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  • @stephenfowler4115
    @stephenfowler4115 Před 2 lety +1445

    My dad hadn't finished high school when he got married. He got his GED and finished his master's degree in education and worked full time while going to college. He graduated with no debt. Good luck doing that today.

    • @tinadaniels1112
      @tinadaniels1112 Před 2 lety +44

      Good for him. I also graduated with no debt with my Masters degree! It definitely could happen. 🙌🏽

    • @Turshin
      @Turshin Před 2 lety +44

      You can. Just have to get a job with tuition reimbursement. They're still out here.

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 Před 2 lety +57

      @@tinadaniels1112 He said today because it was a lot less doable.

    • @TreyDZd
      @TreyDZd Před 2 lety +59

      Your dad lived in a whole different economics era too of course

    • @tinadaniels1112
      @tinadaniels1112 Před 2 lety +8

      @@seekeroftruth45 I get that... we are apart of " today's women". Thank you but what I said stands.

  • @kuunami
    @kuunami Před 2 lety +1387

    She's like Derek Jaxn in a way. She's found a niche market for people who want to be lied to that being promiscuous has no consequences. No matter how much you try to normalize female promiscuity it's always going to be a natural turn off to most men.

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +62

      📠

    • @kitcowool
      @kitcowool Před 2 lety +158

      Right… ppl completely forget about biology.

    • @switz4165
      @switz4165 Před 2 lety +140

      I think you miss the point.
      She is trying to normalize the understanding about sex and biology (mostly for women - which help men too), and lift up the taboo around it so people can know the truth.
      Now, whatever you do afterwards is on you.

    • @TrillBill
      @TrillBill Před 2 lety +110

      @@stoneysamone518 I hate to admit it, but I kinda agreed when she said alot of guys are worried that they might not 'measure up' to a woman's promiscuity. A woman who they desire especially.

    • @jamessmith8049
      @jamessmith8049 Před 2 lety +137

      @@stoneysamone518 You are wrong Lady Stoney! No man of worth wants to see her lady run through, how did we even get here?

  • @kontranorth6159
    @kontranorth6159 Před 2 lety +711

    She’s saying the same talking points we always hear.
    1. Men need to step up.
    2. Lots of black men are locked up.
    3. Women should be educated and career driven.

    • @21nitsua
      @21nitsua Před 2 lety +131

      She articulates it better but still ssdd

    • @greatness2work818
      @greatness2work818 Před 2 lety +76

      Which is a lie

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 Před 2 lety +115

      Yes indeed. Same fish new day

    • @diligentsun1154
      @diligentsun1154 Před 2 lety +24

      'these' are the only ones, who will be allowed to speak.
      this is the 'fruit', of The Agenda.
      the Good Ones are browbeaten into agreement, with these hooahs.
      the Best Ones Are NOT Available, to the general public.
      they're well raised, well bred and spoken for.
      the common Man will not EVER get his hands on the Official Tissue.

    • @Darkness-ie2yl
      @Darkness-ie2yl Před 2 lety +20

      shes a 1 trick p. but a fine one

  • @perfectp2342
    @perfectp2342 Před 2 lety +214

    In terms of body count it didn't feel like we got an answer from her, but Kevin's question about what you want from a woman was saying body count depends on what you want as an outcome.

    • @Reezy12333
      @Reezy12333 Před 2 lety +52

      Tbh what women refuse to understand is that the men don’t know he’s the father. If a women is promiscuous there’s chance that child isn’t yours.

    • @thewld2
      @thewld2 Před 2 lety +24

      Yea I don’t think she understood what he was asking or she unintentionally avoided. Cause I was waiting for that answer

    • @NOCDIB
      @NOCDIB Před 2 lety +57

      That's how you can tell she's the type to justify sleeping around for women to learn about themselves. She strikes me as the type who did that herself.

    • @NikeMann126
      @NikeMann126 Před 2 lety +23

      I was thinking the same thing. Like she went off on a tangent exiting the highway. It’s hard for most women to have that real conversation.

    • @lefty577
      @lefty577 Před 2 lety +9

      @@NOCDIB Absolutely. Glad a few of us noticed that.

  • @vortigan9068
    @vortigan9068 Před 2 lety +324

    Idk, something about a society being overly focused on sex rubs me the wrong way.

    • @Wrestle_Kingdom
      @Wrestle_Kingdom Před 2 lety +33

      Because it wrong and not right

    • @taegotkash
      @taegotkash Před 2 lety +47

      Sex is literally how we all got here. All 7 billion people on this earth came from having sex.

    • @vortigan9068
      @vortigan9068 Před 2 lety +35

      @@taegotkash yeah i dont agree with mr moore calling it "wrong" but focusing on it to such a large degree instead of just seeing it as a way to have children seems decadent.

    • @marvinm4676
      @marvinm4676 Před 2 lety +2

      @@vortigan9068 people don’t have sex to have babies. You can see that the birth rates are declining every year. We over whelming have sex for pleasure and pleasure only.

    • @vortigan9068
      @vortigan9068 Před 2 lety +8

      @@marvinm4676 yeah thats a problem

  • @808estate2
    @808estate2 Před 2 lety +242

    One day, i hope, Men and Women wont have to jump on platforms just to enjoy a constructive, deep conversation amongst each other. This sets a precedence.

    • @sharthun2009
      @sharthun2009 Před 2 lety +22

      Social media ruined that. Unfortunately!

    • @whatever7588
      @whatever7588 Před 2 lety +10

      They don’t

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 Před 2 lety +3

      Never going to happen, simply because of their difference in nature. That level of depth is reserved for men, unfortunately.

    • @EricWeston
      @EricWeston Před 2 lety +1

      Sounds like you have a dream!

    • @dacommish23
      @dacommish23 Před 2 lety +1

      AMEN

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 Před 2 lety +145

    Women "we are gonna level up our body count"
    Dudee "good luck with that......"

    • @tedlessor3887
      @tedlessor3887 Před 2 lety +16

      🤣🤣🤣 they need to start buying cats now then. Its how brainwashed people have become through what we see.

    • @Dynasty19
      @Dynasty19 Před 2 lety +6

      If you look what type of relationship she’s in and she totally controls that idiot it’s no surprise

    • @aubreyjames8795
      @aubreyjames8795 Před 2 lety +1

      Dude’s body counts already leveled up except for incels

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety

      @@aubreyjames8795 so 0? LOL.

    • @MinecraftKid120
      @MinecraftKid120 Před 2 lety

      Whats funny is women don’t even get real fulfillment from casually having sex. They’re always gonna want you to lock em down and throw a shit fit when you don’t want to cause they’re not that kind of woman.

  • @ericacosta5709
    @ericacosta5709 Před rokem +4

    I'm so happy you two were able to record this for us. It's valuable information.

  • @RushingWindMedia
    @RushingWindMedia Před 2 lety +20

    Good interview. The bridge is being built to finally understand and learn from both sides.

  • @chi3812
    @chi3812 Před 2 lety +224

    Kevin is a g, but us men aren't going to ever get on board with the high body count thing. Even Kevin knows how detrimental it is, that's why he has told many wmn who have called into his show to not let it get out of hand.

    • @user-bm8fx9zs1r
      @user-bm8fx9zs1r Před 2 lety

      Appreciate your time,
      he'll share a beneficial knowledge
      ✒️☁️±𝟏𝟕𝟕𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟖𝟎

    • @dacommish23
      @dacommish23 Před 2 lety +10

      Wore out p#$$y benefits no one!

    • @cyn7993
      @cyn7993 Před 2 lety +8

      Just say it better . Men are never going to let go of the self hate and disgust they feel towards other men. Body count significance is totally predicated on how men feel about other men. Do you see a woman whose had sex with 10 women any differently then 10 men? The common denominator is the same what is the difference? Your problem isn’t the vessel it’s the passengers!!!

