Why Did You Cheat? Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris
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- From the makers of "Hurt Bae" comes another episode in the "Broken" series, exploring cheating and infidelity. They came together to talk about how infidelity impacted their relationship.
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Why Did You Cheat? Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris
what bothers me is that he says things like, "you would do anything for me," but he never said, "and i would do anything for you"
Tofu_Games This.
I feel so bad😫😫😭
And he never said you are beautiful
Typical narcissistic behavior my ex was like that. Everything for him, nothing for me ...
You're looking for things to pick on
What hurts the most is when the person who cheated starts justifying their actions and doesn’t even feel guilty.
So true.
At first, it hurts. But in the long term, it's a sign that the cheater is not worth the time and tears.
He knows looks wise he can do better. That’s the true issue…. Let’s call it like it is
Hmmm
What's even worse is the cheater telling you all the qualities and beauty the other woman has!! Like the knife in the fresh wound twisted! Wickedness!
Cheating is honestly the most disrespectful thing you could do in a relationship.
I would say abusing your partner is the most horrible thing you can do in a relationship
Yet a lot of of men do it on a regular basis
@@tarabrown740a lot of women do it on a regular basis aswell
@@tarabrown740 wow your body count must be above 20.....
@@MoSing matter of fact women do it more
He's really trying not to sound like a jerk...but he's still a jerk.
He is human stop guilt shaming and cover up for urself
@@angadgrewal7386 lol that's adorable
Jesus Christ, the fact that he decided to make it so public that he cheated is at least kinda brave and sensible.
@@alecgurdon5197 Yea but you don’t see that in the comment section :/
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
Girrrrl! If someone cheats on you it's because THEY are not good enough for YOU. Never the other way around!
yesss girlll!!
SIGH. I wish the average woman knew this. Where do you see series of men exploring why their gfs cheated? Please. She's playing herself.
Keep telling yourself that😂
It really that they aren't the best fit..maybe she isn't enough or maybe he's a serial cheater. It's always more complicated.
@@mattbruce2286 I see where you're coming from, but if they weren't a good fit he should've just left instead of cheating. When you cheat you're actively choosing to hurt someone, destroy their self confidence, and impact their ability to trust people in the future. Cheating is a shitty thing to do no matter how complicated the situation
So the girl says : "I want to be with you forever"
But the guy says : "I don't want to set anything up for the future"
I'm saying : "run girl, run"
Yeah thought the same
How long were they together when she said that? Thats an intimidating ans somewhat naive thing to say to someone
Yea even he’s aware in his own head that she’s way too good for him and he doesn’t deserve her.
I think they are perfect for each other. He cheated only once and that too because of alcohol. I won’t say I do not blame him. But, he put himself in a situation where he could not control himself. And he clearly loves her. She clearly loves him.
I think cheating happens when you are not being honest and open. If you are not honest and open, then do not be in a relationship. It’s that simple.
@@longshorts7148 hes not very good looking and she clearly loved him, you need to stop gaslighting the situatio, anyway to make the guy not guilty
She needs to realize that even celebrities get cheated on. They are beautiful, physically fit, extremely successful, and yet their partner cheats. Obviously not everyone does this. But it's not based on how you look, but it's more based on what your partner feels entitled to. Move on gf, he will do it again.
There is no such thing as celebrity
@@englishexpert1989 Yes there is and he's talking to you right now
Yeah, she is kinda pitiful. I wish she would STOP BEGGING HIM to love her. She is insecure because she knows that she is not very attractive & she is clinging onto him, even though he has DISRESPECTED her. She also needs to develop EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE because he is CLEARLY NOT INTO HER.
@@JoaddahfromCAMEROON bro honestly we cannot say much abt their rs cuz well we only have the third perspectives viewpoint and only they both know what they both felt in the rs so if they believe its worth another try then well let them be.
He doesn't love her he just love how she made him feel.
She waited for him to wake up to confront him? Damn this girl is an actual saint
Me too
Right he would have woke up to a pan to the head.
@Dunebuggie Jones she has Just good heart
BrandNewBeauty KMAAOAOOSWITOWODA
She said she didnt know wat to do. So she was busy thinking what to do
I was with my ex-boyfriend for three years and then he cheated on me with a stripper at the strip club. Shittiest time of my life, now I’m with the man of my dreams and we have a beautiful child together! ❤️
Crispy Muffins 😂
That's awesome! I'm glad you're happy
Thanks y’all 🥰
aw i’m so happy for you!! you deserve the world never settle for anything else
Awww! I am so happy for you!
