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  • Are there fears blocking you from receiving the blessing of marriage from God? Here are 4 fears God usually makes you overcome before giving you the blessing of marriage.
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Komentáře • 129

  • @80sbabyruth
    @80sbabyruth Před 13 dny +181

    Amen 🙏🏽
    1. Overcome the fear of being alone. (No matter what, whether I’m in a relationship or not, God is still good and able).
    REJOICE IN THE LORD ALWAYS
    2. Overcome the fear of what the opposite sex thinks of you. (No longer idolizing the idea of marriage and a spouse).
    3. Overcome the fear of getting hurt. (There are risks, but the possibility that things may not work out, should no longer be devastating to you).
    4. Overcome the fear of not getting what you want. (Be willing to obey God, if his will for you, is to remain single). God desires the best for you.

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ Před 13 dny +7

      Thank you for the highlights

    • @GabyDee7
      @GabyDee7 Před 13 dny +4

      Thank you for the summary.

    • @TheShavedleggs
      @TheShavedleggs Před 13 dny +4

      Thank you!

    • @ms.LJones89
      @ms.LJones89 Před 13 dny +6

      What I don't understand is that if you desire marriage, want to continue to glorify God within marriage and have a desire for intimacy within marriage, why then would God call you to singleness knowing that you might struggle with sexual sin outside of marriage? So many people have told Christian singles that maybe God has called them to singleness and that they should be okay with the possibility of remaining single but I, being one of those single Christians that have been told this constantly, truly feels called to marriage and feel that I can better serve God through marriage. I'm not afraid of being alone and I don't fear what the opposite sex may think of me and I have asked God to not allow marriage to become an idol because I don't want anything to come before my relationship with Him. I have overcome the fear of not getting what I want and being okay with remaining single if that is God's will for my life.

    • @TheShavedleggs
      @TheShavedleggs Před 13 dny +3

      @@ms.LJones89
      Don't listen to false opinionators and start trusting in God's plan for you.
      First ask God first to help you healing your wounds, and when healed, your wife will appear.

  • @GabyDee7
    @GabyDee7 Před 13 dny +39

    God is a good Father. He gives the desire for a godly marriage. He will bring it to pass.

  • @mochachel
    @mochachel Před 13 dny +57

    This is too much to being said as a coincidence because I was combating myself into staying with in a toxic relationship. I was praying for a long time for God giving me some sort of signs. I was desperate. I didnt know if I was with the right guy. Now, i'm grateful to stumble upon this video. It brings light to my questions. May God bless you and keep doing God's words. Amen.

  • @DaSoto21500
    @DaSoto21500 Před 13 dny +16

    I’m grateful that God kept me single and healing for a while after a relationship of mine ended. Even though I had met my current girlfriend and hopefully future wife a year before we started our relationship, God kept us apart for a long time and I believe his timing was perfect

  • @nappyfries
    @nappyfries Před 13 dny +16

    I’ve gone through all of these & I feel like I’ve overcame them all at some degree. That doesn’t mean they never bother me from time to time but I’ve let go a lot from the last few years that I thought I never could. Sometimes we rush things but God had a plan in the wait! I’m so glad that He didn’t give me a relationship I wasn’t ready for.

  • @Supportingtruth8258
    @Supportingtruth8258 Před 13 dny +24

    It's simple for me:
    1)I just want someone who has a love of Truth and isn't afraid to believe what God wants us to believe, and not what man says to believe. False doctrine has captured the hearts of so many Christians today, that you have to get all that straightened out before making a serious commitment.
    2) I want someone that I feel a connection with; either early on, or soon after going on a 5 to 7 dates with.
    3) I want someone that respects me enough to carve out the right amount of time for us to grow in our relationship.
    4) I want her to be my best friend and vice versa.
    That's not too much is it?

    • @leilawilliams8175
      @leilawilliams8175 Před 13 dny +3

      In my own experience it would be too much to ask because God didn't give us a feeling of connection until after we had prayed and been convinced that marrying each other was God wanted. We fell quickly in love after that but we were being careful to guard our hearts until after the praying and Godly council was accomplished.
      Same for "best friend." We didn't want to be best friends if we were going to wind up parting ways which meant we waited and became best friends AFTER fully committing.

