Best Friends Get Brutally Honest about Gender Identity | Iris

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  • @ItsLaurenTime
    @ItsLaurenTime Před 6 lety +47

    Best friends make the world go 'round.

    • @Ramsingh-pw9zi
      @Ramsingh-pw9zi Před 6 lety

      Lauren L hello

    • @nadirmitiche8204
      @nadirmitiche8204 Před 3 lety

      the world doesn't go round, its neither flat nor round. it is shape-non-Binary. riddle me this

  • @berenice9989
    @berenice9989 Před 5 lety +25

    they're amazing. lovely people. love them and support them with my whole heart

  • @doobieddooo
    @doobieddooo Před 5 lety +22

    Being Trans/non-binary can be sad, bc some can never pass. It must be deeply uncomfortable to not being able to portray what you feel inside.

    • @nimbletim
      @nimbletim Před 3 lety +6

      How can you "pass" as non binary? What is it even supposed to look like when it doesn't exist as a biological category?

  • @JamesReborn2023
    @JamesReborn2023 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow. Their voices show how low their self esteem is. It’s sad to see people so confused.

  • @amy-ge9sv
    @amy-ge9sv Před 6 lety +25

    I can tell this is gonna be a very emotional video

  • @Lorenmakesart
    @Lorenmakesart Před 5 lety +29

    Bro, I'm nonbinary and also named Loren so this video just hit me in the face

    • @eraiak
      @eraiak Před 5 lety

      @Joshua Chamberlain that is certainly not true

    • @eraiak
      @eraiak Před 5 lety

      @Joshua Chamberlain how tf did u bring biology in here?! Love is love,, feelings are feelings. Be a lil open minded sir.

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine Před 4 lety

      Lorenmakesart you’re valid

    • @kuggacouragegx6093
      @kuggacouragegx6093 Před 3 lety +1

      No u arent

  • @EricWood42
    @EricWood42 Před 6 lety +43

    I know it is my problem, but I have a heck of a time listening to people who speak in the vocal fry register.
    Great video otherwise.

    • @artmieseelizabeth8074
      @artmieseelizabeth8074 Před 6 lety

      Eric Wood What does that mean? Like..really monotone?

    • @EricWood42
      @EricWood42 Před 6 lety +4

      Artmiese 💋Elizabeth Search CZcams for a video named “What Is Vocal Fry & Is It Bad For You?”
      “Some researchers have argued that vocal fry is a register in American English used by females to give their voice more credibility. Others argue that the result is that they sound less confident, undermining the effectiveness of their communication.Time has reported that it hampers job interviews. Others argue that these perceptions are part of a broader attack on women's speech.”

    • @JohnSmith-td7hd
      @JohnSmith-td7hd Před 6 lety

      I imagine that it's because when he/she speaks normally his/her sex is easily determined.

    • @haleyhaley1458
      @haleyhaley1458 Před 6 lety

      I know, it’s extremely irritating. I wish she would just speak up.

    • @fellowcitizen
      @fellowcitizen Před 5 lety +3

      She was emotional. She doesn't necessarily speak that way all the time. Thanks for the info, though.

  • @JamesReborn2023
    @JamesReborn2023 Před 3 lety +2

    I’m just gonna start calling people “thing”s and “it”s.. they’ll be mad at that too.

  • @UpsNdownZZZ
    @UpsNdownZZZ Před 5 lety +3

    This is totally off topic, but thank you for saying "realtor" correctly!!!

  • @emilyjoan2844
    @emilyjoan2844 Před 4 lety +4

    What is an appropriate way to ask someone what pronouns they use that’s doesn’t come across as offensive?

    • @sashahines9132
      @sashahines9132 Před 4 lety +5

      Simply ask what their prefered pronouns are! Don't act scared or weirded out.

    • @nicholasmelanson78
      @nicholasmelanson78 Před 4 lety +5

      My pronouns are (insert here), what are yours? Or Hi, I don't like to assume peoples pronouns, may I ask what yours are?

  • @unknownerror4244
    @unknownerror4244 Před 6 lety +8

    This was so sad 😞

  • @Rebazar
    @Rebazar Před 5 lety +5

    It's never easy to exist in the middle of two polarized extremes.

  • @UneakTershai
    @UneakTershai Před 3 lety +1

    Great friends 💕✨

  • @annaou9737
    @annaou9737 Před 5 lety +9

    omggggg cishet are so mad in the comments icb.. jobless behavior

  • @gemini2781
    @gemini2781 Před 6 lety +5

    I'm totally confused.

  • @kobayashimaruaikiken
    @kobayashimaruaikiken Před 2 lety

    Why 10 years ago non binaries basically didn’t exist?

