GIRL TALK! HOW TO BE CONFIDENT BEING BIGGER THAN YOUR MAN! | *PLUS SIZE DATING* | CANDIDLY CHRISSY

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 30. 10. 2021
  • Hey babes! So you’re plus size and bigger than your man? Let me give you a few tips to feel confident and comfortable with him! Let me tell you right now you will not break your man no matter how scrawny he is babe so release those insecurities and enjoy your dating life!
    MY MAKEUP**
    Born This Way Matte 24 Hour Foundation(Maple): go.magik.ly/ml/19lko/
    PORELESS PUTTY PRIMER: go.magik.ly/ml/19lkp/
    HYDRATING CAMO CONCEALER (Tan Neutral): go.magik.ly/ml/17gfi/
    PUTTY BRONZER: go.magik.ly/ml/19lks/
    CLEAR BROW & LASH MASCARA: go.magik.ly/ml/19lku/
    ULTRA PRECISE BROW PENCIL: go.magik.ly/ml/19lkx/
    DEWY COCONUT SETTING MIST: go.magik.ly/ml/19lkz/
    POWDER BLUSH PALETTE: go.magik.ly/ml/17gfo/
    MY LINKS **
    Follow me on Instagram: @chrissybstyles
    ______________________________________
    Videos You might like:
    How to glow up: • How to Glow Up in 2021...
    Confidence: • CONFIDENCE SERIES
    Shapewear reviews: • SHAPEWEAR REVIEWS
    _______________________________________________
    Keep up with me!!!
    Instagram: @chrissybstyles
    Snap: bowtochrissy
    FOR BUSINESS INQUIRY ONLY CONTACT: chrissybstyles@gmail.com
    ............................................................
    Shop my closet!
    CLOSET:
    posh.mk/FXm7qEATAY
    posh.mk/43D5afPCu0
    FTC Disclaimer: Some links above are affiliate links from which I get a small commission. This does not affect you as a customer at all, but helps me keep on making video for you guys! All opinions are my own
    #plussize #plussizedating #storytime
  • Jak na to + styl

Komentáře • 204

  • @ChrissybStyles
    @ChrissybStyles  Před 2 lety +73

    Hey babes! Please like this video and interact with me that helps me so much!!!! 💖💖💖

  • @didigardenofbeauty7426
    @didigardenofbeauty7426 Před 2 lety +448

    "He knew what you look like when he approch you "......this statement did it for me‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @Dasiapee
    @Dasiapee Před 2 lety +110

    As my husband tell me when I comment on my weight “ I knew what you had when I approached you and I ran with it”. So girl sit on that man face 😋😆

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 Před 2 lety +122

    Girl this is on time! I get insecure sometimes cause he’s smaller then me, but my man loves it all. It is the skinny ones who know what’s up!

  • @piinkprincess
    @piinkprincess Před 2 lety +94

    yes to everything Chrissy! and i’d like to add that being insecure around potential partners could be more than just a turn off- some ppl gravitate to insecure ppl or plus size ppl cuz their intent is to manipulate. self-centered folks love low self esteem and will pursue someone who’s insecure.

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 Před 2 lety +37

    I meet more men as a plus sized woman. When I was smaller guys were so afraid to approach me. Now men run after me and want to take me to dinner and shopping😊. And most of these men are attractive and/or in shape! Plenty of men love plus size women😉

  • @B0sh133
    @B0sh133 Před 2 lety +70

    My friends think its so funny that I like skinny guy buts they just do it for me. I can't mess with a dude my size. Love me a skinny man thats strong af for no reason 😭😭😌

  • @YouAreStarDust
    @YouAreStarDust Před rokem +21

    I’m not necessarily fat but just more than overweight. 16 and trying to accept myself BEFORE weight loss so I can do it healthily and slowly. That’s my goal anyways

    • @JennaB0benna
      @JennaB0benna Před měsícem

      I was your age once… trust me when I say it’s a vicious cycle of “trying to be skinny” and then being skinny and never seeing myself at the size I actually was. It’s so hard. I’m 33 and I still am not happy with my body but I try to think about what it can do for me rather than what it looks like overall. I can carry myself around, I can hold my head high if I choose! It’s not anyone’s job to make you feel good about yourself except you. It’s hard to accept but I’m learning!

    • @YouAreStarDust
      @YouAreStarDust Před měsícem

      @@JennaB0benna it’s crazy as I put on a lot of weight since that comment but since I stopped restricting to 800cal a day I’ve been feeling better and lost 23 pounds the last few months

  • @christinaderose8863
    @christinaderose8863 Před rokem +15

    Thank you so much for this video! I have written down “He knew what you looked like when he approached you” on a sticky note. I need to repeat that over and over again.