    • @nonso_wys9206
      @nonso_wys9206 Před 13 dny +2

      Nah..I don't think that's too much to ask
      Those are very basic

    • @Supportingtruth8258
      @Supportingtruth8258 Před 12 dny +3

      @@leilawilliams8175 a full connection can (with some folks) take a little longer than with others. A lot of factors and variables come into play - so it's not a one-size-fits-all.

    • @isquiteblissful542
      @isquiteblissful542 Před 11 dny

      Same.. I have the same thoughts

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips5576 Před 13 dny +13

    I heard someone says if you desire to be intimate with someone then you are not called to be single. God gave you that desire so it's meant for you to be married.

    • @rhitccdsccs3946
      @rhitccdsccs3946 Před 13 dny +1

      It depends. I am a widow of four decades. Currently, I am interested in a gentleman four years younger than I, we're not dating, but we are friends of mutual friends. So, I go back and forth on a few things about him, the more I learn about him, the more of an 'informed consent' I have regarding the potentiality of a possible relationship. Outside of this, over the years, thoughts of intimacy come and go.

    • @585Courtney
      @585Courtney Před 12 dny

      That's lust and that's a sin.

    • @aaronrocks365
      @aaronrocks365 Před 7 dny

      @@585Courtney No its not.

  • @butterflypathchristiancoach

    I feel my life has a lot of meaning and joy in the purposes God has given me and keeps unfolding. Not afraid to be alone since i love being alone with Him! The fear of getting hurt is definitely an intense one.

  • @jacobrobinson6603
    @jacobrobinson6603 Před 13 dny +22

    I can say I have overcome the fear of what the opposite sex thinks of me and being hurt. But I do still struggle of wondering if I will never find the right person, and so forth. Once you get hurt due to breakups and stuff like that enough times, it doesn't necessarily hurt as much because I just thank the Lord from saving me from the wrong person so I can continue to build myself up and build my relationship with God so I'm able to find the right woman. God bless.🙏

    • @Lee_Nolo
      @Lee_Nolo Před 11 dny +1

      🫂thank you for sharing. I'm encouraged because I thought I was alone. I'm always repenting for desiring to be loved and chosen and makes me miserable

    • @jacobrobinson6603
      @jacobrobinson6603 Před 10 dny

      @@Lee_Nolo God will take care of you. Trust in him and his will for your life and he'll lead you to many great blessings.🙏

    • @inprogress8832
      @inprogress8832 Před 8 dny +1

      how did the process of you overcoming that fear go?

    • @jacobrobinson6603
      @jacobrobinson6603 Před 8 dny

      @@inprogress8832 It was a bit of a struggle at first. Once I started to read my Bible and growing closer with the Lord and physical activity such as weight lifting just gave me confidence. So now I just have the mentality that if someone of the opposite sex has a bad opinion of me there's no reason to stress over it and just move on with my day.

  • @Nothingbutdust_
    @Nothingbutdust_ Před 13 dny +8

    Thank you, I'm going to be honest now. I truly feel regretful for some previous comments I've made about your advice. I now understand why I wrote so harshly of you, it was all because I had believed in a lie about marriage which you debunked. I had taken pride in my ability to wait on the Lord for so long and when you said in one of your videos that marriage isn't something determined by a marriage certificate but by your relation to that person. I felt stupid for waiting so long, I don't know why, maybe because I was taken advantage of in my youth one time and I didn't want to think of me and him as married. That's probably why it hurt me so much. But you're right that Adam and Eve didn't have a certificate nor a wedding ceremony and they were still considered married by God's standard. In this moment I don't think of myself as married but I don't know what God thinks. I can't be together with that man, he might not even be alive or he's still living on the other side of the world. He wasn't Christian but neither was I back then. I was very hurt for a long time and that's why I took it out on you. But you speak facts that not many other Christians would dare to speak of and always base them on scriptures.
    The points you made in this video were all very good and accurate. I struggle with all of them, except that I don't cope with my loneliness in the way of settling with just anyone, nor do I jump into a relationship with just anyone and too soon for the sake of company but decided to move back in to live with my mother even though I'm already 31. I don't care what people think, it's still better than living all alone anymore. My mental health can't cope with that anymore. At least I'm not just cohabiting with someone I'm not serious with.
    You've given me a lot to think about certainly. Thank you sincerely Mark ❤