His body language says everything. His tone of voice says everything. Her confidence shows him that she’s very vulnerable and that he’s able to take advantage of her. I hope they’re okay and I wish there was an update on them.
Leave this chump. I remember the time my gf cheated on me. I gave her another chance, and she did it again lol. Just leave him. Hes not worth it
@Demark Cleaning So cheating is ok because you don't know him? Youre stupid. Cheating isn't okay EVER. If you defend a cheater, youre just as pathetic as they are.
You definitely have low self-esteem based on what you would do. Going back to a cheater is not only toxic, but signs you need to love and respect urself more. You need dignity
@@anakinvader9120 plzz .. i need someone to talk bout this :(
I’m sorry, and you’re right👍🏼
Im hoping this girl cheats on her bf with me again. I really bet she will. Like i live way closer to her and she clearly gets lonely not seeing him. They were arguing too.
@@jr5993 what is this nonsense you're speaking, ur a loser
Shes so insecure and he knows it and plays on it..poor girl. You are perfect, you are worthit, you deserve happiness.
Harmony Jaide well said !
Harmony Jaide nobody’s perfect but yes girl preach it
I think he didn't mean it, so I disagree with this. Sorry.
@@abbiec8881 that's ok, everyone is entitled to have a say😎
no she has a big nose.
So she says "I love you and I want to be with you forever" and he says "I love you but we don't know what the future holds so, for now, I am going to try and make this work"... He is not into it. Leave him love.
When you use the phrase “for now” it screams THIS IS TEMPORARY!!!! He would have never told her if he wasn’t caught
I was thinking the exact same
Neo Tladi I always says that to my current boyfriend, damn you guys are so judgmental
This lady must have no self esteem.
He is just being realistic, youll never know what happens
Never love a man more than he loves you ....
True
All I've heard is to never love a girl more than she loves you. Yall are too afraid of being hurt. I literally give all my love to my gf, I've been cheated on by my ex before, but I had to take the L and realize not all girls are like that. If my heart gets broken, so be it, that's life. Live a little. Don't be afraid of love, just be prepared for it to end.
@@billjamal4764 you cant just be "prepared" for a love that you gave your all into, to end. dont be afraid to fall in love yes, but make sure u are always on the look for any red flags
@@varshini8442 yeah for sure
@@billjamal4764 that is savage in mobile legend u know
Something I learned the hard way was that when you catch them cheating, it’s often not the first time it happened. It’s just the first time you knew about
*Cheating isn't a mistake it's a choice, You don't cheat on someone you love, Period.* 🗣
This is the best thing I've ever heard in this year.
Milly periodt*
It is a mistake it's a bad choice that's what a mistake is dipshit
So you can hurt anyone you don’t love and you don’t call it a mistake? Cheating is a mistake more than a choice
Milly *Choices are mistakes*
I am so so so SOOOOO SO sick of the "I was drunk" excuse.
It's like they're reading the same "How to be a player" book.
If you're that drunk you don't have sex lol ... come on ... When I'm that drunk I just pass out in the bed lol Else I definitely remember and know what I'm doing.
I hope he wasn't "drunk" enough to forget to wear protection!
BlueEnvy1 I fell for this once. Drinking inhibits decision making, but it doesn’t make you think of new thoughts
Yeah like find a better excuse 😂🙄
The “I was drunk” Reason gets me so upset. Control yourself. Drunk actions/words are sober thoughts/decisions.
As a man, lemme say, this dude is SO FREAKING MANIPULATIVE. Don't go back to him. He might regret it but he won't be faithful.
3 minutes in, you kinda can tell that the lady is so into her guy, but this dude is just so much of a player.
he is great looking, and she is afraid of losing him, he clearly knows that he needs to be more careful with his phone now, so he will cheat again, but she might never find out ever again.
yeah why did he put down his head when she said she would text his friends to make sure hes doing okay?
@@kickinitwithjess I could be wrong but I thought it was out of frustration that he put her in the position to feel like that's something she has to do.
