Buying the Boyfriend Experience in Japan
Vložit
- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- For the first time in centuries, young women in Japan are turning away from marriage and relationships. With more Japanese women entering the workforce, earning wages, and enjoying increased economic freedom, gender norms in the country are shifting, giving rise to new economic realities.
In Tokyo, a new wave of services is targeting these women, serving up the ""à la carte"" boyfriend experience. Whether they're craving a shoulder to cry on, a hunk to take shots with, or a late-night cuddle, Tokyo-based women can fulfill their relational needs on demand and by the hour.
Host Karley Sciortino travels to Tokyo to sample the services that are marketed to the country's powerful single women and speaks with the men who make a living catering to that need.
Click here to SUBSCRIBE to VICE Asia: bit.ly/2LhqAR9 - Zábava
So basically he's more or less a therapist who cuddles.
I would excel at such a job lol
@@typhon1861 You need to be good looking to get hired. That alone rules out you and 98-99% of men.
If my therapist was hot I'd cuddle him too lmfao 😂
I'm a therapist who cuddles
He's a psychiatrist with benefits
I'd cry when I got the bill.
I cry everytime before leaving for work
Lol🤣
65 dollars?
I cried looking at her face. Woof.
I almost cried watching this cringy blonde during the entire documentary...
I was a bartender for a long time, and this doesn't feel too different from that. I had regulars who were divorced and lonely. They'd buy me drinks and tip well. I'd ask about their kids, and listen to their problems. It's a transactional relationship, but that doesn't mean you don't care. And you do get attached. I was very touched when some of my regulars reached out during the pandemic, when the bar I was working at was closed. Checking in, making sure I was ok. Service industry, whatever service you provide comes with a lot of emotional labor. If you're good at it, you either care a lot, or you're a psychopath and extremely good at pretending.
This is so true, it had me dying laughing because I am also a bartender. I think I am a psychopath though. I do have regulars that I care about but it is so emotionally laboring. By the time I get home I feel drained I don't have anything to put into my real life.
on point
@@rottenentertainment9518 Cringe hahahahah
@@rottenentertainment9518 I don't think a psychopath would typically be emotionally drained. It might take a bit of energy from them to engage, but from what i know it wouldn't feel emotionally draining because ur not using your emotions to connect with them. YOu just sound like you are overworked and have too much emotional responsibility
I mean to be honest, I hate to say this, but many relationships and marriages are essentially transactional. VERY RARELY do people like, GENUINELY care without either receiving something back in the form of money, attention, fame, status; etc. Most humans especially in today's world with little social interaction, CRAVE a sense of companionship and company so much they will pay for it, and I think many realize it's kind of an illusion, but most everything in life is an illusion when you really, sadly, think about it deeply.
"I create an atmosphere that enables people to cry" that's like my dad talking to me and my siblings growing up LMAO
😂😂😂omg
I can feel you 🙂
LMFAO
How relatable
your father is a great man
I feel like this would be a great job for my ex. He’s been making women cry in the dark for years
Savage
😂👏👏
Lol..
Taylor Nezovich the shade 😂😂 that dude is getting exposed like the jerk he is 😂😂
it's starting to become popular again in korea
Everyone thinks this is weird but this has been available for decades and centuries for men...
Wow preach
Men do it to smash not to cry, there is a difference
@@nonexistent5859 it's not a real emotional connection though. The comfort in having someone you trust and confide in and feel truly comfortable with crying in front of is not the same as paying someone to induce you to cry and wipe away your tears....
Pigsbum53 ASMR miss your videos
@Nonexistent you won't get affection and feel emotionally connected with a random guy you pay to the hour
She's like talking about her problems and stuff and he is just nodding with that cute derp smile not even understanding a word she says until translated .. I laughed so hard during this vid
Me too haha i tought the same
I feel that they all understand basic English, just not in speaking. So maybe he was not that lost in translation. 😄
LMAO I thought I was the only one who picked up on this.... just casually laying there nodding his head with a derp smile .... Hahahaha f*k
F T what if they had earpieces and people translating for them in real time. Doubt they did this while laying down but that would've been cool.
Just think, there are at least 2 other people in the room with them, hovering over them, the translator and the cameraman. There may also be a sound and lighting guy, and maybe even a director.
Damn. After 3 videos about Japan on this channel I'm convinced Japan has real issues with feelings and being human.
Most Japanese aren't using these strange services! Of course we only get to see the strange things of Japan because no one would be interested in all the normal things in Japan. Kind of how Jerry Springer show works, right?
@@happycook6737 hahaha! Jerry Springer! What a shambles of a show that was😆 I recall on a scifi drama called Farscape, how the astronaut from Earth said of his weird group of aliens: "It's a Jerry Springer kind of a family, but it's still a family."
