Ne vs Se | Exploration vs Acquisition
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- Conversations about ... THINGS! Sometimes it can be confusing with the subject is "sensory" related to tell the difference between a Ne (extroverted intuition) and Se (extroverted sensing) in a person. In this video I give you my secret to knowing the difference.
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I'm Ne and I spend a lot of time browsing the web for things I would like to have and which are the best ... I never buy anything because I don't really need anything most of the time
YES ME TOO, i spend hours searching for the perfect bag but then I never actually purchase it lol
@@questionthingss we should marry!
I'm trying to understand the process of yours of your thinking. So at the beginning of the process, you browse for things that you wanna have just out of interest or do you actually have the intention of buying them? and if you have the intention of buying them, do you arrive at the very last moment before you actually need to perform the purchase and then you suddenly think clearly and decide that you don't really need it now so there's no point in buying it?
@@itayifergan it all starts with a possibility... Like, there's a chance that I might need this if this or that happens... Or simply someday.... And then I'm like, what's the best for different price ranges? What are the pros and cons of each.... Then I get to those conclusions and end up satisfied... Don't buy anything in that moment.... Sometimes when the scenario I was thinking of before doing the research comes true, I proceed with the actual purchases.
@@itayifergan and some other times I get a sudden consumerist feeling and start looking for that thing that popped in my head... Same thing.... Compare possibilities, and at the end I realize it is a bad idea to spend money on that, but I'm also satisfied with the fun of looking for things
Nice LiJo! Spot on, SE dom here. I have many backpacks: one for the gym, 2 different ones for work, one for the motorbike, one for heavy stuff like tools, one is waterproof for the bike, for long-distance shooting, etc. And if I see another one which seems useful to me, I will buy it immediately.
Thank you for the Se stamp of approval!!
INTP - Exploring the possibilities of backpacks is a good example. I spent six months studying backpacks before buying one. I scoured the internet for backpack companies, backpack reviews, I'd read all the feedback (comments) on Amazon reviews for all backpacks that interested me, I went to 10 different stores and studied the brands and the features of the backpacks they carried. I watched youtube videos on travel, organization, cruise ship travel, and anything related to backpacks. I laid out my typical carry on supplies on my bed. I laid out my typical day at the office items next to that. Then I bought one bag. Once I used it for 3 months and knew it was the bag for me, I bought a second because I hate it when something breaks or wears out and they stop making the exact thing you wanted. Plus, I can keep my carry on bag packed and ready, save for a few items I use daily. I enjoyed exploring the possibilities. However, backpacks are boring enough that eventually I had to just buy one because I ran out of things to research.
Super accurate. This message is ENTP-approved . I will spend SO MUCH TIME researching new subjects just because it’s fun! I once spent 9 months researching every single physical component of how to build a gaming pc… I must have drafted 30-50 different iterations with different combinations of parts and possibilities .
I relate to that so much, I did exactly the same thing for 3 or 4 years before I finally bought one.
As an ENFP I spent two weeks to find ... the "perfect" car
Or days on Amazon or Etsy to get items I know I will really use and really like even a long time after purchasing them , or items that can be purposed for multiple tasks instead of getting loads of items filling my space , since I know I am not that good at organizing
Compare it to my mum who's an ESTP she will instantly buy a new pan to the point of filling her kitchen with loads of different pans cuz she never knows when she my need a specific one for a specific purpose
Many times I did spend time to get the item I thought I'll be using and it turned out to be still just a momentary desire , and I dislike having a house filled with stuff I'm not using or rarely using (my Te managing my Fi )
She is right , often after all this time spent exploring, no purchase is done and I move to the next subject
I’ve never heard it explained this way. Good take.
Thanks! I try to unify the idea in more understandable way.
This is interesting. I could see this as Ne being the Explorer vs Se being the Experimenter. Se would be experiencing the things firsthand through which they explore more directly.Good to consider,hmm...
Yes! As a lead Se I totally agree with the word experimenter. 👍
That was so cool and helpful. I really liked the acquiring and exploring “handles” on it. It added understanding to my sister (Ne dom and window shops for hours ) me : why, why, why are we shopping if you don’t buy anything. And to my niece (Se dom, owns a small suitcase worth of makeup ) And when we go out that is always what pulls her in and she buys more. So nice to see their hearts a little better.
