Why men Rape by Tara Kaushal - 1 | The Book show ft RJ Ananthi |
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- In Why Men Rape, Tara Kaushal sets out to understand the reasons through a detailed investigation which includes meetings with nine men who have an inclination to commit acts of sexual violence. The men interviewed for the book belong to all sections of society: a doctor who raped his twelve-year-old patient; an unemployed youth who decided to kill his former lover; a youth who gang raped; a serial gang rapist who doesn't believe rape exists. Alongside, the author gives insights from myriad survivors; world-famous experts; a jail inmate who observes and provides us with a commentary on the worldview of rape convicts inside a prison; and many more.At a time when sexual violence is crippling our society, Why Men Rape marks an important contribution towards making us aware of the problem, and finding a way to stop it. Watch the full video to know more.
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I appreciate your courageous effort to talk about this topic which is often categorized as taboo. I feel, today's men should talk about such topics more because when a woman speaks for herself, they are labeled as Feminist which itself is not acceptable for many men. They feel intimidating by seeing an independent woman.
Breaking the barriers and speaking against the social evils such as rape, needs a real gut. 👏 👏
You have brought this book to our knowledge, hopefully this would give different perspective to understand different dark sides of people.
Few men have no idea, they are narcissists, and most of the victims are their lover, girlfriend, sister, or close circle who are their loved ones.
Could you please talk about that as well in the upcoming days with some book reference.
It saddened my heart much about the attitude of such man who does rape, just to prove their physical strength and power. I wish educating people on their humanities and behaviour with their opposite gender would decrease the rate of rape. Respect to the author and you Anandhi.❤
true... but oru visayam enna na independent ana women ah pathu real men bayapadavo padharavo matanga...women epd irundhalum rape nadakudhu bcoz adhu pshcho thanam....kadumayana thandanai m awareness m valakura vidhamum maranum varanum adhu vandhale podhum...pengal pblms pathi pesa thana feminism iruku...pengal pblms pathi pesuranala aangalku pblm illa pengal inga avanga pblms pesurenu sollitu aangaluku entha pblm m illa aanai irupadhu easy nu soldra toxic feminist ah patha tha kadupagudhu...
Agreed
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
Men who talk about false rape for anything and everything need to understand the fact that there are more rape cases went unreported than the false ones
Just because they count less in number, doesn't mean they have to be ignored. Both should be given justice. Before 50 years people who spoke about our (women's) sufferings were less in number, what if they were ignored? Think.
@@athirar2356we just ask you not to be so judgemental. Don't accuse anyone until proved( based on your assumption)
@@Sri-vx9st Exactly! that's what I wanna say to law systems, police and finally social media "Don't accuse anybody until proved". But, when it comes to women who is accusing against men, it is pre-judged.
They only talk about false accusation when rape is talked about, just to demean or neutralize rape, false accusation it is not a real issue for them. It is just a tool
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Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
New point of view , eye opening, waiting for part 2.
ITS TRUE AND GOOD EXPLANATION THANK YOU THOZAR
Rape and sexual abuse crimes should immediately stop. These rapists put the entire male community to shame. Every men is looked upon with suspicion and fear because of these rapists.
*If a girl keeps hearing these kind of news of men sexually abusing women very often, then fear and hatred for men keeps growing in her mind, even to the point where she refuses to be around men and even marry any man.*
Punishments for Rape should be as brutal as possible for the criminals to understand the gravity of the crime.
Book explains well,The editing is so,good,we need this editing style 4 upcoming videos❤
It's not only in the rape issue Ananthi... I'm going to marry a girl now recently i was getting advice from everyone about how to treat her and how to act as a man on controlling her..ect. I'm so much confused with them.., I want to be a normal person with her and I want to have conversation and relationship as a human nothing else.. but why in our society there is lots of conversation with this in a wrong way ... I don't know., Please make a video on this
True
Ignore that advices bro just be yourself to our partner and treat her well moreover its your life not theirs😊
@@-NandhiniC 👍
Thirupi asingama Kelunga. Apo than puriyum.
Hello!