    • @Purelikealily
      @Purelikealily Před 13 dny +7

      I liked reading this and witnessing your vulnerability and accountability. That’s awesome. Keep on growing!! 👏👏

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ Před 13 dny +1

      @@Purelikealily Thank you and may God bless you ❤️🙏🏻

    • @nonso_wys9206
      @nonso_wys9206 Před 13 dny

      I read through all your response
      Thank you for sharing, I was blessed

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ Před 13 dny +1

      @@nonso_wys9206 God bless you ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ms.LJones89
    @ms.LJones89 Před 13 dny +13

    What I don't understand is that if you desire marriage, want to continue to glorify God within marriage and have a desire for intimacy within marriage, why then would God call you to singleness knowing that you might struggle with sexual sin outside of marriage? So many people have told Christian singles that maybe God has called them to singleness and that they should be okay with the possibility of remaining single but I, being one of those single Christians that have been told this constantly, truly feels called to marriage and feel that I can better serve God through marriage. I'm not afraid of being alone and I don't fear what the opposite sex may think of me and I have asked God to not allow marriage to become an idol because I don't want anything to come before my relationship with Him. I have overcome the fear of not getting what I want and being okay with remaining single if that is God's will for my life.

    • @leilawilliams8175
      @leilawilliams8175 Před 13 dny +4

      Most people have at least a decade, but more likely three, of desires for intimacy that have to wait. Why does God let us struggle like that? In fact, even after marriage, there are times when intimacy has to be put on hold. Learning to not be ruled by the demands of our flesh is part of spiritual training. Really, we should be grateful for this training because spiritual maturity and a close relationship with God is ultimately better than temporary pleasure.

    • @Keralachosen
      @Keralachosen Před 13 dny +6

      If you desire marriage, God did not called you to singleness

    • @katrinahagood2272
      @katrinahagood2272 Před 11 dny +1

      I'm right there with you! I have just prayed to the Lord, if now is not the time for me to be married, then please take away the desire because I don't know what else to do and I don't want to live in a constant state of frustration.

    • @artflyer8775
      @artflyer8775 Před 11 dny

      Ive prayed that same prayer your not alone ​@@katrinahagood2272

    • @tuckerchisholm1005
      @tuckerchisholm1005 Před 11 dny

      People use empty words when they say "Maybe God is calling you to singleness" we will all be single for a time, but most people are intended to get married and have children (desire for children is a non-negotiable of a God-honoring Christian marriage). I think that God wants you to end up with somebody equally yoked and to serve and honor Him as a couple. But people often use excuses and empty words to console you when you're disappointed or waiting. Don't get discouraged. Listen to Scripture, not to cliches that people tell each other "honeyed words". Focus on God and perhaps inquire how to find a Christian suitor, maybe that means getting a job, or getting more fit, or letting go of fears, or forgiving your parents. However people often don't want to tell you this harsh news or say "improve your life/walk" So instead they lie and say singleness is God's plan for a huge percentage of people when the Bible says that its not. Marriage is the norm and its how God made and intends human society

  • @cariocajin
    @cariocajin Před 13 dny +8

    Who is "the right person" when every single human being is "wrong"?
    I'll tell you what is wrong with married couples : Ego !
    Grow up and let go of your ego. Stop being abusive. The conflict is inside each one of us. Don't throw your frustrations on each other.
    Know what to do separate and what to do as a married couple. Don't clash heads over small stuff and don't make a storm with a drop of water !
    Never fight ! Discuss, present your arguments and shut up ! You won't change her and she won't change you. Respect your boundaries and learn how to live on that.
    Forgive from the heart and the way God does. You won't believe the how many couples can still remember ALL the offenses they commit against each other. If you remember, you didn't forget.
    Marriage is not "bait-and-switch." Who you portray during your dating and engagement season must be who you are during marriage. Don't fake it. Don't scam each other.
    If you continue being who you were when you first met, then your marriage will last until one of the couples die. Simple as that, but the reality is that people change and they don't know how to adjust to change....

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ Před 13 dny

      True, especially what you said about our EGOs! This is also what I've come to realise since becoming a Christian. Especially young people these days, even Christians are proud and selfish to various extents. But it's a never ending battle with our flesh.