    • @transcendentmuzic1398
      @transcendentmuzic1398 Před 2 lety +13

      You misunderstood what Kevin said about that issue. He didn't say it didn't matter. He said why are you anxious about something it's nearly IMPOSSIBLE for you to verify. There's almost no way to know if a woman is telling you the truth about it, so why care? For MOST average dudes it just boils down to insecurity, and being afraid that you don't measure up to her previous partners

    • @cyn7993
      @cyn7993 Před 2 lety +1

      @@transcendentmuzic1398 it’s their biggest fear in life . I can’t imagine having so much disgust towards other people of the same sex that I’d be preoccupied with anywhere they’ve touched. Tell me you have low self esteem and insecurity without telling me ……. When you bring up body counts

  • @severussin
    @severussin Před 2 lety +168

    I don’t think anyone is truly having a good faith discussion about relationships where each other’s basic needs are actually met. This conversation was no exception; KS out here advocating for the guys who want relationships and this girl on here talking about female orgasms.
    Speaking past each other honestly because KS’s underlying point is ‘How do dudes even get to the point of satisfying a women without the sexual access’ which she ignored with her typical modern talking points of how men are incarcerated or in some way not stepping up. This was not a constructive conversation despite how respectful the discourse was. I’ve had many ‘great’ conversations at work in a meeting which was wholly useless, this resembled one of those.

    • @DemonSlayer_ISTJ
      @DemonSlayer_ISTJ Před 2 lety +2

      Yea it's definitely pointless. It helps some Beta's realize how the snake modern woman thinks tho.
      Like Future said "a b**** gon be a b****, a 304 gon be a 304, ain't no way around it".

    • @quietecstasy8054
      @quietecstasy8054 Před 2 lety +4

      she also talks about dating/relationships and she's in one. A woman understanding themselves sexually is key to having a successful relationship and being open in general.

    • @sayeed7255
      @sayeed7255 Před 2 lety +2

      They were both talking about sex. Look at the title.

    • @knowledgegad1294
      @knowledgegad1294 Před 2 lety +11

      @@quietecstasy8054 she’s the man in her relationship. Her boyfriend say he’s ok with his woman going out there doing her thing

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +2

      @@sayeed7255 In the context of one night stands on in the wider context of relationships?

  • @lakenda1
    @lakenda1 Před 2 lety +62

    I screamed when she made the suggestion to mix the audiences. Bad idea. There would be absolutely no compatibility!

    • @emilecarrington7317
      @emilecarrington7317 Před 2 lety +8

      Yeah, her audience is probably looking for wives... We're tryna be husbands over here

    • @Flameofblaze7
      @Flameofblaze7 Před 2 lety

      Yeah her video about dating as black woman would have her audience shell shocked .

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee Před 2 lety +1

      @@emilecarrington7317 an audience looking for wives and men tryna be husbands is the exact same thing.

    • @loopymomy2532
      @loopymomy2532 Před 2 lety +2

      Nah I think it would be good. Women and men need to understand each other and stop hating each other

    • @lakenda1
      @lakenda1 Před 2 lety +1

      @@loopymomy2532 The very first comment I received under this thread was laced with an insult (not surprisingly). As confirmed by the above comment, there would be a bunch of arguing and bickering, only adding to this messy ahhh 'war'.

  • @jaytouch
    @jaytouch Před 2 lety +108

    This is a excellent conversation overall! 💯

  • @Creditkae
    @Creditkae Před 2 lety +141

    She was so disingenuous in the interview. Never holding women accountable. And did not want to believe the stat that men out earn women.

    • @Tential1
      @Tential1 Před 2 lety +24

      I'm so mad... Gender pay gap? Or women out earn Men. WHICH IS IT? this is why I'm done with side of the aisle.... 0 consistency

    • @Flameofblaze7
      @Flameofblaze7 Před 2 lety +4

      We saw that with her video with black woman

    • @hawkkingboxing1521
      @hawkkingboxing1521 Před 2 lety +11

      I agree with you 100%! Low key put everything on a man, “reading sex books on a train, your penis can cure cancer and most men don’t make woman orgasm!” Most woman just lay there and take the “D,” and have limited to no skills! What are woman suppose to do?

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid Před 2 lety +11

      Not only that she doesn’t even know her sexology field because when asked about the body count she was clueless what a joke.

    • @Creditkae
      @Creditkae Před 2 lety +2

      @@OwnGrid completely useless in the own field.

  • @davidx5828
    @davidx5828 Před 2 lety +42

    Men don’t want to walk around with the town’s “person”. I would liken it to a man being bullied and beat up for most of their life. Both have sketchy past. Women would not want to walk around with the man who the whole town thinks is a punk. History most definitely matters, it’s the best predictor of future performance.

    • @user-bm8fx9zs1r
      @user-bm8fx9zs1r Před 2 lety

      ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ sʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs,ғᴏʀ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʀᴀᴅɪɴɢ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...........
      𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
      ±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕
      ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇꜰᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.......

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly, but you fellas need to understand it goes BOTH WAYS, BOTH GENDERS, NOT JUST WOMEN.
      and seriously, you all men, need to make peace with it, women are not going backwards, reached this point of freedom is great that now everyone can share their time with whoever they want, that's great.
      Dudes, the problem is not body count, it's about habits. I can tell you my body count is 3 and i made a threesome last week. Another woman can tell you she has had +10 but maybe was just one man in a year. You as dudes need to be honest about the same, what is your past fellas? How did you treat women over the past?
      All can have a sexual past and it's ok, what matters are if you're loyal, if you have indifelity past, etc. But if a person has worked on herself, that's what matters, because her past made her evolve, and same goes to men.
      You will see if a person has worked on itself, but body count shouldn't be what determines that evolution

    • @davidx5828
      @davidx5828 Před 2 lety +1

      Unfortunately, the body count thing seems to be ingrained into us from evolution. Men are going to want what they want, like women are going to want what they want. I cannot tell women to appreciate a guy that simps for them because he actually likes you vs the guy that is there to run through them; and understand these are two different types of men with different mindsets. Women don’t understand that they’ve caused an increase in the later. Similarly, I cannot tell women to concentrate more on the intangible things that men bring to the table; their focus will remain on what evolution has made the “feel”🤣(pun intended) is important. Which by anyone who is looking objectively can see is “shallow”. I have been both men in my past because I didn’t understand; with a greater understanding, now I play chess while they play checkers.

  • @OUigot
    @OUigot Před 2 lety +57

    "Partner?" That perked my ears. After listening to more, she's revealing she's a modern feminist.

    • @TheUzamaki1234
      @TheUzamaki1234 Před 2 lety +7

      Just assume black women and feminist as the same at this point.

    • @donquixote3292
      @donquixote3292 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TheUzamaki1234 Facts

    • @skidaddledo6919
      @skidaddledo6919 Před 2 lety

      @@TheUzamaki1234 she doesn’t identify as a Black woman.

    • @TheUzamaki1234
      @TheUzamaki1234 Před 2 lety +1

      @@skidaddledo6919 I don't care what people don't identify as. People don't identify as their own gender nowadays, not a good enough argument in today's society.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheUzamaki1234 both getting their ideas from the same camp. sad. there must be a way to counter this. i hope so.

  • @kiriende3691
    @kiriende3691 Před 2 lety +532

    She came with the same rhetoric that we hear all the time. It boils down to "it's black men fault" and we need to "level up."

    • @Turshin
      @Turshin Před 2 lety +60

      Yep she sure did

    • @kiriende3691
      @kiriende3691 Před 2 lety +115

      @@kimkitty3914 They are. They're choosing to deal with fit, feminine,and cooperative women regardless of nationality.

    • @lnb252
      @lnb252 Před 2 lety +97

      @@kimkitty3914 the ironic thing is that women overvalue themselves almost like a classism thing

    • @BruBoyz
      @BruBoyz Před 2 lety +6

      Exactly

    • @diligentsun1154
      @diligentsun1154 Před 2 lety +20

      mean ARE 'leveling up'.
      as we do, the women will no longer be able to stand upon us.
      THEN, well see what's what and who's whom.

