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I'm a victim too by my neighbour who was a teenager and i was 7 or 6 yrs...i came to know that i was abused when i was 17...i took 10 yrs to know that i was abused....the trauma is so real. I told my by(who is ex now)that i was abused but he told don't do that hereafter be loyal to me.... even bf think it was my mistake....i was just 7 yrs old ufff...
Glad to broke up with him
Absolutely It’s not your mistake. We must educate the people (both genders) from school itself by sex education. Even I was abused by my relative girl when I was so young and now I’m realising I had been abused . It hits suddenly when we are doing our normal work.
It's not your mistake. It's not easy to come out of it, I can get you. You have been brave don't get into the victim's mindset.
Sorry for what you experienced. It's not at all your fault.
பொண்ணுங்களோட மதிப்பு வலிய தெரிஞ்சவங்க பண்ண மாட்டாங்க அதுக்கு அம்மா, அக்கா, தங்கச்சிஇருக்கனும்னு அவசியமில்ல அவன் ஆம்பளையா இருக்கனும்
I definitely wanna appreciate you for coming up with a topics like this. Movies CZcams every one trying to get views by giving contents how most of the crowd want to hear or see. But ur giving really valuable content which is eye opening fr most of us. Giving different perspective to the judgemental society who hide around women to show what’s culture. Hat’s off to u girl. Definitely agree with all your perspective. I hope at least some of them would change there perspective through ur video. Being a women Am proud of you. I wanna raise my hand too I was abused numerous time in my childhood by numerous people and situations. I just couldn’t remember them but it feels like dream I felt that way now. Effect of abusing I normally walk by putting my head down. Many times men shows some sexual signs while u see them it hurts me sooo bad so I stopped making eye contact also wont look around due to that fear. Still I have such a fear.
How to raise a child who never abuses? Does open conversation alone can help? Or is there something that we miss? Is it covered in the book?
Good question.
Yes, i was absued. On a bus, by a doctor, by relative when i was a child. And now i am messed up in head. I also seen many absures get married. When i think of marriage i dont want a guy who absued someone or a phedophile. How to find it? And prevent myself from getting married to a phedophile or a rapist/ abuser.
Almost my doubts were covered in this video.. thanks for that.. and.. there are so many people who talk about these topics which are labbelled "sensitive" ..but its only you who can have a neutral perspective and which clearly makes anyone understand the way it is..👏👏👏
That's a nice point. How we need to support our own community. Like school, cinema, workplace.
You did great contribution to this society by this video.. thank U sister 👍👏🤝
From all the book reviews i had seen by you i'd say this is by far the best. You are saying whats on your mind and its conveyed clearly.
One request. Please go through all the comments and talk about it as you did in this video. Its more informative and i personally learned alot from you today.
Thankyou for that.
I have been abused by my own cousin brother @ my age 8....yaa exactly still I didn't reveal this to my parents also.........but I HV been told this to my boyfriend once I feel very secure with him.....but now we broken.....I don't know how they r abusing physically nd mentally.....my thoughts will be respect nd responsible should be equal for both genders..... don't hesitate this as ur low thoughts using gender discrimination
Thank you for uploaded part 2 of it.
wow mind blowing speech and I am too learned a lot about what is happening and I find some answers why it is happening either it is our mind set or the society!... thank you for this most boldly speech video with more information and facts!!....
U r right. We should convey our problems. If we think they won't liaten without saying that's our problem. As u said ellam ponnoda karpu la than adangi irku nu solranga athanala than ipo karpazhipu nu oru term ey use panna koodathu paaliyal vankodumai nu than use pannanum. Atkast really happy for the reply u gave to deepak 😊🎉
Yes.. I have been abused when i was 2nd or 3rd std
I immediately told my mother about it and she told my father but idk what they did... The trauma is real
It actually made me a tough person
It definitely take a toll on me
The effect is still exist and im not sure whether im over it or not
The incident is still fresh on my mind
But his face is not clear
U took me with him with my mother permission to buy me ice cream.