I am glad that you don't want to control her... Rather than getting advice from other people, just let that girl know what kind of man you are and ask her what she expects...
Nice points mentioned, I like the books and the topics you are coming up with... worth content
i am also men, but i am not a guy who think about a women in wrong way,its haram. its prohibited. and my mindset is not like that
Amazing speech... well done
Pls do part 2 video. Because the book cost is High... Thanks
I appreciate and hats off for RJ and tara kaushal
Outfit doesn't matter. there is a rape victims outfit exhibition.
Most importantly. Not all the Men are rapist.
That's not true. MAJORITY of men are not rapists
நிறைய யோசிக்க வைத்தது மேலும் இது மாதிரியான content - யை தைரியமாக பேசியது சிறப்பு
Beautifully expressed by You!
We all should know about this . Your courage is amazing
Part 2 video podunga inum intha book pathi awareness irukm
An interesting video and discussion ❤ Loved it ❤
Waiting for part two see you soon 🔜
🫡Akka...... so happy that u talked about the most sensitive topic's another side. It's really necessary to understand the psychological things from the side of a rapist. I do have a question akka...... WHAT DOES THE RAPIST THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OR SENTENCES OF COMMITTING A RAPE? DESPITE FEARING PUNISHMENTS DOES HE FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THE ACT LATER❓️ Anything regarding this in the book......
Good to discuss such things really needed for life
Well explained, thank you ananthi
Wow! Very much needed information about patriarchy!!
Manusmriti book review paneengla.. antha video link knjm share panunga please..??
Need of the hour 👏👌
Awesome really a different topic ths time
Amazing explanation 👏
Great excerpts from the book!! I wish you had provided the statistics with the data
I don't know why this video is so hard to watch. And I can't imagine how a rape victim would cope with it all.
Women are really strong. It pains me to watch the video, how a girl would feel. However, there is always a great hope that such a big issue can get solved when people like you talk about it on a mass media platform.
Please keep doing more videos so that you can blast everyone's(assaulting men) mind in some way and can reduce the probability as much as possible.
What you doing now is a great mission. 👍
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
Hats off❤️✨️
Your narration was so nice.... literally uou made me curious to purchase that book.. thank you yaar
Perfect!!!!
I guess every woman one or the other way, should really feel relatable, Thanks for bringing this book out.
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
@@i8memes yaru paa nee
Elaa cmntlayum irka
@@i8memes oh my God... Ipdium iruka
The core is - Man donno its rape and they cannot accept if a woman denies them (esp husbands). Thats the biggest problem. As a single woman, i repeated hear this problem from married women about their Hubands and the endure it continuously for years and years.
சுவாசம், பசி, தாகம், தூக்கம், கழிவு நீக்கம், பாலியல் உணர்வு இவை எல்லாம் அனைவருக்கும் அதாவது ஆண் பெண் இருவருக்கும் ஒன்றுதான் அப்படி இருக்க ஒரு ஆண் தனது மனைவியிடம் பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று கேட்ட்கும் போது மனைவி பாலியல் உறவுக்கு விருப்பம் இல்லாமல் இருக்கும் போது அந்த மனைவிக்கு என்ன பிரச்சனை உள்ளது உடம்பில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது மனதில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கணவருடன் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கால இடை வேளையில் பிரச்சனையா என்பதை அந்த மனைவி கூற வேண்டும் இந்த 4 விஷயத்தில் பிரச்சனை இருக்கும் போது அதனை ஓர் பாலியல் மருத்துவரை மற்றும் ஒரு மன நல மருத்துவரை பார்த்து ஆலோசனை பெற்று பிரச்சனையினைக்கு தீர்வு காண்பது தான் ஒரு அறிவு உள்ள ஒரு மனைவியின் செயலக இருக்கு வேண்டும் அதற்கு மாறக பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று சொல்லுவதினால் பிரச்சனை முடிந்து விடாது மாறாகபிரச்சனை அதிகம் தான் ஆகும், நீங்க இந்த பிரச்னைக்கு என்ன தீர்வு கொடுப்பிர்கள், ஆண் மற்றும் பெண் இருவரும் மருத்துவ அறிவியல் மூலம் பிரச்சனைக்கு தீர்வு காணவில்லை என்றால் RAPE, குடும்ப வாழ்க்கை, குழந்தை வாழ்க்கை, சமுதாயம் போன்ற பல பாதிக்க படும், constitution of india article 51a கிளாஸ் H என்ன சொல்லுது என்றால் to develop the scientific temper, humanism and the spirit of inquiry and reform னு சொல்லுது அதனால இந்த புக் 1கோடி பேரிடம் பேசி எழுதியது என்பத்தினால் மட்டும் எல்லா பிரச்னைக்கும் தீர்வு சொல்ல முடியாது மேலும் ஆனந்தி மனநல மருத்துவரும் இல்லை பாலியல் மருத்துவரும் இல்லை just அந்த book க படித்து தனது point of view சொல்லும் ஒரு நபர் மட்டும் தான் ஆகையால் ஆனந்தியிடம் இதற்கு எல்லாம் அறிவுரை கேட்பது சரி அல்ல, ஆனந்திக்கும் தெரியும் நான் சொல்லுவது உண்மை என்று
