I started bawling why would people treat him like that why would you do that because he likes the same sex like why?

    • @KalebBlade
      @KalebBlade Před 4 lety +2

      Just saying what the f of a name is Maggie?

    • @maggiep_arker
      @maggiep_arker Před 4 lety +33

      Haruka Bazaar my mom choose it

    • @megluu884
      @megluu884 Před 4 lety +79

      Haruka Bazaar her name is a nice name and why are you putting her down because of it? Her parents chose a wonderful name and it’s not right for you to say something like that.

    • @maggiep_arker
      @maggiep_arker Před 4 lety +10

      Meg Luu thank you

    • @boomboomthayer5601
      @boomboomthayer5601 Před 4 lety +2

      I did too😭

  • @krystalalbany973
    @krystalalbany973 Před 3 lety +13

    i wanna give him the biggest hug he should love himself no matter what.

  • @bevlove
    @bevlove Před 4 lety +833

    I wish everyone knew that gay people are literally born this way. It’s not a choice. The pain they go through with society and even family is so sad. With so much communication in our world now, we all know there are many gay people and thankfully many come out on tv or video. The relief one must feel after keeping their secret for so many years must feel like a ton of bricks off their back when they open up to friends.

    • @johnlondonbimeetup7961
      @johnlondonbimeetup7961 Před 4 lety +13

      Actually, there is some evidence that its not 100% genetic and there can be some environmental things in early life (mind you genetics is not simple either, so many effects from epigenetics and hormone levels around and so on). Being a choice or not shouldn't mean its ok to discriminate, either way. There's no evidence attraction to any particular person is a choice, although you can deny and ignore it to yourself and just feel awkward, and have the option not to do anything about it, which is harmful in the long term if you always try to do that. But there's not enough evidence to say its all from genes and that level of biology. I think all the laws in place where LGBT+ people are protected don't rely on not-a-choice that as the reasoning (heard that it is irrelevant for at least some).

    • @southernboytalk2133
      @southernboytalk2133 Před 4 lety +10

      Not what the bible says

    • @thomasconnolly6742
      @thomasconnolly6742 Před 4 lety +11

      free rein free boys well the bible is wrong

    • @southernboytalk2133
      @southernboytalk2133 Před 4 lety +1

      Well I don't care man say what you want I'm done so leave me alone

    • @southernboytalk2133
      @southernboytalk2133 Před 4 lety +1

      @@thomasconnolly6742 don't care so leave me alone

  • @Divio18
    @Divio18 Před 7 lety +724

    I'm wishing for a day when coming out won't even be a thing.

    • @jilliankilburn1852
      @jilliankilburn1852 Před 7 lety +13

      Divio18 I completely agree. It shouldn't matter who you love. People should accept everyone no matter what

    • @AvaJane
      @AvaJane Před 7 lety +2

      Me. too.

    • @lfroggyl8936
      @lfroggyl8936 Před 7 lety +4

      Divio18 bless you

    • @everythinghyrum
      @everythinghyrum Před 7 lety +12

      Divio18 honestly, I think coming out will still be a thing but it won't be a big deal. You're still going to have to tell people your gay or bi or whatever just to clear up any confusion but it shouldn't be a big deal

    • @emmanorton5644
      @emmanorton5644 Před 7 lety +4

      Divio18 Totally agree. It should not matter who you love. Love is love❤️💛💚💙💜

  • @Rachel-cy8dj
    @Rachel-cy8dj Před 7 lety +675

    Found out my mama has cancer today. So glad Colleen uploaded, I don't care if its serious! You're face makes me smile. Thanks Colleen! Love you so much

    • @ellie2619
      @ellie2619 Před 7 lety +10

      Unicorn Puff I'm so sorry

    • @rachels444
      @rachels444 Před 7 lety +13

      Unicorn Puff I'm so sorry. Stay strong you're in my prayers 🙏

    • @SarahSeager16
      @SarahSeager16 Před 7 lety +8

      Unicorn Puff prayers

    • @Olivia-if5gm
      @Olivia-if5gm Před 7 lety +9

      Unicorn Puff this is so sad I'm praying for u 💕💕

    • @user-ci8il5xz1e
      @user-ci8il5xz1e Před 7 lety +9

      Unicorn Puff my mom might have cancer too so i know how you might feel but it's ok💗

