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  • @OH5311883
    @OH5311883 Před 2 lety +1862

    The black community has really lost a GEM. This man's video just flooded my page this morning and I have been watching all day and I am sorry that he is gone. He speaks truth to power.

    • @nattyparis654
      @nattyparis654 Před 2 lety +40

      This is exactly how I feel.. I’m like damn imagine I was watching him all this time I’d be hella heartbroken☹️😢💔

    • @masskhamisi4
      @masskhamisi4 Před 2 lety +89

      It's not just the black community ...everyone knows his a gem and everyone is sad ...he was real deal

    • @mchristpmc2152
      @mchristpmc2152 Před 2 lety +26

      I think we are all in aggreance & I wish I could surround myself with you like-minded people.
      I have always thought his way, so much so, I had to question whether I was anti-woman(I'm not though). Smh. I'm so grateful that there was some1 to strictly call out the BS.

    • @joeannguy4839
      @joeannguy4839 Před 2 lety +20

      Me too... I can't stop watching

    • @afrikanvoice7873
      @afrikanvoice7873 Před 2 lety +12

      Definitely a gem. Real and raw 🎯

  • @edgarramirez9113
    @edgarramirez9113 Před 2 lety +1541

    Kevin: Who filed for divorce?
    Her: Well it was a mutual decision.
    Kevin: Who filed for divorce?
    Her: I mean it was a mutual decision between the both of us
    Kevin: WHO FILED FOR DIVORCE??
    Her: Me 🙄🙄
    You really can't make this shit up 🤦🏽‍♂️😒

    • @irritatingtruth9121
      @irritatingtruth9121 Před 2 lety +65

      Yooooo! That got me. Not going to lie lol!
      That’s when I subbed

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 Před 2 lety +3

      @MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS the absolute stupidity of people kill me.

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 Před 2 lety +12

      @MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS trust me I already have. The worst was when I asked a couple chick's how many years are in a decade. I'm not gonna write what they said but right then and there I knew there was very little to no hope left in humanity. I'm over it hence why I just can not associate with ppl anymore.

    • @peacewilliam-west2249
      @peacewilliam-west2249 Před 2 lety +32

      Bro I couldn't stop laughing. "Who filled for divorce?". Woman just say "I did."

    • @twayne4608
      @twayne4608 Před 2 lety +17

      Bro that was just insane to me.

  • @juliorodriguez2694
    @juliorodriguez2694 Před rokem +376

    I'm at Walmart right now and It's wild how many single women over the age of 40 are walking around me. I just passed by a lady, grumpy as all hell bumped past me with her son. She had a shirt on "No Boyfriend, No problem" YOU CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

    • @dutchdna
      @dutchdna Před rokem +27

      No shirt, many boyfriends.

    • @thewatcher4552
      @thewatcher4552 Před rokem +22

      Man I used to work at a factory so many unhappy women, single moms, divorced, or have settled for deadbeats. It's really sad. My mom even bit the bait divorced after 36yrs of marriage now ✌🏽 divorced.

    • @juliorodriguez2694
      @juliorodriguez2694 Před rokem +10

      @@thewatcher4552 I work at Amazon 🤣🤣

    • @MiguelBandito1988
      @MiguelBandito1988 Před rokem +2

      😂

    • @kwazzawazzakushheightseloh9970
      @kwazzawazzakushheightseloh9970 Před rokem +2

      Good day to you I don’t know you but is it true that Kevin Really died

  • @swaggoffosaurmunchakoopas2013

    percentage of black women earning six figures: ~15%
    percentage of callers earning six figures: 100%

    • @koby8251
      @koby8251 Před 3 měsíci

      Lol

    • @seanmetro3496
      @seanmetro3496 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I just saw a Unicorn. A sistah jogging 🏃🏾‍♀️ 👀

  • @AsumanMotivations
    @AsumanMotivations Před 2 lety +3711

    Her: "I'm independent"
    Kevin: "Really?"
    Her: "Because I pay my own bills"
    Kevin: "Congratulations! You're an adult" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    •  Před 2 lety +44

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @mauricemartin2982
      @mauricemartin2982 Před 2 lety +132

      🤣 gets me every time. They are in competition with us. So what your an adult. Smh

    • @mr.tonywilliams1236
      @mr.tonywilliams1236 Před 2 lety +48

      @@mauricemartin2982 the stupidity gives me a headache. She's done

    • @renesharodgers8598
      @renesharodgers8598 Před 2 lety +49

      Lol but I say this all the time..like no praise will be given or doing the basic stuff to survive.

    • @jesuschristislord7754
      @jesuschristislord7754 Před 2 lety +34

      Only western feminism brainwashed waaahmens say delusional nonsense like "strong independent woman".
      There's no such thing.

  • @MindbytesXL
    @MindbytesXL Před 2 lety +2821

    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    GIRL!! wtf 😳 tell the truth🙄

  • @nunyabiznessnerd
    @nunyabiznessnerd Před rokem +210

    Met my wife in June, got engaged in November, married in December. That was 25 years ago and still going strong.

    • @oladokunsamuel5923
      @oladokunsamuel5923 Před 4 měsíci +1

      It truly doesn't take long.... dating is just avenue to access free body

  • @narcanmedic3841
    @narcanmedic3841 Před 2 lety +231

    Dated my wife for 11 days before I proposed. We we're 18. It's built into a man's lizard brain to be attracted to wife material. Been happily married for 15 years and this man is correct

    • @kuja5809
      @kuja5809 Před rokem

      Modern women ability to pair bond is permanently damaged they can't bond due to high body count

    • @NubianQueen100
      @NubianQueen100 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Dont even know who are as an adult, but married??..ok

    • @damian7509
      @damian7509 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Lmao marrying sombody after 11 days is insane

    • @humblybrash7642
      @humblybrash7642 Před 6 měsíci +3

      ​​@@NubianQueen100 says 'Nubian QUEEN"😂 U really can't make this ish up

    • @bethanyangelheart
      @bethanyangelheart Před 6 měsíci

      @@damian7509right like im all for marriage after a couple months but days 😭

  • @pineapplegirl8078
    @pineapplegirl8078 Před 2 lety +839

    My husband asked me out in January. He asked me to marry him in February, we found a house in July, closed on the house and got married in September. 17 years and counting.

    • @davidcosdesign6785
      @davidcosdesign6785 Před 2 lety +29

      Continued success and good luck.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Před 2 lety +24

      Many more years of happiness to you!

    • @Tramplyfe
      @Tramplyfe Před 2 lety +21

      May Allah continue to bless your union

    • @quashiesuzanne
      @quashiesuzanne Před 2 lety +6

      Congrats, does that mean law of averages if women do that 100% of the time it's 100% rate of longevity in marriage ?

    • @selahcmusic
      @selahcmusic Před 2 lety +1

      @@dcg590lolppol

  • @SeattlPig
    @SeattlPig Před 2 lety +879

    Kevin is totally spot on, I met my wife, we dated 3 months I purposed we moved in had very small private wedding ( because I was financially very bad spot, yet she still trusted me and supported me for years and still are). Year later we had another big wedding with everyone invited, now i make $160k+ a year and we are happily married for 15 years and counting

    • @shawnaatchley8166
      @shawnaatchley8166 Před 2 lety +21

      Awesome

    • @masskhamisi4
      @masskhamisi4 Před 2 lety +16

      I have similar story ...I agree

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 Před 2 lety +12

      Glad you busted this one story. It can happen in all kinds of ways when you just pic healthy people who are willing to work hard on it all.

