We Need To Talk // Relation-Shifts // Dr. Dharius Daniels

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Komentáře • 255

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +91

    This is why it is DANGEROUS to PICK before you GROW. 💜💜

    • @autumnonpurpose
      @autumnonpurpose Před 4 měsíci +2

      This is so true!! ❤

    • @feliciadance1715
      @feliciadance1715 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ‼️🙌🏼

    • @AbelBlog
      @AbelBlog Před 4 měsíci +1

      You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
      Focus on potential!

    • @d3ntyne-ic3
      @d3ntyne-ic3 Před 3 měsíci +2

      This!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +48

    Use this single season to grow as much as you can because when you evolve your attraction does too!!!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @SharraAmanda
    @SharraAmanda Před 5 měsíci +71

    This message was confirmation that leaving my relationship was God's protection despite what I wanted to do. I couldn't even have a conversation without being invalidated. Mental, emotional, psychological and financial anguish and toil. This is my closure. To God be the glory.

    • @tiffanyb3431
      @tiffanyb3431 Před 4 měsíci +3

      going through the same thing. My heart aches while my mind is at peace.

    • @SharraAmanda
      @SharraAmanda Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@tiffanyb3431 I’m about 2 months out from leaving and it was so hard. I cried everyday for about 5 weeks. Then, I started fasting and being more intentional about seeking God. Be obedient to God in this season sis. Lay your burdens at his feet and seek His counsel. I’m fasting until Easter and I’m telling you, the sensitivity to the Holy Spirit is unreal and it’s allowing me to see without resentment. To own without possessing. To love without attachment. He has so much better for you and for us. Praying for your healing, restoration of joy, and the One whom He has for you. Head up love!!! ❤️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +36

    Emotional intelligence is maturity ❤

  • @JordanJWilliams_
    @JordanJWilliams_ Před 5 měsíci +68

    Whoever the guy is in all PD’s videos who says “oooooooo that’s so goood” Woooooowwww” “ yessssss pastahhh”. Makes it even better for me 😂. Can anyone relate?

  • @l.victoriathomas8427
    @l.victoriathomas8427 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Takeaway: Learning about how to RelationShift by knowing COMMUNICATION requires me knowing and applying the following four T's: Timing, Tone, Truth, and Trust.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +23

    You can't stay married to the same person forever they evolve so you gotta learn how to manage their evolution ❤

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +22

    Truth without love is mean, love without truth is meaningless, truth in love is medicine. 💜💜

  • @irawarren8034
    @irawarren8034 Před 5 měsíci +25

    My childhood was riddled with hurt and pain. When the two people brought me into the world. Told me constantly that I was nothing. I'm using the word nothing" one. I wouldn't dare use the obscenities they used. My shifts happened later on in life when I began to search scriptures and learn God my created me and said iam royal priesthood, fearfully and wonderfully made, head and not the tail. Molestation, rapes, being ganged raped, homeless, stabbed, lost 2 babies to domestic violence . When I shifted me meaning my mind, comfronted my truama God sent my husband. I'm still shifting evolving and becoming who God created me to be. I've moved myself from people places and things that do not add to my life.

  • @msshaneaka3826
    @msshaneaka3826 Před 5 měsíci +7

    “You know my proximity but you don’t know my location.” -Dharius Daniels

  • @nonya7099
    @nonya7099 Před 5 měsíci +62

    Dont stop. I need 8hrs of this level of preaching. Speechless!!

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda Před 5 měsíci +1

      So underrated!!! Sis I feel the same way frfr!

  • @iamkcav1
    @iamkcav1 Před 5 měsíci +154

    This is God speaking my truth through you PD! I just told God I’m unhappy in my marriage, but if you want me to stay God, I need your help. This is everything I am going through right now and I have been choosing to fix me and let God fix him. Thank you God for speaking through PD.

    • @latriceclarkjordan956
      @latriceclarkjordan956 Před 5 měsíci +7

      DITTO!!