  • @Ms.MamaBear1979
    @Ms.MamaBear1979 Před 3 lety +10

    Cory started crying and all I could think is "Oh honey I wanna just hug you and make you feel better, I'm so sorry you had that experience" I cried too

  • @saraflaugher7676
    @saraflaugher7676 Před 4 lety +12

    Corey is
    one of the sweetest human
    Colleen is such a good person with such a good heart

  • @emilyexorcismzombie
    @emilyexorcismzombie Před 6 lety +1027

    Despite what other Christians say, I am Christian and in my heart I know that god loves everyone. I am a Christian LGBTQ ally which is very rare. I don’t care what anyone else says. God teaches us to love and to never condemn anyone, no matter who they are. I love and accept everyone for who they are ❤️ my heart goes out to Kory.

    • @simontheTOTS
      @simontheTOTS Před 6 lety +10

      Me too

    • @ellespoonies
      @ellespoonies Před 6 lety +18

      i agree! we all have a purpose here and we're all created with intention, we would never be created purely to go to hell or to be hated. no sins are more powerful than others, the same way people can believe confessing to and apologizing for your sins excuses you they can believe the lgbt community isn't so bad. we are all loved, and we should all be treated as such regardless who we love, what we look like, or what we believe in.

    • @rhayes8596
      @rhayes8596 Před 6 lety +15

      Same goes here. For ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Without Jesus's love, grace and mercy, none of us would have the chance to go to heaven. It's not what you do in your life, good or bad that gets you to heaven or hell, its trusting in the Lord and believing in him. It's letting him lead your life and strive to be more like our creator. My love and support goes out to you two. Jesus LOVES you.

    • @kyliedaisey5749
      @kyliedaisey5749 Před 6 lety +17

      Personally, I'm an atheist, but i have gone to like bible school and stuff like that. I know how they talk about people who sin, and i know a lot of (usually old-fashioned people) think of gay people as a part of that. I love meeting religious people that believe in something that's had something against the LGBTQ community and are still allies or even part of the community because i think that's the real reason for religion. I don't think it's to make you feel loved or important or the stuff other atheists say it's for, I truly believe religion is a beautiful thing when used to bring people together, and boy is it a breath of fresh air.

    • @emilyexorcismzombie
      @emilyexorcismzombie Před 6 lety +2

      @ Kylie Im so glad you think that way about my views!

  • @allipounce4902
    @allipounce4902 Před 6 lety +209

    The way Colleen was crying tells you how much she loves you 😭😭😭😭😭😭💮💮💮💮

  • @jennifervinson2688
    @jennifervinson2688 Před 2 lety +7

    His story breaks my heart! I am so glad Colleen was there for him.

  • @aldcsurprise
    @aldcsurprise Před 3 lety +13

    I feel so bad for Korey it must’ve been a horrible experience to have to go through that to find a place where he’s accepted. I’m so happy that Colleen was there to help!

  • @markbridger4875
    @markbridger4875 Před 7 lety +273

    I have never EVER ... had so much respect for someone as I do with Coleen someone you can call a TRUE friend. Every person needs a Coleen 👬👭👫

  • @LittleMissCrista
    @LittleMissCrista Před 7 lety +163

    Every Kory deserves a Colleen. We all deserve acceptance and love. Thanks for such a touching (and important) conversation ♥

  • @lannyoneill3489
    @lannyoneill3489 Před rokem +5

    I am so sorry all of this happened to you Kory, it's horrible, but it's always important to be yourself, and when you are true to who you are it will reveal the people that truly love you, if someone doesn't love and support the real you they don't deserve you, your time or your love, always be yourself and never let anyone tell you you're not worth it, because you are. So proud of you👏👏👏

  • @christinavazquez6161
    @christinavazquez6161 Před 3 lety +4

    This has broke my heart. Even now watching this in 2020. You can feel his pain. I just wanted to hug him.
    Kory you are so lovely. Colleen is so lucky to have you in her life.

  • @LillyanNoelle
    @LillyanNoelle Před 7 lety +2264

    When I came out to my family as bi, all I did was gather them all in the living room and tell a simple joke. "Let's get one thing straight, I'm not..."