    • @vernaharris4700
      @vernaharris4700 Před 2 lety +12

      Congratulations! on 15 years of marriage.😊🎉🎉🎉🎈🎈🎈

    • @lovemycreator1356
      @lovemycreator1356 Před 2 lety +20

      I am so happy for you are your family! I met my husband and was married in 6 months he worked 2 w2 jobs and later he moved into his career he takes care of us and we have been married for 21 years.

  • @EarthboundinAdrock
    @EarthboundinAdrock Před 2 lety +107

    Met my wife when I was 23 and she was 18. I proposed after 8 months of dating. Now I'm 30, happily married with 2 children. Both average people Working average jobs, combined income 80k happy and middle class. Peoples standards are too unrealistic

    • @kernelkestrel4400
      @kernelkestrel4400 Před rokem +15

      Right. Don’t let these fake ass people and society try to tell you that you need more. You got all you need my friend! Congrats to you, live long!

    • @MrBl3ki
      @MrBl3ki Před rokem +11

      80k wisely used in company is better than double wasted in loneliness.

    • @robertneblett6559
      @robertneblett6559 Před rokem +6

      80k is plenty to be secured in a middle class lifestyle. Although my wife of 32 years has rarely worked outside the home throughout our marriage I didn't hit 80k until about 12 years ago. But we raised 3 kids on my salary, which, when the kids lived at home was between 35 and 70k. Now I'm over a 100k and we're the rich grandparents that can afford to spoil our grandkids.

    • @oliviazuniga4677
      @oliviazuniga4677 Před rokem +2

      Absolutely. $$ is only important to LIVE.
      Too much focus on money not enough value put into family and values.

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 Před rokem

      Have you seen the movie Indecent Proposal?
      Or you two could book a chocolate pudding party in Dubai...

  • @leyenda6149
    @leyenda6149 Před rokem +172

    I was in an LTR for years. One thing I knew for sure was that I would never marry her, especially because I knew it would absoluyely end in divorce. Then had lots of fun as a single guy for years. I met someone and knew almost instantly she had all the qualities I wanted in a wife. We wed exactly 10 months to the day after 1st meeting. 1st child arrived about 2 years later. We are coming up on our 17th wedding anniversary. She's still just as amazing if not more so.

    • @kaheaisaac1
      @kaheaisaac1 Před rokem +15

      Y did you waste the first girl time?

    • @annastarr2043
      @annastarr2043 Před rokem +12

      May I ask why you stayed with her for so long?

    • @3rdeyegirl449
      @3rdeyegirl449 Před rokem +7

      So you kept her as a place holder 🙄😒

    • @antoniowithrow
      @antoniowithrow Před rokem +14

      Right off the bat it starts with why he did this and that. Why did she allow it? Why did she stay? We all know people will only treat you how you allow them to. It’s always Brandon’s fault

    • @3rdeyegirl449
      @3rdeyegirl449 Před rokem +6

      @@antoniowithrow she probably benefited from him but clearly he was the one that expressed that it was never going to go anywhere passed that point. She probably never wanted to get married but keeping some one as a placeholder says a lot about his character then it does her. He holds on to stuff that displease him and waits instant of cutting it off. Why???? Maybe he didn’t want to be alone

  • @PJacksonPorter
    @PJacksonPorter Před 2 lety +841

    The most difficult question of the day for no reason: “Who filed for divorce?” 🤣🤣

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 Před 2 lety +14

      Lols 😂

    • @deebrown1113
      @deebrown1113 Před 2 lety +48

      No accountability at all. Yes or no …. That simple 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 Před 2 lety +32

      @@deebrown1113 Accountability is modern womyn's krytonite.

    • @ZackSuru
      @ZackSuru Před 2 lety +35

      They love to deflect. Direct questions are a nightmare to them.
      Imagine having to answer without gaslighting. .. How dares he?

    • @simbafinalhour6184
      @simbafinalhour6184 Před 2 lety +15

      Lmao Who filed divorce who filed Who file the divorce who file the divorce who the filed

  • @rachelwilliams4193
    @rachelwilliams4193 Před 2 lety +1700

    Kevin is speaking facts. My husband and I met in September, dated the next month and married 3 months later. We dated with a purpose. We've been happily married for almost 4 years and counting.... *Update, 5.5 yrs and a baby. ❤

    • @cire155
      @cire155 Před 2 lety +36

      Honestly, what is the difference between dating being committed and being married for you?

    • @goonn337
      @goonn337 Před 2 lety +9

      congrads

    • @terikareviews2657
      @terikareviews2657 Před 2 lety +16

      Congratulations. I pray for this.

    • @faebaby89
      @faebaby89 Před 2 lety +13

      This is what I want lol but my father raised me to be a boy and on survival ughhhh so hard to unlearn the bs I was taught

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 Před 2 lety +36

      @@cire155 nothing except that now she has her nails in her husband's pot without earning it

  • @charms85
    @charms85 Před rokem +223

    How come people hated this man?? Brother thank you for being such a eye opener. People are so hard to learn. Stressing over assets earned but giving up her one body, spirit, emotions and life. Thank you Kevin.

    • @MadScientistSid
      @MadScientistSid Před rokem +29

      They hated jesus because he told the truth

    • @mzv2754
      @mzv2754 Před rokem +10

      I was guilty of pre judging based on a short. Until I actually started listening to his full videos He's a genius and cared more than we realized

    • @greyman6353
      @greyman6353 Před rokem +1

      F-ist hate him because he refused to be cowed into echoing the insanity that they perpetrate, unlike popular media. Men understand because what Samuels said aligns with our experiences and the lives of their brothers, fathers and uncles.
      They cant handle the truth and hence try to silence him instead

    • @SammySosa4N
      @SammySosa4N Před rokem

      idiots with no accountability hated him***

    • @jordyalmonte42
      @jordyalmonte42 Před rokem +18

      Cuz people especially women choose to live in the land of make believe rather than accept the truth

  • @rosanmokhtar3736
    @rosanmokhtar3736 Před 2 lety +309

    Im asian, born n bred in South East Asia, this channel and Kevin makes me ponder, reflect on myself and appreciate my husband more. Im a higher earner in the family, degrees n all but guess what, I didn’t have to fix anything or to take care of anything because my husband did it all. I need my husband. He’s the man in our house. I let him be and know that.

    • @luvone2
      @luvone2 Před 2 lety +18

      That’s inspiring!!! In our community a relationship/marriage as such would be frowned upon…. Men don’t always have to be the breadwinner.

    • @sovl2178
      @sovl2178 Před 2 lety +4

      Your husband is white, isn't he...

    • @mediamillztv739
      @mediamillztv739 Před 2 lety +4

      Salute sister!!! Love that man we need it!!!

    • @lnb252
      @lnb252 Před rokem +3

      @@luvone2 if men are in their masculine they have to be the bread winner in the relationship

    • @thetraveler1182
      @thetraveler1182 Před rokem +6

      @@luvone2 a Man, WILL be the Man of the Relationship. Otherwise the BW will always tend to try to wrestle the crown from him

  • @datzlukeh2627
    @datzlukeh2627 Před 2 lety +559

    “He might not Blow ya back out, but he can keep a roof over your head “ 😂😂😂😂 KS be keepin it real!!

  • @RinneIsan
    @RinneIsan Před 2 lety +479

    The answer is no. You can’t even know what to look for in a husband if you aren’t even trained to be brought up as a wife.

    • @amodog99
      @amodog99 Před 2 lety +52

      Exactly! They are more worried what their female friends and female relatives will think than what a man wants.

    • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
      @mikhailabdurrachman2443 Před 2 lety +29

      Bottom line is that if a woman is not thirsty for you then don't even waste your time talking to her 🔥

    • @sc3167
      @sc3167 Před 2 lety +11

      As a 44 yrs old black woman I totally agree with you Kota Kimura! But thank God I am blessed with a wonderful black man and learned how to become a great wife over our 17 yrs of marriage. His mom and dad were a great example for me. I came from a single parent household, the only child and was raised to be "independent". My mom absolutely loves my husband and said that she couldn't have picked him better if she had picked him for me.

    • @amodog99
      @amodog99 Před 2 lety +25

      @@sc3167 ❤️. keep jealousy ass women out of your relationship as well as close all social media account and enjoy your life together.

    • @LadyNaomi441
      @LadyNaomi441 Před 2 lety +5

      Facts

  • @gentsuthern8827
    @gentsuthern8827 Před rokem +29

    Kevin, I think I speak for all men when I say, “We miss you!” Rest easy, Godfather!

  • @CrispNoodles
    @CrispNoodles Před 2 lety +191

    My husband proposed to me 2 months after we met. Engaged for 1 year. Been married over 7 years now. Kevin is speaking facts!!!!! Get with it ladies.
    Stop ignoring 🚩.

  • @josealexi5141
    @josealexi5141 Před 2 lety +540

    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    she can't answer the damn question because she knows it makes her look bad.

    • @brothaantone8286
      @brothaantone8286 Před 2 lety +21

      Exactly!

    • @aaaaaa2206
      @aaaaaa2206 Před 2 lety +36

      She CAN answer the question, and she knows it.
      She doesn't CHOOSE to answer the question because it makes her look bad.

    • @rastaa3x787
      @rastaa3x787 Před 2 lety +20

      That part was funny asf 😂😭

    • @michaelthomas8230
      @michaelthomas8230 Před 2 lety +11

      It looks bad on her either way.

    • @bornstar7916
      @bornstar7916 Před 2 lety +15

      I couldn't stop laughing bruh that shit was funny

  • @Elcapitaan5
    @Elcapitaan5 Před 2 lety +847

    BW" "It's actually a funny story"
    KS: "No it's not"

  • @greatideasfromlili1843
    @greatideasfromlili1843 Před rokem +87

    As an arab, my coworkers asked me how did i married my husband, i told them we talked for 3 days and we liked one another there was attraction and we had lot of things in common and he asked me if i would agree to marry him on the 3rd day, i said yes but he had to talk to my parents, they liked him and he came from America to morocco to marry me , he came 3 times before our marriage and my coworkers said “ i wouldn’t marry someone if i didn’t sleep with him” but i said how manny of you were living with your boyfriend for years and then u guys broke up , single moms by yourself struggling!! Who benefited from those years?! Of course the men because i don’t have time to waste, if the men is doing everything to marry me he ll go every thing to get me and he ll do good by me because i respect him and im submissive and willing to let him lead and learn together and not bash him if he make the wrong mistake but let him learn he know i ll be there by his side, and i know he is doing his best
    Islam is a beautiful Religion, we have some strong rules when it comes to marriage, you don’t have to be muslim just benefit from it

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 Před rokem +11

      alhamdulillah for islam

    • @User77587
      @User77587 Před rokem +8

      Alhamdullilah. May Allah swt put continued barakah in your marriage.

    • @greatideasfromlili1843
      @greatideasfromlili1843 Před rokem +3

      @@User77587 allahuma ameeen 🌺jazakum Llahu khayran

    • @harminderkambow9642
      @harminderkambow9642 Před rokem +1

      This isn't an Islam thing only though. This (arranged marriages) happens in south asian countries of all religions...

    • @plusdecorinteriorsdesign5755
      @plusdecorinteriorsdesign5755 Před rokem +3

      Alhamdullilah
      Would you mind if he wanted to get a second wife?

  • @Latoija
    @Latoija Před rokem +7

    I love how he repeats his questions until he gets an answer!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CdnElJefe
    @CdnElJefe Před 2 lety +509

    Started dating my wife at 22. Got married at 23. Two kids later we’ll be celebrating 10 years this winter. Know what you want, don’t settle, and don’t waste time.

  • @georgeblair3894
    @georgeblair3894 Před 2 lety +486

    Modern women want the "privilege " of a man, with the accountability and responsibility of a child.

    • @williamparker7584
      @williamparker7584 Před 2 lety +18

      I have never heard anyone put it better than this.

    • @sickofguysnamedtodd2293
      @sickofguysnamedtodd2293 Před 2 lety +25

      More like the power and authority of men, the privilege and advantages of women and the last part you nailed.

    • @suziebee4240
      @suziebee4240 Před 2 lety

      What accountability and responsibility do men have that women don't?

    • @georgeblair3894
      @georgeblair3894 Před 2 lety +7

      @@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 Much better than what I had. Thanks.

    • @darthkek1953
      @darthkek1953 Před 2 lety +28

      The wealth of a man
      The accountability of a child.
      The body of a hippopotamus.

  • @canecasavettes85
    @canecasavettes85 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Asked to marry after 3 months! Married 7 months later! Married for 29 years in a few months!

  • @willp3561
    @willp3561 Před rokem +25

    She just refused to be honest, sadly this is too common in our community.

  • @poohrl
    @poohrl Před 2 lety +376

    “Women these days want traditional men, while being a modern woman”

    • @MeidoInHebun
      @MeidoInHebun Před 2 lety +5

      Exactly, modern men are not appealing to most women, in the same way modern women are not appealing to most men, nothing wrong with being either, but be realistic about you demand vs. what you offer.

    • @ronaldboykin9755
      @ronaldboykin9755 Před rokem

      Modern women are women who are independent women, independent women are women who are under the illusion that they don’t NEED a man! These women are the MOST single women on the planet! NO HUSBANDS!!

    • @funkbros3141
      @funkbros3141 Před rokem +1

      @@MeidoInHebun men havent changed...

    • @MeidoInHebun
      @MeidoInHebun Před rokem +4

      @@funkbros3141 Testosterone levels in men have been steadily decreasing throughout the years, we live in a society of simps.

    • @funkbros3141
      @funkbros3141 Před rokem +1

      @@MeidoInHebun but we achieve the same function and pay all bills.....mens role never changed womens did...

  • @skepticalj5445
    @skepticalj5445 Před 2 lety +1406

    I'm a 51 year old man married for 30 years and I have a 22 year old daughter.
    I'm going to recommend her to watch your CZcams channel.
    You are much better at explaining what is going on these days between men and women then I can.
    Thank you.🙏🏻 With love from the crazy Dutchman

    • @mmills1782
      @mmills1782 Před 2 lety +72

      I have some nieces that need to watch Kevin. I know they won't like it but they need to hear it.

    • @mmills1782
      @mmills1782 Před 2 lety +20

      @The Esquire of Sports® That's a good idea. Thank you

    • @DaleJr43
      @DaleJr43 Před 2 lety +28

      I have daughter, and I watch for educational purposes to better inform them on how the dating world works and how to explain it to them. Take this info and "You" share it, because most likely than not they will receive it better coming from you not Kevin.

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 Před 2 lety +4

      THX POPS BECAUSE HOPEFULLY SHE'LL LISTEN BECAUSE THIS IS THE TRUTH

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Před 2 lety +17

      I wouldn’t recommend my daughters or nieces to watch this channel, especially if ur a dad! The way he talks to some of these women is crazy

  • @barneybowler4695
    @barneybowler4695 Před 2 lety +28

    I've always dated with intention. I told women early after having sex that I would support them to have the baby regardless of our situation, I told them I was not interested in living together unless we were married, and that if we weren't engaged in three years I would end it. You'd be amazed how they always made sure we used condoms, tried to get us to live together and and got anxious around year two when I reminded them of the 3 year goal. Most women just want to play house and aren't interested in responsibility until they get desperate; it's just sad.