Bhaiya ye sab chutiyapa ha inn gandu logo ko khud hi nhi pata kahe inka man machalta ha
Mera point of view bataye toh hum toh yahi kahenge ki film hi ye sab ki jar ha films me soft porn yaha waha itna subtle tarike se dikhaya jata ha ayese ek khwaish ko ek aam admi ke dimag me plant kiya jata ha ek rapist ka dimag bana diya jata ha agar sexy ka definition films nhi samjhati toh kayse ek 5 saal ki bachi ka rape hota kaise 60 saal ki aurat ka rape hota ya kaise burkha pehne huye aurat ka rape hota films sab dekhke bass dream karte rehte ha film ko hi jindagi man lete ha ek heroine ko dekh lete ha toh koi usse milta jhulta ladki ka sakal dikh jaye toh larke uska piche par jate ha love nam ka bawasir ho jata ha inko are mere pyare chindi bhaiyo pyar ka spelling bhi ata ha tumko ??!!...
Films ka motive hi kya ha entertainment or education hi nah toh kahe ye chutiyapa dikhate ha ayese bhi toh films ho sakte he jaha humari sanskriti ko preserve kiya jata ha auroto ka or admiyo ka izzat kiya jata ha sabko samman ki nazro se dekha jata ha kyu itna faltu ho gaya ye duniya jaha humare behen didi ko nazre jhuka ke dupatta or ke burkha pehen ke jana padta ha kahi or ke dusman se nhi yahi humare aas paas ke admio ke nazro se bach ke jana padta ha
Ye log chullu bhar pani me dub ke kyu nhi marte jee kyu rhe ho taki auroto ko dekh pau or unka asamman kar pao chiiiiiiiii jaha aurat ko devi ke rup me puja jata ha unhi ke kok se janam lekar unhi par hawi ho rhe ho
Nasamajh namardo chutiyo sharam karo bhagwan se daro or har ek insan ka izzat karo gandu
Rape victims jailerudhu release pannum podhu sweet kuduthu welcome panra County idhu.need strong law for this issues
It’s not victim, it’s convict
Yeah I've been too... By an old aged man when I was 6 years, it took almost 20 years to say that to my mother & cry. But I learned to defend myself from such creeps at an early age due to my aversion. Till now I have a name among my friends & collegues that I'm a man hater, just because I keep such men (who try to approach me differently than a friend) at bay. That is the main reason I questioned about double standards on men & women. I learned one important concept is that abusers are not ready to come up in a lime light so shine it on them instead of breeding them as you said ananthi.
Being abused is such a worst traumatic experience a person can face in their life. Abusing a person is such a cruel and brutal mentality a person can have.. They have to die ! .
And i don't think ur called a man hater just because u avoid those people who approach differently than a friend (and i don't think male and female friendship is a stable thing or it exists maybe really rarely on some conditions, it's a different topic) I think it's because ur a feminist. I think most feminists are irrational coz they are ignorant of male and female biological and psychological differences. And i have came across many women who identify themselves as feminists are actually incapable of accepting their mistakes and then acting on their emotions. And most have no logical counter argument and then proceeds to keep on bashing the same irrational, illogical, non factual, unscientific arguments. And feminists like to have conversations with people who have no counter productive arguments coz they can easily be won but they are not ready to argue with factual and scientific things.
I've seen ur comments on different channels so i can get why u being called as man hater(misandrist). What u r questioning is not the double standards , it's the difference between men and women, it exists.
My stand is men and women are not the same And u can now change my mind .
And also we had arguments before and u failed to prove ur point and i had similar arguments with other feminists too, most did the same thing.
@@pot8735 thanks for your concern on abuse & killing an abuser is not the wholistic solution. But I disagree that I failed to prove my point. I walked out because you still think double standards exists just because the physiological & psychological difference between male & female. I dont know your definition on feminism, but I stand firmly at the true definition of feminism- its dont compel men/women to follow some stereotypes just because of their gender, just treat them as equal human.
