Life Update - Everything's Changing
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- čas přidán 27. 04. 2024
- This isn't my usual video - I have had major life changes over the past few months, and this is an update. Thanks for watching and following the journey xx ❤️
If you want to see a wonderful video on all of my dad's favorite things, you can watch this video created by my daughter, Hadley. PS. He knew she was making this video, discussed many of the items with her, and was very happy about this compilation: • ❤️
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Mourning is a painful and long process.My dad passed away 10 years ago and I found this saying that is conforting:
" When we lose someone we love,we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind"
THEY may have died, but not our love for them - this love has no longer a place to go to....😥.
I heard Valerie Bertinelli say something like “how beautiful to have loved someone so much that you grieve them.”
I lost my mom over 37 years ago and still have a hard time some days. But, I talk to hear, feel her presence and think about her everyday.
Regarding your room, I wonder if your clothes rack will fit in the elevator? Of course if it is not being used, and making sure it doesn’t shift around while moving up and down. It will give you that extra space it’s occupying now. You can fill the rack with what you will be showing on your video and then send it down. That is, if the rack isn’t already on the spot the elevator comes up on. No space is really saved then. Unless you put something there that can be easily moved when you need the elevator with the clothes rack in it. Just a thought.
I am so sorry, Dads are so special. The Irish say "I'm standing with you."
Your community here are standing with you and your family. Hugs
That's so beautiful - thanks for your thoughts 🥰
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. We do not talk about it enough. I lost my mom in 2019 and we got a break until 2021 when we lost 9 others through this year, the most recent being my husband a month ago. He was only 70 years old. Both of my parents were 92. We were just getting to the point of enjoying our later years and then cancer strikes. You are so right about being a caregiver. Hospice was helpful but I was doing everything 24/7. It was exhausting but I’d do it forever if only he were here. I wish you and your family a smooth transition to the Philadelphia area and may you blessed with many new memories in your family home while savoring your past memories. Cool elevator. Just so you’ll know, I still miss your knitting videos! They were awesome!😉😉
Sorry for your loss. 😢
I am really sorry for your loss. Take your time and do what you need to do. We (your viewers) won't be going anywhere
Hello beautiful ❤❤❤❤
No matter how long we've had our parents with us, losing them is a cosmic shift in life role/stage. Adjusting to their absence in your life is terribly hard. My sympathies. I lost my 90 year old parents, one with Alzheimers, within 10 days of each other. It took a long time (and some days, just like it was yesterday) to adjust to a world without them in it. My deepest sympathies. Thanks for bringing it forward and helping others.
So sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find comfort in your memories.
You’re right-we don’t talk about taking care of aging parents enough. I am so glad you are. I completely understand why you’re taking a breath for yourself. Sending you positive thoughts. ❤
May God bless you and comfort all your family and other viewers now.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. 4 years ago I was in similar circumstances and my father was sick and I left my comfort home in Atlanta to care for him. May God continue to comfort and keep you ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
My condolences on your loss. You are right we don’t talk about all that is entailed in caring for our aging parents.
So sorry on your Dads passing, happy you were able to spend time with him!!
Your new studio looks great !
Hello beautiful❤❤
I feel you. Father's are so important to their daughters. Sending you prayers and love.
Thank you for sharing this personal, vulnerable side. You have the double whammy of going through your parents belongings AND making a family home into your own space. You’ve started with the easiest tool: a coat of paint. I hope you find joy in the process. I’m particularly looking forward to videos of how you change out your wardrobe seasonally. Now that you’ll also have more actual seasons 😊
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. I went through this 19 years ago with my Dad and 26 years ago with my Mom. I totally understand what you are going through. Take the time you need. You are the only one that can determine that. We will always be here for you.
Nancy, I have been where you are in life and you are so right, no one prepares you. I lost my parents 6 months apart. I am an only child so finding out that my dad's caregiver, after my mother was gone , was trying to get his house and bank accounts, I did so much scrambling, you can't imagine. I had my dad in my home for 3 months because there were no available places to handle his dementia. He finally got a place, and 3 days later he passed. God bless you and your family. It will get easier.
Hard times. One thing we can rely on in life is change even when it's a change we didn't want. I think it's great that you've decided to keep the childhood home and making it yours. And even though going through your parents' things deciding what to keep and what to donate is an ordeal, it is also a catharsis and part of the grieving process. In my experience you never get over the loss of people you truly loved. You just come to a place of acceptance. Best wishes to you and your family in this difficult time.
