VRChat specific social etiquette

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  • čas přidán 5. 05. 2022
  • This is a fun little project I worked on with Gannen and Grem! Thank you all those as well that helps contribute, especially the world creators and avatar makers in the video.
    This video covers some specific etiquette that's only relevant to VRChat. I hope its informative for those that watch this.
    If you have any questions, you can message me at / vox_draconis
    Thank you very much Hiyu for all your hard work on the furality worlds and of course the music you created. The Wandering World (Theme of Furality Luma)
    • HIYU - The Wandering W...
    Grem:- / gremthewolf
    Gannen:- / gannen16
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Komentáře • 98

  • @tumbles8350
    @tumbles8350 Před 4 měsíci +22

    "brb"
    *folds into a tangled mess of limbs*

  • @missa2855
    @missa2855 Před rokem +140

    FBT people can for my sake AFK whenever and wherever they want. There is NOTHING more hilarious IMO than seeing some avatar folded like a piece of paper with the arms pointing one way and the legs walking another way breaks me every single time.

    • @DanteDMCry34
      @DanteDMCry34 Před rokem +1

      same! it's so freaking hilarious lol

    • @TheElemynt
      @TheElemynt Před rokem +2

      I actually use AFK mode specifically to stop the human pretzel look lol

    • @oomnptideedee5207
      @oomnptideedee5207 Před 11 měsíci

      Unfortunately that doesn't work like that anymore. VRC got too smart for it.

  • @AlexFiliUK
    @AlexFiliUK Před rokem +76

    I wish VRChat had this kind of tutorial built into the app itself, since these kinds of social interactions are not always second nature to people.
    There could be some kind of incentive like if you watch the tutorial and answer some questions, you could knock off an hour of the 'New User' wait time (not 100% necessary, but if uptake is low then that could help).

  • @dragonbird3404
    @dragonbird3404 Před rokem +14

    Admittedly social skills isn't my forte' at *all* but this just sounds like common sense.

    • @voxdraco
      @voxdraco  Před rokem +7

      You would be amazed at how many people in VRC can forget common sense :)

  • @GodinControl8
    @GodinControl8 Před 2 lety +41

    10% bird
    10% dog
    10% cat
    70% drug effects

  • @nv3363
    @nv3363 Před rokem +32

    Thank you for this, I’m very bad at knowing what’s acceptable and what’s not in social situations because I’m neurodivergent

  • @kujonick
    @kujonick Před rokem +10

    small side note the portal deal is called portal sniping and its great when you get a friend with it mainly when you send them to a public uganda

  • @ClamChowdaEnjoya
    @ClamChowdaEnjoya Před rokem +98

    Your avatar is very cute. People are dumb for hating on furries.

  • @Orca19904
    @Orca19904 Před měsícem +1

    That "eating down your mic" bit sounds like it would be right in line with "don't talk while eating", which most people should be taught as small children. I don't use VRChat very often, but when I'm in any sort of voice communication I either excuse myself or mute myself if I intend to eat something.

  • @amelialikesfrogs5778
    @amelialikesfrogs5778 Před 8 měsíci +5

    in a way, i'm sorta glad there wasn't as much as i was expecting. I'm really awkward with these things and was expecting stuff like don't approach people already having a conversation, or don't lurk around not saying anything. i find it hard to be good at conversation, especially with new groups so exclusionary stuff like that would have given me way more anxiety about trying to meet new people

  • @jacksonbarkerthebluehairedfox
    @jacksonbarkerthebluehairedfox Před 9 měsíci +3

    3:34 Oh this one I relate to SEVERELY. So many times I've had it where I'm trying to join in on a conversation or just hang out in a group when someone bigger, louder, and more popular than myself just barrels straight through me and stands on top of me, sometimes maliciously, and drowns me out of the conversation. Its one of the reasons I actually dropped VRChat for a long time due to how often I got treated like I wasn't even there.

  • @X1Daring2
    @X1Daring2 Před rokem +7

    My vrchat experience is always lonely or full of people that are trolls, I'm lucky to even find something fun in vrchat or find someone who is actually nice on a rare occasion, hopefully my vrchat experience gets better in the future, until then I'll just play secondlife instead UwU

  • @zakku_88
    @zakku_88 Před rokem +3

    Love the way this whole video was presented! Nice job!

  • @daisychan110
    @daisychan110 Před rokem +1

    This is such a cute way to showcase all the scenarios of the cases. Love it, thank you for the videoo

  • @Coloneldata
    @Coloneldata Před rokem +3

    I just started playing vr chat like 2 days ago and this video was really helpful and interesting at the same time. Keep up the good work 👍

  • @sarkandrago3222
    @sarkandrago3222 Před 9 měsíci +3

    One more, and I hardly ever see it anymore, but it's been recent enough to mention the red exclamation point, or "possible ban evader"/ "crasher" rank. This one is pretty self-explanatory.

