Oprah Winfrey's Life Advice Will Leave You SPEECHLESS (MUST WATCH)

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  • čas přidán 23. 01. 2021
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    Want to be SUCCESSFUL? Listen to this INCREDIBLE motivational speech by Oprah Winfrey. Want to be SUCCESSFUL? Listen to this INCREDIBLE motivational speech by Oprah Winfrey. She shares her greatest wisdom's, telling us her life story, and journey to becoming the woman she is today. This Powerful Motivational Speech for 2021 will change your future and leave you speechless!
    Speaker: Oprah Winfrey
    Oprah Winfrey is a talk show host, media executive, actress and billionaire philanthropist. She’s best known for being the host of her own, wildly popular program, The Oprah Winfrey Show, which aired for 25 seasons, from 1986 to 2011. In 2011, Winfrey launched her own TV network, the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN).
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  • @MotivationArk
    @MotivationArk  Před 3 lety +60

    What I Know For Sure: amzn.to/3m0hJXP
    The Path Made Clear: Discovering Your Life's Direction and Purpose: amzn.to/31tFXjH
    *_Thank you so much for watching, if you enjoyed the video please leave a like and share this video with someone who could use some inspiration. God bless you all and I hope you all accomplish what you set out to do today._* 😊

  • @michaelcraigmaki4579
    @michaelcraigmaki4579 Před 3 lety +339

    Oprah, after 12 years of self hating myself I was beyond the point of throwing in the towel. I had zero motivation, just layed in bed trying not to be alive. Except for my children I probably wouldn’t even still be here. Then about a month ago somebody believed in me (you) for that I’m eternally grateful. I got up started listening to CZcams Motivational speakers and I now have an entirely new thought process. I am worth something, I can achieve success, I will be loved again. Yesterday, after 12 years of being unemployed I went to The Milwaukee Brewers and applied for a job at an open interview. On my way there I thought I’d be lucky just to get a dishwasher job. I ended up with the most coveted job being offered-host of the suites. I’ll be taking care of the people in the suites during the game making sure they have everything they need. I just want to say that you did make a major difference in somebody’s life-mine! Thank you so much-Michael Maki

    • @soekokolattsoekokolatt9399
      @soekokolattsoekokolatt9399 Před 3 lety +1

      She is not went to see me.This is very truly and she do not love me is really she like ,she went is not me.

    • @michellec2899
      @michellec2899 Před 3 lety +10

      So proud of you Michael! Oh the places you will go,( by Dr Seuss)
      Cuddles from Canada 🌺🌸🌼🇬🇧🇨🇦M

    • @nanoharrypotter7361
      @nanoharrypotter7361 Před 3 lety +9

      Really happy for u Friend I wish u loads of happiness and success forever🤩❤️💞

    • @sto9135
      @sto9135 Před 3 lety +9

      All the best with your new job. Keep smiling mate 😊

    • @hanksfranciscusbernadus792
      @hanksfranciscusbernadus792 Před 3 lety

      @@michellec2899 yeah really a great turn around

  • @actuallybusiness1622
    @actuallybusiness1622 Před 3 lety +312

    *" when you focus on problems, you will have more problems, when you focus on possibilities, you will have more opportunities "*

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree! 👍

    • @kjshakurrn
      @kjshakurrn Před 2 lety +1

      that's a fact

    • @pradeepgr5080
      @pradeepgr5080 Před 2 lety +2

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    • @k-poplachimolala9910
      @k-poplachimolala9910 Před 2 lety +2

      Great 👍
      Thanks for the information 🙏
      God bless you

    • @muslimaadilova
      @muslimaadilova Před 2 lety +2

      👍👍👍

  • @nithyashree6388
    @nithyashree6388 Před 3 lety +65

    When you are doing the work you are meant to do,it feels right !

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 Před 2 lety +61

    Oprah’s advice is what has taken me 70 years to learn. I wish I had learned this when I was young. However, it is never to late to learn that ‘what matters most is what comes from inside’.