    • @thhun281
      @thhun281 Před 7 lety +90

      L i l l y oh that's genius 🤣👌🏾🙏🏾

    • @9_in_the_afternoon
      @9_in_the_afternoon Před 7 lety +55

      L i l l y Pure gold.
      I did something similar - I showed my mum the song 'Getting Bi' from the show Crazy Ex Girlfriend. She got the hint 😂

    • @jankafekete5079
      @jankafekete5079 Před 7 lety +19

      L i l l y
      oh, that was in that 100 ways to come out video too 😂

    • @YasserArch
      @YasserArch Před 7 lety +10

      AN ICON!

    • @Kylegames1014
      @Kylegames1014 Před 7 lety +25

      Omg that is amazing!!! When I seen ur comment I laughed but u know what.... I am proud of u for doing that! Gj

  • @annal4847
    @annal4847 Před 6 lety +577

    I'm a Christian and i'm crying. I just want to give Kory a hug! I don't think anyone was created just to be hated.

  • @tayasb17
    @tayasb17 Před 4 lety +58

    Who else is bawling their eyes out binge watching all of Colleen’s emotional videos in quarantine😂

  • @datgaydangernoodle1315
    @datgaydangernoodle1315 Před 3 lety +7

    I see kory as a freaking EPIC DUDE who is so funny and loveable, who just wants to be happy. Bless you both

  • @pacificzoo3186
    @pacificzoo3186 Před 6 lety +672

    When Colleen starts to cry because Cory is, ahhh they’re both so pure

  • @biancamolyneux2499
    @biancamolyneux2499 Před 6 lety +525

    We need more colleens in this world

  • @miahankin4740
    @miahankin4740 Před 3 lety +26

    I’m catholic and the one thing I hated about the catholic community is that they didn’t accept the LGTBQ+ but as soon as I saw they accepted the LGBTQ+ I was literally so happy and full of joy.

    • @binx414
      @binx414 Před 3 lety +3

      I’m Catholic too! People who judge others aren’t really Christian.

  • @mgh723
    @mgh723 Před 3 lety +22

    I was taught that being LGBTQ was a bad thing growing up. So being the little good girl who followed all the things she was taught I believed it was bad. But in middle school I met people who were like my family came out to me they were either gay, pans, etc. and I didn’t say that they were bad people, instead I supported them. Nowadays, I don’t mind when someone is LGBTQ cause I have four friends who are lesbian, pans, and non binary, and I wouldn’t have them any other way ❤️

  • @_Christina_n
    @_Christina_n Před 6 lety +141

    I can’t imagine what would’ve happened if Colleen wasn’t there for him

  • @rybre8837
    @rybre8837 Před 7 lety +97

    My brother is gay and he used to get made fun of for "talking like a girl" or "looking like a girl" and he used to cry all the time. My mom already knew he was gay but she would cry cause she would feel so bad for him. And there is nothing wrong with being gay. It's better to live your life loving who your with then hating your life because u can't be with someone you love.I know that coming out is hard but it does get better. if your friends don't like you for being gay then they aren't your real friends. All I have to say is love who you love and don't care what anyone thinks, people should love you for you.

  • @average_af
    @average_af Před 3 lety +6

    I was going to come out to my dad and hearing your story just makes me so strong, I am so happy that you put this out here because you helped me and it's amazing so thank you so much, and I love you guys

  • @melissacoviello2886
    @melissacoviello2886 Před 2 lety +4

    I’m sobbing again. I’m going to share this again. I’m so sorry Kory. I know this video has opened people’s eyes and I’m sure it will save lives.

  • @crisiskit2
    @crisiskit2 Před 7 lety +133

    Thank god that Kory had Colleen. Honestly, imagine how much worse the hole situation would have been for him. In my opinion, they are both huge inspirations

    • @youreincrediblexxx7315
      @youreincrediblexxx7315 Před 7 lety +7

      Keira Rose God bless Colleen.

    • @Tomcohencoudar
      @Tomcohencoudar Před 7 lety +2

      God (the real god) send to you the people you need in your life and when you need them. Remember. always.

