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Watching Dave Ramsey imitate a child begging for a truck just made my week 🤣
He needs to use that voice more I loled
I like Dave Ramsey, and I’m extremely smart with my money, live below my means, and I’m a big investor. But Dave was way too harsh and rude here. Bordering on defamation
@@charlesg7926 It can't be defamation when the person he is insulting is anonymous. Besides, the thicker a skull, the thicker the whack needed to crack it. Yes it was a bit harsh but it might just be exactly what she (& her financially inept husband) need to hear. Just my 2 cents. Sometimes being overly nice to people is not doing them any favors.
When Dave Ramsey’s first advice is divorce you know a spouse done messed up major
There are so many christians out there that would tell this lady that she would be a bad person for leaving him. This lady needs to get ready for a fallout if they're a part of a church.
@@bellmattwebb If they are part of a church will be her getting completely shunned and kicked out! The only reason I can listen to Dave is because his first response is Divorce.
@@bellmattwebb she shouldn’t leave him until they get counseling and gives him an ultimatum. (Or if he refuses counseling, after she gives an ultimatum). Do you agree?
@@charlesg7926 It seems like he's not interested, but definitely if he's willing to truly change.
"you can't tell me I can't buy a big truck mama" hahahaha🤣🤣
It’s the mama at the end for me 🤣
People need to agree on finances before they get married. That has been one of Dave's greatest lessons to me.
The sad part is he probably lied and said he was done acting like this.
Yep
Yeah but then they can change after they get married and I've seen that a lot.
This behavior probably started years after marriage, one irresponsible purchase at the time and then exponentially.
Dave is correct. She will spare herself years of troubles by divorcing now. Just file.
My husband was exactly like this.
New toys for him all the time.
No savings, we fought when the roof started to leak..profusely.
He broke me mentally, then broke my arm. I left, seperated. He died a year ago, I have been paying off debts, selling his toys. No retirement. Yep...rusty tools, trucks, boats, moldy house from rain. He never repaired the roof.
5 years we were seperated.
3 grown children that are helping me sort his mess left behind.
40 years married. 😢
Weird behaviour started about 10 years into our marriage. I think he wanted out, instead he just liked seeing me and our children upset. 😢
I feel for you Mary. It is horrible what some of these exes do to us to ruin our lives later in life. I never got back to career, instead, just above minimum wage jobs and no assets.
Oh my lord, he broke your arm? I’m so sorry, but I’m glad you’re safe now
Why did you stay for 40 years if the relationship was SO toxic??
@deirdrekiely6187 first confusion, then fear. Behavior became unpredictable after CAD diagnosis at 40 after a heart attack. He hated me, the children, life.
We had a small farm, homestead, I could not buy him outright. Depression, hatred of what life dealt him. He had the best medical care. He would not listen to them. His heart surgeon said to me..
You can not help someone that does not want to help themselves.
I have a similar situation, in which irresponsible behavior started 10 years into the relationship (8 years married). Currently separated.
As someone who sees people divorce and throw away their marriages over nothing - I can see the value in divorce in this situation. He’s like a child.
If they throw away marriage "over nothing" they should NOT have been married in the first place...yeah!
Agreed. He's putting material possessions over the well being of his family. It's all about him and his wants. Very selfish.
@ykook7000 she didn't know he will become like this.
Dave talking in the baby/kid voice was hilarious!
First time in 4-5 years I've heard Ramsey actually suggest divorce.
I know I was surprised
First time I have ever heard it from Ramsey. Wild!
I've seen men on this show that have their wives basically acting the same way and Dave has never, ever come down on any of them this hard.
And that’s why I gave this vid a thumbs down.
I think it was the 'silver investment' part that triggered D I V O R C E
sorry, but any man that puts toys before family, wife, children is NOT a man...... sadly i knew some like this.....
but hey.... to each his own
.... why do you think she's with him? The toys got her and potentially his physical appearance, although not necessarily. We don't know. All we know is she married a guy that likes manly toys.
