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Imagine how a man would describe-> Staying home with his family, all bills paid etc. Men literally work their ENTIRE lives (many times until death) hoping to have some time at the end to enjoy the family he financed for 40 yrs+. She she says -> Slave. Smh. More like -> Freedom.
can’t make this shit up 😂
It's sad.
Hi...after what you said here ...if your single, you won't be for long...😁...Hugs from the Bigbear! Thank you for posting!
@@No1Bigbear - Thx Big Bear. I just celebrated my 10 yr Wedding Anniversary. (13 total) More here to relish in the “I told you so’s.” -> I’ve been told I did it wrong ALL my life (Still am) so this is extra entertaining. 👀🙂
My father started working when he was 20 years old he married my mom when he was 23. He worked all his life until he passed at 52 years old. when he died he left my mom property, cars, huge amount of cash, insurance cash etc... so imagine a woman like this dumb chick come out of nowhere and call my mom a slave for being married to man who spent his whole life working and didn’t even have the opportunity to enjoy the money that he made during his lifetime? 🤦🏿♂️
She doesn’t respect her father so she’ll never respect her man.
This comment should be pinned
Big facts. It starts in the home.
Facts
I'm sure her mom was ear hustling her because she's the only girl. My mother in law never talked down on my wife's father or step father, so she has respect for me, her dad and her stepdad.
Even worse, she'd come into a new relationship with a child (or two) and look down on the new guy expected to take 'em all as a package deal...
As a flight attendant, she is willing to serve hundreds of total strangers, but is unwilling to serve her husband and children, whom she "loves".
RIGHT!
Bingo!!!
I guess since you put it that way. true also
Very astute. You are definitely a smart cookie🙂
Billionaire comment right here!👍🏾💯🤝🏾
I married a hard working farmer who works up to 22 hours p day during harvest season and he depends on me to take care of the house, kids , have his clothes clean and have meals and snacks ready … it’s my privilege to serve him and my kids … feeding the world ! It’s an honour to be under such a great leader like my husband. It isn’t slavery , it’s an honour
Your a gem. I use to work 16 hrs a day 5 days a week. And my wife would expect me to come home and still do everything while she sat there after sitting on her ass answering phones all day while I did hard Manuel labour
Mam, you are beyond a rare breed! You'll live longer, your children will be successful and your husband will cherish you! God bless you both 🙏🏽
Good for you Jan and good for your husband!
lies. no1 works 22h a day.
Dang, do you have any sisters?? Keep doing what you doing!
they always mishear "dress size?"
Because women are deceptive. They are liars.
They pause when asked that question because they are deciding on a lie.
“I don’t want to look sick” really means “losing weight is too hard so I’ve tricked myself into thinking it’s ok to be fat”.
That's exactly what it means
I suggested a sista lift some weights. I got back “I dont want all those muscles” any excuse will do.
she weights more than 170 and is bigger than a size 10. She lying
Right! Lots of women, especially black women, have deluded themselves into thinking being fat is healthy and normal. It ain't.
i cant wrap my head around how being a healthy weight looks "sick" compared to being visibly overweight
Feminist mentality:
Working 40+ hours a week for a boss who would fire you without a second thought: Freedom
Building a home for a man who loves you and caring for children who can't imagine the world without you: Slavery
The most underrated comment on social media
Slave???. BLESSED.
5'7" 175....I don't want to look sick...you are supposed to weigh between 120 and 140. You could lose 50 lbs and not look sick. Newsflash 67 inches tall and 175 doesn't wear a size 10 anything accept shoe. She's a men large and at least a size 14 to 16. Delusional Narcissist are gross.
Lie white men sold to our women.
Drop 🎤
The death of this man is the biggest loss of the Black and every other community!! 😢😢😢precious advice 🙌🏼
You're real for that 💯
He died in his prime good woman So that all could see his greatness, immortalised for our benefit.
Praise be.
They think he was harsh when in reality he was their biggest supporter, telling them they are better than this BS programming they have accepted and perpetuate! I have been on a binge since discovering him yesterday and it's a real shame he has passed. So sad! RIP!
Yes definitely not just the black community but for all 🤙🏼
I strongly disagree with you. He was a father for tens of thousands of men in white Europe. RIP 😢
This woman is insane, her dad was raising her mother's children before she was even born and to throw shade at him and her mom, so damn disrespectful on every level.
I haven't watched it fully and maybe it was touched on, but it sounded like the mum cheated and the dad found out later on. She said "it was not even a factor at first until later on." My interpretation of that is that the dad didn't know the kids weren't his until he found out later on
@@Tolon97damn... Four of them! 🤔
Typical delusional modern woman. Her opinion is skewed so it doesn't mean crap. She looks at everything subjectively and thinks she's right about everything. She will never be a wife.