@Spellcaster86 This is not really true. It's true that most animal males are meant to be polygamous but those animal males go huge lengths to "win" the females for copulation. Such animal males do not choose which female they want to copulate with and often the female chooses the male. The males impress the females by killing, marking territory and dancing etc. But human males do choose the females they want to be with. All the species who choose the females do so because their only goal is not to have multiple children from different females but rather stick with one and nurture his children with her.
@Spellcaster86 I don't know but l find the excuse that humans aren't "meant to be monogamous" as a way of explaining infidelity to be wrong and not 100% true
She thinks that the more she loves & pours into him, the more he'll love her. She doesn't love herself enough. She loves him more than she loves herself & that's never good!
Sadly I made that mistake too. I hope she realizes that and finds someone better
I did this too finally I caught him the 5 or 6 time and he just ended things with me I still blame my self for everything
Ayaz Ali @how u feeling now?
@@apekshakharode9943 Hurt and confused
@@kamran.i Peace. Don't blame yourself for everything. Take accountability for what you could control & forgive yourself for the decisions you and only you made (bc manipulation and coericon are problems that can affect our choices). Sorry that happened to you. 💙
Unfortunately the guy’s body language says it all. He’s waiting for the one while he’s with her, yet she’s convinced she’s found the one. #allisfairinlove
Truth
Definitely
Yeah just compare their answers 9:32
The fact that she gave him a second chance shows a lot, plus he’s fake, and you can absolutely feel the vibe!!! Girl you deserve to be happy with someone who truly loves and appreciate your existence ❤️ Sending HER all the positive vibes, faith and love x
She needs to leave this relationship ASAP. She will always have this feeling in the back of her mind. Leave. I promise you will never feel secure in your relationship with this guy.
She will, because this is what i have and its only been 2 weeks since i forgave him and decided to give it another go, but i dont feel like hes making it up to me at all.
She got too attached☮️
Going bck like tht never works cuz dey just der cuz dey alone n when Dey find sum1 else dey leave
I will say, my boyfriend cheated on me once, but it was less intense. Just over the phone flirting (I still consider this cheating), and I'm with him now, and it's been 6 months now. After 2 longer breaks and lots of communication and deep trust exercises, we've turned out fine. For me though, my boyfriend was snot-nosed and sobbing when he thought he would lose me, and I felt stupid for staying, but looking back, I don't regret it. Sometimes you can work things out if there's a connection there, and real true love.
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I hate the ‘ I tried to make it work ‘ bruh you cheated , you’re the reason it isn’t working 🙄🤦♀️
That's what my ex told me as well Lol. Cheaters are desame Lol.
Exactly
😂🤣🤣🤣😂😒he a fool
FOOLISH
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
I went through this. I stayed, I recommend not staying. You lose yourself little by little.
This is making me angry. I NEED HER TO LEAVE HIM NOW.
Both are cheaters and she wants to live with him because he is way handsome for her.But he thinks he deserves better girl to a marriage.She doesn’t wants to leave him because she knows she never gonna get a handsome guy like him not because she is insecure or she is never be a cheater again.Both are disgusting because they are cheaters.
4 months? Really? If someone cheats on you that soon into the relationship you shouldn't be thinking "I can't imagine myself with anyone else". He's not that into you. Know your worth and step away.
When is the right time in a relationship to cheat? Lol what are you saying? So he would be more into her if he did it after year? Wut?
@@user-qw4ud5cj6j Pretty sure they mean that if someone cheats THAT soon... it's not worth repairing. If it's over a year, I could understand as the emotional investment is deeper. But 4 months? Girl just leave. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
@@SpongeMixify that makes more sense then what they said
factssss
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
Some relationships were never ment to work, but to be a learning experience.
God bless, Jesus loves you and died for you all
Doesn’t mean cheat
Antonio George hes out of her league in the looks department . Chads cheat .
You so right... a learning experience to get mature and perfect for the right person who will really deserves you in the future.
meant*
He is a smooth talker...probably works in sales or something. Very well done. I get the vibe that he is opportunistic. He will cheat again if given the opportunity. At some point she is going to have to choose whether she wants to live feeling like she’s not good enough with him...or believe that there is someone better out there for her who will be the one afraid of losing her as well. She’s young. If I were her I would be so grateful I found out about his cheating early and just leave.