Me: "Hmm, wonder which one I am?"
*Has had the same pair of shoes for 5 years.*
*Has had the same computer chair for 6-ish years*
*Has talked about getting a new cell phone for two years.... still has the same phone*
... In my defense, though, I did finally get my hair cut. XD
I still have to cut mine 😬soon…
Nice example there, i do that hehe!
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Oh my God…I thought I might be Se because I love the finer things in life and appreciate luxury, but Ne shows up in the way I love researching heavily on a luxury item and then almost never purchasing it anyway. I love looking at menus and catalogues and being informed of the new stuff that comes out, but I was never sure if that was Se or Ne.
"The Introverted Intuitives will use the same backpack until it breaks" - Me, but with shoes. Seriously, my shoes were worn flat years ago, look pretty manky, the thing that goes around the lacing have come off and if I go through puddles, lets just say my socks are getting wet. But they're still useful for what I need them for so I still use them (and if I need to look presentable for whatever it is I'm doing, I have another pair which are slightly less comfortable but not unwearable. They do cut the back of my feet after too long though so I try to wear them as little as possible). This is me with anything really. My coat has a massive rip in it but I still wear it because it's still useful and I don't need to care about my appearance when walking dogs or going to a shop or doing some menial task that isn't work related.
I also have other coats i can wear if I need to look better.
I do that too. Apparently I drag my heals too so that usually wears down to nothing. ahhh
@@Azdaja13
Same. I spent to much time choosing my stuff, I really-really like them. I have a hard time throwing them away, because they are part of me...
Whenever I can, I repair them, and I'm happy again 😊
@@InternetLiJo I also went and bulk bought a load of resuable earplugs because I ran out so I would have enough for me to just not run out for ages, instead of buying for short-term. I don't want to have to keep buying more because that's a pain. xD
I have very strong Ne, and i usually have trouble living in the now, the current moment, present, current minute, when that comes naturally to Se. Se knows how to live in the present. I am very curious, introspective, taking in whats around me, and storing it for information. If i visit somewhere, i will remember the place, and use it as a reference, seeing all of the possibilities. Im more of a theorizer rather than a Do-er. Se knows how to take action right away, while Ne says that they are going to do something, but they don't do it.
Anecdotally, perhaps Ne -> Si may have explored to the point that if they do find the right one, once it breaks down, then they'd buy the same one over again (or even before then once it's proved its value). I do this all the time with shoes I love, or bags, or shirts. Tried and true. Inferior Si tends to be pretty neurotic, especially when an object is tied to a strong sensory impression/experience/feeling. ENFP here.
Ni over Ne since even if we're exploring and looking for new possibilities, we'll not acquire and wear the same thing
Great insight. I'm savior Se and my roommate is savior Ne. We recently moved and have experienced this exact thing with acquiring and exploring. 🤣 he wants to keep everything that he has literally ever owned (including the packaging that his items come in). When moving in I realized I had a lot of unnecessary clothes, so I got rid of them knowing that I would want more eventually. We brainstorm together and when it comes time for action, he let's out a sigh and says "not today". And I end up doing it myself 😅 (which I don't mind. I'm energized by having something to do) I've developed 2 businesses moved to another country and back again. I've created action steps for his dreams because I really want to see him succeed the trouble is, he doesn't actually want to do it!
He likes to cook and has thrown around the idea of starting a food truck. He wants it to be themed with potatoes. (Fries, baked etc) I said "great idea. Although cooking potatoes starting off might be tricky. Maybe try something that requires less finesse. How about a donut truck? You can perfect your own signature batter then create a donut of the week to keep it new and interesting?" He is stuck on potatoes. 🤣
Lmao that's hilarious, I made a sketch a few months ago where the Ne user wanted to also make a food truck with a cheese theme.
@@InternetLiJo that's hilarious, I'm gonna find that video now! 🤣
LiJo, I have designed an “Intuitionistic” personality theory which accounts for the tactics of using the cognitive functions. This makes the Exploration-Acquisition divide hinge on whether OPe or OJe is the more convergent observation function. Guess which falls on which side, it should be very easy for you to get right.
OPe!
I like the word 'acquire' for Se. It makes it so easy to understand.