Its clear you wont be changing your ideology & will continue to argue. But Be sure I wont change either, I will be a proud feminist & will always fight for equality for all genders.
Peace out
@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 u still failed to prove ur point coz "proving a point" means u should have to come back with a counter argument , walking away is not a way to prove ur point ,u have to prove ur point by argument not by walking away,I don't think double standard exists in a traditional roles. I think u didn't know what double standard actually means. So prove me how double standard exists in a traditional role. Prove me wrong I will be a feminist the next minute. Walking away is not the way to prove ur point, u have to prove by counter argument that defends ur stand.
@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 and prove me how's that not killing a rapists is a solution. Seems u dont understand the social structure we'll enough. Prove me!?
@@pot8735its not possible to prove it to you because you are blindfolded by being traditional rather than being rational. You are not trying to understand feminism but trying to blame & convert feminists according to you. You made it clear by telling that abuser must die instead of thinking a way to control sexual abuse in a wholistic level. I'm not gonna try to convert you to a feminist its more of a internal change that one should go through. This will be my last reply to you ever, bye creep.
Yes, I have been abused..still I feel traumatic whenever I saw that person and couldn't explain to anyone what iam going through...
And also he is one of our relatives person is the worst part😢
You are really doing a great job
❤
Super sister.. most of the womens and mens are too shy to talk about it.. u make a good move.. and i sure your speech on this topic can a make a great change in society and make a nice amd better future....🔗🦋
I got so much knowledge from your video akka Thank you 😊
Thanks for part 2 video
Part 1 vdo cmt panirutha part 2 vdo podunga awareness irukm nu
Rape boosts the male ego while simping boosts the female ego. There's no in between. Sex is always about power.
Everything in this world is about sex; But sex is about power - Oscar Wilde
Enna da simping rape compare panra,
Your explanation so cute ❤ because my sister feelings to your explanation keeping your work ❤😍
Give respect = Take Respect (mariyatha koduthu mariyatha vangiko) all youngster's should learn this lesson first.😉
Hi Ananthi ma'am,
Some men in our society.. Some majority part of men, are disrespectful towards women. Adai parthu valarum samudayam 'mathu' nu pesuradhu not a surprise. Veetla sila taaai maargalum, ann pillai meedu adeeda mariyadaiyum, pen pillaigal meedu madip inmaiyavum nadathuranga.
Adai parthu valarum samudayam 'mathu' nu solradhu no surprise.
Change should begin at home, change needs to be sown by good parenting. It's my observation.
-Vivek
Among my cousins boys are given more attention and more respect by family(the girls are asked to serve boys...we are in our teens ) even though girls are equally capable of them..
Until now I was not asking anything about that as they are my family and relatives but hereafter I'm going to voice out if I find out discriminating activities...
@@Learning-ej3mr
it's necessary & essential to stop discriminations. eradicating differentiations will cultivate harmony.
-Vivek
Really great book and thank you mam for this video 👍
I have been abused by one of my close friends still I feel the fear to tell this to anyone as i gave him the space to do this all. Due to this i still have issues in making relationships in my own life.
if it was with consent ..then don't worry..if it was abuse ...then file a complaint
You can still get him to justice dear. But one more important thing dont limit yourself because of that wrong doing get up & fly on reach the horizon
your story is same as movie "Satyaprem ki katha"
@@akee1618 Because most of the time abusers are well known persons to the victim
100%
my tuppence on this crisis:
a. all movies with love as one of the scenes- the hopeless man serenading or harassing a woman , stories, songs, etc - put a warning upfront before tobacco/alcohol warnings that their depiction of romance is not real and not to be followed
b. put POCSO rule in the credits before the movie starts AND publish pocso in cities and villages
c. make men & women understand that getting into these sort of relationships isnt 'love' - its just calculations that might go awfully wrong
d. ill-educated population - not just talking of school or college gradn - the fact that most people dont read beyond the daily newspaper and magazines (that're sometimes filled with filth anyway) - they dont know their own native scriptures, etc to think of things and people beyond themselves
e. girls should be clear that if the male they befriended ever ask for physical intimacy, break that relationship off immediately if they have dreams of marrying that person in the future. no mature fellow will ever ask for sex before marriage if he really respects himself and the girl. never too late to break a fall instd of going thru with it out of insecurity
befriending some male without family's knowledge itself is a big first step to disaster - so beware and get a life!
