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  • Modern women have to love a man to be willing to do what she should already know?
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  • @no-stresscat1519
    @no-stresscat1519 Před 3 lety +2343

    Once upon a time, learning how to be a wife actually was a course taught back in high school: Home Economics.

    • @jahkarimirza7286
      @jahkarimirza7286 Před 3 lety +247

      Of course, the social engineers took it out of the schools to get the current day outcome. It's all about breaking down a society, make money doing it at the same time and bring in a new society that they're more in control of. Global reset.

    • @XSilvenX
      @XSilvenX Před 3 lety +141

      @@jahkarimirza7286 YES!!! In fact there's a book called 'The Deliberate Dumbing Down of America' by a woman who worked for the government during the years when they were making these changes and it's basically a tell-all of how these "social engineers" (nice way of putting it, lol) have worked to intentionally destroy society to the point where things are as messed up as they are today.

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 Před 3 lety +36

      That course was taken out years ago, well my son stated they “ call “ it something else. But your not learning about daily life stuff 💆🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @garrettlowell7637
      @garrettlowell7637 Před 3 lety +90

      It’s up to us as parents: teach finance (investing, budgeting, credit building and debt-avoidance), basic sewing, cooking, laundry, hygiene and personal appearance, basic maintenance and repairs, common sense safety measures, home fire prevention and fire fighting, emergency reaction, Etc. Or you can expect school to cover hopefully 1% of any one of these topics.

    • @ebonyangeles3666
      @ebonyangeles3666 Před 3 lety +44

      Yes I learned from Home Economics and my grandmothers taught me as well

  • @jaydthomas6127
    @jaydthomas6127 Před 3 lety +801

    'You expect a man to take that kind of risk and marry you on potential, but you don't date on potential, you date on security.'
    Bars 💥

  • @CurtisBenjaminIsrael4453
    @CurtisBenjaminIsrael4453 Před 3 lety +1589

    As young as she is, she conducts herself 100 times better than most grown women i have seen on this channel. She is going to make an awesome wife some day. All the best. Such a gorgeous girl.

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 Před 3 lety +27

      @@theleslieandrea Yeah, but the women that usually come on are really bad.

    • @katieb6961
      @katieb6961 Před 3 lety +72

      I agree. She's pleasant and very pretty.

    • @gocpng4699
      @gocpng4699 Před 3 lety +4

      Yup

    • @lawrencebolt3540
      @lawrencebolt3540 Před 3 lety +53

      @@theleslieandrea you'll do well my dear, listen to Kevin because as a 31 year old cyber security expert, I'm only looking for the types of girl Kevin is trying to tell you to transform into.
      Best of luck and study disciplined 👊

    • @KevinP32270
      @KevinP32270 Před 3 lety +6

      agreed.

  • @fofofofo6182
    @fofofofo6182 Před 3 lety +629

    Back in Africa, our training starts as an infant. The women raising us make sure we get the "wife" skills before leaving home. You even learn to serve guests, organize events, caring for the old, etc. Tiring but good life skills even to survive alone.

    • @melaningirlhustle1355
      @melaningirlhustle1355 Před 3 lety +26

      This is good. That way it becomes ingrained in the women to be wives, like second nature, or rather FIRST nature. Thanks for sharing 👍🏾

    • @herstory1012
      @herstory1012 Před 3 lety +22

      Exactly.....I had African training growing up in London.

    • @davethomas2089
      @davethomas2089 Před 3 lety +1

      @SOULREBELABYSS amen to that.

    • @princerahming2282
      @princerahming2282 Před 3 lety +10

      And then you run off to America..lol

    • @reactioncontent8946
      @reactioncontent8946 Před 3 lety +1

      marry me!

  • @The-Man-On-The-Mountain
    @The-Man-On-The-Mountain Před 3 lety +1092

    "You expect men to take that risk, but when you date, you date on security"
    Jesus Christ, this dude knows how to say everything in a single sentence. I love that one.

    • @gdpanda7972
      @gdpanda7972 Před 3 lety +52

      I’m not necessarily a man to appreciate when some calls themselves “a father figure” but I have learned so much from this man, he truly deserves the title of “god father” to us all

    • @KevinP32270
      @KevinP32270 Před 3 lety +10

      AGREED.

    • @AfricanWithNoFlies
      @AfricanWithNoFlies Před 3 lety +9

      And he is getting better every week

    • @whatever7588
      @whatever7588 Před 2 lety +6

      I mean - risk taking is part of being a man while feeling secure is part of being a woman.

    • @ryanscott314
      @ryanscott314 Před 2 lety +8

      I'm 23, I grew up in a single parent house hold with my mom . She didn't want me to even meet my dad and we never spoke about him. I'm so glad that I am a boy and I have the power to change this broken chain in my family.

  • @kevinlee9929
    @kevinlee9929 Před 3 lety +942

    Women being told by liars and panderers that they are all Queens and deserve the best has done far more damage than it has good.

    • @SSingh-nr8qz
      @SSingh-nr8qz Před 3 lety +60

      Yup, it's the OTHER extreme. In the past you had people telling women they are worthless or second class with a generation of women feeling less than, so then an overcorrection of "all women are awesome" has created women with egos that don't fit their accomplishments.

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze Před 3 lety +75

      Giving people things they didnt earn can create serious problems.

    • @tswagg504
      @tswagg504 Před 3 lety +16

      *Derrick Jaxn has joined the chat*

    • @khalil7011
      @khalil7011 Před 3 lety +20

      If all women are queens, then none of them are.

    • @Tiznado
      @Tiznado Před 3 lety +6

      Little white lies constantly being told eventually turned to bigger damaging lies

  • @karlheber23
    @karlheber23 Před 3 lety +541

    Him: "Sex, sandwich, and silence."
    Her: "Can you give me two more?"
    Him: "Silence and silence."
    Her: "Really? because I feel that blah blah bablah blabby blah blah...."

  • @americannegro5631
    @americannegro5631 Před 3 lety +330

    As an educated man, I watch many content creators and realize what they do, I can do. What Kevin does, is on another level. His perspective is a necessity in the Black community.

  • @edimeanz
    @edimeanz Před 3 lety +1465

    We still recovering from last night, bruh!

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane Před 3 lety +117

      He droppin videos left and right

    • @mimi11011
      @mimi11011 Před 3 lety +53

      For real

    • @nbshabba5076
      @nbshabba5076 Před 3 lety +176

      Last nights stream probably had some of the most from the heart and soul but with anger moments that we have seen from Kevin

    • @jamaaldaynitelong8367
      @jamaaldaynitelong8367 Před 3 lety +128

      You can tell he was really upset/hurt by the answers and responses by those women.

    • @jaylen8822
      @jaylen8822 Před 3 lety +74

      Last night was crazy. That last chick really just put it out there 😂🔥🔥🔥

  • @cardarroblackmon5672
    @cardarroblackmon5672 Před 3 lety +2103

    700k I’m proud of this black man. One million soon Kevin ✊🏾

    • @ugwuokechukwuemeka3041
      @ugwuokechukwuemeka3041 Před 3 lety +72

      Yep we have to get Kevin to 1million subs

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane Před 3 lety +16

      ✊🏾

    • @KOVIDGOON
      @KOVIDGOON Před 3 lety +46

      They be hating viciously on him while ignoring his message and results . he is such an example for us all. I appreciate how he doesn't even acknowledged his haters

    • @eyesonme8677
      @eyesonme8677 Před 3 lety +15

      Facts my brother

    • @youngkings7466
      @youngkings7466 Před 3 lety +42

      Yea he jumped like 200k + in a couple weeks I am soo proud

  • @glitterglosshottie
    @glitterglosshottie Před 3 lety +290

    This was a good conversation. She didn’t get too offended and he made some really good points that I think most of the general population doesn’t consider.

