Why I stopped searching for my life purpose.
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
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Hey! My name is...well if i say my name then mayve someone who i know may find it(infj too...) life is like a lake of overthinking
*will always keep supporting you forever Lana* 💚😇
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How comes you lost the account in the first place?
We spend so much time thinking about what are life purpose is, when in reality, life isn't about just having one single purpose, it's about doing what makes you feel alive and happy while creating a better world.
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Deep..!
Yesssss
indeed
I so agree with this Dina! I think it is a trick that our mind plays on us. It takes us out of the present moment. I was a cancer researcher, businesswoman, now coach and a CZcamsr... Best to be present and to let everything evolve✨🤗
To everyone who has the feeling that they are lost: You are not alone. And you are doing your best. Stop putting yourself down.
Thank you ❤️
We are together in this!
Thank you, I needed this
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Thank you so much.
I totally agree. Most of my life I watched people follow their “passion, purpose” in life and I had no clue what mine was. I fell into a pretty bad depression partly because of that lack of knowing what my purpose was. Now I understand that the only so called purpose in life is to live, to experience life, to love, travel, grow and just be. Just be happy.
@Tyler Gibson I think a lot of peoples in their twenties (or even younger) struggle with that same thing. Makes us all feel less lonely to know we are not crazy for feeling that way. That there are other people with the same struggle.
We are so disconnected from our inner selves nowadays. So distracted by this modernized world. I hope you find some peace within and overcome your depression :)
Yes you are right...but I also would say that we don't have to be "happy", that is another burden that society put and profit on us.
@@MyAndreia70 true at least not all the time :)
Thank you for this. I am 23 now, dropped out from a "very prestigious" university they say, unemployed and depressed. I don't know what to do with my life either and been bummed with everyone's expectations.
Tina thank you for your message. I needed it♥️
"The meaning of life is just to be alive.
It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves"- Alan Watts
Exactly, life is so simple. Just live.
So good! Everyone's purpose is to be alive in their own unique way
bla bla, then there will be no place like this that you can even read who Alan was. All those useless philosophers that lived on the foundation of tech - invented by people who... worked f**k hard !
@@rantg And your point is...?
everyone has a gift or talent that they can use to contribute to humanity.
Amazed at how this video popped up at just the moment I was thinking of what I'm supposed to be doing with my future.
Most of us feel the same way. Society and social media tells us one thing, but what we value in life should be an internal thing, not come from external sources. Personally, I've become a nihilists over the years. There is no purpose, just a sense of enjoyment, fulfilment, and passing on your DNA to the next generation. Everyone has to find their own value in life.
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*Same here* 👐💚
@@Aubatron 👌
It feels good to see that the ppl I follow , follow each other too it just gives me a sense that I probably an in some right place
i noticed that i always only start asking myself the "purpose" question when i am in a bad place mentally
Isn’t that interesting?! I think it is a question that takes us out of the present moment, and into our heads... In the future
@@intentionalliving7326 Exactly! But from all the questions we could've ask ourselves, why does it have to be that one?
@@rustamghafari9585 when we can't see the picture we wonder what's wrong with us compare ourselves to others and question our purpose
@@intentionalliving7326 true bad mood be having you think on another deeper level
This is interesting. I never made that connection myself.
I love this so much. I beat myself up a lot because I’m not studying to be a doctor or lawyer, I’m probably not going to be the person that cures cancer or world hunger. Maybe I’m not going to be a famous actress or Instagram model. But then I thought, that’s okay. It doesn’t matter if the world knows my name because in the end they’re not going to remember me. They’re going to take their own memories and feelings and I’ll take mine. I have my own purpose, and it’s okay if I’m just going to lead a quiet, peaceful and stable life.
wow thank you for commented this. it helps me to think
"You know, Prince Zuko, destiny is a funny thing. You never know how things are going to work out. But if you keep an open mind and an open heart, I promise you will find your own destiny someday."
-Uncle Iroh, Avatar the Last Airbender
"I am Melon Lord!" - Toph Beifong
@@RubberBand223 that’s rough buddy
And that's why I keep telling people that Avatar is not a kids show.
Thank you for mentioning this. Iroh is a top-tier character and role model.
Lana, you should start a podcast. Millions of people will listen to you. Yes we each have a life purpose.
Or write a book / audiobook
*Yes yes that's right*
I totally agree with you..
Yes! We´re all waiting for it (but no pressure, haha). A podcast from you would be a blessing Lana.
That great idea 🔥
somtimes not having a meaning in life is the meaning. not having a purpose can make you focus on the journey.