f. the lawmakers/keepers - these pathetic scum will never do anything right to implement the laws - look at the # of politicians and police and bureaucrats that have raped and/or have their sons as rapists that got away - priya mattoo's killer, asifa's murderers, unnao, hathras, pollaachi, etc etc - the list just goes on and on.
Well done akka ❤👏🏻
Just my perspective:
Consider one special case,
Abuse pannavanga thirundha koodaadha?. Victims speaking out may be the last for them. If you are seeing the abusers living happily infront of you may be they could have changed or else they will reap what they sow. May be both the parties understands that don't waste time by thinking about the past, But very cautious in the next time and educate the same to children.
But that doesn't mean they shouldn't be punished for their mistake. But we all know "kaalam kadandhan needhi is aneedhi".
Anandhi's speech shown some new perspective to unaware people
Exposing to porn in improper age and getting a inorganic sexual education leads to sexual abuse nu nenikura akka
Hi Ananthi,
I appreciate you very much for the open minded and progressive views which you are sharing through your channel.
Do you think doing yoga, meditation and exercise will reduce the tendency to rape/insecurities which make people do these things?
Is there any research related to this?
Thanks,
Kaala
I think the biggest cause is porn and the availability of porn to anyone with a mobile in their hand at anytime. The more they watch the more the pervasion increases. Also the availability of drug and under the influence of alcohol. So if someone keeps on indulging in all these then what is the use of yoga, meditation and exercise.
@@shaktishrivithiya496 currently porn is banned in India, though there might be alternate ways to access it. My point is to bring about a physical and mental training regime which prevents youth from engaging in liquor, porn and rape kind of activities. I realize its utopian!
@@QZWERTIOQ I come from a country whereby law is not compromised. That works above all n is proven.
இந்த சேனல்ல பைனான்சியல் எஜுகேஷன் பிசினஸ் இன்வெஸ்டிங் சம்பந்தமான புக்ஸ் வீடியோ போட்டு ரொம்ப நாளாச்சு😢😢😢😢😢
Well said Akka.
I am a boy ,I got abused by a men during bike lift . He continuesly press private part during the journey of 10 to 12km. (That is extremely painful, "NO ERECTION, NO PLEASURE = UNCONTROLLABLE PAIN (I would like jump from the bike) tired & energy loss , can't walk...
Omg 😳.
You should have blast his balls brother💪
😄
then why you continued that 10kM journey?
Pls don't laugh, this shows your maturity level.., when someone shares their worst experience , either give them a solution or shut up!!!
I have been abuse lot of time age 8 to 10 than, ipavum ponnunga strong ha No sola maatikaranga antha Boldness varanum No solanum , than next martial art learning panirukanum plz soli kodunga,parents strong ha itha kathuka vaikanum pengaluku avinga matum tha sequr so😢
What is your view about it
as far as i know marital rape is STILL not recognized by law in india or does it change? can someone update me on this. thanks.
Waiting for this video for 2 weeks
Last ta sonnadhu 💯 true
29:28 then should punish women who file fake rape case on a men who want to move on if he sniffs it as a toxic relationship.
The thing is he will be put to jail even if he is not an accust and after period of time he will be set free when "he proves" that he is innocent BUT at the same time she will be set free even after he is innocent, here she wrongly blame him eventhough no punishment to her.
The men again has to go for defamation and to prove HIS side and produce strong evidence to seek justice.