  • @bryanparks6958
    @bryanparks6958 Před rokem +1

    Wonderful and entertaining video of something that we all should know about. Well done, and thank you!

  • @alias21x
    @alias21x Před 2 lety +6

    watched it, and loved every second of it! :D

  • @jaymew2geronimo224
    @jaymew2geronimo224 Před rokem +4

    would like to see more of this type of interviews. these would stand out more compared to others such: human VR, AZAZAL, lucid, twice,etc

  • @BlackCatCards
    @BlackCatCards Před 6 měsíci

    Amazing video. Your production quality and information was top notch, loved the flow on this!! Had no idea Nuisance rank was a thing lol.

  • @chevronthewolf455
    @chevronthewolf455 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent video! Very good points!

  • @bigbrotank_36
    @bigbrotank_36 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you! this was very helpful ^-^

  • @akiraakiraakiraakira
    @akiraakiraakiraakira Před 11 měsíci +1

    nice transition from not-so-friendly avatars to orange status! these 2 are connected :D!

  • @ecogreen123
    @ecogreen123 Před rokem

    i think this needs more views, lots of this is very important.

  • @KitanKate
    @KitanKate Před rokem +1

    ive only ever seen a nuisance once

  • @drchaos1987
    @drchaos1987 Před rokem

    Ill be honest. This video came in my suggested. And im happy i clicked. Also like ur avatar. Its cute.

  • @tsopvr
    @tsopvr Před 2 lety +2

    this is really good advice :p

  • @Wildous
    @Wildous Před rokem

    You've got really nice voice :D i liked your video, well made.

  • @Spartan_767
    @Spartan_767 Před rokem +5

    Terminally online behavior lmao. 90% of the community will just scream slurs, delusional nonsense or just start earraping

  • @DeepInsideZettaiRyouiki
    @DeepInsideZettaiRyouiki Před 6 měsíci

    O, this old Avatar is great!

  • @Aaron13ps
    @Aaron13ps Před 2 lety

    Legit good video. Nice

  • @Octo_Chara
    @Octo_Chara Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing. Admittedly, i have a hard time with personal space, especially with small avatars as I'm visually impaired and dont always see them. Im very new to the game and will eventually get better with this. But i will make sure to let people in the instance know why i sometimes move so close to them.

  • @RazorBird
    @RazorBird Před rokem

    10/10 Thanks for the video

  • @alastorfan1172
    @alastorfan1172 Před rokem

    As someone who plays once in a while and I give people chances. but if they ruin them I do try to show annoyance to hopefully let them see that I am not happy with em.
    But all around I can be a genuinely good person unless people either
    A. Immediately give off a bad presentation/introduction to me or my partner
    B. Try to get me and my partner in a poly-relationship even though we do not want one,
    But all and all I am generally a nice person unless something bad happens and it breaks into abit of an argument if I call someone out to try and get the situation settled. Alot of times the ones in the wrong will deny it and I have to start becoming agressive to the wrong doers to try and de-escalate a situation.
    I have also seen a nuisance rank before, they were saying alot of slurs and i saw why they were like that lol. But thank you for making a video like this for new or returning vrchat players! I found this educational and as a good refresher to me since I am a rare Public person, mostly in private hubs/servers

  • @sleetyscroll6069
    @sleetyscroll6069 Před rokem +1

    The onetime that I've ran into someone with a nuance rank me and everyone else in that lobby got crashed. Have yet to encounter another person with a nuance rank since then.

  • @francegamer
    @francegamer Před rokem +3

    I'm at new user with 23 hours pc, probably 10 hours quest and 6 friends. Most of these are pretty much just IRL or voicechat rules that translate decently into vr, and I don't have a good enough PC to render absurd particles so it wasn't that helpful but that's probably just a good sign.

  • @SargonDragon
    @SargonDragon Před 3 měsíci

    Be aware that there is significant audio latency on the order of 500ms. This causes people to sometimes accidentally cut each other off in conversations. Be aware that they're not trying to be rude on purpose. It's a technical limitation.

  • @pennyproud3323
    @pennyproud3323 Před rokem +1

    wish I saw this like 10 months ago

  • @Shyverin
    @Shyverin Před 4 měsíci

    7:43, what is that ava in the background with those gravity balls? reminds me of glowstringing.

