Uncaged: From Prison to Purpose | Michael Maisey | TEDxKingstonUponThames

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2022
  • From growing up traumatised, abused and neglected and left in a cell for 23 hours everyday at the age of 16, Michael shares his story of transformation and what he believes needs to change in our criminal justice system. Michael is the author of “Young Offender” which tells his story of going from armed robber to becoming a local hero. He has been sober for 14 years and founded the CIP Project, a non profit organisation that helps people become the person they want to be. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 86

  • @Hazzar101
    @Hazzar101 Před 2 lety +31

    That man is my uncle and this is the story of how he went for going to jail to being someone who helps and saves people from what happened to him and their addictions he is a wonderful man and even though he’s my uncle he treats me the same way he would treat his kids and this makes me happy and very grateful because I’ve not got a father so thanks Michael for being there and supporting me and everyone xxx💙🙏🏼

    • @michael_maisey
      @michael_maisey Před 2 lety +6

      I love you Harry 💙

    • @Hazzar101
      @Hazzar101 Před 2 lety +6

      @@michael_maisey love you too xxx 💙🙏🏼

    • @jakehope6811
      @jakehope6811 Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah your uncle is an amazing guy mate such an inspiration and the help he provides with his project is amazing keep the great work up Michael hope you and the family are well brother 🙏❤️

    • @michael_maisey
      @michael_maisey Před 2 lety +2

      @@jakehope6811 thank you brother 💙

  • @michael_maisey
    @michael_maisey Před 2 lety +24

    Thank you for all of the love 🙏🏻❤️

    • @CharlieMorley
      @CharlieMorley Před 8 měsíci +1

      Very very good talk mate!

    • @michael_maisey
      @michael_maisey Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@CharlieMorleythanks bro

    • @CulturalComedyTV
      @CulturalComedyTV Před 6 měsíci +1

      Just came across this video as I'm going through a bit of a madness right now and do not know what my future holds for me after working so hard on what I have achieved, but your talk really has given me hope. Thank you for sharing your amazing story with others. An act of kindness is a endless ripple ❤

  • @benfurner1516
    @benfurner1516 Před rokem +2

    A true leader. I found more healing in one weekend with the CIP than 6 months of individual therapy, and have a group of brothers with similar experiences and mindsets supporting me every day ❤️

  • @chrismorton4340
    @chrismorton4340 Před rokem +4

    I first visited CIP in December 2022 I have since attended a January workshop and have booked a February workshop
    I was abused as a small child and had never dealt with the issues it had on the rest of my life. I used drugs frequently and became an alcoholic.
    CIP has helped me to start to process my abuse which in turn has helped me address my addictions and toxic masculinity. It is early days and I have a long hard journey ahead of me. I am currently sober and drug free and feel CIP have given me the help, encouragement and resources to change my life. Michael Maisey and the CIP project has changed my life and I believe has also saved my life.
    This work must go on and they deserve all the help they can get. They are saving lives and changing lives giving men like me hope for a better future for themselves and also for their families. Making us better men, husbands/ partners and fathers
    I owe Michael and his team my life.

  • @liamthechef1
    @liamthechef1 Před rokem +6

    Michael, you have helped change my life. I came into the CIP after reaching out to you on social media. I was newly clean and sober but still raw with emotions I didn't know how to deal with. I didn't think I would stay sober! Since being in contact with you in 2019 and being part of The CIP Project I have learned how to be me, to live life, to be present for my children, to stay sober, to give back to other who are in need. I cannot thank you enough for what you have done for me and countless others. Without you and The CIP Project I am truly not sure where I would be now. I am honoured to be called your friend 🙏🏼 stay strong, I will be there for you always. Bless you brother 💙

  • @SaintBirdie
    @SaintBirdie Před 11 měsíci +4

    so timely. I am so unsympathetic to lawlessness that it is beneficial for me to know there is much more to it than meets the eye. I want to say how good it is that Ted provides a platform for us all to hear the voices of those we may otherwise just judge. Im sorry for that, and definately will seek to understand more than i judge from now on.

  • @adamdickson1404
    @adamdickson1404 Před rokem +3

    Respect.

  • @scarlettshaw61
    @scarlettshaw61 Před rokem +3

    Michael Maisey and the CIP project has helped me so much at a very dark time in my life. The healing I have received there and the ongoing support I get from it has such a positive impact on my mental health and recovery. Thank you Michael ❤️🙏

  • @maryaga
    @maryaga Před 2 lety +9

    This is such a humbling account and should be shared as much as possible. Kindness ,you have moved me to tears. Absolutely beautiful.

