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Sir, Iâm concerned about your spiritual health. You are shirtless. Please cover up for Allah. Thank you brother.
â@@bethanychico9833 Ayn??
@@bethanychico9833 Allah is mad that he doesn't wear a shirt?
@@apostolismoschopoulos1876 I would hope so if he holds a womenâs chastity and modesty as such a high regard? I canât speak for god. I just like calling out hypocrites across all religions. According to the Quran, he should be covering navel to knee. Once he practices modesty, then he should comment on a womenâs modesty.
@@bethanychico9833 I understand what you say. Religions are full of stuff that don't connect logically. For example why is it not modest to show your legs? We are raised in a so fucked religious system that we consider 'not modest' for a woman to show her legs like there is something wrong with them or with her character. It really is sad and frightening how many people still agree and follow those religious systems.
Instructions unclear, now I'm dating the dad.
This cracked me up đ
I'm the dad đ
extremely funny comment. thank you very much. đ
It is because u r a bloody gay , idiot .
@@trcemalemretr woah bro it's a joke chillax
I am not Muslim, but I am a Dad. I like that concept.
Allahu Akbar âđ»
It's not a Islamic thing. It's a cultural thing. Most of south Asian countries practice it across all religions.
â@@AmicableAgnostic but Islam enforces it
@@carlosrobert9901 almost every religion enforces it bcoz that was the way people were getting married in old days. However Islam pushes it more bcoz there is no concept of love marriage in Islam.
@Blue you can do love marriage without parents permission in Islam?
I must admit his approach is very respectful and caring. You cant find fault with that.
Islamic approach also allows incest đ
unfortunately his previous two wives left because of domestic violence. It takes a lot for a Muslim woman to divorce her husband so you can probably imagine how bad it was.
â@@tauraryou just assume things and secondo , the man is the one paying the high price in a divorce , losing his assets , never seeing his kids , paying child support sometimes abusely , while the woman can still start again but the man is left with nothing
â@@taurarsource brother making accusations without evidence is very deadly
@@englishwithme9922 literally Google it. He even posted a video saying that. He's not a good man.
As a Christian, I can respect this. We used to be a lot more concerned about our values, but most people would rather rewrite the Bible than try to live our lifestyle.
The lifestyle of not letting women decide about their own lives? We already tried that for quite some time.
â@@TilDrillwhen was that? When the west still had birthrates? People could always choose it was just that they were choosing family values
u on crack or something? People could not always choose which is well documented. @@platinumknight1
@@TilDrillthis is a strange assumption. Asking for patentsâ opinions doesnât mean women cannot decide for themselves. He clearly said woman and dad made decisions together. If you went to tell that to all parents that lose their daughters because husbands murdered them, they would said they wish they would have known better. It is part of parentsâ responsibilities to protect their daughters and make sure of her well beings.
Time change your original form. Brother wake up
The fact they listened to him and did not interrupt
That's just called having a conversation
Weâre so used to intolerance that this is rare
*Hold on, let me just interject..*
Very. True this is indeed super rare nowadays. Wow
Well he is a CHAD; ladies tend to listen to CHAD speak but not average joe!
*He was so serious they blurred her legs out LMAO*
I just notice that
Most Muslim channels and news channels do this. You should see how they blur out turkish shows đ€Łđ€Ł
Playing no games with Allah lol
@@nyu-chan3138 ive only ever seen cigarettes blurred..
I was wondering "did they blur out her LEGS?!"
As long as the daughter has the final choice.
yes i am a muslim and i am telling you that it is prevented in islam to make your daughter marry someone she doesnât want and yes she has the choice either to marry or not
it is always always the daughters choice
â@@koyaskissesIt depends cause parents had more experience than relationship that they can give you an opinion which can be good.
The prophet Muhammad actually asked her daughter about her idea about marriage
So the final choice has to be with daughter
â@@7mood-y116yeah I am sure
Trust me, the fatherâs guts are right 100% of the time.
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These days people already have 4 kids and their relationship status is DATING đ
BROOOOOO RIGHT IM LIKE WHY???
@@oomiesays itâs crazyy
EXACTLY
This is a modern form of "liberation." In reality, it is a form of entrapment and trouble, frequently for generations to come. There are still people who refuse to behave in this despicable behavior. Blessings
@@sandraatkins2539 a very big trap
this only works if you have a good father who actually wants the best for you
if you're from west, then maybe.
in india, that's what we do.
however, many of us date without letting our parents know but if we wanna get married then we have to follow the rules.
Well said ren
In islam, if your father cant do that for you (becuase they might have passed away or they dont care about you). You can then ask either your brother (they must be old and responsible enough), or your uncle (related by blood), or your grandfather (related by blood). It can be any man that you are related by blood and of course cares about but in this order. If you would like to learn more search about wali in marriage. Also this whole concept is followed to make sure that the woman has support, protection and financial support before she gets married.
