The True Signs An INFJ Really Doesn’t Like You
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- The True Signs An INFJ Really Doesn’t Like You | If you're wondering how to know if an infj doesn't like you, you're probably not alone. Due to their closed-off and reserved nature, the rare INFJ type can have difficulty when it comes to showing whether or not they're interested in someone.
Ironically, it doesn't take long for the INFJ personality type to conclude whether or not they'll click with someone. So, what are the signs that an INFJ type is definitely not interested?
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TIME STAMPS:
00:00 - INTRO
00:44 - Number 1: They simply carry it through their energy
01:54 - Number 2: They communicate very formally
03:10 - Number 3: They’re constantly making excuses
04:25 - Number 4: They don’t provide attention sought through desperation
05:44 - Number 5: Avoidance at all costs
06:56 - Number 6: They won’t ask targeted questions in group settings
08:20 - Number 7: They seem tired or exhausted
09:43 - Comment Question!
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Hey PSYCH-Os!👋
*So, what is something you do when you're clearly not interested in someone?*
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I am an INFJ, and when someone around me starts bragging (about anything), I can't stand it and leave as soon as possible. I try not to let my feelings show on my face, but sometimes they do. It's like a knee-jerk reaction on my part when I hear boasting. Do other INFJs feel like this?
YeSSS 💣
I'm totally the same way as yourself , cant stand people boasting its like they are looking for more praise.
Double definitely
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Absolutely
This FJ finds it difficult to be around fake people, deception, gossip, and game playing. It is impossible to tolerate and exposure to these negative energies will cause negative physical symptoms. You absolutely have to be on guard and pay attention to who you allow in your space.
Yep! Pretending that someone doesn't exist....
The best way!
Avoidance is my go-to, and even if I have to leave town to get away, I will.
I have been told more times than i can count that I have a very expressive face/demeanor that leave no questions as to what is going on in my head when talking with someone, if we all were more open and honest about ourselves the world may not be so false
My #1, automatic go-to habit is to treat the untrustworthy person with precise formality. I don’t do it deliberately (consciously, I suppose), but I do eventually notice my behavior AFTER I’ve already determined that the particular person is flaky. My 2nd go-to is avoidance - as this video stated, why waste my efforts?
Same here! I go super polite when I can’t stand someone. Just sort of happens.
Once someone has shown themselves to be untrustworthy, I lose interest in having any fun conversations with them. 😢
@@cc1k435 I'm exactly the same. Not interested in conversation once you've broken my trust.
When bad energy enters a room I suddenly become a ninja and fade into the wall and find the nearest exit as quietly as possible. I make it a point to be rather obvious when I don't like someone, but some ppl especially dense narcissists don't pick up on the obvious. So you actually have to get mean to make them go away.
If my mouth doesn't say it my energy and face definitely will. I will be less engaged and make excuses to get away if I don't like you. Not because I have Autism, I simply don't see point in pretending.
When I felt ignored by some one who have been connecting with me then my heart door slamming but slowly...
So accurate. I will change my entire routine to avoid interacting with the exist-no-longer peeps especially when I've witnessed maladaptive behavior more than once. And, if in my control, will always ask deeper or meaningful questions to steer off surface/mundane topics in a group and give the quiet ones a chance to share. 🥰💯❤🔥
I have deleted people from my circle my entire life. 😊
Ahahaha same...
Same! 😂🙌
Deleting people from your circle, sounds manipulative and that you are the problem.
If you distance yourself from people in your life (not your circle), then that it's another story...
@@MartinHernandez-re6hhI read that to mean, "Once they prove themselves untrustworthy, I avoid them." Not a manipulation so much as a protective measure. ❤
@@cc1k435 Probably. I rather "read that to mean": 'I Have deleted people from my circle my entire life'... Which is exactly what she said, that way I don't have to interpret (reading it to mean) anything. 🙏
People have said to me: "What's wrong?; Ibnotice you leave the room when I come in."....And just recently I was called out by a cashier because I never go to her line even when her line is empty...She is right...I don't like her...She is very opinionated and loud...I just want to go to tge store, get my things and leave...But she gossips about her co-workers and is so verbally loud that it causes me to "jump" sometimes....I try to avoid her, but sometimes she sees me and says "Hi"...I say "Hi" back, but I quickly pushaway...I don't dislike her; I just "nothing" her (if that makes sense.) 😕
It took me some time to fully accept and realize the extent of energy exchange that had been happening in my social interactions as an INFJ. It came down to experiencing very abrupt changes in mood and even physiological symptoms happening at the same time as I started an interaction with someone. sudden headaches, abrupt fatigue, at times nausea... it can be pretty draining hence the need for more than average self awareness in order to filter other people's stuff out.