    • @cariocajin
      @cariocajin Před 13 dny +1

      @@Nothingbutdust_ Amem ! The Satanic attack on families is real. Stay strong in the faith and close to Jesus. Be vigilant in prayer, always...

  • @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh
    @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh Před 13 dny +13

    I KNOW I’m called to marriage, but there’s definitely a part of me very frustrated with the timing. I’m nearly 34 and never dated seriously (only once for 3 weeks).

    • @bluelily.
      @bluelily. Před 13 dny

      how do you know you're called ?

    • @davidwilson1114
      @davidwilson1114 Před 13 dny +2

      58 , ten years divorced have found " the one" but there are......"road blocks" right now, having to wait on God's timing....

    • @Newgrist
      @Newgrist Před 13 dny +2

      Don't worry. 33 is still quite young.

    • @nonso_wys9206
      @nonso_wys9206 Před 13 dny +4

      I had my first relationship at 30yrs.
      It was the same frustration that made me tell God I was done waiting on him, so I jumped on the available guy that showed interest, even when everything said "This is not God"
      It ended after 4months.. Went ahead to commit my emotions to someone else still not from God, came out bruised emotionally, more than I have ever been
      I have brought myself back to the place of waiting on God and actively walking with him to do what he tells me to do
      It's sad that it took me emotional hurts to realize that God knows what is best for me and wants to give it to me

    • @iolantham
      @iolantham Před 11 dny +2

      Still 39 and single. I had 6 boyfriends and I still keep my physical virginity. I learned to be happy alone and, if God wants, He'll send someone. By the way, I met a non-Christian who behaved better than me. That humbled me as a Christian. This man treated me like a princess and with empathy, although he is not interested emotionally in me. He was way better than my ex-boyfriends. So, waiting is worth it!!!

  • @sodahead0
    @sodahead0 Před 12 dny +1

    I've been going through all these things myself. I feel closer and closer to getting the marriage that I want. Almost 5 years being saved, God has taken me on a rough journey and ripped/stripped idols from my heart.

  • @iolantham
    @iolantham Před 11 dny +1

    So much truth in idolizing marriage!

  • @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz
    @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Před 13 dny +3

    Another thing women should keep in mind is to not adopt the attitude of the world. Marriage is sacred and important. You got to have the attitude of divorce is not an option. Things we'll get to the point where you'll quit. Just like in basic training or buds or rip if you don't quit you'll be fine.

  • @KomMartheCarolle-zm2pg
    @KomMartheCarolle-zm2pg Před 13 dny +2

    Great teaching. It help me to assess my heart.
    Thank GOD I'm free from all those fears 🎉🎉🎉

  • @teddybear5657
    @teddybear5657 Před 13 dny +4

    Love this! Blessings my brother in Christ, for you and your family.

  • @TheKristaendicott
    @TheKristaendicott Před 12 dny

    So good! Very reassuring to keep staying the course in waiting

  • @DAUGHTERofSARAH23
    @DAUGHTERofSARAH23 Před 13 dny +1

    Great video. I personally had to improve myself esteem and heal from trauma in order to no longer idolize marriage and have a fear of being alone

  • @brandonoliver5304
    @brandonoliver5304 Před 12 dny +1

    I’m working on it. I realized I was idolizing marriage and I’m putting it in God’s hands. If I get rejected, I thank God and believe it wasn’t part of his plan. Rather than getting upset. I’m not settling. Bc if I did. I would be with someone who isn’t leading me to Christ.

  • @LifeOfASoloMama
    @LifeOfASoloMama Před 13 dny

    Thank you for this brother Mark 😊 God Bless You. God wants me to hear these things. 😊

  • @dingding2487
    @dingding2487 Před 13 dny

    Thanks brother Mark!

  • @geneyim
    @geneyim Před 8 dny

    Your videos are very meaningful, may God bless you of what you are doing 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @zoloswaqqer
    @zoloswaqqer Před 13 dny +2

    Thx mark God bless

  • @yaredmelese2342
    @yaredmelese2342 Před 18 hodinami

    This wisdom is from God! Bless you!

