6 Traits of Toxic People // Red Flags // Dr. Dharius Daniels

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 6. 04. 2024
  • 🔥Join the all-new BibleU to understand, interpret and explain the Bible better! bibleu.academy
    Join My Mentoring and Coaching Program
    Daniels Den: www.danielsden.com/
    My Books
    Your Purpose Is Calling: a.co/d/bsOua07
    Relational Intelligence: a.co/d/2A7qRrR
    Represent Jesus: a.co/d/1SCvb1w
    Get In Touch
    My website - dhariusdaniels.com/
    Stay connected:
    Website - dhariusdaniels.com
    Instagram - @dhariusdaniels / dhariusdaniels
    Facebook - / dharius.daniels
    Twitter - / dhariusdaniels
    Who I AM:
    Dharius Daniels is a cultural architect and trendsetter for his generation. He is the Founder and Lead Pastor of Change Church. Change Church is a vibrant ministry that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds.
    He holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Millsaps College in Jackson, Mississippi, a Master of Divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey, and a Doctorate of Ministry degree from Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena, California.
    He is married to Shameka Daniels, and they are the proud parents of two sons, Dharius Seth and Gabriel Micah Daniels. Visit Dr. Dharius on the web at www.dhariusdaniels.com.
    #dhariusdaniels #spirituality #sermons

Komentáře • 412

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před měsícem +309

    I’m in a season I am playing no games with God and he is playing none with me. He is about to shift somethings for me, my family and my generations!!!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉🎉💜💜🎯

  • @vctlong
    @vctlong Před měsícem +47

    Every good door is not a God-door 🙌🏾

  • @nettelove8894
    @nettelove8894 Před měsícem +39

    WE WERE BORN LOOKING LIKE OUR PARENTS
    WE DIE LOOKING LIKE OUR DECISIONS

  • @nancyengefu362
    @nancyengefu362 Před měsícem +176

    Traits of Judas:
    1.Greed
    2.Entitlement
    3.Deceitfulness👂

    • @KishaGreen19
      @KishaGreen19 Před měsícem

    • @mrs.latoyamelvin652
      @mrs.latoyamelvin652 Před měsícem +1

      I always told my husband stop kissing my temple makes me discern the kids of Judas is happening and I rebuke it....

    • @Thenewlife83
      @Thenewlife83 Před měsícem +4

      My sister

    • @blakeanl
      @blakeanl Před měsícem

      @@KishaGreen19😅

  • @deanj0805
    @deanj0805 Před měsícem +76

    I can tell why PD wanted to be a lawyer. This man of YAH is excellent at deciphering stories. He doesn’t miss a detail or connection. Thank you Holy Spirit for the work that you’ve done in him to deliver this word.

  • @cbarnes7101
    @cbarnes7101 Před měsícem +73

    You just spoke to me. Toxic people have drained me and keeping me from my purpose. Kept me close for what I can give( greed). Older relatives (feel entitled to say and do anything- manipulation). Deliberately lied to me my entire life( deceitful- conniving)

  • @vctlong
    @vctlong Před měsícem +29

    I need discernment for decisions and wisdom to govern myself accordingly 🙌🏾

  • @kimbunting3229
    @kimbunting3229 Před 24 dny +8

    Sometimes walking like Jesus is like letting them walk away🤯

  • @florencerobinson4035
    @florencerobinson4035 Před měsícem +48

    Out of every season of life there are some things you should take with you, and some things you should leave behind. Know the difference. Discernment is key.

  • @anthonybriankeith4847
    @anthonybriankeith4847 Před měsícem +55

    “We R born lookin 👁️👁️ like Our parents 🔥 We die lookin 👀 5:11 Our decisions 🔥”🫡

    • @anthonybriankeith4847
      @anthonybriankeith4847 Před měsícem +1

      “We R born lookin 👁️👁️ like Our parents 🔥 We die lookin 👀 5:11 Our decisions 🔥”🫡

    • @kennethhollandjr6889
      @kennethhollandjr6889 Před měsícem

      Very profound

    • @nmadikizela7845
      @nmadikizela7845 Před měsícem

      We weren’t even 5 mins in 😅😂!!
      So good 👏🏽 👏🏽

  • @jburist
    @jburist Před měsícem +56

    Open my eyes so that I can see who is for me !! ❤

  • @3degreesdb303
    @3degreesdb303 Před měsícem +64

    I wished I heard a lesson like this 20 yrs ago. I listened to 3 live sermons from PD on this today. This topic was right on time for the season I'm in.