  • @rileynicole7001
    @rileynicole7001 Před 6 lety +479

    When kory started crying I started crying

  • @lvckofinterest
    @lvckofinterest Před 3 lety +16

    No one:
    CZcams:lets recommend this 3 years later

  • @stiiizyz
    @stiiizyz Před 2 lety +2

    Colleen has quite literally done most of her healing in the public eye, and she’s truly leading by example. What a pure soul! I love her!!!! ❤️

  • @nicolefitzpatrick4279
    @nicolefitzpatrick4279 Před 6 lety +143

    Kory is so handsome and so strong, Colleen is such a good friend, I love their friendship and they're both positive role models

  • @Shortstacs2023
    @Shortstacs2023 Před 7 lety +569

    i started crying because how people treated him is so just disgusting! kory you are an amazing human being who is so kind and caring.

    • @emilysmith8333
      @emilysmith8333 Před 7 lety +2

      Nayeli Corona yes!

    • @LuckLifeandLove-yr2pu
      @LuckLifeandLove-yr2pu Před 7 lety +1

      Nayeli Corona This is such a beautiful comment 😢😭

    • @mayasantos415
      @mayasantos415 Před 7 lety +1

      Nayeli Corona me too I started crying

    • @leagoredji6081
      @leagoredji6081 Před 7 lety +1

      Nayeli Corona preach!

    • @thejupiter2574
      @thejupiter2574 Před 7 lety +11

      My heart goes out to Kory. He is a sweet kind person entitled to love and acceptance in this world. He is as GOD made him to be. GOD is about love and acceptance It is MAN that does all the hating.

  • @taytumparker5742
    @taytumparker5742 Před 3 lety +79

    Excuse me while I go cry for days. As a lesbian, who came out when I was 5 & was disowned by my own family-this is everything!! 🏳️‍🌈🤍 so much love to you both

    • @antheiheiant
      @antheiheiant Před 3 lety +8

      You came out when you were 5? :/

    • @Lilith816
      @Lilith816 Před 3 lety +8

      @@antheiheiant so what? I knew I was bi when I was 7. It can happen.

    • @mellohix
      @mellohix Před 3 lety +10

      wow 5? i never knew sexualities existed until like 5th grade *le cri* but good for u :D

    • @carnystrickland4888
      @carnystrickland4888 Před 3 lety +7

      @@mellohix same I knew I liked girls when I was little but didn’t know I was gay at the time.

    • @binx414
      @binx414 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m so sorry that happened to you so early 😭

  • @bigdmoney718
    @bigdmoney718 Před 4 lety +6

    this really just shows how great of a person colleen is, not only is she so supportive of lgbt+ but when her friend started crying you can tell it shattered her heart to see

  • @stacia72310
    @stacia72310 Před 7 lety +1716

    this broke my heart. I've been a Christian my entire life and I'm very strong in my faith. the main thing that I've been been taught throughout my life is that Christianity is about loving people. please don't think that all Christians are like the ones at your school who did that to you. I'm so sorry this happened to you, Kory, but I'm so glad you had someone like Colleen with you.

    • @reillysazdoff9527
      @reillysazdoff9527 Před 7 lety +20

      this is exactly how i feel

    • @beckahbrooks
      @beckahbrooks Před 7 lety +48

      Stacia L
      A pastor at one of the churches that my church partners with has a gay son and everyone accepts him.
      Not every Christian is homophobic.
      I personally don't agree with it but I am not going to stop being your friend or say anything bad, people who do that suck.

    • @jasmine-hb5tu
      @jasmine-hb5tu Před 7 lety +9

      beckah brooks ya me too. I dont even think about them as a different person. I do not think being gay is right thats just my opinion but ya I will still love them

    • @giaxsmoothiex
      @giaxsmoothiex Před 7 lety +50

      As a Christian, you don't have to support LGBT because it's considered a sin. But you can still love the person, and care for him. Many people don't understand the difference. It is not required to support LGBT in today's world, because God doesn't support it. If God doesn't support it, you don't have to. But God still loves the person. So, Christians should do the same. You should love everybody, without supporting their sin.

    • @reillysazdoff9527
      @reillysazdoff9527 Před 7 lety

      thank you for specifing one of my friends is LGBT and i didnt know how to handle it.

  • @naomiknowles9187
    @naomiknowles9187 Před 5 lety +1805

    I don't get why people care if you like boys or girls. It doesn't matter who your interested in❤

  • @levicregar109
    @levicregar109 Před 3 lety +27

    Me: Hey, I'm gay.
    Sister one: I know
    Sister two: Lol, me too

  • @christinaotter
    @christinaotter Před 4 lety +2

    Every time I watch this video I want to give kory the biggest hug. Love you man. Some people are just vile.