  • @user-po7jx8wn1s
    @user-po7jx8wn1s Před 11 dny

    Ty❤for your wonderful advices, dear❤❤❤😮😊😊🙏🙏🙏🙏☺️☺️👍👍👏👏

  • @talonthorn
    @talonthorn Před 13 dny

    Thanks!

  • @dawnkennedy5134
    @dawnkennedy5134 Před 12 dny

    I love this and I needed this. I've never been married in my life and here I am almost 40. I've been in my fair share of toxic relationships. I even take a couple years or a few years of a break in between and then it's like a re run when I get into the next. I wonder sometimes if I'll ever get married. I want to be for once and it gets old seeing everybody else getting married. Some more than once even lol. Then again I look at it as it's good I never got married to any of the past guys because we definitely weren't good for eachother. Hopefully one day the lord gives me a happy and healthy one and definitely a long term one. I agree though there are a couple things I still need to work on in myself.

  • @luluthedoberman7490
    @luluthedoberman7490 Před 13 dny +1

    I have the opposite problem of #1. I really like being alone, value my independence, freedom (not to be single to date willy nilly), and guaranteed peace I feel when in solitude. I can't imagine even sharing living space with someone because it might feel like someone is in my personal space too much. Though in the long run I do want marriage, I currently feel completely apathetic/not interested in dating whatsoever. You could put someone attractive in front of me but I still feel aromantic and don't know why. Would love if you did a video on this.

  • @chukwumachikamnesokamsy6136

    This is timely

  •  Před 9 dny

    I Rejoice I thr Lord Always! not looking for validation. Great info! No not perfect heart no fear

  • @coolvibes_simplelife
    @coolvibes_simplelife Před 13 dny +3

    My requirements for a man are simple, yet it feels like im asking too much. I just feel God sometimes asks too much from us - to keep having faith and moving forward with hope. this has literally drained me. i've lost hope, no matter how much i try to stay positive. its been years, im unable to trust God has something in plan for me. are there no real men of God out there, God???

    • @leilawilliams8175
      @leilawilliams8175 Před 13 dny +1

      I am a married woman and my husband and I run a ministry thst helps single Christians on their path to marriage. I would be happy to look over your list of requirements if you'd be okay with sharing them here.

    • @Vincent-yp1gj
      @Vincent-yp1gj Před 13 dny

      We're out here. We're just not what you guys want. No I'm not trying to attack you. Say for example a guy's short. Most women would reject him because of something outside of his control.

    • @Godschild113
      @Godschild113 Před 10 dny

      Don’t rely on your own strength to get through he never wanted you to rely on your own strength he will get u through God loves u made u and haves plan for you that’s why he created you

  • @geminiflamez
    @geminiflamez Před 11 dny

    I used to be terrified of being alone, God is the only one I have and need❤ I know he has my husband ready for me I can feel it I’ve been praying for him ❤

  • @user-oh6ft8zw2q
    @user-oh6ft8zw2q Před 13 dny +1

    I am a single mother. Teaching in the school. I have butterflies when I saw my fellow teacher one in particular. But I don't know how to make a move😢

  • @stargazingcatgirl3233
    @stargazingcatgirl3233 Před 13 dny

    Speaking from the heart, thank you for normalizing the desire to get married. I wish that more people in the faith community would do this. The desire to get married gets conflated with "idolizing marriage" to the extent that you can't even express a desire to get married without being accused of making marriage into an idol. I believe that the sin is in mishandling your feelings- but I believe that your feelings are valid, and it's important to be honest with yourself, not repress them.

  • @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz
    @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Před 13 dny +1

    One thing i noticed in dating is how many women will struggle with self worth when a guy is explaining her missteps and how to correct them. Nah. Your made in the image of god. Your valuable. If that man aint offering to provide or protect you who cares. Another thing I noticed with ladies is they don't understand how men can just look at you all messy and still find you twice as attractive. "Trust me show him your butt and its he reacts like its the first time hes seen it. Lol. As ladies we underestimate the wife goggles." Paraphrasing a woman. 😂 I love women. When they're mentally healhty they're so fun to talk to and what not.