    • @stevecook413
      @stevecook413 Před 3 lety +1

      When you say most. Are you saying something in the 98% most?

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia Před 3 lety +5

      Most of the women who call in to Kevin, the advice he gives will either fall on deaf ears, are too lazy to follow through, or is simply too late for them. It's futile.

    • @daveeyes
      @daveeyes Před 2 lety +6

      I thought what he said went in one ear and out the other. I wish her luck.

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 Před 2 lety

      @Gabrielle Romero,
      *Get on yo’ knees n’ get busy 💦 👀!*

  • @mistaoneda1709
    @mistaoneda1709 Před 2 lety +52

    I remember how many girls rejected taking home economics when I was in high school back in the early 90s. Now, we're seeing the results of this in full effect, and we're all paying for it.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 Před 2 lety +4

      In Jamaica it’s a requirement from grades 7-9

    • @28randle
      @28randle Před 4 dny

      Facts I remember too, it was maybe 2 or 3 girls in that class, we see the results now

  • @toomuchwolves
    @toomuchwolves Před 3 lety +797

    Kevin had a whole full fledged conversation with her in his Daddy-Daughter voice😅

    • @blessed2994
      @blessed2994 Před 3 lety +70

      So true! He was telling her what he will tell his daughter.

    • @robertlunderwood
      @robertlunderwood Před 3 lety +95

      He's old enough that she could be his daughter, thus the tone was appropriate.

    • @1stwastheword893
      @1stwastheword893 Před 3 lety +16

      except he abandoned his biological daughter

    • @nyny1042
      @nyny1042 Před 3 lety +13

      @@1stwastheword893 exactly. Have that talk wit your own daughter.

    • @TheBleepings
      @TheBleepings Před 3 lety +29

      @@1stwastheword893 the mother probably drove him away fr

  • @yahknow01
    @yahknow01 Před 3 lety +509

    Like Robin Williams said way back when ..... "I'd rather be alone than be with people that make me feel alone"

  • @NewEnglish860
    @NewEnglish860 Před 3 lety +148

    She is a real one. Wifehood I.Q. going up with each minute she talks to Kevin.

    • @goldenwoods4583
      @goldenwoods4583 Před 2 lety +5

      That’s exactly what I said! She’s still young and it’s noticeable in her ways however she was an open door for elevation and mastering. She’s on her way to getting what she wants 💙

    • @normbatchelor7403
      @normbatchelor7403 Před rokem +1

      She’s 24 and just starting the process.

  • @v1nigra3
    @v1nigra3 Před 3 lety +182

    Lol Kevin clearly liked her cus although she was chatty she still had her innocence and most importantly she wasn’t masculine energy negative, which is why he didn’t complain when she over-talked him through the whole video

    • @eselmundoa1wao895
      @eselmundoa1wao895 Před 3 lety +22

      he can tell she really wanted this knowledge I believe she received it well

    • @vivalaresistance2841
      @vivalaresistance2841 Před 3 lety +19

      Because she's not being combative or using the SIGN language... yes some push back from her part which is good but she's doing that to understand and learn.

    • @tobieebonics4193
      @tobieebonics4193 Před 3 lety +10

      He always say he matches energy

    • @davidburton3447
      @davidburton3447 Před 2 lety +3

      she's in the age range he likes to date, is cute, and open to suggestions.

    • @carolyndaniels386
      @carolyndaniels386 Před 2 lety +3

      Cute 🥰

  • @jjtoolie9045
    @jjtoolie9045 Před 3 lety +368

    Brother went from 150k in November/December to 700k by the following April! He's doing the right thing and it's paying off for him!

    • @mrcarterfx885
      @mrcarterfx885 Před 3 lety +10

      Going viral...🔥

    • @bestpossibleworld2091
      @bestpossibleworld2091 Před 3 lety +22

      Kevin has a great crossover audience. He has a lot of wisdom for any modern person, whatever their race. While Oprah is pushing women into a glitzy version of feminism, Kevin is giving them a dose of reality.

    • @mj3433
      @mj3433 Před 3 lety +4

      Because he sold out and did what gets him the most money

    • @yohananeliyah
      @yohananeliyah Před 3 lety +11

      @@mj3433 he tapped into the content that clearly shows it needs the most attention. He says regularly that he is running a business. Show some appreciation and out the salt shaker away.

    • @mikeandmars2345
      @mikeandmars2345 Před 3 lety +2

      @john doe Factssss

  • @aryyahuwilliams7008
    @aryyahuwilliams7008 Před 3 lety +532

    What these women don't consider is men built this world that came with a lot of pain. Women want to avoid pain at all costs yet they think they equal to men.

    • @ronaldboykin9755
      @ronaldboykin9755 Před 3 lety +45

      That’s the problem with women today is they don’t realize that they need men!!

    • @mbg9650
      @mbg9650 Před 3 lety +10

      To be their equal.T hus the reason they think they are all entitle to a HVM. It could be vanity...

    • @toomuchwolves
      @toomuchwolves Před 3 lety +7

      & to make matters more redundant, have the audacity to boast about it 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @King-ns7it
      @King-ns7it Před 3 lety +23

      @@henryhall2403 ok simping, smh

    • @toomuchwolves
      @toomuchwolves Před 3 lety +1

      @@King-ns7it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @robertsonjoshua87
    @robertsonjoshua87 Před 2 lety +24

    This young lady is light years ahead of her peers. Conducts herself very respectfully, understands where she is lacking, willing to do the work and is open to leadership. She's going to be a blessing to someone very soon.

  • @sharpfamily4938
    @sharpfamily4938 Před 2 lety +13

    I'm a married stay home mother and it's true what Kevin said about our mothers and grandmothers only having prepared us for independence. After I got my degree I met my husband and had to throw my pride about a high flying career out the door. Now he's a "High value man" that I manage and support however he needs and he's thriving for our family. Our traditional structure works. I wake up and I know I'm CEO of running our home with my husband as the leader and I value that more than any other job.

  • @leeroyhustle
    @leeroyhustle Před 3 lety +300

    "they treat us badly, are disrespectful, have multiple girlfriends" - yet she keeps her ex number from grade 7

    • @penterprise2481
      @penterprise2481 Před 3 lety +18

      Refuse to stay of the c. carousel.

    • @elgatochurro
      @elgatochurro Před 3 lety +2

      From... 7? Dude... wtf

    • @progers86
      @progers86 Před 3 lety

      😂😂

    • @leeroyhustle
      @leeroyhustle Před 3 lety +7

      @@progers86 it's just sad... I wonder if they think about anything carefully before they actually say it

    • @progers86
      @progers86 Před 3 lety +6

      @@leeroyhustle probably not. A lot of them talk just for the sake of it. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @MECX3490
    @MECX3490 Před 3 lety +97

    This young lady can be salvaged...She wants better for herself and sometimes that’s enough...

    • @JIBBS1017
      @JIBBS1017 Před 2 lety +4

      My man’s said “salvaged” 😂

    • @Bigtyml
      @Bigtyml Před rokem +1

      Wanting it is Never enough!!!! I wanted to have my abs sho for a few years now… but I only started a month ago to actually change my diet and work out for my abs to show. And dammit, I say Gahdayum my abs won’t show until I complete the work 💡

    • @someone-ji2zb
      @someone-ji2zb Před rokem

      Sadly, who is going to guide her? We are seeing the products of failing parenting for 3~ generations now, and it clearly cannot fix itself at this point

    • @shebeme2000
      @shebeme2000 Před měsícem

      Nope she wants to be in control. Can't follow directions and can't stfu.