Recently I spent 3 days just to buy a yoga mat. Went through all the options on Amazon. I also don't like to 'acquire' lot of things though. Maybe that makes me Ne. Our shopping patterns are good indication to figure out our type.
im an infp and currently working on my isfp character and this totally helps!!!! thanks Lijo🥺
Hehe this helped me to understand my mom SO MUCH MORE now. I (enfp) see her Se (esfj) constantly and it helps me to better communicate with her and understand why she may not understand me. Thank you!!
I am struggling with typing myself. I come out as INFJ on every test I do and I do really relate to that. I relate to what you say about Ni on your videos. But I also really relate to Ne. For example if I needed a new backpack I would do exactly as you have described Ne to do. And I do it with everything. Even holidays. I research so much I then feel like I've been and don't need to go! But if I buy something I literally keep it forever and feel relief that I don't need to get another for a while. My choices are always practical and quality driven. I research so hard because I want to make the right decision. The best decision. I went ten years without buying any clothes at all. I've recently updated my wardrobe. I still wear t-shirts from twenty years ago. No need to replace. They're fine. Lol. So does this sound more Ne or Ni?
Thank you for real thank you I was doubting myself if I'm an Se or Ne cuz The differences are so small but not many talking about them now I'm 90% sure that I'm Ne user
Ne aux. Omg this explains why i went today to ikea, bought nothing but had a really good time. I actually already knew that i was going there just to watch cozy rooms. I don't like shopping if i need to actually buy something important
Amazing explanation, as expected. Haha. I see this in my marriage all day every day. 😂 My husband has Ne second and I have Se first.
So glad it resonates for both of you!!
2:02 -> 2:22
After that bit, I had to subscribe.
It felt like you were reading in my mind, it was embarrassing Haha... You are good at MBTI study!
Keep it up 💪
Very Intriguing LiJo 🧐🤔👌
Thank you 😊
I'm Ne dom (ENTP). By this scheme, I behave like an Ne dom for things I want, and like an Ni dom for things that I need. Games, I'll browse for literally hours and still not buy one, then when I buy one I'll either play it to death or not play it at all because I'm distracted looking at (but not buying) others. Shoes on the other hand I will wear until my feet are basically touching the ground, then frustratedly buy the first thing that sort of works to get the shopping ordeal over with...
Ne Games
Same with games !! I'm ENTP
I was also always having the same clothes until I finally decided to buy a lot suddenly. So now I have a great sense of fashion, but still wear the same shoes for soo long.
Found guilty with double activated Ne consume. I always fall in love with the idea of sg, then it generates even more ideas. I can waste so much time with exploring the “what could be” even if that possibility is nowhere near my reality. The only way I can get out of this state is to look for a minimalistic yet beautiful thing/combination. If my Ti-Si can lock onto sg beautifully narrowed down, the Ne calms down. (intp jumper)
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Incredible breakdown, this is so well explained.
Great video.
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Thank you so much
I am Ni, and I think I'm open-minded until a Ne dom shows up to exhaust me.
As a Ne dom.... Idk what to say, yeah you got us. But I think when we actually need something or convince ourselves we need smth, we kinda go to the Si way and just buy things in a hurry.
The other day I went shopping bcs I needed boots, winter is coming, my boots are old, my sneakers aren't winter-appropriate, so I needed boots. Got in my car, went to a mall, and went to a few stores (I hate shopping btw) and just focused on boots, bcs I don't need anything else right?
The funnier thing is that I didn't actually have to get boots THAT day, I could've seen my options in other malls, online stores, etc. But I set my mind on getting boots THAT day, so I had to get them THAT day. I still looked at the options (Ne) but in a bit of a hurry and just chose some that I liked and were in the price that I agreed with myself, so I got them without that much thought (Si).
And this happens with other things. If I convince myself I need something, even if it's something really stupid and I don't really need it or I don't need it NOW, I still need to get it asap. Luckily for me, it's usually cheap things 😅
I've been trying to figure out my husband's type and he actually had to buy a backpack recently... But I still don't know what kind of type he is. I know he is an intuitive type, but idk if Ne or Ni. Leaning more towards Ne, but Ni makes so sense as well. He's definitely the type to use things until they break, but is that bcs he sees so many options that he doesn't know what to get (Ne) or bcs he doesn't update the sensory (Ni) like u said? 🤔 I talked mostly about Dom vs Inf functions, but what would it look like if they were 2nd and 3rd? They would be more balanced in a way, no?