@@rajkumar-cd4gv lol i can't read tamil. But i hope what you write benefits others.
@@rajkumar-cd4gv I agreed with your point. Just like happiness, sadness, hungry and angry... Sex is one kind of emotion. I know there is no gender barrier in this emotions. But... If your partner is not willing to share her body to satisfy your needs you should respect her. Because as like you, she has the rights over her own body. And one more thing... The fact she denies sexual intercourse means she has some problem with her body or mind so she need to visit doctor and go through some sort of counseling and stuff means... If men couldn't control his sexual needs, means may be they are sexual adict and may had some mental disorder regarding that adiction... so why can't they visit the same psychologist and get a theropy first?
Hats off to you Sister! As a College Boy 😢 I am Worrying for Psycho Men. To solve this Problem Government should increase the Punishment for Rape Case like Death Sentence immediately after Pure investigation. And society should be taught with good positive psychology rather than Only language math science and social.
Despite of goverment parents also shpuls take a seriois responsibility on these kind of topics to their kids
Nee solra mari punishment ah increase panna death sentence kudutha prechana theerumna kandippa illa
Ippo oru ponnuku unna pudikala ava unna ethirka nenacha easy ah rape case kuduthutu poiruva society unna nambathu avala thaa nambum pathika padurathu namma thaa
Bro I am 1st year BE EEE in KCT coimbatore
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
As a guy whose brought up in an elite environment and who's life revolves around well read and well aware people, issues like these often ignored and are thought of as something that happens only in rural places or in places with people with backward mindsets... Until things happen to someone you know.
Keeping the negativity aside, it's really important to open up our minds to such realities and the core mindset of people indulging in such crimes.
Also, I'm looking forward to further parts of this review, where u might discuss about well read and educated men... What would their mindset be? They would certainly have felt some shame...right..?
And finally, what do u think is a solution? Is it just getting as many people educated as possible, while instilling such topics into early education?
A good friend of mine who is an activist told me that in india its only recent year all this good and bad touch is taught and taken seriously and there is very little help or knowledge most sexual abuse are from known people. And most woman don't react even if they know a child or woman being abused cos they are financially dependent on that man and worried about their society as most of India is not city. So i guess the recent year this has been changing.
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
தமிழில் இது போன்ற விடையங்களைப் பற்றி பதிவு செய்வது போற்றுதற்குரியது. வாழ்த்துக்கள் 🤝🏾
It is happy to see how men are also accepting and listening to this topic and supporting it. When I am opening comments section I expected and criticisms from men. But the reality is upside down . Very happy to see 🎈
What a great book 😳 , every minute in this video I’m hearing weird new perspectives
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
Mam, These concepts are not only strange and bizarre for you, Even for me as 34 aged Man.
Only You would be the one can reveal such concepts does exist.
I will give special attention for your video, I will take to this my heart.