💯. I agree, he's a smooth talker
The fact she’s still entertaining the idea after him cheating on her 4 months in is mind blowing. Run girl he’s gonna do it again and not care when he’s doing it he’s using you
That was so uncomfortable.. not a sincere moment from that guy... poor girl.
Ugly fugly bitch I would do a runner she is desperate af.
Her: “I wanna be with you forever”
Him: “Yeah I’m the same way. I don’t like to , you know, set anything up for the future because I like to take life as it goes but for right now I want to try to prove to you that I love you and only you.“
Yup. This isn’t going to end well.
oh boy
Ya she needs to dump that guy asap...she deserves a man who feels the same way...she could honestly do so much better!
Thats exactly what i was thinking. He just made beautiful words fot not hurting her feeling
MirchiFifteen omg I literally thought the same thing he shut her down so bad ther
Yeah he's not gonna change
The moment you find out you were cheated on omg it hurts with no pain, you just set there with silence around you but there are screams inside your body you have to deal with
Every time I see a cheater talk about cheating, they’re either emotionless or they smile about it like it’s a joke. Exhibit A: *this guy*
He seems cold and disconnected..So insincere. His words seem masked like he's bored. while she's pouring her heart out.. wtf this is sad
i 100% felt this
yup he's a narcissist.
You know they're actors...
+Eldroth666 no they're not.
@@aight33 Good one
He's grinning while she's in pain, what a narcissist. I hope she moves on
Yea isnt his face so punchable?? That smug face of his through the WHOLE video. He will cheat again if given another oppurtunity and that poor girl is such a fool and so inlove with him that she will allow him to cheat on her over and over..
@@karaphxarizona3117 I don't think the girl is a fool and I think she just scared of loosing him
@@sarahd2787 thats why I think shes a fool, why scared of losing a man who cheated on you and why be scared to lose a man when she herself said he makes her feel shes not good enough? We all have our own opinions. These days im scared to express my own opinion here on youtube cause everyone likes to fight or read too much into a comment lol. But yeah, my last sentence wasnt aimed towards you.
Sometimes smiling is a defensive mechanism just so ya’ll know
@@angelaluu6989 i consider it more like a smug rather than a smile.
She’s pretty much letting him know through this conversation that if he was to cheat again that she most likely won’t leave him by saying she couldn’t imagine being with anybody else but him and putting herself down by saying she didn’t think she was good enough or pretty enough. Unfortunately some guys know when girls have low self esteem and will use that to their advantage.
No, once you’ve crossed that line. IT’S OVER! It’s all about the cheater needing validation, attention, or simply seeing if he’s still got it. All excuses. No reason to stay. Don’t let anyone who crosses your boundaries or disrespects you be the reason to waste your time. In the end it’ll end! Save yourself the drama keep it pushing. I’m a QUEEN I won’t let a clown tilt my crown.
This smells toxic from miles away
@Spellcaster86 I KNOW RIGHT
Spellcaster86 shit works too
To your pretty condescending question Spellcaster86, no. Words with bad connotations can be used in most sentences that has something bad in it. How do you think most words in the dictionary are made?
@@jordanallen8420 Why you be posting this shit on every comment ? They see it , you don't have to bombard every single person in this comment section.
She deserves better. She's worth more than what she believes.
Ro ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Exactly
I just got out of a ten year relationship. It hurts so bad, a deep painful hurt that overwhelmes and takes over everything. I pray that nobody feels this and nobody does this to their partner.
It’s one of those things , that you don’t wish it on your enemies.
This lady is so cheery and kind hearted, such a nice smile, definitely a keeper, how could he do this SMH
cheaters never change, i tell you from experience. i was cheated on for 2 years, each time i thought it was my fault, maybe i had gained weight, maybe i wasn't making enough money.... but it never is you, no matter what you do, you will never be enough for a cheater
It is NEVER the victim's fault. NEVER. As I wrote somewhere else, this dude's excuses are his business, not hers. I'm sorry you went through this but glad you moved on. Thanks for sharing.
wow; I hope you could piece yourself back up from feeling like it was your fault. I know how feeling financially supbar can be such a self esteem crusher for us guys
Bless
guardianjuan people ain’t shit 🤷♀️
guardianjuan word
“We fell in love fast” I don’t think he did at all😬
K i think the same
She fell in love quick because he was love- bombing her ass!