  • @YourBombsite
    @YourBombsite Před 3 lety +25

    She was a real joy to watch, not confrontational, bossy or demanding.
    Was very nice conversation

  • @johnwright6706
    @johnwright6706 Před 3 lety +281

    Suddenly, I'm seeing a higher value on the girl I'm dating who can cook and clean with no debt from school.

    • @dcmsr5141
      @dcmsr5141 Před 3 lety +9

      Damn thats rare

    • @superdave8248
      @superdave8248 Před 3 lety +17

      "Wife school". I had to chuckle at that. The feminist would burn the building down at any university that considered teaching such a thing. But all joking aside, many a southern bell went to "charm" or "finishing" school 50 years ago.
      I will be honest, I do think universities need to teach courses on "life skills". I mean in this day and age, how many 20 somethings know how to write a check, service a vehicle, or cook food with more than two ingredients? If you check their kitchen, do they even own cookery beyond a pot or two?

    • @johnwright6706
      @johnwright6706 Před 3 lety +2

      @@superdave8248 that is supposed to be the parents job. I don't know if you have kids, but if you did, did you try teaching them those life skills and why they are important? The hardest thing I'm encountering is breaking through to my son that no one else will try to teach him these things later for free.

    • @superdave8248
      @superdave8248 Před 3 lety +7

      @@johnwright6706 Agreed. It should have been the parents' job to do these things. Do I have biological children? No. I have stepchildren and they were both grown adults when I started getting involved with their mother. So I can't speak on what they were taught and what they were not.
      But I see it the disconnect. My wife can cook. But when I hear my stepdaughter talking to her mom, she doesn't make complex meals. They are basic. If she and her SO want a complex meal they eat out. Is that a failure of the mom to teach these types of skills or is it a failure on the daughter to use the skills she was once taught? To be honest I have no idea. I just know from my own experience that once you stop using skills those skills wither like dead leaves on a vine. You might have been able to make the best cake in the world, but if you haven't baked a cake in 10 years odds are the first one you do bake again isn't going to be up to the old standard.
      I'm a product of the public school system of the 1970s and 80s. In middle school everyone had to take half a year of Home Economics. And yes, it covered these very things. High School also had a similar course but I never took it so I have only assumptions on what was taught. But it was primarily targeting towards females.
      If the public education system back then saw a need for such classes and even make one mandatory for all students, I can't help but think in this day and age it is even more necessary than previously.
      When I graduated high school I knew a single person that came from a single parent home. People who divorced simply remarried. The friend in this case her parents had separated while she was in high school. I don't even recall if they finalized the divorce or not. And nobody had a parent who was a widow. But about 10 years ago I was looking through a calendar one of the local school's produced. It had pictures of students and their families. Half the pictures were single family households. Half. And that wasn't even a two generation difference. Going from no single family homes to half.
      When you are dealing with single parent households, when do you have the time to focus on life skills? Between school, homework, and extracurricular activities, there just isn't time in one person's day. And it is even worse if there is more than one child in the house.

    • @luckyloxion5303
      @luckyloxion5303 Před 3 lety

      Nice 😂

  • @Mr.Moments
    @Mr.Moments Před 3 lety +221

    Respect to this girl. She's putting in effort. Especially being raised by a single mother. 🙏

  • @patricenadeau7269
    @patricenadeau7269 Před 3 lety +46

    Thats the best conversation i have watch around. She was receptive and talkable, it gave him the opportinity to really teach something to someone and everyone without having to debate every little sentense.

    • @vivalaresistance2841
      @vivalaresistance2841 Před 3 lety +3

      At least someone else here realizes that and I like how she actually stopping and think, she really took things into consideration

  • @annilama123
    @annilama123 Před 3 lety +47

    She seems mad cool. I hope she finds the happiness we all are seeking.

  • @DizzKoMane
    @DizzKoMane Před 3 lety +387

    28:52 "You've got more education, you make more money but you do less with it and you're in a worse position"
    Modern women summarized

  • @isaiahjohnston5358
    @isaiahjohnston5358 Před 3 lety +484

    The lord blessed me with a good woman. We've been married for 17 years now, with two teenagers, and a very unexpected one on the way. It's definitely hard work just keeping your marriage in order. It has seemed to get easier, but there are some hard times behind us. You learn to pick, and choose your battles, and not get worked up over small things. We're fairly old-school though, I'd say, and I hope to take my last breath beside her.

    • @mentlinc
      @mentlinc Před 3 lety +43

      Spoken like a wise man. We cannot get caught up in the petty issues and derail the train to our final destinations. Stay the man. Stay in control. Stay together.

    • @robertlunderwood
      @robertlunderwood Před 3 lety +8

      You thought it was almost over and now you have to start all over again.

    • @blessed2994
      @blessed2994 Před 3 lety +12

      You will, just keep being the man God made you to be. Congrats!!!!!!

    • @buenosdiasrayodesol6843
      @buenosdiasrayodesol6843 Před 3 lety +8

      God bless you and your family . Keep up the good work.

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 Před 3 lety +3

      Awe🥰

  • @ericpowell4350
    @ericpowell4350 Před 3 lety +44

    These chicks have been living life on "Easy Mode" and then fall apart when someone increases the difficulty settings.

    • @YouFallenforit
      @YouFallenforit Před 2 lety +2

      Men: turns on adaptive difficulty for a challenge.
      Wemon: increasing difficulty? This is not fair where are may cheat codes.

  • @robertbrown5306
    @robertbrown5306 Před 3 lety +50

    I'm 43 years old and maybe I'm still stuck in another generation, but there is something that irks me when I hear a 24 year old call a 50 something year old man by his first name. Definitely a different time than the one I was brought up in.

    • @mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862
      @mrvisionaryseekinoftruth3862 Před 3 lety +1

      And we don't even have a time machine🤦

    • @lisa_turtle4310
      @lisa_turtle4310 Před 3 lety +8

      I think it’s his preference. When some callers do call him Mr. Samuels he tells them it’s not necessary.

    • @JaysWife
      @JaysWife Před 3 lety +3

      A little boy asked me my name and I said Ms. (First name). My 10 year old son corrected me and told the boy it's Mrs. (Last name). 😂😂😂 Excuse me, sir.

    • @danielmaldonado1074
      @danielmaldonado1074 Před 2 lety

      I’m 56 and I don’t call people Mr. or Mrs, So and So, I never did. Nor did I hear anyone my age expect to be called that. Most people respond with Mr. So and So is my father call me by my first make.

    • @wpsnick
      @wpsnick Před 2 lety

      I am 20 years old and I share your sentiments. Ughh maybe it’s the Nigerian in me that could absolutely never.

  • @asj7732
    @asj7732 Před 3 lety +303

    I myself have been in wife academy (learning from the married women in my life) the number one thing i have learned is to shut up 🤐 who would’ve thought that was a main ingredient lol

    • @DCBikerR1
      @DCBikerR1 Před 3 lety +21

      🤐 got you a 💍...... 💯✔️

    • @glitterglosshottie
      @glitterglosshottie Před 3 lety +59

      My grandma literally said that knowing when to 🤐 is the key to a happy, long lasting marriage. She was married 60 years till he passed away.

    • @vidard9863
      @vidard9863 Před 3 lety +30

      Honestly just wanting to BE married rather than GET married puts you head and shoulders over your competition.

    • @morphling337
      @morphling337 Před 3 lety +34

      Men are challenged all day. The literal last thing they need is being challenged more when they're trying to relax at home and recuperate, and yet that is when they get ambushed by girls like this and nagging. I'd rather be strapped in a Chinese prison getting dripping water tortured.

