INTIMACY AND TRUST REDUCERS: A Session with Dr. Joe DeBruin

Dr. Joe DeBruin, a clinical psychologist, provides inspiration for how we can develop increased intimacy and trust in core relationships. Filled with wisdom gained from talking with people during thousands of therapy sessions, this video will equip the viewer to come away with practical approaches and tools.
00:00 Intro
00:40 The last word
01:19 Fixing problems vs listening and echoing
02:22 My everything and your everything
03:02 Self-care as a reward
03:48 Agreement vs compliance
04:44 Changes in return for changes
05:52 Guessing preferences, needs, and desires
06:26 “Triggering” behavior
07:46 Refusal to forgive while stile hurting
08:29 Focusing on deficits, deficiencies, faults, and crimes
09:25 Regular mutual vulnerability
10:14 Factoring in children and parents
11:20 Summary
Connect with Dr. DeBruin at joedebruin.com
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[@challman111]

These are so helpful.

[@joedebruin]

Glad you think so! I am trying to be very real world versus academic!