Exactly.
I don't have a dad, a have a sperm donor. I don't consider him as my father, he's only my mother's husband. He's abusive, narcissistic, selfish piece of sh*t, who cares only for himself.
If this was a custom in my country, he wouldn't choose what would be best for me but what would be most beneficial for him. He would literally sold me for the highest bidding.
â@@f1015 no, I don't want to lear more about disgust patriarchal society. Now stop yapping and do something for suffering women of Iran, you coward.
Pearl looking over like âplease go talk to my father.â
Truth
False
He is hot !
â@@jenniferlane9000he is lol..damm
@@jenniferlane9000very
Iâm Christian and not Muslim but I think itâs awesome you would go to her father and ask and then if he agrees for you to take her to coffee or something along those lines without her being worried if anything else is expected from the encounter and then her and her father discuss it and decide if you would be a good match for her. For centuries it was done this way and divorce rates were very low but we strayed away from this and now in my country divorce rates are nearly 50% we could learn something from this in order to help protect our daughters chastity
Dude dosnt even call her by her name, sheâs now just Danâs daughter
Muslims donât treat women like people
Yeah, in the context of his example lol
And if she don't like it they'll just cut her fucking head off.
He Cando that after Dan approves
He said one of the most valuable assets, not the âonlyâ asset. A chastity of a woman is important to a man when considering marriage.
I'm a father of two girls and I would prefer a poor man with work ethic and character over a rich man with no respect or discipline.
As a young woman I deeply agree with you
No shit man
When I tell women I'm old school traditional they look at me like...đłđ„± then they..đââïž.... Like there is something wrong with me..đ€·ââïž
Being rich doesn't mean the person has a lack of respect or discipline....usually means the opposite.
Yeah of course you would.
This is one of the main reasons Dads/ Father's are so important
Oh really that's why
not only father, but also her guardian if her parents are no longer around
We need American dads doing this. Imagine the amount of women saved from a narcissist
Wouldnât save women from being whores
Man or Woman. Narcissistic Women can be just as dangerous
He married 3 women that's Islam for you
Yeah... not just american dads, I sure would love this custom in my country. But, it's just a nice story. Check my comment above
And weâd have way less fatherless homes especially in the black community
Man: I like your daughter
Dan: I like you
Daughter: đđđ
still the last decision is for girl ,she can even say no without reason that is law in islam same goes for the man ,we can't force marriage on anyone
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He mentioned that she sits with her father and discuss it!
It is not allowed for her father to force her but sadly some family doesn't follow that.
Damn bro must be a nice life believing that parents always have their child's best interests in mind
If they are believing Muslim parents then yes, they will. The practices of Islam donât fit into a corrupt world because they are not made for a corrupt world.
If the parents are liberals, yeah, you re in trouble.
yeah what a hell of a place west became
Damn bro comment just to comment how desperate are u for clout ?
This is a ridiculous question to ask a conservative Muslim.
Am catholic and I think this is the most respectful and appropriate way in which two people get married
this is how majority of muslim arranged marriages are
@@seragreener8522 Youâve already shown me your mindset. Forced Marriages are illegal immoral and impermissible. The father does have a say however it ultimately goes to the daughter.
@@seragreener8522Because in most cultures, they respect the wisdom of the elders because they have life experience that the daughter does not.
@@seragreener8522 They have a say in regards to advising, clearly you lack intelligence.
â@seragreener8522 you are going through dark path you don't know what you will encounter there you see 2 men or women 1 is 40-70 and the other is 20-30 who would you trust to be more wise about that subject
As a Muslim, I agree with "We don't date Period". That's how we protect women. How we save society from unexpected pregnancies, from abandoned children, from poverty.
BS
I'm with you my guy. Muslim just like you.
â@@ruzicatoviraccupovic5628why BS explain your argument and educate us please
and then you killed your daughters for honourđ
because the muslim world has no fatherless children right? lol im in my late 20âs nobody not even my father dead or alive will have the right of permission over who will date me or ask permission of marriage but myself
âDan I think your daughter is scintillatingâ
-âDefine scintillating?â
âYour daughterâ
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lmaoo bro
Well saidđ
Mans never hot
"damn he is good."
I love how he said "I've taken interest" and not "I'm in love"
I agree. the word love is thrown around a lot in western society
â@@UTAH100 do you really think all muslims have 4 wives?
â@@UTAH100although they can chose to, VERY FEW do that nowadays. Don't make it sound like it is a common practice today.
â@@c_p_a_r So you're saying it isn't common all around the world for Muslims to have multiple wives? Cause you'd be wrong to say that it isn't common especially in Muslims countries.
@@c_p_a_r It is a common practice. You just haven't been in Indonesia or Malaysia I guess.