    • @NOYBZ
      @NOYBZ Před 3 lety +23

      Yes can't tell you how much I wish women would just stfu and listennnn

  • @chimerefaison9829
    @chimerefaison9829 Před 3 lety +390

    Sex, Sandwich and Silence got me a 5 carat upgrade, 6 years married👑👑....

    • @commandericeman8588
      @commandericeman8588 Před 3 lety +26

      But here is the larger question.... are you happy or satisfied serving your husband: sex, sandwich, silence?
      Many women are fearful they would be in absolute misery to have to "serve" their husband's in such a capacity in order to keep him happy and satisfied.
      They see this as a form of slavery, they see this as "extremely demeaning."

    • @chimerefaison9829
      @chimerefaison9829 Před 3 lety +112

      @@commandericeman8588 yes sir I'm happy and I enjoy serving my Husband daily and giving him P.R.A.I.S.E👑...Humility, Submission and Deep Respect are what God requires of the Wife, and I strive to become a better Wife everyday because He's watching...

    • @stevendunn2501
      @stevendunn2501 Před 3 lety +46

      It's really that simple for us men.

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 Před 3 lety +30

      That's wonderful sis, blessings to you and yours

    • @nyny1042
      @nyny1042 Před 3 lety +9

      Sir, you don't even have a wife let alone a ex wife. We don't think its slavery too care for your husband. We be obliged too.

  • @DearBlackAmericaWakeUp
    @DearBlackAmericaWakeUp Před 3 lety +40

    She was pleasant. Easy on the eyes and seems as if she’s just a good listener and engager. With a couple of wife skills she’ll be a keeper 💯

  • @SoulTooBeautiful
    @SoulTooBeautiful Před 3 lety +19

    Sex, sandwich, silence! lmfao I legit told this to my man last night and he couldn't stop laughing and ended with I cant lie that's a fact.

  • @antisfresh5387
    @antisfresh5387 Před 3 lety +300

    “Teach me how to be a wife” I don’t think I know any women who have made that request. Nor do I know any older women who have said “let me show you how to be a wife”

    • @Key_1111
      @Key_1111 Před 3 lety +13

      Exactly! That's what we need!

    • @tinylilmonster28
      @tinylilmonster28 Před 3 lety +15

      My mother taught me to be a wife. Funny enough watching how my father treated her and asking him questions on why he did the things he did. I believe both my parents gave me the lessons needed to be a good wife.

    • @antisfresh5387
      @antisfresh5387 Před 3 lety +5

      @@tinylilmonster28 what did she teach you?

    • @rachellejoachim2652
      @rachellejoachim2652 Před 3 lety +5

      Older women try not to talk to young folks about marriage especially religious folks.

    • @vidard9863
      @vidard9863 Před 3 lety +3

      Most of my friends are men old enough to be my father, their wives often try to talk to their daughters and their daughters friends. Women my age don't want to hear it.

  • @MickeyJaymz
    @MickeyJaymz Před 3 lety +318

    These modern women have to call Kevin to learn what men expect from them because their mothers won't tell them.

    • @issasamake9188
      @issasamake9188 Před 3 lety +21

      The mother does not know. You cant teach what you don't know.

    • @MickeyJaymz
      @MickeyJaymz Před 3 lety +11

      @@laqwannafranklin-caines4273 that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?

    • @MickeyJaymz
      @MickeyJaymz Před 3 lety +4

      @Christopher Surdak that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?

    • @MickeyJaymz
      @MickeyJaymz Před 3 lety +3

      that makes sense. So, without the knowledge, what makes marriage so appealing? Is it a fantasy lifestyle to them?

    • @jasonBGI
      @jasonBGI Před 3 lety +11

      @@MickeyJaymz yes. And once the bubble pops on the fantasy and they realize that actual work, sacrifice, patience and forgiveness is required...they're out. Why do you think that 80%of divorces are initiated by these fefails?

  • @nikkonikko6422
    @nikkonikko6422 Před rokem +5

    46:00 😮 she even played along!
    I think she has potential, she realized she needs to change, she has a good attitude, listened most of the time, quick witted, smart enough, nice voice, easy on the eyes, and child like even the way she said bye and waved him a bye. With some self work and guidance she might do just fine

  • @SonofGod1980
    @SonofGod1980 Před 3 lety +23

    She is pretty smart for her age, she should find a good man.

  • @walterhunteriii1872
    @walterhunteriii1872 Před 3 lety +295

    They really don’t understand the sacrifices it takes to reach a goal. They just expect every man to be at the finish line.

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      @Just1n-Rhodes Před 3 lety

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    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane Před 3 lety +44

      ☝🏾flag this clown

    • @walterhunteriii1872
      @walterhunteriii1872 Před 3 lety +12

      @@DizzKoMane facts BIG REPORTED

    • @Charlay_Charlay
      @Charlay_Charlay Před 3 lety +2

      Factual.

  • @millyionnnn
    @millyionnnn Před 3 lety +547

    This is a perfect example of the older single mother not teaching her daughter to become a wife and the younger daughter clearly recognizing it. These conversation are needed!

    • @shaunkey9374
      @shaunkey9374 Před 3 lety +24

      Yea this convo was needed. I think she has the potential to be a good wife tho. She has the right mindset and she’s willing to learn how to be a wife.

    • @roolyfe
      @roolyfe Před 3 lety +5

      Exactly. So sad 😞 this is what to choose from🤪

    • @theleslieandrea
      @theleslieandrea Před 3 lety +7

      @@shaunkey9374 thank you! I believe I do as well and I'm working on it :)

    • @hananfetwy7230
      @hananfetwy7230 Před 3 lety +4

      @Felicia Wu serious question what are wife skills because whenever people say cooking and cleaning that’s dismissed as something everyone does

    • @LaDominicana2011
      @LaDominicana2011 Před 3 lety +10

      @@hananfetwy7230 here are some of the things I do as a wife & mom: cook breakfast lunch & dinner, prepare lunch for him for work, clean the house, grocery shopping, take care of everybody in the house when they’re sick, laundry, I pick up his meds because he’ll forget, etc AND I work a full time job. Being a wife is a lot of work and I only stop when I’m ready to go to bed. Most days I’m tired but I love my family. Anyone who says they want marriage for just love and companionship is in for a rude awakening. BTW I’m Dominican and 50 and this is how we were raised so it’s nothing new.

  • @daaiyahmuhammad7721
    @daaiyahmuhammad7721 Před 3 lety +20

    This was very good! So much relearning we have to do as women especially if the goal is to be someone's wife

  • @jimmyvila4443
    @jimmyvila4443 Před 3 lety +14

    It’s good she spoke to Kevin to really open her mine and speak truth if she continues building herself as a valuable women she is going to do just fine and live a happy life!

  • @murraywestenskow2896
    @murraywestenskow2896 Před 3 lety +313

    The truth of Kevin's message - is reflected in the growth of his subscriber base. Dude might be the hottest thing on CZcams - he's killing it. 26 million views in the last 30 days.

    • @jackfrost8600
      @jackfrost8600 Před 3 lety +7

      This the type of content we need on these platforms yet these ticky tockers and they new challenges gots ppl f"dd up 😅 no wonder shitts all messed up

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia Před 3 lety +7

      @@jackfrost8600 When you posted your comment, he had 700k subs. Now, he has 1.05 million, and rapidly climbing.

    • @iexist6021
      @iexist6021 Před rokem

      It’s a shame. The powers that shouldn’t be murder the black men with big platforms who lift up their communities. May The Most High bring swift judgement to those who took Kevin’s life.