  • @raone6145
    @raone6145 Před 2 lety +7

    Whenever Maisey looks at me, he used to tell Ra One one day I jump the jail and do good for society. He proved his words without have to jump. He was flying. Jesus, show em the path

  • @jordanquinn4782
    @jordanquinn4782 Před rokem +2

    The CIP Project Michael mentions in this talk is a godsend!
    After many years of counselling and psychotherapy I’ve seen what options are available. If you’re struggling with PTSD, Childhood trauma, depression and many other mental health conditions the choices are very limited:
    1: Go to your GP and wait to be referred to NHS mental health services, which have long waiting lists and as we all know are completely overwhelmed.
    2: Seek private counselling/psychotherapy which is very expensive, have long waiting lists and are also bursting at the seems like the NHS.
    I’ve been lucky enough to go through all the workshops The CIP Project offer and quite frankly I wouldn’t like to say where I’d be without it.
    If you’re struggling or know someone who needs help Michael Maisey and the CIP Project can help you.

  • @dankenneallyhome
    @dankenneallyhome Před rokem +4

    I was there on the day in Kingston and watched this talk live. The audience were in tears by the end because Michaels story is simply so heartbreaking and yet so powerfully inspiring at the same time. This prompted me to look further into the work he does through his own community project, The CIP Project that he set up to help people in need. I attended some of his weekend workshops in Devon last year 2022 and it was the best decision I could have made. The support delivered at these workshops and then continued by the ongoing connection with the entire CIP project has helped to change my life in positive ways that I didn’t think were possible and benefited all of my family and friends in the process. Thank you Michael and The CIP!

  • @consciousconnections8579
    @consciousconnections8579 Před 2 lety +4

    Amazing talk Michael. I agree with you 100/ 'the source is healing the root of the trauma.

  • @lucao15
    @lucao15 Před 2 lety +6

    As powerful on here as it was in person ♥️😄 Incredible!

  • @sd7317
    @sd7317 Před 2 lety +9

    Michael your story is moving mountains, many hugs to you , abundant good wishes, that from now on you only experience peace, kindness and camaraderie. Growing up in a negligent household I understand every word you speak 🙏 many thanks for being who you have become.

  • @DROPPAMANNORWICH
    @DROPPAMANNORWICH Před 2 lety +7

    I’ve always been inspired since I first heard Michael 3/4 years ago. He had some similarities with my story. Take care dude keep doing what you do

  • @jamieklingler9650
    @jamieklingler9650 Před 2 lety +7

    Wow. That was incredible and profound. As was your outlook and attitude on the morning of our talks. I've gone back to that a few times and replayed you asking me, imagine what you will do with a decade without drinking. Thanks for sharing your experience and the kindness you exhibit in person.

  • @matty832
    @matty832 Před 2 lety +4

    I really recommend listening to his podcast on Shaun Attwood’s channel, it gives a lot more depth to this fascinating story!

  • @Edits_multiverse4869
    @Edits_multiverse4869 Před rokem +2

    Thank you Michael for sharing your story, the world needs to hear it

  • @manu6899
    @manu6899 Před 2 lety +4

    You are an incredible human being Michael. Your book ‘ Young Offender ‘ so masterfully written has changed thousands of lives. Absolutely brilliant talk, the age of miracles is still with us .

  • @Thatsabitdifferent
    @Thatsabitdifferent Před rokem +2

    It's always an honour to hear your story Michael, you and the CIP project saved mine and my (soon to be) families life.

  • @sarahv3569
    @sarahv3569 Před rokem +1

    I read Michael Maisey’s book, which I couldn’t put down. A fantastic example of someone not only turning their life around, but using all their lived experience to help and support other people from all walks of life with emotional, mental health and addiction issues. This is a ‘not for profit’ organisation called The CIP Project. Without this Project, which provides transformational support & has helped me personally, many people would continue to suffer. Thank you for all that you do Michael. So much love for you 🙏🏼💛

  • @maryaga
    @maryaga Před 2 lety +4

    Have watched this several times,it really has moved me greatly. I was a victim of childhood abuse and you have explained the emotions so well. Rehabilitation has to be the key, but how it is acheived these days in a system so badly flawed.

