take space when a man is unsure about you

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  • čas přidán 24. 02. 2024
  • When a man is unsure about you, and he's pulled away and/or is not making an effort with you in the way you'd like, the feminine approach is to step away. You don't need to communicate to a man what a man already knows. Men know how to be and know when they are not treating a woman in the way that she deserves to be treated. In coddling him and overcommunicating with him about your feelings when he's already pulled back, you only serve to push him away more. Instead, give him space. and observe yourself. The need to communicate or convince a man to be with you when he's checked out is a sign that you need to heal your core wounds and put the focus back on yourself. Feminine women, or confident women, are turned off by men who are not 100% in and will not try to convince men to be with them. Instead, they take a step back, and in that space, a man usually snaps out of his fear. Learn more about men, masculine-feminine energy and relationships in my e-books. My self-study course will help shift your identity and show you how your beliefs are limiting your desires. All links are in my bio.
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Komentáře • 35

  • @fareenashofficial
    @fareenashofficial  Před 5 měsíci +3

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  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba1264 Před 4 měsíci +50

    Yes absolutely. All the way away 😂till you find someone that is not confused about respecting, appreciating and loving you full time.

  • @MirandalindaL.A
    @MirandalindaL.A Před 4 měsíci +42

    I'm giving him major absence. I'm staying away and in not chasing ❤

    • @kimberlymay9497
      @kimberlymay9497 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Same ❤stay strong 💪🏽

    • @MirandalindaL.A
      @MirandalindaL.A Před 4 měsíci

      @@kimberlymay9497 😞👏💝

    • @MirandalindaL.A
      @MirandalindaL.A Před 4 měsíci

      @@kimberlymay9497 hey girlie so yeah it's hard but we deserve better. I been on no contact and just pretty much ignoring him. He has reached out to me via text just to check up on me. After being on no contact I have realized I'm not going back to him I'm done crying like a little girl over a grown man thats not ready to make me his priority. Good luck to you

    • @MirandalindaL.A
      @MirandalindaL.A Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@kimberlymay9497 thank you girlie. I'm not taking him back he's been constantly messaging me HBU ?

    • @kimberlymay9497
      @kimberlymay9497 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@MirandalindaL.A omg yes. I admit I didn’t block him because it was that part of me that wanted to know if he’d reach out. But honey I’m over him he would text I would text back short then he got up the nerves to call a few days ago😅🤦🏽‍♀️ wanted to come see me 😅 no sir you gave me enough time to get you out my system and I’m sooo thankful because I was so blind at the time. Not completely blind I knew things weren’t right but listening to these coaches gave me the strength and wisdom to move on.

  • @Violets14
    @Violets14 Před 3 měsíci +10

    You are saying that a man is in love with a woman but yet takes space to consider if he is confused. Too much space can actually make people more confused because there is no communication.

  • @kimberlymay9497
    @kimberlymay9497 Před 4 měsíci +11

    I’ve tried to listen to a lot of women besides the men coaches all the time. This is the First Lady that has gotten my attention 😅 finally! New subscriber 🎉

  • @justnotyet2336
    @justnotyet2336 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Funny, I did the same to avoid looking needy and creepy. And to see if she missed me and the attention, I waited until she got in touch.

  • @caradonnelly7335
    @caradonnelly7335 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I hope he's missing me, because i miss him. Love in separation is a thing and it aids in the love affair, it's very important.

  • @Mary_QQQ
    @Mary_QQQ Před 4 měsíci +3

    True for women too

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics Před 16 dny

      Absolutely a lot of women are clingy and wanna be in a guys presence more but I as a woman like taking space with everyone. Sometimes too much probably because theyre not the right guy for me…

  • @ShriloKim
    @ShriloKim Před 5 měsíci +21

    What about in the dating period? He said he’s not sure what he wants yet from this. So I told him let’s just have space because I’m looking for a relationship and he’s ready to get physical without saying his intentions

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl Před 4 měsíci +19

      Men put you in 3 categories very quickly.
      1/ fun//sex//friends with benefits
      2/future wife // dream girl (hopefully)
      3/placeholder (long time gf)

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld Před 4 měsíci +21

      It's probably best to leave. He would know if he wanted to be with you or not straight away. Guys always know. Otherwise you risk wasting your time. He would be with you sex wise, while waiting for "something better" to come along.

    • @naimam3976
      @naimam3976 Před 4 měsíci +22

      When a man is unsure about you, hes sure about you. You are not what he really want but he might just settle for you untill he finds someone better for him.

    • @wherethewildflowersare
      @wherethewildflowersare Před 4 měsíci +14

      Leave it alone immediately! Stay celibate… a true man will wait till marriage.

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa Před 4 měsíci +9

      Awww don't be confused. Your faith, loyalty, and committment is always to yourself first. Focus on what you want to feel, and experience in a relationship that will always guide you. He not giving that loving stable forever feel. You know for certain what you want he must match that or hes not your guy. A relationship requires secure stable certainty to go far hes not sure so don't bond to someone that's unsure about you.

  • @LeoMoon_Goddess
    @LeoMoon_Goddess Před 3 měsíci

    Absolutely TRUE

  • @prettyloubey8411
    @prettyloubey8411 Před 4 měsíci

    You are a wise woman great video.🌸

  • @Hiddenalchemy
    @Hiddenalchemy Před 3 měsíci

    So real!

  • @xoxjelloxox
    @xoxjelloxox Před 3 měsíci +2

    What if he doesn’t text me for 4 days then wants to hang out I say I’m not available and he calls ans texts me to call him. We used to call almost every day.

  • @vivianamieres
    @vivianamieres Před 2 měsíci

    Major irreversible distance and abscense for this one 😂

  • @LeoMoon_Goddess
    @LeoMoon_Goddess Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi Fareen, I have a question. Is it possible (through changing my approach) to shift a connection into a healthy, commited relationship? After 6 months spending time with him, I am now wondering whether changing tracks, so to speak, and not being so available in the ways that I have been, would shift this connection to a more healthy and balanced relationship that I believe it can be? I think Yes... I would appreciate your feedback. ❤

  • @sandhyalinda4915
    @sandhyalinda4915 Před 3 měsíci

    So should we talk in phone if they call

  • @ashanteb8974
    @ashanteb8974 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @dln3472
    @dln3472 Před 4 měsíci

  • @psi23k
    @psi23k Před 4 měsíci +3

    You are encouraging women to play games!!

    • @user-hv3ln3rk8i
      @user-hv3ln3rk8i Před 3 měsíci +5

      In what way, giving a space is plaing a games?