  • @christinamois
    @christinamois Před 2 lety +7

    “In order to be truly happy, you must live along with and you have to stand for something larger than yourself. Because life is a reciprocal exchange. To move forward you have to give back.”
    So strong and true. Thank you, Oprah!

  • @fatatinnazhifah8618
    @fatatinnazhifah8618 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you...
    1. Feel right, do it
    2. What I can learn
    3. What I can give

  • @joyconnell1318
    @joyconnell1318 Před 2 lety +1

    Sometimes I think, what’s the use? I’m too old to contribute anything. It’s all I can do to take care myself and my house. Then I remember the gifts along the way. ‘The children’; their growth, their accomplishments, their children. How we traveled together and grew because of each other. At the start I never saw the power in being a parent, I never realized how important my love was - love begets love! The heart of our mothers and fathers in self sacrificing is where our hearts belong. The universe is big but love is larger. I move slower today but if we cross paths I promise to care and share whatever I have to give - we are all family! Thank you Oprah for the stimulating speech! 🤗❤️

  • @Silverhairwitch
    @Silverhairwitch Před 3 lety +33

    " What is this here to teach me? " I like that better than " why is this happening..."

  • @Praisegospel68
    @Praisegospel68 Před rokem +2

    I pray that God visits your home today with Healings, Blessings, and Miracles.Time is still the bestanswer. Forgiveness is still the best pain killer and God is still the best healer. Amen.💕

  • @kathyescobedo461
    @kathyescobedo461 Před 2 lety +39

    She is a gift from God to humanity❤️

    • @aquariustheheretic7567
      @aquariustheheretic7567 Před 2 lety +1

      unless your name is michael jackson or monique.

    • @kathyescobedo461
      @kathyescobedo461 Před 2 lety +1

      @@aquariustheheretic7567 😂😂😂

    • @aquariustheheretic7567
      @aquariustheheretic7567 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kathyescobedo461 i have had a love/hate relationship with oprah ever since i discovered her on wls-tv back in fall 1984. sometimes she's relatable and sometimes she moves in a strange and mysterious godlike fashion. she's not so palatable when she's in her godlike mode.

    • @kathyescobedo461
      @kathyescobedo461 Před 2 lety +1

      @@aquariustheheretic7567 she is a billionaire, don’t know how she acts a bit normal! She is Godlike!😂😂

    • @aquariustheheretic7567
      @aquariustheheretic7567 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kathyescobedo461 well, for decades, her brand has been that she's greatly blessed but still a person of the people. but sometimes, she has both feet on mount olympus. some other star just revealed that while they were on vacation in hawaii that there was a whole area they couldn't visit including the access road because oprah owned it.

  • @lynnealbert3878
    @lynnealbert3878 Před 3 lety +31

    I miss your show ! It was MY hour of relaxation !

  • @fatimamelicio7980
    @fatimamelicio7980 Před 3 lety +30

    Great women! You make a difference , you make the world a better pleace, Oprah ! God bless you all your Friends and family 💞🌍💞🙌🏽🙏🏼

    • @NoCommonMeasure
      @NoCommonMeasure Před 2 lety

      Yes 🙌🏾👏🏾 czcams.com/video/Xh-iy4VKEno/video.html

  • @zaringonda6068
    @zaringonda6068 Před 2 lety +40

    When you see Oprah you immediately feel, Ooh that's Power! And in a positive, inspiring way.

    • @morganfaun8696
      @morganfaun8696 Před 2 lety

      Oprah's, the biggest disappointment in characters. Loser, deceiver, greed.
      Corrupted.

    • @NoCommonMeasure
      @NoCommonMeasure Před 2 lety

      Hi Zarin, I agree with you czcams.com/video/Xh-iy4VKEno/video.html

  • @gloriagarguena1802
    @gloriagarguena1802 Před 2 lety +10

    It is vey important to be intuitive of yourself, and have some spiritual guidance.. you gotta have a grip of your inner self, discipline on thoughts, planning, prayers help very much. Be guided . Thank you Oprah for your inspirational shows. We miss you

  • @sophiadevero7813
    @sophiadevero7813 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Oprah and....I love your name!!!!