  • @jonathanmarvens
    @jonathanmarvens Před 3 lety +573

    Every segment and stream, Kevin proves to us yet again why we, as Black men, must do everything in our power to protect him. Where else do you see anyone telling our stories like this and not holding back?
    This might sound corny, but the level of appreciation I have for this brotha is hard to describe
    Thank you, Kevin. Thank you!

    • @jcking2589
      @jcking2589 Před 3 lety +40

      Corny or not, We all feel the same way. From 19 to 69

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens Před 3 lety +47

      *To future commenters:* Ignore the Lina Mason troll above. They’re under comments across a bunch of Kevin’s videos looking to create disruption. Don’t bite

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze Před 3 lety +29

      As a white dude i feel the same.

    • @He2saved
      @He2saved Před 3 lety +13

      @Lina Mason I guess showing appreciation makes u a lil girl in 2021

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens Před 3 lety +27

      @@He2saved I told you don’t bite . . . smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @yaariyorba6698
    @yaariyorba6698 Před 2 lety +4

    Watching these women speak makes me appreciate my grandmother so much 🤗 she raised me, and at 10 yrs old she taught me how to clean, cook, sew, iron, hand wash and all that old school stuff! Tbh, I hated doing all those things at 10yrs old lol, but she always told me that in order to get a good husband, I needed all those skills! I got married at 25, my husband provides for me, took me outta work, and I make sure he comes home to a clean, peaceful house, dinner, clean clothes, and lunch for work everyday! We are 3 yrs strong and a whole lifetime to go! There are good men out there, ladies! We just gotta put in the work too!

  • @MrThenry1988
    @MrThenry1988 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Home economics in school has not been taught for so long. Starting to show up.

  • @AfroCentauri
    @AfroCentauri Před 3 lety +507

    “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭21:9‬ ‭NKJV‬‬
    Remember that when you chase these models. I get it. Go for what attracts you but understand looks means nothing if those looks don’t come with peace.

    • @tswagg504
      @tswagg504 Před 3 lety +63

      Period, this is why a woman’s looks no longer impress me until I get to see her character.

    • @jcking2589
      @jcking2589 Před 3 lety +73

      These Corners in the housetop starting to feel reeeal comfy 😂😂 shiii

    • @AfroCentauri
      @AfroCentauri Před 3 lety +14

      @@jcking2589 😂😂😂😂

    • @thenaughtyamericanexpat
      @thenaughtyamericanexpat Před 3 lety +15

      @@jcking2589 🤣 Yep, for REAL.

    • @libertybelllocks7476
      @libertybelllocks7476 Před 3 lety +13

      @@jcking2589 you got an extra corner king? lol

  • @imtheprize
    @imtheprize Před 3 lety +207

    "I don't want no City Girl Summer. That's not me" I love that.

    • @blacckylo
      @blacckylo Před 2 lety +1

      Lmfaoooo suuurreee

    • @whatever7588
      @whatever7588 Před 2 lety

      She sure looks allot more than thru than these “city gurls”

    • @lareh5501
      @lareh5501 Před 2 lety

      Yet she got a music video singing, "I got that ooo ooo ooo." 🤦‍♂️

    • @Noflexing100
      @Noflexing100 Před 10 měsíci

      Not wanting to be a 304 is actually celebrated. That’s sad. That was the norm before. Now you’re saying you love that…

  • @DonnyOTheProducer
    @DonnyOTheProducer Před 3 lety +11

    Hey Kevin.. u put that career earning in perspective for me.. wow That changed my whole thought process I APPRECIATE YOU BIG DOG!!

  • @savannaghhartwell5106
    @savannaghhartwell5106 Před 3 lety +23

    It used to be so hard to listen to him because I wasn’t ready to be a wife now I’m in shock on how lost I was 🙈

    • @vivalaresistance2841
      @vivalaresistance2841 Před 3 lety +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 good for you, shows how much you have grown and takes a big woman to admit that.
      I realized the people who hate him, resent him and angry at him, they're not ready to let go of childish ideologies and disnefied beliefs and step into the natural flow of life.

    • @jaymioff2470
      @jaymioff2470 Před 3 lety +1

      I love your story. My only hope is that more women would take head to his message. God bless our women.

  • @coachnickens6652
    @coachnickens6652 Před 3 lety +134

    "You got to love a man to be willing to do what you already should know" Sheesh This man is profound.

  • @adriennobel
    @adriennobel Před 3 lety +350

    This is a nice woman. She just needs good company around her. I can see she'll willing to learn and be cooperative.

    • @NEWJERSEY_K
      @NEWJERSEY_K Před 3 lety +12

      Facts 💯......she definitely got potential.....she has the listening factor which is a huge plus to us men

    • @kijana2030
      @kijana2030 Před 3 lety +7

      I'm afraid she fooled you. This is a walking nightmare!

    • @coreytumulty816
      @coreytumulty816 Před 3 lety +7

      @@kijana2030 facts. She tried her best to act different. But the mask slipped. A lot of people confuse waiting to respond with listening.

    • @kijana2030
      @kijana2030 Před 3 lety +2

      @@coreytumulty816 agreed 💯 . Listening to understand is very difficult. I have to constantly remind myself.

    • @SERIALlxSERENDIPITY
      @SERIALlxSERENDIPITY Před 3 lety +1

      @@kijana2030 lol cause all she gonna do is argue with you, under the guise of listening.

  • @toradora1439
    @toradora1439 Před rokem +7

    This was probably one of the best endings ive seen. Wish we could get a follow up with this girl to see if she took Kevin's advice to heart, rest his soul.

    • @iexist6021
      @iexist6021 Před rokem

      I think she’s gonna do well for herself and her future husband.

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Před 3 lety +8

    Nice to see and hear an intelligent young woman accepting accurate information from Kevin. I’m older and female and my mother and grandmother taught me as a young girl NOTHING. MY mother cooked but we were not allowed in the kitchen to learn how to cook bc she said it made her nervous.

  • @lovely.helpmate
    @lovely.helpmate Před 3 lety +384

    Whew I’m so grateful for my husband.. im a stay at home mom with our son, 21 years old .. he provides so much for us and I’m so happy we truly love one another .. he’s 22.., he married me when I was 19 .

    • @metronome7799
      @metronome7799 Před 3 lety +95

      Damn you're a rare one. As long as you're keeping his balls empty, his stomach full, being nurturing and feminine and raising the kids right in an inviting home environment, that's all a man needs to conquer the world. He'll naturally reciprocate when you're doing what you're meant to do. I wish you two a great marriage and a happy life together :)

    • @31kiloradioraven63
      @31kiloradioraven63 Před 3 lety +26

      Congrats and may GOD bless the both of you and your children.

    • @josealexi5141
      @josealexi5141 Před 3 lety +24

      Sounds great (so far), but then so do the 60% of marriages that fail. The next 5 years will tell and your role as wife will be PIVITOL to the success or failure of your union.

    • @rachellejoachim2652
      @rachellejoachim2652 Před 3 lety +8

      wow! He was prepared early.

    • @bernelrichardson1752
      @bernelrichardson1752 Před 3 lety +4

      Thank God for another one keep up the good work..make home a pleasurr to come to..love..respect..appreciation..never take him for granted..keep your marriage and ur man...God will bless both of you

  • @kennyking4554
    @kennyking4554 Před 3 lety +130

    I'm on my 10th shot in less than a min of me counting the number of times she said "i feel like".
    Now "I feel like" throwing up!

