Dating Abuse - If You Cared

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2014
  • Brent thinks he's a pretty normal high school student. But when his friend confronts him about getting abusive with his girlfriend, he's forced to take a closer look at himself.
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Komentáře • 889

  • @myieshacuthbert9827
    @myieshacuthbert9827 Před 7 lety +662

    the dad is like TELL ME WHY YOUR MISSING CLASSES!
    BECAUSE
    NO I DON'T CARE

    • @Aaron-zd1ws
      @Aaron-zd1ws Před 5 lety +11

      how do u tell your son to go home instead of driving him?

    • @heluvshanaa4279
      @heluvshanaa4279 Před 5 lety +29

      Myiesha Cuthbert my mom be like:TELL ME WHY
      me:becaus-
      My mom-BE QUIET AND TELL ME WHY
      me:it’s cau-
      my mom: WHO GAVE U PERMISSION TO SPEAJ

    • @skytheweirdnuggetp3245
      @skytheweirdnuggetp3245 Před 5 lety +2

      Baddie Alisha ikr it’s LIKE WELL IF YOU WANT ME TO SPEAK OR THE TRUTH LIKE ME SPEAK DAM NOW HUSH
      mom: I-
      Me: AH HEY IM SPEAKING
      Mom: Wh-
      Me: LET ME SPEAK SO U KNOW THE TRUTH jeez woman

    • @heluvshanaa4279
      @heluvshanaa4279 Před 5 lety

      Sky Z if I say that I’d get killed imao 😂

    • @skytheweirdnuggetp3245
      @skytheweirdnuggetp3245 Před 5 lety

      Baddie Alisha ikr If I did I wouldn’t being commenting to u LOL my mama is a Mexican crazy mom

  • @maneehentua6407
    @maneehentua6407 Před 7 lety +519

    If she doesn't want to then she doesn't have too

    • @dedsecwewillgiveyouthetrut4676
      @dedsecwewillgiveyouthetrut4676 Před 6 lety +10

      And if he doesn't want to he doesn't have to eather just saying

    • @braydenscott4865
      @braydenscott4865 Před 6 lety +2

      Manee Hentua that was the point

    • @llamaclouds
      @llamaclouds Před 6 lety +1

      Manee Hentua yeah I agree

    • @syeanmilan6393
      @syeanmilan6393 Před 6 lety +1

      Manee Hentua ya know I kinda wonder dose she actually even like him she acts like she dosent

    • @ujustgotspooked6933
      @ujustgotspooked6933 Před 6 lety +2

      I know right it’s not cool. It’s her plans it’s her life she can do whatever she wants

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 Před 8 lety +666

    The dad has no chill lmao.

    • @lodiefourie
      @lodiefourie Před 5 lety +7

      Sophie Louise he is cute but he has no chill

    • @somechannel1536
      @somechannel1536 Před 5 lety +2

      He looks like that person called Shawn liksis

    • @lildurk3004
      @lildurk3004 Před 4 lety +2

      My dad be pissed too what u mean? From this day i be on top of everything. How about he stays in them books not them cheeks 📚 lol😂😂😂😂

  • @morganleonlongato1992
    @morganleonlongato1992 Před 6 lety +523

    Oh my God his dad looks younger than his son

  • @midacolin73
    @midacolin73 Před 8 lety +1021

    the black guy is cute and he is right about not touching a girl like that he's smart

    • @siansmith1859
      @siansmith1859 Před 6 lety +10

      Jacquees For Life so true

    • @Suhzi
      @Suhzi Před 6 lety +22

      You shouldn't touch anyone like that.

    • @whitneypainter1165
      @whitneypainter1165 Před 6 lety +13

      Its just wrong to hurt a girl or a boy

    • @user-ix2ln1nu3i
      @user-ix2ln1nu3i Před 6 lety +2

      Yeah true

    • @nicole-ql9tr
      @nicole-ql9tr Před 6 lety +3

      Phanic!AtTheFallØutLøwHørizønPiløts • you have a littttttt name thing for CZcams😂😂😂

  • @xkeashascorner4740
    @xkeashascorner4740 Před 8 lety +560

    Well at least it friend knows how to treat a girl

  • @penguinalliance1261
    @penguinalliance1261 Před 8 lety +587

    Read his shirt 😂 If you're the doctor, then fix yourself, dude....