  • @lkendrix7782
    @lkendrix7782 Před 2 lety +4

    I so enjoyed listening to this woman talk! Her conversation is clear. Subject is presented well. No long rambling paragraphs that have a lot of words but have very little meaning! No mouth smacking sounds! She is well informed on the subject at hand. No trying to deflect or change the subject. No asking of unrelated questions or bringing up unrelated topics.

    • @playamusa
      @playamusa Před 2 lety +5

      I'm not sure we watched the same interview 😂

    • @lkendrix7782
      @lkendrix7782 Před 2 lety +4

      @@playamusa Well, when your mouth is open your ears tend to close and block out the message.

    • @playamusa
      @playamusa Před 2 lety

      @@lkendrix7782 Oh no, someone didn't agree with you so they must be stupid right. It's impossible for you to be incorrect after all 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @lkendrix7782
      @lkendrix7782 Před 2 lety +1

      @@playamusa Did you close your mouth then open your ears so that you could receive the message? When you look for the bad you’ll never find the good!

  • @jayhechar0053
    @jayhechar0053 Před rokem +6

    Rewatching your old videos and still learning. RIP Kevin!!

  • @LboroWick
    @LboroWick Před 2 lety +13

    Always nice to see Kevin in a well lit environment 😄

  • @johncampbell383
    @johncampbell383 Před 2 lety +129

    Understanding yourself and knowing what you want and enjoy it period !

  • @AJ-gg6db
    @AJ-gg6db Před 2 lety +5

    Yay! I’m so happy about this collaboration and I enjoyed this discussion so much!!

  • @crashHypnotize
    @crashHypnotize Před 2 lety +1

    I loved the final minute the most. The hardest things can be so simple. Proximity changes the game truly. Creating opportunities to believe, it's a beautiful thing.

  • @Ben-Ken
    @Ben-Ken Před 2 lety +77

    She wouldn't come right out and say it but she has a problem with KS telling women to lower their standards. Most women actually want the highest value men to lower THEIR standards and be with an uncooperative, non-feminine boss chick because she makes money too.

  • @jermaineburgess3767
    @jermaineburgess3767 Před 2 lety +111

    She doesn't get it when she said their audience should mix I can guarantee that her audience is some of these women that call in to his show with the delusional 🙄

    • @derrickmason7457
      @derrickmason7457 Před 2 lety +2

      That’s what I thought we would be hearing in their ideology indifference not these regular talking points

    • @Flameofblaze7
      @Flameofblaze7 Před 2 lety +3

      It would give him more calls so she isn’t wrong

    • @jermaineburgess3767
      @jermaineburgess3767 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Flameofblaze7 we want quality not quantity

    • @kathryneprickett2083
      @kathryneprickett2083 Před 2 lety +3

      Facts. And she marketed them off like men. Heffer said they are educated, college degreed women of color. Ummmm, are they pretty? Are they feminine? Do they cook?

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Před 2 lety +2

      You could be right. I’ve listened to her for years and I also do find the women who call in are delusional.

  • @clarkkent52
    @clarkkent52 Před 2 lety +60

    she's just talking jazz...a woman who has multiple sexual partners will def affect both her mind and body

    • @PeacocknRose
      @PeacocknRose Před 2 lety +11

      Or man... remember soul exchanges happen to all parties involved

    • @harvest2630
      @harvest2630 Před 2 lety +5

      Incorrect. Far less of an affect on men vs. women. We will never be the same or measured by the same metrics. Simps be damned!!!

    • @whatever7588
      @whatever7588 Před 2 lety

      @@PeacocknRose facts

    • @bigwalt3898
      @bigwalt3898 Před 2 lety +10

      The least married women.... And they wonder why....

    • @whatever7588
      @whatever7588 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bigwalt3898 white woman aren’t any less sexually liberated than black woman

  • @nii22b93
    @nii22b93 Před 2 lety +139

    If there is one thing, I hate about Kevin is the fact that once he meets these women, he does not call out their fallacies as straightforward as he does with the average woman. He argued with other women that what do they gain by sleeping around. This woman calls it liberation and he says nothing.

    • @inoclasism
      @inoclasism Před 2 lety +25

      She came respectful and has a large following.

    • @nii22b93
      @nii22b93 Před 2 lety +77

      @@inoclasism Nobody is saying he must disrespect her. He can point out how he thinks she is wrong and they can agree to disagree. But at least stand firm on your ideals. You dnt change just because she is “respectful and has a large following”. That means he lacks integrity and will do what will benefit him the most. I choose to believe he means it when he says he stands for a course.

    • @FireAngelChris
      @FireAngelChris Před 2 lety +17

      @@nii22b93 Factual

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +28

      Same as Nikki Minaj

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Před 2 lety +5

      @@severussin and same lame ass excuses!

  • @myaccountability3080
    @myaccountability3080 Před 2 lety +11

    More conversations between the two of you and other level headed individuals please. This is what we need. Dialogue where no one is trying to out shout one another. Bravo.

    • @gw6496
      @gw6496 Před 2 lety +1

      The 5 star General Kevin Samuel into another level of the battle of the sexes👍🏾👍🏾

  • @AceeSoul
    @AceeSoul Před 2 lety +153

    Excellent! Whether y'all like it or not, Kevin is leading the charge for change in our community.. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @kevinwilliams1986
      @kevinwilliams1986 Před 2 lety +7

      He sure is

    • @316rayan
      @316rayan Před 2 lety +6

      Useless conversation. To think there is some magic to be achieved with genitals is the concept of fantasy. Created by the west to keep selling their 30$ shit books on Amazon.

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay Před 2 lety +1

      💯

    • @otrebla8944
      @otrebla8944 Před 2 lety +5

      He should have challenged her, though.

    • @jalenad11
      @jalenad11 Před 2 lety +3

      @@316rayan Tell me you've never pleased a woman without telling me you've never pleased a woman...

  • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
    @WazirinJosnEnvirons Před 2 lety +101

    Trial and learning 'on the job' is naturally the best way to learn, (women do it quite a bit in western society), however it's actually dangerous with severe consequences for trial and error for men-up to and including jail. So it doesnt happen.

    • @freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528
      @freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 Před 2 lety +37

      FAX: She's treating it as if we're equal, well the woman has had X amount of partners and now the guy feels insecure because he can't get on her level. How is that supposed to happen, Shan? Men approach women on a daily basis for sex and get it depending on all the gifts and prizes he gives her. Not only are women getting a lot of sex, but also resources along the way. On the other hand, men have to approach, get rejected, or if they ARE accepted, unload resources and time to get sex with her. This is nowhere near an equivalent exchange.

    • @Rome__king
      @Rome__king Před 2 lety +13

      @@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 preachhhhhh

    • @willhickman92
      @willhickman92 Před 2 lety +5

      @@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 please create a podcast for this or find a way on Kevin’s show 😂

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Před 2 lety +1

      @@freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 it’s 2022! Not goin to say most men but some get sex just as easy as women without all the extra stuff you mentioned like gifts and prizes

    • @BigSleeveLess
      @BigSleeveLess Před 2 lety +1

      @@reese85 true but that is 10 to 20 percent of men the vast majority are working there ass off for sex or not getting it at all

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard Před 2 lety

    This is a great start to a powerful collaboration.

  • @lyftuberninjaworkaholic7524

    This should have been atleast a 3hr event. Great convo! I see big things happening with these powerful "duo" if they come together.

    • @Tential1
      @Tential1 Před 2 lety +2

      "pt1" in the title...

  • @LetsTalkAboutItSeries
    @LetsTalkAboutItSeries Před 2 lety +35

    We love interviews/crossovers like this! Both of you are "controversial" in your own way on your own channels, but you both are so wise and articulate!