Like..... Ni-Se (2nd and 3rd), someone would use a backpack almost until it breaks, but then buy a lot? Se-Ni, would they buy a lot of things but then use them all until they break? Si-Ne, would not give it much thought but at least look at some possibilities? Ne-Si I can ask a friend, maybe she can help me, but it would be more like, see all the possibilities, but then choose one without much thought? But in a more balanced way than a Ne dom, ofc. I would really appreciate the help on this, thank you 😅
Sorry for the long comment
I kinda do all of it, so I am a little bit confused. For example, when I want to buy something I will explore everything about the thing, read ton of reviews and finally make a decision to buy the best thing I found. If it is something that I am really interested in for that time being (for example, I was interested in perfumes for some time) I may think about another one for another occasion and again read everything and possibly even buy another one. But, in most cases I will only buy things if I need them for a longer period and try to decide which is the best one I found. I don't buy things just to have them, I generally always look for the purpose of the thing. On the other hand, I bought a car in such a way that when a friend's friend was selling one I started to think that it could be a good idea. Before that I didn't intensely think about getting a car, but rather thought about the situation as if it is some kind of fate. And I did look at alternatives, but somehow the fact that it is someone I "know" was good enough (of course, I did some checkups with a mechanic). But, I didn't explore all the possibilities in that situation. Third situation. My soccer shoes which were the best got ruined so I had to buy new ones. I did a lot of exploration but ended buying three pairs. First ones I bought weren't good fit and I don't want to wear them anytime ever. After that I bought one pair for turf and one for indoor and I think I will use them until they get ruined again. I think all of this also depends on how much money do you have. If a can afford only one pair of shoes I will choose the best ones and use them for any occasion. If I have more money, when the need comes I will explore all the possibilities and buy five pairs if needed for various situations. Sorry for the long comment and please feel free to express your opinion on which function I use more.
Hahaha! Lots of items in my online shopping cart and they stayed there forever!!!! I always search for other same items in the shopping app, looking for better deals or better product... I always tell myself I will check them out next month... but I never check them out because I found another thing that I thought is better than the ones in the cart. So I add those new items in the cart and tell myself I will check them out... until the next month comes and it becomes a cycle.
When I decide to check out or pay something, especially those I really want/need, I always have this feeling of backing out or feeling unsure of my decision...a thought comes to me that what if there is something better, I might regret my purchase. Even when buying groceries online, it takes me a long time to pay because I keep reviewing my items if I forgot something to add ("missing info" feels).
lol that makes so much sense now for me why i take so long to find something that is right for me. and sometimes i do never end up buying it
I have a few items of clothing from 20 years ago and could still be considered in style and looks to be in almost new condition. So when making purchases I get a hunch if this thing (clothing or accessory) will still be relatively stylish sometime in the future , if it may still fit, if it will be age appropriate (more so when determining which items to donate) and if I may still want to wear it/ use it down the road.
What functions would be most used in this process?
I have a video suggestion..recently I realized that I had a need to socialize with people I connected with over 3yrs and as an INTJ it was weird for me, as I never felt the urge to communicate like this so with this my suggestion is "how intj's may act when connected with others"
"The Ni users with extroverted sensing at the bottom will ... use the same backpack for years until it inevitably breaks"
(looks over at actual backpack next to desk)
Hey, I reckon there's another couple of years' wear left in that thing! Why would I bother replacing it?
Great honest n
Information . ENFP. I wish I had much more Se. It's like once I get to the desired goal, it looses it's shininess and I must explore and find more and more... I wish I could enjoy and live in the present more. I'M ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN... Who cares about the what ifs, if I can not care about the now.
Outside looking in is a great way to describe it!
oh it makes sense i do browse alot of films in yt and put them in watchlist but then only being abandoned for several weeks.. i have no interests of them anymore,, it also happens when i browse games in playstore i screenshot the games i would like to download and once again i lose interest after all, ending i upload all the screenshots in my cloud storage before i delete them in my memory card
I'm NE user and when I want to draw, I spent a lot of days looking for references on pinterest and collect everything that catch my eyes but sometimes I barely used any of it and I was like "Oh this pic is cool maybe I'll used this someday" and then it's already 2 years since I've said it and I didn't make anything from it💀
Would lead Ti's be guilty of using a, lets say backpack, until said backpack simply falls apart because the backpack continues to "work" for the lead Ti user? I will absolutely use something until it falls apart. Why? Because it's doing the job I'm asking it to do.