  • @lynnealbert3878
    @lynnealbert3878 Před 3 lety +30

    Love this speech. It made my day ! Thank you. God bless you ! 🥰🙏🙏🙏

  • @1001zaki
    @1001zaki Před 3 lety +40

    i like her so much.. she is one of those powerful woman on the planet..🤩❤️..

  • @maryciano3979
    @maryciano3979 Před rokem +2

    Excellent speech. One day I would like to follow Ophra's example and educate children in Africa.

  • @snarayanak2934
    @snarayanak2934 Před 2 lety +1

    Move forward in your life as you cannot get past. Only forward

  • @rosalindanguyen5815
    @rosalindanguyen5815 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you,
    ❤ Oprah Winfrey.

  • @shubampreetkaursandhu8131
    @shubampreetkaursandhu8131 Před 3 lety +21

    Marvellous speech . I learn ample of things through that speech .

  • @Gupta4298
    @Gupta4298 Před 3 lety +14

    It's actually a great graduation speech...Wish I had that on my day, lol.

  • @mcurcio8315
    @mcurcio8315 Před 2 lety +6

    God bless this woman!

  • @dianatapanes6703
    @dianatapanes6703 Před rokem +1

    You are the inspiration of many women, thank you for your example, advice and guidance.

  • @passion4creativity1
    @passion4creativity1 Před 3 lety +47

    "When you're doing the work you're meant to do it feels right" I love that

  • @VirtuellerDeutschlehrer
    @VirtuellerDeutschlehrer Před 2 lety +6

    “Trust your hurt and success will come to you” Oprah W.

  • @shakeellatif7705
    @shakeellatif7705 Před rokem +1

    Hello, Oprah I'm from Pakistan. Your voice is means of catharsis for me. When i feel down or think about to give up i switch on your videos ❤️
    Thank you. Out of my bigger dreams is to meet you.One day I'll...

  • @TheNiqabGirl
    @TheNiqabGirl Před 3 lety +18

    So beautiful indeed..you really motivate me the most..thank you for your advices ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @crisangelimperial352
    @crisangelimperial352 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I really admire this woman just like mother theresa..love her..

  • @nancylicho3538
    @nancylicho3538 Před rokem +1

    Oprah I love you. Your an inspiration..

  • @skyetai8348
    @skyetai8348 Před 3 lety +16

    Beautiful and practical useful information…thank you, Oprah.

    • @NoCommonMeasure
      @NoCommonMeasure Před 2 lety

      Thank you czcams.com/video/Xh-iy4VKEno/video.html

  • @arnaudsynajie281
    @arnaudsynajie281 Před rokem +2

    Thank you Mother Oprah for your advice!God bless you deeply and richly!😘😃

  • @luciemarinov129
    @luciemarinov129 Před 2 lety +7

    Very helpful and motivating for me! I’m older but still have dreams to achieve! Listening to Oprah is very helpful and these videos will stay with me!

  • @sarvgrover
    @sarvgrover Před 3 lety +7

    Stay still & do whatever is right

  • @gloriajordan1552
    @gloriajordan1552 Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful words. I love Oprah.

  • @emmafuentesbaltazar8801
    @emmafuentesbaltazar8801 Před 2 lety +2

    God bless to all people Amen

  • @omalichaeze1288
    @omalichaeze1288 Před 3 lety +6

    I love Oprah she is the best

  • @hannablue7038
    @hannablue7038 Před 2 lety +1

    This is very inspirational. I also have a sixth sense that guides me. I've learned to use it too late. But I'm on the right path. If people don't get me, I leave them behind. I tried too hard and was hated. Now, I do not inflict myself on people. I'm fine alone. I have let go. I am learning to be calm. What you have gone through makes you more than just a survivor, it makes you a leader who can pass your wisdom to us all. I tried to give back and people thought that I was trying to buy their friendship. I don't buy presents, because I have been misunderstood. The thing is I loved to give people gifts, I stopped. I understand your message.