My dad sat me down and explained this to me the exact way he did love to see Muslims being more open especially in their topic for people who are genuinely interested in having a Muslim partner đđœ
*forgets steps*
*gets confused*
*dates dad*
*sleeps with a coffee*
Bro that's so atrociousđđ
What đđđđđđ thats some.coffee
That's exactly what I did.
6 months later we were engaged and 6 months later we got married...16 years later , looking back, I wouldn't have done it any other way
adrian. i donât what to say to not make this sound cheesy. but iâm proud of you brother.
Mine happened same way been married 24 years and my love increases every day for my husband âŠIâm very stubborn and my husband is so calm and patient no other man would put up with me đđâ€ïžâ€ïžStay blessed Adrian wishing you many many happy years together stay blessed.
â@@saminabibi2015 happy that he can put up with you. But don't take it for granted.
If he stays calm does not mean he likes it when you are the opposite. Just be aware of it. If seen men walking away after so many years, cause one day they were just fed up. If you already know you are stubborn, still try to work on it. Everyone can try become a better partner. Just hope your marriage last until the end of your time. Peace.
that's wonderful can I ask why? was it religious reasons or upbringing or ?
Okay then what If someone like Jeffrey dalmer manipulated you into dating your daughter/son and then proceeded to kill them ?
âone of her most valuable assets which is her chastityâ is crazy
@HealthyLivingwithJessyouâre forgetting tho he only said one of (meaning multiple) itâs not just about chastity however for some cultures itâs a very important thing
Learn English
It's true, you can convince yourself to believe it's not but sadly that's not how reality works
It's true, you can convince yourself to believe it's not but sadly that's not how reality works
Oops sorry you gave away your most valuable asset away for free at school đą
Itâs just respectful when a man approaches the father of the girl heâs interested in, and asks him permission.
So it doesn't matter that the daughter has no interest in that man.
â@@bmg6233not very smart, are you?
Il help you out. The father will introduce him to the daughter amd she will decide if she wants to continue to get to know him.
Why would a woman need a man's permission in the first place? Would a son need a mother's permission? Why can't grown ups decide for themselves?
â@@bmg6233by Islamic law you need Daughter's decision too
Listen to the whole thing it's not father's decision only
@@MrUnder24 Live your own life buddy
If someone can raise his daughter he has some say in his daughterâs life partner too
That's the process we went through for my daughter getting married about 10 years ago. She's still happily married and her husband is a son to me.
Iâm happy to hear this đ
Good to see you here brother and how's lowkey doing I've started rapping myself and hoping to begin music next year insha'Allah
May Allah keep then happy insha'Allah
@@jamal153 bro what-
You are looking at it from your perspective, not daughter's and that boy's.
As a father of 12 daughters. I need 11 more like him.đ
đ inshaAllah you will find them
May Allah make it easy đ
Busy man
InshaAllah Amin đ€Čđ»
@@cyberverse9141 are we gonna ignore that my man have 12 daughters hahahaha we don't see big families like this today
This is exactly why I make boundaries for my daughter so she doesn't end up giving someone herself without anything in return.
I wish more men were like him
Go to a muslim country
You mean, conservative? Or what exactly? Because these kind of men are not well appreciated last time I checked...
Extremely traditional guys?
They are out there,but they dont lose time dating in their 20s or partying.
A lot of these are from asian families tho.
They go by traditional values and they expect their wives to be virgins and dress modestly.
So if you're not traditional then it would be pointless to date men who are serious about commitment.
I can tell you because my parents are muslim and what he described was the way my parents started their relationship.
They met at a wedding. Father liked mother. They talked to each other and then to keep talking to her an get it to marriage my dad had a serious conversation with my granda and he let them both marry.
Believe me. If you arent born in a muslim household,you arent going to like the rules. They are more strict but the rewards are good.
35 years of marriage for my parents. Good community built around them.
3 sons ready to work for them and good people with faith overall.
Even tho im not extremely religious I go by these morals.
Men who are disciplined usually have strict requirements. The views are different and most women wouldnt like that tho
â@@amukbir8777yeah most of what you're saying is true. I'm from a conservative Muslim south Asian household, born/raised in the US. I married a girl of my own ethnicity abroad because even diaspora girls here lack these values.
he beat his wives lol
As a muslim, I met my wife in college liked her, we walked and talked in public places. She made me some sandwiches and I was in love . After few months I asked if my mom and aunt can come and meet her mom and she knew exactly why they were visiting. After that visit her dad asked to see me and I went and formally asked her hand I lost my dad @ young age and her dad said something to me I will never forget he said âI can tell you are a good guy and I know your dad is not around I want you know you are like one of my sons and I will support you in any way you needâ Hearing that I realized I am choosing a great grandfather for my kids and we have been happily married for 18 years. Prophet Mohammed PBUH teaches us to treat other dads daughters the way we want our daughters to be treated and what goes around comes around.