    • @tearzuhjoy
      @tearzuhjoy Před měsícem +2

      He hooked me the same way. I was sent a clip and fell down a rabbit hole and have been listening ever since. 🙌🏾

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před měsícem +39

    All decisions are important but not all decisions are equally important. 🎉🎉

  • @aliajohnson470
    @aliajohnson470 Před měsícem +18

    Thank you for sharing this
    word, l was attacked by
    a toxic relationship. I lost
    money and health but God.
    DELIVERED ME. BLESSINGS

  • @queenofclarity
    @queenofclarity Před měsícem +14

    I’ve started to speak out about my toxic traits that I have been marked as a Judas. God came for me in 2021 and He revealed me to me and the world and all I can scream out and say is no, no, no. I didn’t grow up in the church. I knew nothing about God, yet alone spirituality. It was focused on pleasing people, so I sabotaged myself with people following no spiritual laws. How could I, was living the way I was raised to live. The people who raised me knew about God and was raised in the church but grew angry with God for taking people from them that they weren’t ready to let go off. They became angry and kept us from learning spiritual laws and called it people. They became the authority. Therefore I did things that were not healthy for me. I later began to speak up against this injustice because I feel had I’ve known about God, I wouldn’t have done half the things I did to mark me with the beast of Satan. I’m a new believer and I’m moving slowly yet surely. My family and others really don’t want to be around me because of my ability to reveal the injustice. It’s so hard when people you love want you to be a Judas when they did the betraying. God bless you and thank you for this. I’m still learning and I’m 41 years old.

    • @rorychambers6634
      @rorychambers6634 Před měsícem +1

      This is deep because I can relate on so many levels. Thanks for sharing.🙏🏾

    • @ReginaldJohnson-fw2ez
      @ReginaldJohnson-fw2ez Před 27 dny +4

      This Is why God told Abraham to get out from is kinfolks and go to another land because of that very unbelief that he brought you out of..it's a fact that we have to separate ourselves even from love ones

  • @user-ge1cz6ry7j
    @user-ge1cz6ry7j Před 7 dny +1

    This is why I don't deal with everybody. If I pick up something about someone or something, I don't fool with it because Im too old to be making foolish decisions.
    I don't want to go down that road where God has to come and rescue me. One of the fruits of the Spirit is self control.....

  • @earliciayoung9074
    @earliciayoung9074 Před měsícem +12

    This season God is moving, and not concerned about my agenda. He is pruning out everything not conducive to his plan for me. He is helping me discern what’s toxic and not, without my help. He is uprooting and it hurts, I trust him he is all knowing. Well daughter you can’t see the danger gotta go! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @monicap8208
      @monicap8208 Před měsícem

      Yes!!!!❤❤❤

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Před měsícem +2

      I'm in a similar season to what you mentioned. It's so painful and the flesh craves the past, but God knows I need to fulfill my destiny, even if that means my circle shrinks. Growth is amazing because some will distance themselves anyways. Which is fine. We can't be everything to everybody and we certainly can't be for everybody. People Pleasing gets us no where and is unbiblical.

  • @leticiaderamus7923
    @leticiaderamus7923 Před měsícem +26

    Toxic tolerance…..glory

  • @NavyVetE5
    @NavyVetE5 Před 17 dny +1

    This is a timely Word!!!
    There is so much deception out there in the world today and it has seeped into the church and taken over many churches.

  • @latoyaodems8322
    @latoyaodems8322 Před měsícem +14

    Oh my… my tolerance for dysfunction… I’m so glad he articulated that one! Thank you Jesus!

  • @sharontaylor7562
    @sharontaylor7562 Před měsícem +25

    Facts Pastor Let those that are toxic walk away Quickly

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Před 27 dny

      Exactly. There's peace . Life is funny cause some try to come back or hear about you from afar when God is progressing in our lives. The favor of God is absolutely endless.

  • @sharontaylor7562
    @sharontaylor7562 Před měsícem +13

    Facts- Refusal to expose true motives= decietfulness

  • @marthawooden9176
    @marthawooden9176 Před měsícem +8

    POWERFUL REVELATION MESSAGE!!! DISCERNMENT IS THE GOD GIVEN ABILITY TO ASSESS THE TRUE NATURE OF AN INDIVIDUAL OR AN OPPORTUNITY AND THE WISDOM TO GOVERN YOURSELF ACCORDINGLY. IDENTIFYING RED FLAGS. GREED ENTITLEMENT DECEITFULNESS. BEWARE!!! ELEVATE MY SPIRITUAL GIFTS FATHER, YES GOD AND AMEN!!! TGBTG GOD BLESS

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před měsícem +35

    You are in a season that you need to give unique attention to your purpose 🫶🏽

  • @Pinktheplug
    @Pinktheplug Před měsícem +14

    This entire message!!! I will be back next week!