So sorry for you loss, Nancy how fortunate you were to be there on his last day. I was the caregiver for my sister with stage four lung cancer.it was very hard but it was also a privilege. Peace be with you.
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about this subject. Most of us aren’t prepared to become full time caretakers.
Sound quality is awesome, no echos, volume while adjustable is perfect.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in 2018 to pancreatic cancer. My mom passed in 2020. We were able to have them both home through their illnesses and when they passed. My husband and I bought their home. I have done the cleaning out and it is a process.
I am so sorry, thank you for talking about this. I wish you peace.
My condolences, I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year, and my mom is now in memory care, so I understand. There’s no roadmap for this part of the journey. Praying peace and comfort to you and your family 🙏🙏
My husband and I have lost all of our parents for several years now, so I can sympathize with what you are going through. It is a blessing to be able to spend time with your loved ones. Take care of yourself now.
Nancy, no matter how old we are, losing a parent is so very sad. I am so sorry for your loss.
So thankful you had that time with your dad before he passed. Praying for you as you walk this new path.
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. And you’re right, we don’t talk about this often enough.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my father almost 20 years ago at the age of 63. Way too young. You and your family are in my thoughts.
When your videos didn't arrive, I thought something big must have happened. I am so sorry. Grief is a terrible thing... it washes over one and then you think you're ok, but then the next wave comes. Both my darling parents have gone and I miss them. No doubt your Mum and Dad would be so pleased that you're in the house. Very special. Hugs.
Do you have room in your family home for a puzzle room? I know you love puzzles! 🧩 Your parents raised an amazing daughter, Nancy, and I can tell how much you love them. What a beautiful story. ❤
It really is difficult to lose a parent and I found a real sense of being orphaned when both parents passed. It’s real but what a gift to have been with your parents in their final hours. So sorry for your loss thanks for talking about the subject. It is necessary.
Thank you for sharing this, I’m so sorry for your loss ❤. I just lost my Dad last week under very similar circumstances. I was also grateful that he was able to pass at home. I echo your every sentiment about hospice. Although they are wonderful, I was not at all prepared to be the main caregiver and it is humbling and incredibly exhausting. Praying for you and your family and thank you for letting us know we aren’t alone. 🙏🏻❤️💕
I’m so sorry for your loss … I think living in your parents home will bring you much comfort …. Thank you for sharing about hospice …my husband has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so this is in my future … I’m very stressed with how this will all go . I’m glad I found your channel…I’m looking forward to your videos.
You are so right-being in my parents' home has brought me so much comfort, especially when I'm out in my mother's gardens, ripping out weeds and returning the garden to its former beauty. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Take one day at a time, don't forget to breathe, take some time for yourself, and remember that you are stronger than you think! Hugs 🥰
How sad for the family. Blessings.
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your Dad and hope you know that all your viewers want the best for you and we know that there are things more pressing than style! I am currently cleaning out the house of my husband's cousin after caring for her and it is work to find the "right" disposition for everything. Fashion is fun, but we can wait while you deal with the true essentials of life. I live in Philadelphia; welcome back to the neighborhood. Our daughter went to grad school at UC Irvine and we loved going to Newport Beach, Balboa Island, etc., and while you are leaving a beautiful area, preservation of your family home is an opportunity many of us would like to have had. I saw the radiator behind you - you will need heat again! The elevator is cool - we have neighbors with one in their older home. The closets were very small in our house from the 1920s - interesting that even homes of well-to-do folks did not have very large closets, making me wonder if they did not have that much clothing because they bought fewer, better quality items, a "capsule wardrobe?" Thank you for trusting your viewers with your difficult news and I pray you will have peace, which is what your parents would want for you.
Sorry for your loss. We have missed your videos but are looking forward to seeing your fall and winter wardrobe tips now that you are joining those of us in PA. Especially need advice on winter hats for those of us over 60.
Thanks for sharing your update. Looking forward to seeing more videos and take care of you even if it means a little more time away from us! Hugs.
Dear Nancy, I'm deeply sorry to hear about your dad. Take the time you need to mourn and heal.