  • @Saphfire0975
    @Saphfire0975 Před rokem +36

    So true. People got so caught up on his delivery while ignoring the message. At the end of the day he was about fit partners and healthy relationships. But females are all up in arms because that male presence is missing in the modern family. That uncle, big cousin, grandpa with that straight forward advice.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn Před rokem

      Should l blast myself in the face with a sh0tgun since I’m 27 and men only value your looks and fertility?

  • @willemdafuq
    @willemdafuq Před 2 lety +411

    If women are so happy with their jobs and money and are so independent then there’s no need to get married or even expect a man to be monogamous.

  • @LagunaLeonhart
    @LagunaLeonhart Před 2 lety +338

    "you want traditional men but you want to be modern women"
    Wow truth

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 Před 2 lety +3

      PPPRRREEEAAACCCHHH IT DOESN'T WORK

    • @jaydub2003
      @jaydub2003 Před 2 lety +18

      They want the benefits, but none of the responsibilities that comes with it.

    • @Cassiejaylove
      @Cassiejaylove Před 2 lety

      Hectic

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 Před 2 lety

      @ノロイ some people can be happy without a husband/ wife. It just depends, tradition doesn’t matter at ALL.

  • @heatherzloty7143
    @heatherzloty7143 Před rokem +6

    The Bible says “ a wise woman builds her home but the foolish woman tears it down with HER OWN hands”!

  • @lwilliams7448
    @lwilliams7448 Před 2 lety +7

    "I'm a Ph.D" Lol. That soundbite gets me every time.

  • @romeoo5272
    @romeoo5272 Před 2 lety +1004

    This man gave me an entirely new perspective on the dating world. I dont miss a single show.

    • @uptowngeorgiaave900
      @uptowngeorgiaave900 Před 2 lety +11

      ✊🏿💪🏿👊🏿

    • @shadyeighty1
      @shadyeighty1 Před 2 lety +33

      Right, he's got experience and his views are deeply grounded in reality and I realized it quick: you better get in touch with reality and play your cards accordingly because no man or woman gets to win against it!

    • @mr.blademonktravels1880
      @mr.blademonktravels1880 Před 2 lety +24

      The truth sets people free, doesn't matter how harsh or rough it comes at you. It's still truth.

    • @gw6496
      @gw6496 Před 2 lety +1

      Ditto!!🤝🏾

    • @sirbreeze3369
      @sirbreeze3369 Před 2 lety +1

      💯💯

  • @MrCanelover
    @MrCanelover Před 2 lety +1289

    Somebody get this man a blockbuster biopic started. Please and thank you. This is legendary and one of the most revolutionary acts of service for the black family since the Civil Rights era...

    • @everythingisupsidedown9593
      @everythingisupsidedown9593 Před 2 lety +15

      Also recommend Jesse Lee Peterson

    • @andrew2393
      @andrew2393 Před 2 lety +68

      He's not only doing good for the black family but also for all races too. Women really don't understand that men are the reason why they are allowed to live comfortable and do what they do. I'm glad men are finally saying enough is enough.

    • @Strength_In_Wisdom
      @Strength_In_Wisdom Před 2 lety +24

      A stern hand. Some would say God spoke through Moses the same way.

    • @bantublood
      @bantublood Před 2 lety +11

      Hands down the truth.

    • @DavidAnthonyBrayboy60
      @DavidAnthonyBrayboy60 Před 2 lety +7

      Absolutely 💯

  • @Boc3phu5
    @Boc3phu5 Před rokem +8

    Many people plan for the wedding, but not many plan for the marriage.

  • @KienDLuu
    @KienDLuu Před rokem +11

    I can’t believe I only just found this man after his passing. This man has transcended death. His wisdom will live on.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn Před rokem

      Should I blast myself in the face with a sh0tgun since I’m 27 and men only value your looks and fertility?

  • @usmcdevildog6935
    @usmcdevildog6935 Před 2 lety +418

    The longer a man dates a women the less likely he is to marry her.

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage Před 2 lety +36

      why marry, what dose it change, divorce rates are over 50% and 85% on those are engaged by the women, its pointless, marriage, dose nothing.

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage Před 2 lety +3

      @ノロイ you're missing my point.

    • @d.l831
      @d.l831 Před 2 lety +20

      @@TallGarage isn’t it more like: why would a man marry a woman who is willing to just play house?

    • @lemontmorrison4262
      @lemontmorrison4262 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree with that

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage Před 2 lety +15

      @@d.l831 Pay house as too being married and playing house? its the same thing with a piece of paper that say now when you split up your going to be spending thousands on a lawyer and she gets half of everything and maybe spousal support, why do that? men receive nothing from marriage, rings dont plug holes youll still get cheated on youll still fight. it means nothing.

  • @mylesmarks5687
    @mylesmarks5687 Před 2 lety +168

    “Who file for divorce”
    “It was mutual”
    It took him 7 times to get the truth outta her that’s crazy 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Trilljay718
      @Trilljay718 Před 2 lety +28

      This shows you fellas that woman will lie straight up in your face. Don’t take any of them serious. Play Chess always stay one step ahead of them no matter who they are to you.

    • @carmcharm6496
      @carmcharm6496 Před 2 lety +2

      Well if it was mutual she should have explained dissolution of marriages exist. She probably was lying though because I have been asked that and I simply explained someone has to serve the other person and the attorney simply fills in the blanks for both parties.

    • @judithnickelberry2536
      @judithnickelberry2536 Před 2 lety

      @CZcams IsNazi no lies told here. Every word was true

    • @24KLuxury
      @24KLuxury Před 2 lety +4

      realize we’re having to badger women we know like this just to get a simple straight answer

    • @thePraddagee
      @thePraddagee Před 2 lety +1

      @@24KLuxury lol they have to have some semblance of respect for you in order for you to even get a word in first. With Kevin they seek his approval first and his public platform gives him the opportunity to demand order. Most men don’t have that platform and are “average” men. I’ve been talking to my family like this for years lol 😂. I’ve just been labeled the black sheep and called “terse”. Literally had to just leave them be, they are too far gone. A woman’s body count is her mileage and experience tells me unnecessary drama and stress of a woman is a man’s mileage. It’ll leave you old and balding faster than you normally should be 😅. Even the Bible says
      Proverbs 25:24
      It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

  • @lut2843
    @lut2843 Před rokem +17

    Kevin is so right. I knew I wanted to marry my wife within a month of dating and talking to her. We are 10 years and happily married.

  • @honeylove7678
    @honeylove7678 Před 2 lety +79

    Watching this show gives me a sense that KS is still here but reality steps in......we lost a man who was trying to bring wisdom giving women a platform to succeed in their relationships.

  • @angelique707
    @angelique707 Před 2 lety +823

    I resent the “broke construction worker” comment. My dad was a carpenter and did very well for his family. Respect blue collar workers. They are in demand and often make more than college grads.

    • @giantboop5189
      @giantboop5189 Před 2 lety +78

      I think he was referring to just that individual, and not construction workers as a whole

    • @jemalguillory
      @jemalguillory Před 2 lety +59

      Kevin is litigating. He’s using her own words as statement of facts to debate her argument. You have to make a debate logical to debate it being sound or not. Colloquial syllogism.