Everyone says about equality but where is it in law ??
sister why don't you talk about CA (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) courses??.
I have been victim by my sis BF in last year. At first, I was scared and I don't fell confiable to talk abt it. But, at the end, I talked to my sis, but after I told her she still be with him. I really get angry why my sis y didn't understand my position. So, What advice can give me and my sis?
Just disown ur sister ! When blood is not thicker than the water ,just pull out the cancer blood out and do medication for it......
good convertation
You are going very well Ananthi Nice
Respect+🎉
Sis ,
Can you please make a review on "The mountain is you" book.
Victim shaming country
Mam pls thanthra vazhiel thampathya vazhkai book pathi sollunga pls
Man go gym and strong go your goal 💪 the life is one your character discipline you will be the strongest in world
Yes
From stress How to face coming out book suggest pannunga
Hymenoplasty: akka plz talk about this. It is continuously increasing in India .
What does it mean??
@@harinisaradhag4664in some states of India people consider presence of hymen as a virginity sign , which is false. But women should undergo hymen test after their marriage to prove themselves versions so some women from such community are doing surgeries to reconstruct their hymen. A famous plastic surgeon reports hymen reconstructing surgery in India has increased from 20 to 30%
Me too....
YESS!!! I've been abused...but it took nearly an year to understand that I had been abused...it happened with consent later I realized that I've just been manipulated by my BEST FRIEND to satisfy his needs. And till date I feel guilty for trusting someone to that extreme who just threw me as a trash after using me!
Found someone who have gone through the same 🤝
ஆண் என்பவன் தனது உணர்ச்சிகளை கடந்து அவனுடைய உணர்வின் கண்னோட்டத்தில் ஒரு பெண்மையினை கண்டால் இங்கு பிரச்சனையில்லை சகி....
I have been abused when i was a kid (studying ukg) . I don't remember his face but he was my neighbour. That area was like in one compound many houses were there my family stayed opposite to them i used to play there with my friends. He called me inside his house i don't know the intension, as soon as i went inside he locked the door and undressed me, in that small age i understood that this is wrong and i ran to the corner but he forced me and raped. After that i din't tell anybody because i don't know what happened, my kind of seeing this things changed i thought this was a game and we can play it with other boys 😶. After some years only i get to know this and felt like 😖😤😬(all mixed feeling). Even i played it with my best friend to ( a girl ). The main thing is now im not even having interest in sex nd my boyfriend still trying to get me out of these things.
I thought one experiment. We should make one state or region where women population should be always greater than men. And in political power there should be more women. What will happen?
Yes neeinga neriya nalla vethamavey pesi irukinga ..
i was twice sexually assaulted by my own friend and I reported this to my own elder brother , he tried compromising me saying we cannot take any steps and it happens generally and said me to move on . whom should i blame more now ?
Your brother
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
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akka namma andhmaari yosichi kadhakkiravanga kitta oru conversation vachikanunnaa...adhukku avanga kekuradhukkum readyaa irukkanum dhaanee...
Hi akka 🙋🙋
Enakum sexual harrasment natanthu eruka
Na 5 or 6 yrs erukum pothu
Relative la oru uncle ena harrase pani erukararu..
Ena matum ela enga area la eruka elam chinna ponnu nga la um..
Antha age la athu enku sexual abuse ne theriyathu...
Yaru kita um sola kutathu nu soluvararu etha...
Aprm na 10 th padikum pothu...
My brother enkita sexual abuse pana nga...
But my brother and that uncle both are now die...
Epa recent ah I harrased by police.....
I really feel that ...akka
Na sona 3 perum ena save ah pathuka vendiya vanga...
But avinga tha ena harrase pana nga.......
👌👍
arsene lupin book review panunga ka
You said that only intercourse is not sex, doing something which related to sex is also sex. So Even a adolescent girl entering into sex with a juvenile boy who doesn't know what is sex. Here who is raped by whom?