  • @haymoney3703
    @haymoney3703 Před 7 lety +95

    This is so heartfelt, and touching. I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing that.

  • @aylagrahame1914
    @aylagrahame1914 Před 6 lety +320

    Colleen you are such a great friend towards him 💕💕

    • @Born2neverdie
      @Born2neverdie Před 6 lety

      i think being true to yourself, and having nothing to hide makes you a winner. No matter what other ppl think. But if you can lay your head to reast peacefully every night, you win. And if the ppl who dont appreciate how much u are worth it as a person walk away from you...you win.

  • @marbelmont5733
    @marbelmont5733 Před 2 lety +4

    I've been watching Collen for like 3 years now and this video popped up in my main page, I clicked bc I'm struggling to come out to my christian parents, I've decided not to do so and just keep them out of my life bc of comments they've made, but still hearing Kory made me cry and of course his story inspired me so much, tysm for this video.

  • @iateyourbagel
    @iateyourbagel Před rokem +16

    7:04 she looks like she’s forcing out tears while trying not to laugh 😐

  • @maxwellsmart4422
    @maxwellsmart4422 Před 6 lety +628

    Very emotional to watch. I am a conservative Christian father of a precious gay teenage son. No one should be treated this way nor shunned. I would tell any Christian parent that if they have a gay child your love does not stop for them. Love them. Listen to them and learn from them. Shunning is not acceptable.

    • @Justin-jj9ti
      @Justin-jj9ti Před 6 lety +33

      Maxwell Smart very true. You're a good dad

    • @bookworm1474
      @bookworm1474 Před 6 lety +34

      Maxwell Smart I literally have never been so proud of a stranger before. People like you make the world go round

    • @maxwellsmart4422
      @maxwellsmart4422 Před 6 lety +14

      Book Worm Thank you for your kind words. I am still learning as a father. But I know that my children are valuable and precious. They all one day will have a family and we hope we have been authentic examples to them. Again, thank you.

    • @maxwellsmart4422
      @maxwellsmart4422 Před 6 lety +7

      Justin Thank you for your kind words. All dads should strive to be the best they can with their kids.

    • @kindestwaytosay7280
      @kindestwaytosay7280 Před 6 lety +5

      Thank you for being an ally.

  • @abbypaige3518
    @abbypaige3518 Před 7 lety +203

    Bruh. I've never seen this guy before, but I love him already. When he broke into tears I did too. This was eye opening.. to someone like me who isn't homophobic WHATSOEVER. I didn't realize how much it can actually hurt.
    I hoped this people helped a lot of people coming out..

    • @nicholass9841
      @nicholass9841 Před 7 lety

      Abby Paige no... it didn't help me too much.. if anything the reactions Kory mentioned kind of drove me further back into the closet... I just can't.. for me coming out means... destroying my life... just to be myself

    • @abottleofRUMtv
      @abottleofRUMtv Před 6 lety +2

      you need to try and live your life for yourself, it might be hard when family and friends could potentially turn away from you but you just have to live your life! come out when you are ready! good luck to you, you can do it!

    • @maddygibbons9212
      @maddygibbons9212 Před 6 lety +2

      Abby Paige I just came out to my best friend and parents. My parents are fine with it and now I have a girlfriend

    • @youtubepasserby8339
      @youtubepasserby8339 Před 6 lety

      I'm gonna do it when I can already live on my own, and have an escape mechanism. Cause if any chance they decide to not be accepting, I can just drive away and never see them again. But currently as it is now... many of them aren't gonna like me, and there's nowhere I can go to. They are homophobic

  • @noakerosevic1533
    @noakerosevic1533 Před 3 lety +6

    This is my 10th time watching this since 2017. I have been coming back to this video because it makes me accept myself more than ever. LY Kory and Colleen and thank you for inspiring me and my best friend Stela to be just as you two: kind and acepting of each other and to never leave each others side even when it gets rough. @ColleenBallinger

  • @pipholman7192
    @pipholman7192 Před 3 lety +10

    I went to a Christian school and it really upsets me that kory was made to feel like a disgusting person for loving someone! It is mind blowing! If your ever lucky enough to find love then grab it with both hands! And I hope that anyone who comes out will have a best friend like Colleen because everyone needs one! Your amazing Kory 💕

  • @Natalie-zt8cb
    @Natalie-zt8cb Před 4 lety +246

    Cory: *starts crying*
    Me: *a tear runs down my face followed by multiple others:
    Love y’all and being gay is awesome 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

  • @redhed515
    @redhed515 Před 6 lety +1012

    You made me cry. I'm glad Colleen was there for you.