  • @vbaby7562
    @vbaby7562 Před 6 lety +460

    Cutie: you should never grab a girl like that
    Boy: mind ya business im walkin
    Cutie: Good u need the exercise anyway(speeds off)

  • @itsmechris2615
    @itsmechris2615 Před 8 lety +102

    The acting😔

  • @ayanabdul4428
    @ayanabdul4428 Před 8 lety +42

    he has no right to pull her arm

  • @jaleiarogers7584
    @jaleiarogers7584 Před 8 lety +284

    Gibby

  • @ashleysedano9869
    @ashleysedano9869 Před 8 lety +742

    that boy looked like drake for a moment lol

  • @thatonegirlwiththenosepier7761

    His friend is a really good friend.. also he is super hot.

  • @vic9372
    @vic9372 Před 7 lety +95

    I can't take this seriously he has that "trust me I'm a doctor shirt on" wtf

  • @brynnapyle5779
    @brynnapyle5779 Před 5 lety +21

    My friends(also used to be friends with my ex/abuser) were really supportive in my recovery but only one said anything to him when he hurt me and I am so thankful for that friend

  • @angelinag9074
    @angelinag9074 Před 8 lety +1285

    Anyone else think the black kid and the dad was attractive ? 🙃

  • @TaylorUmongusHas
    @TaylorUmongusHas Před 8 lety +84

    1:07 so his dad is just taking him home early?

  • @sannaarmy3499
    @sannaarmy3499 Před 8 lety +30

    The guys shirt said "Trust Me, I'm A Doctor" XD

  • @c.amigomez
    @c.amigomez Před 8 lety +140

    I would've slapped him😂

    • @lauren8369
      @lauren8369 Před 6 lety +1

      Me too bro me too

    • @austinbaird914
      @austinbaird914 Před 6 lety +2

      I would have kick him where it -hurts-

    • @connorallgood0922
      @connorallgood0922 Před 5 lety +3

      SO IT'S ALRIGHT TO HIT BOYS BUT NOT ALRIGHT TO HIT GIRLS JUST BECAUSE OF GENDER. HOW SEXIST

    • @connorallgood0922
      @connorallgood0922 Před 5 lety +3

      @@austinbaird914 I would have kicked her back if she would of kicked me

    • @austinbaird914
      @austinbaird914 Před 5 lety +2

      @@connorallgood0922 im not saying its aright to hurt a boy Because its really no cool if a boyfriend/girlfriend hits there love they desvere to get hurt >:3 and sent to jail for abuse

  • @torichannel9511
    @torichannel9511 Před 7 lety +552

    The only rule is boys don't abbusive girls and girls don't abbusive boys there simple

  • @ginasantos9013
    @ginasantos9013 Před 8 lety +35

    I just got in 6th grade and this is the time I look at my future.like 16 I can drive and get a job and then basically can buy whatever I want with my cash,2 years later I am 18 and can move away off to college then I remember what my parents did for me.

  • @hailey4real989
    @hailey4real989 Před 8 lety +22

    It is not the best feeling to go through find someone to help

  • @lanario8199
    @lanario8199 Před 5 lety +12

    The most ironic thing is that his shirt says “trust me I’m a doctor” 🤣

  • @galaxycat7039
    @galaxycat7039 Před 4 lety +3

    His friend is high-key attractive, like I just want a friend like that

  • @brunogaming2066
    @brunogaming2066 Před 8 lety +158

    The dad looks like Shane Dawson anyone else thinks?

  • @bellamurguia310
    @bellamurguia310 Před 5 lety +15

    Never treat a girl like that?
    Why does he say specifically a girl? You dont treat ANYONE like that

  • @victoriawilliams7800
    @victoriawilliams7800 Před 7 lety +10

    once one person is treated wrong the other person feel that the way you have to treat others

  • @sadiegacha5474
    @sadiegacha5474 Před 4 lety +12

    Brent is learning from his dad. His dad is somewhat abusing Brent and Brent is taking that action and using it on his girlfriend

  • @Namelocked_
    @Namelocked_ Před 6 lety +1

    I don’t think people would’ve gotten the message without that end scene

  • @BlaizedAsh
    @BlaizedAsh Před 5 lety +26

    Don’t worry
    we can trust him
    He is a doctor after all

  • @gaming_sarah2375
    @gaming_sarah2375 Před 6 lety +5

    «You should never treat a GIRL like that» more like «you should never treat ANYBODY like that»

  • @thatonegirlwiththenosepier7761

    Trust me, I'm a Doctor.. Is that a Doctor Who shirt??