Only metaphors... colours,shapes.... likely food advertisement...hmmm .not understanding who am i,and what is the opposite gender...much more create and stimulate the atoms ...but these are all one kind of delirium...body parts just part of the body...nowdays totally portrait other frames...keep safe ...not only womens including mens...thank you mam...✍️
Who are more mostly abused men or woman? Don't try to defend
Why men are rape romeo varusama Enakulam irutha question ithu athuku na kandu pudicha answer rape is a mental broblem are decis but itha video pathathum I was very sack because it's wrong really I want read that book thank you arthi sis you doing really awesome work ❤ I love soooooo much❤❤❤❤❤❤
yeah, Abused
Most of the time they are either intoxicated or under the influence of some drug..
I know sister you have told already but I want to ask why man are chainging 😢
Mam, Some people says islamic culture is wrong for womens...அது saria law irukka கூடாதுன்னு ஒருசில பேரு சொல்லுறாங்க .... Aana anga thaan நீங்கள் சொல்லுற மாதிரி யாருட்டையும் map location ah அனுப்பாம night womens வெளிய சுதந்திரமா போறாங்க ..... Sariya law thaan sari nu naan solla varala.... Will you decode sariya law for women...
Neenga indha maathiri awarenessa podumbodhu yaarum yemara maatanga..
17:05 remembering chinmayi
Same feeling
Akka i am studying college 2nd year ennaku unga ellam romba pudikum recent a phone ku romba addict aana maari oru feeling aana ennaku athu pudikala aana controlum panna mudiyala exam la nalla mark vanganum aasai but phone nala concentrate panna mudiyala ennakaga nalla suggestions kuduga akka pls
focus mode la potu padinga.
Neenga victims pathi sollumbothu namma Andrea Jeremiah nadicha "Anal Meley Panithuli" tha enakku mind la varuthu mam
Annan seaman anni vijayalakshmia rape panada pathi enna ninikringa madam
kastapatu ealuthuna booka part part ahh free ahh release pannurathu thappa illaya mam
eatherku solution antha bookla illaya, atha sollunga please
Hi akka ❤️❤️❤️
Women is not a flower .she also a human .
Major nadakuthu illa pasnga abuse aanlum veliya solla maatanga avalavu than ka.. 😢(5:00).
ஆனந்தி அக்கா நீங்க ஓரு விஷயம் புரிஞ்சுக்க முயற்சி பண்ணுங்க
பெண்களும் தன் விட சிறு வயது ஆண்குழந்தை களிடம் சில சல்லாபங்கள் செய்யத்தான் செய்கிறார்கள் ஆனால் வெளிப்படையாக தெரியாமல் போகிறது சேதாரமும் அவ்வளவு அதிகமாக இருக்காது
பாலியல் வல்லுறவுக்கு இரு பாலின குழந்தைகளுமே பலி ஆகிறார்கள் இருப்பினும் உடல் சார்ந்த வலி ஆனைவிட பெண்குழந்தைகளுக்கு அதிகமாக இருக்கும் ஆனால் மனமார்ந்த வலி என்றும் நீங்காது இரு பாலின குழந்தைகளிடம் இருந்து
But eppo court vandu vere sollude, relationship le sex pannitu mele rape n consider panne mudiyadun sollirke
I have been abused..
Hii akka❤️
Mam I am cleared I am also absued
How your make Time for all these, u read book, do other jobs. Orzzzzz
I have been abused 4 times in my childhood
Could you explain sex abusive all Indian Act to public.
Been there,Ananthi....
Been abused!!
. Rape is natural in primates including humans. Both the non judaic Abrahamic religions were the first feminst movement developed to be an anti rape weapon.
Ancient Greece and Rome were not against rape that's why they developed science and technology democracy,rule of law and everything the modern world is built upon.
Indians were feminine worshippers and that's why they excelled artistically but were easily dominated by the outside forces.
In short rape is masculine simping is feminine
That is interesting
Anything without a person's consent is wrong, literally anything
Yes I am also abused in my childhood.