    • @eliaselias4044
      @eliaselias4044 Před 6 lety +1

      Me too I felt heartbroken cause his story is like my story except I'm not gay but my best friend that we was friends for 10 years.

    • @rachel0774
      @rachel0774 Před 6 lety

      That happened to me yesterday when I got a terrible part in a play and it was embarrassing and I told my friend who was also in the play, then the next day there was a girl who wasn’t in the play asking what part I got but I didn’t want her to know so I told my friend not to tell her she said she wouldn’t then a minute later she told her and she was making fun of me then the person who I said not to say anything to, told 3 more people and I saw them making fun of me

    • @peachsun0029
      @peachsun0029 Před 6 lety

      Same😩😭

  • @travishunterbrown
    @travishunterbrown Před 4 lety +4

    When he started crying my eyes started watering. You could tell the pain for him is still there and very real.
    I know this video is old so I hope he's in a more comfortable and loving space.

  • @itsbaybbella438
    @itsbaybbella438 Před 3 lety +3

    This is so sad colleen in a way is like a guardian angel this is why I love her

  • @Katiekat101
    @Katiekat101 Před 7 lety +361

    when kory started crying i just wanted to hug them both so so bad😭😭

  • @Brain1203
    @Brain1203 Před 7 lety +249

    I'm a mom of two adult children, whose 22-year-old son came out to me and told me that he's bisexual. I couldn't be more proud of him, and blessed to know that he knew he could come to me for anything, and I'd love him no matter what. (As if I could ever NOT love him.) But you are so right. I AM an open-minded mom who loves her children... period. So my children know they could tell me anything. But as I watch your story, my heart is so broken for you, and I just want to give you a hug and tell you that, even though you aren't MY son, as I sit here and watch this, I am very proud of YOU! I am so sorry that your coming out was so difficult, and that all of those close-minded people turned on you like that. But honey, they don't deserve you. You are a beautiful soul who deserves so much MORE! And your beautiful friend who has stood by you... honey, everyone needs a friend like her in their lives. I'm not only proud of YOU, but her, as well! I am so overcome with emotion right now! But please know that there really ARE people out here who love you. Like I do! I would welcome you, openly and proudly, if you ever need a mom! And I mean that! (I'd take both of you! LOL!) Love and hugs, sweetheart! I wish you BOTH a beautiful life!

  • @annabelle9816
    @annabelle9816 Před 4 lety +2

    watching this in 2020 and i’m crying, i love the love you guys have for each other and how strong and brave korys been, you guys have been my favorite youtubers for as long as i can remember:) ily guys

  • @avaborino6204
    @avaborino6204 Před 3 lety +16

    It kills me how many people disliked this video love is love

  • @sophiarusso1779
    @sophiarusso1779 Před 7 lety +182

    I have never seen Kory cry😭😭😭😭 I literally cried 😭😭😭

    • @Mickey_ds
      @Mickey_ds Před 7 lety +5

      ME TOO

    • @no.4891
      @no.4891 Před 7 lety +4

      Sophia Russo you're profile picture is a work of art, it's majestic.

  • @farkhasamak3098
    @farkhasamak3098 Před 5 lety +66

    I cried when kory started crying 😭😭 im glad there are people like colleen who stuck with him

  • @ellieisatheaterkid
    @ellieisatheaterkid Před 2 lety +6

    I came out to my parents today. So many tears but I’m so grateful for their support. Especially since they are very religious

  • @klaudiaczubajewska
    @klaudiaczubajewska Před 3 lety +3

    Kory is such an amazing human being, I haven't seen this video since Colleen first uploaded it, it was on my recommended page today and oh my .. I CRIED SO MUCH, this friendship is so inspiring, loving and caring, when we go through things like these then we realise is by our side, and I am so happy that Colleen is this person! ❤️ I wish I could have a friendship like this, I love you guys ❤️

  • @sienna2021
    @sienna2021 Před 5 lety +1596

    is anybody else crying while watching this video in 2019?