It's wonderful that you've found the strength to immerse yourself in this new project. Your new studio looks amazing, and I'm confident that your videos will reflect your newfound creativity. Please take care, and my warmest wishes are with you.
P.S. I've also lost both my parents, so I understand what you're going through.
Thanks for all of your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents.
Dear Nancy - sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need. That's quite a move for you which can also be stressful. Be kind to yourself. xx
Thanks so much for thinking of me and taking the time to write a kind message. 💕
So sorry for your loss. You absolutely did the right thing by being with your dad. Welcome back to the East Coast
Love, hugs and prayers to you Nancy. ❤
I really appreciate it! ❤
Sending love you during this time of profound loss. I lost my father and was his caretaker/ hospice assisting me. It is hard. You have taken on a huge lifestyle change as well. This is wonderful but it is alot. I have missed you. Prayers ❤ peace and blessings to you and yours.
Thanks so much, Donna. I'm so sorry you lost your father in a similar manner. ❤
Thank you for sharing. I’m praying for you and your family. I’ve missed you, but you take all the time you need. We will be here for you. Much love, Nancy.
I appreciate your kind words, Kathy. Thanks 💕
I’m so sorry for your loss . I just lost my dad too. It’s so hard. Take your time getting back to work. I look forward to future videos from you. The house looks amazing.
Thanks for taking the time to write the note, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. 💕
I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about it. I agree. I wish people would be more open and be able to talk about these phases of life and death. So difficult.
Thank you so much 😊
So sorry for your loss. I’m going through the same thing. My father is currently in the hospital with congestive heart failure. He’s two towns away from me so it’s a three hour commute each day to see him. It’s exhausting.
It’s so heartbreaking to lose our parents. I know some of what you’re going through because I was in very similar situations in 2010 and 2014. You’re NOT alone! Again, very sorry for your loss. However, the changes that are coming up for you and your husband are on such a positive note for the days and years ahead.
Nancy I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Condolences to you and family at this trying time.
Thank you, Lori
Thanks for sharing and showing us your courage and love!
I appreciate your kind words, Christine. 💕
I'm sorry for your loss; looking forward to seeing future videos in your new studio.
Thanks so much - more videos from the new studio are coming soon!
We’ll miss you here in Newport Beach. I kept hoping I’d run into you someday at Fashion Island. Dear Nancy, I know what you’re going through, it is tough and heartbreaking. Bursting into tears at the most random times, or when a certain song plays. Allow yourself time to grieve. God bless you and your family.
Awe bless you
So happy that your family house brings more joy with the on going memories of your dad!
So happy you had time to be there for him.
And yay we are looking forward to 4 seasons wardrobe fresh ideas from you!
Looking to the future.
And God Bless your husband!
So sorry for your loss. Blessings for the future.
I really appreciate it. Thanks 🥰
I’m sorry for your loss. There are so many emotions. And then the work of sorting through memories and another person’s life. It’s a lot. Be easy on yourself. Take your time.
Nancy so very, very sorry for your loss. I’m glad that you were able to be with him. I lost my 65 year old sister last year and truly there is nothing that prepares you for that experience. Sending you hugs and support. I live in Doylestown, Bucks County if you ever find yourself up in this area ❤
Nancy so very sorry to hear about your dad.
Thinking about you
Thanks so much, Lisa 💕
Thank you for sharing! Sorry for your loss. 😢 It helps me to connect with you and be more open to the ideas that you share. 😊💕
Thanks so much for your kind words, Jane 💕
Condolences to you and your family, Nancy. 🙏🏽
Thank you so much, Kristi 💕
Sorry for your loss. This is tough and lots of big changes ahead. Hang in there.
So sorry for your loss - I also experienced something very similar with my dad - now caring for mom with dementia. Appreciate your sharing this with us all! Blessings on going/being home!
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 92 year old dad on January 28th of this year. My mom died last year on March 4th. It is tough losing both your parents within a year.
You are so right that we need to talk. It does ease the burden for everyone. My mum said 'I am going to die.' People couldn't believe, some appalled, my reply was 'I know mum.' I felt it was the way to be, open and truthful. We then talked and talked.
I feel for you as I lost both my parents in fourteen weeks. Look after yourself and 'do' CZcams whenever you feel ready.
So sorry for your loss! You are not alone. The grieving process comes and goes. Take the time you need. I am caring for a handicapped husband and yes caregiving is hard. Take care of yourself.