Finding a life purpose puts such pressure on (mostly) young people. For me, when somebody asks me what I want to do in life and why I not just do any job (without getting any value from it) just to be financially secure, I get really overwhelmed and sad. I know society tells us there has to be some stabilization in life... a job, a partner, a dream, an idea... anything... But for most people (as I'm speaking for myself and people I know really well) sometimes simply living is really hard. We just want to breathe and try to reconnect with ourselves and the world to find stabilization within us (as cheesy as it sounds). So I guess my purpose in life is going to find myself by trying to be more conscious about what is happening around me. And simply...breathe.... Thanks Lana, for this great video. I adore you very much and believe that you are one of the most interesting Persons I have ever listened to
Your comment made me tear up. I recognise myself so much in this but I couldn’t really put words on those feelings. Thank you :)
My purpose has been changing with me growing up and evolving as a person. I'm just happy to get excited about new things happening in my life and then go with the flow.
Your the type of person that everybody dream of having as best friend - empathic, intelligent, educated and superfriendly. Besides a very convenient narrating voice :) Wishing you all the best in the new year and hope that every visitor here in the comment sections finds these moments of purpose and happiness in 2021. Peace and love... Jeremy :)
thank you Jeremy, the same to you! I agree about Lana, she has such a calming, profound presence that is so positive...
@@bluejay5531 Thanks Blue Jay wish you a wonderful new week :)
So sweet 🤗✨ Thank you Jeremy and lots of care and kindest your way ✨✨
@@intentionalliving7326 Hey Elona - wishing you the same my friend! From Switzerland Jeremy :)
How kind of you. Thank you!
Watching soul on Disney plus really helped put things into perspective. Ive always lived my life thinking that there was one reason for me to on earth and I had to find my “purpose” but honestly that has made me MISERABLE
I watched soul on Christmas and it also put things into perspective for me. I keep telling myself I need to live my life to reach that certain thing, whatever that is but what happens when you do reach it? Am I just going to ask myself, “is this it?” “Is this my life now?” I realized after watching that movie that I need to stop trying to live my life like there’s a certain end goal because the truth is life is more than just a finish line just enjoy the race and even better don’t even look at it as a race just look at it as a joy ride because that’s how you’ll really enjoy it.
Yeah that movie really helped me. I tried finding a purpose, something that can help me feel much better because everyone I meet always asks me that I have a purpose and I should find it but after watching the souls, I realized that I wasn't present and that's why I became miserable .
@@maniespi4245 ow thanks for sharing your perspective :)
Life purpose pre- Corona: Make tons of money..
Life purpose today: Be happy and thankfull.
Regardless of the financial gain
Money doesn’t buy happiness. I try to see money as a resource, never the goal.
Making money is not a purpose....your purpose is meant to redeem human nature....making money is an ambition.
Having studied "science" in neuroscience, psychology, sociology and medical sciences for over46 years, I would say that the thoughts and insights of Lana Blakely are just as useful and valid as any published "scientific" study. Your mind and heart are tuned in to the nature of being human. That is your gift to humanity. Indeed, I would say that, once you realize how insightful you are, it is at that point, when you will "discover" your purpose in life. I have suggested that you study for an advanced degree in the social sciences, or pedagogy: a masters, and if you reach higher, a PhD. Regardless of your pursuit of higher education, I would say that you should take a topic of interest to you, like "finding purpose in life" and write a book sharing your ideas and feelings. This will be beneficial for you and for so many people who will read your book. I think you will put a smile on the face of so many thousands of people who follow your you tube--blog posts. Lana you are terrific. Just keep doing what you are doing, sharing your heart and mind with all of us.
I find people equate "having a purpose" with searching for something outside of themselves that they love and making a living off of it. I believe it should be an internal search and the rest will follow
I've been trying to put this into words so thank you for writing this!
Yes exactly!!
I relate your words with the idea of finding a boy/girlfriend to face problems together.
But in my opinion, we should first face our fears by ourselves and then we'll be ready for real friendship and great love stories.
At least, that's my path and I know not all people nees to go through this.
YES internal purpose!
"Instead of living my life thinking that there is this one big thing I'm supposed to discover called 'purpose,' I believe it is the many purposes, smaller ones and bigger ones, that bring fulfillment." This is really clarifying for me. I too value this mindset and your video really helps to solidify just why it's a useful perspective. Try new things. Be vulnerable, creative, and embrace that which brings you joy. But before any of that, be grateful for every waking hour and restful night. Thanks Lana for the insights!