  • @tracyoguntokun4284
    @tracyoguntokun4284 Před 13 dny

    Amen 🙏

  • @michellepryor2735
    @michellepryor2735 Před 13 dny +1

    Fasting + prayer = conquer fear during covid era learned to be alone with my pets…they passed away two years ago 19 years old same year two months apart. The demon of fear has gone because Greater is He who lives in me ( Jesus) . My fear is getting betray a taken for granted .He has done so by engaging through the spirit of lust so famous till now because of the lockdowns …. I’d rather have Jesus. Yes I wish to be married someday, nevertheless waiting on the Lord. Sheep’s an wolves don’t interact.

  • @viserybovitale5542
    @viserybovitale5542 Před 12 dny

    Lord Heavenly Father and in the name of Jesus Christ I pray for strength and wisdom to save my marriage. Please have my husband come back home to me. Please save my marriage. Amen.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 Před 13 dny +4

    Were is she at mark been praying most of my whole life i get rejected all the time by women especially Christian women they just aren't interested in me you have no idea how loneliness is god has blessed you with a wife you have no idea how hard it is in todays world . Women sleep around a lot in church nowadays or have kids i want a proverbs 31 women . Easy for you to say this tou are married.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 13 dny +1

      Looks like your in the wrong 'church' I know it's hard these days. I'd think as a man, you'd have more options. Women like a confident man. You seem the opposite.

    • @jeremycarpenter5550
      @jeremycarpenter5550 Před 13 dny

      @@danilaroche1156 well then how come I get hit on by women in the world and not the church . If I'm not confident ?

    • @jeremycarpenter5550
      @jeremycarpenter5550 Před 13 dny +1

      @@danilaroche1156 I forgot ro disclose I am disabled and ro me it seems women don't like disabled men they always go for the chad guy I have been to several singles e ent in church and the women are either to old or they go for the chad type .

  • @BrianEdward-gn8jz
    @BrianEdward-gn8jz Před 13 dny

    Hallelujah!!! I’m blessed and favored with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and support the work of God and the church. For Your glory, LORD! HALLELUJAH!

  • @lincolnadams83
    @lincolnadams83 Před 5 dny

    …..I think God allows people to get married all day everyday whether or not they overcome anything.
    He permits a lot. The question is whether or not our security in Him allows us to be secure in ourselves.
    Security in ourselves smells attractive to others…

  • @user-oh6ft8zw2q
    @user-oh6ft8zw2q Před 13 dny

    I have over come depression. I am trying to get my life together.

  • @beckymwangi4900
    @beckymwangi4900 Před 13 dny +2

    Man of God you're teaching great staff..I absolutely value and love marriage,but I don't know what really wrong with me, I've been married twice but didn't work, I get married to men who truly are heartless, I've suffered alot with my kids.Right now am single with 5kids,am 38yrs old,is it possible for me to get a husband?am a Christian.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 13 dny +1

      Of course it is. It's in God's timing. You need healing from old trauma. Probably goes back to childhood. God is able. Get in His perfect will. A solid church helps a great deal. Fellowship with genuine Christians.

  • @esther41693
    @esther41693 Před 11 dny

    Àmen 🙏🏼please pray for my marriage 🙏🏼

  • @olly2027
    @olly2027 Před 12 dny

    I am getting use to being alone.

  • @fabianpatrizio2865
    @fabianpatrizio2865 Před 13 dny

    I want this guy's hair 🙂

  • @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz
    @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Před 13 dny +1

    I've seen a lot of women cry in America at least about not being able to find a man well they're doing things like hang out their ex or expect that man to be a feminist. You cannot be a feminist and a Christian. To die on hill like that is silly. Men in america pretty much dont care about relationships. So it makes things a huge struggle for woman. Men can just become passport bros if the want non feminist women. Its a interesting situation in america.

    • @Vincent-yp1gj
      @Vincent-yp1gj Před 13 dny

      This and the major issue that no one wants to address is that sexual immorality is running rampant in the church.

    • @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz
      @ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Před 13 dny

      @@Vincent-yp1gj I told some other dude who who tried to imply that I was unsaved I told him focus on the church why are there no baptisms and leadership seems to be unprepared to lead. I've certainly suffered from sin like idolatry in sexual immorality but I'm actively repenting. I often had questions regarding the use of variations of tradecraft in highly specific situations. Nobody understood enough to advise me. They just said oh the lord controls outcomes so who cares. I had to look up scripture on my own and analyze everything to the best of my ability I see nothing in Scripture that bans the use of tradecraft if the intent is to protect someone. I also observed that they would fight to defend obvious false teachings like being able to lose your salvation and the the scripture that quote has nothing to do with salvation and says nothing about Christians. I've been wondering what is going on with some of the churches for a while.