He forgot to mention polygamy where he has other wives, the mehr (bride price) and the dowry that the man has to pay for the girls family and that only rich men get married in Islamic countries because of this? LMAO this is so funny đ€Łđ€Ł That is why there is no stability in the Muslim countries. The top 25% men have four wives each and the bottom 75% literally have to kick rocks. Men become hyper competitive and k*ill each other.
Allahoumaameen nice brother may allah reward you
That was one hell of a sandwich
@@gabriellegibson34 ongđ
I am not a muslim, i am jewish, but its sounds so beautiful â€â€â€ i am very lucky for youđ your wife has a wonderful husband
Canât imagine all those dads with pretty daughters getting hit up by all these men in the Instagram DMâs. âIâve taken interest in your daughterâ Iâd lose my mind lol
LOOOOOOOOL
but conservative Muslim girls won't upload their faces in any social media
No need to read DMâs if you not man enough to approach me about my daughter you donât deserve her
They don't approach on Instagram
Just say sorry with respect, then they'll understand
Dan's daughter already said YES a million times in her heartđâ€
Iâm Christian but would prefer this approach. Dating has gotten incredibly complicated and there is no longer any gatekeeper besides the individual
If she doesn't have a father than you ask her older brother or the oldest person on her family to ask her hand .
Idk. Sounds too far, Iâll respect their religion even though I disagree with it.
And if her father or brothers are abusive or overly controlling? This leads to a lot of oppression of women. Not saying hookup culture is better. But why tf does shit have to be on extreme ends
â@@John-ru2gq then the future husband gives his best to rescue her from the abuse. There is a thing called mahr, which can be very persuasive. And also for example if she doesnt have a father or any brothers around alive or present, a grandfather can be asked.
â@@John-ru2gq in Islam, the woman has all the rights to accept or refuse the marriage. And it's against the guidance of god to oppress a woman into marriage and it's against the teachings of Islam. without her consent the marriage is false period.
Man. Latino guys would be offended if they were approached for their sister hand.
I wonder If muslims get beat for asking the wrong person.
â@@ariash18able Latino guys would be cool if they heard that their sister got banged by some unknown dude who refused to marry her now.
How everyone just ignores the fact, that this decision is made WITH the daughter.
He even said that loud and clear.
That still feels wrong because boys in this culture have all the freedom to date whoever they want (i know there are also rules for boys, but lets be honest muslim parents are generally not as strict with her sons when it comes to partnerships/girls etc. compated to their daighters). A lets say 23 yera old well mannered muslim girl should be able to find a partner without the "okay" of her father...
âââ@@JahweChananit is actually really really forbidden(considered as serious sins) to make difficult of this process even if you're the father. if the daughter father do make it difficult with 0 logical reason to a good husband candidate(have income to support family, have good attitude etc), the couple can request an official hearing from local imam/religious leaders where he should judge everything objectively and they can continue marriage process without her family. but this is really rare case, but still needed in place where tribal rivalry or any past conflict exist. hope this answers your doubts.
@@JahweChananof course because women are statistically more likely to be abused, and be victims of domestic violence. Sometimes they even know itâs wrong to stay with an abusive person but they choose not to leave them for whatever reason. Thatâs where dads come in and they judge you as a person before allowing to marry their daughter. The reason they arenât strict with boys is because boys arenât gonna be abused by their wives, but many wives get abused by their husbands
Because he is lying, that's why. In practice no one ask girls decions in Islamic world, the father's decision is the only one. He just says the ideal one but it doesn't work like that in real life. Have you ever been to Afghanistan, Saudi Arabia, Ä°ran or Iraq?? What do you know about Ćeriat and Islamic life and believe one "sympatich regilion o waoww" sellers words.. Do you live in Barbie world or sth?
@@JahweChanan iâm with you, if itâs about picking her own decision, but having the respect to sit diown and speak with the parents, about the partner, should be normalized.
For both man and woman.
This is such a sweet way to do things if don't properly. She gets the choice, and the father can make sure the daughter doesn't make a bad choice
respectable man 100/100
Him: Want to grab a coffee or something?
Her: I am sorry but I am not ready for marriage
Me fr
Then you move on. Sheâs not the one
Father Dan: I like. You marry.
I think you missed the point.
Him:ok i'm cool
Too bad a lot of people unfortunately take this concept too far where the dad is the sole decider and doesn't consider the daughter's interest :')
Truth
Too bad every one who has this initial Idea also do not accept a female as a human
Too bad a lot of people thought it would be a good idea to make the woman have the last say, and not the first say
Bcuz in islam dad is head of family, like how head of tribe works, everything must go trough them first..but maybe some people with different circumstance wont agree with this
yeah.. we called it as "power abused" which that dad use his power as middle man turn to be soly decider without talk first with the daughter.. and I am a conservative muslims female
He reminds me when I visited my inlaws for the first time ( they are Christians and I'm Muslim ), I ask for their daughter's hand, the father inlaw looked at me and said it's her call if she is okay we are okay with it, she said Yes right away, we are happily married for 9 years and have 3 beautiful daughters.