  • @jasalyncade5151
    @jasalyncade5151 Před měsícem +13

    I'm driving over to GA just to be in the ROOM because I NEED ALL OF THIS ❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @HungoverInHighHeels
    @HungoverInHighHeels Před měsícem +4

    It really feels like he's speaking to me. I am going through it and he is truly speaking life into me

  • @tlindsey1032
    @tlindsey1032 Před měsícem +12

    THIS ENTIRE MESSAGE!!!!!😅🫨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨🔥🔥🔥

  • @kamalamcgee8197
    @kamalamcgee8197 Před měsícem +8

    Imperfect or Toxic. This is so helpful. Wow! You have to let some walk away.

    • @CBtalks8554
      @CBtalks8554 Před měsícem

      And what a Sweet Blessing it Brings to Your Life.

  • @truarnett5519
    @truarnett5519 Před měsícem +2

    Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait! 🔥🔥🔥
    All decisions are important, but all decisions are not equally important. Sometimes we hit a season that will shift seasons. Yes Sir! God's playing no games with me and I'm playing no games with Him. Discernment -The god-given ability to discern an individual or an opportunity.
    #Discernment
    I am not talking about common sense I am not talking about street smarts, I am not talking about skepticism that comes from your scars. Preach it! Yikes! Super Fire!!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @pettynettie5514
    @pettynettie5514 Před měsícem +5

    I'm crying my eyes out right now. THANK YOU LORD for this on time word!!! 🙌🏾

  • @jessicacramer
    @jessicacramer Před měsícem +7

    So much wisdom here. I realize there is a person in my life who I thought was a Peter, but they are really a Judas. Looking forward to the rest of this series!

  • @danekiasmith6
    @danekiasmith6 Před měsícem +8

    Been listening to you since February. Your words align with me in this current season verbatim every single week. I was closing it crazy at first but I know it’s divine, God makes no accidents! When you said you pray so you know what to say-it’s a prophetic word-and I know it. This time next year I know I will be a testament to these words. Gods work for sure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✨✨✨🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @MK-es9go
    @MK-es9go Před měsícem +5

    This message was right on time and a word straight from the Lord to me! "He's spoiled... he's 47!!!" That part hit hard...made me jump out my seat🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Lord for speaking to me and using PD🙏🏽

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable Před 26 dny +1

    He also says Test the spirit. Preach!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kirk9745
    @kirk9745 Před měsícem +5

    I need part two asap pastor!!

  • @crystalbutler8830
    @crystalbutler8830 Před měsícem +2

    That part!!! “The reason you’re calling toxic imperfect is because you’ve been surrounded by toxic for so long your tolerance for toxic is high.” Confirmation!

  • @guerschmidesaint-ange8821
    @guerschmidesaint-ange8821 Před měsícem +23

    I don’t know about yall, but I’m ready to get a tshirt that says “I’m done Tario” #ChangeChurch

  • @rhondaherring5508
    @rhondaherring5508 Před měsícem +1

    This is a good WORD for the Body of Christ!!! Remnant Rising for Jesus 🙌🏾🔥💃🏾

  • @thepsalmist1507
    @thepsalmist1507 Před 24 dny +1

    "High Toxic Tolerance"

  • @eww4306
    @eww4306 Před měsícem +2

    29:11 I started to clap in my office like I was in a Baptist Church 😂 I forgot I was to work for a minute. And the RING camera by my desk 😂

  • @donnessroulette1349
    @donnessroulette1349 Před měsícem +7

    Come on next WEEK!! Lord Jesus!!!

  • @teaundascott1223
    @teaundascott1223 Před 5 dny

    Govern myself accordingly

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 Před měsícem +3

    HALLELUJAH, he was braced for the blow. FATHER, thank you for bracing me for the blows in life so I don't take them personal. The blows were for my DEVELOPMENT. Thank you JESUS!

  • @rhondalassiter
    @rhondalassiter Před měsícem +3

    I need DISCERNMENT!!!!!!!!!!AMEN

  • @atm422
    @atm422 Před měsícem +6

    JESUS! I'm in Chicago thinking that I need to plan a trip to be in the house! My God!