Really? After 3 videos,,, you think you know enough about a country to conclude this? Im not saying Japan dont have this problem, im saying, do you really make your conclusions after watch 3 short videos on youtube?
@@sarahalmeida8311 Of course not, but it can definitely swing the spectrum in favor of a perspective that exist. Odd to see someone comment on something from 10 months ago...that's intense in itself. Are people searching for reasons to be mad now a days?
It's still the aftershock of big boy and fat man. They've never been the same
I'd cry to death myself if I spent 65$/hour just to cry
😂😂😂
modern life 'struggles'
65$ is cheap. u just can buy food with that money.
For 65$/hour I'll make you cry. I'll do it for 20$
if you are dead because of crying, i will cry for you as well T_T
so he literally get paid for making women cry by playing some sad videos
Looks like Easy Money LOL
That too for 1 hour 🌚
Im in the wrong business.
thats right.....cool shit
Hell i could do that. Hmmm hahahahah ill show them a video of bara closing down. Haha
I know, I may sound old fashion but isn't it scary that society has become so transactional? Things like relationships and love used to be "priceless", but this shows that you can put a price on relationship and love. But where is the soul?
Its not old fashion dude its right. this is so cringe
World is fucked mate. I mean ISIS water crisis global warming and all that shit is scary but this kind of shit is "keeps me awake at night" kind of scary
Love and relationship was long been transactional mate we just not realize ut
@@mijlal.haider It's dystopian as fuck isn't it. Yes, relationships has always been transctional but there's always an underlying implication that it'll be more than that. But yeah, this is literally pay $X for X amount time to be in a relationship. After that it's over, no attachments, and unfortunately no real human connection
The transaction involved in getting a high from reading a romance novel bought from a bookstore I can understand...but a real person?? Hmmm...no.
He wiped THEIR tears with the same napkin-
Not surprised Covid came from Asia 😂
@@ashleyoasis7948 you’re being racist
@@kookknowsme4725 that word has lost all power buying a pillow makes you racist now a days no one is afraid of being called one becuse that word has been categorised by ridiculous standards
He probably never cleans it too and then sells a thousand women’s tears to some thirsty guy on the internet haha
@@ashleyoasis7948 not covid
This video was 2 years ago
Am i the only one noticing that she REALLY likes the guy cuddling with her? LOL
Yeah i noticed she was giving him all sorts of eyes lol... but he probably missed all those signs with his hair in his eyes.
@@FrankieJeal xD Freakin good point there!
I really liked him too!
Who can resist him? Hahaha
Jup
My man at the host club lookin' like a Final Fantasy character lol
exactly
yaaaassssss XD
Sisyrinchium angustifolium probably the funniest joke of 2019
Your comment just made my day. Straight up. Thank you.
LMFAO I love this comment
If something’s completely bizarre, then someone in Japan has turned it into a lucrative business.
Yes, learn from the Japanese 😊
japan is like that weird, black sheep among countries
They have no shame
@@roshnik5137 from the land of the samurai to the land of the simp
@@egg-iu3fe weirdly they have these ultra-collectivist culture of 'not standing out' or not being the black sheep or you'll get discriminated against
i really like the reporter. shes so open minded, non-judgemental and very respectful. shes doing a wonderful job
And having a lot of fun...
@@angelesrienzovarella4228 I'd have fun too If I were her
The reporter did not do her prior research and in several instances disrespects Japanese customs and ethnics, she is not respectful at all. She does not bow and does not receive his business card with both hands, which is considered extremely disrespectful. You're also supposed to analyze it and thank for it. She acts like every obnoxious American tourist.
@@RipperGand Are you Japanese ?
Totally agree! Love how laid back and open she is. Refreshing to see.
$65 an hour for crying... I can do that for free all day. Pay me.
Hahahaha yeshh me too
Girl you're alright? For what reasons you're crying?
Same here. I got all the tears in the world.
I pay to cry like wtf
wanna smile? no payment needed its free
"...if you could would you choose me?"
His pause. Girl, I thought this was a professional interview.
These men hairstyles lookin' like they are cosplaying Final Fantasy characters
LMAAAOOOOO finally someone said it
Yare yare daze
Well most anime or lot of other entertainment cosplay hairstyles do tend to look better than your average persons hair styles in lot of cases (minus some though).. And they are in a business that needs to look good so.
The japanese culture of 2000’s anime hairstyles isn’t dead yet
@@maurice5726 these days people tend to mix it with a skin fade which gives it a neo Tokyo punk look.
The "sheep" guy really seems compassionate and gentle.his eyes and smile can comfort women emotionally.
Its needed for his job after all. Look at ted bundy……
@@axzel4038he's not a killer tho
id rather cry alone then cry in a room full of other crying people
Why do you have to cry alone first before doing it around other people?