  • @sophiar201
    @sophiar201 Před 4 lety +166

    my cousin, who’s my best friend in the whole world just came out to me yesterday.
    and this just coincidentally popped up just now.

    • @quincymangi8899
      @quincymangi8899 Před 4 lety +3

      sophiab123 CZcams IS LISTENING

    • @stoof6789
      @stoof6789 Před 4 lety +4

      CZcams is always listening, and if you look things up you will get ads of that object. (I DON'T KNOW IT'S A FACT DON'T COME FOR ME CZcams)

    • @sophiar201
      @sophiar201 Před 4 lety +1

      Lil Baked Raptor it was through text and i literally didnt search anything related.

    • @etherealsoliloquy
      @etherealsoliloquy Před 4 lety +1

      sophiab123 it reads your texts lol

  • @acorn0
    @acorn0 Před 2 lety +43

    As a Christian it breaks my heart how "good" Christian people will go from preaching about loving one another to shunning someone. I always make sure to tell my friends that are part of the LGBTQ+ community that I love and support them no matter what. I'm so sorry that Korey had to go through this, but I'm glad there are people like Colleen that will be there for him and anyone else who is struggling.

  • @the_h3dgeh0g83
    @the_h3dgeh0g83 Před 3 lety +143

    Cory: *starts crying*
    “ARBYYYYS WE HAVE THE MEATTTTTTT!”

    • @livbairos
      @livbairos Před 3 lety +3

      Love this comment and ur profile picture 😂 kinda looks like my old hedgehog Joey 😂 he died a few weeks ago so that’s probably why I like it so much 😂😂😂

    • @sewper_swaggy4363
      @sewper_swaggy4363 Před 3 lety +4

      I'm sorry about your hedgehog

  • @myajazel2031
    @myajazel2031 Před 7 lety +5393

    I thought Christianity taught people to love each other.

    • @lamyaghanam343
      @lamyaghanam343 Před 7 lety +253

      They do. Just some people are assholes. My school is a Christian school and my religion teacher is gay and a ton of students are part of the lgbtq+ community.

    • @graciewooddy7838
      @graciewooddy7838 Před 7 lety +120

      Mya Jazel those ppl just did not set a good example of what real Christians should act like

    • @mariahvargas6006
      @mariahvargas6006 Před 7 lety +15

      They do!

    • @mariahvargas6006
      @mariahvargas6006 Před 7 lety +3

      Have you gone?

    • @cynthia5819
      @cynthia5819 Před 7 lety +111

      In the Bible it says that you should respect all people including gay people. Don't disrespect Christianity like that😫

  • @emilyashley9371
    @emilyashley9371 Před 7 lety +131

    This is honestly so heartbreaking, love is love and I honestly couldn't care less what sexuality someone was. It makes me so upset that he cried about who he was, you can't help what you are and you should be proud of yourself not think that you're a loser and everyone hates you just because of who you're attracted to. ❤️💛💚💙💜

    • @emilyashley9371
      @emilyashley9371 Před 7 lety +4

      Also some of these comments are disgusting, whoever thinks they are that important to say such horrible things need to sort their fucking head out

    • @dans6046
      @dans6046 Před 7 lety

      TreyFrom Downtown there's only one passage in the bible that could even start to say being gay is wrong, and anyway, wearing gold is banned in the bible, so everyone who wears a wedding ring is gonna be worse off than any LGBT because the bible says you should never adorn yourself with gold

    • @chungleandthebims167
      @chungleandthebims167 Před 7 lety

      TreyFrom Downtown Well. Then mind and your own business. The Bible says God has the final judgement, so why do you care so much about whether God deems them suitable or not? Worry about yourself, Trey. Or are you doing this little recruitment of LGBT members just to get brownie points with God?

  • @hazzabear
    @hazzabear Před 2 lety +2

    i just love how amazing you are to eachother, when you guys see eachother crying, your cry for eachother!! so adorable ❤️

  • @LexFerraro
    @LexFerraro Před rokem +20

    original title: *me exploiting my best friends coming out story*

    • @andreplaysz7966
      @andreplaysz7966 Před rokem +4

      even though he literally said he wanted to make this video...

    • @LexFerraro
      @LexFerraro Před rokem +1

      @@andreplaysz7966 like really, scream you’re an absolute idiot harder