    • @AngeliqueHomemaker
      @AngeliqueHomemaker Před měsícem

      You can go to John Hannah or Bill Winston's church in Chicago

  • @KishaGreen19
    @KishaGreen19 Před měsícem +1

    Do it quickly !!!!! Yessssssssssssss 🏃‍♀️ HURR RUP! I AM braced amen!

  • @prettysimpleday9192
    @prettysimpleday9192 Před měsícem +3

    When I say you are right on time and God is so good! Unique attention to purpose!!! Prophetically speaking! Thank you Lord! No distractions!

  • @cynthiawakonyo100
    @cynthiawakonyo100 Před měsícem +2

    Also one day please have Tario on stage because you refer to him so often he is surely a great support for what we receive even here in Kenya 🙏🏽🇰🇪🙏🏽😊

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 Před měsícem +3

    TEACH Pastor Daniels!

  • @highlyblessangel
    @highlyblessangel Před měsícem +1

    I'm new to ministry but love every minute!

  • @jannance5069
    @jannance5069 Před měsícem +1

    This was a powerful message. This season is what I am going through. My discernment, divine connection, beared witness, about toxic relationships, but it is in my own family. I needed to hear from God. This confirms Red Flags! God bless you Man of God. May he bless your obedience.

  • @estherhammond1211
    @estherhammond1211 Před měsícem +1

    Life Changing Message! I had to sow a seed in this ministry after watching.
    Ready with my notebook for part 2! Blessings to this mighty man of God!!!

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 Před měsícem +1

    Bishop you are hitting the NAIL ON THE HEAD! I had to Deal with this and I had to Govern myself Accordingly. Go Somewhere else and do what you think you suppose to do.

  • @karenrosser3803
    @karenrosser3803 Před měsícem +2

    Preach!!!!! Hallelujah!!!!!🙏🏽

  • @KishaGreen19
    @KishaGreen19 Před měsícem +1

    Yes progressively amen discern my season and the things places and people around me around me

  • @angelagris3714
    @angelagris3714 Před měsícem +1

    Yes that's me Pastor Darius - I am in a season where God is about to shift some things for me, for my family and for generations....

  • @kelg.7481
    @kelg.7481 Před 4 dny

    Where is part two? This was 🔥

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 Před měsícem +1

    This Message is Right on Time for me. .. Halleujah!

  • @asterillachild5
    @asterillachild5 Před měsícem

    Thank you Jesus for this word! It is 4:30 in the AM. I had to sit up! I have been asking GOD for GODLY discernment and this word came forth for me!

  • @angelgary6503
    @angelgary6503 Před měsícem +1

    This is such a a great teaching! Lord continue to highten my desernment. This was a Good word!

  • @christinabess8857
    @christinabess8857 Před měsícem +1

    discernment whiplash, Thank you Lord. I am comfy in many rooms, I can go many places; In Jesus name amen

  • @daddylightsministry106
    @daddylightsministry106 Před měsícem +3

    My God this was SO GOOD!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @abeekuworldchanger380
    @abeekuworldchanger380 Před 27 dny

    "every good door is not a God door.'
    Or otherwise I've heard it said which is the same as what Dr. Dharius said but not every opportunity is from God. Unfortunately, people are quick to jump into things without discerning. Glad I'm taking notes on this series because this message has reminded me that when it comes to your god giveb purpose and assignment, you have to be okay with letting people walk away. Some won't even like that you're a Christian and will never say it to your face. we live in a society where it's easy to backbite you, until you're making progress.
    The God we serve helps us discern and reveal who is for us and who is a Judas to love from afar.

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 Před měsícem

    I have thus statement on my refrigerator for my children to see and at my door way entry so they will always be reminded of who they are and why the decisions they make matter for their future. HALLEUJAH!

  • @connienewburn4893
    @connienewburn4893 Před 21 dnem

    I feel this and my soul realm preach man of God

  • @nickloshenderson6968
    @nickloshenderson6968 Před měsícem +1

    Glory unto God this is very good teaching

  • @tonjaowens413
    @tonjaowens413 Před 28 dny

    I receive this word

  • @VEE02010
    @VEE02010 Před měsícem

    This man is in the Spirit!! My Lord!! Thank you, Jesus.❤❤❤

  • @CF-23
    @CF-23 Před měsícem +1

    PD- you done hit a new level lately! My God!