I agree I also enjoy solitude when dealing with my own issues, adding more people to that process is stressful to me and leaves me uncomfortable with showing my vulnerability.
More like I'd rather cry alone than pay someone 65 dollars an hour
It's really weird forcing yourself to cry in front of strangers. I honestly don't get it.
Exactly my dudes,
"My vibe ruining your cry vibe" I died of laughter 😂🤣
I died at “cry vibe”
😂😂😂😂bahahaha
So my dude just shows them CZcams videos of sad Vietnamese/Thai commercials and gets paid for it lol my boi
allah bless
@Jason Lee and plays the chinese ukelele
# 😂😂😂
allah bless 😭
Its genius man
This dude is the oldest looking teenager ever.
They’re probably in their 20s-30s
😂😂🤣
There is something just dehumanizing about this video.. no real human connection at all, it's just a show until you run out of money for one more hour to spend
Its better than blowing it in the casino I think.
@James Franko No, it's not about getting laid that is why this is sad, they can easily get laid but they can't find someone to connect with. And who has problems crying alone? They could just watch sad movies and cry... How bad are they oppressed if they feel they need a guy to help them cry??
@James Franko Yes I know there are people in the sex industry, but every time I see a documentary about host clubs, sheep boys and so on, the people that search for this just give me the impression that they are desperate for affection, not only physical needs. Also there are people that don't have partners all around the world... but they don't react in such an extreme way as to blow all their money on this. I feel that in Japan the pressure is so much they just go crazy and exaggerate no matter in what field :)) I don't know how to explain...
@Lisasasa this is great I think. It's a lot more honest than traditional relationship where you are charged anyway without up front cost. So this is much more honorable and noble.
So if a guy pays on date thats cool and gentlemen behavior...but if women pays its dehumanizing...bahaha😂
She had bedroom eyes for him real bad
@Sanita Brown Absolutely right!😂😂👍
Oh yeaaa
she wants the dddddddddddddddddddd
😗😗😁
Goog one
She flirts better than these guys and she is not trying to
Difference between American flirting and Japanese flirting.
@@MrMhtmht Not at all, at least not to me. Interesting how perceptions vary from person to person, isnt it ?
Really? Or is it that these guys are good at making her feel special and wanted. And that she's responding to that. They make money doing this..
@@trueorigins yy y is just being prejudiced, there and watched this in a simple way, first, as it was said, people could flirt differently from place to place, for example, a hug to greet a person who recently met, it's the last thing a Japanese would think about, on the other hand, I can see the parts yy y is talking about and she's flirting, it's not she's not trying to do it, she's actually doing it, like when she asked the host if it was on his hands, he'd choose her to host for her or when she says to the owner why we're sat that separated, that bit was a biased comment from yy y to make her look better. I saw one of these documentaries with a Japanese woman who visit those places and it was different to what happened on this, because they needed a translator, plus, the pauses to translate, so, things didn't flow naturally and we don't know if they told them, at least in the case of the hosts, that they had to do what they usually do during the interview, because, the owner just approached that as what it was, an interview about their job, a problem of language barrier, perhaps.
The last one, Shingo, handled everything as she was doing and they wanted for this documentary.
she is a he
I feel like cuddling with someone you love and have a connection with is a lot different than cuddling with some stranger
It is. But scientifically, humans need touch. If you haven't been touched in years, a cuddle is therapeutic and will back you feel better, even if you have no connection to the person.
I think at some point any touch will do
The cuddling session is after the “sleep”. Male tend to really sleep after the “sleep”. Female would want to talk or attention after that. Sheep boy is a hard work since men tend to fall asleep after that.
The love one can be turned against you when you start regretting being with him.
With a Strangers it moves on the same night.
true but when you have no one it does make a little difference i guess for some people
I can't tell if this is taking advantage of people's loneliness or just providing a therapeutic service for this lonely epidemic.
I would recommend you watch Conan‘s video about fake japanese families. One goal of this companies is often to help people out in their real lifes. (Well maybe not the host club/maid cafes...)
Probably both. But the customers don't mind it even if the company's just taking advantage of their loneliness. Because that's just how lonely they feel. If they're willing to spend money on it, that already explains how desperate they are to get the love and attention that they don't get from the people that they already have in life.
just another way of legal prostitution
I’m fine crying by myself, I’ll give myself 65 dollars an hour every time I cry 😂
i like how you think
Me too! In fact my novels will make me rich at this point.
Agree... lol.. i am about to say the same thing with you 🤣
What you didn't get that's not about crying itself, it's about sharing something personal and deep with someone else, what those women can't do with others, so, that's why they hire that kind of service. Why do you think people invite others to celebrate something, why do they share their secrets with someone, why do they want people near them in their saddest moments or in their important days?