    • @marcuswilliams7512
      @marcuswilliams7512 Před 2 lety

      It's just a bunch of one sided lies. i see why you love it so much. it panders to you. btw i love how she completely ignored the body count question. no i haven't watched the entire video

  • @moshediquel
    @moshediquel Před 2 lety +26

    Funny how she assumes women are all sex goddesses and men are just fumbling around. Most women I’d say don’t even know how to please themselves

    • @okaySam
      @okaySam Před 2 lety +1

      underrated comment!

    • @malibu3602
      @malibu3602 Před 2 lety

      Underrated comment!!

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Před 2 lety

      Exactly, that's why women need to explore but all of you have this stupid fixation on low body count. How the f are they gonna know if they never try or get seasoned?
      This is an argument valid for men, but why not to women? Get your point together
      And women are goddesses, but a lot of you don't know how to celebrate what womanhood is, your stupid ego just makes you believe women are objects for your satisfaction, which is infinitely wrong.

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Před 2 lety

      @Ayanna Sabrina women need to celebrate their womanhood and calling women goddesses is on point. Men are just envious because they're not the center of the discussion as it is been for centuries. Everything is changing and I'm glad women are getting the recognition they deserve. You are correct too, but these fellas don't want to hear, they want tk keep reproducing the same sexist, misogynistic discourse which is done

  • @Hallucitania
    @Hallucitania Před 2 lety

    Wow. The picture, and sound quality are superb!

  • @IAMMOVIN4WARD
    @IAMMOVIN4WARD Před 2 lety +1

    This was an excellent and informative conversation.

  • @jddiggy2343
    @jddiggy2343 Před 2 lety +8

    Perfect example of how it is always one step forward, two steps back.

  • @marlo11203
    @marlo11203 Před 2 lety +9

    Amazing conversation can't wait for the next episode.

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +1

      What points in this conversation stuck a chord with you?

  • @UltimaterializerX
    @UltimaterializerX Před 2 lety +80

    “Cis heterosexual”
    Nope. Automatic dealbreaker.

  • @RockyMaiviaMiami
    @RockyMaiviaMiami Před 2 lety +94

    Soo, genuine question. What are women being sexually liberated from in the past 20 years ?

    • @jghifiversveiws8729
      @jghifiversveiws8729 Před 2 lety +132

      Accountability

    • @jambajoby32
      @jambajoby32 Před 2 lety +12

      @@jghifiversveiws8729 lmao 💯

    • @LeePyke
      @LeePyke Před 2 lety +13

      @@jghifiversveiws8729 got em

    • @kadoman0
      @kadoman0 Před 2 lety +11

      @@jghifiversveiws8729 this person gets it...

    • @TheWildManEnkidu
      @TheWildManEnkidu Před 2 lety +13

      @@jghifiversveiws8729 Sheesh you didn't have to go straight for the jugular like that lmao.

  • @411Fragrance
    @411Fragrance Před 2 lety +18

    Been waiting on this. Here we go ladies and gentlemen

  • @imani_malik_L7777
    @imani_malik_L7777 Před 2 lety +572

    She exemplifies modern women. She brilliantly articulates all the misandrist, 5luT enabling taliking points

    • @raymeester7883
      @raymeester7883 Před 2 lety +16

      That's the point.

    • @jackdawson7838
      @jackdawson7838 Před 2 lety +125

      Lol trying to convince men to take easy, ran through women as wives. NOT going to happen

    • @imani_malik_L7777
      @imani_malik_L7777 Před 2 lety +4

      @@raymeester7883 it’s a bit of a pivot from “your orgasms don’t matter” to qualifying your sexual prowess to a loose sounding woman.

    • @raymeester7883
      @raymeester7883 Před 2 lety +12

      @@imani_malik_L7777
      That's her message.

    • @imani_malik_L7777
      @imani_malik_L7777 Před 2 lety +20

      @@raymeester7883 not sure what you’re saying there but she’s got Kevin jumping through hoops. “Men aren’t good in bed” “oh well im good because I read the Kama sutra etc” he’s qualifying to her, she is holding the frame. Must be a PR move

  • @malcolmneate5852
    @malcolmneate5852 Před 2 lety +9

    What a fantastic conversation and so relevant. I’ve learned so much about sex and sexuality from so many places. I’m always surprised how repressed so many people are - even women.

  • @GiganticSky
    @GiganticSky Před 2 lety +76

    24:30 she says women are more sexually liberated & men aren’t rising to the occasion but instead ask women to scale back sexually.
    I think that stance sounds good in theory but in reality women w more sexual partners tend to come w more baggage & self described ‘trauma’ from past relationships. She speaks as if sexual liberation is an absolute positive but the reality is women who’ve explored a lot of sexual desires tend to bring baggage of all kinds with it to the next man.

    • @suleiman1520
      @suleiman1520 Před 2 lety +8

      Good point. Sex can be used like food or drugs to soothe underlying unresolved pain. Can’t say it’s causation but if the count is high you should be curious why.. and this can apply even to men

    • @kimkitty3914
      @kimkitty3914 Před 2 lety

      That’s no true

    • @blackfish4674
      @blackfish4674 Před 2 lety +6

      "Men aren't rising to the occasion"??
      She's speaking whorebonics🤣
      Makes no sense...

    • @Youinnerstandme
      @Youinnerstandme Před 2 lety +13

      She failed to acknowledge the detriments it has on women 😂 with that authority along came responsibility but women aren’t worried about that. They’ll think because they have lots of access to sex so does men, but it isn’t the case & women are also affected much differently from many sexual partners. This side of the convo has to be applied

    • @Ceeboyforlife
      @Ceeboyforlife Před 2 lety

      Maybe they should sleep around on their husbands like her

  • @donb9748
    @donb9748 Před 2 lety +224

    As a man successful with women, reading a book called “how to please a woman” on the subway is a great F-ing idea. Great conversation starter.

    • @TheSunkissedmein2000
      @TheSunkissedmein2000 Před 2 lety +39

      Too noisy and kinda awkward lol.

    • @Turshin
      @Turshin Před 2 lety +14

      I see where you going with that. It's all about breaking the ice.

    • @DeanRegy
      @DeanRegy Před 2 lety +49

      Yeah but you would end up on Tiktok in a second

    • @LearnandLive97
      @LearnandLive97 Před 2 lety +28

      Can get creepy real quick

    • @danawhiteprivelage7277
      @danawhiteprivelage7277 Před 2 lety +43

      How to ruin your reputation, classy image and come off as an incel*

  • @treyparker3775
    @treyparker3775 Před 2 lety +57

    Great conversation with 2 adults...articulate and respectful

    • @ericjames7819
      @ericjames7819 Před 2 lety +6

      It was "respectful " because he let her get away with deflecting without answering questions.

    • @joer8386
      @joer8386 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ericjames7819 Agreed! Totally useless conversation.

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +1

      It was modern womanese, nothing of substance here.

    • @thvtsydneylyf3th077
      @thvtsydneylyf3th077 Před 2 lety

      it wasn't on her part. she was being disingenuous the whole time and pushing feminist ideals. nothing great about it

  • @aessiah
    @aessiah Před 2 lety

    I’ve been excited for this video!!

  • @khurr
    @khurr Před 2 lety +216

    Having sex is not an act, it’s an experience! Most ppl (men and women) don’t understand that! Among those ppl, lots are also inept to understand because their psychological profile has difficult managing the basic characteristics of a patient lover: easing into the experience, build it up, read the mood as you go, sensuality and finesse. Culture does have something to with it also. Above all, it is very important to be comfortable in ur own skin

    • @otrebla8944
      @otrebla8944 Před 2 lety +5

      Very insightful and well stated comment 👏🏽

    • @SellersPremium
      @SellersPremium Před 2 lety +23

      Sex is sex nobody thinking of it from a philosophaphical standpoint as long as attraction standards are met it's a Go.