19:51 Yes.. This is what i want to hear.. I can sense the true discussion that you want to bring out through this topic..
Well said mam❤
@RJ Ananthi, please talk about mental health which is the root cause of all these. Mental health is so important which is not spoken about much in India as much as it should be. Everyone has trauma in their lives. Since the age of 6 if children can be taken once in a while to psychologist or education in school about mental health is important. or parents should be guided to speak to children, learn about their feelings. Parents who don't know these how to bring up a child of good mental health, thats when teenagers develop to become narcissists. All parents should be educated on how to handle the emotions and thoughts of their kids the right way. Just providing food and things for children is not bringing up children.
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
it was nice questioning the ideology of women being an asset for men
Super awesome awareness about
Explained well super pa
Waiting for next part.
Akka , as u said at 19:53 , Only very very few men rape … Apdina antha Book ooda title “ Why do some men rape “ nu tana avanga eluthirkanum🧐. Why she wrote a book titled “Why men rape ?” Which portrays all Men are bad😕
Correct question than , ena panrathu
ithuku peruthann pseudo feminism xD
Ivlo neelama vacha page pathaathu!! Basically men yen rape pandranga'ndrathu thaan!!
Finally some one asked....
It’s because this book is not about why women rape ! That’s why it is named why men rape and it also doesn’t say why all men rape! ( arivaaaa kelvi kekura perla cringe pannaaathenga bro)
I did happen to chat to the authour through social media. She is a genuine person, does responds to readers. Most of the crimes are done without knowing its the crime. Still there are many people who are not aware what is right and wrong. One sees how a person been treated at home. Some of the books and programs guides it wrongly. The fundamental change needs to come from education system and awareness. In country like sweden both men and women are equal in chores and earning, raising the kids. At least the same template can be tried. Moreover the law and investigations needs to be integrated with technology. Like body language anslysis and not just with words, when there is no fear and one could get out of the crime i dont get how law and order be acheived. Its been said punishment will be severe if victim dies. Ideally a punishment was to change a person by taking the psychology aspect a person needs to be released, but that doesnt happen. The permanent solution is to have an emphatetic people, respecting others boundaries, irrespective of caste and gender. Unless this happens the crime continues to happen. The reported issues are few, the missing cases and unreported cases will be more. This is something needs to be addresed by considering psychology aspect, if it needs to be controlled in coming days. Good choice of book well presented ma.
Sister..இந்த book எப்படி வாங்குறது
Hi Ananthi,
how did rapists families react once they got to know this incident? Or didn't they aware of it?
I've heard somewhere a rapist's mother pleaded in the court to free her son😑
@@shakthi9524worst case
@@shakthi9524 Bruh that's disgusting.. I wonder what kind of mother she is..supporting her rapist son.
Very much needed ! Mindset of Rape ! After having seen and hearing so much about it always!
It's a very simple thing, tickling makes one giggle, but it does not mean they are comfortable and receiving. When you make a move on a girl and don't stop when she says no, it's rape, even if she isn't able to do anything about it in the circumstance. Most victims go into a state of shock that immobilizes them. Absence of resistance is not consent.
Love a single partner is blessing . Accept as they are is blessing.
Accepted their family as yours is blesising.
Ups and down have a same face is blessing
Respecting your parther as yourself is blessing
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
Hats off akka🫡👏
Every one in this world has a choice to say no and their freedom is not with any one but them, If it is not acceptable by brutal beings hatred and unlawful thoughts arises it is shown by them their action
Waiting for 2nd part
Need part -ll🚶🏼♀️
Why you open?
So simple...punishment avlo seriousa ila nama naatla
Waiting for part 2
nice explanation sissy💌
Why men of that family accept him even after convicted?