Yes Ti could choose not to update in that area for their own reasons :)
@@InternetLiJo more importantly, what’s the best low Fe way of telling someone I have 0 interest in going on a second date? 😂 because I don’t think my first inclination of, “I don’t feel like it” is going to go over well
I'm lead Te, and I have the same reason for keeping old things that still works. I only get a new one if the bag is just mad ugly, and literally falling apart (probably tert Se)
It's a nice way to think about it. Although, I do all four. I have ONE bag for everything and I buy the same bag (maybe a slightly different color, maybe...) every couple of years when it's been torn for months. But I have 5 hair oils I use maybe 3 times a year, and extras for almost anything. I research for months products I end up not buying because I don't need them enough, decide they're too expensive, or forget, but sometimes buy stuff I don't need without actual research or goal - like why did I need the disposable bowls for my cats? I haven't opened the package for 2 years and they aren't even the most suitable ones.
I recognize my Se when I actually do things - when I move furniture by grabbing it first and asking it where it wants to go later, and how we can come to an agreement
The backpack example fits really well 👍🏻
(FF-NeFe)
I'm Ne and I wonder what my perfect girlfriend would be like and I browse celebrities but I'm single af
I have literally spent an entire day going to different stores to find the perfect purse...and just ended up using one that I already own hahahaha. We have been found out. And I will not switch my purse until I absolutely have to...like it broke and won't hold my things or was ruined by a spill or something.
Is this Ne or Se?
On a side note, let’s all remember not to feed the trolls
I'm Ne and I think of what I would tell Ellen or a talk show host.... But then I wake up and realize I don't do anything with my life
i think i relate more to se, if i want a backpack ill just buy the one that looks good, i wont search for long for reviews, pros and cons, or specif things that i might think before buying one, i think thats why i always do the worst choices, i get annoyed if i think of much possibilities for long. Plus when i see that another backpack is getting popular, i just get bored of the one i just bought and want to buy another one, and another and another, (im not talking abt the backpack metaphor on the second paragraph btw)
So if se is trying to impact others or their surrounding, doesnt it mean that they see the *possibilites* of what could be happening?
I need to know whether I’m a FiSe or FiNe. Thanks
My dominant Si is quelling Ne, it's like these two functions debilitating/square each other.
Deep and Insightful
Thank you ☺️
The fact that we can discuss Cognitive functions abstractly is incredible.
And how neatly there are 8 functions and Hierarchy of Cognitive functions is even more puzzling.
As a pure mathematician, I cannot help but sense some underlying Structure.
Carl G. Jung was onto something.
I'm Ne and I reconnect when I'm about to crash with somebody at a store..... I don't enjoy " blacking out"
Just like I browse only the specific thing I need, read all about it and than not buy it because I realize I don't really need it and my older one works fine.
ENFP here linzie. nailed it!!!! 🥺
Yeee!
update what! I have to force myself to buy something new. I'll wear it till it falls apart, or just that burst of sensory finally checks you.
Well dear.. that Te and Si is going to pick the perfect backpack eventually 🌚
SE(infj) inferior vs NE(istj) inferior friends - I've realised we had a perfume collection and the SE user was all about exploring and enjoying the scents whereas the NE user was about acquisition even though from 30 different ones rotating mainly 5, the SE user rotates ALL of them, almost a different one everyday and still going to try new ones whereas the NE guy keeps researching, but rarely buys..the SE likes to keep sampling and sampling more and more instead of researching...
Lijo, did I get this right? I'm curious - the SE boi :)
I'm Se according to shave but these Se anecdotes don't really fit me. I only buy new things when necessary, when the old stuff breaks down. Not exactly ISTP behavior. It also takes me months to get a haircut and I always keep the same haircut etc. 🤔 My backpack (and I have only the one) is years old.
G'day LiJo, really like your channel!
Fazz INFJ
Thank you!