    • @benten1453
      @benten1453 Před 2 lety +55

      Women call men who make significantly less than them broke....nothing new

    • @zuhalterei4090
      @zuhalterei4090 Před 2 lety +37

      The Godfather was talking about her ex who she said was broke. Listen to his other content. He calls out blue collar brothers and says women missing out. Don’t get upset

    • @MassiveReset
      @MassiveReset Před 2 lety +34

      No diss to blue collar types from KS. He has routinely taken women to task who overlook tradesmen with very good incomes and zero school debt. Says they are often a better fit for women than white collar types who he credits as building the world 🌎
      I'm certain he meant no disrespect 💯

  • @DaliaMiller
    @DaliaMiller Před 2 lety +353

    I'll be completely honest, the only reason I "chose right" was because I listened to my father in my teenage years about boys. Ended up marrying the first guy I dated in college because literally all my family members loved him, including my dad.

    • @BChan1991
      @BChan1991 Před 2 lety +12

      Are you satisfied with the results so far?

    • @DaliaMiller
      @DaliaMiller Před 2 lety +72

      @@BChan1991 Absolutely! I love that man 🥰

    • @donmiko7439
      @donmiko7439 Před 2 lety +22

      @@DaliaMiller you were blessed in God's way and lucky in the world's way

    • @jayskezee598
      @jayskezee598 Před 2 lety +37

      you were not lucky... you are obviously a feminine and good woman, and attracted a good man. That's how its supposed to work. ..Congratulations!

    • @murielodette2995
      @murielodette2995 Před 2 lety +1

      hope you love him too,or grew to love him!!!

  • @michaelnorman9962
    @michaelnorman9962 Před rokem +15

    My wife and I have been together for 36 years, married for 34. We dated and got married within 18 months and I treasure her each and every day, especially after watching these videos and other videos of the MGTOW type. My son and daughter will have it tougher and they are 24 and 22.

  • @ralukral9651
    @ralukral9651 Před 2 lety +17

    I married my husband after 4 months since the moment we've met (I mean the actual wedding). I was 28, he was 35. We went on a date, and at the end of it, while we were in the car, he said "Look, I came to see you, but I also wanted to talk to you. I've been thinking and...we both know that we're not teenagers anymore and don't want to waste time on drinking juice. I believe that each of us had their experiences and each of us is old enough to know what to look for. So, if that's ok to you...I think we should give eachother, 6 months and after that time, to take a decision in one way or another. What do you say? "
    We decided to get married the next week after that talk. We had only 5 or 6 dates.
    Next month, we will be celebrating 7 years of marriage. We have a little boy and we are happier than ever.
    It's going great for us.

    • @pianosonata5029
      @pianosonata5029 Před 2 lety

      Wow.
      May I ask, where are you guys from?

    • @ralukral9651
      @ralukral9651 Před 2 lety

      @@pianosonata5029 Romania. And we met on Tinder

  • @MrJoseph1856
    @MrJoseph1856 Před 2 lety +531

    KS: Independent meaning what
    Caller: I pay my own bills
    KS: Congratulations you're an adult
    😭😭😭

  • @MissAlomo
    @MissAlomo Před 2 lety +745

    People have been laughing at foreign cultures for dowry traditions, arranged marriages, and extensive marriage rites till the cultural marriages trended on social media and became glamorized, however the process was/is in place for a REASON. Because our people knew we (young adults/ kids) didn’t know what we were doing and the elders had a place and an obligation to make sure we marry right! In this 21st century, where there is pre-marital counseling, books, couple therapy, etc it seems the more educated we became in academia, the DUMBER we became in building the foundation for family & relationships. The sad part is she’s speaking so firmly as if she’s right, yet so wrong!

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 Před 2 lety +51

      Parents have a vested interest in their children, their overall family legacy, and their community. There's a reason many of these cultural traditions are... traditions. 'Feelz' are unreliable and are destroying everything important. F your feelz. Duty and responsibility are far more important.

    • @Nyalaize
      @Nyalaize Před 2 lety +7

      Speak

    • @joesmith3098
      @joesmith3098 Před 2 lety +26

      It's not an accident. These things and values are taught not only by parents but in schools. " As we became more educated" that's correct. Why do you think the left is pushing for free college, same with feminism. Along with every other policy that has been ruining not only the black community but this country!
      If someone was a white supremacists who hates America and freedom, but can not defeat the country in an out right war they would do exactly what has been done! Democrats and the left with their policies have not failed the black community, the policies have worked perfectly!

    • @MissAlomo
      @MissAlomo Před 2 lety +1

      @@joesmith3098 Joe 🤫 don’t drag it.

    • @joesmith3098
      @joesmith3098 Před 2 lety +2

      @@MissAlomo I don't know what your saying

  • @MJ-py7dm
    @MJ-py7dm Před rokem +24

    I'm a young woman with a great job and a degree and I've never found it in me to date recklessly, it just felt like a waste of time and after watching all these videos and more determined to get married and build a life with my future husband. We've been fed a false lie with feminism and I now understand what that leads to. I want to commit and be a good wife but I'm so scared to be that woman and have my husband cheat or leave me then all that hard work would've been given to a man who couldn't commit to me but I'll give it a try and take a chance than be chasing a mirage until am 40.

    • @engr.c.j9588
      @engr.c.j9588 Před rokem +4

      Hi MJ, I kinda like the sincerity and understanding you literally put out there, if you don't mind I'll like to get to know you better...

    • @Templar451
      @Templar451 Před rokem +4

      If you don't risk, then there's never a reward.

    • @salinayaqoob4936
      @salinayaqoob4936 Před rokem +3

      You're way of thinking makes me so happy. I pray for you to find a good man.

    • @MJ-py7dm
      @MJ-py7dm Před rokem +1

      @@engr.c.j9588 Hello, a little late to the party but thank you for your message. I'd be open to that, I live in France, where are you?

    • @gamingforever9121
      @gamingforever9121 Před 10 měsíci

      Understand that if your husband cheats their is absolutely nothing you as a human being can do to stop that. However that doesn’t mean you should tolerate it, what I mean is don’t worry about things you can control focus on what you can in a relationship. Communication is key .

  • @andrefasomann859
    @andrefasomann859 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm a white man. 40 years old with two mixed boys. wife filed for divorce. i just discovered your videos recently. they are my daily talk show while doing household. i wished you were still alive ❤

  • @NileValleysFinest
    @NileValleysFinest Před 2 lety +368

    Women: "I've been proposed to multiple times!"
    Newsflash: Men hittin' you up in your DM's/leaving a comment asking you to marry them is NOT a proposal!

    • @sonsofjacob12
      @sonsofjacob12 Před 2 lety +21

      🤣🎯🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @SeeItLikeItSub2It
      @SeeItLikeItSub2It Před 2 lety +53

      Akmed said he would marry her, all he needs is her SSN and bank account #. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bigstacks1463
      @bigstacks1463 Před 2 lety +10

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thejourneyofraymond5752
      @thejourneyofraymond5752 Před 2 lety +21

      She loves the man she's with currently, yet she said he doesn't respect her!!! Still want to marry him, because of the tingles! LOL, these women are bat shit crazy

    • @kujokannibal7081
      @kujokannibal7081 Před 2 lety +11

      @@thejourneyofraymond5752 you can’t make this shit up lol

  • @uticiaburroughs5233
    @uticiaburroughs5233 Před 2 lety +352

    My father always said Man picks wife. Women makes them selves available and ready to become wife. My dad chose my mom, her parents approved. August 6th was there 55th anniversary.

  • @domoarigaijin
    @domoarigaijin Před 2 lety +16

    I originally never planned to get married, and if I ever did I thought I’d date for years beforehand. That honestly changed when I met my husband. Kevin is right on this topic; once you know, you make it happen.

  • @aranmcclary5836
    @aranmcclary5836 Před 2 měsíci +2

    My wife and I met in February and got engaged in March and married August. We will celebrate 40 years of marriage this year.