    • @grimreeper7225
      @grimreeper7225 Před 2 lety +2

      Well said 👏🏾 👌🏾 👍🏾

    • @machtnichtsseimann
      @machtnichtsseimann Před 2 lety +4

      I've found discussions about sex often come to a cold stop whenever anything truly honest comes up when someone is into anything that is not so much about finesse and "easing into the experience". Not that I am against that at all, rather those are good things and personally embraced, but I've had conversations and experiences with some women who pretty much only wanted that and judged other forms of sex as "dirty" or "not loving". Fortunately, I've met other women who convinced me that they are JUST as into the visual or erotica/porn or hard and aggressive sex and fetishes / BDSM. And they were not ashamed, sick nor "Un-Christian". Such is the quandary that there are still shaming tactics employed or inferred upon a good segment of the population, men AND women.
      FYI: Part of the problem is simplistically dividing "Lust" from "Love". IMHO, lust can and ought to be included with love.

    • @Omnipotent556
      @Omnipotent556 Před 2 lety

      @@SellersPremium Exactly.

  • @SaniBravo
    @SaniBravo Před 2 lety +161

    I like this convo/format a lot more of these would be dope

    • @KingKan
      @KingKan Před 2 lety +1

      @MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN merde

    • @jugular911
      @jugular911 Před 2 lety +1

      wots dope mean??

    • @babsjob8729
      @babsjob8729 Před 2 lety

      @@KingKan Tu es ivoirien ?

    • @trevonw67
      @trevonw67 Před 2 lety

      @MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN why not?

  • @kemicraig9660
    @kemicraig9660 Před 2 lety +82

    The amusing thing of this conversation is that if birth control pills, condoms as well as the myriad of other contraceptives were not invented, the supreme importance given to sexual intercourse in all its lustfully hedonistic perversion inspired by pornography, would naturally rest in the responsibility of rearing posterity for furtherance of legacy and betterment of society, any of this talk to rationalize sexual degeneracy can afford audience due to modern contraceptive technology, as well as medical abortion that have diminished and misled the moral values of procreation and undermined the familiar institution, other than that these discussions would not be as elaborate for an act constituting a primordial means to an end rather than an end to a recreational means.

    • @giveme24hrs72
      @giveme24hrs72 Před 2 lety +15

      Sometimes it does feel to me that the modern world is drowning in too much of everything

    • @thegenzcompass2526
      @thegenzcompass2526 Před 2 lety +11

      I'm really impressed by this comment and I couldn't agree more.

    • @TonyMontana-hf3gt
      @TonyMontana-hf3gt Před 2 lety +4

      Try going straight to the point.

    • @GGWP-nx3kn
      @GGWP-nx3kn Před 2 lety +7

      In short, since women have stopped being what they used to, relationships are null and void. They men with more holes, in essence.

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před 2 lety +1

      Some fancy words but yeah.

  • @halfmanhalfamazing9812

    Great mature conversation, indeed !

  • @arnoldwatkins805
    @arnoldwatkins805 Před 2 lety +84

    The young lady is very articulate but she definitely has a slant that for her explains everything as it relates to women and men. I would love to be able to ask her questions to put her fundamental beliefs to the test because she has a lot of "sacred cows" as it relates to men. Which comes off as her being bitter but she's able to mask it through her selective use of words but I hear the subtle misandry.. To summarize her point of view would be to sat she believes that all men are just insecure with weak egos who need to be more like women basically. When you boil down what she had to say it amounts to women strong men, weak and or defective. The reason people of her elk annoy me is because they speak with such certainty and they leave no room that they could be totally wrong. She's trying to explain the male /female dynamic through a modern lense but it was only 70 years ago that my grandmother didn't even have a refrigerator they had ice box and ice was delivered the entire today is foreign to what the human species is use to living in.

    • @MrBenji1059
      @MrBenji1059 Před 2 lety +13

      I think women have an inherent bias when it comes to other women. Whereas with us guys it's "every man for himself" lol :D

    • @meditation4632
      @meditation4632 Před 2 lety +1

      I think you heard what you wanted to hear

    • @FireAngelChris
      @FireAngelChris Před 2 lety +1

      You see

    • @JRed41
      @JRed41 Před 2 lety +12

      Great response. You described this woman and style and views perfectly. We don't talk enough about the presence of misandry in our current state of relationships. Also, real men don't care that much about a woman's higher education or material possessions. When we are attracted to a woman we simply want to know if she's feminine, cooperative, and "trustworthy ". Again, Great job!

    • @karithema9ician657
      @karithema9ician657 Před 2 lety +5

      @@meditation4632 nah. We heard all the “word salads” she was trying to force upon us. “L” now hold this

  • @PaulClipMaster
    @PaulClipMaster Před 2 lety +52

    The problem is sex used to be for men and romance was for women. Now everything is for women and the women's pleasure and women's happiness and nothing is for men.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety

      but there's growing resistance to feminism from gen z IDK if the gen z blacks are ready for that but the (gen z) whites are radical af when it comes to pushing back against feminism among the dissidents and resistance people. obviously the normies are still in love with feminism but even that will change once they face the growing radicals. we may appear tame but in our hearts we are radical af.

    • @MrBigtodd
      @MrBigtodd Před 2 lety +2

      Couldn’t have said it any better

    • @elijahwise3060
      @elijahwise3060 Před 2 lety +4

      Exactly, you have to approach the girl, take her out on a date, entertain her, pay the bill to maybe get to hit one day and when you do you have to please her first. Where's the equality here ?

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety +1

      @@elijahwise3060 some people are more Equal than others. that's their motto.

    • @aliiiiiiiful
      @aliiiiiiiful Před 2 lety +2

      Maybe you’d prefer to be with men if pleasure & happiness isn’t something you want to provide for women

  • @Idontknowhoiamanymore
    @Idontknowhoiamanymore Před 2 lety +16

    I learned today I’m not interested in hearing about others peoples sex lives

    • @user-bm8fx9zs1r
      @user-bm8fx9zs1r Před 2 lety

      Appreciate your time,
      he'll share a beneficial knowledge
      ✒️☁️±𝟏𝟕𝟕𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟖𝟎

    • @rachela4071
      @rachela4071 Před 2 lety

      👏🏼

  • @LwaziForever
    @LwaziForever Před 2 lety +1

    Kevin's show continues to grow and elevate.

    • @LwaziForever
      @LwaziForever Před 2 lety

      @MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN what did he lie about?

    • @donquixote3292
      @donquixote3292 Před 2 lety

      @MTN (Manosphere Thug News) MTN You’re a bitter downlow hater with mommy issues

  • @timothyvaughn4828
    @timothyvaughn4828 Před 2 lety

    Great, great discussion💯👏🏽

  • @michaelrunnels7660
    @michaelrunnels7660 Před 2 lety +293

    Shan seems to concentrate on sex and physical techniques. Her message is 100% about what women want & need. I don't think she's ever given much thought about what men want or need, sexual or otherwise. Keven concentrates his message on relationships. They are, of course, two entirely different things.

    • @LucyFloresYo
      @LucyFloresYo Před 2 lety +52

      Her message is towards both sexes. Clearly you haven’t seen any of her content. Her and her husband make podcasts together discussing for both sexes experiences. And honestly, for centuries it’s always been about male pleasure, disregarding female sexuality. Only in recent years have women been more open to talk about their desires and wants with their sex lives. I do agree that their content is completely different. Kevin just wanted to start a conversation about this topic, that’s why he invited Shan.

    • @kaaiwilliams3629
      @kaaiwilliams3629 Před 2 lety +22

      That’s an inaccurate statement, she’s a sexologist . She’s studied both sides thoroughly

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Před 2 lety +12

      She talks to married couples on her podcast all the time, single people dating, people in relationships..