I strongly resonate with your take on Lana's message by commenting, "before any of that, be grateful for every waking hour and restful night." To me, search of purpose is in a way a proof of your dissatisfaction with the given situation. But your comment, "to be grateful," is a way to counter this purposive search. If you are grateful for every waking moment, you are satisfied every moment, so there will be no necessity to search something outside a given moment. This is in a way, an application of gratitude as a way of finding purposes not only somewhere but actually everywhere. Gratitude leads to a fulfillment of each moment of our lives. Thanks for letting me express my reflection based on your comment.
@@AwakenYourInnerBuddha absolutely, and that's a beautiful reflection. I share your idea that "gratitude leads to a fulfillment of each moment of our lives." Each moment is the key for me especially
Honestly, this has to be the most liberating definition of "life purpose" that I have ever come across. Thank you, Lana.
We all have a purpose. Even constantly searching for a purpose can be a purpose. Some people are explorers.
I really found this video relatable Lana. I too spend a lot of time trying to figure out this purpose thing. But after some self reflection I noticed that instead of trying to find happiness in purpose and a reason to get up in the morning, I should do it in reverse instead. Why not be happy to begin with? Why not get up in the morning simply because of the joy of being. I know this sounds idealistic, which is why almost immediately many people will look at the negative things in life. How can I be happy if I have bills to pay? How can I be happy if I am not where I want to be? etc. But the reality is that the inner joy of being is within everyone's reach. How beautiful is it to just see the colours? If you are blind, how beautiful is it to hear? If you are deaf how beautiful is it to feel? And ultimately, how beautiful is it to just be?
That is such a great perspective, stay blessed 💕
Whoa. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective :)
I should screenshot this and read it from time to time. .... thank you for sharing, stay safe💌
i struggle alot with it too. I am so glad i found this video and your comment:)
The meaning of life is to become a Saint and spend eternity with God.
I think simply existing and living your best life, how you see fit and that current moment, is more than enough of a calling 🤗
Definitely!
So well put Nicole, thank you! We can change the question from what is my purpose to how can I live my best life, or how can I be fully present right now✨✨
"How did you do it? How did you find so much happiness?"
"Noah, I just didn't look so hard."
What we value most is often closer than we think.
Watching motivational speakers talk about how important our purpose in life is, it sometimes become really stressful & frustrating for people who haven’t found their purpose yet. Your video was really comforting, thank you, Lana ❤️
This is honestly such a soothing idea, especially if you’re in a transitional limbo stage in life like in between jobs, it’s so important to cultivate your own definition of purpose because if you put it into a “thing” and that thing disappears (like a job, relationship, materials), what happens to you then? Love love LOVE this💕💕💕
I’d agree with this 100%. As someone who had a job transition this past year, I completely relate to this.
What if we switched the question from what is my purpose to what is it that I am interested in that I wanna take some actions on? 😁😍🤗💕
I thought finding a job that serves others would give me that sense of fulfillment, but I realised that I was wrong, when last week I received a different job offer that I accepted because it would give me more freedom and the possibility to have more free time for my hobbies. So now I believe my "purpose" is to do the things I love and enjoy life in every moment and every single aspect. Finding a pleasant job is important but it doesn't have to be confused with your purpose in life, or at least this is what I currently think.
Love this perspective. Thanks for sharing!
I 100 percent agree. Even people with their dream jobs, eventually get worn out and tired . That's why I decided to not do something I love for a living . Instead I'll do something that it's suitable for me so it can give me financial stability and I'll do what I like as a hobby
Dalai Lama has said, "the purpose of life is to be happy".
It's a miracle to be alive.
Cherishing this and going with the flow gives every day a purpose.
We are no here just to be happy.. .I can not be happy if my cat or dear friend just died... It is not that simple... We are here to experience every emotion from happiness, to loss, sadness etc... Search for meaning, OK, but search for happiness, not sure... If nothing, we will all die one day... Some are not quite happy around that
@@dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347 Very well said. ✨
I think what helps is to feel the moments however they may be and accept them. Often, we try to run away to the next thing and miss the feeling of the moment.
Life is rarely exactly how we think we want it, so I guess, just going with the flow brings peace and calm.
Happiness is based on things that are happening. Short sighted. Don't stand on the foundation of happiness.
To say that the purpose of life is to be happy is very over-simplified and superficial.
Cherishing the things in your life, the people you love, etc., may bring a sense of contentment, but scarcely a sense of purpose.