  • @thechosenone7875
    @thechosenone7875 Před 2 lety +618

    She’s 39 been with someone for 4 years . He’s either cheating or is just keeping her around until he finds better. Spending 4 years with someone who only somewhat respects her... unbelievable

    • @maelmontero
      @maelmontero Před 2 lety +11

      Facts

    • @kelleyellison2519
      @kelleyellison2519 Před 2 lety +8

      Truth

    • @Tonay1999
      @Tonay1999 Před 2 lety +28

      He also does not want to marry her. He is probably waiting for her to let him go. It's hard to be the first to break off a relationship sometimes.

    • @tystomrte4442
      @tystomrte4442 Před 2 lety +4

      I'm going to be real with y'all if a dude is doing all that making her a a freak and hitting those spots is, hard to let a chick like that go I mean come on some dudes know that yeah he going to play the field yeah he would even lie to her yeah he even going have sex with her best friend or whatever you still love her right wow

    • @thechosenone7875
      @thechosenone7875 Před 2 lety

      @@tystomrte4442 that’s the truth right there fam. 💯

  • @Gstealth717
    @Gstealth717 Před 2 lety +564

    When accountability is discussed it feels like an attack because of the truth!

    • @dorianvedrashko9172
      @dorianvedrashko9172 Před 2 lety +1

      nonwhites tell whites that everything feels like oppression when supremacy is being corrected. That is true. This is the equivalent of that to feminist scum. I've learned to see how good I have it compared to black guys. I learned a lot just by shutting up and actually listening and reading for a long time. I'm embarrassed it took such a long time, but I used my ears to learn. women seem incapable.

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia Před 2 lety +10

      Truth of accountability feels like an attack because it hurts.

    • @reenamola2162
      @reenamola2162 Před 2 lety +3

      it does to women only.

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 Před 2 lety +2

      No. it feels like an attack bc he tells only one side of the story while placing the blame on the other. He is doing exactly what he whines about regarding women. You all need to stop

    • @ruffneckdaniel8842
      @ruffneckdaniel8842 Před 2 lety +2

      still watching and keeping his content alive

  • @ThatDudeCobz
    @ThatDudeCobz Před rokem +5

    I miss him. Nobody else would just fire it out with confidence like he did.

  • @ConceptHut
    @ConceptHut Před 2 lety +4

    Tingling and alone is a great catchphrase

  • @voyager6472
    @voyager6472 Před 2 lety +238

    My story, I met my Spanish wife in the UK. We dated a month, I asked her to live with me, she said that means a future together for me, I said I am happy with your terms and flew to Spain and spoke to her Dad, we were engaged and married within a year, and have been happily together for more than 23 years now.

  • @hajj623
    @hajj623 Před 2 lety +270

    She had a complete meltdown when he asked her who filed for divorce. Phone started shaking and all that 😂😂

    • @user-tk7rl6hw6c
      @user-tk7rl6hw6c Před 2 lety +12

      I swear 😂😭

    • @thuroB30
      @thuroB30 Před 2 lety +15

      She took a while to answer that one! 🤣😂

    • @allenlevelle
      @allenlevelle Před 2 lety +17

      Did you notice that too??? I got dizzy when he asked her the question....You can't make this stuff up!!!!

    • @persona-non-grata
      @persona-non-grata Před 2 lety +18

      "iT wAs MuTuAL"

    • @hajj623
      @hajj623 Před 2 lety +8

      @@persona-non-grata 😂😂 Nah he was pressing her and staying on task. A meltdown is what she had.

  • @lauriesmith4860
    @lauriesmith4860 Před rokem +14

    I hate he’s gone he is giving and speaking Life to me and it’s a harsh reality and it needs to be said and the truth is the truth and I have been dating dumb and never been married and tired of dating dumb!! I sit in my truth I picked the wrong men!! Thank You Kevin and Rest in Power

  • @maried.decarter3409
    @maried.decarter3409 Před 2 lety +11

    Kevin Samuel passed away and there’re some miserable women at here laughing!! The man was speaking the truth and maybe approached a little rough but from a woman perspective he’s right.. I see more baby mama’s then wives.. we’re wasting our time dealing with a man for 5 years just for him to leave you and date another a woman within a year and married her. Biblical truth is that we should be married before having sex.

  • @Cramernutz22
    @Cramernutz22 Před 2 lety +384

    She's the embodiment of "Admit nothing, deny everything"

    • @vernaharris4700
      @vernaharris4700 Před 2 lety +10

      Sad isn't it? She really need to do less talking and more listening?

    • @raymondaranda8716
      @raymondaranda8716 Před rokem +4

      Even if you on camera .... Deny deny deny

  • @Introverted_Extrovert99
    @Introverted_Extrovert99 Před 2 lety +453

    This vvoman said, “you gotta have a tingle” then giggled after it. That is the reason she is in the position she’s in now.

    • @hardplans2366
      @hardplans2366 Před 2 lety +45

      She was but thurt when she tried the "mis o g yn" smear with kevin
      He steamrolled her and she blinking away tears

    • @balerikirmu.11
      @balerikirmu.11 Před 2 lety +43

      tingles from dudes who aren't economically at their level..

    • @Introverted_Extrovert99
      @Introverted_Extrovert99 Před 2 lety +14

      @@balerikirmu.11 Tingles from the dudes package or bank account, still can put them in the same position. That’s why many cultures have arranged marriages. (I’m sure you know that)

    • @Jaslath
      @Jaslath Před 2 lety +41

      @@balerikirmu.11
      *tingles from dudes who aren't economically at their level..*
      It's not even about resources. Women will have sex with dudes that gives them the tingles in the same night. Way too many women don't realize that those tingles are simply lust.

    • @seraphim3599
      @seraphim3599 Před 2 lety +19

      Aka the most hood dude they can find

  • @tartfresh5565
    @tartfresh5565 Před rokem +7

    I can't believe how much KS point makes sense lol I'm literally scratching my head how I'm now convinced after 3 to 6 months you know if you have a play thing you don't want to let go or a martial partner

  • @daddyhavoc3931
    @daddyhavoc3931 Před rokem +10

    My wife was only my second actual “girlfriend”. I had been with a lot of women but with my wife I knew the first day we met that she was my type and it could go further but i was checking for red flags. I knew within a week that I could possibly marry her and within a month I knew for sure I was going to marry that woman. That was 17 years ago, a man knows if he wants to marry or not right off

  • @scottgrey6961
    @scottgrey6961 Před 2 lety +391

    "It's perpetual high school" TOO MUCH TRUTH.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 Před 2 lety +10

      It is - & whoever got the best picture on Facebook of their vacation or new designer purse on Instagram... it is sad. Pathetic, actually.

    • @FatherFH
      @FatherFH Před 2 lety +3

      There is a song called High school never ends. And it is true

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec Před 2 lety

      @Thomas Mottl Spot on, that's just more bluff.

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 Před 2 lety +1

      For far too god damn long! Why do people INSIST on not leaving?

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec Před 2 lety +2

      @@mikemontgomery2654 moving on takes accoubtability anf humility. Both are not that common on either genders.

  • @japekto2138
    @japekto2138 Před 2 lety +698

    I'm an outsider looking in and I only learned about Mr. Samuels very recently. My wife and I have been married for 27 years (2 kids). Looking back through the years, I have to say, Mr. Samuels is spot on. We need more pros like Mr. Samuels because relationships for certain groups are becoming a lost art.

    • @msi8311
      @msi8311 Před 2 lety +59

      Healthy relationships are certainly in a lost art category for many people.