  • @ceelothatmane9421
    @ceelothatmane9421 Před 3 lety +12

    Men my age are marriage minded. My whole friend group is in 20-22 range and we’re all marriage minded. I’m on the verge of getting married myself

  • @shawndavis9221
    @shawndavis9221 Před 3 lety +4

    Yes! A definite 4 to 5 years! There's soooo much to learn, (about yourself, life, others, communication, compromise, long term relationship lifestyle, juggling home, children, husband, friends, family, personal interest, careers, personal beliefs, money challenges, etc. on and on and on and on......)

  • @gregoryguerrier963
    @gregoryguerrier963 Před 3 lety +231

    This girl is going to be successful someday. Even though she's not ready yet she definitely has the right mindset.

    • @kijana2030
      @kijana2030 Před 3 lety +5

      Successful doing what exactly?

    • @gregoryguerrier963
      @gregoryguerrier963 Před 3 lety +25

      @@kijana2030 the fact that she's able to reflect on the poor decisions that she's made in the past and that she's actively seeking for answers on how to reach the goals that she wants in life shows me that at least she's taking the first step towards being successful in life. Most people can't even look themselves in the mirror realistically. I used to be the same way until I got tired of not having the results I wanted in my life.

    • @candace27co
      @candace27co Před 3 lety +6

      @@gregoryguerrier963 facts! Well said

    • @kijana2030
      @kijana2030 Před 3 lety +6

      @@gregoryguerrier963 Understood my brother. 👊

    • @gregoryguerrier963
      @gregoryguerrier963 Před 3 lety +4

      @@kijana2030 👊

  • @billwayne6775
    @billwayne6775 Před 3 lety +219

    Kevin really running a soap opera. Last night was intense and he’s back for more 😂😂

    • @nyny1042
      @nyny1042 Před 3 lety +10

      Last nite was a show!!!

  • @marcellowheeler88
    @marcellowheeler88 Před 3 lety +6

    That silence one seems to be very hard for alot of women. Some can't help themselves but nag or talk her man's head off the moment he walks in the house from work.

  • @myrajiles8856
    @myrajiles8856 Před 3 lety

    Im so glad that you ask these tough questions its really helping the rest of us! Ty

  • @TheDCGuitar13
    @TheDCGuitar13 Před 3 lety +354

    You ever notice when Kevin asks what they bring to the table and want out of marriage, none of it is ever about the man? It’s always what the man can do for them. It’s as if they think we should consider ourselves lucky to even get looked at.

    • @thenaughtyamericanexpat
      @thenaughtyamericanexpat Před 3 lety +16

      💯

    • @alizway772
      @alizway772 Před 3 lety +16

      Thats a fizzzzact

    • @SSingh-nr8qz
      @SSingh-nr8qz Před 3 lety +35

      That is the clear sign of a person NOT ready to get married and I have been marred for 23 years. When you get married, it's a partnership of what each person brings to the table that they can't on their own or with great cost. It's about reaching life goals and sharing life's changes together because both people know they helped each other get there. I take pride in helping my wife succeed, and she enjoys helping me reach my goals. One way relationships are doomed for failure. Know what you bring to the table and deliver. The worst is also misleading, such as cooking or doing things while you are dating, and stopping it after marriage.

    • @royalmac1011
      @royalmac1011 Před 3 lety +27

      This the product of Instagram. Think they are worth so much because horny dudes in the dm.

    • @TheRealAnswer23
      @TheRealAnswer23 Před 3 lety +19

      Kevin said the magic word last week and it's not going to be lost: DUTY.
      Modern women are either ignorant of or fully refusing to perform THEIR DUTY to men.

  • @ShayLamere
    @ShayLamere Před 3 lety +122

    This the one to make me tear up. This is a scary reality for me & so many of us! Someone open up wife schools ASAP!

    • @RudyPalos
      @RudyPalos Před 3 lety +13

      Womp womp. I hear Retrievers are nice🦮

    • @mikemccurtis4904
      @mikemccurtis4904 Před 3 lety +2

      @@RudyPalos 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

    • @glowblank17
      @glowblank17 Před 2 lety +4

      @Shay Lamere,
      *Get on yo’ knees n’ get busy 💦 👀!*

    • @mak.lee_pnw5098
      @mak.lee_pnw5098 Před 2 lety +5

      Ask a wife who's been happily married, not unhappily married.

    • @degrerickjenkins1617
      @degrerickjenkins1617 Před 2 lety

      Marriage is also not the answer you being a woman to know a woman is always looking whether she is married or not that’s the whole point of procreation you are searching for the best possible option meaning the best situation, and genetics. Marriage only benefits preachers marriage chapels government organizations etc. marriage is not a natural action in the natural response someone being forced to stay with one person or a voice in themselves to stay with the person is to leave or cheat on that person there is nothing that will stop nature at the end

  • @chaosbalanced
    @chaosbalanced Před 2 lety

    Thank you Kevin and Ladies that call in !

  • @JoeBlack540
    @JoeBlack540 Před 2 lety +3

    KS is droppin' science 💯. Wishing this young woman the best , very refreshing live stream.

  • @richardsmith878
    @richardsmith878 Před 3 lety +243

    I never heard my parents or grand parents or any other group of people say that they are working on themselves. Blk folks, we be 30, 40, and 50 years old still talking about we working on ourselves🧑‍🔧👩‍🔧 🤷

  • @CARPETMAN-zj9iv
    @CARPETMAN-zj9iv Před 3 lety +460

    Women: I want a good-looking young man with a lot of money and hopefully he's a celebrity.
    Men: next

    • @theleslieandrea
      @theleslieandrea Před 3 lety +7

      who the hell said that? NOT ME.

    • @CARPETMAN-zj9iv
      @CARPETMAN-zj9iv Před 3 lety +26

      @@theleslieandrea but you will they all do

    • @KeepinItOneHunnnid
      @KeepinItOneHunnnid Před 3 lety +33

      @@theleslieandrea, you still not getting it yet? We don't care about subjectivity or exceptions to the rule anymore. *You* might not, but this is how the *majority* of millennial and zoomer generation BW think and if that's the case we gon' talk about it.

    • @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs4545
      @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs4545 Před 3 lety +8

      @@theleslieandrea u held it dwn for da Cap City 804💪🏾 u gon be alright just keep listening to da godfather 😎

    • @JohnDoe-gc1kt
      @JohnDoe-gc1kt Před 3 lety +6

      @@theleslieandrea is this you in the video? If it is please ignore Kevin about your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with two young people getting married and preparing for a family without money. Get a solid foundation started. What Kevin told you to do is wrong and part of the problem younger women are skipping over young men their age who have potential. If the guy you are with has potential for success and you guys are in love theres nothing wrong with that. Again Kevin was completely wrong for telling you he can't get married because he's broke. I wish you success.

  • @caipirinha_king1632
    @caipirinha_king1632 Před 3 lety +5

    By far the best interview that I’ve seen… There was so much relative and relatable information. This woman on the surface is everything that most women twice her age aren’t.
    There’s two present generations of women who do not want to live the lives that their mothers and grandmothers had by committing to long term relationships from dating to the grave…. But want the financial security while conducting their selves in a manner to ruin what they have had or some never will have…

  • @BigShrimpin416
    @BigShrimpin416 Před 2 lety +2

    I never understood why they took home economics out of the school curriculum. That was a big mistake.

  • @SharpshooterSensei
    @SharpshooterSensei Před 3 lety +434

    "You ladies want the resources of an older man in a younger package." That man be spitting🔥🔥🔥

    • @gipgap4
      @gipgap4 Před 3 lety +44

      Because women don’t want to build with a man anymore. They want an oven ready guy who’s already on an executive level.

    • @mj3433
      @mj3433 Před 3 lety +23

      @@gipgap4 It doesn’t do anything for a woman to build with a man. They will just trade her in for the better options he will have after she’s helped him build.