She brings a pretty face and a body to the table along with a bunch of jacked up opinions not much more
17:12 I swear it's dealing with women like this that the sped up Kevin's death. You can just feel that her retardation is taking a heavy toll on his mental state.
She disrespected her father and called her mother a slave on CZcams, she believes a man should work for her and can't even come to a cooked meal, she also thinks she's a 8-9.
She don't care about that.
COMPLETELY DELUSIONAL!
She is getting a dog...
@@titanjake8640 She looks like a cat lady
trashy lady
I am a traditional house wife, and I love serving my husband and our children.
Enjoy your blessed life!
U wear your 👑 well ⭐
Shout out to you 🖤
I hope you have a happy marriage
You're one of the rare ones out here lol respect.
I used to be a hater, been listening to his long form for a few days and he is only trying to help us women. Its ok to daydream and wish for the best outcome but we need to have a handle on reality. Fit, feminine, cooperate etc. I am changing my mindset . ❤ thanks KS
🙏🙏🙏👋👋👋👋👏👏👏👏
Wow now you are a woman hope you hold other women accountable the world will be a better place
Good for you!
See… I agree with you. I believe he truly was coming to his point from a place of love for black women specifically and the black community in general.
He wasn’t trying to degrade women. He was trying to encourage them to be better.
Agree. His early demise is a loss to all, not only BM. RIP Godfather.
🤣😂 This girl sitting here dissing her mum while she’s married for 32 years and she’s on CZcams looking for advice on how to find a man
In a bath robe 🤦🏾♂️
@@kingboss2158 LOL...i could not get past that....if this is how she presents online aka to the world, how would she be behind closed doors? geeze
You can't make up this stuff!! 🤣
Amen! Get over it and stop dissing your parents! Life is tough!
🤣🤣🤣 you can't make this shit up
Just because God called on KS for a more important job, that doesn't mean we shouldn't be still hitting the like button and subbing....GET THOSE LIKES UP PEOPLE!
haha
I wish he had an heir to collect on this income.
@@BigTomInTheBasement he has a daughter
Lol he was called while clawing a ladies kitty
Oh😢, thanks for the reminder, I kinda have been watching one video to the other.
She defined being a slave as "being taken care of and not working" 😂
The audacity that she wants a man to put food on the table, Yet she doesn't even wanna cook a home cooked meal with food that would be provided for her, Fkn disrespectful and disgusting.
As a 40 yr old, in shape, homemaker with 2 toddlers and a husband who works 60+ hours a week providing a comfortable lifestyle for his family I’m insulted that she would consider my stay at home occupation as “slave” work.
Stay happily single lady!
Go ahead and keep showing them how its done...
Got a sister??...With no kids??
@@user-ky6jw2yt2h Lol, nope, just brothers.
Please we do not think of you in that way at all.
I don't think she's happily single or else she wouldn't be here...but she's seems to think she's right in her assessment which is sad....
Remember kids: Don't let a woman with no father tell you what a real man is.
Woooow. That part.
She is worse, doesnt even respect the man
Don't let ANY woman tell you what a real man is.
Damn...
She has a father though.
I can't like this video enough!
Women lost a gift when this man passed.
He always told the truth, 💯
this woman’s dad is truely a super hero. No guy wants other kids that ain’t his own. Beauty wise, she’s just a 1, in Asian men’s view.
Hahhahaha
😂😂😂😂
Anti-Black racism is embedded in most Asian communities and countries. So, there's that.
@@dariushines306 you just had to turn it into a race thing!!..smh!
@@surakitabu Actually, the person who qualified beauty from the Asian perspective is the one who brought race into the conversation. I guess you didn't try to call that person out because that wouldn't fit the narrative you're trying to create. Smh.
I'm a housewife. I have 4 children. I clean, cook, sew, freak, and cut the yard. My husband brings home the bacon and I cook it. I keep his belly full and his sac empty. I get called old fashioned. But we're Happy. Oh yeah I exercise regularly cause he appreciates it.
Good bless you ma'am. Your husband is a lucky man.
his belly full and sac empty lmao I love it
what a blessing....RESPECT
God bless you queen, more women needs to be like you. Women don’t get it, this type of fundamental qualities will have yo man come home 💯 I will guarantee you that or at least have a mutual understanding it’s really that fucking simple my gawd
Hey. Do you teach other women your ways... you go girl!!!!!
It’s a sad state of affairs when someone equates being a homemaker with being a slave rather than a blessing.
Its indeed hard work and among the most honorable professions.
Because they are selfish and entitled, they want to be provided for but dosent is want to work for it. Being a homemaker is a difficult job and with every job comes a salary and that's the dynamic although very simplified
Facts
Exactly ..I am sure her own mother would be insulted .
Exactly.
This man was a saint. What a patience...
This man was a gem not only to the black community but to society as a whole .