    • @iamkcav1
      @iamkcav1 Před 5 měsíci

      @@latriceclarkjordan956 I bpray that if it’s God’s will, he will not just heal both of you in your marriage, but he creates a new thing! In Jesus name, Amen. 🙏🏽 🤎

    • @pinkybenjamin382
      @pinkybenjamin382 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Amen, let God lead. I’ve been there❣️

    • @lifecyclestyled6732
      @lifecyclestyled6732 Před 5 měsíci +7

      😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

    • @Nikiprophet
      @Nikiprophet Před 5 měsíci +7

      Prayer works, God can do it. Allow God to work on you & God will work on him. I know from experience!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +22

    First thing God gave Adam was responsibility he had to work before the woman ❤

  • @phyllisbelieves8148
    @phyllisbelieves8148 Před 5 měsíci +18

    Prepare me for marriage Lord🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kelaroberson
      @kelaroberson Před 5 měsíci +2

      Me too Jesus❤

    • @yolandawilliams6044
      @yolandawilliams6044 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Don't pass me God, prepare me, God. I'm praying to be prepared for my husband and praying my husband is being prepared for me.

    • @briharvey7993
      @briharvey7993 Před 3 měsíci +1

      🙏🏾 Amen

  • @stefaknee
    @stefaknee Před 5 měsíci +15

    “YOU KNOW IM COMMITED, BUT YOU DONT KNOW MY COMMITMENT TO GOD! “JESUS!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lifecyclestyled6732
    @lifecyclestyled6732 Před 5 měsíci +19

    😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV Před 4 měsíci +10

    Active listening is effective communication! It’s relational competency 👏🏾

  • @candib7167
    @candib7167 Před 5 měsíci +16

    Me, listening to the playback Monday morning yelling at at my phone,now this is good !! Imma stay single for awhile

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +6

    It takes conversation to reveal the location of the relationship 💜💜

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +12

    God communicates to fix problems ❤

  • @kiannabella1191
    @kiannabella1191 Před 5 měsíci +15

    I broke down yesterday and asked God to speak to me, I asked was I broken that I can't hear him, and came to this amazingly beautiful sermon and instantly was feed. I know he is speaking to me through you. Thank You ☺

  • @gamingwithaydon4590
    @gamingwithaydon4590 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Pastor Dharius just explained my whole 13 year marriage in 37 minutes. Communication was too late, we were in 2 different marriages cause he was in one location and I was in another mentally and emotionally. I asked several time, are we in the same marriage😂😂.
    Went to counseling for 6 months thinking we would get some tools to help with counseling but when you don’t acknowledge you have a communication problem, you won’t do the necessary things to fix it

    • @justtye5145
      @justtye5145 Před 5 měsíci

      Are you guys still trying to work it out?

    • @gamingwithaydon4590
      @gamingwithaydon4590 Před 5 měsíci

      @@justtye5145 no I moved out 12/13/23 while he was at work.
      Too much tension and stress

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog Před 4 měsíci +9

    You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
    Focus on potential!

    • @lololang8718
      @lololang8718 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Doing things the King's way 🙏🏼

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Inability to communicate leads to accumulation which leads to complaning and failure to address the need ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +9

    We need comprehensive skills in our relationships, listen to understand not to respond ❤

  • @adriennetolbert151
    @adriennetolbert151 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Great Relationships have to have Great Relation SHIFTS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lakeiba_
    @lakeiba_ Před 5 měsíci +26

    PD just came out the gate ALL GAS and NO BREAKS. This was truly a great one and VERY Valuable one. Application of these 4 in getting Communication right is sure to elevate any relationship. In any situation or circumstance these can be applied to reach healthy dialogue for positive results. Having the conversation too late causes chaos. I can't wait for PT 2. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❣️❣️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Communication leads to elevation ❤

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 Před 5 měsíci +13

    SPIRITUAL, RELATIONAL and EMOTIONAL Intelligence is vital. Keep SHIFTING us towards GOD Pastor Daniels, IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Communication reveals location of the relationship ❤

  • @valerietherobloxgamer7654
    @valerietherobloxgamer7654 Před 5 měsíci +18

    You are an Anointed Vessel I thank you for your Obedience ❤❤❤❤

  • @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu
    @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu Před 2 měsíci +1

    Preach!!!!!!!!!