  • @RedstoneActive922
    @RedstoneActive922 Před 5 lety +5

    The heck is binary

    • @nicholasmelanson78
      @nicholasmelanson78 Před 4 lety +1

      In gender it it being just a man or just a women. If you identify as strictly one or the other your gender identity is binary. If you identify as non-binary you don't identify as strictly man or woman. Like in between or neither.

    • @JamesReborn2023
      @JamesReborn2023 Před 3 lety +4

      @@nicholasmelanson78 wow. The realities people create in their minds 🤣

  • @killerjhul
    @killerjhul Před 6 lety +9

    What's going on in 2018 lol.

  • @totitoti5369
    @totitoti5369 Před 5 lety +6

    "They" just will never work..it's just grammatically incorrect.. You can't have a plural pronoun

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine Před 4 lety +2

      toti asem the Merriam Webster has added they as a singular pronoun. Also like what if someone went somewhere and you ask “where are THEY” “oh THEY are in the kitchen”

    • @corvs5806
      @corvs5806 Před 4 lety +6

      If you are a considerate person I'm sure you will agree that someones selfworth is more important than grammar.

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine Před 4 lety

      Blackout AJ exactly 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @ToddSmith23
    @ToddSmith23 Před 6 lety +34

    Real question. Why couldn’t your mind be wrong about your gender and your body be right about your gender?

    • @f.u.c8308
      @f.u.c8308 Před 6 lety +6

      because you can't change the gender identity that has been in the mind, it tends to not be able to be changed. And maybe part of that reason is that the brain is part of the body.

    • @ToddSmith23
      @ToddSmith23 Před 6 lety +1

      So you can’t change your mind or brain?

    • @missyc8339
      @missyc8339 Před 6 lety +18

      Do you think gay people can choose to be straight? If you don't think that's possible, then it's the same reasoning as to why non binary/trans people can't just change their mind. It's who they are. If you think that gay people CAN choose to be straight...well then, I suggest you educate yourself further.

    • @maryannaamaral3078
      @maryannaamaral3078 Před 6 lety +4

      As much as your question may be legitimate we can break it down ok? Now let’s say you were born with brown eyes but all your life you felt like you were more of a blue eyed person. You have this burning need to have blue eyes to where it feels wrong to have brown eyes. You find out you can change your eyes but everyone is saying that you shouldn’t because brown eyes are what you were born with, but you know that’s not what you were physically meant to be.

    • @maryannaamaral3078
      @maryannaamaral3078 Před 6 lety +4

      Not having those blue eyes is ruining most things you felt comfortable with and it’s really starting to make you feel different

  • @alejandrotorres5557
    @alejandrotorres5557 Před 6 lety +23

    Why are we mainstreaming DELUSION.

    • @Rebazar
      @Rebazar Před 6 lety +16

      Yeah, I don't know why Trump is president either

  • @candidmusings
    @candidmusings Před 5 lety +2

    Like,like,like

  • @tinadurski4717
    @tinadurski4717 Před 2 lety

    🤮

  • @christianone6611
    @christianone6611 Před 6 lety +7

    Oh my goodness! Being compassionate to all people is wonderful. But this is all getting so ridiculous. We're just supposed to support total insanity now. What?!?!

  • @faiza2282
    @faiza2282 Před 6 lety +4

    Lol second

  • @saimaayyaz4327
    @saimaayyaz4327 Před 6 lety +2

    1st

  • @poisonivy7453
    @poisonivy7453 Před 5 lety +3

    Your ever boy or girl

    • @maple4syrup_
      @maple4syrup_ Před 4 lety +1

      When people are trying to figure out their gender they become non binary..So you’re not other a boy or a girl. Stop hating you don’t know what people are going through..You should do research *KAREN*

    • @m2tilda
      @m2tilda Před 4 lety +2

      @@maple4syrup_ .. ur wrong though. she is not trying to figure out if shes a boy or a girl, she IS nonbnary. justas all non-binary peoples are. it is not a confused state, it is a gender.

    • @Eliseala
      @Eliseala Před 3 lety

      @@m2tilda do you believe in science?

  • @jessj.jesusistheonlyway
    @jessj.jesusistheonlyway Před 5 lety +5

    Yall need Jesus..and you wouldn't be confused..you would accept who you really are...sigh..Lord help these women..

  • @menmakingwaves8621
    @menmakingwaves8621 Před 6 lety +1

    Remove "like" from your vocab. Educate yourselves. Stop taking the easy way out. Comfort breeds insecurity. Read that again...
    #pronouns are an easy way out.