  • @ianwebb2474
    @ianwebb2474 Před rokem +1

    Michael's story is so moving, and was the inspiration for me to get clean and sober. After hearing him on a podcast, I attended a CIP workshop which completely changed my life. I've been sober for two and a half years (and counting), and I continue to attend workshops both as a participant and a facilitator. The latter is very important to me, as it enables me to help others who are struggling with addiction. I have PTSD from military service and I was suicidal before I met Michael. He literally saved my life. 🙏

  • @davidvaughan-griffiths6895

    Such an inspiration to so many. Since I attended The Cip Project it has changed my life in so many ways, I'm now free from my trauma of my childhood, I have a better understanding of who I am which makes me a better husband and a better father.
    I was that inspired that I moved to Devon and I'm lucky enough to spend more time with you and help with the project, you continue to push me to become a better man, for this I'm truly grateful. May we have many more years helping men and women to recover from their past pain and trauma. 🙏💙

  • @rebeccagranshaw1804
    @rebeccagranshaw1804 Před rokem +3

    Michael, and the CIP Project have added so much to my life. I can’t use words to describe my gratitude to this incredible man. I’d go as far as saying they have changed my life completely. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need help. Michael thank you! ❤

  • @frankpullen4754
    @frankpullen4754 Před rokem +1

    I first heard Michael on radio London, I just had to stop what I was doing and listen, then I read his book, then I went on a CIP workshop.
    A truly inspirational man, whose only agenda is to help anyone with any difficulties, addiction, PTSD, anxiety, trauma, mental health.
    To be in an environment where you are understood and never judged is truly life saving. Thank you 🙏

  • @karenjohnson2900
    @karenjohnson2900 Před 2 lety +7

    Such a poignant and powerful message Michael and so inspiring that from such pain, you are putting SO much love into the world. Much love to you too 🙏♥️✨

  • @carolridding2700
    @carolridding2700 Před rokem +1

    Amazing human. Forever grateful for your help and support 🙌🏼

  • @louisewatson3521
    @louisewatson3521 Před 2 lety +3

    Such raw honesty and compassion for change. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mariaw7031
    @mariaw7031 Před 2 lety +5

    Such a beautiful talk,
    Thank you for making mine and the kids worlds a little safer.
    We love you lots 💜

  • @CharlieMorley
    @CharlieMorley Před 8 měsíci +1

    Brilliant talk!❤ "kindness is recognising another person's trauma"

  • @haleemclift
    @haleemclift Před 2 lety +4

    Incredible🙏🙏🙏

  • @harrismarkw
    @harrismarkw Před rokem +1

    Thank you Michael for changing and saving lives with everything you do. I am so grateful for the @thecipproject 🙏

  • @carliesmith8245
    @carliesmith8245 Před rokem +1

    Amazing work Michael and the team are doing at CIP. Michael has first changed his own life then shined the light for others to help transform and process their trauma and begin to live the life they deserve, the ripple effect goes much further than the individuals, it flows out to their families, friends and community.

  • @sammyg6469
    @sammyg6469 Před rokem +2

    Enough to make a grown man cry

  • @FitFoundationsUK
    @FitFoundationsUK Před rokem +1

    Thank you Micheal and to all the CIP facilitators who do this amazing work. I can’t tell you the change in my outlook and my relationships as a result of the two workshops I have been on with you and the team. This has saved my marriage and helped me to heal from the loss of my father that I had not dared to allow myself to feel. This is exceptional work, wisdom and change that you help others to find. Bless you. 🙏🏻

  • @Empirelyrics_
    @Empirelyrics_ Před rokem +1

    The before and after picture is absolutely heartbreaking

  • @lookdumb3314
    @lookdumb3314 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Title of the talk should really be about the power of kindness

  • @carolackley6338
    @carolackley6338 Před rokem +1

    One of the most impactful TedTalks I have had the pleasure to view. I'm "across the pond" and employed as a trainer who goes into the prison's in my state teaching incarcerated men and women the curriculum to become Certified Peer Recovery Specialists. I have heard so many stories just like yours, Michael, and it's hope that helps - the hope that you got when you began to witness the beauty of human kindness and the power it has to effect change. I believe with all my heart in what you are doing, and hope that my students will use their stories as you have to spread kindness throughout the world. (PS This Yank lived in Reading, UK for over 8 years in the early 2000's - so nice to remember the kindness of all those friends and neighbors back in Blighty! ❤❤)

  • @benholden3943
    @benholden3943 Před rokem +1

    Michael’s journey and his approach to helping others is fundamentally inspiring. The humility he shows is infectious, and it has been a genuine pleasure to have attended some of the CIP workshops. I am left completely humbled every time. It’s the most healing medicine imaginable. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @sachawright8494
    @sachawright8494 Před 2 lety +7

    What a powerful talk, I felt so proud of you that day ❤️ well done xxx

    • @manu6899
      @manu6899 Před 2 lety +2

      A powerful talk indeed Sachs from a remarkable human being. So sorry I wasn’t there.