Purpose has to be deeper than that 😁
@@judylloyd7901 I think what the Dalai Lams meant was that happiness is in living every moment. It is in waking up and being grateful for that. In cherishing life, we cherish our companions and friends and neighbors and strangers we meet. It is not easy to do this if we focus on what is wrong in life. So cherishing the positive leads to a life of positive purpose like compassion and empathy.
Anyway, that’s my interpretation and gives me peace and purpose 🙂
You know, it’s hard to find insightful content these days. The internet is flooded with 10-15 second videos of mind numbing & short term gratification. When I revisit this channel I’m relieved by the slow & insightful pace of your narration.
I learnt that it's more important to just appreciate life in times like this because nothing is certain. Work hard, stay focused but be happy. Life's too short to do otherwise. I hope all you guys have an amazing 2021, we can do this! 💪🏻
It is all about acceptance and living in a moment, to be presenr & be true to yourself.
Sending plenty of a great energy🚀
Instead of worrying excessively about finding my purpose, I'm trying to focus more on being present this year. The past year made me realize that I was taking the little things for granted and I wasn't following my own intuitions enough, I was always focused on what I think "I should" be doing.
Some people feel empty and don't know what's their purpose in life.
Let me tell you this, you need Jesus in your life. Only Him can fulfill that void in your heart.
YOU ARE LOVED! ♥
Do you know Jesus loves you and wants to have a relationship with you? Yes, YOU!
Not because He needs you, but because He wants you. His very nature is LOVE.
God wants you to know Him and enjoy His magnificence. Take a few minutes now to discover
how you can begin a personal relationship with Him.
God LOVES YOU SO MUCH that He GAVE His ONLY begotten Son
(Jesus Christ) to DIE for your sins.
John 3:16 says: For God so loved the world that He gave His
only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have
everlasting life. ; John 14:6 - Jesus
said, "I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father
except through Me".
Salvation is God's GIFT to us. Jesus paid it ALL at the
cross. Accepting Jesus Christ as your
LORD and PERSONAL SAVIOR is the greatest gift you can ever receive TODAY.
(Ephesians 2:8-9 says: For by grace you have been saved through faith and that
not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of good works, lest any man
should boast.
The simple plan of SALVATION:
ADMIT THAT YOU ARE A SINNER.
Romans 3:10
As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.
Romans 3:23
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
BE AWARE AND BELIEVE.
Be aware of the penalty of sin and believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross and rose
again for your salvation.
Romans 6:23
“For the wages of sin is death..” this pertains not just to physical death but
eternal death of our souls in the lake of fire. But the verse doesn’t end
there. And because God is a loving and just God - a God of kindness and justice
- it goes on in Romans 6:23 “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God
is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Romans 5:8
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners,
Christ died for us.
We all know this and yet it is not enough for us to just know about this great sacrifice.
We have to ACCEPT Jesus Christ as our Saviour - the Lord and Saviour of our
lives.
REPENT AND RECEIVE.
Repent of your sin and receive Jesus Christ in your heart as personal Savior and Lord.
John 1:12
But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.
Romans 10:9
“That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has
raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” That means that you must acknowledge
that Jesus is GOD and that God raised Him from the dead, which means that Jesus is
the Man who died and resurrected. Put your faith in Jesus Christ.
PRAYER:
“Heavenly Father, I admit that I am a SINNER and I need
Jesus Christ as my SAVIOUR. Please FORGIVE me for my sins. I BELIEVE that your
Son Jesus Christ DIED on the CROSS for me and that you raised Him from the
dead. At this very moment, I accept and proclaim JESUS CHRIST as my LORD and
personal SAVIOUR to live in my heart and life from this day forward. Right now,
I turn from my sins and put my faith in your Son. In Jesus' name, I pray,
Amen.”
If you pray that from your heart, God heard you. If you
accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, CONGRATS! HEAVEN IS REJOICING!
If you have any questions or clarifications please don't
hesitate to message me. I am willing to help :)
Message me on my FB: facebook.com/gazelfaith/
GOD BLESS!
Your videos are like those warm hugs from mum during that cold rainy night when dad drives us home. I'll forever cherish those moments.
This is such a great one, Lana! Too many ppl get caught up in trying to find their purpose and forget to start living...
Yes 🙌🏻 it’s a question that suctakes usto the future... in our heads and out of the prepresent moment ✨
My purpose in life is to continually create, learn, love, grow, live. It's your purpose too. It's everyone's purpose.