  • @rukiakuchiki6187
    @rukiakuchiki6187 Před 4 lety +10

    I was in a toxic relationship I'm so glad I ended it

  • @moirascanlan-sau3445
    @moirascanlan-sau3445 Před 8 lety +23

    THATS SO SAD

  • @OKInc
    @OKInc  Před 5 lety

    Hey CZcams! Just wanted to let everyone know that we recently put the song from the video, called "Lay It Down", on iTunes, Spotify, Google Play, etc. Here's the iTunes link: itunes.apple.com/us/album/lay-it-down/1029981087?i=1029981708

  • @melissajesse
    @melissajesse Před 8 lety +12

    at the end, the advice thing reffered to the abuser as a he. as if there couldn't have been anyone from a different gender abusing their s/o. other than that I love this film and it was really well done

  • @padfoot1934
    @padfoot1934 Před 8 lety +123

    you never treat a girl like that um........ you dont teat anyone like that . im a girl and it sound like he is saying girls are to fragle . im a girl and if i hit you in the arm it be broken.

    • @braydenscott4865
      @braydenscott4865 Před 6 lety +1

      Padfoot your right it just depends on the person

    • @softball0833
      @softball0833 Před 6 lety +1

      Padfoot I agree if someone grabbed my arm there arm would be on the ground 😂

    • @youth7889
      @youth7889 Před 6 lety +1

      softball juma I’m Much “Stronger” Than My “Gender.”
      (I’m Trans.) I’m A Mans Strength Lmfao. XDDDD

    • @Nuke223
      @Nuke223 Před 5 lety +1

      Stfu girl

    • @swif.
      @swif. Před 5 lety +2

      Your grammar is more terrible than Hitler's death... yikes

  • @fredi.lousia4360
    @fredi.lousia4360 Před 6 lety +103

    His dad is way cuter than his son 😂

  • @sauronikov9254
    @sauronikov9254 Před 6 lety +6

    what kind of ending is that?
    " hey can we talk?
    " yeah sure.
    THE END

  • @daisywood3057
    @daisywood3057 Před 6 lety +16

    The kid with the necklace around his neck and the dad were cute 💙

  • @ssniperkat6835
    @ssniperkat6835 Před 8 lety +39

    See.. Men always scream and make it worse if the dad had a daughter and he yelled at her like that she would have listened and said sorry. Smh

    • @ssniperkat6835
      @ssniperkat6835 Před 8 lety +2

      ThatHoodieGirl07 im sorry for that but i didnt mean it in that way.. i meant that boys never listen and men only make things worse thats why ppl are against violence towards girls and glossing over boys'

    • @meganaspielmann7298
      @meganaspielmann7298 Před 8 lety +2

      +ThatHoodieGirl07 my dad did that to
      he left us last year I was 11 at the time
      he told me I was trash and a waste of a life that I was a mistake and shouldn't be alive
      I agree with you
      yelling doesn't make someone a better person and people need to understand that

    • @erstshai
      @erstshai Před 8 lety +14

      +Jenny Cat it's not only boys, females do that.

    • @ssniperkat6835
      @ssniperkat6835 Před 8 lety +9

      i think im gonna delete my comment later cuz of the all disagreements i got lol
      ~that was my opinion and point of view in it~

    • @autumn1895
      @autumn1895 Před 6 lety +1

      Jenny Cat that isn't true, not all people are like that

  • @s.nnightcore2620
    @s.nnightcore2620 Před 6 lety +2

    The dad looks more like the son than the son himself 😂😂

  • @UnikaNina321
    @UnikaNina321 Před 8 lety +379

    But like the dad is hot

  • @deadpooluchiha6666
    @deadpooluchiha6666 Před 9 lety +5

    look at the kids in the car at 1:29

  • @abeldelgado1051
    @abeldelgado1051 Před 8 lety +236

    Boy,s aren't supposed to grab grils

  • @GregBroadbent
    @GregBroadbent Před 9 lety +15

    Nice editing job and good work with the script.