You can cry alone, because you watched or read something which moved you, but, that's not the same, you're doing it alone and just keeping that for yourself.
Me too
Honestly I feel like we need to appreciate the cameraman like he/she had to follow this weird ass women and watch her flirt with Japanese men and continued to get good shots and not be fazed 👏👏
So true, props.
I like her
@Johana Almeida for doing their job very well regardless of the uncomfortable situations... yes.
Who said it is a he? Sexist!
@@wiseguy01 they choose the job no one else to blame for it
The female reporter is literally constantly checking every dude while talking to them lol.
Omg! I was purposely seeking a comment listed to the idea on my mind 🤣🤣. She was .
omg loooooool imagine a whole camera crew and a translator standing in the corner while this interviewer is venting out her worries to this sheep boy
👍😂
@PunchFor Pound that's so true....they come prepared to show some side of story while coming out to shoot....and will do anything to capture that essense.....i mean they're professional.... ofcourse the interaction of host was staged
Hi
Lol I was like hold up she actually gonna talk personal with him?
Like porn, sort of.
Japan are stuck with the early 2000’s hair styles
way better than the viking mohawks and Jack Ma korean look or the 2019 methhead look.
Because they came up with it and look the best with it?
School Sucks
Not at all lmaoo
@@sulsul9752 still better than westerners celebrity back when they still use this hairstyle. Or is it just me
Sul Sul better than Mushroom korean hair 🍄
16:27 *She might be a little too much into this...*
boltoms yeah that was awkward AF, he even was like WTF
I thought the same thing ! She’s enjoying it
Or maybe she's just the right amount of into it...
@@GreenKC what is a baby D? that sounds illegal, be careful with the laws anywher ein the world.
well she did pay for this... or rather i should say vice did.
sheep boy: "You're amazing, just be you and go your own way to happiness."
reporter: "Thank you, you're good at lying! Also wow, 0% body fat!"
This is like drinking sea water. The more you drink, the more thirsty you get.
False, drinking sea water will kill you
But first you get very thirsty...later you die
Damn
TotallyNormal Person what is with this profile pic
@@Alibern7 Join our army and praise to our savior Maximilianmus
Is it just me or is the journalist craving for much more than just cuddling? 😂
Yeahhh..she was really at ease with him
I am sure they have that kind of service too, you might have to go to an XXX channel for that
whose to say? i'd love to cuddle with men i find super attractive all the time. not everyone wants to have sex with everyone all the time
oh he totally hit it after the interview
Lol 😂😂
I feel the vibe through my screen that she wants to make out with her sheep
Valeria Del Rio-Rodriguez she's falling for him to the point that she made their picture the cover photo of the video.
0% body fat
and sleep.. like literally i'm pretty sure from thejetlag
He prematurely ejaculated when she touched his chest
I think he looked horny too tbh...
When the male host said he drinks every day i felt my own liver failing 😭
I love the way he pretend to understand her talking. Surely both had to wait for translation.
Not necessarily. I work with the Japanese and some of them understand English perfectly but reply only in Japanese. (I understand Japanese but if I didn't, then I would need a translator)
The dude is a PROFESSIONAL at this.
@@punchforpound2808 in my opinion vice is 80-90% bullshit but its still entertaining.
@@punchforpound2808 its not strange its just good
@@punchforpound2808 i believe you. I wanna know. I agree vice is weird af. This blond chick is weird af.
This is the horniest reporter I've ever seen 😂
Omg it's so awkward to watch lol
She probably got laid when the cameras were off
@@coolcat5798 😂
That's because she is not a regular interviewer, she is Karley from Slutever... She literally has been writing about sex and relationship for years and is well-known for it. I think I first read her blog in 2010.
🤣🤣🤣
Yo... I can just watch Thai commercials and cry at home alone...
this is so weird. if i lived in japan and had the money, I'd probably hire a sheepboy for lonely birthdays 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
You can't buy a boy's true love, Raini. A woman has to earn it.
I turned 40 and was by myself. He would have been handy.
@@petercoderch589 sounds like a hard to get person
Me too! 😅
Am I the only one thinking that this could be an amazing Black Mirror episode?
Lettie Williams I feel like Japan is the place that most resembles Black Mirror
I am available for free
😂 mind u ... u can't go beyond cuddles :P
Now they would say your cheap if your free so make i would say DONT BE CHEAP charge them some big asss amount
I am free for everything let me know anytime anyplace.
@@patrolmanmalik3121 ok when
Ok
She proper looks at the boy as if she’s in love. Am I the only one getting the vibe that she likes him 😂😂😂
Edit: Thanks for all the likes 💕
Some women are natural at flirting. She is one of them. I usually see her videos because she is open minded and professional at the same time.
Try sleeping with someone, cuddling.. And not show any afection.. i'm sure it will be hard. :)
@@iKnyx oh it gets very hard when you're cuddling.