Why do people cheats . Forgets all the moment we spent together and just leave you all broken and devastated making you question your love, your character , your existence.
Because they are broken and instead of turning their pain into a reason to be good they turn it into an excuse to be bad.
+ the culture and law is promoting cheating
When a guy knows you are out of his league = He does this to make you insecure & so that you will think not only are you not out of his league but that he is out of yours. 👍 insecure men are the ones who cheat. Some"men" don't even realize exactly why they are doing it. But they sure love a beautiful girl who is out of their league chasing them & crying over them & wanting them&being upset over them. & Then they themselves feel good about themselves because of it. & Then they realize they can now act like they're out of your league bc of the insecurities they now have given to you. 👍 Once a man like this realizes you have realized what an idiot he is& that they don't have such emotional control over you= They get angry & all his insecurities come to the surface for you to see clearly. & Then you think to yourself- What was I thinking letting this guy have such control over my life? Over my emotions?
“You were good enough for me”
Girls! Boys! Anyone! Be good enough for yourself! Nobody else!
+++
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
I feel like some guys miss the point . Cheating does not JUST destroy the trust and honesty in the relationship. Along with that it destroys the person you’ve deceived . It makes them feel insecure and less of a person . I think that if you knew you were gonna do something stupid you should have had enough respect for yourself and the person you were with to end it.
Carl Ed Nava exactly! I don’t understand how someone can claim to love you so much but then turn around and hurt you in that way and makes you feel so worthless and unloved
right!! It literally kills them. They get trust issues with new ppl they meet, anger issues around men and other girls, you can really become a psychopath .. it will always hunt you, you will never be 100% at peace because the trust will always be broken. If he did it when everything was so good what tell you he won't do It again , and what about when things go bad in the relationship due to personal problems or family problems. instead of helping you out, he'll be cheating on you cuz you not good enough
Girls too
Steamy
Of course . Lol I said “guys” because this has to do with a guy cheating ..not a girl
I like pancakes I think humans in general make bad decisions . It’s not right single out one gender.. especially if It’s from your personal point of view.
You can tell he’s ready to cheat again I see it In his face 🥴
He's cheated ,he is cheating, he will cheat
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women cheat too, it’s two lanes not one.
😯😯😯😯
OMG is this for real ..😂
The hardest part to take in is realizing when you love that person more than they love you
This is my experience of what I’ve see on cheaters over and over with their partners. It doesn’t matter how beautiful the girl or the guy that is being cheated on is, it doesn’t matter their level of success, their prestige, you name it, it doesn’t matter because a cheater will cheat anyways, the most important thing to remember is that you are not the problem, they are. And the best thing you can do is to recognize the red flag earlier on the dating stage, and if you are already in a relationship, get rid of them, because in a committed relationship cheaters are worth the same as ‘’trash’’.
4 months in a relationship is still the honey moon new relationship stage and there was already cheating? That’s definitely not okay. He ether easily gets tempted with women, or did not take that relationship seriously to begin with. Idk, if she takes him back and every time he goes out to drink with his friends she will never feel fully secure
I'm not taking advice from someone name "sad girl"
Sad Girl I agree
If u paid attention he was super drunk and when ur drunk u can't remember anything
this guy that i like has a girlfriend and they’ve only been dating for 3 months and while they were dating he told me he liked me. does that mean he doesn’t even care about his relationship??
kayla yes this nigga has that girl for a title, and wants to quickly get something new.
Girl, don’t be someone else’s definition of “good enough”.
Wow! Well said.
i’m watching this in 2020 and can i say i pray that she moves on because NOBODY deserves to go through this !!
These comments turn in to a community therapy session. It's pretty cool!
Right!
Instead of saying "now I don't know if I'm good enough," she should've said, "now I don't know if YOU'RE good enough."
💯
Exactly.
This!!!!
Sofia Valdez exactly!!!!!
You are so damn right 👍🏻
For all u cheaters out there it’s like she said “I had this feeling” we can feel it! I felt it as soon as it started. I knew something was up with my ex as soon as she started cheating!