Hi ananthi..are girls only abused physically.. most of the time we are abused mentally by our family.. not able to tolerate it .. I really want to come out of my family 😞
yes. it is important to learn emotional and mental abuse. When you know your family is toxic, first step is don't let them affect you mentally. Get mental help and support from therapists, friends etc... I do not know your age. Find out who are really good people around you, who won't take advantage of you, form a good trust worthy friends & relative circles for your own self. Start building yourself up in studies and professional work wise, become super strong mentally, emotionally and physically. Give yourself love, take care of your own physical health, mental health etc... do things that make you happy to counteract the negativities in the life, fill it up with other positive interests, like learning new things or travel what makes you happy that doesn't hurt yoruself or others (stay away from bad vices like smoking, drinking or drugs). watch self love and self improvement videos. you can do this. and once you are strong in all these ways, move out, detach yourself from toxic family members. good luck
Nice one
Negaa soldra content elameee nalaruku aana oru kind request...nega soli mudichi video end laa oru review maari like over view maari solugaa kaa inum konjaa nalaaa clarity ahh irukum... Moral of the story maarii.... ✨
Nice...
So nice video
I Appreciate you ka nice book review
Hi even men’s gets abused by men yes I had abused in SETC bus when I was 20 I was going to my hometown after pongal leave in company I think it was morning 5’o clock Some thing was going in pants I can feel it I was in deep sleep Because I am to tired of double shifts then I suddenly I wake and I see a hand of decent Old man and I pushed his hand Out of pant because he opened my zeep in my pant I was terribly angry I don’t know what to do after that also he is trying to touch my pant and hitted in the bus side wall he changed his seat You know I am a body builder I can hit him He can’t do anything But I was silent after few minutes he asked me is it trichy bus stand arrived But I was silent I didn’t say anything Even now I didn’t say to anyone because it’s a shame for me to say to others then what will happen nothing will happen no one trust me to…. Because I am a Boy
Part 2 seekirama venum ka!!!
Sister, I've been in lot of temples, but I never seen any girl doing priest job, please talk about that. Thanks for giving the information.
Ethana vedio va pathutu suma namallum rape panum nu sila per panuranga akka ( etha mathri vedios ha stop panalam la ? )
Toxic part but information.but handle it well
🤔I think a few blank lines have been answered that an assumption about pre-male society is the nature of how it is taught to this day.
Thank you for this video madam at the right time 🙏
From this we shall understand the perception in manipur issues
Vera Mari 🔥👌
Akka.I am a male of 17 years.Ennala gender equality puringika mudiyuthu.aanaalum ennala oru ponnukitta poi pesa mudiyala athuku reason ava ponnu ndrathu mattum than. I dont know why?please tell the reason and intha video neenga sonnathu romba cleara irunthuchi.
Ponnu kita pesa mudiyathaku karanam ava oru ponnu apdithana😂😂 apona paiyan kita pesurathu
I'm a part of health care provider sissy ...as a part of my profession how did I educate to over come with affected sexual victim person
Part 2 please madam
19.58 I think that is where we have to analyze
yes its true true true true
Nailed it 🔥☺️. According to those people everything lies in women's virginity. Surely need of the hour. Iam sure the writer would have a great research about the incidents. Victim blaming is a common factor we observe in our day to day life.The point is they're not worried about women's consent. If they're allowed to they would have chosen their partner wisely and the population wouldn't have increased like this 😮😢. When I was small i didn't know the difference between sex and rape. When i came to know that I was really shocked. The patriarchy has made us talk about women as a property and scold someone using the words mentioning female parts. As u said in cities they atleast know that's a crime so many cases are reported then what about the villages..even in animals the females are taking their own decisions. The males have written everything in the name of religious text which should be followed by women and they're are made to without realising that they don't have freedom to take their decisions on their own and should listen to males.The absence of women in history is man-made. Let's see part 2
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
ஆணாதிக்கம் இல்லாத ஒரு சமூகத்தை காட்ட முடியுமா??
இந்த புத்தகம் வெறும் “பெண்ணிலைவாத” மன கட்டமைப்பில் இருந்து “கற்பழிப்பை” புரிந்துகொள்ள முயற்சி செய்கிறது.
எனக்கு சில கேள்விகள் தோன்றுகிறது!
“கற்பழிப்பு “ என்றால் என்ன?