@@iKnyx Not really. I can sleep and cuddle next to someone and sex is not necessary. Having an intelligent conversation in bed is worth more than the sex if you really want to know that person.
@@mariabardo6420 thats not what he was refering to, his talking about "affection" during cuddling with a stranger. its not about intellectual conversation either.
That ‘sheep boy’ is frickin ADORABLE!
I will be your sheep boy🐑🐏
@Jebran Safidchehri?
Yeah he's cute. She was looking at him like she wanted a lamb chop lol.
No he's not, just regular
@Jebran Safidchehri No, thanks for the offer though
"You have like 0% body fat" 🤣🤣🤣
She really enjoy that huh
all abrahmic religions literally treats women as property ... Islam who ruled many of big places in past , have had rules clearly stating women as property . Islam , christianity , jews etc all abrahmics are same .
@@Q_QQ_Q could you provide proof please? Because especially islam gave women so many rights they never had before (such as working, speaking in court etc, and it banned child killings)!
+KeepingUpWithKenza property of enemy belong to winner including every islamic monarchy dynasty ever .
Truth is, once women get to that point, where they’re lying down with someone willingly, beyond extreme deal breakers, i.e. body odor, obesity, humorlessness, etc., they pretty much will _backwards rationalize_ things they suddenly like about whoever is lying there with them, regardless of the specific dude.
Even if a day before she expressed the exact opposite, like “I’m not into scrawny guys,” now it is “wow you have 0% body fat”. If he was chubby it would be the same deal. “Wow, you’re so cuddly and warm, like a teddy bear,” yada yada yada. Hilarious.
i think she wants some of that sheep boy
I do too 😋
I think so too. "You have, like, zero percent body fat." LOL
4:17
6:00
She's falling for him to the point that she made their picture the cover photo of the video.
"Hiring a cute guy to come cry with at your office is the latest experience available for purchase in Japan."
I BURST out laughing. Sounds straight out of The Onion
Women are insane.
Mike Castellon Why do you think so?
@@mikecastellon4545damn who hurt you?
First come laughter, than comes tears.
@@nah_. really? That's original. We've all been hurt by someone at some point, does that take away from a logical conclusion?
I’m such a baby I was ready to cry when he said let’s cry together 😂 I didn’t need the video, the stress of life is enough for me lol
Let’s cry together🥲😂
😂😂😂😂
"You have like zero per cent body fat" - such an American girl comment. The only thing missing was the "Oh ma gawd" at the beginning.
yeah cringe
@@abigailescobar1001 Typical white girl's comment!!
I lol'd at this comment, thank you imdjc4
@@bigfootswatching9986 literally! 😂😂😂 twitterwhitechick.jpg
@@bigfootswatching9986 that's racist
when ur job is to make women cry lollll
there are 2 main ways to do that, one is a bad one and the other one is a good one.
isn't that most men tho
Mr. IcY - MooD what’s the good one
Then my exes would be rich
@@dzenk19 only big black cook feel woman bad
Omg this is so dramatic. I wanna laugh lol
" My cry vibe was ruining your cry vibe" bahahah
😂😂😂😂
What am I doing with my life? I’m in the wrong field! I’ll regrow my hair and become “sheep” real quick! 🤣
I dont think anyone would use your service anyway
@@whawhajasmine smooooooooooooooooosh 😂
damn bro hasn’t even started yet and his dream career is already over 🥲
Too ugly for it
Too bad i am a mountain goat
funny how so many people people find this strange when men go to strip clubs for their needs.
it's the emotional part that is strange , strip club are simply raw sexual needs.
@@claudemoney6798 not necessarily. you'd be surprised how many men regularly go to the strip club to talk about their personal problems.
Men do more than that (go to strip clubs) for their sexual and emotional needs. So, why is it weird if women do the same? It's just different. They should open these in the U.S. i think there will be a lot of customers.
I think it's mainly odd because, in Japan, their population is plummeting while the US pretty much stay in a pretty stable state. Yes, we do have strip clubs to fulfill our needs, we have gay clubs too and I'm pretty sure women go there too yet, like what I said, the population is considered normal, although the divorce rate in the US grew dramatically so... crap
Women can go to strip clubs too...there are strip clubs for women as well. Thus, this comparison is invalid. Also, wanting to cry with a stranger over a sad video is just strange. It's not a need, it's just a sign of a disturbed mind in my opinion.