    • @justinmathis8078
      @justinmathis8078 Před 2 lety +12

      @@LucyFloresYo her content is absolutely geared towards women as they are the ones watching even she admits this

    • @DRay4eveZ
      @DRay4eveZ Před 2 lety +21

      Well, to be fair. Women’s wants and needs in the bedroom were not considered for a long time. A lot of us are just figuring out our pleasures because we have not been considered in the conversation historically.

  • @FritzMusicFritzMusic
    @FritzMusicFritzMusic Před 2 lety +35

    I'm sitting here impatiently waiting on the next part of this conversation

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +6

      I’m not. It was typical modern womanese.

    • @lolab6770
      @lolab6770 Před 2 lety +1

      Same! I love how both of these creators articulate their points and am glad they collaborated.

    • @zachslump5844
      @zachslump5844 Před 2 lety +2

      @@severussin that womanese is like fingers nails on a Chalkboard

  • @philliplockhart5853
    @philliplockhart5853 Před 2 lety +10

    29:55 - 30:00 This part right here. Very quick, very subtle, but very important. The ATTITUDE. The cavalier ATTITUDE towards responsibility. Not talking life as seriously as it should be. Men do not have this luxury. Women in first world countries don’t have to take life seriously. No real or harsh consequences.

    • @ramalellison9205
      @ramalellison9205 Před 2 lety

      What? She just mentioned debt? Iunno maybe i dont understand your point.

  • @LolaFoShola
    @LolaFoShola Před 2 lety

    Great convo!!!

  • @MichaelBuck
    @MichaelBuck Před 2 lety +149

    She didn't say anything of significance. She basically perpetuated the same things we all already understand and know. She is supposed to be the sex expert, but from what I heard she is NOT aware of what women are doing in today's culture. She ignored the BODY COUNT issue and did not answer Kevin's inquiry. It was funny that Kevin knew MORE about the sexual trends than she did, that said a lot.

    • @DontaviaM
      @DontaviaM Před 2 lety +3

      What is the body count issue?

    • @m.danielmills7091
      @m.danielmills7091 Před 2 lety +14

      @@DontaviaM As Kevin alluded to, it's something that men that tend to be VERY successful with women tend not to worry as much about, but men that generally don't have a lot of success with women worry excessively about.

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid Před 2 lety +8

      no what he is saying that she skipped over or even worse unaware of the science because women with over 5 body counts have less ability to pare bond thus making them bad choice for anything serious, yet they could still be recreational use basically for the streets no shame in that you do you. You can’t change biology

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +15

      Facts, she just parroted typical modern womanese which went mostly unchallenged. KS seems to find it easier to call it out when it’s attached to a distasteful attitude.

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid Před 2 lety +1

      @@severussin And that’s how you know KS is full of shit and fake as hell

  • @REM977
    @REM977 Před 2 lety +69

    I'm a man and sex is something I can only truly enjoy in a loving relationship.

    • @user-xo3zp9gz8t
      @user-xo3zp9gz8t Před 2 lety

      ◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...........

    • @br3wskee
      @br3wskee Před 2 lety +4

      I'm the opposite. No relationship needed. But at the same time, I'd never pay for it. I like the "hunt". Its like tournament fishing.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety +3

      @@br3wskee dang i hate the hunt. tho i'm lazy like that.

    • @malibu3602
      @malibu3602 Před 2 lety +4

      @@FazeParticles Same here lmfao. Most ain't worth chasing and wasting time and energy. Sometimes to get what you want, you pay for it without playing the games. Especially if you want the hot women, that's where men with money will always have the upper hand, because those types of women, most men can't attain. So when it comes to paying for it, if she's considered really attractive, I'm not against it 🤷‍♂️

    • @AMM3.
      @AMM3. Před 2 lety +5

      Once you have experienced great sex and communication with someone you love.. one night stands or flings just don't cut it 😐

  • @johndevillier2852
    @johndevillier2852 Před 2 lety +1

    Great conversation, interesting and informative…🖖🏽

    • @user-bm8fx9zs1r
      @user-bm8fx9zs1r Před 2 lety

      ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ sʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs,ғᴏʀ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʀᴀᴅɪɴɢ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...........
      𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
      ±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕
      ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇꜰᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.......

  • @theairforce1877
    @theairforce1877 Před 2 lety +6

    @KevinSamuels, this was an excellent conversation! I’m looking forward to seeing part 2!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

    • @carsonwellington7204
      @carsonwellington7204 Před 2 lety

      This conversation is very interesting things are spoken openly now that was never done before keep on talking

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety

      Nah these are all old taking points and nothing was done to expand the conversation outside of black men need to step up. Typical womanese of the modern era.

    • @theairforce1877
      @theairforce1877 Před 2 lety

      @@severussin That’s not true! You rarely here the conversation about the shortcomings of what both sexes have to deal with and the societal pressures that both have to deal with day to day! Especially, black men as we are supposed to be masters in the bedroom especially without any teaching. Then you NEVER hear about a school or classes directed at and for men to teach these things. As K. Samuels said most men don’t even know what a “G” spot is let alone know where it’s located. This conversation was grown, intelligent and most needed! Part 2 should be just as good!

  • @kisyaunthomas6702
    @kisyaunthomas6702 Před 2 lety +4

    I absolutely love both of y'all podcasts & content! Dedicated listener keep it yall 💯

  • @sebastianmichaelis497
    @sebastianmichaelis497 Před 2 lety +34

    I guess it doesn't matter what a man wants as long as the woman is pleased.
    Got it.

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před 2 lety +9

      Exactly. The narrative is all wrong. Only in the west

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +13

      📠This is all I hear when she spoke

    • @malibu3602
      @malibu3602 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TheOlzee Exactly!

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před 2 lety

      @Ayanna Sabrina tell me how do those women get into relationships with men they KNEW were not pleasing them in bed?

    • @sebastianmichaelis497
      @sebastianmichaelis497 Před 2 lety +3

      @Ayanna Sabrina So paying 100% of the bills, protecting you with our life, taking care of the house hold and spending endless amount of money and effort to keep you happy isn't enough.
      Copy.

  • @samagatsu1
    @samagatsu1 Před 2 lety +1

    best interview in this channel

  • @Bazrad68
    @Bazrad68 Před 29 dny

    How did I miss KS sitting down with women in the flesh. This is only the second one I’ve found (both found today). So glad to have found new (to me) content from the great man. 👍

  • @maqnthreez
    @maqnthreez Před 2 lety +15

    Her slick politician style double talk questioning

  • @NBWDOUGHBOY
    @NBWDOUGHBOY Před 2 lety +130

    What Kevin did was kind of genius man. He baited us in with the Average at best and You built like a Runningback to ultimately give us great content.

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 Před 2 lety +14

      He simply spoke his mind.

    • @aaaaaa2206
      @aaaaaa2206 Před 2 lety +24

      He baited YOU with the _"Average at best."_ line. His content is much deeper than that video.

    • @NBWDOUGHBOY
      @NBWDOUGHBOY Před 2 lety +6

      @@aaaaaa2206 No Doubt. That's a Fact.

    • @twintyro
      @twintyro Před 2 lety

      He was around way before that clip went viral.

  • @kinardak
    @kinardak Před 2 lety

    This is a good one and very different from previous collaborations. I've been studying the language of sex for 12 years now, though artistically; trying to find new ways of expressing the idea. I'm either ahead of the curve or too obtuse to be understood. But this is definitely a necessary dialogue. ......to be continued.

  • @whitneydellafosse_
    @whitneydellafosse_ Před 2 lety +1

    I’ve been waiting for this collab!!!!

  • @Dada-jv9ng
    @Dada-jv9ng Před 2 lety +11

    Words sounds is power. Teach dem make sure the message deh reach dem godfather. 🇯🇲

    • @carlosdavis.
      @carlosdavis. Před 2 lety

      𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍʀ ᴇɴᴏs ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏɴᴛᴀᴄᴛ ɪɴғᴏ ʙᴇʟᴏᴡ;.