  • @makingofakingdommd8723
    @makingofakingdommd8723 Před 2 lety +48

    Dating my first guy smaller than me and he said he dated a skinny girl once and never did it again. He hates bone in bone. 😆 I love your confidence. I’m here to borrow some. Thanks for sharing! ❤️

    • @bigflyness17
      @bigflyness17 Před 2 lety +10

      I think that is true because when I asked my ex the same thing, he said that he would never mess with a skinny girl again.. he said it felt like he was going to start a fire 🔥

    • @zinedinederreche33
      @zinedinederreche33 Před 2 lety

      @@bigflyness17 o

    • @francistuwaka3684
      @francistuwaka3684 Před 3 měsíci

      @@bigflyness17 are you still available?

    • @bigflyness17
      @bigflyness17 Před 3 měsíci

      @@francistuwaka3684 yes, what’s going on?

  • @nikkiashful
    @nikkiashful Před 2 lety +76

    This is the one and I feel so much more at ease. I just got out of a situation with a guy where he was manipulative and mean. I finally got tired and decided to leave the the situation and him altogether. Once I did that I was every “fat bitch” in the book. Not only was I hurt, but I was confused. Like sir, you knew what I looked like 🥴 however, I’m in a better head space and will no longer allow that foolishness to bother me from now on.

    • @ladyclarke9903
      @ladyclarke9903 Před 2 lety +6

      Good For You!
      These People Are Emotionally Bankrupt!
      Blessingz In Abundance!✊👊🙏

    • @nikkiashful
      @nikkiashful Před 2 lety +5

      @@ladyclarke9903 Emotionally bankrupt is so good and I completely agree 👏🏾 you as well my sister 💕💕

    • @nikkiashful
      @nikkiashful Před 2 lety +5

      @@ladyclarke9903 you are beautiful by the way ❤️

    • @ladyclarke9903
      @ladyclarke9903 Před 2 lety +3

      @@nikkiashful Mannaz And Respek!
      #NewSub!
      👊✊🙏

    • @fredyvergara7597
      @fredyvergara7597 Před 2 lety +1

      Beautiful

  • @Kdavis0916
    @Kdavis0916 Před 2 lety +21

    I wish I knew this info when I was in my 20s.

  • @bigflyness17
    @bigflyness17 Před 2 lety +11

    Lord knows I love me a tall Caramel-skinned, handsome, skinny brotha w/ tats 😩😩😩

  • @Nao_chan369
    @Nao_chan369 Před 6 měsíci +3

    You know sometimes when I don't feel comfortable and confident about me and my man because we are that opposite body size. I go back to this video. He's loving and supportive but I forget about self love. So thank you.

  • @derecktaitt8457
    @derecktaitt8457 Před 2 lety +19

    No lie I love a plus size woman y'all the best ❤❤❤❤ the more the merrier

  • @capricorns1st
    @capricorns1st Před 2 lety +78

    CHRISSSSSYYYY!!!!!! This series is EVERYTHING!!!! You definitely got a winner with this one. I dated a big man once - close to 400 lbs. The only downside is his stomach hitting my forehead when I’m on my knees 😂😂😂😂

  • @NoImNotOkay
    @NoImNotOkay Před 2 lety +14

    I’m shocked I found a creator that’s actually honest all I hear is look skinnier and stuff like that and it’s just nice seeing a genuine person for once who means it when they say love yourself

  • @Ariadne147
    @Ariadne147 Před rokem +11

    OMG I love you! I have my first date in 15 years tomorrow night and I’m terrified. We met online but I made sure I put full length pictures of myself on my profile. I need your self confidence. I needed to see this video!

  • @ItsMsJas
    @ItsMsJas Před rokem +11

    currently dating someone thats you know, smaller than me but the love between us means everything.. and I found myself lacking confidence in as a plus size woman even though he does everything to build me up.. this video honestly made me find love for myself and know my worthh.. watched every second of this, laughed with you while just a few tears haha this might have changed my mentality on everything.. truly, thank you so much ! 💕💕

  • @ramonaphelps3687
    @ramonaphelps3687 Před rokem +10

    I have a problem believing that my husband is truly in2 me...but he knew what sz I was when he askd me out. This was good motivation 4 me.😊thank you

  • @nemavenus9156
    @nemavenus9156 Před rokem +11

    I am plus size and all of my boyfriend's are in shape

  • @rilleygriffin
    @rilleygriffin Před rokem +19

    I needed this so much today. I just agreed to a date with a man with abs and I’m scared, but this helped. Thank you ♥️🍑

  • @jferg0715
    @jferg0715 Před rokem +12

    I just wanna say , that this video has motivated me to be the best woman I can be and Embrace my thickness. Thank you so much . For This .