So sorry for your loss, and thank you for speaking about this topic. Please remember to take time for yourself as you grieve.
Thanks so much, Lavonne. I did some gardening today in my mother's garden, and it was very healing. ❤🩹
My deepest condolences. Losing a loved one is heartbreaking. We lost my children's day 16 months ago today. It was sudden; a heart attack. Saying goodbye wasn't possible.
Grief takes a toll...I'm so sorry for your loss. Letting go of all the possessions is a huge task.
That house has closure and a new beginning. Xoxo😘
Nancy, Thank you so much for sharing. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and all your wonderful choices. May God Bless you and your family.
I’m so sorry ❤ for your loss, Nancy, may God bless you and your family. I’m sure that your family will find joy in being together again. 😢
I am so very sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your move.
I appreciate your kind words; thank you! 🥰
Sincere condolences, Nancy. You picked the best colour green for healing the heart... you'll feel good in your new creative place..
Thank you so much 😊
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am glad your dad had a chance to be at home surrounded by family and loved ones. You're right caregiving is a difficult chapter in our lives. I did the best I could with my mom, she had frontal lobe dementia and she refused to move in with us or a facility. I just prayed my way through the process and tried my best to do my best for her. May God continue to give you peace and love through the process.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is very hard to go through these things when we lose someone.
Thanks for your kind words 😍
@@shoppingonchampagne You are welcome
My deepest sympathy to you and your family! I know how hard it is to be a caregiver. We lost my dad and my father-in-law and now have my mom and MIL living with us. I work full time from home which thankfully allows me to look after them. It is exhausting though and we lose track of our own self care. Please take care of yourself as you go through the process of grieving and moving! P.S. - I think the desk area would make a lovely vanity area to store your makeup and display any perfumes, jewelry & accessories in one place.
May God grant you peace and a sense of accomplishment. You are right you had the privilege that you could be there for your parents. When my mother died I put in jewelry boxes different earrings and pins and gave them to all her friends. I am going to be 65 this year, and am making sure I have less for my own peace, and for my family if anything happens. Great to have you back!
Your channel just popped up in my feed and I'm glad it did. I am so sorry about your father. I lost mine in January of 2020 very unexpectedly. He was my only parent since I was 8. I'm now 59. I'm so happy you have used your platform to discuss this. It is important. I'm still struggling 4 years later. I have no other family and my so called friends have fallen by the way side. It's been difficult to say the least. Thank you so much for this and, I look forward to your future videos on fashion and, whatever else you want to discuss! God bless you ❤
So sorry for your loss. I truly believe that we need to be more open about life events! How do we learn if we don't talk! I lost my parents both in 1999! Wow can't believe it's been that long. I just found out this morning that a family friend/doctor has passed away. It is all part of life. That is why we must enjoy every step of the way. Looking forward to your new content when your ready.
What colour is the green of the walls please? It's lovely, and just what I need for my very hot laundry room. Also, why not build shelves in that tiny closet - it would look better than the old teak dresser.
So sorry for your loss. It’s so very hard losing our parents. It’s nice that you can move back to a home that’s filled with such wonderful memories.
Welcome back to Phillies/Eagles territory. I’m about 20 minutes outside of Philly on the Jersey side. We’re practically neighbors. 😂 ❤️
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. Although it has been 7 years since my Dad (second parent) passed, coincidentally I was going through some of his things a few hours ago and feeling sad. It’s wonderful that you have a large family for support and that you could move to your parents’ home with all of those memories. It looks like a really cool home. ❤
I'm so sorry Nancy, this isn't easy. Been there with my father. hugs to you.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Your video is touching and so true.
My husband of 53 years died in 2021 at home hospice. Your comments hit home. It was awful seeing my husband deteriorate. My heart broke💔. As you mentioned, YOU are the caregiver, and it is exhausting physically, but mostly emotionally.
Sometimes life is really hard, but we must go on.🤗❤️
Thank you for your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Carrying on in a home my parents loved and cared for has brought me so much peace and encouraged me to move on. 🥰 Wishing you peace as well.