The world is becoming increasingly sad..
would you rather we go back to nuclear warfare? or how about a world at war, twice?
because everyone wants materialistic things nobody cares about anything else...Rather than enjoying life it has become a race..i suggest u look into quran lectures from nouman ali khan...he is a really gifted teacher...most muslims don't follow the text so don't look at them and assume that ,that what islam is ...u will have thoughts against this idea ...but let me ask u this what have u got to lose...u could take ur time
Shruti Reddy that’s not true
@@akifimran9780 dont make your religion propagandas here
Well sadness to one might be happiness to other. As the narrator of this video puts it in the end people have evolved and I think it is a solution devised by god(if such kind of a thing or person ever exists) to control population. Who knows. There is a good and bad in every thing and also depends on the one conceiving the idea.
All this time I could've been charging my girlfriend $65 for her crying? I could have been a millionaire by now.
Wow that's dark
Sure if you are 6 foot and looks like Bratt Pit
@@williampan29 *Brad
LMAO
Lmao
When they cuddled in bed and complimented each other that was a moving scene. And the shift to " you have like zero percent body fat" really made me laugh
she sure seemed to be enjoying herself lol
Cornerdisc5504 so was she LOL
Everyone enjoys touching cuz it releases dopamine.
Japan is weird place but I like it.
you are weird too, sorry about that
Japan is a country whose ancestors have committed, unthinkable,unimaginable, horrendous crimes against humanity during WWII. It's so natural that their eyes are dried up, and if they are shedding tears, it's very likely that they are faking it.
@@ZarathuPowerRectify your knowledge
you are a weirdo
@@rellykz2175 thanks for your comment, you are absolutely right!
the interviewer : * talking about her stress *
the guy : * waiting for the translation * hMmHmm
The last scene was so cute. It’s really interesting to see that there’s a market for loneliness out there. And I appreciate the journalist for really carrying the story and helping us understand how it feels to be a part of the community over there.
At one point even the Sheep boy was feeling awkward. LMAO.
could be part of the hustle?
Probably felt that he should've been the one to pay *her* for the experience XD
timestamp please lmao
@@ZenitsuKunn probably 16:53
@@canobenitez LOL THANK U ILOVE YOU
Imagine people asking you what's your profession and you respond by saying I'm a professional crier😭
😂😂
In Ye Olde England, they were known as the Town Crier!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
this whole video is a meme
I teared up with laughter 😹😹😹😹
"But men are randomly good at other things besides making women cry". Amazing quote to take out of context
It's really amazing how Japanese people stay strongly in serious, deep character in an awkward situation and what it seems to be weird by other people.
I need a laughing bf not a crying one, my ex already did that for free.
interesting !
Im here princess
@@padeysolti8810 shut up, no one cares about you.
@randy baumery He's crying louder now coz he can't get me back. 😜🥰
@@4ksquad348 Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace ✌️
That journalist needs to CHILL.
I’m here for it
LUL
0% percent body fat 😅😅😅
Everything is a business idea in Japan
That is why they are far ahead of india in any field. Ashame of you
@Peter Aremone At least they have toilets.
And then you complain about us Jews making a business out of everything...
@@benjunior338 it was just a joke chill jealous bag :)
@@aashna369 only 3rd world people get jealous about 1st. So now who is jealous
" the video was essentially a slow motion commercial for sadness" the way she phrased this made me laugh so hard 😂
A little tip for you guys : 13:16 this is a wrong way to receive and hold a business card from a person in Japan and in Asia. If someone hands you something with both hands, receive it with both hands, especially when it's a business card ! It represents the person in front of you ! After receiving it, continue to hold it like gold ! (little bit exaggerated haha XD)
she doesn't know japanese, let alone she would know about business cards.
@@LittleSparklingStars Yeah but this is not a reproach, it's just a tip for foreigners.
@@onwun4292 Also, if you're foreign, they don't mind as much if you do it wrongly.
Thank you for the advise. I'm going to incorporate that into how I greet and give certain things to others where I'm from starting now, so the day that I visit Japan, that gesture comes more naturally.
I tend to just mimic everything someone from another country does and speak in the same manner as to cause anyone getting offended.
Thank you.
@On WUN So is it true that putting the business card (while they're watching) in your back pocket is like sitting on their face? Maybe it's just a myth. When I lived in Japan, I was always wondering if they'd be horrified if I did that.
The moment you realized that you saw this Thai commercial before 😂
Bahhahahahha
My teachers usually play this and i really hate it so much
why dont the lonely people (like me) just cuddle with each other...isnt there any dating app or something??
bc the boundary isn't clear enough
Maybe they're afraid of commitment.
+ most people have preference and shit to do
I'll tell you correct answer (I've been living in Japan over 10yrs)
Because they don't want to communicate.
They just want to consume the one to jack off their emotional wastes.(sexual desire as well)
It's kinda like a question of 'why so many handsome men are just buying whores not trying to date/sex with women?'
@@SuperAceguy aah that makes sense..
I really liked this interviewer. She was a natural even though she couldn't speak Japanese, her questions felt genuine.
