James Sexton - Author and Divorce Lawyer : Interview and Q&A with Steve Harvey (Full Segments)

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  • James J. Sexton, Esq. - Relationship Expert, Author and Divorce Lawyer Interview & Audience Q&A with Steve Harvey - 01/22/18
    James J. Sexton, Esq. - New York City Divorce Lawyer and Author of "If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late : A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together" sits down with Steve Harvey to discuss love, marriage and common relationship issues.
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Komentáře • 101

  • @babysab8013
    @babysab8013 Před 3 lety +35

    Damn. This guy has better advice then all relationship coaches and therapist put together 🤣 Thanks man

  • @mmsutantowrites
    @mmsutantowrites Před 3 lety +32

    Mr. Sexton offers such pragmatic and simple advice without overwhelming people. He should offer his services as premarital adviser for people who are thinking of getting married. And Steve is brilliant too :)

  • @kashbut
    @kashbut Před 2 lety +10

    It's been around 5 years that I'm sober from facebook..... no instagram, tik tok, etc....

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani Před 3 lety +18

    My husband and I always talk about the sex, what we enjoyed or what we want to try. Sex in marriage is not just enjoyable, it's secured. How will it get better if there's no pointers and no practice?

  • @jariusaliffwan8001
    @jariusaliffwan8001 Před 4 lety +75

    James Sexton needs to have his own show!

  • @el-sig2249
    @el-sig2249 Před 3 lety +18

    For the nanny just get an older woman who's done raising her own kids, and needs the activity rather than the money.
    Marriage is like the lottery?! 🙄 No it's not an all-or-nothing!

  • @rustyrose1959
    @rustyrose1959 Před 4 lety +9

    If only my chances of winning the lottery was 50/50!!

  • @annrrf1464
    @annrrf1464 Před 3 lety +9

    James Sexton is the real deal

  • @perisndirangu1018
    @perisndirangu1018 Před 5 lety +34

    I love these guy he has sound advice ... invite him at least once a week

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani Před 3 lety +37

    Im never hiring a young nanny. Id get one who is older, like my mother's age. That is not being insecure, it's being practical. There are nannies sho actually prey on financially stable husbands.

    • @Zlnfgz
      @Zlnfgz Před 2 lety

      Hope it works out for you.. considering that many men nowadays have a thing for the 'milf'... 😜😆

    • @RoamingDoctors
      @RoamingDoctors Před 2 lety

      U r smart 😂

    • @Nippy748
      @Nippy748 Před rokem

      Most of them ..and All over the world !

    • @ahanachauhan1210
      @ahanachauhan1210 Před rokem +1

      Smart 🤣🤣🤣

    • @headmondronary2127
      @headmondronary2127 Před 11 měsíci

      That didn't stop Arnold Schwarzenegger

  • @realtalkwithphil
    @realtalkwithphil Před 2 lety +8

    A so called “Ugly Nanny” doesn’t stop a cheating man who wants to cheat. Dick don’t discriminate.
    Just keep temptations far away as possible from your marriage.

  • @renatabundz4807
    @renatabundz4807 Před 3 lety +8

    Dear Mr. Sexton, I love milion away from you. I admire your insight, charisma, Intelligence. Plus your look.

    • @Nippy748
      @Nippy748 Před rokem +2

      Lol !!he is kina easy on the eyes 😆

    • @rocklanddivorce
      @rocklanddivorce  Před rokem +3

      @@Nippy748 - Thanks! You made my day with that comment! I can assure you, however, it's just the good lighting on the Steve Harvey Show.

    • @Nippy748
      @Nippy748 Před rokem

      @@rocklanddivorce ,😄😄😄...sometimes we forget that the people in question actually read our silly comments ! Hope you're having a wonderful Christmas season 🌲

  • @AdamantMindset
    @AdamantMindset Před 4 lety +7

    man all these people with trust issues, getting married.

  • @hillingtonndlovu2415
    @hillingtonndlovu2415 Před 2 lety +4

    Well put James - thanks!

