Why 50% of Marriages End in Divorce | James Sexton, Divorce Lawyer

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
  • James Sexton and I discuss Why 50% of Marriages End in Divorce.
    James Sexton is a prolific Divorce Attorney and Author of "How to Stay in Love," and "If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late."
    CZcams: / @jakenewfield
    Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/4k9DDGJ...
    Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
    Twitter: / jakenewfield
    00:00 - Introductions
    01:53 - James Sexton's Life
    04:10 - Being Interested and Interesting
    13:08 - Becoming a Divorce Lawyer
    19:18 - Fame & Love
    28:30 - Love is a Verb
    30:53 - Vulnerability
    36:25 - Fear, Arrogance
    44:05 - Afraid of Marriage
    50:45 - James' Marriage
    54:45 - Biggest Mistake that James Sexton has made in a relationship

Komentáře • 63

  • @jakenewfield
    @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +6

    Timeline:
    00:00 - Introductions
    01:53 - James Sexton's Life
    04:10 - Being Interested and Interesting
    13:08 - Becoming a Divorce Lawyer
    19:18 - Fame & Love
    28:30 - Love is a Verb
    30:53 - Vulnerability
    36:25 - Fear, Arrogance
    44:05 - Afraid of Marriage
    50:45 - James' Marriage
    54:45 - Biggest Mistake that James Sexton has made in a relationship

  • @rydah1240
    @rydah1240 Před 3 měsíci +51

    I wish James Sexton would create his own podcast. I have watched almost every podcast he was guest in and each time I learn something new.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 3 měsíci +4

      I agree, @rydah1240!

    • @anncadoret8553
      @anncadoret8553 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I’m happily married for almost 20 years and love and watch all his interviews as well!
      Both my husband and I were divorced with kids when we met, so I identify with many of the things he says. Each new podcast Jim does makes me reflect on those years of my life when my husband and I were getting divorced with kids, and brings things into perspective.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@anncadoret8553 , thank you for sharing this!

    • @imahorseygal1
      @imahorseygal1 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Me too!

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@imahorseygal1 Thank you!

  • @georgiabessie
    @georgiabessie Před 2 měsíci +17

    Can’t get enough of listening to James Sexton. I think he’d make a great boyfriend 😉. Thank you for the talk.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +5

      Thanks, @georgiabessie! Also, I agree that James would make a great boyfriend!

    • @oyandakona5994
      @oyandakona5994 Před 5 dny

      Hahahahahha hes vibe

  • @payalchopra1095
    @payalchopra1095 Před 2 měsíci +11

    He’s fabulous ! He expresses himself very well and he speaks straight from the heart. I am an absolute fan !

  • @imahorseygal1
    @imahorseygal1 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I've listened to a handful of interviews with James Sexton I really enjoy his perspective not just on marriage and divorce but I also enjoy his his philosophies on life, connection, and relationships in general. Another thing I truly enjoy about listening to Mr. Sexton is that each time I learn something new. I've picked up some wonderful new words for my vocabulary which I always enjoy and I also like the quotes and citations. Excellent interview!🌞

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +1

      @imahorseygal1 Thank you!! This feedback means a lot to me.

  • @jakenewfield
    @jakenewfield  Před 3 měsíci +14

    James Sexton talks about his life, his motivations for becoming a lawyer, marriage advice, and discusses his biggest regrets.

  • @danbev9313
    @danbev9313 Před měsícem +8

    Excellent questions that are not asked in most of his interviews.

  • @rainboow567
    @rainboow567 Před 27 dny +3

    I think this guy has the kindest heart on earth!

  • @B1GN1K
    @B1GN1K Před 2 měsíci +7

    Great interview! I only noticed half way through that you only have 100 subscribers, keep up the solid content and you're bound to grow brother 👌

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci +1

      @B1GN1K thank you! I appreciate it. I'll be interviewing 2-6 new people every week; I definitely want to grow this.

  • @MichaelKoksharov
    @MichaelKoksharov Před 2 měsíci +6

    12:04 I really like this elaboration on a 'compelling person'.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks, @MichaelKoksharov. I think James does a great job explaining this

  • @SallyNegus
    @SallyNegus Před měsícem +3

    He's brilliant!!!!!Can't listen to him enough😍

  • @Sabrina-LosAngeles
    @Sabrina-LosAngeles Před měsícem +3

    Just finished his book and listened to him on many other channels - highly recommend it the advice is so on pointe and the delivery is priceless :-)

  • @rainboow567
    @rainboow567 Před 27 dny +2

    I watched several interviews or podcasts with Jim, where I noticed the questions had been asked were repetitive and hence the talk brought little addition to what has already been said in a previous conversation. So, well done Jake for such an exceptional episode. Thank you very much.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 21 dnem

      Thank you! I appreciate it

    • @rainboow567
      @rainboow567 Před 21 dnem

      @@jakenewfield Appreciate your response and attention, thank you and wish you all success. 🌺

  • @2ared952
    @2ared952 Před měsícem +3

    I watch all of his interviews and he is so fascinating and his topics are relatable! Great work 👍🏼

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem

      @2ared952 Thank you! I agree that he is fascinating.