To be honest, his advice was something i always longed for growing up in a single mom household, it made me realize my wanting a traditional woman was why my first marriage didn’t work out.
In my early 40s i was able to meet a traditional, 25yr old “village” hispanic girl, slim, natural beauty and loves to take care of me and we plan on marrying this upcoming year, i’d give her the world, you are sorely missed Mr. Samuels 😢❤
I also had an unsuccessful marriage to a modern woman. I never struggled so hard to meet those expectations. After that failed I thought I would not find a traditional woman, but then I discovered the Philippines and my new wife is exceptional. She is sweet, feminine, flourishes in our marriage. She is a stay at home wife, and she honors our marriage, and me every day. In return I would gladly lay down my life for her. I never thought this life was possible.
Congrats, my friend. Live well and take care of your wife.
“ I want to be able to stay home and raise the kids “
“ Being a house wife is a slave “
You can’t make this stuff up 🤣🤣🤯
She's been used for 15 years her body needs a break now
Sis is clearly slow lmao
Bruh lol. Feminism has done so much damage to modern women. It's sad
@@gabrielibowen1 Bru i didn’t even mention she says she wants the man to be working an providing for her 🤯🤦🏾♂️
It shows that they have an issue not with *being* a housewife but with the word itself! It like we need a new word to help these women escape their social media programming!
Woman: "How does a woman know if her price is to high?"
Answer: "If no one is buying what you are selling."
I like that one.
That’s it duhhhhh lady who thinks she’s an 8. This video was the worst. You are flight attendant and I fly a lot. I would not wife her up even if she had the outfit on. I’ve seen way more prettier flight attendants and they don’t talk to me like this with her mentality and attitude. She’s 33 and still single. I always say, the reality of your life is how you keep score. If you make it past 30 and not wifed up yet AND not even dating the types of men who you say you want and they take you seriously. The problem is YOU. Go buy a dog or several cats.
Messing with a flight attendant is already a liability, it's like messing with a nurse. She is fat, she thinks being a traditional housewife is slavery, she is disrespectful to her father's sacrifice. Like how many struggles does this woman want? She wants to be alone for life.
Brilliant 👏
@@Jamfar777 it wasn’t even her stepfather! She’s that disrespectful to her actual dad lol
I dated a girl that would cook for me. I never understood why. But now I do.
She was looking for a husband she was showing you her values.
My mom was a traditional housewife. Dad never wanted her to work. They ended up having 7 kids and he had to work 2nd job after his full time job. My dad was so exhausted all the time. He also was a volunteer fireman too and would go out on calls. I dont know how he did it.
"Women have control over sex. Men have control over relationships." Brilliant.
Her reaction to her step-dad is proof that being a step-dad is a thankless endeavor.
Especially during these times
fact
Especially when you get a woke step daughter
It's her biological dad
That was her father !! Even worse his step children probably love him more than she does.
Being a traditional housewife is NOT slavery. I know women who are RELIEVED of being freed of financial responsibility & just focus on home.
Bet she watches Derrick Jaxn. 🤨
The freedom of not having to stress about finances, being extra involved in my children’s school/education, being able to provide home cooked meals for my husband when he gets home from working a 12 hour shift (at 3:00 in the afternoon) is something that I wouldn’t trade for anything in this world. I have been a stay at home wife and mother for almost 11 years and I ain’t never been nobody’s slave.
I always see your comments... Have a good day whoever you are
My mom is a single mother and tells me all the time how she wishes she would be a traditional housewife.
@@myluvisdivine8085 You're husband is a lucky man
You think a Woman wrote "Fantasy Island"? For sure they're always going there
I watched this a couple years ago. I’m so glad all the comments called this lady out! Rest in Power Mr Samuels 🙏🏽
Being a stay at home mom/homemaker for 4 years has been such a blessing…purpose ❤🎉
She doesn't respect her own father that's been with her mother for 32 years, why would any man think that she would respect him.
But we don’t know what her dad is like, she may have valid reasons to dislike her father.
@UCG9cJsGovWXWN3Ys6a-98uA He married a woman with 4 kids by 2 different men. If their was a license to cheat that would be the reason. He married leftovers with damaged goods.
FACTS
She is a black woman it is natural for them to blame it on men, even if he was a good dad they will find something bad about him cause he is a black man.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🙌🏾👏🏽🔥
This woman reminds me of my ex girlfriend. She lost her job due to corona and I simply said "look since you lost your job, just cook and clean" she said "so you want me to be a slave"? I was so pissed off that she would equate housework with slavery. She stated well I shouldn't have because I was grown and she wasn't going to be cooking all the time because she didn't like to cook mind you she home 24/7 at this point. One day after washing the clothes before work I ask could she fold the clothes she said yes, I come home they not done that when I wrote an eviction notice and kicked her out. I can't believe I tried to negotiate with a terrorist lol
Lol these women are insane
Wat?!!🚩💀
Imagine if you married her
Someone shows you who they are believe them
so you kicked her out. How does cohabiting laws work over there lol...in UK i dont know if you could boot a gf out that easily. I may be wrong. Was she just a lodger? Where you knock on the door or you sharing the same room? Just wondering
She really said that weighing 130lbs at 5'7" would make her look "sickly"? Are we that delusional about what our body size should actually be?