  • @nothumanff5900
    @nothumanff5900 Před 3 lety +4

    Husband and wife should give the phone password to the partner

  • @Hetal28
    @Hetal28 Před 2 měsíci

    I love the fact the James is always rooting for love, togetherness and believing in goodness and possibility in relationships. You are a rare lawyer who actually promotes love ❤❤❤
    Thank you
    Deep gratitude
    I did win the Marriage lottery 🤞

  • @stayuniqueafrica
    @stayuniqueafrica Před 5 lety +2

    Wow thank you guys

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 Před 3 lety +3

    Wooow thanks James

  • @marjoriepouchie1756
    @marjoriepouchie1756 Před 4 lety +2

    Love it. And so trye

  • @TheSophisticatedSavage
    @TheSophisticatedSavage Před 2 lety +4

    Did she see Schwarzenegger nanny......

  • @medgolly7342
    @medgolly7342 Před 3 lety +5

    If you want kids stay at home with the kids till least they start school is a fare compromise I believe otherwise have kids if you don’t have the time to raise until they start school !

    • @architecture.w
      @architecture.w Před 2 lety

      Yes, stay home with your children. Don't let your kids get raised by a communist pothead phone zombie at daycare.

  • @munizanasir
    @munizanasir Před 5 lety +2

    very good advices...

  • @gbierung
    @gbierung Před rokem +1

    I love James. very intelligent

  • @mariajutah9059
    @mariajutah9059 Před 2 lety +3

    Cheating is decision! It's nothing more or less

  • @Stillprecious06
    @Stillprecious06 Před 6 lety +20

    How do you not more subscribers?? You're so insightful!
    Edit: Who disliked this??

  • @realkg8573
    @realkg8573 Před rokem +2

    James Sexton is cute the nanny advice is incredible

    • @rocklanddivorce
      @rocklanddivorce  Před rokem +1

      Thanks! But I assure you, he's not that cute in person. The Steve show just has really good lighting/hair/makeup people.

  • @shodapad07
    @shodapad07 Před 10 měsíci +1

    No single rain drop is responsible for the flood.

  • @wyntamaxwell2766
    @wyntamaxwell2766 Před 3 lety +11

    The guy is very intelligent. Is breathtaking watching him

  • @kubraebrahim2473
    @kubraebrahim2473 Před 2 lety +3

    No young nanny.

  • @BernardoTrindadeAbreuTA
    @BernardoTrindadeAbreuTA Před 5 lety +1

    Hello!

  • @silvershadow7655
    @silvershadow7655 Před 5 lety +29

    If he's sleeping with his secretary, problems in the marriage aren't the reason why - he is doing it because he is choosing his urges/wants over more noble/mature options such as communicating and working on the relationship...or ending the marriage. A relationship will always have ups and downs - cheating is not the appropriate response.

    • @carloscantgame
      @carloscantgame Před 5 lety +9

      Cheating is a byproduct, an outcome, a result, a consequence. The "problems in the marriage" can simply have been that the person who cheated always showed red flags such as lack of interest, no motivation, no effort etc yet the partner chose to ignore and put up with that.

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Před 3 lety +1

      NOT Necessarily, if she is refusing to meet his needs and holding him hostage. Because men get screwed in divorce, he may be there out of self preservation or the love of his children.

    • @silvershadow7655
      @silvershadow7655 Před 3 lety +2

      @@brutustantheiii8477 He can be there out of self-preservation and love of his children without cheating / having an affair.

    • @Cynthia-ti4tb
      @Cynthia-ti4tb Před 2 lety +1

      @@brutustantheiii8477 all I’m reading is a bunch of excuses

  • @perisndirangu1018
    @perisndirangu1018 Před 5 lety +3

    Steve he meant .. the Clint was into feet meaning he has foot “feedish “..

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Před 4 lety +5

    What's wrong with being into feet lmao, as if they are blind to the different turn on people have.

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 Před 3 lety +1

      IKR. Dan savage himself said that to give up the foot person who would manifest their likes as a foot massage, is insane when there are actually disgusting things out there

  • @BoltGamer-sy4iy
    @BoltGamer-sy4iy Před rokem

    Nanny thing: Why would you be worried about your husband if you are satisfying your husbands every need.
    There's two side to stepping out: Opportunity (hiring a hot nanny) and REASON (he's not content with the quantity and/or quality of the sex he is already getting).
    If you hire an "ugly" nanny, you haven't solved the REASON, only the OPPORTUNITY.

  • @mizzstar21
    @mizzstar21 Před 5 lety +33

    Marriage like a lottery? No I don’t agree with that one. It’s not up to chance it’s up to choices.