  • @Maryrules125
    @Maryrules125 Před 2 lety +7

    I can relate I’m 30 pounds heavier than him, I’m not plus size, but I do feel he got a lot to handle 💕😊.

  • @kenm7576
    @kenm7576 Před 2 lety +10

    I love her confidence to push up...but when people send you red flags acknowledge and operate accordingly🤷🏾‍♀️Great advice!

  • @GoodVibes-jg8lp
    @GoodVibes-jg8lp Před 8 měsíci +4

    I love this and your absolutely correct I’ve had men that athletically build and tall approach me on several occasions that’s never been an issue for me.

  • @worldtatisco7619
    @worldtatisco7619 Před 2 lety +32

    love this series so much!! I'm always excited for a new episode! wanted to chime in for the good sis that's a virgin. personally, I would bring it up earlier, latest by the third date. I say that because we have to give people room to process information as opposed to saying things the moment and expecting them to recreate the reaction we have in mind. Intercourse is a big part of relationships, It's important to communicate abstinence earlier on because some people aren't interested in that lifestyle and it saves you as well as the guy quite a bit of time.

  • @PreciousB1983
    @PreciousB1983 Před rokem +7

    Right now I think I’m like chubby thick and I’ve dated skinnier men. I use to feel self conscious about putting my thick ass thighs on a leg during movie night like can this dude handle my thick ass thighs??🤣😂. But it’s all about self love and being comfortable in your own skin. Positive daily affirmations helped me overcome a lot and gain my confidence back.

  • @user-vg5jh7kt9u
    @user-vg5jh7kt9u Před 5 měsíci +3

    It was giving good vibes when I clicked on the video, I'm talking with you and laughing. This video is to good.

  • @amandar.n.5921
    @amandar.n.5921 Před 2 lety +12

    "Are you that brittle"🤣🤣... Love you...you look so pretty, hair video is good for me, when you're ready ❤️

  • @tiffanymaker8117
    @tiffanymaker8117 Před 2 lety +14

    YESSSSSSSS! you are so on point, and hilarious...keep these videos coming sis!

  • @ibrardena
    @ibrardena Před rokem +3

    Girl you the right note about other female's that is slim and think they are a bag of chips and more.

  • @Zell8158
    @Zell8158 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I have a serious phobia eatting infront of my romantic interests and it’s almost crippling

  • @13MissSammy
    @13MissSammy Před rokem +9

    I love this! 😂👌 thank you so much for making this to bring other ladies up! I’ve just started dating after putting on weight so seeing this before my first date in a couple of years is a blessing 💖

  • @cynthiasuriano7770
    @cynthiasuriano7770 Před 5 měsíci +4

    He knows and still wants more but my insecurities can't go away but u r right when u say fake it til u make it lol

  • @gabyayuso7327
    @gabyayuso7327 Před rokem +7

    You’re a whole ass vibe 😄😄😄 love your videos 🥰

  • @getpricescheapentertainmen6929

    This helped me soooo much

  • @amberkeil02
    @amberkeil02 Před rokem +5

    crying because this is what i need to hear

  • @keturatopps3186
    @keturatopps3186 Před rokem +6

    Your message and energy is so needed thank you ❤

  • @Yourmom-rl8ut
    @Yourmom-rl8ut Před rokem +3

    This is my new favorite series

  • @therealmamibri7009
    @therealmamibri7009 Před 2 lety +4

    Literally love your vibeee sis

  • @shanellewhyte8379
    @shanellewhyte8379 Před 2 lety +4

    Yes bonus episode!!

  • @MissDeeGlow
    @MissDeeGlow Před 2 lety +8

    Girl ! I needed this !!!!!

  • @brandyceleste1651
    @brandyceleste1651 Před rokem +4

    Girlll this made me gain confidence shiii ama do him tn with confidence shiii

  • @elliedee8829
    @elliedee8829 Před 2 lety +6

    🥰🥰🥰 Love your energy sis!

  • @latoyaphillips1527
    @latoyaphillips1527 Před 2 lety +16

    girl you are so funny!! "he know you big by the arms" LOL You're speaking facts though.