    • @carlosdavis.
      @carlosdavis. Před 2 lety

      ±𝟏𝟑𝟑𝟏𝟑𝟒𝟖𝟐𝟕𝟒𝟐
      ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.

  • @youcantfoolme9950
    @youcantfoolme9950 Před 2 lety +20

    I don't get how this talk is a good thing. There is NO wisdom or insight that could come from a young, immature woman. Wisdom comes from age and experience.
    The way she speaks, reeks of immaturity and feminism.
    A wise man knows where to obtain wisdom

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety +6

      Exactly, glad you spotted that.

    • @joyfulrealtor
      @joyfulrealtor Před 2 lety +7

      I doubt very much when she is older she’ll be proud that her children will know she has a high body Count and will encourage them to do so too.

    • @TheUzamaki1234
      @TheUzamaki1234 Před 2 lety +4

      That's why I didn't bother, she's drenched in the feminist Kool-Aid she can't afford to have any objective opinion because she's a part of the same issues of this generation.

    • @Hottest-in-da-Hood
      @Hottest-in-da-Hood Před 2 lety +1

      Or any woman period,

  • @carlforpresidentanthony4574

    I went to a Passion party when I was at Hampton university back in the late 90s. I was blown!

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 Před 2 lety +103

    21:30 it goes both ways. You can be as experimental as you want as a dude, a lot of women are extremely uncomfortable with their body. Half the women I've been with only do 1-2 positions because they too afraid to try anything else and "make a mistake".

    • @cinquentakhamseen3124
      @cinquentakhamseen3124 Před 2 lety +11

      Women are definitely self conscious, especially with their body - Hence the surgeries with enhancements etc…
      I’m the most confident person, I never get complaints about my body, my weight, not my body 🙄With that being said, turn those lights out and you better have eclipse curtains 🤦🏽‍♀️
      I breast fed and i find myself blaming that - I will never be comfortable with gravity humbling me 😩

    • @freeman8759
      @freeman8759 Před 2 lety +12

      That's exactly what I said. It's like, "Wait, girl you want to keep your shirt on, all the lights off aaaand you afraid to make a sound?" 🤔She need to stop acting like women are pros waiting for men to catch up.

    • @nicolesawyer7117
      @nicolesawyer7117 Před 2 lety +13

      Yet men want an inexperienced woman, I find that ironic.

    • @thechosenone2786
      @thechosenone2786 Před 2 lety +4

      @@nicolesawyer7117 yet women want an experienced man and don’t bite their tongue about what they expect in the bedroom. Oh indeed I find it real ironic as well.

    • @thechosenone2786
      @thechosenone2786 Před 2 lety +1

      @@nicolesawyer7117 yet women want an experienced man and don’t bite their tongue about what they expect in the bedroom. Oh indeed I find it real ironic as well.

  • @otrebla8944
    @otrebla8944 Před 2 lety +44

    Did she say something to the effect that men should rise to the same level as 304s, thus accepting their high body counts and marrying them?
    Ma'am, no respectable man wants any woman with a high body count for a wife.

    • @EmpireRamzes
      @EmpireRamzes Před 2 lety +14

      big facts, studies show the lower the body count the more successful the marriage

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 Před 2 lety +5

      True but you know it’s slim pickings finding a chick who’s below 10 these days…..

    • @kimkitty3914
      @kimkitty3914 Před 2 lety

      I didn’t hear Kevin saying that, and his the professional, not you 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @otrebla8944
      @otrebla8944 Před 2 lety +11

      @@kimkitty3914 Lol. I don't have to be a professional; I'm a man, and I know what I (and men in general) want.

    • @michaeldavis2135
      @michaeldavis2135 Před 2 lety +3

      @@EmpireRamzes thats only because woman with lower body counts are less willing to leave when the relationship gets toxic ,because they have never been with someone else

  • @ronmexico5908
    @ronmexico5908 Před 2 lety +6

    Women remain stagnant because all of their choices, thoughts and options are controlled by someone or something else. Powerless and waiting to be rescued is how they endure life

  • @brandonmercier409
    @brandonmercier409 Před 2 lety +2

    While KS regular show is great, I like these formats as well. It provides a good balance, dialogue, and goes in depth which a lot of topics. Definitely a good episode to watch.

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety

      A waste of time, I expected her typical talking points to be expanded upon but alas I am disappointed.

  • @montste8257
    @montste8257 Před 2 lety

    Great conversation

  • @gabegarcia1993gg
    @gabegarcia1993gg Před 2 lety +4

    Ive come to the conclusion, im too uneducated with social structure and human nature to be in a relationship. You guys brought up really good topics. And i feel clue less. Im going to stick to fishing and the outdoors

  • @ashley_sprinkles
    @ashley_sprinkles Před 2 lety +97

    As a woman, as much as it's natural for us as human to have sex I'm getting so annoyed with all this discussion about sex. Sex isn't everything but it seems these days thats all people talk about. Takes the specialness away from it. I don't calle ol fashion but I'm just sick of this crap. What happened to being conservative? Women need to stop blaming men and start looking at themselves for being promiscuous and wondering why no one takes them seriously.

    • @NicoliePollieOllie
      @NicoliePollieOllie Před 2 lety +12

      This just wasn't the convo for you. Somebody found this enlightening.

    • @Majinnightwalker
      @Majinnightwalker Před 2 lety

      Eeh you say it’s natural but I think its only natural to women and men other humans say its a go. micro dicks get slim love it’s probably more they do that bully stuff you would not know cause you are girl guys dont know because world says their ok

    • @Majinnightwalker
      @Majinnightwalker Před 2 lety

      And also Bro YOU ARE A WOMEN sex is a non issue you dont have to do bullstuff to get action but hygiene and work out you can’t work out you dic to get bigger it matters to psychologically

    • @Rosalyn3211
      @Rosalyn3211 Před 2 lety

      @Ayanna Sabrina that’s facts. I’m tired of this narrative that we should be concerned w what others/men might judge us as. If we are still mentioning body count when we meet someone I’d call that immature af.

    • @marcuswilliams7512
      @marcuswilliams7512 Před 2 lety +5

      @Ayanna Sabrina get a clue & come back to reality. fyi being promiscuity is about self. it is self destructive behavior that has a significant negative impact on the psychology of the individual

  • @joelloncke4941
    @joelloncke4941 Před 2 lety

    Shes 1 of the best guests kevins had jus humble individual✌🙏🙏

  • @Frank-H
    @Frank-H Před 2 lety +1

    This was good.

  • @DeeboX-vv8ji
    @DeeboX-vv8ji Před 2 lety +32

    I'm 47 years old, and I've never cared nor asked a woman's body count. One reason is that I know the kind of women I go for.

  • @BushyRoyal
    @BushyRoyal Před 2 lety +15

    "cis heterosexual" 😑 even the seemingly calm black woman is corrupted

    • @the2ndcoming135
      @the2ndcoming135 Před rokem

      Welp, y’all might wanna swoop on a wifey real quick then🙆🏽‍♂️🍿

  • @Oldjongcrow416
    @Oldjongcrow416 Před 2 lety +1

    IT'D BE INTERESTING TO SEE YOU GUYS CO-HOST A LIVE SHOW AND TEAM UP ON THE GUEST 😁👍

  • @johntepu1869
    @johntepu1869 Před 2 lety

    Great content Godfather 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @callumcrow7830
    @callumcrow7830 Před 2 lety +20

    At 8:15 minutes: "Men that say they don't care about body count tend to be married or in long term relationships, where as men that care about body count tend to be single"
    The data is crystal clear. The likelihood of a marriage lasting if a woman has had 0 prior partners is 80%+. The likelihood of a marriage lasting if a woman has had 15+ partners is around 20% at best.