What I don’t get is how I can have Se in my stack, even if it’s 4th, and still fail so badly at Se stuff, given that there are plenty of people who don’t have Se in their stack at all (who seem to do better)
I feel you on that! The thing is, even if they have Si higher up, sensory is still sensory. Actioning or organizing in reality still requires addressing and respecting reality. What areas seem like the biggest Se challenge to you?
It’s mostly when having to do something practical COMBINED with it being very sudden and urgent. Which honestly only really happens a couple of times per year. But it sure sucks when it does happen!
What you’re saying makes sense, Si still being sensory and also helping them. Probably not having Ni taking up the top slot is gonna help too
Staying up to date with the sensory world is exhausting, imo.
I can manage the artistic flow of the sensory items but not the actual items or content itself.
So...I am hiring people to do all of these things now so I can stay in vision land; because without vision and ideas, ande go crazy crazy.
Nice job expanding the team!
Awesome explanation!! Nailed it!
yeee!
We all buy things - regardless of type. Se users and Ne users love to buy things due to their Fi auxiliary function or Fe child function.
Ne users buy what they like but prefer buying unique items. Look at the character Holly from the movie Breakfast at Tiffany's. She buys unique things for her NY city apartment and she buys Tiffany jewelry and can dress with class or very unique. It all depended on her second function more than her firsr. She named her cat Cat. She wanted to be different. Her vice as an ENFP is depravity. She hated the thought of having not enough money she dated rich men to buy things for her.
Se users buy only what they have always liked or what their friends have bought. They mostly buy things because they want what others (especially those whom they admire) have. If their friend buys a certain blouse and their second function likes it too then they are buying it. I remember wanting Champion sweatshirts because others had them.
I am an ISFP who is high in Se and I hold onto things I like but I do buy multiple of what I like. Sometimes I can be like ESFPs and want to buy things that others have. I can become interested in things because others like it too.
Se doms don't normally know what they like till they see if others like it too. Se users tend to like what is popular. ESFPs will buy a lot of bright colored stuff like they are drawn to pink. ESTPs and ESFPS love to shop - ESFPs shop more thi.
My mom is an ESTP. She loves to buy anything with cardinals on it. Maybe that is due to both Se and Fe child. Se dom and Fe child function is all about experiencing things like a child. My mom also loves Minnie Mouse and Tweety bird. She never knows how she feels but loves to live life in the moment, go against rules she finds stupid and thinking for herself not giving a darn what other people think. She is a true ESTP. She reminds me of Madonna and Angelina Jolie.
My niece is an ENFP who loves to buy things she finds interesting or likes because she likes it not because others have it. It is an Fi auxiliary function or an Fe child function to buy things you like. Ne users will buy a Coach pocketbook or Tiffany jewelry because they like those things not because others have those things.
ESFPs don't know what they like right away till they see what others have - especially what people they like have. If their friends or movie stars they like have it they got to have it.
"Se users buy only what they have always liked or what their friends have bought."
This Se dom doesn't really give a damn at what other people like, and honestly I haven't known any that do.
This was extremely helpful ❤️ thank you 🙏
You got me 👀 2:22
So would people with high Se enjoy shopping more?
I mean anecdotally Se would enjoy shopping to purchase more. Ne would browse for possibilities.
During my life I was typed as ESTP 6 times, as ENFP twice, as ESFP also twice & once as ENTP.
I'm fcking confused & my English is too bad to understand the video properly.
This is brilliant
Me, Savior FiNe " hm, i really like this wallet, I wonder what other designs they have!"
A couple weeks later of browsing and review reading, comparing and contrasting, researching etc ... "Okay...maybe I'll hold off" or "EUREKA!"
I bought a small back pack for my wallet, keys etc like 10 years ago the bottom didnt look to tough thought this wont last long so yeah 10 years latter i am still using it and its worked super hard as well, i did buy a new one about 3 or 4 years ago the exact same one its still brand new in the bag waiting for me to need it.
Had my last car for 14 years till it got taken away to be scrap metal was a sad day, i think if i find something that works how i want it to i keep it till its done working.
more info is i have bought 3 cars in 3 years after that one to now settle on my next car that i wish to keep for ever so i can buy many shoes etc till i find the ones i like then i will just buy those from now on.
it can become time consuming and costly but i end up with what i want and then i am settled.