  • @DD-lr6mm
    @DD-lr6mm Před 25 dny

    Amen point taken. Know now implement the knowledge!!! Amen

  • @jordanruth0809
    @jordanruth0809 Před měsícem

    All I got to say is I am here for this series with bells and whistles on!!!!!

  • @yolandawoodruff7401
    @yolandawoodruff7401 Před 28 dny

    Powerful powerful message!!!!!! This truly blessed my soul.

  • @ProfessorNorris1
    @ProfessorNorris1 Před 29 dny

    This was really good. Pastor Darius Daniels. Really really good. I texted to myself with a note to listen to again and take notes so that I can remember. Thank you so very much. That one point about greed, preceding betrayal is very interesting. And you’re only as good or happy as my last yes! Makes me think of a lot of world events going on. And the sense of entitlement I see. How do people handle your no? Very very good. This was really rich. Thank you so much again.

  • @angelaslaughter6525
    @angelaslaughter6525 Před 28 dny

    ❤ty Jesus for et

  • @Fabtruluv7915
    @Fabtruluv7915 Před měsícem +2

    Yes PD, this is one of those kinds of seasons 👋🏽

  • @nickloshenderson6968
    @nickloshenderson6968 Před měsícem +1

    Amen 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥

  • @cammimitchell7626
    @cammimitchell7626 Před měsícem

    I'm debating on re-watching this necessary sermon tonight or in the morning. This sermon blessed me, tickled me,and called me out. Time to take stock and reset my access to me,on this journey.

  • @KishaGreen19
    @KishaGreen19 Před měsícem

    Thank you God!!!! This message is for me confirmation. I thought I was wrong for leaving folks behind but hey I pray and Im not going to hell for gossip come on now!!! Thank you Jesus !! Left a church because they were all about works I’m out!! I governed myself accordingly amen!

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 Před měsícem

    Discernment is so Necessary to fulfilling Purpose, Oh Glory!

  • @stephanie10107
    @stephanie10107 Před měsícem +1

    This was so good. I needed this word!

  • @breeNikki42
    @breeNikki42 Před měsícem

    Thank you, Dr. D!

  • @marebennett2773
    @marebennett2773 Před měsícem

    For my listening pleasure!!🙌🏽

  • @connienewburn4893
    @connienewburn4893 Před 21 dnem

    I received this and Jesus Christ name Amen teach man of God

  • @CurtisMcClain-wy4pf
    @CurtisMcClain-wy4pf Před měsícem

    Love that message

  • @sheedanicole4214
    @sheedanicole4214 Před měsícem

    This was so good!

  • @michelamims
    @michelamims Před měsícem +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥 I can’t wait to be in the building this week for part 2

  • @lacec1111
    @lacec1111 Před měsícem +1

    This worddddddddd🙌🏾 that’s it & that’s all! So much to unpack and this is just the first part!

  • @sharontaylor7562
    @sharontaylor7562 Před měsícem +1

    So good fire 🔥 🔥

  • @ColeyGilchrist
    @ColeyGilchrist Před měsícem

    This is GREAT

  • @zeldajohnson
    @zeldajohnson Před měsícem +1

    Wow.."Throwing away Peter & keeping Judas".

  • @tanishcahart9194
    @tanishcahart9194 Před měsícem

    What a word!

  • @brainsNbeauty727
    @brainsNbeauty727 Před měsícem

    I’m definitely in need of discernment this season!

  • @PrincessOfDestinyJazmine
    @PrincessOfDestinyJazmine Před měsícem +1

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 this was good and perfect timing 🙏🏽🤲🏽

  • @Dawn.Nicole
    @Dawn.Nicole Před měsícem +1

    Whew! I just made a video on Red Flags. Wish I would have seen this first to elaborate better because this is so real!! Thanks for this video.

  • @priscillawatson8565
    @priscillawatson8565 Před 5 dny

    Amen 🙏🏽
    Thank you for sharing.
    I needed to hear this and to take it to my heart

  • @FaithWalk4Life
    @FaithWalk4Life Před měsícem

    That was Gooooood Dr. Daniels!

  • @heavenlyassigned.5374
    @heavenlyassigned.5374 Před 25 dny

    Amen..That part.

  • @LorettaMars
    @LorettaMars Před měsícem

    Always on time. 🙏🏽

  • @Annjenkins806
    @Annjenkins806 Před měsícem

    Assess an Opportunity and govern yourself Accordingly..Oh My. My Lord!