    • @okaySam
      @okaySam Před 2 lety +2

      There is some truth to her statement, but I'd say it's the other way around: Men who are in a relationship already have a partner (vetted & chosen), so they don't need to worry about body count, whereas single men do. It's like rich people saying they don't worry about money.

    • @calikeisha365
      @calikeisha365 Před 2 lety

      Where is this data?

    • @callumcrow7830
      @callumcrow7830 Před 2 lety +4

      @@calikeisha365 The ISF "Institute of Family Studies" cohort studies. It also directly affects happiness within marriage

  • @VCashForever
    @VCashForever Před 2 lety +122

    I think men care about women's "body count" because we know that it matters and shows aspects of her character. Women don't have to work for sex. They can just get it whenever they want to with absolutely no effort. A woman who has had alot of sex hasn't done anything special or proved anything to the world. I watch the show "600 Pound Life" and some of those women have babies and husband's.
    I wouldn't want to be married to a woman who has had sex with tons of different men because there wouldn't be anything special about her. It's the same in terms of me not wanting a woman who has kids by other men. Same concept to me. If everyone has had you, I can't claim you in public. That's my personal feeling about it. That doesn't mean we can't be friends or even have sex but I won't be in a relationship with you.

  • @bluefig797
    @bluefig797 Před 2 lety +1

    Mature and professional conversation.

    • @severussin
      @severussin Před 2 lety

      Which is not enough unfortunately. Need to actually address the points they are making instead of just keeping it ‘professional’.

  • @vincentanderson5794
    @vincentanderson5794 Před 2 lety +27

    women always make things more complicated then it needs to be, just for some mental feelings that only she feels.. and how can a man become all the different fantasies she got bouncing around in her mind? he can't.. so it just shows that no 1 man can satisfy a woman.. a woman wants everything and since nature will not give a woman everything then she will always be unsatisfied.. so men should not waste their time and efforts on a woman's desires, because a man can never give her everything..

    • @cnotefrank43
      @cnotefrank43 Před 2 lety

      @ vincent read the KARMA SUTRA & [ MGTOW QUOTES VOLUME-1 ]

    • @JRed41
      @JRed41 Před 2 lety +5

      Vincent your take on women is like well timed medicine. That's why the guys that "don't care" have the most success and peace when dealing with women.

    • @xEMOANHATARON
      @xEMOANHATARON Před 2 lety +3

      @@JRed41 Dang. It’s true.

    • @malibu3602
      @malibu3602 Před 2 lety

      @@JRed41 Hol up, explain this more 🤔

  • @eval7952
    @eval7952 Před 2 lety +61

    What use is it to “all men” that we are allowed to be sexual or have many partners,(as she says)
    when only 10% of men are able to get sex??
    Even in sex she compares “all women” to the 10% of top men.
    Now that I think about it, last thing any society needs is to incentivize women into being sexual, cause most women will find easy access to sex,
    On the other hand, doesn’t matter how much sexual freedom we allow men, only the top candidates will find easy access.

    • @robertsbarvedis2566
      @robertsbarvedis2566 Před 2 lety +6

      yeah, I was disappointed with Kevin not asking that. In 2022 here is enormous difference how it to get sex for men and woman. With dating app same level lookalikes, women will end with at least 10x times more options (which actually is quite conservative amount, you could argue 15x and 20x with rise of dating apps). And that ofc directly impacts how much and most importantly how accessible is the ''sexual learning'' for men.
      Furthermore this girl managed to lock down a younger Chad after years of open relationships. After locking him down she has become monogamous and use him very extensively for her content thus giving her female subscribers how would ideal relationship not only feel like but also creating perception of how it would ''look like''. Would she do that with average or below average man looks wise? Just my 2 cents.

    • @FazeParticles
      @FazeParticles Před 2 lety +1

      i don't think the west gives a shit about the bottom percent of men rising up and staging a coup, rebellion or revolution. the corporations and government will see to it that feminism sticks around because Women's sexuality and promiscuity is a massive market and a linchpin to the economy. it's been that way for about a century but the effects are being Realized now.

  • @michelsummers6108
    @michelsummers6108 Před 2 lety

    Great website!!

  • @ALtheelectrician
    @ALtheelectrician Před rokem +1

    Funny how seemingly there's so much disagreement on so many things but when it comes to sex if we have an honest open conversation it goes so smoothly lol.

  • @doubledollarman2727
    @doubledollarman2727 Před 2 lety +70

    Biology is biology. Dudes don’t want a woman who’s been ran through.
    The huge problem is most women that enter into relationships lie about their past sexual activity and guys find out about it down the road when he’s already attached and fallen for her.
    Ladies if you want to be in the streets, no one is trying to stop you. In fact we applaud 👏 you. But stop trying to reformat yourselves into relationship material and lying to men and yourselves.
    No man wants to deal with that trauma.

    • @yepyep6916
      @yepyep6916 Před 2 lety +11

      Facts! There is a lot of Trauma with high body counts…most of these 40+ ladies walking around burned out from their careers, 100’s of hookups, many serial short-term relationships and break ups, bottles of wine, and Prescriptions of antidepressants….We have ladies telling other ladies that they can find happiness and fulfillment through sexual freedom..the free sex moment was in the 70’s. It’s 2022 and they are still clueless.

    • @rachela4071
      @rachela4071 Před 2 lety +18

      Women don't want a man that has been in every woman then 😂

    • @white645
      @white645 Před 2 lety +10

      @@rachela4071 stop lying…

    • @doubledollarman2727
      @doubledollarman2727 Před 2 lety +4

      @@rachela4071 you’re mixed up sweetie. They just don’t want one that is doing that while with them. They definitely want the guy that has ran through the city and they fool themselves into thinking they can settle down with that guy.
      That or you got mad masculine energy and like to be on top the entire time.

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rachela4071 it goes the same for men, basically all these men are telling us to be free, they don't want us prude, they want us bad, men don't deserve fidelity because they never belive in it. Never believe the bs of this losers. Live and enjoy your body and your life with responsibility.

  • @chrissydior96
    @chrissydior96 Před 2 lety +13

    I love @Shan Boody her page is educational and supported by facts and statistics just like Kevin buy from a woman’s stand point I love it because she acknowledges the differences in social behavior

    • @derrickmason7457
      @derrickmason7457 Před 2 lety +27

      Yea but she’s for the Mrs independent type woman winning instead of work with a man get with his leader ship. She says majority of black women are winning I would disagree from the numbers were both at the bottom as far as community

    • @olskool719
      @olskool719 Před 2 lety +20

      @@derrickmason7457 and until wmn understand what winning REALLY is, it's going to be an uphill climb to the bottom.

    • @kiriende3691
      @kiriende3691 Před 2 lety +19

      She was low key crapping all over black men.

    • @TheSunkissedmein2000
      @TheSunkissedmein2000 Před 2 lety +4

      @@derrickmason7457 I agree. I mean BM aren't in the hood alone. There will always be a section for BM & BW who are struggling and Financial stable. I think we get those two crossed talking about relationships and what we want.

    • @Tential1
      @Tential1 Před 2 lety +8

      Facts are facts. She's not saying facts, she said stereotypes.... she literally said that women are out-earning men. GREAT. job the wage gap bs then.... Oh? See how easy it was to find contradictions in her speech....

  • @jabbaweezy
    @jabbaweezy Před 2 lety

    The video quality has improved drastically

  • @nathanandcherelle
    @nathanandcherelle Před 2 lety

    This was a good talk

  • @premiereelementmanufacturing

    Talk about women wanting to ask men to be monogamous, even though men have drastically less sexual fun and experiences, between the ages of 18 to 40

    • @charlyb9194
      @charlyb9194 Před 2 lety +8

      It’s all about security, resources and not wanting to share it with other women.

    • @johnsilva6917
      @johnsilva6917 Před 2 lety +2

      Such hypocrisy