I love that ❤️
I was obsessed with the idea of finding purpose and I guess all of us are seeking answers everyday. But now I'm trying to focus on improving my craft and trying not to rush it. It feels much better to stay grounded and check in with myself to understand how my life is going and actively taking actions to overcome the issues (without trying to compete with anyone but myself) . So, 'finding purpose' feels better when I see it as a slow journey, unknown about the 'exact' destination but positive that I'm at a better place each day, from the day before.... Thanks for the great video Lana!
Some people feel empty and don't know what's their purpose in life.
Let me tell you this, you need Jesus in your life. Only Him can fulfill that void in your heart.
YOU ARE LOVED! ♥
Do you know Jesus loves you and wants to have a relationship with you? Yes, YOU!
Not because He needs you, but because He wants you. His very nature is LOVE.
God wants you to know Him and enjoy His magnificence. Take a few minutes now to discover
how you can begin a personal relationship with Him.
God LOVES YOU SO MUCH that He GAVE His ONLY begotten Son
(Jesus Christ) to DIE for your sins.
John 3:16 says: For God so loved the world that He gave His
only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have
everlasting life. ; John 14:6 - Jesus
said, "I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father
except through Me".
Salvation is God's GIFT to us. Jesus paid it ALL at the
cross. Accepting Jesus Christ as your
LORD and PERSONAL SAVIOR is the greatest gift you can ever receive TODAY.
(Ephesians 2:8-9 says: For by grace you have been saved through faith and that
not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of good works, lest any man
should boast.
The simple plan of SALVATION:
ADMIT THAT YOU ARE A SINNER.
Romans 3:10
As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.
Romans 3:23
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
BE AWARE AND BELIEVE.
Be aware of the penalty of sin and believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross and rose
again for your salvation.
Romans 6:23
“For the wages of sin is death..” this pertains not just to physical death but
eternal death of our souls in the lake of fire. But the verse doesn’t end
there. And because God is a loving and just God - a God of kindness and justice
- it goes on in Romans 6:23 “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God
is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Romans 5:8
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners,
Christ died for us.
We all know this and yet it is not enough for us to just know about this great sacrifice.
We have to ACCEPT Jesus Christ as our Saviour - the Lord and Saviour of our
lives.
REPENT AND RECEIVE.
Repent of your sin and receive Jesus Christ in your heart as personal Savior and Lord.
John 1:12
But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.
Romans 10:9
“That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has
raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” That means that you must acknowledge
that Jesus is GOD and that God raised Him from the dead, which means that Jesus is
the Man who died and resurrected. Put your faith in Jesus Christ.
PRAYER:
“Heavenly Father, I admit that I am a SINNER and I need
Jesus Christ as my SAVIOUR. Please FORGIVE me for my sins. I BELIEVE that your
Son Jesus Christ DIED on the CROSS for me and that you raised Him from the
dead. At this very moment, I accept and proclaim JESUS CHRIST as my LORD and
personal SAVIOUR to live in my heart and life from this day forward. Right now,
I turn from my sins and put my faith in your Son. In Jesus' name, I pray,
Amen.”
If you pray that from your heart, God heard you. If you
accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, CONGRATS! HEAVEN IS REJOICING!
If you have any questions or clarifications please don't
hesitate to message me. I am willing to help :)
Message me on my FB: facebook.com/gazelfaith/
GOD BLESS!
This video was so comforting to hear. A year ago I thought I had my whole life figured out. I started studying environmental engineering and was so sure that was my ultimate life goal. Long story short, that's no longer the situation. My mentality just shifted so tremendously in 2020 and I can 100% say I'm the happiest I've ever been. I made a video talking about why I dropped out and other reflections if you'd like to check it out :)
In my opinion, we don't exist for one sole purpose, life is so much more than a career or an accomplishment. Life is made up of relationships, beauty, growth, and so much more. It's so important to move the focus away from fulfilling your "purpose" and instead just recognize and find fulfilment in each little part of life itself.
Hey, Lana! I needed this video. Ive only recently started watching you within the past year. A lot of people I know seem to know what they want to do with their life and I feel like I’ve been floating around. I haven’t had that epiphany yet. But watching this video made me realize it doesn’t matter thank you so much! 😊
I appreciate you! It's honestly one of the reasons why I started CZcams. I always thought I was not "energetic" or "hype" enough to have people resonate with my message. But seeing your amazing followers proved me wrong. THANKS 🙏
Exactly, just be yourself and people will love you for who you’re, for your authenticity
Kasia Radan So true. Lovely people on her channel!!
What you said is absolutely Perfect - about having to find "one purpose" which is akin to imposing a minimalization of the human experience upon us. SO TRUE !