  • @kiranpal5982
    @kiranpal5982 Před 2 lety +3

    I was truly moved by your story, thank you for sharing and inspiring me 🙏

  • @cornerstonecounselling8915

    Well done Michael, great talk. Change is possible!

  • @holberry
    @holberry Před rokem +1

    So glad fate brought this video to my attention, it has inspired me beyond words. I will do my hardest to inform and share this video when my opportunity arises in the near future. I believe in this message and will continue advocating for those impacted by trauma who do not feel they have a voice... Thank you 🙏

  • @marcellagialippert-rizzo4308

    Thank you !!!

  • @navjotgamingpoint8209
    @navjotgamingpoint8209 Před 8 měsíci

    I like the way he put this all together, it’s pretty shocking them statistics. Government needs to do more.

  • @theresamaughan6029
    @theresamaughan6029 Před 2 lety +2

    Love you ❤️

  • @michaele1696
    @michaele1696 Před 9 měsíci

    Michael is an amazing man and his CIP Project weekends are amazing ❤

  • @sumitgamerx5989
    @sumitgamerx5989 Před rokem +1

    WOW I’m speechless

  • @lemonflavour
    @lemonflavour Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @lisahorsfall-buckley2838
    @lisahorsfall-buckley2838 Před 3 měsíci

    Amazing talk, this has been so inspiring for me personally. You don’t know the power of the work you do. ❤

  • @saggy8204
    @saggy8204 Před 8 měsíci

    Grateful

  • @DiamondMind630
    @DiamondMind630 Před měsícem

    Very Powerful 🙏🏻

  • @davidlopezmeseguer4343
    @davidlopezmeseguer4343 Před 2 měsíci

    You have helped me a lot

  • @jupitermoon8671
    @jupitermoon8671 Před 9 měsíci

    So inspiring and heartbreaking. We really must do better as a society and not leave it up to the psychopathic people in charge

  • @franksilva7947
    @franksilva7947 Před 7 měsíci

    Insightful!

  • @franksilva7947
    @franksilva7947 Před 7 měsíci

    I resonate!

  • @user-qg8es1kv3g
    @user-qg8es1kv3g Před 8 měsíci

    Great talk

  • @AuthorActorstaciilewis

    I served 21 years in maximum security prison in Florida from 1997-2018 and I would like to know how to go about speaking in the juvenile and jails and prison system in the Atlanta Georgia area and I would like to inspire all people behind the prison wall, thanks in advance if you can point me in the right direction

  • @music_lyrical1929
    @music_lyrical1929 Před rokem

    Never understood how he changed his life, now it all makes sense

  • @lovefromnepalhero3444
    @lovefromnepalhero3444 Před rokem +1

    power should watch this talk

  • @janeday5700
    @janeday5700 Před 2 lety +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @JoshuaSantell
    @JoshuaSantell Před 10 měsíci

    Amen🙌🏼🙏🏼

  • @Empirelyrics_
    @Empirelyrics_ Před rokem +1

    All people in positions of

  • @lakotaforeverbeauty3328

    I feel like killing myself every day after 9 years of prison. Not sure how to keep going. But i dont want to die from suicide bc i have kids. Ive been out for 3 years. Done with probation. Idk what to do. I realize i am fortunate. To still be free and alive. But i dont live with my children anymore. I been in survivor mode for a long time. Since i was born i think. Im trying to figure out why i cant keep a job more than six months. I run away from friendships. I dont really want people to know what i experience. Forget relationships. Lol. I left my childrens father with them. I dont know how to do anything. In a healthy positive way. It sounds like im a selfish person. I will own and admit it. I just dont know how to fix this. Its an awful place to be. Im not looking for pity frm people. I just want to fix what is happening in me. Ive been in a number of therapies. They helped some. But idk how to access the source of the problem. I watched this video bc these are the only people i relate to.

  • @brendamarie5858
    @brendamarie5858 Před rokem

    B

  • @djroohit6673
    @djroohit6673 Před 2 lety

    Iam domali

  • @Kingofdreams76
    @Kingofdreams76 Před 8 měsíci

    This dudes a convicted armed robber

  • @theresamaughan6029
    @theresamaughan6029 Před 2 lety +2

    Love you ❤️