  • @biofall38
    @biofall38 Před rokem +1

    Crap I didn’t even know I’d been doing some of these

  • @lilianakitten4450
    @lilianakitten4450 Před rokem +1

    Tfw I find an avatar that I like the look of but I can never use it cause when I switch to it or join a new instance it starts blasting XXXTentacion or some shit

  • @squashedtomato3244
    @squashedtomato3244 Před rokem

    8:45 I think that baby needs some milk😂😂

  • @kylozen3938
    @kylozen3938 Před rokem +6

    So basically being a decent person.

  • @panicpixel923
    @panicpixel923 Před rokem

    honestly i don't mind hearing crunchy food

  • @senpai_mangue6141
    @senpai_mangue6141 Před 9 měsíci

    my friend i would say is big into anime, from what i see
    when i played with him for the first time, legit every avatar he had was loud, blinding and laggy af
    best believe i changed my shield

  • @pjdillon7982
    @pjdillon7982 Před rokem +1

    With the music thing as someone who plays music through vm, please read the room aswell. most of the time nobody wants to listen to rap/hiphop in the the pug vs the black cat where most dont want to listen to older music and if your playing music amd join a world where someone else is already playing music please pause yours and maybe have a chat with them ive played a game where we played music in turns matching energy its more fun the just competing with who has the louder music, also dont treat people like NPCs. we get it its just game but the people your talking to are real people, think of vrc as more of a social gathering then a game.

  • @Ratpack30
    @Ratpack30 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love VRC as there are quite a few interesting people there....however, the ammount of judgemental kids there that have something against us older players are wearing on my thick hide....
    Would have stayed in private room though it does get boring when you don't really have any friends on there :p

  • @snowfox4704
    @snowfox4704 Před 9 měsíci

    So, question, if you’re just starting VRChat, does this mean you can’t use an avatar of your own choosing (ie. one you bought, commissioned, or allowed to use a free use)?
    Do you get stuck using the default model till you rank up enough to upload an avatar?

    • @TrackerRoo
      @TrackerRoo Před 9 měsíci

      Given that you cant upload one, yeah. Unless the artist has a way in game for you to use the avatar you are stuck waiting for your trust level to bump from visitor to new user. Mine switched when I friended someone else. So if you have a few friends in game it shouldn't be that hard to go from visitor to new user and unlock the ability to upload avatars.

    • @snowfox4704
      @snowfox4704 Před 9 měsíci

      @@TrackerRoo
      Okay, thank you.

  • @paulblart5358
    @paulblart5358 Před rokem

    Honorable video my tiny furry friend.

  • @Trylo-bot
    @Trylo-bot Před rokem

    🥰

  • @frogo6413
    @frogo6413 Před rokem

    Why does this video have only 21 comments? Let's fix that!

  • @frogo6413
    @frogo6413 Před rokem

    Is your avatar custom made? ITS SOO COOL!

    • @voxdraco
      @voxdraco  Před rokem +2

      It's called a Rikkor. I made the textures but the rest was made by the creator. Look up forestwind on booth :)

    • @frogo6413
      @frogo6413 Před rokem

      @@voxdraco thanks!

  • @FAT_ONION
    @FAT_ONION Před rokem

    this must be reverse psychology

  • @Drewplegaming
    @Drewplegaming Před rokem

    4:50 dude im new to vrchat, people did that all the time in furry hideout omg 😂

  • @TrackerRoo
    @TrackerRoo Před 9 měsíci +1

    I think if your nuisance rank gets low enough they should just ban that account. Like a three strike deal or something. Just because there are too many worlds for the devs to even attempt to police themselves it would be better if those hit with enough blocks, kicks and mutes were just flat out removed from the game entirely. They aren't there to make friends or contribute to a community. So just remove them entirely and deny them the attention they crave.

    • @SargonDragon
      @SargonDragon Před 3 měsíci

      Sometimes players can fall into nuisance rank unintentionally. The algorithm isn't always right. There can be circumstances where a lot of people may block an avatar because of some technical problem that player may not even realize or didn't intend, for instance. I've also seen cases where a player just didn't realize what they were doing was inappropriate. Getting the nuisance rank was a wakeup call, and they changed their behavior and eventually were able to regain normal status.
      I think the way VRChat handles this is pretty good. When players are griefing intentionally, they will probably stop using that account as soon as it reaches nuisance rank since they won't be able to effectively grief anymore. It has essentially the same effect as a full ban. While people who tripped this unintentionally do have a way to recover.