Mr. Samuels really hit it out of the park with this one!
Listen if she can disrespect her own father...I can't imagine what she'll do to her spouse
Big facts
Huh!!!
Word
Always based my move on her relationships with their father and uncle's... If they don't have a good one or don't have one I'll pass... Then the way they talk about thier exes...
Bro period
The fact that she sat there and slandered her dad who seems like a stand up guy says a LOT about her character
Complete and total lack of humility or gratitude.
The face she made at 18:18 she still
Nuh get it lol
Men become stepdads to more children in the home than women do, and we never get credit for that. I got a homie who got with a chic with 5 kids by 5 dudes and had a 6th by him...allegedly.
@@tbrightideas42 he needs to leave that. No man should raise another’s kid. That’s not being a man. No matter how much this feminist want to encourage that crap.
Facts
His advice is so honest and truthful. Miss him 😢
The pandemic sessions were always dope man. Dinner, tea and notepad ready. Thank you KS.
The crash of the Derrick Jaxn economy is hitting the market hard.
Lol
lmao
LOL, Derrick disabled the comment section in his "cheating" reveal video. 🤣
@@Hellkite-er5pg lol
hahaha
Bruh this got me in tears she just brushed over the fact that her Dad took care of her and children that weren't even his. When we have dudes out here that don't even take care of they own children. Yo momma was blessed to even have a man like that. He could have easily found a woman with no children and simply took care of just them. But he loved your momma enough to make even more kids and raise all of you. Dafuq is wrong with these people?
This comment really got me 💕
Mind blowing, right? By putting a roof over the head and food on the table for four (!) kids that weren’t his, he’s given this chick’s mom more than she can ever possibly give back. The nerve of this girl to judge her father
For real. She's showing her father so much disrespect that it hurts my head
I think she said 4 kids that were not his and only 2 that were!!!!! He took care of 200% more than he fathered!!!
Facts bro, most women in this generation say they want a good man but they actually want the exact opposite, they are intimidated by good men so they find every reason to slander them, I can feel the resentment she has for her dad and I can almost guarantee it comes from him being an alpha male in every aspect
Why would black America hate this guy?
Looks like he was a blessing to them.
It’s called propaganda and brainwashing! It’s highly effective and it is used 24-7. Basically 90% of the US have broken brains. Who pushed all this feminist bs - Main Stream Media look at the talk shows - they are the ones telling women to hate and destroy everyone who disagrees with them (watch Today Show, The View, or any of those Housewife Reality Shows - this is where the behavior comes from).
Every single time he asks dress size its always a huh??? Like they really didn't hear it. 😂😂😂😂 And him giving her a 6 is way to generous.
The most problematic part of this conversation is that she didn't acknowledge her father for doing anything
Right... her own FATHER! Smh
I noticed that too. Selfish, ungrateful b****! So she essentially NEVER saw her father's worth at NO point in her life? Damn shame! ☹️
Probably because he was the only stern disciplining force in her life. She tried her best to not show utter disdain for him
Yep exactly!
I think she said something about a stepdad and step brother’s ?
If that’s the case her biological father didn’t step up. Too many unknowns, her mother must be a possible loser to raise her.
What made me disgusted was she didn’t acknowledge her father contribution to the family. This so disturbing. What message are modern woman sending toward up and coming boys who will become fathers ?? Are they suggesting that their value to the family is insignificant??
She doesn’t value men
She doesnt care abt men
Yh she doesn’t appreciate what many don’t have, learning from examples that haven’t happened to them, I’ve seen this a lot 🤦🏾♂️
Let not your heart be disturbed @fire.. better yet, revel in the opportunity KS provides to many by skilfully unraveling the inner machinations of these deluded minds.
Deal breaker
When he told her she should lose some weight and she said she didn't want to look sick shows the misconception in our culture of healthy weight. I'm glad he recommended she look at footage of women from the past. She could also look at women from other countries. This also reminds me of women on dating apps who say, "I'm thick and curvy and that ain't gonna change. If you can't handle that, swipe left."
This video has inspired me to update my recipe collection
The more she spoke of her dad, the less I felt for her. If her dad’s deeds were considered insufficient, her husband’s efforts will be unappreciated
She crazy as hell and delusional. A man would be hurting his self to water time with her..
She would make a horrible wife.