  • @Whats_the_matter_sydney
    @Whats_the_matter_sydney Před 5 lety +2

    did anyone see his shirt say : TRUST ME , IM A DOCTER !
    LITTLE BOY IF YOU WHERE ANYTHING LIKE A DOCTER THEN YOUD KNOW GRABBING HER LIKE THAT HURTS HER !!

  • @Gingerinthewild333
    @Gingerinthewild333 Před 6 lety +2

    "What is the meaning of you missing two assignments?No go home"

  • @freedomrichards4837
    @freedomrichards4837 Před 4 lety +5

    I love how they film almost all their videos in the same school:)

  • @Riddimsofcreation
    @Riddimsofcreation Před 7 lety +14

    Lol the dad is a punk

  • @livdog9581
    @livdog9581 Před 5 lety +3

    *DONT YOU WALK OUTTA THIS HOUSE*
    Brent:Watch me father

  • @vanessanguyen5103
    @vanessanguyen5103 Před 5 lety +3

    I loved how his dad’s voice when it echoed in the hall way when he was yelling at him

  • @casandrafery549
    @casandrafery549 Před 8 lety +92

    I thought it said national donald Trump hotline for a split second

  • @Fairygirllivvy
    @Fairygirllivvy Před 6 lety +9

    I had a boyfriend for three years and he never did that

  • @itskona
    @itskona Před 4 lety +5

    “You missed 2 assignments” bruh I missed 14 and I’m honor roll

  • @stanley2valid961
    @stanley2valid961 Před 4 lety +4

    Why is the abusive boyfriend look like Gibby from ICarly 😂😂😂😂

  • @annapreston3555
    @annapreston3555 Před 5 lety +3

    That guys black friend is soo cute and much nicer, creds to him❤☺

  • @bobabubbletea7141
    @bobabubbletea7141 Před 4 lety +11

    The black guy is so freaking cute and such a sweetie poo oh my gosh.

  • @chunkycowgirlyeehaw7097
    @chunkycowgirlyeehaw7097 Před 6 lety +9

    You know the guy who said never treat a girl like that ? You know him he was awesome!😃

  • @looneytunes5590
    @looneytunes5590 Před 6 lety +3

    The father looked like an actor 😍

  • @cxsanity
    @cxsanity Před 4 lety +2

    They always saying "what" as if they can't hear them🤣🤣

  • @davidpurins1751
    @davidpurins1751 Před 10 lety +9

    Excellent Job!

  • @Ris_xanny
    @Ris_xanny Před 4 lety +3

    (Classic parent move)
    That ask you a question but when you try to answer they like *shut up did I ask*

  • @coconut2380
    @coconut2380 Před 6 lety +7

    His dad looks a little young to be a dad

  • @janephyllis5224
    @janephyllis5224 Před 5 lety +1

    *dad asked him questions about missing homework*
    Kid: tries to answer
    Dad: NO STOP TALKING

  • @jelinagutierrez9598
    @jelinagutierrez9598 Před 6 lety +1

    " I'm tired of your attitude "
    *Proceeds to tell to come back here*

  • @s.larissa8923
    @s.larissa8923 Před 3 lety

    idk why i like these videos lmao

  • @FrOsTEnVy
    @FrOsTEnVy Před 5 lety +3

    Whene he said “No I’m leaving.” I died laughing

  • @wolfgirlzfoxsykitten3263
    @wolfgirlzfoxsykitten3263 Před 8 lety +55

    I agree People should not you sex with abuse it is realy bad I feel sad 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭

  • @nedeshcacarmona1848
    @nedeshcacarmona1848 Před 6 lety +4

    His dad is so handsome oh my God😍😍😍😍

  • @miyah6620
    @miyah6620 Před 5 lety +2

    *I'm leavin!* "don't you leave here get back here rn!!! *NO IM LEAVIN!!!!* lmao

  • @user-pn4pp8hu2u
    @user-pn4pp8hu2u Před 6 lety +8

    Shane Dawson is that you 😂

  • @bellajoy107
    @bellajoy107 Před 5 lety +3

    “TRUST ME
    I’M A DOCTOR”