கற்பழிப்பு செய்வது சரியா பிழையா?சரி, பிழை என்பதை எவ்வாறு வேறுபடுத்தி புரிந்து கொள்வது??
ஒரு பெண்ணின் அனுமதியுடன் கற்பை அழிப்பதும் அவள் அனுமதி இல்லாமல் அழிப்பதற்கும் உள்ள ஒழுக்கரீதியான வேறுபாடு என்ன??வருவன் “பயன்வழிவாதியாக” இருந்தால் அவன் தனக்கு எது பயன் அளிக்கிறதோ அதை அடைவதைத்தான் சரியாக என்னுவான்.அந்த வகையில் அவன் ஒரு பெண்ணை அவள் அனுமதியுடன்அல்லது அனுமதி இல்லாமல் கற்பழிப்பது பிழையாகாது அல்லவா???!!!
“உரிமை” என்றால் என்ன??அப்போதுதான் பெண் உரிமையையோ தனிமனித உரிமையோ பேச முடியும்!
பெண்ணிலைவாதம், பெண்ணை தனிமனித ஆணாதிக்கத்தில் இருந்து(தந்தை,சகோதரன்,மகன்,கனவன்) சமூக ஆணாதிக்கத்திற்கு உட்படுத்தியதன் விளைவுதான் இன்றைய நவீன உலகில் பெண் பண்டப்பொருளாக்கப்பட்டு கற்பழிப்பு அதிகரிக்க காரணம் இல்லையா!!!??
பெண்ணிலைவாதிகள் குறிப்பிடும் ஆணாதிக்க சமூகத்தை விட இன்றைய பெண்கள் கற்பழிப்புக்கு(அது விரும்பியோ விரும்பாமலோ) உட்படுவதற்கு காரணம் என்ன?இதுஐ தடுக்க தீர்வுதான் என்ன??
பெண்ணிலைவாதம் பெண்களிடம் ஆண்களை தங்களது எதிரியாக காட்டியதால்தானே இன்று ஆண்கள் பெண்களை வெறுக்கவும் புறக்கணிக்கவும் தொடங்கி இருக்கிறார்கள்.இதனால் ஆணாதிக்கம் வலுப்பட்டது மாதிரியான ஒரு தோற்றப்பாடு உருவாக்கப்பட்டு அதை பெண்ணிலைவாதிகள் “நவ-ஆணாதிக்கவாதமாக” காட்ட முயற்சி செய்கிறார்கள்.ஒரு பெண்ணின் இயல்பான தன்மையில் இருந்தும் ஒரு ஆணின் இயல்பான தன்மையில் இருந்தும் பெண்ணிலைவாதம் எனும் நச்சு மனிதர்களை அவர்களின் இயல்பான(இயற்கையான) தன்மையில் இருந்து அந்நியப்படுத்திக்கொண்டிருக்கிறது அல்லவா!!!?
கற்பழிப்பு சரியா?பிழையா?
எவ்வாறு வரையறுப்பது??
நவீனத்துவத்தின் ஒரு உப பிரிவான பெண்ணிலைவாதம் இதை “பகுத்தறிவுவாத” அடிப்படையில் பிரித்து காட்டுகிறது???
பகுத்தறிவின் அடிப்படையில் எது சரி,எது பிழை என்பதை எவ்வாறு வரையறுப்பது???
எது சரி,எது பிழை என்பதை இவ்வளவுகலம் “கலாச்சாரம்தான்” வரையறுத்தது.அதாவது ஒவ்வொரு சமூகமும் அந்த சமூக ஒழுங்கினூடாக சரி,பிழையை வரையறுத்தது.நவீனத்துவமும்,அது சார்ந்த உப த்த்துவங்களும்தான்(உ+ம்:-பெண்ணிலைவாதம்) மரபுசார்ந்த புரிதல்களை உடைத்தது..!!