Unappreciated is a horrible thing to be subjected to.
That part!
She’s gunna get her karma pretty soon
« I don’t want to be a slave but it’s ok if my husband is »
Literally.
Exactly, how F'ed up is that?
Literally
She'd make not just a bad wife, but a BAD MOTHER. Please, my brothers: Don't NOBODY put-a-baby-in THIS _____!
She doesn’t respect her mom.....very sad
@@shadesofdeegray wow...she doesn't respect her parents. Miraculously you didnt even acknowledge her Father 🤦♂️...And the SAGA continues....
Any woman who describes the basic duties of a housewife as “slavery” is lazy and definitely NOT wife material.
Kevin is such a beast... Clear and concise.
“She’s got more than U do.”
“What’s that?”
“A husband.”
Ouch. I felt that.
Lmao, right!?!?😩😆
She didnt though.
You hear me. Lmmfao
Girl..we all could be married if we wanted to.
@@AA-td1yw lol u think!!?
This is the reward her dad gets for dating a single mother.
Preach!
That's why men are hesitant when it comes to single mothers.
I know it sounds bad what you said, but it's true. I don't date single mothers.
That’s why you don’t date single mothers
Zion Williamson lol his step dad worked so his mom could stay home since he was a kid an he wasent even mentioned by Zion lmfao
She is mighty lucky, her dad was Great as a Dad.
12 comments that could have been put in 1 comment. Work smart, not hard.
He was. He toke on a women with children and brought them up.. That's a hard thing to do as a man
When she says she sees on social media women being taken care of and mistreated she’s talking about rappers baby mamas. So that tells you where her mind is at.
Real Housewives TV shows
The mentality of these females that grew up on social media is disturbing. Modern day people specifically women uphold and live by social media memes above bible verses. Smh sad
That’s why she can’t articulate her point because she’s talking about hood rappers that have baby mamas and live the ghetto life but with money. That’s probably how she sees most men in general. I know plenty of housewives and they don’t experience the pookie life that hood rappers baby mamas do. I wouldn’t be surprised if she dated hood dudes
Yup social media has ppl messed up and honestly I don’t use social media as an accurate depiction
Yeah you if looking to social media for relationship goals you are going down the totally wrong path
Even when Kevin stated her father raised multiple children not his own she damn near scoffed at that. If you can act like that after that man stepped up, you’ll never be satisfied
Exactly. Goes with what Cooper says about women with Daddy issues. If she doesn't/didn't respect her father what makes you think she'll respect you (especially in marriage) - and like that we men are out the door for good!
Man that shit blow my mind.
Kevin’s dad is a better man than I. I flat out refuse to deal with a single mother.
That man is an inspiration of empathy and love we should all aspire to.
You don’t know what her dad is like towards her mom though. He could’ve been verbally or physically abusive to her, a habitual cheater etc. Yes, men who “step up” are capable of being bad husbands. Only those who lived in that household and her mother know for sure. Does that mean she should judge every other man based on her parents’ relationship though? No. I think this is another woman who could benefit from therapy. Seems like she has daddy issues.
@@twdjt6245 If her father was verbally and physically abusive, and a so called habitual cheater, trust me she would have said that with the quickness since women love to put men in a negative light. Notice how she couldn’t give a clear cut answer as to why her mother was a slave... it’s because she’s just regurgitating the feminist lies and rhetoric that they’ve been pushing for decades now.
Do these women ever ask themselves, “Why would a good man ever want me?”
Her calling her own mother a slave takes away her mother’s dignity as a mother and wife. Disgraceful!
In case you read this sis. It’s actually the opposite! it sounds like you’re looking for a slave. You don’t respect men and you want them to go out into the field and work for you and you give them nothing in return. That is the literal definition of a slave master.
That's exactly right. She doesn't want to work and wants a man to provide yet wants to contribute very little. She sounds so lazy and entitled and talks bad about her father who took on 3 kids from other men 🙄
I agree, I can see the disdain gir her father and therefore for other men.
Couldn’t have said it any better myself 💯🦾🦾🦾
Bingo!
🎯💯🎯💯🎯
i was floored when she said her mom had 4 kids from 2 other men before her dad married her. i'm so happy kevin defended him. the women was a delusion. smh.
Right. He could’ve told her Mom to kick rocks! She’s actually lucky!
Kevin said he was a superhero for doing that for her mom, she was surprised to hear someone say that about her dad, but not her mom.
I can only imagine the BS that guy has gone through. And to think it was his own blood child saying this about him. Her mother is exactly where she wants to be. Her mother seems to be smart enough to know that what she has is probably is the best she will ever get out of life at this point. So momma is already smarter than this entitled brat.
Whats the issue w having children from other relationships, men do too?