  • @kalebkalvig4700
    @kalebkalvig4700 Před 5 lety +2

    1:11 that shoulder through tho

  • @kaylachiasson9770
    @kaylachiasson9770 Před 4 lety +3

    She should of invited him to the concert I actually feel really bad for him he has a really harsh dad😞😞😞😞

  • @lizgarcia1047
    @lizgarcia1047 Před 6 lety +1

    i h`ate this its so mean UGHHH IT MADE ME CRYYYYYY >:(

  • @jadenkarr
    @jadenkarr Před 9 lety +6

    He's out of dress code! Lol just kidding

  • @judyday5749
    @judyday5749 Před 4 lety

    you need to make them longer or make a part two

  • @jakobserwatka175
    @jakobserwatka175 Před 5 lety +11

    Dad: What’s the meaning of this that you missed two assignments
    Son: Well it was-
    Dad: STOP! i don’t even wanna talk about it
    FUNNY AF

    • @iamhalan866
      @iamhalan866 Před 3 lety

      Clearly the dad wanted to talk ab it because he called him over. (Toxic much).

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 Před rokem

      Jordan Davis 19 Was The of it

  • @jaderuri6329
    @jaderuri6329 Před 6 lety

    AMAZING MOVIE

  • @salvulcono8410
    @salvulcono8410 Před 5 lety +2

    Tbh the dad is a pretty good actor 😂

  • @tiffanynathasingh3566
    @tiffanynathasingh3566 Před 4 lety +1

    I know this all my life what's it like to be treated good by anyone?

  • @jspurs22
    @jspurs22 Před 3 lety +1

    His dad gave him the time-out corner lol

  • @vivianlunsway2095
    @vivianlunsway2095 Před 4 lety +2

    This is some great acting😂

  • @kks2167
    @kks2167 Před 5 lety +3

    The dad seems like the kind to abuse his son. Maybe that's where he gets it from

  • @bibisantanabibi262
    @bibisantanabibi262 Před 6 lety +1

    Thanks for the vids now I can handle abusive and be at talk to them again thanks 🙂

  • @taylorpatisaul1271
    @taylorpatisaul1271 Před 6 lety

    This was very good acted out!

  • @throwawaylmao7150
    @throwawaylmao7150 Před 5 lety +1

    This high schooler looking guy knows how to drive a manual transmission 2:37

  • @vinn9579
    @vinn9579 Před 6 lety

    Amazing vid

  • @blake310_6
    @blake310_6 Před 6 lety

    I'm loving this acting

  • @mrsupercheap
    @mrsupercheap Před 4 lety +3

    1:03 we need more parents like this

  • @shantelllittle7435
    @shantelllittle7435 Před 4 lety +8

    His shirt says “trust me I’m a doctor”
    Must be talking about the shirt not the boy wearing it 😂

  • @bonniewithane8974
    @bonniewithane8974 Před 5 lety +1

    1:12 walkes like something wrong with his legs

  • @maribethmcglynn5304
    @maribethmcglynn5304 Před 10 lety +4

    Great job seniors of 2014.

  • @jakefanslau9360
    @jakefanslau9360 Před 5 lety

    His friend is really patient and nice

  • @spoon3776
    @spoon3776 Před 6 lety +1

    That guy was so nice and tried protecting the girl

  • @alexaiello9577
    @alexaiello9577 Před rokem +2

    “I said get back here!!!”
    “I’m leaving!!!”
    “Don’t you walk out of this house!!!”
    “I’m sick of this!!!”
    “I’m tired of your attitude get back here right now!!!”
    Me: Bite Me!!!

  • @roseschannel20901
    @roseschannel20901 Před 6 lety +1

    I use to be in a controlling/abusive relationship but didn't wanna leave him cuz I loved him

  • @kaseyannison970
    @kaseyannison970 Před 5 lety +3

    2:52 I was expecting him to break into a song

  • @jaderuri3356
    @jaderuri3356 Před 6 lety

    AMAZING STORY