@@AlexKaehler-qc8kd all men like manly toys, we all just don't put them before our futures or our families.
No, not all guys want 5 to 10 different types of vehicles. And she found a guy who did and she enjoyed that stuff and they're married and she needs to get over it. These aren't people dating talking about marriage. She signed up.
@AlexKaehler-qc8kd trust me, all guys want that. It might not be vehicles but all guys like to collect something that would consume you if you let it. The rest of us just have way more sense than this guy.
@@AlexKaehler-qc8kd You seemed to be determined to blame the guy's immaturity and irresponsibility on her. You called them "manly" toys but say that she enjoyed them? If the shoe were on the other foot and it was a man calling about his wife's excessive spending, would you say he signed up for that and just needs to get over it?
My father once told me when I was married to my ex-husband, "You will be working well into your retirement years, because (ex-husband) is already living like he is in his." Ex was purchasing a new car every year, recreational vehicles/toys, guns, ammo, etc while refusing to financially, and in many other ways, contribute for our family and our future.
Sounds like you had a good Dad!!!
Be careful on here, your comment will garner a lot of vitriol.
That was excellent advice your dad gave you. I wonder how that ex-husband is doing now.
How many years did it last?
@@GAFB1122 Thank you! He was an amazing dad and human!
@@allthingsnu4673 Thankfully, that is none of my business anymore.
I too had to get a separate bank account. When first got married, we had a joint bank account, he controlled the account even though I had the higher income. One day he cleaned out the account by spending it at the casino. That was the last straw for me. Not to mention wasting money buying alcohol. I completely agree this lady should divorce it’s too stressful.
I'm no marriage or relationship expert, but I'm pretty sure anyone who is that financially irresponsible and selfish is beyond hope.
My ex husband was like this.
My worse financial decision ever-getting married and combining finances.
He won’t be able to afford living without her:Take your stuff and yourself and GO!
Tammy Wynette performed the song.
She is most famous for "Stand By Your Man" which was her hit through 8 husbands.
My husband wants a truck too but he doesn't buy one because he doesn't want a car payment! He drives a great big old yukon and installed some fantastic side mirrors and some nice trimmings so he can enjoy it without being fiscally insane. He also loves silver and has some in the safe but he's got a great big retirement 401k and pension too. A man can have things he wants within reason but he has to BE reasonable!
Amen to that. I also don't understand why everyone is so hard against silver... something that has been around since biblical times and is sustainable. It has never disappeared or had horrendous crashes that cause people to lose everything, like some of the other investments have. So I just don't understand why people are so against it. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, but having some in precious metals sure doesn't seem as stupid as Dave makes it sound. Otherwise I agree with what he says about finances.
Robin Williams: Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money,' but they changed it to 'alimony.' It's ripping your heart out through your wallet.
Robin was right.
The irony of it is that his multiple marriages and divorce Ultimately led to his termination. He couldnt afford to live life anymore with all the alimony he was paying
Yes to the marriage counselor! The boy in this relationship needs to have a wake up call !
You think this jerk is going to go to counseling? 🤣🤣
Very well said. VERY VERY well said.
"Why is divorce so expensive?" Because it's worth it.
It is not as expensive as a marriage.
Literally my dad almost exactly. Bought silver and copper as their “retirement” and two new cars when they don’t even make 40k a year while still having a 350k mortgage and almost no cash in the bank.
WHATEVUH! I do what I want! - Cartman
😂😂
Classic.
“…I rob people, and I roll with gangs. WHATEVUH!” Who remembers that episode when he was on the maury show
That man ain't going to no marriage counselor!
I associate with the husband in a way. I love vehicles and want a new one all the time. I have been this way since a kid and I am now pushing age 76. The passion for having something new in the driveway is powerful. My discipline is to say no to things I want and to say yes to things I need. Keeping my wife happy is something I need and also want. Therefore we have only one new vehicle. Now, in regards to this woman on her husband refusing to talk about a budge, she is not going to be successful until he wants to change his ways. I do not see that anytime soon. She needs to tell him clearly, perhaps with a MFCC present, to change now or to leave the residence without recourse. Stated simply, she needs to divorce him.