@@Mari-ye7dt it’s not the same. When a woman chooses to have a child it’s her choosing to reproduce with another man. A man can easily knock a woman up without trying to have kids and just tryna get a nut in. So basically other kids represent that woman’s choice to commit to another man. It can be kind of a harsh reminder for the ego of a male
Those ties and suits are always on point, definitely professional look.
He’s 100% correct that if she were as attractive as she thinks she is she would have been hotly pursued by all sorts of well heeled men. I was one of those girls who was constantly chased by men when I was younger. It slowed down when I got older, but it doesn’t really go away completely for women who naturally have above average looks. Even now in my early 50s, I have to reject advances which are of course, very much unwanted as I’m a happily married woman of almost 20 years. But yes, anytime a young woman with ABOVE average, natural beauty has a high visibility, public facing occupation, the men will all pay her an enormous amount of attention. Kevin was a brilliant man who truly had an amazing understanding of dating and relationships. 😊
I'm a housewife.. this woman seriously thinks I'm a slave? Excuse you. As long as the housework gets done, I choose how my day goes. It's way more freeing than when I had a job. Plus I have alot more free time to do whatever I want like volunteer at church or pick up a new hobby. My husband loves it and our marriage is better than ever.
I'm sorry you had to hear such an undignified insult from a low class "woman" like this. And thank you for being the REAL backbone of a good society.
@Eki Seork there is nothing wrong with her life style but how does it make her a “real woman”?
@@Sasha-zi4eq that’s easy, she’s doing what she was naturally made to do. Which is be a mans backbone. To be a submissive wife not an equal partner. She started a family. Pretty sure she cooks and cleans and takes care of kids while he takes care of them. It’s simple
@@markn7459 not all women are naturally “submissive” though. Those are real women too. But I’m sure you already know that.
@TC that’s…not what I said😂
As a man who is a traditional provider, I thank God I found a woman who loves her "traditional" role. She brings me lunch, makes dinner, loves and respects me, not because I expect it, but because she sees how hard I work to put food on the table. Neither one of us disparages the other's role, and we know we are using our strengths to provide for the family. This lady doesn't seem to understand what a marriage is.
Lucky man. Sucks we live in the world we do now. Today’s women man smh
Hope I can find a woman like that. Your lucky dude cheers!
Given the times that we live in, it sounds like you got yourself a unicorn my guy. I wish y’all the best!
This brother is blessed
@@Clark-yp2db said
Her dad gave her mom 32 years of a marriage after she had 4 kids with 2 men and she said her mom is a slave🤦♂️🤦♂️
She gave herself a 9, called old fashion housewives "slaves", and said that being skinny is looking "sick"... Come on, be realistic please lady.
Says the women who turns up in a robe and looks as if she just wakes up. Not even put yourself together to go live. These women make real women look bad. Social media has made these delusional as they are all chasing after a false life which doesn’t exist. They all have this bloody Disney Princess idea. Relationship takes work on both sides period
She's a 9.
On a scale of 1 to 100
I mean I agree with the skinny part 😂💯
@Angelina Foster ... That's a fat girls' protective (offensive/defensive) identity wall.
The allusion is at an all time high.
This is that ungrateful attitude that men don’t like that turns us off. She just brushed off the fact that her father committed to her mom who had kids with two different men that she wasn’t married to. Her mom is lucky as hell. Her mom knows that hence why she plays her part and is still married.
yup
That shows how deep the Delusion is. I wouldn't be surprised if her father didn't work two or three jobs to "PROVIDE" for her UNGRATEFUL A**!
@Diana the Nobel Scribe Male and Female Children?
Facts 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Women like her think it's normal for a woman to have multiple kids out of wedlock and think that the man should be grateful to take on her baggage. Not thanking her mom hit the Lottery to eventually be married to the man for 32 years
I’m a slave and treat like a Queen. Unfortunately liberated women don’t know how to take of men. We’re a team helping out each other
Fine line between self confidence and self delusion
My mom died at 72, after being married to my dad for 44 years, she had a full time job! She worked at keeping us clean, fed, house cleaned...you name it...pops is now 84 worked his entire life, as a plumber by day and a custodian by night...I would never be so arrogant as to say that when my mother left this earth, she lived her life as a slave! I actually believe she was grateful to have been able to raise 4 children without ever having to step foot in a daycare
Bless your momma and dad. Seems like they did a good job raising their kids
💯💯💯
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your Moms sounds like a real one my dude, RIP to Her ❤🙏
God bless your mother & peace to her soul! More women should aspire to be like her.
Her mom was a baby momma , her father accepted the kids but she's looking down on her dad??!!?😔😔😔😔
@urban kranjec
He shouldn't have signed up for that.
Hes an idiot. She doesn't respect what her step father did.
@@okene being a father period, is a thankless job...