The boy she cuddled with was cute. I'd be giving him heart eyes too
Lol
For real
@@kimlee8796 I'll have you know I'm better looking than him 😎
@Archnid 001 nah man I know wtf is up my games on point.
@That Guy That's because you haven't seen the sexy ones so I feel bad for you
I think CZcams suggested this to me as a wake up call
💀😂😩
i do feel the same
Just go out and start a chat with someone or someone will come to you. Just have to go out and try.
Me and my social anxiety: y’all hear smthn?
Wow the interviewer enjoyed this way too much 😂
Who wouldn't, being pampered by pretty/handsome boys. XD
Also, the cameraman as well. He was practically sitting on the dude's chest.
@@TolerantWig damn it camera man 😂
This is a wattpad story just waiting to happen:
Fall in love with your hired boyfriend.
I would totally read that
The guy cuddling with her was amazing, he is indeed a professional!!😍😍
I wonder if he chose that job specifically because he wouldn't get ANY cuddling in the normal dating market?
@@gilian2587 Bruh he gets paid for it. I'm sure he'd get more if he did it for free.
Truely
@@gilian2587 yeah. sure. 😂😂😂 dude is pretty hot by japanese beauty standards and on top of that hes one of the top at his work, literally makes a living out of cuddling with women and you really think he couldnt get laid before? Ha! 😂😂😂 did you see my mans game? Thats powerful
@@chaizan9733 Being merely a straight male, myself, I'll have to take your word for it; my good Chai. :) I wasn't trying to suggest that there was a problem with the attractiveness of this particular fellow. I was emphasizing the state of the Japanese millennial consensus of celibacy with my statement. Here is a thought experiment... let's imagine that a girl has a 1 in 100 chance of being a compatible companion for a guy... but if only 1 in 10 girls are playing the market, then there's only a 1 in 1000 chance that this fellow will find his soul mate. After a certain point, the amount of game you have is irrelevant if next to no one is in the market.
I have no idea how you can sleep next to a stranger and tell them shit that you haven't told anyone in life 😶
well maybe the guy was just so comfortable to be with and she also has a notion that the guy's job is to listen and be there at her comfort, which she might not have find from her relatives or friends..
@@goldensperm7182 could be. Still I think it may get awkward for some people.
That’s normal, you have people having one night stands.
Basically visiting a psychologist but without them sleeping next to you lol
@@raeraeo3o3 One night stand is driven by sexual desires, so at least there is some activity. Here you just have to sleep next to a random guy 😅
She had so much fun doing this lmao
🤣🤣 she did
According to some studies, crying itself is not cathartic. Its a social signal to others that you need comfort. So it makes sense to do it with others rather than alone, except if you're ashamed about it. But you also need some comfort afterwards, and Im not sure how far this is provided by the service.
I live in Japan and you can feel the people here are lonely... But on the other hand they are actually very polite and willing to talk to you with all their curiosity, specially about you (being a foreigner)...
Loneliness is sadly a epidemic :( it is very sad but I highly doubt that this will make anyone feel any better if only it would create more pain women and men need real human touch and love not fake bought compassion
nothing bad happens here.i still have great respect for your country.things are diffrent in japan.and diffrent in other countries.its not my place to judge.the people in the video all seem satisfied with the service offered to them.
@WB Sims the people are quite shy it is true, maybe that is why so many people here are lonely. But at the first opportunity they start talking to you, asking a lot of different things. Hehe.
Who wants to go to Japan and provide free services to all the lonely 👭
They are living in 3019.....
😂😂😂
Danny Benhur 😂😂
@@raaednazir6972
You all laughting but thats actually sad.
If the world is still standing by then...
it actually the year 4717 in asia....look it up
"appointment with a group of women who were eager to weep with him" never thought i'd hear these words strung together
Imagine his response when someone asks him about what he does for a living? - I go to offices to cry!
He is an entertainer. Entertain people into crying.
Is a translator with them when they are on the bed ? Pretty Weird
Think of this as acting. We fall in love with fictional characters all the time anyhow haha
Japanese people are taught English in school from a very early age. He probably understands and was told to repeat things back in Japanese.
It would be weird even without the cameraman lmaooo
3000 Wattz they should do that in America
3000 Wattz no wonder Americans are dumb lol (some)
Him: *Wiping tears*
Me: *CRINGING*
Apoorva Krishniya I swear to god 😂😂 like the part where people cry together is kinda weird but cute and there's somehow a connection between them as they feel the same emotion towards a sad situation, *but the part where he wipes their tears? Was that necessary, like?*
@@gwenminor9244 them crying together is some cult shit
afectaed When you watch Titanic at the theater with strangers around you, isn't that kinda the same?
Frrr LMAO
@@winglessangel 😂😂😂😂😂
Japan stifles emotions. No wonder these people need to pay for emotions
Princess Lisa Marie but is that better than the alternative? Being oversaturated with emotions can cause problems too.