I am an Eastern Orthodox Christian. Damn I like this. Respectful.
Uhm see my dad still hasn't come back with the milk so-
He can see anyone who is responsible for you, you uncles or brothers, but it has to be a man so that he can show his real intentions
(Btw ik that s a joke but i just wanted to explain what would happen if the father isn't there for his daughter HEHEHEHE)
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Iâm only laughing cause I was thinking what if he out still buying milk
Then, if that's the case, it'll be your brother who is to be hailed.
Says so much about your mom
Not a Muslim but I did this with my father in law. He was shocked but then joked if I didn't like you do you think you would have gotten through the door? 22 years later he is like a second father to me
I wish u the best brother happy to hear thisđâ€
Nice bro
That's not wholesome. That is perpetuating a 'tradition' that regards women as their fathers' property. Ask for their hand? Why? He knows better because he's a man? Absolutely ridiculous
@@Nalitzis you know if the women says no itâs cancelled so she has the final say?
@@blackholexd5994 and if the father says no (I don't know why he would think he has the right to do so, but ok) will she be totally fine going forward with whatever relationship she wants?
If a daughter actually respects and trusts her father, she wants him to look at the guy first. Why would you not ask someone who understand better how man are and has more life-experience to warn you from a big mistake?
Tbh His talk is logic.if i was a player i wouldnât talk to ur dad so u must see the dad man to man bc he will ofc choose the best to his daughter.absolutely makes sense đ
Can't do that over here! Dads nowhere to be found!đđ
White girls
It's sad though. Irresponsible men making things harder for thei kids
â@TanatswaMagwaza get down to the real issue. irresponsible women spreading their legs to irresponsible men.
â@@TanatswaMagwazaYou mean irresponsible parents?
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father: If you don't date him, I'm leaving your mother for him
Hahahahaha!! It'd be the greatest love story ever told!
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Only fan girls. He won't date a porn actress but he will..marry her. I think the fact she did porn is because of her lack of love from her father, Dan
.I will ask her father why you didn't help her when she needed the money.
Yoooooo
If she leaves you for another, there is always her mother
I have respect for this process and more people whether Muslim or not should embrace this as it is so much more respectful. â€đ
Love that response from him. So perfect.
As a father of 3 daughters I totally respect this process
Then if u except him. u should better except him to get 3 more wives.
@Avesta People don't understand how's the 4 wife thing works lol
You literally need your first wife approval and that only 1 rule I'm not gonna name everything for you.
@@has855 Where does the Qur'an say such a thing? Give me proof
Respectfully you donât own your daughters and they should have the last say on that matter
@Avesta I don't need to give you a proof about anything you can do your own research instead of being a blind hater.
My father passed way before I got married. So my husband went to the next best thing. He asked my grandfather (paternal) for my hand in marriage. Meant so much to me that he respected my elders. My family completely appreciate and valued that gesture
That's not what he's talking about here.
â@@Ericsaidful?
@Furkan Bozdag This guy is talking about arranged marriages. The commenter is talking about typical western relationships where you date, meet family, and do whatever for like 3 years and then ask the parents for permission.
One process is a few weeks, one is a few years. Totally different.
@@Ericsaidful one is a result of centuries of disgusting practices fit for cattle (arranged marriages), and the other is the sensible way to treat a human being (dating the human being you're interested in).
By the way, the prophet Mohammed was a pedophile, and the "virgin Mary" was a 14 year old adulterer.
Why not ask your mom ?
me with an absent father đ§đ»ââïž
Then your mother, brother, uncle, the point is the ones who are responsible for you and protect you
A "wali" in islam is a legal guardian responsible for the bride before marriage. The main role of a legal guardian is to act in the individuals best interests when their parents cannot do so. Legal guardians are usually relatives such as an aunt, uncle, or grandparent.
It can even be brother or uncle
So you need a legal guardian at same age/generation with your father or older. Such as uncle, grandpa, granduncle, etc. If you don't have em, then it's your brother job to do so...
But you have none, then elder female who takes over starting from your mother..
That's if I remember correctly đ€
Mother and family
Listen to how beautiful a man has described his potential wife. Now, women can we protect our chastity until the right man approaches you.
This man literally abused his wife lol
Asians do this most especially the traditional ones in the provinces.
Bro rly blurred her legs
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That's respectful
But they are sitting there looking at those legs đ€ŠđŒââïž
â@@Iac8but he sees uncensored version
Way blurred her legs?