Sounds like she’s jealous of her half siblings to me
@@jahrules8674 worst part is it’s not her stepfather. It’s her Biological dad and she’s putting down her biological dad for taking care of her half siblings
A TWO time baby mama 🥴
This is crazy🤦🏾♂️ I can’t believe she said this on the internet
Flight attendant? Maybe for Spirit Airlines. 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
This broad had me looking at MY woman differently.😳
She’s never gotten out of pocket with me, and provides me the refuge of peace I require to stay on my grind. When I asked her (after we watched this), “Do you feel like my slave?”
She looked me dead in the eye (at that moment, I remember thinking she doesn’t do that enough), and said, “HELL NAH! I am your WOMAN! That is the role I enjoy, and I’d fight to keep.”
I’m glad we watched this together, because it made my decision.💍
Prayers and blessings for yalls future
Facts shit crazy son
@@bigmac9726, thanks, my brother.👍🏿
ALL he wants is for me to make him a sandwich?!
🥪 with an 🍎 and 🥛 and 🍪
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Have a good life man.
Wow! Her actual dad took care of 3 kids that's not his and gets burned by his own daughter. I'm speechless. She never criticized the other men that her mother. I'm flabbergasted. I'm stuck on how she never gave her father any praise.
Me too, I felt the same way towards her own father.
That was really messed up of her. I love my granddaddy. I didn’t know he was my mom stepdad until I was older. He was and is the best. Never disrespect a person who raised you when they didn’t have to.
“Its what Im seeing in the MEEEdia and...” The media is her king 👑. Know who runs the media? Satan aka Prince of the Air(waves)
She thinks of her father as a slave driver who only got with her mother cause she was vulnerable and desperate.
She'll always see her mother as a victim instead of a lucky and blessed woman.
I feel bad for him .... his own selfish daughter disrespecting him in social media.…one day she will regret it
She’s exactly why men question what many women have to offer.
She is NOT an equal to Kelly Rowland in ANY scenario! She is insane!
Being a housewife is NOT ABUSE, how do you link slavery to being a housewife?! Remove me from this planet, I've had enough 🤦🏿♂️
Me too I can't with these Stupid/ignorant people they confuse me with how much they can't accept reality. It's like they're day dreaming 24/7 Lmao
Rotflmao I cant😂😂
Bvv are just making it easy for Becky, Mi ling, Marisol, Anu, to snatch their HV BM. They're doomed man. She really just compared being a housewife to chattel slavery.🤦🏿♂️
@@vladimir11c crazy.
Lmao @ remove me
Don’t want to be “slaves”? Being taken care of and not working is being a slave? Where do people get these thoughts 💭. Pray church
No shit!
Bvv are just making it easy for Becky, Mi ling, Marisol, Anu, to snatch their HV BM. They're doomed man. She really just compared being a housewife to chattel slavery.
@@vladimir11c no lies detected
SYSBM
I guess being freed from financial responsibility and just focus on herself & the household is sooooooo bad.
I blame Derrick Jaxn for this.
She doesn't wanna be a slave, but wants to treat her future husband like a slave.
I watched this man here and there for a while. Really got into him and his messages this year. I heard about his loss recently. Such a shame. I listen for his messages and entertainment. I realize being in the dating seen how some women feel they deserve the things they want. But some are so delusional. I would not give them the time of day! Lol! RIP
Notice, how EVERY time he asks their age, height, occupation, they reel the answer off with inflated confidence… the moment they hear “dress size” they seem to lose their hearing
I said the same thing Lol All of a sudden they can't hear
Sooo
I like that he says " dress size " not just what size. Women don't know how to be women anymore.
haaa lol. yes i noticed that as well.
😅😅😅😅 exactly !!!! Then when he convicted her with SOUL TRAIN !!! He really is a genius !!!
the scary part of all of this, is she don't even realise how much she disrespect man
@@okene we do
@@okene Well, he's not from America and English isn't his first language.. Relax
Right!!! Lol🤦🏾♂️
Realize*
Scrabble accepts European and American spellings of such words, so it doesn’t matter. I’ll spell “color” (or anything else) with or without the U and I’m from Pittsburgh😄😄Anyway....Bless Kevin forever❤️❤️Bet Miss Slave can’t play Scrabble💯
The hardest thing to learn is to submit to a man. Takes a big portion of humility and these ladies aren't having it.
No, it doesn't. It comes naturally to real women
As KS always said, it is mothers’ job to teach their daughters how to be wives. My mother, aunts, grandmothers taught me so it was never hard for me.
As KS always said, it’s mothers’ job to teach how to be a wife to their daughters. I was very fortunate I had that upbringing. It was never hard.
All I can do is just lower my head into my hands and yell "WTF!!!!!!!!"
The elder Shahrazad Ali is absolutely right about modern black women in today's society.