    • @industriesofintelligence2236
      @industriesofintelligence2236 Před 3 lety +11

      @@mj3433 this is not true, women are looking for ways to better themselves financially without doing the work

    • @ShermanWilliamsVideo
      @ShermanWilliamsVideo Před 3 lety +24

      @@gipgap4 women wait at the finish line, they aren’t trying to run the race with you.

    • @mj3433
      @mj3433 Před 3 lety +7

      @@industriesofintelligence2236 It’s not a woman’s job to “do the work” and help a man build, and it is true. Men are not staying with the woman that helped him build, when he has access to women he didn’t before.

  • @KaraiWilliams
    @KaraiWilliams Před 3 lety +188

    the end is so funny because he's telling her "more silence" but she literally cannot stop talking

    • @akfields15
      @akfields15 Před 3 lety +13

      Got me screaming, "SILENCE".

    • @kyleflournoy7730
      @kyleflournoy7730 Před 3 lety +11

      Not only that, but every time he said silence she got LOUDER to agree with him. She was consistently on the 'I'm not like other girls' energy, even though that exact idea and energy is preciselyy what makes her like all the other girls.

    • @S1MONPHOEN1X
      @S1MONPHOEN1X Před 3 lety +7

      For real.. The silence part is gonna be too hard for her to do.

    • @theleslieandrea
      @theleslieandrea Před 3 lety

      I couldn’t 😭😭

    • @morphling337
      @morphling337 Před 3 lety +4

      I started laughing my ass off. ABSOLUTELY hopeless.

  • @pigskinportal
    @pigskinportal Před 3 lety +8

    This was actually a good conversation!

  • @iexist6021
    @iexist6021 Před rokem +2

    One of the highest value women he’s interviewed. Cute, feminine, patient, cooperative and eager to learn.

  • @callmeifyougetlost2079
    @callmeifyougetlost2079 Před 3 lety +122

    My mother who grew up in Japan said almost all classes in school were to teach women how to be a homemaker/wife.

    • @michaelmfwayne
      @michaelmfwayne Před 3 lety +4

      Japan is done. They have one of the lowest birthrates in the world. Their older generation is dying off faster than they can replace them. Their culture, their genetics, will be completely wiped out in a handful of generations. You can't come back when you allow your birthrates to fall to the degree some of these countries have. The west is general isn't far behind. The ones driving the global population are the countries with extreme poverty and no birth control.

    • @gouloune1
      @gouloune1 Před 2 lety +4

      Is that why women are choosing to remain single and Japan has a negative birthrate

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 Před 2 lety +4

      @@gouloune1 nope thats due to the work culture and its not women refusing anything it's men tapping out of the game. the women there WANT children and love. Take it from someone who knows Japanese women who live in Japan

    • @leonhenry4861
      @leonhenry4861 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Bayo106 one of my homies has a Japanese wife, he lives in Japan now. The men are tapping out because shit is expensive. We can’t all earn 6 figures otherwise it wouldn’t be the 1%

    • @christinevillanueva54
      @christinevillanueva54 Před rokem

      @@Bayo106 and probably women outnumber men so that's an issue.

  • @longbeachmaumba7059
    @longbeachmaumba7059 Před 3 lety +602

    If you gave her a thug right now all her so called standards would go right out the window.

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane Před 3 lety +40

      💯

    • @TuBella14
      @TuBella14 Před 3 lety +22

      ‼️

    • @jcking2589
      @jcking2589 Před 3 lety +29

      On G

    • @longbeachmaumba7059
      @longbeachmaumba7059 Před 3 lety +111

      @@henryhall2403
      Not necessarily. I seen them choose a broke, in and out of jail, pants sagging gang banger with nothing going for himself and they will let him lay up rent free until he goes back to jail and then they'll repeat the process.

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze Před 3 lety +37

      Thats how it is, they will break the mold for the right guy

  • @visualizecreate2530
    @visualizecreate2530 Před rokem +2

    This was a great convo.

  • @lewismartin9980
    @lewismartin9980 Před 2 lety +2

    Great conversation sad Rip my brother will be sadly miss.

  • @ericjohnson4792
    @ericjohnson4792 Před 3 lety +293

    Man Kevin is such a sharp dude. I’ve noticed that every time a woman tries to over talk him he’s got them all to apologize and be quiet. Hey ladies he’s teaching you and most of you don’t even realize it. I say this to say practice it at home with your dude. I bet you’ll get a difference in how he acts. Oh yeah and sex sandwich and silence. The recipe

  • @RealHughFlynt
    @RealHughFlynt Před 3 lety +506

    EVERYBODY want to go to Heaven but don't NOBODY want to D!E 💥💯

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      @Just1n-Rhodes Před 3 lety +2

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    • @frozentundra7446
      @frozentundra7446 Před 3 lety +1

      Oorah - Rodger that!

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 Před 3 lety +2

      " " -- Michael Scott

    • @d.t.williams5034
      @d.t.williams5034 Před 3 lety +5

      This is literally the quote of the year thus far....

  • @conwellkid
    @conwellkid Před 3 lety +13

    She's beautiful, open minded accepting of reality while giving some push back to keep things interesting. Not into social media aware of traditions while being a wife in a new age...shit if she's taken his advice I'm down to grow with her lol

  • @qurronfranklin9056
    @qurronfranklin9056 Před 2 lety +2

    Yup that is why I geared my daughter to the S.T.E.M field. 23 degree in MATHEMATICS and Computer Science already making 75k. Plus Her 2nd mom and I trained her to know how to take care of her husband. Cooking,cleaning, speaking, negotiating, and running the finances. Her partner told her he will wait for her to be ready and now they are building a life. But we taught her all this so she will have options because some men F up and she still will be an option for a good man. She keep herself up and make sure they eat healthy to have best quality of life. I pray for my children but also prepared them for life and not a life alone. And that goes for my daughter and sons.

  • @shanishay9713
    @shanishay9713 Před 3 lety +154

    For all the older women who are housewife can you guys trying to start a CZcams channel teaching younger women please ❤️❤️❤️

    • @b1121
      @b1121 Před 3 lety +8

      NollaGirl504 channel and Our Rich Journey channel.

    • @Akon180
      @Akon180 Před 3 lety +9

      I agree; i just hope the unmarried women take heed to their advice.

    • @successtosignificance
      @successtosignificance Před 3 lety +47

      I tried since I have been married over 30 years but the women were so mean and nasty I got discouraged... I believed I was called to teach in 2018 and copyrighted my information... as I presented it to groups and even close “friends” they stopped talking to me and taking my calls... Ms Shay you have made me rethink my calling...please pray for me 🙏🏾

    • @Akon180
      @Akon180 Před 3 lety +25

      @@successtosignificance Please don't give up on them. We(men) will support your channel.

    • @justinw2232
      @justinw2232 Před 3 lety +34

      Being a housewife or feminine, in the traditional sense, is pushed as being oppressed these days by the modern Left who control culture and media. That's the major problem.

  • @AD24716
    @AD24716 Před 3 lety +202

    Kevin is really putting in the work.

    • @sylvesterhurt447
      @sylvesterhurt447 Před 3 lety +1

      Gods work... yes.

    • @kamekings
      @kamekings Před 3 lety +1

      Godfather ty. Honestly last night was hard for me. The fact you keep working. Made me get off my ass on my weekend and do some work.

    • @ryanphillips5591
      @ryanphillips5591 Před 3 lety

      Kevin went hard this video

  • @lamontxfornow7990
    @lamontxfornow7990 Před 2 lety

    I love watching KS school these ladies. I’m trucking KS I need more of these shorter video’s so I have time to watch more.