Have to work on putting up some kind of mental block against the energies of others, because it really is difficult to sort out what feelings actually are yours and what comes from the people around you. 🤔
Personally once I've chosen to disregard someone for whatever the reason, there is no going back. If I've already decided that we are in conflict, the way you'll know is you'll just never see or speak to me again. Pretty simple, very effective. Life is far too short and complex to waste time on people you don't like.
Change trains, walk the other way lol
Counterproductive conversations, don’t allow robbers of overreacting emotions rob your peace of mind
😂 omg. Ive done some of this . 😅😂but im not sure of im an infj bec. Im not smart as infj does 🤓
When you mention the traits that I don't like in any way. Spot on🎉
I'm avoidant for sure when I've had enough of people's unhealthy habits but I won't change my routine to please them 😏 they already picked up on my door slam, energy shift towards them and act accordingly. I delete them mentally out my life to the point that I forget their names at times.
Thank you.
In such situations I don't play games. I will say, flat out, what my problem is (I say it this way because those I direct it at invariably ask: "What's YOUR problem!?!"). I usually respond with, "I don't have time to waste on this."
And i won't waste my time on shifting my routine to avoid them. Rather I give them copious reasons to avoid me. I'll call them out on their disengenuosness at every turn.
There is more but I don't feel inclined to share everything.
Thank you again for this informative video.
God's blessings everyone 🙏🕊❤️
I think most people who have become the person i want to stay away from realize that im avoiding them. Usually after something happens and they are feeling confused because they ever remember what they said or did to mess things up. De - Nile is a river in Egypt
Interesting...I can relate.
They know for sure
❤❤So true
Hi there, Most of the time you guys are very accurate, but now I noticed a big error! The part where you say that when an INFJ does not like somebody he makes excuses to not see that person. Not at all a true INFJ trait! Only when obligated to be with that person he will try that like at work for example. Only because he doesn't want to disturb the work relation and know he is there for the boss and not for himself! In other cases, a true INFJ will let that person know that he doesn't like that person, but in a respectful way! Being honest is in my believe one of the base pillars the life of an INFJ is build on! And avoiding behavior without a very good reason is seen as lying! To be clear about what entails "letting that person know..." . That can also be by means of non-verbal, but clear communication. My thoughts and reasoning maybe a mystery to most, but my expression will always show what i feel at every moment.
That part got me too.
We DO really like to be honest. I find every way possible to be honest while also not giving a hurtful reason why I am retreating, or not responding in the way they want. Last time someone was bragging and describing their negative unhelpful behavior toward another person to me, I just nodded expressionless ( I think) and did not add to the conversation. I was questioned about it, am I judging them or their response, I said I am processing all the layers to what you are saying it takes a while. That's true for me. To tell this family member who would not be open to any learning about other view points in this moment, and what I felt would be wise to consider, would just irritate them and meet opposition. So I found the best way for me to be honest and avoid making the situation worse.
@@meekee1490 That seems like a good tactic. I will try that in the future some time! Most of the time I ask questions and see whether good arguments are coming or thing like: "Because it is so!" or; "Because [option are then; something they heard or assume and not truly investigated]" .
After this, I just say what I would have done is such case, to be sure whether it is true or not. Keep it to my self so to speak. Some still then get mad with me, but most people just felt a seed planted in their heads! Most times I cut that topic off and make a joke or something about anything else, so we can laugh. The topic is gone, but not that seed.
I like that. Yes seed planting is important. It may not make roots but am always going to try!
I just say it out loud. I get real. Once I was at a dinner party and this woman was telling racist jokes. I just got up and walked off. I refused to eat with her.
First to comment 😅😅😅
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