  • @kristilynarredondo1909

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-hy8hj6sv1w
    @user-hy8hj6sv1w Před 7 dny

    Elina cosa facceva ha scuola ieri

  • @marco13mag
    @marco13mag Před 10 dny

    Mark, is it wrong for married Christian couples to not want kids?

  • @precious_muse
    @precious_muse Před 13 dny +1

    What about the fear of missing out? When will God take that away?

    • @leilawilliams8175
      @leilawilliams8175 Před 13 dny

      Some feelings and thoughts we ask God to take away have a habit of creeping back in, and we wrestle with again, over and over. It's a war with some problems, not just one battle.
      It's important to pray about and get active with what Kingdom work God has for you now as a single. Sometimes, life feels like we are missing out and empty because we are wasting it!

    • @precious_muse
      @precious_muse Před 13 dny

      @@leilawilliams8175 No, the FOMO I have is for what married people have that I can’t.

    • @leilawilliams8175
      @leilawilliams8175 Před 13 dny

      @@precious_muse I understood that to be what you were saying. That's what my advice addressed.

    • @precious_muse
      @precious_muse Před 13 dny +1

      Oh. Well, even though it doesn’t have that and I fear that I may never experience it, I would still not call my life “empty” or “wasted.”

  • @rosaliabadillo3666
    @rosaliabadillo3666 Před 10 dny

    And are divorced and have kids

  • @ECO473
    @ECO473 Před 13 dny

    Risk > Reward. No thanks!!!

  • @Phil-For-Reel
    @Phil-For-Reel Před 13 dny

    Company Man???

  • @rosaliabadillo3666
    @rosaliabadillo3666 Před 10 dny

    What if you are badly desperately for sex and you have waited.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Před 13 dny +2

    Mark is so wise. I see he still has the vampire teeth. Fangs. Yikes! Oh well..

  • @shelbyartist9152
    @shelbyartist9152 Před 13 dny

    Feminism is respect for women and there is nothing wrong with that. So please stop telling men to be misogynistic in the name of Christ. God is half male, half female. That means both genders are equal. Okay? Just try not to use that word anymore. Peace.

    • @sandrastephenson9467
      @sandrastephenson9467 Před 13 dny +7

      God is not female. God is Father get it right

    • @gabrielle7540
      @gabrielle7540 Před 13 dny

      I get so much from his channel but sometimes he will slip some absolute hateful nonsense about women and I just pray to God that women remain deaf to it. We are not less than men. And the church continues to teach that nonsense. I just went on a date with a man who (by virtue of my job title) had the audacity to say he could never be with a woman who didnt submit by merging all her fiscal assets to his (inheritances, business accounts, EVERYTHING, etc.)
      The teachings that women are lesser than men is what allows women to be exploited, abused, and harmed all over this world.

    • @JacobPaul-ix7oc
      @JacobPaul-ix7oc Před 13 dny

      The Marxist indoctrination is strong with you, Shelby.
      Modern Feminism is Communist ideologies masquerading itself as justice.
      At the core of Communism is atheism. You are one who claims to know God, but your words prove you are a reprobate concerning the faith.
      Step one of the "Four steps for ideological subversion". (Yuri Bezmenov, 1985)
      Demoralization - this is a process which can take about 15-30 years to perform (a generation). During this stage, the moral fibre and integrity of the country is put into question, thereby creating doubt in the minds of the people. To do so, manipulation of the media and academia is required to influence young people. As the younger generation embraces new values, such as Marxism and Leninism, the older generation slowly loses control simply through attrition. Again, true facts no longer matter during this stage, but rather creating perceptions are of paramount importance.
      Communism and Religion
      Abolished - all religious and metaphysics is rejected. Engels and Lenin agreed that religion was a drug or “spiritual booze” and must be combated. *To them, atheism put into practice meant a “forcible overthrow of all existing social conditions.”*
      Eliminating American exceptionalism, fundamental change of national identity, *structural deconstruction of foundational principles, elimination of religion. Embedding a new societal design upon the psyche of generations through ideological academia, peer pressure by elites upon academics and society to convince that prior values were inherently flawed, racist, prejudiced etc. National identity is diluted with aspersions toward historical references. National History is re-written, re-defined, and molded to fit the new intended behavioral model and create the new values.*
      It's funny how you say "Peace" at the end of your comment when the goal of Feminism is to create division and destabilize society.
      “[T]he useful idiots, the leftists who are idealistically believing in the beauty of the Soviet socialist or Communist or whatever system, when they get disillusioned, they become the worst enemies. That’s why my KGB instructors specifically made the point: never bother with leftists. Forget about these political prostitutes. Aim higher. [...] They serve a purpose only at the stage of destabilization of a nation. *For example, your leftists in the United States: all these professors and all these beautiful civil rights defenders. They are instrumental in the process of the subversion only to destabilize a nation.* When their job is completed, they are not needed any more. They know too much. Some of them, when they get disillusioned, when they see that Marxist-Leninists come to power-obviously they get offended-they think that they will come to power. That will never happen, of course. They will be lined up against the wall and shot.”