But yenaku apo athu abuse , athaal pannrathu thapu nu thriyathu.
Kindly Watch complete Video before commenting on gender bias
See everything you said is ok but I don't understand one thing. How rapist are created. women Not only saying no for that thing. There are some other things. So many people don't understand. The reality.
How rapists are created??
Wdym?? Valarppu sari illa. Sariya values oda andha shits valarala nu artham. Idhu Enna kelvi uhmm... There are other things we don't understand ..?
Sonna dhana puriyum what are those other things enlighten us .
@@lakshmithasridhar3175 yes ofcourse I am trying to say that if the parents have to raise the kids in proper way that's the main reason and not only that . the society is also play's important role in human life like movies series etc. And important thing is that the person mental health should be in good condition. These are all the things make a human to take a wrong decision. Only blaming the men is not a good one. The shit thing you told is a nature. It can be controlled by some people not by everyone. Every men can't be ram every woman can't be sitha. reality is good things and bad things should balance eachother. So don't expect neutral.
@@mohand3567 see the video meant the same thing Rapists are not monsters ,somehow they are victimized either by others in the society or naturally by themselves (yes this too happens) . That is the whole.point of the video. And u r commenting as if u disagree with her and say something new ( but u said the same thing lol).
The problem with u guys is this.
When a problem is addressed instead of seeing the depth of the problem u see it as offending and suddenly go into defend mode saying " Not all men are ram, not all womem are sitaa ..blahh blahhh" . Grow up.
Look at my comment did I mention men or man ???? I said rapists ( which of includes all the genders ) , though predominantly it is done by men to women and others I said that way cause even a handful of women who do such abuses aren't meant to be neglected.
Being a human in the first place and woman in the second place I have this clarity. I wish u have the same.
Secondly.. " the shit things I said...."
??? U better Mind ur thought and language first. What shit things did I say uhmm?? The things I said seems shitty to you ?? If so its ur thought that's is shitty and not the things I said.
I mean r u sane?? When is said shits I meant the rapists ( regardless of gender). R u angry that I call them as shits??
U and I can say many defensive things on part of the rapists like psychological issue, society's part, family, abuse etccc... But such things would never ever ever justify the cruel thing they do (which is rape) . Get this point.
We take such Factors in account to understand them to some extent and so may be by having clear Convo with them we might change their criminal attitude. The whole point of the video is this !
But taking this factors to defend their act is complete nonsense. No matter what a crime is a crime.
If a person rapes another one becus the former was once Victimized is still a crime and inhuman act no matter what, but if a victim in his or her effort to save herself / himself from a rapist kills the rapist then it's not a crime but defending oneself against it inhuman act. If u know the difference , u won't come up with gender issues or others here again while talking about Rape.
And finally... I very well know The world is made of both good and bad and those things are to be in. Balance. But why r u saying that here??? To defend the very act of Rape ?? So that the world would be balanced?? Is that so???
Balancing each other and neutralizing things are more or less same. I wonder y would u contradict urself.
I was sane enough to see this issue as an issue and not a gender issue.
I don't know y u bring gender here ( even though rape is predominantly done by men) and expose ur hypocrisy.
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Yes pls sister
Posco
Not pocso
13:17விளங்கும் 😂
I have been abused
A Women Tried to Rape Me but I Easily Defended The Attack She was Easily Defeated Because she was Weaker Than Me.
Anandhi, enaku ipo 36 vayasu. Enaku 4 vayasula oru time, 12 to 13 vayasula 2 time abuse panni irukanga. Antha 3 perla 2 per normal life tha vazhnthukittu irukanga. Oru paiyan avanuku 20 vayasulaye marmamaana muraiyil iranthutan. Avan ennai 4 vayasula abuse pannumbothu avanuku 10 vayasu tha irukum. Ippo yosikiren, ean antha age la appadi oru ennam avanuku vanthurukumnu.
Neenga konjam English ah koraichukonga.niraiya visayam puriyala.