Gets confusing for me sometimes MBTI because i have how many different colour shirts, shorts, socks etc for tennis cause love the experience of not wearing the same combo twice if i can help it as getting dressed up for tennis is part of the whole experience maybe that all fits with the above not sure LOL
My car is turning into scrap metal right now 😩I have to deal with it.
@@InternetLiJo yes its work doing the next car thing but after its worth it 🚀
This is so accurate
How am I dealing with Se? Barely. Always.
I feel that Simone lol
Internet bunny, looking for the golden carrot..but it leads to more possibilities, and deeper digging.
Shooketh, shooketh, shooketh...
What happened to video and audio quality?
Ahhhh lol I was waiting for someone to notice. I tried recording through OBS because I used it for another video and it said it recorded 1080 but the quality of the footage says otherwise 😡
@@InternetLiJo oh lol that's obvious lijo, OBS does not record videos and audios in near to lossless content like others do. Or maybe you need to setup 1080p output in the settings, I had that problem a while ago for my streaming as well.
I was so pissed lol. I’m recording again tonight and won’t be making the same mistake
@@InternetLiJo Yeah don't worry about it, all that matters is content and that was perfect so good work, I was just curious since I am always a fan of the quality of your videos and was caught off-guard in this one so I asked.
which function is your strongest one ...?
Ne(ignoring) or Se(Inferior) ....
I have more access to Se so, Se :)
@@InternetLiJo actually ... INTJ have stronger unconscious Ne than Se ..
Look how you discuss metaphysical concepts in this CZcams channel ...
@@piyush4left yes but that is Ni at work since they are concluding to a defined point/understanding
I will say that Ne is more natural to deal with and manipulate versus Se simply because it’s abstract. However my actual use of it is limited because I have enough of Ni to go around.
@@InternetLiJo no ... You are limiting your mind with limited model ...
In actuality ...
Ni interface with Ne in the background ...(selection of optimal abstraction) : there is no Ni without Ne ...
Like Si interface with Se in the background (selection of optimal sensation)..
While Ni works in the opposite direction from Se ...
And Si works in the opposite direction from Ne...
Take INTP for example ...
Intp have dominant Ti ...
Which means ...they interpret Te data points in to cohesive internal logical model ... While they try to suppress their Fe in order to enjoy objectivity ...
Typology is not as linear as people thinks
So essentially, Ne users are window shoppers.
This didn't resonate with me (ESTP) at all. I'll spend as much time as needed to acquire something, and I don't want 5 backpacks. Maybe I'm just cheap, though I think it's Ti parent creating perfectionism. I'm much more inclined to consume information/knowledge and experiences over material goods. Just too much crap to manage.
It's an example of Se doms or aux are more inclined to get experiences or things in the real World.
@@coonieliabsiax3 SJs are far more into their stuff and materialistic status from my experience.
I think INTJs are one of the least judgmental types
I think it's because we have utterly low expectations for everyone lol.
I think that's ENTP actually
OK I lost you, so many time's in this video
Are you people really going to take advice about the difference between Se and Ne from an INTJ who uses Ni and hardly ever uses Se? Ni users don't know what all Ne users do. Sorry but I know a lot of ENFPs who love to shop and will buy multiple backpacks that are different like a Mickey Mouse pumpkin backpack and a Captain America backbpack because their vice is depravity. Anyone with Fi as their second function or Fe as their third function enjoy buying things. An ENFP female will buy Minnie Mouse ears at Disneyland and say she is a mouse because she loves to live in fantasy land due to Ne. ESFPs will buy things that are popular or colorful like all ESFPs love bright colors - probably because they have such a bright cheerful personality. ESTPs and ENTPs love to shop as well.
By the way, I gave this video a thumbs down because it is inaccurate. Ne and Se users love to shop when they have Fi as their auxillary or Fe as a child function. Ne has nothing to do with not acquiring things it has to do with expanding on ideas and looking at the world thru imagination that is how it is different from Se. My niece is an ENFP who calls people unicorns and she loves to shop because depravity is the vice of an ENFP.
Sorry but I would rather listen to CS Joseph who is an ENTP and thus uses Ne. He knows ENFPs are out to acquire things while at the same time expanding on ideas.
Sure! However what's important to look at with type isn't the action, but it's the cognitive process behind the action. That's what I try to illustrate with my videos.