Overcrowding. Stifles emotions. You can't afford them when you bump in to another person every fifteen seconds.
Said the "princess" that NEVER faked an emotion!
In their culture (and many East Asian cultures), emotion = weakness.
T T - no it’s not better. There needs to be a balance. This seems like its putting people in a yo-yo effect which is not good.
I like this reporter, she is amazing. She always goes above and beyond to share an experience.
I feel sorry for the boy hosts; they have to drink every night until morning. That's incredibly unhealthy and I'm pretty sure they can't have that lifestyle for long. Their life seems also very lonely and sad. The videos that the crying man showed are all from Thailand: I've seen them all and they are available on You Tube. My impression is that people are looking for love, no longer sex. Sex only lasts a few minutes and doesn't really give you any feeling of happiness especially if you are paying for it. However, being in the company of people and, for example, crying together, as the women in the video pointed out, gives you a feeling of togetherness or belonging: that's exactly the feeling that we have lost in the so called "civilized" society. We are longing to feel each other again and I think, in the end we will!
@Jake from state farm I didn't know strippers have to drink too. I personally prefer to wash dishes than becoming someone else's slave.
Getting drunk for free in a pretty luxurious and nice place (probably eat good food in there too), flirt all night long with women, get to bang a couple of them if you are smart enough, get 1 grand a night. I do that everyday and i have to pay. And i normally don't get to bang someone. What a fucking sad and boring life, yeah.
That's why they're called boys. None of them will make it past 40 with that kind of heavy drinking😬
@@nicolapodgornik taking this at face value is a pretty common thing. If you can find it go watch "the great happiness space"
It's a documentary about this sort of thing. Same as everything else, it isn't all glitz and glamour, there's always a quota to meet for the hosts plus you literally have to drink day in day out wether you want to or not on top of starting early and daily chores. By the time you're near 30 they turf you out because no one wants older men in that service. So you're out of a job with a fucked liver and kidneys. One of hosts in the documentary explains that while doing the job he got to a point of where he was playing a role that much for his job by the end of it he wasn't sure of who he really was, it impacted negatively on his view of women and as a result ended up unable to actually get into a realistic relationship and was lonely because of it. Not really a great way to live I reckon.
@@gianthechmas9414 not everyone wants to get to their 70s, be in an healthy relationship and part of a society. As i alredy said, my life right now is not that different, with the only difference being i don't get paid, and i pay to get drunk virtually everyday. Wheter it is a good life or a bad life, that's up to personal preferences. But some people might enjoy it. I am one of them for example, and i'd love to do one of those jobs. If i survive past my 30s nice, if not whatever.
7:59 "But men are randomly good at OTHER things besides making women cry."
Damn, roasted.
Yeah
Aye bro I fw these Japanese females their more feminine and they know how to act,dress,talk just like a woman over here in America it’s slot different and I feel like everything is about looks over here
@@Semajfrmkp everything is about looks in Japan tho? I’d say the woman care more there actually
Soon these men wil be replaced by Andriod Robots
Men and women. In fact it will start with replacing women first. Even now, women have vibrators and toys, but men have life-size love dolls with company’s presently working on animatizing said life-size dolls. Just sayin’.
Detroit become humannnnn
Android vs iRobots :P
Android=humanoid robot. No need to put both these words together.
Especially anime look alike 😂😂
can you imagine the translator sitting there in the room for the last experience trying not to ruin the mood but send the right messages to and fro...
His body language screams uncomfortable in the bed...
She was a littlw roo intense with him
Because he’s gayyyyy.
@Sally Vee Hot blonde? I think he was uncomfortable because she's the exact opposite of hot and it felt like she was trying to get too intimate with him
@Sally Vee I don't think you know what the average man's standards are to make this broad assumption. Stop talking like you represent more than yourself and possibly a few other guys.
@Sally Vee She has a ton of makeup on, remove it and the quality of her skin drops significantly, and she has a too elongated face. "Facial symmetry" lol, not sure where you're from but I don't see young people with asymmetrical faces very often. And good hight or confidence are attractive traits of males, not females. For females (seen from most male's perspective) these traits are neutral and sometimes even negative. Your name and you saying this makes me believe you're a female so maybe you need to realize that males and females don't have the exact same preferences when it comes to attractive traits.
All these are nice and interesting BUT
no way i would be paying someone to make me cry.
I can cry on my own and I have been crying nonstop. For free.
Same😂😂😂
imagine having repressed your feelings for so long, you need someone to give you permission to cry :/
I thought about that too. Having to pay for someone to pretend to care about you is really sad. Can you imagine how the women feel if that can’t afford to pay for something like this?
living in Japan.. this really hit home! Great content and very well presented!
please do more content in Japan!