MFCC?
Counseling won't help him. It's just for her to know she tried everything.
My wife left and filed for divorce. Nothing happened other than her being bored and never happy. As a Christian, it is hard for me to deal with knowing that I am divorced. Surprised Dave would pull the divorce trigger that fast.
Because he's not a christian
Yeah and he is only hearing one side of the story.
Trust me, something always happens but you didn't want to listen, it's just like my ex husband says the same shit that I walked away and he was not that bad😂
Women always over dramatic making mountains out of molehills.
Here’s the thing. The guy has a huge character flaw and financial responsibility is a KEY ISSUE in getting to know someone. Shouldn’t she have seen such a huge character flaw BEFORE the wedding? You stood up there and said “I Do” to the vows “for better or for worse”. Sometimes keeping our word is difficult when things aren’t favorable….but you should keep your word regardless.
I can't believe all the people ready to throw marriage out the window like this.
There are a Lot of guys like that out there
Lol at Rachel reacting to Dave insulting him when they got married. “Well… we don’t know THAT… but he sucks NOW.” Hilarious.
She’s so gracious where Dave is vicious.
Men. We gotta do better. I lost my first wife from not leading well. I’m not saying it was all my fault. It wasn’t. But I acknowledge I was leading poorly. I was still a boy in a man’s body. Now I’m living the dream by the grace of God. My wife doesn’t tell me what to do. She helps me like the help meet God made her to be. She doesn’t have to worry or tell me what to do. Because I’m leading properly now. Took a while to get here but God saves. If you listen to him and follow. I also followed Dave Ramsey and other wise people and got my life right before getting married again. If y’all need tips I’m happy to pay it forward. Thanks Dave for everything 🙏🏾✝️
Listen at 1:22
Comedy Gold when Dave affects an accent and acts like the misbehaving spouse.
Hilarious.
And you know that Dave is mostly accurate on the thought-process of the person.
Also, if she is smart about it, he will be liquidating/returning/residing in his toys.
I wonder if her lawyer will accept sporting vehicles as payment?
Yee haw!
When a man complains about his wife Dave says 'he's throwing rocks at her' but when its the other way around he agrees with her
That's just not true. You are not able to understand Dave's message, albeit pretty clear on the surface.
@@hadenanderson563 oh yeah? Show me where's he's come for a woman for her spending habits. Every time I've seen a wife complain her husband is blowing money on cars and other toys Dave calls him a little boy and whatnot but everytime I've heard a husband complaining that his wife won't stop buy shoes and clothes it's still somehow the husband's fault
I want to know if genders were reversed, if DIVORCE is the immediate answer lol
With Dave would be some version of "I am telling that you are dumb because I love you...", well, if Simpus Maximus John Is around it will be " Are you safe? What your husband isn't giving to you that makes you to expend money?", those two have a very hard time holding women accountable, it happens ocasionally though, some women are too much even for them
My God, how can someone be such an @hole to their wife. My wife and I have a 6 month emergency fund , multiple investments, 401Ks and no debts and I had to think long and hard to buy a new $38k car. I had the cash and it was a very small portion of our money on a separate savings account. When I asked my wife her opinion on the purchase, she just told me "Please, go and buy it." And still after her telling me that, I had to think about it for a couple more days.
if you can get him into a counselor's office -he may beg -change for 2 weeks maybe 3 - then go off with his buddies to do the same thing that fueled all the purchases. Ger out while you can and not too old to accumulate your own wealth.
Shocking.... first word coming from Dave!
I like that divorce was recommended.
"He's an alcoholic that does cocaine" 😂
He’s about to call in next.
Yes. Let's get the real story.
@@Anthrax57We still won’t get the real story. Just his side.
he is in delulu land and probably wouldn't be interested in advice
He can't because he is probably being breast fed by his mother.
The brighter color blue mug looks better.
Yeti's new Big Wave color
In my case it was the other way around. I have always watched how I spend money and I don't buy useles stuff. I now have my own checking account and my finances are much better.