    • @marcuslouison3998
      @marcuslouison3998 Před 5 lety +1

      True ... That was a HORRIBLE analogy.

    • @corneliaeleanore3215
      @corneliaeleanore3215 Před 5 lety +3

      That's what you think at first. It depends on how many years you spent together before... sometimes you only discover the real person once you marry :(

    • @alandj7
      @alandj7 Před 5 lety +7

      That's not what he was saying! He was talking about the odds of success not human effort. He was strictly speaking about numbers.

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything Před 3 lety

      It's more like Texas hold'em.

    • @ganjagangja
      @ganjagangja Před rokem +1

      You cannot have control over what your partner does or how they may change. While it is in our power to vet a person as well as possible , it's not our choice If they disrespect us or the relationship.

  • @littleripper312
    @littleripper312 Před 5 lety +12

    Don't hire a young nanny... Get a 45+ year old. They're likely to be better anyways.

  • @flaviam4111
    @flaviam4111 Před 3 lety +2

    Is that long tie a signal to some demographics ?
    It put me off right away.

  • @ambruskocsis6559
    @ambruskocsis6559 Před 3 lety +2

    Is James Sexton married?

    • @Nippy748
      @Nippy748 Před rokem +1

      🤣🤣you asking for a friend ?

    • @Nippy748
      @Nippy748 Před rokem

      Asking for a friend and her cousin 😃

  • @me23435
    @me23435 Před 4 lety +3

    Goodness he's justifying men cheating 😩😩😩😩

  • @chengsgroup2518
    @chengsgroup2518 Před 4 lety +1

    too much work...

  • @ROWNECK911
    @ROWNECK911 Před 3 lety +1

    #footfetish

  • @georginahatch3244
    @georginahatch3244 Před 3 lety +1

    Get a 65 granny

  • @tawanacalamari5712
    @tawanacalamari5712 Před 5 lety +5

    Sir James..........the suit doesn't fit you, great suit but it should fit you, its too big =)

    • @rocklanddivorce
      @rocklanddivorce  Před 4 lety +5

      I lost a bunch of weight (40 pounds) and needed to buy some new suits (the old ones were too big). I've since got some new ones that fit much better. Thanks for watching Tawana and for taking the time to comment!

  • @arc8696
    @arc8696 Před 2 lety +1

    4:20 thanks for mentioning that. Fetish people are still shamed for their desire, while everyone thinks being gay or lesbian is ok . It's crazy..

  • @SummerHFranklin
    @SummerHFranklin Před rokem

    I'm from Bangladesh my need a girlfriends

  • @Upliftment4u
    @Upliftment4u Před 4 lety +2

    It’s not too late for God.

  • @annrrf1464
    @annrrf1464 Před 3 lety +1

    Hire a lesbian nanny?

    • @rocklanddivorce
      @rocklanddivorce  Před 3 lety +4

      You might have finally "solved" this problem with that suggestion! Well done! (Unless the wife runs off with the nanny - which, in my book, I discuss a case where precisely that happened!)

    • @annrrf1464
      @annrrf1464 Před 3 lety

      @@rocklanddivorce I am buying your book as I type.

    • @oxcafeoxbabe
      @oxcafeoxbabe Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@rocklanddivorcelol checkmate

  • @healingypsy
    @healingypsy Před rokem

    He's pretty hot that Sexton, apart from those tattoos

    • @rocklanddivorce
      @rocklanddivorce  Před rokem +1

      It’s all filters and camera angles. In real life he’s nothing much to look at. And I hear the tattoos are the press-on temporary kind. He puts them on every morning. 🤣

    • @healingypsy
      @healingypsy Před rokem

      @@rocklanddivorce Oops, I wasn't expecting that. I'm sorry ☺. Stick on tattoos or not, I think he looks rather nice

  • @Ellamojoko
    @Ellamojoko Před 5 lety +13

    You don't know who invented water ? haven't you heard of Jesus?

  • @simmonetaylor5896
    @simmonetaylor5896 Před 5 lety +5

    Marriage is like the lottery? That is one of the most uneducated comments I've heard in regards to marriage.

    • @gabriellawarning913
      @gabriellawarning913 Před 5 lety +10

      I have actually heard many older people say this. Of course he doesn't mean this in the exact way since you can literally influence the odds of 'winning' but on some level marriage is still a game of chance.