Why***
I like how he answered the question without just saying "no", because he brought a bigger/deeper answer to the conversation
This is the Sunnah đ of our beloved Prophet Muhammad SAW. He also said to Abu Bakar R.A like this that I like your 6-year-old daughter Ayesha and want to marry her. The unbelievers should also follow his Sunnah Do not go and talk to such a girl, the decisions of the girls' lives should be made by their father or brother, because according to Islam, a woman's mind is half that of a man's, she cannot think for herself
You are right! Emotional intelligence?
@@ankita.1745 ignorant to say. Look at Amerikkka
@@ankita.1745... Sir/madam.
.. Cheating or infidelity is an individual responsibility and it may happen to anyone despite of the person's religion, ethnics or culture...
Majority Muslim countries don't kill or genocide people of other religions.. Muslim leaders will take care of none Muslim people as long as they abide by the rules of the country.. In my country Malaysia, only 63% are Muslim and we live harmoniously as Malaysian...
@@norab1423 im talking about muslim countries so shush
Wait how is the process after speaking with the womanâs father not dating?!? đđđđ
Muqabala
What people don't know is that there's an engagement period it can be as long as you want to know each others very well if u found him or her not a person u wanna live the rest of ur life with u can end it ... but still everything in the engagement is with boundaries
What are you talking about? The mehr means you're married. You must be Iranian. They do this weird stuff. This practice is not Islamic
Pearl looking at him like "I'll give you my dad's number." lol.
No sheâs not
Lol
Ong đđ
Sheâs not virgin, this guy knows sheâs a 304
Oh what? She literally was just looking at him cuz heâs talkingđ this makes no sense
My Christian Latino father would agree. In fact, he would like this man even more for approching him first.
Bro what does being Christian even mean. Those guys think that Jesus is God.
@@countryballspredicciones5184 I'm not your bro. I'm not a man.
@@LearnIt.KnowIt.LiveIt. You are my bro because I am a Muslim. But well, Christians prefer disrespecting themselves.
â@@countryballspredicciones5184???
â@@countryballspredicciones5184don't you guys (Muslims) believe men get 20 wives in heaven? Lol you guys are weird. And no, Jesus is the son of God, that's common knowledge, even atheists know that lol The bible only says the holy spirit, Jesus came from God, but always were there as one before God created humans. That's why it says God, the son, and the holy spirit lol At least try to act smart.
As an Arab Christian i can say this is how i got married also
Whatabout the arranged marriage thing. Does the woman say i dont like him and does the dad listen?
In the majority of cases, if either the man or woman say they're uninterested, then it doesn't happen.
Asked my father in law for his blessing, best move I ever made, builds respect and shows your a stand up guy
So what would you have done had he said no?
@@pkojo I'd figure out why he said no and work on ways to build his trust and hopefully change his mind over time, Good things come to those that wait.
@@RobertMoraleslv Well, I can understand and I respect your way of doing things. Wouldn't be necesarily my way of doing it, but it is very respectable
@@greatdane331 Should not project your thinking unto my response. Whilst I do not agree with him, nor is he wrong in my eyes. As long as he doesn't hurt anyone it's okay. You on the other hand are a rude garbage person. It isn't wrong to have a different opinion and still respect another person. You've only shown the ammount of insecurities you have in your life by making this comment prettending to be strong.
Correct đ
Iâm not Muslim, but I come from very conservative foreign parents, and my father would expect and respect this! Iâve been approached by a few Muslim men and they asked to speak to my father or brothers. We respect that!!
not surprised, as we are Israelites and this is our customs as well
Well all that's cool, till you refuse to convert to Ola hu uber.
@@user-jt5jz6mq9l huh get yo racist ass up outta here
â@@user-jt5jz6mq9l you are an indian right?
@@iilhamws Indeed, being truthful and pragmatic translates to racism....look my goat is muslim coz it has only beard and no moustache.
Her face, she was like yeah ! go talk to my dadđ
Mad respect, im not Muslim, im Catholic, but i agree to this cause this is the way i am with my daughter's!!đŻđŻđŻđđ
Abu Umamah reported: A young man came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, âO Messenger of Allah, give me permission to commit adultery.â The people turned to rebuke him, saying, âQuiet! Quiet!â The Prophet said, âCome here.â The young man came close and he told him to sit down. The Prophet said, âWould you like that for your mother?â The man said, âNo, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.â The Prophet said, âNeither would people like it for their mothers. Would you like that for your daughter?â The man said, âNo, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.â The Prophet said, âNeither would people like it for their daughters. Would you like that for your sister?â The man said, âNo, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.â The Prophet said, âNeither would people like it for their sisters. Would you like that for your aunts?â The man said, âNo, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.â The Prophet said, âNeither would people like it for their aunts.â Then, the Prophet placed his hand on him and he said, âO Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and guard his chastity.â After that, the young man never again inclined to anything sinful.