You should get a guy on the show where the roles are reversed and tell him to give that ultimatum to his wife and see how that goes. She's going to take the kids away from him on top of the damages he has to suffer to get her out of his life. This ultimatum only works one way. Financially you are correct, but he has to give up his kids to.
The price of bad choices. 😢
You're incorrect, anyone spending and acting irresponsible like this has got to go. Yes Dave is bias but he's not that bias. Someone spending your retirement on cars isn't going to fly with Dave regardless of gender.
@@littleripper312 Dave is not biased. The system of marriage is biased for women to leave whenever they are unhappy lol. The chances of me being successful myself doing the ramsey method vs having a wife and then risking getting a divorce because she is unhappy is much greater. It's not about whether you do things right with women lol. You need to listen to more Taylor swift lol
Some of the men in these comments… 🤦🏻♀️ The husband has uncontrollable spending & because they’re married she is legally obligated for 50% of whatever ridiculous debt he takes on. So while she’s trying to be fiscally responsible, her idiot husband is digging a deep hole of debt & she has no way to stop him. I’d divorce him too; before I lost everything.
Misogyny is always in comments on this channel men really despise women
He will have to sale some of those muscle cars and give her half.
There are plenty of wives that act that way too 😂
@@singerjo5791 all those toys are depreciating assets so even if they sold all of them they’d still be in the hole.🙄
Did he at least get a cool Ford Raptor?
The longer she waits to divorce this guy the more expensive it will be for her. She’s about to hand half her 401k over to him, sell the house and split the equity and so on. Imagine how much better it would be for her to not have been married and only roommates with him. Then it’s just selling the house. Why doesn’t Dave talk about the double edge sword of marriage?
Total double edge 🗡️
Would have been better had she just not gotten into any arrangement involving mixing resources with someone who has a delusional "me me me" issue and doesn't care for her physical or emotional well being
He is planning on living off her retirement, plain and simple.
Honestly I don’t think he’s smart enough to be that manipulative, he’s just an idiot
Buying toys is addictive, I love bikes, my house is full of them, only stopped because I ran out of space 😂. YOLO 😂😂😂.
Have savings and a pension though
Do you have enough to retire.
That last sentence is the 180 degree difference! Enjoy your toys.
At least you stopped. Lol. And you aren't broke! Enjoy your bikes.
I can’t imagine having an emergency or dying and leaving someone with a bunch of nonsense I bought and no money. If anything keeps me up at night, that’s it.
The boldest title I have ever seen Ramsey post 😂
The term is" man child"
I wish this was a call so we could hear their financial situation
Wow, never heard Dave say divorce quite that way. Thanks Dave, it’s what I had to do 5 years ago and was agonizing 😢
Not a fan of divorce, but buying vehicles without your spouse's consent is ridiculous. Reverse the roles so the woman is doing the unapproved buying, still not okay.
Y’all getting married to these alpha wannabes and here’s the end result.
They think having a muscle car and a Harley makes them “alpha”.
Whole time, they’re the most insecure men in our society.
Sorry but that is not Alpha....you don't know Alpha very well.
@@StevenSsamba Key word there was wannabes…
@@StevenSsambayou can’t read, huh?
So again blaming the women what a surprise on here 🤦
As soon as he spelled it out, they should've played the song by Loretta Lynn LOL
It's a Tammy Wynette song.
I knew it was by someone like that.
Being an idiot or an ass is certainly very damaging, causes a lot of problems. But divorce is just a completely different thing. That promise and vow is something you just don't turn back on. Even though it cost you.
The hubby has not honored his vows.
I know a marrird couple like this....
Just another good example of why having the state sanction a relationship makes zero sense.
If he wanted to make his own decisions he should have stayed single, how it works.
A good marriage counselor can definitely change your life.
I got one for my first marriage and went in thinking he was going to give us the secrets and save our marriage and we were going to leave and live happily ever after. But he told me in front of my ex husband that the marriage was over at that point and my son and I would be better off if I just left him. He was right. I think there’s a huge misconception with marriage counselors which is prob why many people don’t go.