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Před 3 lety +2

    I Always like to listen good advice by seniors and walk but not by force through kindness plus devotees

  • @janellvirtuouswoman4896
    @janellvirtuouswoman4896 Před 2 lety +2

    What is this here to Teach me?? Thank You Oprah Your the Best! Keep on Inspiring!!☺😍🥰🙂😊

  • @gemma5039
    @gemma5039 Před 2 lety +4

    That was one of the best speeches ive ever heard.

  • @abebawmelaku2332
    @abebawmelaku2332 Před rokem +1

    I went to say to all group I give forgiveness 100%.I thanks GOD !

  • @itsjustart24
    @itsjustart24 Před rokem +1

    Love you Oprah!

  • @ivanabadzim1303
    @ivanabadzim1303 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you Susie,thank you for all the lessons♥️

  • @juliagreen2186
    @juliagreen2186 Před 2 lety

    All citizens of the globe must live for the journey, not just the terminal point of life, and steady life with a focal point. Never give up.

  • @OhJennifer20
    @OhJennifer20 Před 2 lety +10

    Jesus, I needed to hear this!

  • @bobbitruong
    @bobbitruong Před 3 lety +12

    She's the best of the best!

  • @corinneyoung8166
    @corinneyoung8166 Před 2 lety +11

    Thank you and blessings Oprah ! What a way to start the day, being inspired around service !

  • @ssengoobashaffic9593
    @ssengoobashaffic9593 Před 2 lety +3

    Bismillah thanks for message queen 👑 Oprah Winfrey

  • @h.mohamednazer9704
    @h.mohamednazer9704 Před rokem +1

    Good.. Advice... All time...

  • @amdplus1
    @amdplus1 Před 2 lety +1

    Great woman like my wife,mom and mother in Law inspiring and always giving something back

  • @sarasilverman3587
    @sarasilverman3587 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank You Oprah!!!!! 🙏🐾🌈🦋🌱🌻❤️💡💌

  • @samibadini5897
    @samibadini5897 Před 9 měsíci +1

    WOW! incredible speach

  • @Rajani5426
    @Rajani5426 Před 2 lety +1

    You are just amazing Oprah🙏 I have met you twice, once in Chicago at your show then another time at UCLA. That was a amazing experience. Hope to meet you one more time🙏🙏❤️❤️❣️

  • @mariethompson183
    @mariethompson183 Před 2 lety +4

    Wonderful show Oprah,keep up the good work!

  • @leilahasanzade1291
    @leilahasanzade1291 Před 2 lety +4

    immensely inspiring. her voice illustrates power and perseverance. it gives me energy to keep up

  • @nimcosaleeban1053
    @nimcosaleeban1053 Před 3 lety +8

    Thanks you so much for sharing

  • @shahneelatariq3338
    @shahneelatariq3338 Před 2 lety +2

    I love u oprah...
    i really respect u and ur thoughts...
    keep it up my love

  • @abdullahferoz7909
    @abdullahferoz7909 Před 3 lety +5

    Remarkable personality 👌

  • @katiadeschampsdoringer617

    You are an inspiration for me!
    Thanks for this wonderful video!
    🌹

  • @convaliente
    @convaliente Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful 😍 Advice/ msg.! God bless ur heart..❤️🌹🌹🎶🎈

  • @bethcorreces783
    @bethcorreces783 Před 3 lety +5

    I always want to hear from you because you are very talented

  • @alinabrauet9083
    @alinabrauet9083 Před 3 lety +2

    MANY do not share Mrs Winfrey values spiritual concerns and life concepts
    Happy to see her success.. not for MANY.

  • @agnesmuthoni8984
    @agnesmuthoni8984 Před 3 lety +6

    AMEN! Very true!