    • @Proteanlife
      @Proteanlife Před 2 lety +4

      👍🏿

    • @Domini0n1
      @Domini0n1 Před 2 lety +3

      👍🏽

    • @MrsFefe32
      @MrsFefe32 Před 2 lety +32

      @@Domini0n1 27 years!! God bless you and your wife

    • @ronswanson1410
      @ronswanson1410 Před 2 lety +3

      Tell em.

  • @Rome__king
    @Rome__king Před 2 lety +2

    I am so thankful for the short time KS was here with us.

  • @el_tradicional
    @el_tradicional Před 2 lety +495

    "it was a great 4 years, we've traveled" 🤦🏿‍♂️ They value the things that can be showed off

    • @allgasnobrakes5233
      @allgasnobrakes5233 Před 2 lety +68

      Everything is a show for a woman’s peers, every move they make

    • @igorstasenko9183
      @igorstasenko9183 Před 2 lety +44

      well, at least now she can check mark against "i love traveling" in her tinder profile

    • @surgedidit
      @surgedidit Před 2 lety +9

      @@igorstasenko9183 😂😂😂

    • @DeADvElOciRaPtor
      @DeADvElOciRaPtor Před 2 lety +20

      Yes bro this the reason they always dating the type of dudes they date. Funny thing is they creating more dudes that won’t marry them but will fly them somewhere to smash then move in to the next one.

    • @el_tradicional
      @el_tradicional Před 2 lety +5

      @@DeADvElOciRaPtor still no shade on those dudes 🍻

  • @Screech032
    @Screech032 Před 2 lety +303

    ATTENTION WOMEN:
    Remember this is a show with topics...
    1) BEFORE rushing a man into marriage first make sure you're a WIFE
    2) Before ASSUMING you're a wife, make sure you first KNOW what a man wants.
    3) Before claiming you know what a man wants, dig down deep and try to CARE about what a man wants. Knowing isn't enough.
    4) The only way to truly care about what a man wants is to learn to be SUBMISSIVE.
    5) If you are NOT willing to submit, you are not an option... period.
    6) You are NOT in a competition with men, your competition is OTHER women.
    7) Stop calling submissive women "Pick Me" type women and realize they are probably smarter than most women as far as their ROLE with a man is concerned... learn from them.

  • @kayno5029
    @kayno5029 Před rokem +5

    Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? Who filed for divorce? 😂😂😂

  • @charms85
    @charms85 Před rokem +3

    I use to work at the international airport, one day I realized, I never seen a Indian woman alone, especially with children. A lot of us decry their arranged marriages but they are covered.

  • @angsana2800
    @angsana2800 Před 2 lety +267

    KS is so committed to make a change in his community; this lady accusing him of hating women made a desperate attempt to discredit him. She failed spectacularly.

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 Před 2 lety +4

      Amateurs face plant when they engage a professional. 😊

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 Před 2 lety

      Yeah KS is trying change the community for the worst lol.

    • @angsana2800
      @angsana2800 Před 2 lety +2

      @@santacruz8507 The grammatically correct phrase is worse, not worst. Time to go back to school.

    • @TheAlmightyClipse
      @TheAlmightyClipse Před 2 lety

      Too busy grinning while getting checked.... No wonder K.S loses his patience...

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 Před 2 lety

      @@angsana2800 your right Angsana I made a mistake in my spelling. Just like ks made a mistake to humanity by starting a disgusting CZcams channel.

  • @maryjones1659
    @maryjones1659 Před 2 lety +243

    When I met my husband within six months we were already ring shopping and a year after that married. Two years later we had our first child and two years later our second. It truly doesn't take four years ladies.

    • @grantwithers
      @grantwithers Před 2 lety +27

      It only takes 4 years if you're not wife material and not even trying to be

    • @SH-vj2ce
      @SH-vj2ce Před 2 lety +22

      Same sis. Same. Got engaged in 12 months... ring shipped 4 months in. The only reason he didn't propose sooner, my ring was being custom made🥰

    • @jwa7378
      @jwa7378 Před 2 lety +18

      Good for you. I'm worth 500k and I'm 40 why the hell would I want to be married in six months. I'm never getting married but congratulations to you and your spouse.

    • @gbjanuary
      @gbjanuary Před 2 lety

      @ノロイ God has lot to answer for then as more single lonely people than ever before.

    • @tyraceabdulraheem2295
      @tyraceabdulraheem2295 Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you I told a lady 1 yr and am out.

  • @ayabulelazimbinigxasheka3216

    Six months to a year is enough to know if you want to marry someone.

  • @stingfragile5717
    @stingfragile5717 Před rokem +7

    He said he don't have patience for the BS it's hurting our black family. He really was trying to save our family people. Miss him too thanks for the video records it's opening people eyes to our problems.

  • @jacobymontague1766
    @jacobymontague1766 Před 2 lety +40

    That first lady was lying. She not happy by herself.

  • @ashleyashloc23
    @ashleyashloc23 Před 2 lety +166

    My husband proposed to me two weeks after our first date. We were married a month later. Will be married for two years next month. Women have to be serious about wanting too be married and be willing to walk away if someone is not on board sooner.

    • @doombrush
      @doombrush Před 2 lety +3

      Congratulations 👏

    • @tshiamoleipego5549
      @tshiamoleipego5549 Před 2 lety

      I believe in not walking into an unfavorable situation in the first place.

    • @angelinaad209
      @angelinaad209 Před 2 lety +1

      2 weeks werent you scared?😯

    • @ashleyashloc23
      @ashleyashloc23 Před 2 lety +8

      I had come to the point that I no longer wanted to date just because. I had two previous suitors that were serious about marriage but looking back I wasn't. I allowed fear to end things with the notion of it being too soon. I know one went on and got married to the next woman after me within six months. When a man is serious about finding a wife, then he will find one. The woman has to be ready or step aside for the next woman that is. The same applies to women that want to be married and encounter a man that is not on that page. People will have unprotected sex on date two but date for four years after because they fear marriage. We have things backwards.

    • @user-kz2yt5ow7r
      @user-kz2yt5ow7r Před 2 lety +1

      I got underwear older than that.😀

  • @yirmiyahbonyahsharala6514

    Everything one of our men stand up for truth, he falls too early in the battle! Im glad to see others taking the struggle on in his name for our good! Keep pushing Kings!

  • @muldurksk
    @muldurksk Před rokem +10

    This guy was a genius 😢 RIP to his soul

  • @1Austereone
    @1Austereone Před 2 lety +226

    This woman proves emotion overrides logic with them every time

    • @rasskass1977
      @rasskass1977 Před 2 lety +1

      That ish is mind blowing especially because it's always..now the reverse is powerful

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool Před 2 lety

      What a shock

    • @mjbset93
      @mjbset93 Před 2 lety +3

      I am such disbelief that a 39 year old woman is talking this way. So lost so afraid but thinking she is correct. Divorced her husband she should know exactly what she wants in a man by now. Four years of dating GTFOH.

  • @DeADvElOciRaPtor
    @DeADvElOciRaPtor Před 2 lety +350

    My head will explode if another woman start off a sentence “I feel like….”

    • @abimbolaojetokun3007
      @abimbolaojetokun3007 Před 2 lety +20

      I hate that word so badddd to start an explanation to anything

    • @diaclethian1
      @diaclethian1 Před 2 lety +2

      Word

    • @jandevery
      @jandevery Před 2 lety +12

      It’s ALWAYS “I feel like”! Sh!t drives me CRAZY…. emotional and rarely FACT-BASED!

    • @droyal18able
      @droyal18able Před 2 lety +16

      At my work we had a meeting last week and the guy was up there talking about his feelings and how our feelings are important. All I could think was i need to start looking for another job.