  • @twistedsoul6164
    @twistedsoul6164 Před rokem

    also what most veteran users dont know also, is there is 3 more ranks past trusted user, Veteran, legendary, mod/dev user

    • @voxdraco
      @voxdraco  Před rokem

      I know about them, but I didn't want to add them since the likelihood of ever seeing them in game is extremely unlikely, this kept it simple.

    • @twistedsoul6164
      @twistedsoul6164 Před rokem

      @VoxDraco ya i know just thought I'd add some lore 🙂

    • @TwinkieShip
      @TwinkieShip Před 10 měsíci

      those only exist as legacy ranks in the api and can not be seen in-game anymore

  • @samcandles
    @samcandles Před rokem

    honestly this is just normal etiquette

  • @Apple-vk3fi
    @Apple-vk3fi Před 5 měsíci

    why can i hide my rank?

  • @royalblanket
    @royalblanket Před rokem

    Anyone know what the world at 7:58 is?

  • @livb4139
    @livb4139 Před 2 lety +2

    how do i politely reject someone's friend request?

    • @tsopvr
      @tsopvr Před 2 lety +2

      I'd say, deny it then let them know you would want to get to know them first, thats all
      if they freak out, probably better they aren't on your friends list

    • @voxdraco
      @voxdraco  Před 2 lety +2

      If you don't know someone very well and they just throw you a friend request, you can just tell them exactly that, that you only friend people who you spend a lot of time with. If they get upset about it, the onus is on THEM, not you. More importantly, if they do get stroppy about it, its all the more reason not to add them. A reasonable person should be understanding.

    • @zakku_88
      @zakku_88 Před rokem +1

      Speaking as someone who still deals with a little bit of social anxiety, I'll sometimes shoot a friend request to someone (usually friend of a friend) without saying much first simply because I was too nervous to actually speak at the time. I'm actually a selective mute in game for that reason lol. But I get it, I often get weary about random friend requests too, but just wanted to point it out

    • @Spartan_767
      @Spartan_767 Před rokem

      The block button

  • @K.Rose.Reacts
    @K.Rose.Reacts Před 8 dny

    5:08 💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @ZoruaZorroark
    @ZoruaZorroark Před 7 měsíci

    sadly, many of these apply to discord

  • @Zatsuiki
    @Zatsuiki Před 11 měsíci

    I had so many people run up to me and cuddle my face. I don't like that but I don't want to be forced to write it into my profile you know? It should be common sense not to be touched randomly.

  • @eelacanth
    @eelacanth Před rokem

    sadly, some people will instantly block you for being new, which can be pretty disheartening, especially since it can affect your rank and prevent you from uploading stuff

  • @DanteDMCry34
    @DanteDMCry34 Před rokem

    your avatar is the cutest birb!
    also, ive literally been sexually harrased in vrchat
    i had a lucario avatar and like 3 different people kept chasing after me, they had the voice of an old person and they kept calling me "thick" and saying sexual stuff
    and also, i never knew ranks could go down so thanks for the info!

  • @Electirc
    @Electirc Před rokem +2

    Going to be doing the opposite of everything in this video

  • @SH4WNATR0N
    @SH4WNATR0N Před rokem +1

    Ok so use common sense
    Got it

  • @chops3905
    @chops3905 Před 7 měsíci

    As a vr chat player myself, I don’t understand why people get so butthurt about touching their character in a game. I’m not groping your titties, I’m groping this hot anime babe’s titties that is definitely hotter than you. Like, I don’t even know what you look like bro chill out

  • @freedom-in-moonlightlunari8916

    I thought most of this stuff was common sense.

  • @LeafGreenRikkor
    @LeafGreenRikkor Před 2 lety

    Mrawr This Fur Speaks the truth

  • @Mr.PhantomRider
    @Mr.PhantomRider Před 9 měsíci

    Unfortunately for this video i found it more to be a "tos(terms of agreement) more then anything to vr. Ive spent over 2300+Hours on VrChat, and for some reason over timescale anxiety stopped me from continuing on vrc. but with thiis Video instead of helping me out understanding why I dont dislike it.. it makes me dislike vrc more.

  • @StarHorder
    @StarHorder Před 10 měsíci

    here is another piece for yall. stop using the rex avatar, the creator is a transphobe. stop using 'seperate art from artists' in non-historical contexts that it was never meant for. it's like pedos claiming MAP doesn't mean 'Multi Animator Project'.

    • @TwinkieShip
      @TwinkieShip Před 10 měsíci

      yknow u can just not support the rex creator by pirating their avatars right? it literally something u can do if u like the avatar but dont want to support the creator if their bad

  • @herobrinejr1701
    @herobrinejr1701 Před rokem +1

    5:05
    top 10 dragonball momments