ஒரு தந்தையாயோ,அல்லது சகோதரனோ, அல்லது மகனோ,,கனவனிடமோ அல்லாது பிற நவீன வடிவங்களான பொலிஸ்,நீதிமன்றம் போன்ற எந்த இடத்தில் ஒரு பெண் தனது பாதுகாப்பையும்,சுதந்திரத்தையும்,அவளுக்கான அன்பையும்,அறவனைப்பையும் ,உரிமையையும் உணருவாள்????????????
Mam pls thanthra vazhiel thampathya vazhkai book pathi sollunga pls
Sir antha book ella bookaiyum oram kattidum.
Please review this Tamil book "Thanthara vazhil Thampathiyam".
It has complete solution for men & women relationship
People should walk freely just as Ghandi dreamed. People should without fear face their fear or problems. Speak feom heart what they want without hesitate. I'll make that somehow.
Thanq❤️ kka
Part 2 podunge
What if the girl says No for only sex but after He convince her for sex but still the girl don't want , after the sex they behave normally like a Friends , It's Consider as a Rape ?
Yes, it is rape. Cuz the girl is still not ready for it.
The men who are involved in the sexual harresment why they dont have the feeling that they will be punished severly.
will you?
Im very worried about these kind of psycho why thiss happen for women how can control it really don't😢😢😢but as a women I have fear about this 😭
Are you a cyber security analyst. or just person doing grey hat stuffs
Your pattimandrum speech poodunga plss
Also wise versa.. male and male children gets abused by some women's recent times. Cannot tell out
Ratio isn't even visible for this
Hi sister.. Hw to contact u??
Hi sis,,, neenga solratha patha conscious ah than RAPE panranga mostly,,, without any guilt... but society la common ah RAPIST ku thooku illana encounter than solution nu solranga,,,
1. first apdi punish panrathu correct ah?
2. apdi correct na,, munna sonna maari oru sila peru unconscious ah panniruntha avangalukum ipadi than punishment tharanum ah?
3. Entha maari punishment tharalam? because RAPIST la all category la men irukanga mostly...
ithellam antha person than nu proof oda sonna apram epadi punish panrathu ? pannanum ? nu kekkuren,,, not for wrong persons
Pocso is gender neutral law. Because young boys too raped by women in india somewhere men too raped by women even in punjab men was ganraped by women etc etc women too rapists equally in number because 74% rape cases are false cases.
Why women rape male???
What is the punishment for women rapists???
இந்த புக் தமிழில் இருக்குமா சிஸ்டர்? ப்ளீஸ் ரீப்ளே பண்ணுங்க
இந்த மாதிரி ஆண்களை எப்படி எதிர்கொள்வது என எதாச்சும் சொல்லி இருக்காங்ளா???????
#Hence_proved : history_was_wrong. I think you guys understand 🙂
Sivan vishnu are not different from each other. Same goes for man and woman.
While women face a different oppression from this patriarchal system men too face it with wrong guidance to a point where they can justify their most unhuman behavior or even worse to not realize their unhuman behavior. I'm totally not justifying these men who raped but to think of why they don't feel a pinch of shame or guilt with their behavior is something to do with the society at large coz of showing wrong behavior as a symbol of masculinity and mostly men encouraging other men to such "masculinity" is so similar to "woman is woman's enemy" and as well questions their upbringing & the environment they were brought up. These men are a direct victim of this disgusting society's ideology of how a man should be and to think of that makes me pity them as someone does for an ignorant kid. As you mentioned, we are in a transition phase were we slowly voice out on this oppressed system and to see folks who can't digest the reality and make rape one of the outcome to show why we exactly need to voice out more.
that is when learning history of India is important but true Indian history is well hidden. In ancient India there was no discrimination between men and women. the immigrant population from Eurasia, the steppe people (the so called Aryans) brought all this into India and destroyed the real India. but unfortunately people should just think their ancestors did it, what can they do and be open to talk about it but they defend them, hide them to protect their race which is sad. Every human should see them just as human beyond their identities. Realize these were not ancient Indians traits, we actually as a society respected women so much. Now all this casteism fight, looking down upon a women is all not our traits and never belonged to real ancient India. so its better we drop the immigrant ways of livng and going back to our roots is so important. politicians are into divide and rule but we should wake up.