I’ve been feeling this way recently especially during the Lockdown, thank you for some of your videos I really got the courage to start my own CZcams channel(had the and for like 3years now)....... since then you’ve been my role model even though I don’t have a personal relationship with me, but you just really give me that vibes I need sometimes. When I feel kinda lost I just stay on your channel and watch your videos, that gives me some sort of peace. Thank you
"If there was a meaning/purpose to life, we would not be free. We would be trapped."
But a lot of people say that finding a meaning to life is really important because once you do, you'll have a reason to keep going and to bear any how. Even Victor Frankl said so and I agree with it. I just feel like we shouldn't lose ourself in the present while trying to find a meaning to life
@@meritu985 I completely agree. But there is no ultimate meaning to life. In acknowledging that, you have the freedom to create/develop/evolve your own. 😊
This is exactly what I needed today and everyday. I always tell myself I can’t “start my life” until I find my purpose, and all I’m doing is pushing off living my best life day to day. Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration 💜
I really feel good every time I watch your video. Your thought process, in a way, helping me to get my life sorted. Thanks !!
This video itself has made a huge impact on my outlook with the situation of “finding my passion or purpose.” My whole teenage life I felt extremely lost and felt I had wasted away my years because I never truly did anything fulfilling. Not saying this video cured my struggle but you made points that have helped me ease my anxiety and would definitely recommend this to someone else going through the same thing ❤️
Finally started my CZcams channel after 2020 showed us how fragile life can be. Finding the purpose is rarely instant.
I stared mine too for the same purpose 😂 Would you like to support each other?
agree! all the best with your journey 💫
I think a lot of us needed this video right now.
Thank you so much, Lana! Yesterday I had a conversation with my bf regarding this whole "purpose" thing. and I almost cried because of frustrations, but now I feel a lot better! You purposely make us feel better!!!
I think this really ties well into the power of “presence,” as well. When we get stuck in the future (like finding our purpose) or stuck in the past (like ruminating on all our missed opportunities), we lose sight of what’s right in front of us. By living each day in the present, with mindfulness and curiosity like an infant discovering the world for the first time, we sort of unlock that missing piece of the puzzle in living a meaningful life. At least, that’s been my philosophy as of late. Loved the video!
You are glowing in this video. Thank you, I felt at peace watching it.
Excellent video! It’s okay to be lost, the key is to live in the moment and not worry about societal produced targets, work on your dream!
Amen 🤩 that question takes us into the future, we don’t ‘need’ to take actions until we ‘figure out’ our purpose 👀 Funny concept!!
Hi Lana, amazing way of choosing words. The politeness and calmness is completely looked robotic but I love the way pointing out issues.
I whole heartedly agree 💛 I kept asking myself what am I supposed to do with my life and future, and there is this one big thing I have to pursue. But true happiness and fulfillment really comes from living a life that aligns with your values, like u said. When I have deep conversations with my friends and family I am not wasting my time infact I find it so fulfilling bc I value my relationships and helping people when they are upset to make them feel better. Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏼💛
This and your “why my life is boring” video are so refreshing and different from many of the videos on here! I love hearing from someone with this perspective.
P. S. I also had the “what if I could’ve been a great chess player” thought after watching Queen’s Gambit lol
Your voice is super soothing!!! Keep up your great work Lana!!!
This is definitely a reminder for myself as I get affected by constantly searching for my purpose!!
I am so happy I found your channel! You somehow always post videos that are perfect for the situations I am in and it helps to see I am not alone and how I can work toward a better me
I really strive to incorporate your values in my life❤️❤️ you're so mindful and calm and mature.
That's so true, Lana is amazing! She actually inspired us to start our CZcams channel last year! Forever grateful for this woman and all her wisdom ☺️💛Would love for you to check out our channel btw- we love connecting with likeminded people 🙌
I've watched/listened to your channel for about a year and today's subject was great. At 67 I've learned 2 great secrets connected to the conundrum of what is my life's purpose etc. The first one is letting go a bit and learn to let life pull you forward in a direction without ones mind being so involved. It's letting new information in like a child would without having to file it somewhere in your mind. The second one is a pure gem. Go back to your childhood and remember all the things you loved to engage in. When I was a kid I loved to go camping, sand wood, take things apart. Also, I loved birds, and started vegetable gardening at 5 years old. My career ended up me becoming a home builder, having hudge gardens, and owning land that I camp on as often as possible. Another example is one of my kids. When she was very young she would love removing slivers of wood from my hands after a days work. It was natural for her at age 6 and on to do this. She's now a Doc. I know this sounds a bit over simplified but this approach has worked for me and others I know.