This is a slam dunk divorce, the numbers don't lie
It’s funny, I feel like I know who this call is about I know several people like this, “you can’t take money to the grave with you so might as well spend it all” type of people lol. They’re the ones who panic at 55-60 because they have absolutely nothing for retirement and they start learning how much they’re going to need and how fast time went by. I get it you should enjoy life - but you don’t need 100k+ in consumer debt to enjoy life.
My husband filed for divorce because he certainly wasn't going to be told anything, or talk, or work together. Good riddance.
Oh, man. That reminds me to get some more silver.
Dave’s voice sounds like South Park.
Yea Denise. This is NOT normal nor okay. I’m sorry.
Dave’s child voice 😂😂😂 I really need to call and tell him about my miserable life decisions too
I would never treat my wife like that. Part of "providing" for a family is planning and verifying a secure retirement. This guy needs to go back to living in the frat house because that's what he's acting like.
If the woman was buying stuff and the man wrote in dave would say get 6 jobs
I agree that the guy is immature but when males write or call in I don’t see Dave or the other men or women on this podcast give women the same smoke. 🤦🏿
While we have real estate holding, a 401k, and savings. We spend responsibly. I will saw I do owe a good amount of silver. It has doubled in price. It was a good investment. But not the only investment.
0:34 How did we learn the American Language growing up. I just noticed we literally have words that are spelled the same, with two different pronunciations and meanings. 😅
Separate (rit/rate)
Read (reed/red)
Data (day/daaa)
Either (I/ee)
Agree with the part of the advice that he has to agree to marriage consoling. If he does not agree the marriage is already over.
Lmao Dave’s baby voice 🤣🤣💀
If Dave saw a gold bar laying on the sidewalk he wouldn’t even bend over to pick it up. “It’s just a yellow rock”
chad strikes again
*Amazing video, you work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K into trading from just few months ago and now they are multimillionaires*
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You didn't see this behavior before you said "I Do"? Or did you think you could change him?
'tis a headscratcher ladies and gentlemen! A true mystery of a person.
While I don’t believe in divorce. I believe pre marriage counseling would have resolved this problem. The best time to bargain is before marriage.
She definitely has a reason to feel scared for the future with this man's attitude. Nothing he's doing is leading his family into financial security. Retirement will be a shocking situation without any preparation. It must be unbearable when there's no alignment on goals for a marriage and a spouse can't be trusted to be responsible.
And I am a 40 year-old man who doesn't spend money unless I need to. 😂😂😂.
That’s nuts. He is the woman in the relationship. And she’s the man.
I've got a muscle car, but I don't understand car guys. Having 4 cars means you now have to go for 4 oil changes. If you do it yourself, you're basically a part time mechanic trying to take care of all of those toys.
Yup they can change temporarily that’s it. Get out there and start a new life
Dave was on this man 😂
This when its nice to be single when I can save and invest as muchas I want and not have to worry about losers like this husband. :)
Dave kills me in this clip 😂😂😂😂😂
BARB LEFT MEH CUZZA MAH HAWGS N SILBER GOBBLESS
Hell yeah. Merica
Dave I wonder if this is more common now a days ,that married couples are living almost separate lives
1:23 😂😂😂😂
This voice took me out 😂😂😂😂.
Silver ?! So last year boom. Cheese apparently is a better hedge than gold and most commodities.
I would have liked to see Dr John with him on this one.
In one of Woody Allen's old standup routines he said he had a talk with his wife because they were poor and they could afford either a vacation or a divorce, but not both. They decided to get a divorce because the vacation would be over in 2 weeks, but the divorce would be something they always have.
I wonder if Dave would give the same advice if the roles were reversed
Dave is right here. Just a shame when the financially irresponsible one is a woman, he never calls for divorce so openly.
Great Cartman impression
Dave used to say he never recommended filing for bankruptcy or divorce. I guess that's changed. Pity.
😢marriage😢 crisis😢