  • @mellymel9892
    @mellymel9892 Před 11 dny

    I’m not religious AT ALL! And I’m certainly not a Christian. But this man be saying some shyt!!! Sheeesh!

  • @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722
    @achrist-fashionedwomanbymb2722 Před 5 měsíci +7

    PD you did something here!!! So powerful!!!!

  • @ambernecho
    @ambernecho Před 5 měsíci +8

    Be better for Them 🤣🤣🤣 Love Pastor D teachings

  • @mimispence9773
    @mimispence9773 Před 5 měsíci +11

    What an awesome and timely message. This message was nothing, but the gospel truth. I thank God for using you to speak the truth in my life.

  • @heygiirltv
    @heygiirltv Před 5 měsíci +7

    Wow and Wooow!!! I’ve filed this away in the “PD - Sermons for My Season”

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I need to be in relationship with someone that speaks my truth. 💜💜

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Worship , work woman that was the order of Adam ❤

  • @sonyacovington1285
    @sonyacovington1285 Před 5 měsíci +4

    THIS IS GOD SENT!!!

  • @MK-es9go
    @MK-es9go Před 5 měsíci +19

    I watched 3 services because this message was🔥🔥🔥

    • @stephanietorres8168
      @stephanietorres8168 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Yessss🙌🙌🙌🙌 I’ve literally been watching on repeat since first live 😆🙌🔥🙏👏👏

    • @njabulomchunu1562
      @njabulomchunu1562 Před 5 měsíci

      @@stephanietorres8168 much needed service in deed. we thank God; watching From South Africa

  • @mosanders8567
    @mosanders8567 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I took too much abuse in ignorance... I am so thankful for You for this generation...because the next generations will be better

  • @Life.inthe6ix
    @Life.inthe6ix Před 3 měsíci

    This was such a great lesson. I need to listen it over and over and over again to let every word sizzle in my spirit and not forget…

  • @tashafoster9737
    @tashafoster9737 Před 2 měsíci

    This ain’t nothing but the truth 👏🏾👏🏾…I see glimpses of it when u think ur gonna lose me

  • @malaikamumba1910
    @malaikamumba1910 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It’s dangerous to pick before you grow 👌

  • @felicianorthard
    @felicianorthard Před 5 měsíci +3

    An in season word for my soul I NEEDED TO HEAR ALL OF THIS

  • @user-sl2zp6vu4v
    @user-sl2zp6vu4v Před 5 měsíci +4

    Bless God for the message & the messenger 🙌🏾

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Some people are asking when is God going to send her and God is asking when are you going to see? 💜💜

  • @shariamartin9618
    @shariamartin9618 Před 3 měsíci

    I was on the edge of my seat the entire time 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @horibasangtam1722
    @horibasangtam1722 Před 2 měsíci

    Such an anointed sermon 🙌 hallelujah amen🙇

  • @deannareynolds7045
    @deannareynolds7045 Před 2 měsíci

    MY GOD THIS IS CONFIRMATION

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Před 5 měsíci +2

    We will win here and be an example to others on what can happen when you do it the kings way. 💜💜

  • @latricetaylor8650
    @latricetaylor8650 Před 3 měsíci

    You are preaching sir!!! That’s fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kellygardner2779
    @kellygardner2779 Před 3 měsíci

    This word is powerful!!!!

  • @4evamyangels
    @4evamyangels Před 4 měsíci +1

    Only one give me chills constantly

  • @opalwalters372
    @opalwalters372 Před 5 měsíci +4

    whoooo this message came on time, Thank you Jesus.

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways Před 3 měsíci

    Grow with each other

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +1

    How you handle Relationshifts determines how health your relationship will be ❤

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways Před 3 měsíci

    Say what you mean and mean what you say. You feel sometbigh say it share all the timw not just when you feel like it. Stop going off emotions ❤

  • @phyllisjohnsonshade7130
    @phyllisjohnsonshade7130 Před 2 měsíci

    Pastor Dharius you are truly talking my life imprisonment of this marriage. I have talked and prayed about this. Failure in a marriage is scary. I want shift in this relationship.