  • @MissUnderstood.
    @MissUnderstood. Před 2 lety +8

    Lmaoo you’re a fool “he know you thick by the arms. He know you thick by the wrist.” 😂😂😂😂

  • @latonyajohnson4239
    @latonyajohnson4239 Před rokem +1

    I loved this video and I just subscribed. I love your confidence

  • @AngieLolaPagan
    @AngieLolaPagan Před rokem +8

    I met this guy on tinder and I really like him. You guys…. He’s hot lmao! He knows I’m plus size and yes he approached me but I have been so afraid to meet him in person ! I need moral support ! Please heeeeelp lol! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣😭

    • @licialopes3828
      @licialopes3828 Před rokem +1

      Girl, iknow that adrenaline kick, I got so nervous when I was meeting him for the first time. But if he already KNEW and already saw you it should be more relaxing to know, HE knows and wanted to see you AGAIN.

    • @simply-living8523
      @simply-living8523 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I hope you met up with him don’t be afraid remember HE APPROACHED YOU!! You got this 💅

  • @staceychestang8432
    @staceychestang8432 Před 2 lety +10

    Please make plus size affirmations

  • @getfitwitjessie
    @getfitwitjessie Před rokem +4

    I needed this 🙌🏿

  • @margiedrizz4482
    @margiedrizz4482 Před 22 dny

    first time here i’m loving you already

  • @everamos5567
    @everamos5567 Před rokem +3

    thank you for the info!!

  • @beccakelleher836
    @beccakelleher836 Před 6 měsíci +2

    My insecurity comes from the fact that I did not look the same as I do now when he picked me. After 8 years of marriage and childbirth, I look much different than I did on our wedding day. I've gotten bigger and more curvy, and his freak of nature metabolism has kept him exactly the same.

  • @arusu1806
    @arusu1806 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, I needed this 💜

  • @lifeasniya2
    @lifeasniya2 Před 2 lety +8

    sis! i'm currently single! and i can finally say i'm happy again to be single! but this single hits very different! because i'm not settling at all now! like literally the last few months i blocked like three dudes because they was really tryna play with me! Like I see the red flags in text messages,, like no ma'am😂👏🏽!! BUT i'm currently trying to manifest a romantic date! I want to go out to a nice restaurant. Doesn't necessarily have to be a five star but a good up to date restaurant. But I mean hey if its five star i'm with it! lol and like you said i'm a prize, trophy, and queen!! i deserve to be loved out loud! I deserve to be shown off like everyone else and actuallyyy taken out on dates and not hidden between four walls! and thats on period! But right now i'm still working on my confidence but i'm so glad i found your channel 💕💕!!!!!! you really make me feel so much better about myself bc it be really hard sometimes with the stereotype thats held against us. it makes me over emotional sometimes. but its so crazy because when i go out and run my eerands etc i realize i be overthinking the whole time and it don't be as bad as i think in my head lol.

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +6

    I need this . For real. He chose me. I chose him... The headaches I got from him and the constantly repeating myself. I kept him. N now I ready to move on. How I turn my emotions off.

  • @kenm7576
    @kenm7576 Před 2 lety +4

    This video was 💯!!

  • @sesybob1
    @sesybob1 Před 2 lety +2

    Great advice!

  • @user-kq1pz2qb6b
    @user-kq1pz2qb6b Před 4 měsíci +3

    GIRLLLL you are so pretty 🤩🤩🤩 makeup tut?

  • @Hannah.Williams
    @Hannah.Williams Před 2 lety +3

    I love this video I needed to see this

  • @almamandujano8244
    @almamandujano8244 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Girl, I just want to say thank you for this. You have truly blessed my life. If I get married, just know it will be because of you. I love you, keep shining! Your confidence is contagious!

  • @gioacchinofertitta3393
    @gioacchinofertitta3393 Před měsícem

    You're totally right about some men liking plus-size women

  • @BellaVlogsLife
    @BellaVlogsLife Před 2 lety +8

    Just discovered you, love some girl chat! You are gorgeous btw, love your confidence 😗

  • @justvibinwithtaneshapeace
    @justvibinwithtaneshapeace Před 2 lety +11

    I absolutely love you...adorable...keep inspiring...keep being dooopppeeee ✌🏾♥️🦋 🤗

  • @newjourney010
    @newjourney010 Před 9 měsíci +4

    My confidence just boosted!! Thank you sis! ❤

  • @tavialamara
    @tavialamara Před rokem +4

    Yes queen. Yes.

  • @callmechichi1711
    @callmechichi1711 Před 26 dny

    Not “he knows if you have a corset on” 😩😩😩😩😂😂😜😝🤪😫.