Facts
LMAO
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
i was so so so so jealous over my ex and i thought i was just crazy when rlly it was just my intuition trying to tell me something
i knew my ex was cheating but he kept on denying everything and said that i was toxic. he finally admitted to cheating today and he's still with the girl he cheated on me with
My husband cheated on me 4 weeks into our marriage after being together 7 years. It was an affair not emotional I have seen every text message but it was multiple meetings. I found out 1 year into the marriage. What hurts the most isn’t so much him it’s the thought that a person who acted like and said they loved you and married you and built a life with you where you supported each other would do something so cruel and selfish to you.
Are you still married?
The vibes after the damage have been done is eerie. You can truly see someone’s real character.
I don’t get why people would cheat. Like why not break up or be in an open relationship.
Righttt
When you’re drunk can’t do much
PeaceLoveBabies wrong. sober thoughts lead to drunk actions. being drunk DOESNT change you, it only enhances who you really are. if you’re an asshole while you’re drunk, you’re an asshole while you’re sober too it just doesn’t show as much.
ITS BECAUSE SHE HAS SNAGLE TOOTH
PeaceLoveBabies that shouldn’t be an excuse
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.....
I dated a girl that I was madly in love with for 4 years. She cheated on within the first 6 months, then 2 guys after a year and an a half and 2 more at the 4 year mark.....then just cracked one day of the guilt.
Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice.
the smirk on his face says it all..he will do it again and again.
The saddest thing about #hurtbae is seeing how happy they are reminiscing about the beginning of their relationship
she is so insecure in herself to call him an amazing guy after that...im disgusted
@jihane he didn't lose her thats the part that makes her insecure. she is staying/stayed
jihane, telling a cheater he is amazing especially when he did that early in the relationship and shows no sign of deep remorse is being DELUSIONAL. She's projecting a CONCEPT of what she wants in him. He's only amazing at playing women. She looks foolish.
me too, this is so disgusting to watch. The way she still gives all of herself to him is just gross.
Yeah she's really naive and I don't like how she keeps saying to him, "it makes me feel like I'm not good enough" like stop looking for reassurance and for your self-worth from another person. She definitely should not have taken him back. Some people are scared of being alone, but being single is better than being with a piece of shit. He will never be able to give her what she wants and she should learn to accept that, move on, and find someone who will.
Bae Lee - have you ever considered that maybe she simply loves him? I think that you have to have even greater self esteem than usual in order to decide to forgive someone that you love and have to endure ignorant assessments that you should leave someone that you love.
This looks like she's in love with him and hes having a hard time getting the balls to break up with her
Fuckin. Nailed it!
Hey army
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STRAIGHT FACTS!
That’s cuz he’s a boy who hasn’t grown up yet
Why is it so fckn hard to unlove the people who just hurt us? We’re supposed to despise them right? 😖
Because Love is so pure and blind.
It's impossible. You just have to love yourself more.
That little smirk he’s got he doesn’t wanna settle lol
NEXT! He isn’t being honest. Probably cheating rn and he knows you will forgive him.
His whole body language shows he’s either still talking to that chic he slept with, he’s still cheating or he feels bad for her so he’s sticking around. Love is blind and when you finally open your eyes you see everything for what it is. She’s not at that point just yet.
I agree with you about his body language.
I was reading him that way the whole time
I can tell , body languages are on point and the way he speaks feels like his really not interested at her at all.
LMAO...BS and FOOLISH
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
A lot of the time, couples struggle with commitment or staying interested if they started partying with each other. Drunk love feels great until you put the partying aside and are stuck with each other's REAL selves.
Why am I watching this. There is nothing worse than the dagger of remembering someone’s infidelity ... I will never forget
his whole attitude and the way he speaks shows he doesn’t love her. sis do better
Yeah, I don't think 95% of these comments have a clue how to read people
everyone does show emotions very differently than one another.
I've met people who've been through a lot and don't cry when they speak about it, depends on the person but honestly who really knows.
@@IshFallen He's sitting there as if he's not taking it seriously and he justifies flirting with other girls with "I won't do anything with them tho". She needs to leave if he's not going to change soon.
Aaliyah Feacher if he didn’t care he wouldn’t have taken the time to sit there and talk to her
How can u see that he doesn't love him
He seems kind of toxic and shallow.
He is. I remember the first and only time I fell in love. That feeling of loving someone so much hurts my soul on a deep level. I feel like no one is going to love me as much as I did or maybe even I will never be able to find someone to love that much...