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss and, I agree, I don’t think we talk about how challenging this time of life can be with caring for elderly parents and going through loss. My father passed away from pancreatic cancer two years ago and the sadness, stress, and exhaustion (cleaning the house) was a lot! I am happy for your move back to the family house; it sounds like you and your husband are glad to be back in PA. Much love and good luck with recreating your own “home” there. 😊
You have a rough couple of months! It is hard to lose a parent but i am so glad that you could be there for him. I lost my parents about 20 years ago and within 2 years of each other. I am an only child and was very close to both of them. As hard as it was i have so many wonderful memories since they were wonderful parents who loved me dearly . It looks like you are going to have a fun time fixing up your new wardrobe room. And how cool is that elevator!!!! We love your videos but also understand if the come less often as you move and just recover from all you have been through!
I am so sorry for you Nancy. I completely understand the “nothing left in the tank” feeling. My husband is in longterm care. We could not manage him at home as he is bedbound. We are dealing with a combination of physical and dementia issues. I love him to bits, but visiting him daily is tough. He does not really talk, sometimes depending on his mood he-will answer some questions. You are physically, emotionally drained, and you are always trying to out on a brave face.
Take care and allow yourself to grieve. If you don’t it will come back to bite you.🤪.
Take care. And good luck with the move.
Thank you for sharing a journey that many of us have travelled. Sending you love from down under. ❤
Thank you for sharing your loss and grieving, so sorry . Glad you are settling into the precious home , good luck with healing, you seems to be doing your very best💪
Oh hun, I'm so sorry ❤ I understand I lost my dad nearly 3 years ago for the same reason 🫂 I had the blessing to take care of my dad in his last week at home 😢 praying for you and your family 🌹
I'm so sorry about your dad. I too have an aging parent with pancreatic cancer. And caregiving is a MAJOR responsibility. Even with care professionals. The care taker sacrifices so much. Praying for you and your family.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. I'm so glad for you that you're with family and undertaking this happy move. xoxo
Thanks so much, Diane 😍
Sending you positive thoughts and prayers for comfort and strength during this time of big changes. Losing your dad, moving cross country and updating an older home is certainly a lot to process in such a short time. On a side note your studio room is fantastic! I love that wall of wardrobes and look forward to seeing you make the space amazing!
So very sorry about your loss Nancy!
Nancy -- my heart goes out to you and your family. It is heartbreaking to watch elderly parents slowly slip into a person that does not resemble our lifetime of experiences with them. It is a blessing to have them still in our lives for as long as possible, yet it is a little crack in the heart at the same time. I am watching my 81 year old father decline from Parkinson's -- it takes a lot of moments of self-talk cheerleading. How wonderful to have a family home full of memories that you can reimagine -- that is a blessing and a way for you to continue to still have a piece of your parents with you. Wishing you safe travels as you move and the warmest of welcomes in your new old home. Have you thought about a big, tall mirror in your "studio" so that you can flip the camera and easily show some of your tips so that you can reduce your editing time with inserting B roll? Best of luck with the changes. xoxo
So sorry to hear this. I think our generation our parents are living longer and many of us are in the same situation.
Hugs to you Nancy
I feel so sad for your loss but I feel you are so grateful that you spent valuable time with your Dad. It's such a tough time clearing out parents homes, we have done both parents homes & somehow it seems disrespectful 😢
Things settle in time
Absolutely love the lift in your new studio👏
Take time to grieve 🫂
So very sorry for your father’s passing . I pray for comfort for your whole family . On another note, welcome back to PA - I’m up in Lebanon County , just above Lancaster County .
So sorry for your loss 😢 my heart goes out to you. Lost both parents and brother over last 9 years. I was carer for my parents, but am thankful I was with them throughout their illness. Take care and time to mourn ❤
My condolences, I just got back from my aunt funeral, same exact story
Sending positive energy to you and your family
My deepest sympathy. I have been through the same scenario and you are right -it is a very hard road. Take care of yourself now and give yourself the grace that you need through the grieving process. 🙏🏻
I am so sorry for your loss….What a wonderful video…. thank you for posting….I live in the Malibu area but am originally from the Philadelphia area (South Jersey) with many family members still there so I will be particularly interested in hearing more about your move back!
It's lovely to see you again Nancy...although so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. A very sad time for you and your family...its very good of you to share your story and feelings with others , because you're right -- we don't talk enough of these difficult periods of our lives..thank you. Xx
so sorry for your loss, grieving is a rollercoaster of emotions, so exhausting. Take your time and look after your health.