Such a lovely read (I dream of having a garden one day). Thank you for sharing :)
Thank you so much for this. You have no idea how this video helped with my anxiety about this whole “purpose” thing!
I can relate to that. I think it's not about finding a purpose but rather to live with the purpose. I know this can be challenging to realize especially in tough times. I am a strong believer that every disadvantage can be turned into an advantage.
💙💙💙 “The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies no excuses. No one can lean on, rely on, or blame. It’s an amazing journey and you are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.” - Bob Moawad
This!!!
It's so sweet that you call what you do on youtube a conversation! I like it a lot. It feels like you really care about us :)
I am so grateful for this reframe ~ I have definitely struggled, the last few years, with a fixation on wanting to "find my life purpose" and your perspective has really allowed for me to recognize how important it is to live my life WITH purpose or purposefully. By doing that, I believe whatever is meant to showcase itself, will (or maybe not!) and that's okay! It's something I know deep down and hearing you say this really hit home for me, tonight. Thank you
I just can't get enough of Lana, I always find her videos so calm and inspiring. The way she talks really makes you pause and look around you.... her videos reminds me that life is not just about 'go, go,go' but to slow down and enjoy the little things
So true, Lana is amazing- she always creates super profound and inspiring content! She is actually one of the CZcamsrs that inspired us to start our own channel to make self-improvement fun...forever grateful for this woman!! 😊🙌
The purpose of life is just to be alive. Don’t stress and be happy!
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What does it exactly mean to be alive? A lot of people want to be alive but obstacles and situations make it hard for them to be alive . I feel like if you have a why then you can bear any how. Most people don't even want to be alive anyways . If you have nothing to live for then you'd definitely care less about being alive
@@meritu985 What I'm trying to say is that there is no real purpose it's more that people think there has to be a purpose, but there is not. The purpose of living and having something to live for are two different things. You need to focus on what makes you happy and get out of your bed every morning instead of finding a purpose in live. You don't have to seek for career goals if that doesn't make you happy. You don't have to go out and party if thats not your thing. Just do what you love and try not to get influenced by other people because you're scared that you will lower there expactations of you. When you find your true self and except who you are and what you want in life, trust me you have something to live for.
Watched this video with a stupid smile on my face, because this is exactly what I needed to hear. What a reassurance. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
great video, I don’t look for purpose much any more either, I look for what calls out to, what gives me a burning desire to pursue through thick and thin
I’ve been really scared and bothered about lot of things lately ........ really needed to open up to some, watching this video I feel a bit relaxed . Thank you
I’m in my 40s and I still don’t know what I want to do with my life all I know is that I like taking courses on the most random stuff right now I’m taking courses in Reiki, Kundalini yoga, Yoga for Fibromyalgia, Spanish, Positivity, Health 101 and that’s all at this time.
Simply become a Saint and spend eternity in Heaven 😌🇻🇦
@Dipender Singh who is krishna? A demon. I worship the Triune God, do not test me😤
@Dipender Singh all the gods of the nations are demons, but the Lord made the heavens
@Dipender Singh there is only One God
@Dipender Singh Vedic scripture are not Gods word. You can’t learn the truth from them.
Great video as always Lana! My life purpose is an extremely simple one that I believe can apply to everyone:
“Do what you love right now, or at least love what you do right now”
This has been running inside my head ever since I was 14. Just a few days ago I told myself that this is worrying is really meaningless and instead I’ve decided to try things that I’m interested in, work through my life and it has definitely brought me a lot of solace and peace. Thanks for sharing your insight Lana! I finally feel like I’m not alone on this journey of acceptance and growth :)
Just when I needed it. Your timing is perfect, Lana 💛
I had a long existential crises because of the pressure I felt to have a meaningful purpose, felt like I didn't have anything special or strong enough to live for. After a lof of self-reflection and introspectation, I've choose that my life purpose is simply just to become more of who I am, self-growth and self-respect.
I love your videos and your mindset, wish there were more people like you.
Oh, ps: I think your hair is beautiful :)
I think that over the time I shifted my mindset from "gotta find that life purpose" to "create the purpose yourself". I no longer believe it's a thing that magically falls into your lap but more like something that you might become fond of over the time, as your character and experience are developing. In fact, it's a beautiful journey and I'm learning daily how to be patient and accept it's a long term run that challenges and changes us as we grow. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic! ♥️
I found this video through suggested videos.
Very informative!
It really added to my understanding of a "life purpose" and inspired me to work on a documentary about it.
Thank you! Please keep it up - just subbed!