  • @juliussonny8704
    @juliussonny8704 Před 2 lety +3

    This was a great episode!

  • @incogneato6725
    @incogneato6725 Před 3 lety +210

    I met my wife when she was 15. She knew how to sew, she could bake bread, she babysat and loved little kids a ton. She was smart and focused on doing well in school. She was preparing to become a wife and mother and it showed. It put her so far ahead of all the shallow girls around her who were only interested in where the best deals on clothes were and what concerts were coming up.

    • @traceycurtis1005
      @traceycurtis1005 Před 3 lety +27

      I was just about to say all the girls that grew up learning how to be a wife and a mother get snatched up quick and are married by their early twenties.

    • @incogneato6725
      @incogneato6725 Před 3 lety +45

      Yup, she was 19 when we married, and I didn't have a job or a car even, but I had prepared to be a father and husband. I was in university preparing for a career. She worked and help put me through school, then I worked and she stayed home and raised our kids. It took a lot of sacrifice (no 6 figures here) but it worked. When the youngest was old enough, she went back to school, got her degree, now she has a good career too. A woman can have it all, but she has to do the marriage/kids part first, then the career part after. A 40 year old woman doesn't have the energy to keep up with toddlers but a woman in her 20s does.

    • @saninkontron925
      @saninkontron925 Před 3 lety +2

      You lucky man !

    • @GQ-nb7rx
      @GQ-nb7rx Před 2 lety +1

      Sounds like you guys were in a wagon train trying to go West to dig for gold. She know how to bake bread over rocks and sticks. You Lucky man. Keep her pregnant and bare foot, you Fool!

    • @mellowvalentine9354
      @mellowvalentine9354 Před 2 lety +1

      And how old were you?

  • @SNAB1987
    @SNAB1987 Před 3 lety +200

    What’s funny is IK we’ve tried to have these convos with our women but they don’t want to hear this. They listen to him because he has this stature. Sheesh.

    • @dickmarx1298
      @dickmarx1298 Před 3 lety +43

      It's everywhere dude.
      She refuses to listen to any man that isn't of a certain pedigree if you will.
      I've had women in my life denounce what I tell them and when a man she respects 5 ft away says the same thing all of a sudden it's okay.
      You know what I'm talking about.

    • @TOAOM123
      @TOAOM123 Před 3 lety +14

      Its because they have YOU
      They don't have HIM

    • @gpsoftsk1
      @gpsoftsk1 Před 3 lety +14

      But you don't make the same money as Kevin and you are younger, so they don't take you seriously.

    • @smokenojoke8182
      @smokenojoke8182 Před 3 lety +22

      I told my girl the reason we are constantly arguing is because she has a masculine personality....instead of taking constructive criticism and working on it...she got upset and started cussing like a sailor...she’s now my ex🤷🏾

    • @donaldr.risner9579
      @donaldr.risner9579 Před 3 lety +7

      Any of us arguing against modern women their only comeback is “if you’re broke just say that” LMAO

  • @alanadrienne8870
    @alanadrienne8870 Před 2 lety

    I needed these kind of information for sooooo long. Thank you

  • @360Moan
    @360Moan Před 2 lety +3

    I think we can all agree that this was one of the better episodes.. bravo 24 y.o. You’re gonna make it!

  • @DarylLII
    @DarylLII Před 3 lety +112

    Im Glad I was Able To Ride The Wave From 35-45k to 700k

    • @Double0Kane
      @Double0Kane Před 3 lety

      Your so-called personal win a puzzling🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @DarylLII
      @DarylLII Před 3 lety +12

      @@Double0Kane Im Glad You Thought My Comment Was Worthy Of Your Flat Joke On A Saturday.. Do You Really Have Nothin Else To Do? That's Just Cringe..

    • @Double0Kane
      @Double0Kane Před 3 lety +1

      @@DarylLII I'm rich...Like really rich not fake it til you make it rich like retired at 28 Rich😤.... all I do is talk shit & troll people...Then go swimming in my in house pool🤣🤣🤣🤣So nope I don't!

    • @DarylLII
      @DarylLII Před 3 lety +2

      @@Double0Kane You Know What... I Fucks With You Bruh...Im Not Even Mad Atchu... Respect

    • @Double0Kane
      @Double0Kane Před 3 lety +1

      @@DarylLII & That's how we learn😆

  • @delanobeek
    @delanobeek Před 3 lety +71

    Why he slapped her 3 times at the end? “Silence!” - SLAP 👋. “Silence” - SLAP 👋, “Silence” - SLAP 👋 !!! I was in tears 😭

    • @RednalPR
      @RednalPR Před 3 lety +12

      Then she started to act like she enjoyed being slapped !!! That got me ... lmao!!!!

    • @JP_AZ
      @JP_AZ Před 3 lety

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @erichchan3
      @erichchan3 Před 2 lety

      Its the Count from Sesame Street pimp slapping her....1..2...3 ...3 slaps ha ha ha

  • @gracedavis5587
    @gracedavis5587 Před 3 lety

    This was soo awesome! Loved this Duo, they were a great match. I have personally Learned alot from this

  • @Laaction
    @Laaction Před rokem +1

    As a young man this video and channel saves me years of headache heartache , confusion and trial and error . So good!

  • @alexanderokpoko3450
    @alexanderokpoko3450 Před 3 lety +112

    In Africa you start learning how to be a wife and mother as early as 5 years. I recall my elder sisters taking care of me when I was little

    • @mr.boakye4949
      @mr.boakye4949 Před 3 lety +2

      @Alexander that tide of being a wife & mother conversation is shifting

    • @lennarthomas
      @lennarthomas Před 3 lety

      @@mr.boakye4949 what do you mean?

    • @lennarthomas
      @lennarthomas Před 3 lety

      Nice story man

    • @mr.boakye4949
      @mr.boakye4949 Před 3 lety +4

      @@lennarthomas I mean modern parents in Africa are mostly not teaching their kids about marital duties & responsibilities

    • @lennarthomas
      @lennarthomas Před 3 lety +5

      @@mr.boakye4949 oh wow that sucks feminism is spreading everyone

  • @holafceja
    @holafceja Před 3 lety +152

    12:20
    "You gotta love a man to be willing to do what you should already know"
    Damn

  • @mrbless7704
    @mrbless7704 Před 3 lety

    Wow… I am really loving your broadcast . Great advice!

  • @danikindle73
    @danikindle73 Před 2 lety

    KS playbook to greatness Together!

  • @jaredbraggs1
    @jaredbraggs1 Před 3 lety +192

    Oh she was a sweet heart just trying to learn something. He took alot of time with her cause he saw something in her.

    • @MD-xb1qw
      @MD-xb1qw Před 3 lety +31

      She’s no sweet heart. She has an orbiter boyfriend from 7th grade and “dated” a dude 10 years older. These women are slick. Not sweet.

    • @mr.worldfree3333
      @mr.worldfree3333 Před 3 lety +14

      @@MD-xb1qw that is why Kevin is trying to teach her.

    • @jaredbraggs1
      @jaredbraggs1 Před 3 lety +5

      @@MD-xb1qw yes but he was taking time to teach her though. Her eyes are open now, hard not to see things once they are.

    • @mar-jax9341
      @mar-jax9341 Před 3 lety +11

      It's going in 1 ear and out the other. She talks entirely too much. She's annoying

    • @jaredbraggs1
      @jaredbraggs1 Před 3 lety +5

      @James Brown I wouldn't say 95. Problem is the ones that are not worthy are the most vocal and annoying and always in your face. The good ones aren't in certain places and don't call attention to themselves in a negative way. Plus those women usually get snatched up pretty quick and aren't checking for us regular dudes. Lol