  • @visionsofasia1649
    @visionsofasia1649 Před 3 lety +11

    What a speech. That would be amazing to hear the day you graduate 🎓

  • @lisazavala3053
    @lisazavala3053 Před rokem

    Oprah you truly are an inspiration to people from all walks of life!! I know you have struggled with many adversities in life. I often feel like my life is like one big adversity & screw up. I’ve dealt with rapes, suicide attempts, drug use, depression, anxiety, teenage pregnancy, high school drop out, death of My mom, bullying, bc I wasn’t like the other kids. I guess it all started when I was born a biracial baby and was placed for adoption. Then I often have to remind myself that I too, am a child of God & am blessed beyond measures! I was raised by 2 amazing parents that gave me the best that they could offer, I was able to get my GED & complete a university before I was 21, I have 2 amazing adult children that are truly Gods gifts! I have a roof over our heads & food to eat everyday, I have a professional job that I love & would do for free & I have a boyfriend for the first time in 10 yrs that truly loves me for me and not for what I could be. Yes there are things in my life that I deal with that aren’t ideal, but it’s up to me to stop dwelling on the things I can not change & focus on what I can. Today I am going thru something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. But I’m not gonna waste this precious day by sulking & making everyone else around me miserable. I will rise up & understand the lesson to be learned here & move on to better myself & help build others up. Thank you Oprah for your dedication to being the best version of you! This video was put in front of me for a purpose & that was to help me become the best version of me!

  • @desireewells1398
    @desireewells1398 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi Oprah. My goal is to fall in love with something every day and I need to tell you I have been watching this over and over again and each time that I do I fall more in love with your spirit and how your share is helping to move me more into ME💕!!! Thank you for that👱🏽‍♀️

  • @irmadeguzman1255
    @irmadeguzman1255 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you so much for this video. It’s very inspiring

  • @derejeterefe136
    @derejeterefe136 Před 3 lety +3

    You are so motivational speaker

  • @savannageorgia
    @savannageorgia Před 2 lety +3

    Beloved Oprah, I love your statement. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. Dearest Oprah, my question is when following my emotional guidance system, many times it feels hurtful especially to my immediate family members as well as my partner. Could you kindly give advise!

  • @stephanieawuah
    @stephanieawuah Před 2 lety +2

    Great advice from Oprah!! Love the tips in the comment section too!

  • @user-gf1lo1wo2x
    @user-gf1lo1wo2x Před 2 lety +2

    We are really need motivations like these thanks you so much

  • @unnamed3679
    @unnamed3679 Před 3 lety +5

    when you get a job be sure your work is for others they need.. like a doctor or a farmers...because the work you've done is not only for you but for the other peoples need that is the great treasure you found it in yourself.. the purpose of life is to be happy and have the memory of the others..not only for you..but to all people in your life..thats the purpose of humanity and not to be successfull in your life to be rich...😁

  • @subhashnisarta3496
    @subhashnisarta3496 Před 3 lety +2

    I am always happy with you and your 🎁 speech which is always touch everyone else.

  • @amirmoezi8316
    @amirmoezi8316 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks a million for your invaluable content ... it was just wonderful

  • @susanmmilambo5939
    @susanmmilambo5939 Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful.. Life is now Oprah!!!

  • @mayathomas909
    @mayathomas909 Před 3 lety +4

    True words

  • @reylibongco8399
    @reylibongco8399 Před 2 lety

    Nghe xong bài này cái thấy tâm trạng buồn và nặng nề kinh khủng. Nhưng lại cứ phải replay hoài cả ngày😍

  • @nadjastojanova6544
    @nadjastojanova6544 Před 3 lety

    Thanks God for Oprah!

  • @Kiwi-cn9cg
    @Kiwi-cn9cg Před 3 lety +4

    sometimes you don't know how an opportunity will feel like unless you're given the chance to try.
    Your guts want to do it,for some of us, challenges are exciting, for others, this doesn't make sense.
    The only difference is that some people will risk everything and get out of their comfort zone, while others just won't.
    I believe, the first thing is to be given an opportunity, and then, prove that you can continue in that role.