  • @kalanime
    @kalanime Před rokem +5

    Your gorgeous! Who on earth would want skin and bones! Even as a woman,I’d Never want bony! Your scrumptious 💕

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +6

    Don't tell them u virgin. Until things heat up. Then u tell them that if u want too but once they see that u not giving they will either stay or leave. And some will stay jus to see if u give it to them and once they took it. They leave. It happen to so many women. Guard your cookie. It's not turn off. They come for cookie. It's beautiful. N It happened to me.. chased until I finally was like he the one n he left right after. Jus be careful... U Kno when u ready.

  • @jadaharris5190
    @jadaharris5190 Před 2 lety +3

    Never dated. But loving the tips❤

  • @s1bahle
    @s1bahle Před rokem +2

    Love this so much all the way from Africa Botswana 😍

  • @latoyamcknight6730
    @latoyamcknight6730 Před měsícem

    Yess love this

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +3

    Luv this section

  • @eleseclarke6038
    @eleseclarke6038 Před 10 měsíci +1

    My boyfriend of almost 5 years is much much smaller in weight than me and now i dont even think about the size difference I'm currently pregnant with our 2nd baby together

  • @ayana188
    @ayana188 Před 2 lety +3

    The hair😍😍😍😍😍

  • @daFANTOM09
    @daFANTOM09 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Idk if it's because of my slight neapolitan complex but I always been attracted to plus size women. frfr Chryssy. U are completely gorgeous btw.

  • @LaurenJewel
    @LaurenJewel Před 2 lety +2

    i love u so so much!!!

  • @cassthickums
    @cassthickums Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much.

  • @isabellebravo8602
    @isabellebravo8602 Před 2 lety +3

    YESSSS this was so useful thank you hun 💕💕💕

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +4

    Block all the haters... Facts. They believe I don't deserve him. For me it's opposite. They Kno he don't deserve me. I do to much. His friend and neighbor pushed up on me... Not in front of him. But they was more feely than usual. Drunk or not it was a party but I wondered bout it. Still talking to him. But not for long . I am real tired dealing with stuff. I need be more confident.

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +1

    Love this

  • @maleeka4472
    @maleeka4472 Před 2 lety +10

    Chrissy I have always dated men smaller than me as well but my husband is a big dude and honestly the sexiest man I have ever been with. Don't sleep on the big dudes now lol 😆🤣

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +2

    Have do dishes and laundry n I watching the whole series. Can't multiple task.

  • @callmechichi1711
    @callmechichi1711 Před 26 dny

    You look absolutely beautiful.

  • @didigardenofbeauty7426
    @didigardenofbeauty7426 Před 2 lety +2

    Hello sis. I'm here💕💖

  • @ZONRICH
    @ZONRICH Před rokem +2

    Hi Crissy this is the way I look at being confident and falling in love is like going to a restaurant if you go to restaurant and ask for some food the way it will give you some food but it won't be to your you're liking and taste but if you ask for specifically for what you want to the waiter he will bring it to you life is the same way and and finding the woman that you like💕💕💕👰👰

  • @Jenbadu222
    @Jenbadu222 Před 2 lety +1

    I love herrrrr

  • @melanierobinson4152
    @melanierobinson4152 Před 28 dny

    New subscriber ❤️

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +2

    Makeup and hair nice

  • @wykitawest3736
    @wykitawest3736 Před rokem +3

    Great video

  • @kimberleywilliams6648
    @kimberleywilliams6648 Před 2 lety

    Lol Chrissy this video is good! 😂😂😂😂

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +1

    Finesse. Facts.

  • @ceeceebrownn
    @ceeceebrownn Před 11 měsíci

    I need this video.. I’m dating this skinny guy and I’m try stay confident but I don’t feel confident at all

  • @_jessnpey_
    @_jessnpey_ Před 2 lety +1

    All of this!!!!!

  • @pattikaymakcian1473
    @pattikaymakcian1473 Před 2 lety +10

    Good topics, Do you really think it is wrong going up to a man first and saying hi? I do it on dating sites,I dont know if it seems that im despite. I love theses videos.It is funny i just turned 59 yes a Scorpio,And asking advice,it is just every thing is so different now that i started dating lol XOXOXOXOX

    • @homehere9817
      @homehere9817 Před 2 lety +2

      LoL it's ok to say hi first or even start a small conversation appropriate for the situation, but leave it at that and do not pursue him beyond the conversation.

  • @ashbash1992
    @ashbash1992 Před rokem +3

    Stop acting like that man ain’t never seen a roll before…. Period!!!!

  • @KS-qp2ml
    @KS-qp2ml Před 2 lety +3

    If I pursue that me I like u. But I got rejection to asking it was like different energy swifted

  • @dshantesands7087
    @dshantesands7087 Před 2 lety +2

    Exactly ‼️

  • @jadaharris5190
    @jadaharris5190 Před 2 lety +1

    Please make the app