  • @MegaMandi1978
    @MegaMandi1978 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Wonderful conversation with thoughtful questions and beautifully elaborated answers. Thanks!

  • @teliawendell3965
    @teliawendell3965 Před 6 dny

    The plant story is heartwarming. Your mom remains close and with you!💗

  • @denisefelton5207
    @denisefelton5207 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Good stuff 😊

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Amazing insights

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks! James Sexton has a lot of insight

  • @SIRTONY
    @SIRTONY Před měsícem +1

    Jake....I watched the vid....James Sexton...and You need to be in my FILMS in Development....Yes OSCAR Caliber FILMS.... He and You were Born to be MOVIE STARS helping humanity .... speak soon....

  • @theendofmyropemydude
    @theendofmyropemydude Před 2 měsíci +3

    James holds some classic luxury beliefs about divorce thanks to his financial circumstances. For him, he was able to bear the burden of divorce, so animosity is minimal with his ex-wife.
    Most of us don't live that lifestyle.

  • @EmilyTodicescu
    @EmilyTodicescu Před 2 dny

    Noted.

  • @Psicologo-Eugenio
    @Psicologo-Eugenio Před 29 dny +1

    “Tu mujer conoce tus debilidades mejor que nadie. Ella sabe dónde flaquearás y te rendirás. Sabe el grado de mediocridad con el que te conformarás. Y, ella conoce tu verdadera capacidad de hombre pleno, de hombre de libre conciencia, y de amor. Su don, si es una buena mujer, es ponerte a prueba con sus estados de ánimo más sombríos, una y otra vez, hasta que tu conciencia no se vea perturbada por el desafío femenino y puedas impregnarla con tu amor, tal como estás aquí. para impregnar el mundo. En respuesta a tu conciencia intrépida, ella empapará tu mundo de amor y luz”.
    ― David Deida, El Camino del Hombre Superior

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 16 dny

      thanks for your feedback!

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před 15 dny

      Per the requests of my subscribers, I'm releasing the UNEDITED version of the debate tomorrow at 1pm PST: czcams.com/video/jqlZlAYMon8/video.html

  • @KVEish
    @KVEish Před měsícem +1

    What kind of plant is that? And, y’all are very compelling!

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem

      Thanks! I forget the name of the plant, but I think he says the name at the beginning

  • @bobsmith1101
    @bobsmith1101 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Yeah, Soft White Underbelly! Giddy Yapp!

  • @oyandakona5994
    @oyandakona5994 Před 5 dny

    Ncoo his mama is hes gurdain angel ... the plants❤️

  • @rajarshibhattacharya5192
    @rajarshibhattacharya5192 Před měsícem +1

    How to come in your podcast?

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem

      I'm interviewing thought leaders in politics, philosophy, and science

  • @MidnightPodcastGaming
    @MidnightPodcastGaming Před měsícem +3

    Only in 2024 a guy with 151 subs gets to interview a public figure. Wild. Just wild!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem +1

      @MidnightPodcastGaming, believe it or not: I had ZERO subs when I interviewed James Sexton. In fact, when I interviewed James Sexton I didn't even have a CZcams Channel yet. If you look at the date that my interview was posted (or any videos on my CZcams channel) you'll see that my CZcams channel (and the Sexton interview) are less than 2-months old.
      However, if you look at my Spotify you'll see that this interview happened in October 2023 (before my CZcams channel even existed.) Here's the Spotify link to the episode: open.spotify.com/episode/2qGLtvIF6N3cjcedP1E3aW

    • @MidnightPodcastGaming
      @MidnightPodcastGaming Před měsícem

      @@jakenewfield As I said, fucking nuts LOL

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem +1

      @@MidnightPodcastGaming It's all about the outreach message!
      However, now that he's gotten more popular, I'm not sure if I could get him on my podcast again until I have more followers.

    • @jakenewfield
      @jakenewfield  Před měsícem

      @@MidnightPodcastGaming Maybe I could get your advice: how did you get over 1k subscribers?

    • @MidnightPodcastGaming
      @MidnightPodcastGaming Před měsícem

      @@jakenewfield I think you're missing the point bud.

  • @jakenewfield
    @jakenewfield  Před 2 měsíci

    Watch more interviews like this on my channel here: www.youtube.com/@jakenewfield

  • @marilynwarbis7224
    @marilynwarbis7224 Před 17 dny

    The problem is - when a woman marries a man, she's marrying a man in a man's world. This absolutely has an effect on their relationship. It's not the man's fault, but it does mean that - no matter how hard he tries - the marriage does not exist on a level playing-field.