Exactly!
Yeah kind of sociopath
@@shopekuax2067 yey you you're beautiful smart human being. Remember that true things take a lot of time and also remember this "Love can't hurt you but person who doesn't know how to love you can hurt you a lot " so it's better to move on then be stuck with person who hurts you. You will find the right person for yourself. You need to find yourself before finding someone right for you. Hope never dies
His toxic because he did consider her feelings.what will you do Emily if you are one?
Cheaters don't have the courage to break up because of convenience or hurting the other persons feelings. Its hard to tell your significant other you don't love them that way anymore.
A cheater is like a thief ,hes good at it as long he doesen't get caught!
Living in truth,harmony ,love is always the path to go!
So stay true to your beliefs and never surrender!
when she said there's probably a million girls out there that you're into... and I'm not good enough. I felt that.
I did too
May I know what u mean by u felt it? Like u have been on recieving end of similar situation? Can I know little about it?
Same
He seems like he’s just telling her what she wants to hear. Once a cheater always a cheater.
And u are also a cheater 😂😂😂😂
Merry Christmas to you! 😂😊
@@evatrujillo6865 Yeh merry Christmas to you also 😄
I don't believe that once a cheater, always a cheater thing. I was a cheater.. But I feel very confident in saying now that I won't do that again. To anyone, regardless of how I feel.
I want people to understand that cheating in the past doesn't define you now, you can change if you choose too. I also want to crush the thought that you don't cheat on people you truly love (even though you didn't bring that up).
How much you love someone doesn't determine whether you cheat on them or not, YOU decide that. The cheater puts themself in a vulnerable situation where cheating is easy to occur, then it happens. It's as easy as that, in my opinion. You have to stop the cheating BEFORE it's about to happen because in the moment it's about to happen, you won't stop it. I can almost guarantee that.
@@kallimackenzie4112 Cheaters are disgusting I think you are ashamed by it now and try to justify you.🤣
Sometimes I get really sad and lonely because I’m not in a relationship and everyone is. I feel so worthless and ugly but honestly I’m glad I’m not going through this pain.
This girl is very very understanding. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy's just taking advantage of that.
He will do it again
and she will still be with him. he has asshole wrote in his forehead but stupid girls will still date him and then complain history repeats itself
Yes he will 100% I agree. Its written alllll over his face. Poor girl loves him so much that she will allow him to do it again and again.
@@karaphxarizona3117 .
its always the same people who cheat its in thier dna, but for some reason, their naive SO always says "but not with me, he\she changed, you are just jealous, blablabla" i lost pitty for them. they are just dumb. fuck it.
@@ndspndsp30 right?! I am so with ya!! Ya the whole bullshit lines like 'hes changed' or 'ive changed' or 'sure hes cheated on ALL his old girlfriends, but im different, he wont cheat on me'. That whole mindset is just SAD.
Honestly I think its perfectly fine if people want to "be" with more than one person, it is just in some people's nature. However this day and age there is no excuse for being with someone who isn't cool with that kind of thing and doing it behind their back when there are plenty of people more open minded about that sort of thing. I kind of wish I would be alright with an open relationship, but I know I wouldn't be.
Doesn’t he see he’s destroying her? Doesn’t he see he’s broken her to pieces?
And yet she clings to him.
And yet he feels entitled to her.
She just so happens to be his type.
Get rid of him asap.
Because he is alpha
a Can you calm down.
He’s a alpha
Asap
@@Inkiettoo777 if alpha=fuckbois and cheaters...
Then betas are million times better than alphas.
He is a coward to break up with her because seems not to into her. She is a coward for not willing to let him go as it is obvious he wants out.
I love how they acknowledge how she made him feel..and all the time they spent together....but they never really knew they were in a relationship
After 4 months with no defined relationship talk??? Lol gurl you trippin, the boyz a playaaaaaa
Willow Grace tea lmao
Like woww!! 4 months. WHo the fuck does that, cheating already on 4 months. I cant believe that. This girls needs to move on!