  • @lacubanitaencasa9937
    @lacubanitaencasa9937 Před 3 lety

    Hi Oprah. These words are buzzing inside me. I came across this video by chance. I've been feeling so angry,confused and very low. I've wanted to be a doctor but studied something opposite. Its a calling that has been following me for the longest time but I think I have avoided foolishly.Now having a baby with severe allergies,feeling her pain with the constant itching,not being able to eat everything,feeling helpless practically,has been like a hard bad knock to me. I am 32,unemployed, and honestly feeling like it's too late to start. I didn't do Biology in schooll and no money to study so I don't know really where I stand. But seeing this video has given me some glimmer of hope to try. I need to at least try,I know I owe it to myself. Or else I am going to spend the rest of my life regretting. I need help.

  • @ilonabenedek8089
    @ilonabenedek8089 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank YOU OPRHE FOR THIS VIDEO MOTIVATIONAL ,POST LWKDOWN I'M NOT ENNERGY. 🤗🤗🤗👍🤗👌🤗

  • @lorahargrove9710
    @lorahargrove9710 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you😇

  • @ThrillerBarbie
    @ThrillerBarbie Před 3 lety +1

    Oprah you the best

  • @KajalYadav-yk7ip
    @KajalYadav-yk7ip Před 3 lety +2

    To be happy you have to give something back.

  • @vasiegovender6056
    @vasiegovender6056 Před rokem

    Today is a waking i had a stroke I lost my home. Thank u Madam from South Africa.

  • @lmnmoves
    @lmnmoves Před 2 lety

    🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡 .I am praying for everyone who needs a Miracle. Only God can do the impossible, He can make a way when there seems to be no way. Today I pray God touches your health, your home, your family, your faith, and your finances. God bless you Amen!

  • @balwantattal7132
    @balwantattal7132 Před 2 lety

    I wish one day I meet you before I die only one day Miss Oprah I wish

  • @gaymichaelis7581
    @gaymichaelis7581 Před 3 lety +4

    That was really good at the end! She was talking about service! That is where it’s at a lot! She didn’t talk about God/Heavenly Father or Jesus Christ… I don’t know that she believes in them at all; it’s too bad that she did not talk about them at all!

  • @judysmith8725
    @judysmith8725 Před 2 lety +4

    love your advise Oprah always have. I've always believed since I've known and listened to that you are special to the lord infact I always felt you are one of the lords favourite angels sent down to earth to guide and help us.

  • @madamm3372
    @madamm3372 Před 3 lety +2

    I am a fan of oprah, she is so intelligent i find i am so much like her, and coincidentally i was born on the same date as opreah, by the way i am from the carribbean would like to meet oprah but never went to america

    • @CatEyeGem
      @CatEyeGem Před 3 lety

      Indeed.... ♒ as well and I totally get her

  • @faithzulu1282
    @faithzulu1282 Před 2 lety +3

    Listening to your feelings is so on point.In 2000 I had an interview to train for a certain post graduate course in nursing.Though the interview went so well, I remember so well not feeling happy about what I was to embark on. I was accepted on the course but encountered endless challenges resulting in not completing the course.
    Thank you for your priceless advice Oprah.God bless.

  • @smile.8577
    @smile.8577 Před 3 lety +1

    Thankful to that boss because of him we got a courageous *LADY BOSS*

  • @TheBabygirlnj
    @TheBabygirlnj Před 2 lety

    Remarkable women Oprah Winfrey.

  • @josphinewambui7004
    @josphinewambui7004 Před rokem

    I have been following ophrah Winfrey life story and I see my life in her. I was born in black colour and I grew up in rejection from both sides But with love from my grandma from moms side. In the near future I hope I can share my story of success because the stigma made me work really hard.. at your age I trust I will share a beautiful story

  • @addistsegaye7712
    @addistsegaye7712 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Oprah

  • @joanlembo7845
    @joanlembo7845 Před 2 lety +1

    Excellent !!

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach Před 2 lety +1

    Yes! If it doesn't seem right. Don't do it!! Don't let anyone force you into doing something you don't want to do!

  • @prisijes3
    @prisijes3 Před 2 lety

    I was a people pleaser and was afraid to say "No" or give my opinion strongly. I was weak and people started trodding on me. The day when I decided that "I am" more than important than anyone else changed my way of living and my perception towards life.