So this modern woman wants a traditional man to pay the bills, provide protection, be the disciplinary in his house and this delusional modern woman don't know what a traditional wife is. She thinks it's a “slave” to be a traditional wife but wants all the benefits from a traditional man. She doesn't know how to cook on top of it all. Fellas please be mindful who you are dealing with. Protect your seed, protect your money, protect you mind. Stay on your purpose.
this hit me hard
And it was only women resisting Queen Ali smh. We gotta fix the women before we can advance
Brother I read that book the other day shahrazad was absolutely right but you know what most women don’t like her anyway but men love her for being honest and calling women on the games of manipulating men and destroying their family and home I tried to get my wife to listen to her all she heard was it’s ok for men to cheat and that’s not what she said at all😐
Amen to that bro... RESPECT...
@@tonyjones4225 same here man. My lady is slowly coming around but its a daily effort
It's magical how he keeps so much patience with all these space cadets.
For real
haha! Wow!
It’s a gift b
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 at space cadets this unstable creature was a e walk
She over there tipsy trying to flirt and fake the funk
19:26 The brilliance of Kevin to give pause to see if she could keep a straight face while saying she was as beautiful as Beyoncé or Kelly Rowland is the reason we still need this man today.
Just here to say rip ks and thank you for trying and doing your best to enlighten the black women in our community on how to be better and letting them know we are not their enemies even though they are their own and blame us 😬🙏🏾 future
“You don’t even bring the basic things... if y’all had 4 kids you’ll be the 5th one” ... damn. Real f*ckin shit
Lol that one killed me
Time stamp? 💀😭
I mean... women can work now... but if you giving him more mouths to feed plus yours... then...
A woman that doesn’t love her father can never truly love a man.
You preaching now, Sir.
Not typically...Can NEVER EVER love a man till she forgives him..
@@feliusrobinson1328 facts
This is very deep. 💡
Real shit!
I don’t want to look sick… Being 5’7” and 170+lbs is what’s sick
I didn’t grow up in the US. This man talks like my father which goes to show that common sense and wisdom are universal
My dad’s first wife had this mentality. She’s still single to this day.
Yes thats what i like to hear...send her this videos pleeaaassseee😂
Yes thats what i like to hear...send her this videos pleeaaassseee😂
@@NBaa2123 even then I doubt it’ll do any good. At this point she’s well into her 60s or 70s.
Jeremy Harris ohh
Jeremy Harris my bad
Old friend of mine said it best.....”when you’re young and trying to date, she don’t want you. She want the guy with the hazel eyes and the slick car. But ten years later, when she have 4 kids from 3 different guys, YOU the RIGHT MAN NOW!”
Facts!
Say it again!!🗣️📢
Yes but now I'm 39 and all my options look like fitness models. She has no chance
@@Mcbevhills hahahaha they wanna use their youth and spend it with older rich men, so of fucking course us youngins are working to get to that point so we can enjoy the fruits of our labor before we settle down. Can’t be picking up those fruits left on the floor either their spoiled
@@wizmanballin8498 I be seeing them some years later. LOL. I'm like naw, not now.
He should’ve described for this woman, and others, what a healthy traditional marriage looks like.
This man had the patience of a king. RIP Kevin
It’s disgusting how these “modern” women disrespect traditional housewives on a daily basis.
They can’t hold a candle to the type of women traditional housewives are.
Hell, a lot em can't boil water
You got that right! Can hardly cook, clean, organize, budget, make a house a "home", properly raise children, be feminine, you name it. I pray for our young people, it's all been twisted around! Good luck...
I cannot tell you how many women tell me that they can't do what I do. Which is being completely responsible for the care and well being of my family.
I hear ya, I've been told how lucky I am to have man who provides for me...
I cook., I clean, do all the shopping, care for children, neighborhood children, care for aging parents, and now grandchildren. I worked three jobs in the beginning so my husband could go to college debt free, I keep a garden, care for farm animals, AND own a small business. Plus I work out and make plans that help my husband relax and enjoy life. I have a wonderful life but I'm not lucky, I planned it that way and worked hard everyday to keep it going.
Modern woman have been taught to be treated like a SPOIL kid.
" To much Disney Channel"
She lost me when she showed the contempt she has for her father. To me he’s a stand up dude for raising two kids that wasn’t his💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
4 kids that ain't his.
Homie is an Angel.
Exactly she thinks her father was mean when in actuality he probably wasn’t gonna tolerate any bullshit from her mother, after all he’s taking care of kids that aren’t his and her mom understands her pickings were slim and he was the best deal than and now. That judgement of her dad led to her overall contempt for men and her overly inflated sense of self.
Further proof that a man should NEVER raise another man's children.
Lol lol ya right mr moore let her tell it , it did not mean shit umh lol lol show him this i bet he would not agree 🤔🤫🤐