Her:"I think you've definitely improved"
Him:scratches ear
That made my heart sink also 😌
𝑨𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝑹𝒀𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑳𝑯𝑨𝑪𝑲𝑬𝑹⚙️𝑪𝑶𝑴 ... 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒎𝒆 𝑮𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂 𝒑𝒆𝒅𝒐𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒔 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍 .. 𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒓𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒐𝒏
She never will get rid of that pain.When you healing, that’s when a human being start to Builth their confidence and trust .The pain of her hearth?Is a burn mark that will stay there to remember her for the minimum he does that she feels insecure .
Look up the three attachments styles: Avoidant, Anxious, and secure. The girl is anxious attachment and the guy is avoidant attachment. A perfect recipe for a disaster
My psychology teacher explained behavior is a combination of disposition(who you are) and situation. If you put yourself in the situation to cheat, ex drinking and you know you can be flirtatious, you talk to other girls, then it is the perfect situation for cheating to happen. If you talk to your boss who you find attractive and go out for coffee, cheating is more likely. So if your disposition isn’t as faithful then don’t put yourself in tempting situations. People who drink and cheat have no excuse. Cheaters don’t get second chances.
Best comment!
thank you for this explanation!
Exactly what my husband says. You cheat when you put yourself in a situation to do so.
She is not
Ready for a relationship, she made the worst decision to get back with him, he is clearly manipulating her mind, because she is insecure.
uhm im planning to cheat but after watching this, i know i would hurt her so much and make her question herself “am i enough?” and left her insecure.
@@vincenzo_1452 just please leave her alone and break up with her like even if you don't cheat you clearly dont love her if ur thinking about cheating..so i think u owe it to her to leave her alone not trying to be mean but yea :)
instead of leaving her i planned to stay prolly good news i guess?
zyxus ae hm
Mario?
@@vincenzo_1452 why cheat when you can just leave??
People would say break up with him. However, I’ve been in her shoes and sometimes love makes you feel to give the person a second chance based on their willingness.
It's fine to not be good enough for someone else as long as you're good enough for yourself, thats whats most important
It made me feel so aggravated when she said “I’m not good enough”. I was cheated on by someone I was with for 5 years and yes absolutely I felt what she felt.. I emphasize completely. But I cut ties once I found out. I said my peace and that’s the last we spoke. How can you forgive a cheater? It’s such a betrayal. I questioned my looks... my personality. Hahaha I laugh because it’s ridiculous. I am so enough.. and so is anyone.
You are absolutely enough. You are more than enough. You don’t need someone who betrayed you like that in your life.
She forgave him...but did she really? You can tell she is still so hurt.. you can tell she still thinks about it. I’m so sorry girl but it won’t last.. even if he doesn’t cheat again, you’re going to always wonder and be curious.
Take the love you have for him.. and want to give to him, and give it to yourself. Focus on yourself... and the person who deserves you will come along.❤️
Thank you🤗
U had the strength to cut ties and move on but not everyone is the same.
This was perfect ❤️
Alexa beautify said ❤
Wow that was the realest comment ever. I’ve forgiven someone who’s cheated on me but this is so true. I wasn’t living happily. Every time she was out my heart was pounding thinking it’ll happen again so you never really forgive or forget, you just try to get by and that’s a shit way to live.
She said: "I love you and i want to be with you forever" He replied: "I kinda feel the same but i want to take life as it goes without plans for the future". Damn, he doesn't cherish her and love her the way she loves him. Leave his ass darling, you deserve so much better than this!
@@LittlePenguinHouse Couldn't more agree wìth you, i feel the same way. i just don't know how to put it into words
At least he didn’t lie about it ..
Lyudmila I wonder how she got to that point. Oh wait probably because people made her feel that way!
Angelica Gabrieli hes a chad....
Yes
I can tell this dude plainly has no empathy, it's the way he talks
Yo that guy is such a actor 😂😂😂 he’s crazy leave him go find a heart ❤️ that deserves you.
Only scrolled down to read the "girl, run" comments. I wasnt disappointed..
Thank u, next
Summer Breeze YES.
Fav comment lol
I ain’t so thankful for my ex
ahaahaa exactly
Destiny 💀💀💀
Shes pouring her heart out to him about how she feels like she would need to communicate with his friends... and after the trifling actions he committed he has the nerve to say “ you really feel like you need to resort to communicating with my friends?” 👀👀 oh no no no.
I dislike the fact that she thinks it’s her fault... that she’s not good enough. Queen, that’s all on him. You are enough. He made this decision because of him.