Nice video, I can relate to much of what you are saying. I don't think purpose is an end goal where you suddenly start feeling aligned and fulfilled. I have gradually found my sense of purpose by learning to follow my gut appreciated each day as much as possible. In my heart, I feel I'm an artist so I pay attention each day to see where the artistic path takes me.
You basically went from purpose to integrity. I like it. And I think you're a modern philosopher. 😊
I love love love this video. Totally went into a spiral after graduating and felt like nothing was “good enough”. Later on, I’d come to learn about the 6 basic human needs, and often those who are struggling with the concept of purpose are lacking in Significance, and further, a sense of self identity. And that question of “what is the purpose of finding my purpose?” was brilliant! Something to really think about.
Wow! I've been watching your videos for a while, and I think they are just getting better and better. I like this philosophy very much!
I really like this idea of putting more emphasis on living purposefully through the little things instead of focusing so hard on this one major life purpose. We collectively really gotta stop chasing so much.
Thank you Lana❤
This was one of the best videos I have seen in a long time. I've been thinking about this for a while and really think you spoke to the issue perfefctly!
Love it ❤️ Thanks for sharing. We all are always eager to find the purpose of our lives. And yes we do feel lost when we can't find the purpose of life. It is definitely about living life everyday. Living every day purposefully it what is really the purpose of life. Valuing peace and mindfulness is very important.
I learnt last year that it’s okay to chase a goal which is supposed to make you “happy” at the end, but that its so important that the journey you take to get there also makes you happy
All the purposes that you mentioned can be condensed to simply "my purpose is to love" and I would add 'to recieve love' 💗. Love all your videos but I'd sit and hit the like button a thousand times if I could xx
Dunno how I stumbled upon your channel but I’m really glad I did. I think happiness is superficial. What I value more is peace.
thank you, lana. i really feel much better.
There's no exact purpose in this random chaotic perfect universe!
After I graduated to become a podiatrist and opened my own clinic I had a panic attack. It was because it wasn’t my passion and even though I accomplished so much at a young age I realized I wanted to do something more. That’s why I started a CZcams channel and want to share my experiences and motivate others to follow their soul. I worry about patients finding me on here and looking ridiculous but it’s honestly what makes me happy. Hoping to look back at my account in 10 years and see how far I’ve come. Thanks for the motivation 💕
You did good. Inspiring.
I love all of your content, but this video hits different. Thank you so much for this! It is exactly what I needed to hear today
i actually need to sleep rn but i wanna let u know that i love listening to what you have to say... the things you say and how you say them give me peace. so thank you, you are one of a kind :)
Beautiful message Lana 💜✨ let’s remember that this present moment is the most beautiful one we have and we don’t need to have a socially conventional purpose to live a sincere and genuine life 🥰 wishing you all a wonderful day ✨✨
🙌🏻 yes!! It is like we do to ourselves what others do to kids with the question ‘what are you gonna do when you grow up’... it does not allow evolving✨
I’ve also been on a journey of detaching myself from the obsession of finding a purpose.
This is something I'm struggling very much with these days and it gives me so much stress, it's so exhausting. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, once again they are helping me ♡
Great message Lana! I feel like I can resonate with the way you view life. Enjoying the little moments and keeping it simple. Thank you for sharing and inspiring
Amazing insight! I 100°% agree with what she says. And I am very thankful for the reminder. I'am 20 years old, I left University and now I live alone, having lots of time to create something. Somehow in the past few years I felt so stuck. You just pointed out what the reason was. The whole society around me including my family, wants me to "suceed", to do something. Isn't it enough that I'm alive? Like look around. As I look around I see madness. Ain't it enough success that I am doing what I think is right for me while trying to heal myself from the wounds that I got while I was growing up in a madhouse? Of course there are many kind people and everybody deserves love but our society is sick...so you who's reading this: You are enough. Let go of your ideas what other people think of you or your choices and do what's best for YOU.
Love this, it's such a great point! One of our favorite quotes is "Being yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment you can achieve". This is a message we are trying to push a lot on our channel as well as we have taken a less traditional path and have definitely felt pressure from society and family to conform! Keep being you, hope the healing brings much happiness into your life ☺️💛
@@SteAndRach Then you have a new subscriber ;)
everybody needs a lana in their life
totally agree with u. This video brought me peace. Thank you.
It's so interesting how we attract things into our lives. I'm trying to find my purpose since Dec 30th 2020. Everyday. Trying to create the right vision board for me and now, after watching this video, I'm at peace. Thank you Lana❤
Thank you for this, Lana! 🐳
🐳 thank you for watching!