    • @SupremeCommanderBaiser
      @SupremeCommanderBaiser Před 2 lety +4

      @@droyal18able I feel like thats just your opinion man ;-)

  • @tawandamadzingaidzo1478
    @tawandamadzingaidzo1478 Před 2 lety +5

    I started watching this man last night and am impressed by his ability to articulate the truth modern society ignores on these issues. The only big thing that bothers me, sir, is the swearing especially when you put the word F***ing and God next to each other. In your other videos you did make more effort to reduce the swearing. This way, your message will reach many more world wide. Keep up the good work. God bless.💪🏾🙏🏾👍🏾

  • @carlosligon3492
    @carlosligon3492 Před rokem +2

    Not only do some of the women don't pick right but will fumble on a man they need or is a great man

  • @bones549
    @bones549 Před 2 lety +80

    I was in college, having fun, and met my wife. We dated 6 months I proposed, and we were engaged for a year and a half. Only because I was finishing school. I graduated on a Friday and started working on the following Monday. We were married one month later. Been married 36 years and raised two boys.

  • @Marktheproducer
    @Marktheproducer Před 2 lety +512

    Sadly enough, KS cares more than his detractors would like to admit. KS doesn’t need much validation, however, you are telling facts and truths.

    • @michaelgraham6959
      @michaelgraham6959 Před 2 lety +27

      Yeah, but black people interpret each other words and actions negatively

    • @Marktheproducer
      @Marktheproducer Před 2 lety +3

      @@michaelgraham6959 big facts

    • @Parktrizzle
      @Parktrizzle Před 2 lety +24

      Exactly! This man ain't just in it for clout. Not even money. He's trying to tell folks something.

    • @yawpapa12
      @yawpapa12 Před 2 lety +12

      The detractors are the 1s who need to hear his messages most

    • @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet
      @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet Před 2 lety +3

      @@Parktrizzle I agree

  • @ivanrowe8329
    @ivanrowe8329 Před rokem +9

    Lol "who filed for divorce" on repeat 😂

  • @vanjoy1781
    @vanjoy1781 Před rokem +1

    My parents got married after 2 months, I got married after 6 months. I am 48 with 3 children and my first grandchild on the way. My oldest daughter got married at age 23 after 7 months. My middle child got married at age 24 after 2 years. My son is 21 I. The US Airforce actively seeking a wife who wants to be a stay at home wife and mother. He is having a very very hard time. Woman his age don’t believe in marriage or staying at home with children. I feel so sorry for woman right now. They are missing out on the most important part of life. Being a loving wife and mother.

  • @ryanbaker7404
    @ryanbaker7404 Před 2 lety +224

    "You gotta have the tingle..." Wow. Just, wow. Is the tingle going to pay the bills, repair the roof, and hold your hand when your puking your guts out from chemotherapy, etc.?

    • @Likexner
      @Likexner Před 2 lety +20

      I actually get this. Look at it from the other side - would you want to be married to a woman who isnt attracted to you? I wouldnt.

    • @rantersparadise
      @rantersparadise Před 2 lety +8

      @@Likexner tingle is 'spark' not attraction. 'spark' is haaaard to find. Their are lots of attractive ppl out there

    • @georgeokello8620
      @georgeokello8620 Před 2 lety +17

      @@Likexner dude that’s why in history there are concubines and the same concept is today. Women who default to attraction as just their highest value look arousing but they are don’t improve the survival of your offspring. Besides no matter how attractive or hot she looks she always annoys somebody else. Tingles are temporary not permanent

    • @johnniebanks4832
      @johnniebanks4832 Před 2 lety +4

      She makes 6 figures remember?

    • @willanbel
      @willanbel Před 2 lety +3

      @JohnnyKush why even get sexually and intimately involved with someone who you’re not into?

  • @mra.4466
    @mra.4466 Před 2 lety +87

    “Who filed for divorce” bout to be a rap song hook.

  • @stangeorge3534
    @stangeorge3534 Před rokem +3

    Indian guy here, met my wife, within one month my family drove over to her family for them to talk and we were married inside of 6 months. We are going on 15 years with 4 kids, we were broke 25 year olds and now we make combined income of 350k yearly. The traditional route works.

  • @lynthamanford4147
    @lynthamanford4147 Před 2 lety

    Another classic! Thanks KS!

  • @danieljimenez7142
    @danieljimenez7142 Před 2 lety +468

    The sad part of this is that they listen to you because your successful, so they respect you but, if a brother that was just an average joe would say the exact same advice the would call him an ignorant fool

    • @overcomeego3893
      @overcomeego3893 Před 2 lety +41

      So agree, with you. I remember talking to my wife too and she would say " you are not my Guru" so its like many men can say this to their women or kids but they would prefer to hear it from someone that has a channel. stewww!!!

    • @lesliethomas5088
      @lesliethomas5088 Před 2 lety +15

      Facts! Black people should be taught to teach these kinds of things.

    • @themanwhoseesallthings2621
      @themanwhoseesallthings2621 Před 2 lety +36

      Unfortunately, this applies to everyone and everything - no matter what you're talking about, if you're not successful or appear successful, no one will listen to you.

    • @mak.lee_pnw5098
      @mak.lee_pnw5098 Před 2 lety +1

      @@themanwhoseesallthings2621 Totally agree

    • @alexandernixon873
      @alexandernixon873 Před 2 lety

      Facts...

  • @gordonalexander4016
    @gordonalexander4016 Před 2 lety +39

    She said she’s in a committed 4-yr relationship and asked Kevin to marry her…🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @clutchboi4038
      @clutchboi4038 Před 2 lety +14

      Hypergamy is real lol. She would trade up in a heartbeat.

    • @hv3115
      @hv3115 Před 2 lety +1

      I missed that.. when did she do that?

    • @DJDavis844
      @DJDavis844 Před 2 lety +5

      Bro i dead caught that!!!! Still acting like a little girl. How she was biting her lip when he checked her. She's far from ready for marriage or children. That man better get all the guts he can out of her and toss her back to the streets

    • @MrDigztheswagking
      @MrDigztheswagking Před 2 lety +2

      She was ready to risk it all 🤣 Kevin curved her

    • @NNOutBurger_Gaming
      @NNOutBurger_Gaming Před 2 lety

      @@DJDavis844 "get all the guts you can" lmao damn never heard of that before lol

  • @conservativequeen9097
    @conservativequeen9097 Před rokem +4

    “Make sure you pay your tithes and offering” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    I’m a pastor’s kid and know this line too well !!!
    I wish this man had spoken to me this way when I was younger…Greatest loss RIP😢😢😢😢

  • @servantofyah1377
    @servantofyah1377 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I met my wife for the first time and 11 days later we got married. We are 7 years strong.

  • @stevenedwards891
    @stevenedwards891 Před 2 lety +248

    The Delusion is real folks. Man his patience during these conversations are amazing. I would’ve just hung up.

    • @AntonioMartin-gx2fx
      @AntonioMartin-gx2fx Před 2 lety +19

      Real talk bro she just should've said I like thugs

    • @stevenedwards891
      @stevenedwards891 Před 2 lety +6

      @@AntonioMartin-gx2fx Facts Bro 😂😂

    • @sanir5133
      @sanir5133 Před 2 lety +4

      On soul 😂😂

    • @icsharpk
      @icsharpk Před 2 lety +2

      True 🤣🤣🤣

    • @stevenedwards891
      @stevenedwards891 Před 2 lety +2

      @The Esquire of Sports® aye man he’s doing some great work Bc I know I couldn’t do this!!