  • @keshawiley4573
    @keshawiley4573 Před 4 měsíci

    Omg god always knows when to show up

  • @RianGahagans
    @RianGahagans Před 4 měsíci

    just what i needed this morning! 💕🙏🏽

  • @maried.1831
    @maried.1831 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Best of the Best, Dr Pastor Dharius Daniels!

  • @Iamtamika1
    @Iamtamika1 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This 😮 is so good! I can run around this living room 😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 whew this series 🙌🏽

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless Před 5 měsíci

    This is amazing and on point I love it yes

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless Před 5 měsíci +2

    Help us lord yes

  • @SincerelyBena_
    @SincerelyBena_ Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Lord ❤🙌🏾

  • @SierraShear
    @SierraShear Před 5 měsíci

    GOOD STUFF‼️‼️‼️

  • @labooch
    @labooch Před 5 měsíci

    Yesssss SIR🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 PREACH

  • @brainsNbeauty727
    @brainsNbeauty727 Před 5 měsíci

    This was TOO good!

  • @kenyacurtis7724
    @kenyacurtis7724 Před 5 měsíci +2

    💥RHEMA💥

  • @shamettaallen342
    @shamettaallen342 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was soooo good

  • @Morena_do_Rei
    @Morena_do_Rei Před 5 měsíci

    Glory to God! God bless you PD! 🙏✨

  • @keyuanamitchell1960
    @keyuanamitchell1960 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you PD 🔥🔥

  • @Breezy84312
    @Breezy84312 Před 5 měsíci

    So good! I’m so excited for the series! I got my notes out!

  • @lloyd_ad
    @lloyd_ad Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is too good! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @denisemiles8032
    @denisemiles8032 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 Před 5 měsíci +3

    ❤Before marrying her are you sure you can handle her evolution cause sure thing is she will change

  • @76pcarter
    @76pcarter Před 5 měsíci

    You preaching Sir!!!!

  • @melindaaguilera7410
    @melindaaguilera7410 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you soo much

  • @karrongilbreath3230
    @karrongilbreath3230 Před 4 měsíci

    Be good for them over there. Yes sir.

  • @sircharles7682
    @sircharles7682 Před 4 měsíci

    Let's talk!!❤

  • @gabbichristinia2061
    @gabbichristinia2061 Před 4 měsíci

    Sir you are preaching!!! Sheesh!

  • @destinyvenus5627
    @destinyvenus5627 Před 4 měsíci

    THANK YOU 🙏🏾

  • @deewhit4964
    @deewhit4964 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My God!!! Preach PD!!! Thank Father!

  • @Therealwithrael
    @Therealwithrael Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was so deep PD. We needed this!!!

  • @niar3214
    @niar3214 Před 3 měsíci

    Timing, truth, tone, trust!

  • @mrshiphopmommie
    @mrshiphopmommie Před 5 měsíci

    This so on point ❤

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 Před 5 měsíci +1

    THIS IS GOOD! AWESOME WORD PASTOR DANIELS!

  • @dalleanemcnichols1149
    @dalleanemcnichols1149 Před 5 měsíci

    Great word!!!! Speaking my language.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @jrenee34678
    @jrenee34678 Před 5 měsíci

    This was definitely for me. Help me Lord

  • @marypittslive
    @marypittslive Před 4 měsíci

    This🔥🔥🔥

  • @witnessthis2765
    @witnessthis2765 Před 5 měsíci

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    You always speak fire so simply be being YOU🎉
    God bless the work That He’s doing in you

  • @ruthproctor7007
    @ruthproctor7007 Před 5 měsíci

    Whewww so good PD🙌🙌🙌

  • @tianaj8816
    @tianaj8816 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This message is 🔥 🔥 🔥. You betta TEACH PD!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Loveis_Kind
    @Loveis_Kind Před 5 měsíci

    Cmon now Pastor D 🔥🔥🔥

  • @debraspates3185
    @debraspates3185 Před 5 měsíci

    My 2nd listen and I'm planning a repeat 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @PushRadio
    @PushRadio Před 5 měsíci +1

    So many gems. So much confirmation. On my 5th viewing and can't wait for next Sunday, PD!

  • @nataliebless
    @nataliebless Před 5 měsíci

    Preach

  • @amilyun
    @amilyun Před 5 měsíci

    Amazing