    • @JacobPaul-ix7oc
      @JacobPaul-ix7oc Před 13 dny

      1 Corinthians 8:6
      Yet for us there is one God, the *Father,* from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.
      Ephesians 4:6
      One God and *Father* of all, who is over all and through all and in all.
      Matthew 23:9
      And call no man your father on earth, for you have one *Father, who is in heaven.*
      Psalm 68:5
      *Father* of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in *his* holy habitation.
      Isaiah 64:8
      But now, O Lord, you are our *Father;* we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.
      Psalm 103:13
      As a *father* shows compassion to his children, so *the Lord* shows compassion to those who fear *him.*
      James 1:17
      Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the *Father* of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.
      Ephesians 1:3
      Blessed be the *God and Father* of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places,
      1 John 3:1
      See what kind of love the *Father* has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know *him.*
      John 14:9-11
      Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you so long, and you still do not know me, Philip? Whoever has seen me has seen the *Father.* How can you say, ‘Show us the *Father’?* Do you not believe that I am in the *Father* and the *Father* is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority, but the *Father* who dwells in me does his works. Believe me that I am in the *Father* and the *Father* is in me, or else believe on account of the works themselves.
      Isaiah 63:16
      For you are our *Father,* though Abraham does not know us, and Israel does not acknowledge us; you, O Lord, are our *Father,* our Redeemer from of old is your name.
      1 Peter 1:3
      Blessed be the *God and Father* of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to *his* great mercy, *he* has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,
      Proverbs 3:11-12
      My son, do not despise *the Lord's* discipline or be weary of *his* reproof, for the Lord reproves him whom *he loves, as a father* the son in whom he delights.
      John 1:14
      And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the *Father,* full of grace and truth.
      Isaiah 9:6
      For to us a child is born, to us a *son* is given; and the government shall be upon *his* shoulder, and *his name* shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, *Everlasting Father, Prince* of Peace.
      2 Corinthians 1:3-4
      Blessed be the *God and Father* of our Lord Jesus Christ, the *Father* of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
      Luke 10:21-22
      In that same hour he rejoiced in the Holy Spirit and said, “I thank you, *Father,* Lord of heaven and earth, that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children; yes, *Father,* for such was your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my *Father,* and no one knows who the Son is except the *Father,* or who the *Father* is except the Son and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal *him.”*
      John 10:30
      I and the *Father* are one.”

    • @chariseve2277
      @chariseve2277 Před dnem

      This is complete nonsense.

  • @user-hy8hj6sv1w
    @user-hy8hj6sv1w Před 7 dny

    Io non mi voglio sposare prima ho figli poi io. Malato tropo malato.lo vdi
    Nella sofa seduto dopo ho 3 bai pass solo voglio dire se ha sbaglito elina a vinto la sciatel vincere va bene cosi

  • @noah_samples_ig
    @noah_samples_ig Před 12 dny +1

    As a Christian Ik god wants faith, but as a Christian I also don’t want to enter into relationship and build something that’s not going to last.. I want that confirmation and I believe god does do this.. like if she’s interested and pursues god.. that may be a sign.. but also it goes back to me just wanting it to work out and if it won’t work, just leave it alone all together type of deal..