Source: Musnad AhÌŁmad 22211
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A hadith of prophet Muhammad
Channel to view for knowledge about islaam.
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This sounds good, no F boy will want to go through so much trouble he will go somewhere else.
You would be surprised
I did
Lol no dude, almost every arabian does this and its fine... Women here are valuable and worth all this
@@nidalabuatwan7154 i know guys who wooed and married women and poof disappeared. I think it is based on the values of the society. Some people don't even value marriages
Or taste my blade
When you ask her abut her father name...
I can see the spark in her eyes đ
Don't try that with these fatherless feminists đđ€Ł
â@@MrTsukudu she's not a feminist đ
@@elegancepublicschool8191 I know, my point was don't try this at home kids đ
@@MrTsukudu đđđđ
@@MariaSanchez-kg2fl taqiyah đ€·đŸââïž
Muslims trying to talk like their prophet didn't have a 12 year old wife will always blow me away
And A cid to the f ace was very common if the girl would not marry the guy. Very respectfully of course
First of all it's not his fault that he wasn't living in this century.
Secondly he had previous wives before, all were either widows or divorced, even when he was a virgin till the age of 25 he married a widow lady, on her request to marry him. Khadija and we call her with respect so we add hazrat which literally means the honoured.
Thirdly this match of Ayesha was a match made in heaven and her father the close friend of the holy Prophet consented to this marriage. Her consent was also involved in it.
He married her on the will of Allah. He had no shortages of wives before her.
Fourthly She remembered him with kind and gentle words and always praised him once he had alleviated to the skies, meaning when he died. She was so awestruck by his nature that she wanted to be buried next to him but a close I mean really close companion begged her for that spot and she then finally after much consideration agreed.
So there are a lot of things you are not capable of thinking. Whenever making your mind up about something please keep an open mind next time so that people like me don't waste their time clearing your primitive concepts
Also the wives of The Holy Prophet are considered Mothers of all Muslims. No one after him was allowed to marry them after him.
Ok... So nice to have the dads decide on behalf of their daughter. What a nice religion.
I'm just over here like "why her legs are blurred out" đ
coz he thinks women body should be in burqa
he wants her to wear burqa
@@ericyr6728 now ppl are focusing on the blurred part. you dimwit. "Islam has answer for {everything}"
â@@crazzygamer5877 yes, he is. So what?
Think she forgot to shave đ
I am not a Muslim. But when I proposed to my wife. I asked her father permission over a pint of Guinness before hand. He gave his approval. He passed away now but always no his Daughter is safe in my hands.
knew*
I love this
thats good to hear sir that you take care of the woman you loved and the father of her you respect
rip the man who creates happyness
Thanks for the tip so I guess Guinness does the trick
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I don't know the way this man talks is just satisfying đ
The fact that this whole âintroducing a potential spouse to your parentâ thing is strange to some people just goes to show how much people DONT know about the right way to go about in a relationship. Itâs alright straight to sex w some people smh
"Hey, I think your really cute, could I have your dad's number?"
Edit: Thank youđđœ everyone for the likes, this was so unexpected, I appreciate itđ
Lmao
Hahaaaaaa. Brilliant
Well played
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âWe donât date period.â
No but you sleep around with whomever before you do. including other men. đ
But we married 4 different girls.
â@@jayschmidt3695 yes and take care of them. Buy them what they need, help empower them and respect on after another. Can u Do that? Nođ€đđ
â@@jayschmidt3695 only if he could do them Justice emotionally, mentally and financially,also his wife has to know so she has the choice to continue with him or not
We buy your daughter period.
When I asked my Muslim husband before we married about his past girlfriends he said "We don't have girlfriends, we have a wife". I am his only love.
We do the same in Poland we ask family first. But in the end its not family decision its my own decision!
Onlyfans girl: Only if u can find my dad
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đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łthat was good man
Or daddy
htf this comment only have few liked?
he popped the question like, "Dan's daughter, will you marry me?"
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lol
This is very similar to traditional Roman-Catholic, Italian coupling practices. It's amazing to see old world values still being practiced.
I agree with his ways to a point. Itâs a way to be respectful on all ends but like others have said you donât really know someone in a short time.
"And after this, I go looking for a second wife. Respectfully."
If you can't support them & love them equally it's considered haram.
@@moonamir9708 all of that is considered bullshit because itâs fairy tales in a book written by men
â@@zenith5048wow you are so edgy and funny man
â @@moonamir9708 thereâs no such thing as loving multiple wives equally. Itâs inherent that your attention to the individual will be divided by at least half, and it gets worse the more wives you have. If you truly love a woman you will love them and only them, because having more wives implies that the one isnât good enough for whatever reason.
@@mentalwarfare2038 if you have several daughters or sons Would you love one of them more than the others that you will neglect or not, or would you give them the same allowance ?
I spent 5 minutes laughing at the blurred legs đ
Me too why did they do that legs are apparently vbad they help us walk
@@jeremiahcoup7973 a womanâs legs are considered a private part in Islam
Hahaha me too
@Maily I see why is it private though legs are a part of the human body it shouldn't be a sacred thing
@@pimiralii XD
They did not interrupt him not out of respect, but because they feat muslims. Their ignorance proved useful for once
Thts how we do it, it wasnt easy to approach someone's dad. But u have to be seriously honest, respectful and man up.
This concept was the perfect way of vetting your daughters future husband. Most countries outside the US been doing this for generations
Most countries had been doing it most got rid of it a long time ago
Yup itâs so good they marry at least 3 times
â@@GenericZod look at the number of divorces in the US.
@@GenericZod it happens in Asian countries too where 4 marriages isn't even a thing. India,china, etc
â@@diehardernxgt2161 india have a 4 marriage thing but only for muslims if the natives (hindus/sikhs/buddhists) do it they can be charged
I am a Muslim.
Knew my wife when we were in the early 20s. Became work friends.Then I knew her whole family in depths for about 2 years.
It took me a total of 6 years to prepare, buy a house, a car and finally ask her hand in marriage. She said yes.
Then i send my family to her family for their approval thus solemnization, engagement and wedding ceremony.
We are 26 years together now.
lovely marriage. Alhamdulillah. Thank you Allah.
May Allah SWT protect you and your loved ones.
What a waste of time
Donât reply to the dude above me
@@saitejayambadi7589 no cap Alhamdulitakeabath
@@Soultan_music copy that
Iâm a Star Trek KlingonâŠ.and internet is really slow until it reaches our planet
As a daughter father, Im ok w this! đ€·ââïž
"Works like a charm, ask my other wives" - C.M
@vadant..đ€Łđ€Ł(south Africa)
dude, every Muslim doesn't have 4 wives. It is just arabians who married 4 wives, most of Muslim just married 1 wife
@@orx03It was a joke because many muslims do joke about this. You took it too literally đ
â@@Sarah-kv3qs we dont have to makes a joke about it, its a good things. Then men will keeps this kinda respect on women, as a good men
@@korbangacha8817 So are you against it or for it? Because it does happen. I donât know if that a good thing in the context of the joke lol. Many muslims joke about it. Having many wives doesnât make you respect women or even make you a good man.
This is how my dad raised me, I grew up in a mexican family but this is a tradition in mexico that has been lost
Still exists, I few years ago a white woman was confused because the guy that was pretending her was trying to eat the favor of her aunt in this case because she was the elder. I thought it was really funny how she said it was creepy and I thought that he have good intentions with her.
Yeah the asking dad for hand in marriage part but not the waiting til after marriage to have sex part
Iâm latina and I didnât dated I went on dates with no sex and them had
A
Courtship with the man
Who is my husband now. But Iâm
Christian and I think is the difference
@@Adrianablue2 in one occasion one teenager ask me how many sexual partners I had before marriage. And she was really surprised and called me a lier when I told her only my husband, at that time Americans teenagers believe they need it to have at least 8 sexual partners before marriage.
@@jaywood3051 if she open the legs in the first date. You're approaching the wrong latina.
The family does have to be around tho. You cannot be alone and a muhram has to be there with you
Bro is this the only thing people talk about on podcasts anymore like everyone literally saying the same thing
I CAN'T THEY BLURRED OUT HER LEGS I'M SCREAMING đ
Edit: People are wondering why I'm so surprised, but we have vastly different cultures. Where my parents come from (Venezuela) women are encouraged to over sexualize themselves for men as opposed to Muslim countries, where it's the opposite. I was raised in America and covering your legs isn't done very often here.
Believe?
ok so ? the point of this vid is clearly not her legs
Why you wanna looks at her legs?đ€š
@@galaxygamerman đ
@@galaxygamerman I think there is a miscomunication here. I know muslims find legs inherently erotic and think they should be constantly covered, but in other cultures they are not fetishized to that extent, except by men with base instincts and immature sex drives. So in these countries censuring legs is seen as kind of ridiculous. We know the culture is what it is, so we shouldn't be surprised, but it is still a bit jarring.
We just gonna ignore him literally censoring her legs đđđ
No we don't, in Islam we don't believe that looking at women's legs is OK đ« what a crazy thing to do đȘ
Mass indulgence in Hedonism and other degeneracy makes rational (conservative) values seem ludicrous.
You're making a joke as to why someone did Not allow eyes on a woman's naked legs. That seems ludicrous to you.
Didnât even notice lol
â@@ziadgad6747why not her head and arms too then? Muslim women wear hijabs and long sleeves don't they?
@@poyrazturgut3615its ok to show face hands but not being a whore wearing some called clothes that is half naked or tight to show their body
Well explained brother. â€