This Man Was Mistreating His Girlfriend. You Won't Believe How These People Reacted

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2019
  • Would you help a woman being mistreated?
    I decided to conduct a social experiment seeing how people would react if they saw a man verbally mistreat his girlfriend in public. The results were shocking!
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  • @phalenlen7685
    @phalenlen7685 Před 4 lety +5725

    "You don't treat women like that. Are you a man or you're still a little kid"
    Oh man. This got me. 😍

    • @ailisfaleiro3963
      @ailisfaleiro3963 Před 4 lety +142

      That was so cool. He was attractive but I think his actions made him more attractive

    • @jdan9849
      @jdan9849 Před 4 lety +22

      Facts

    • @jdan9849
      @jdan9849 Před 4 lety +23

      Like I feel bad for the girl

    • @dragongirl123
      @dragongirl123 Před 4 lety +7

      Ikr? He was so sweet.

    • @carlyc2819
      @carlyc2819 Před 4 lety +8

      Yea and the first guy they were amazing!

  • @shadower2763
    @shadower2763 Před 3 lety +3375

    “Are u a man? Or you’re still a little kid?”
    Petition for this guy to become a motivational speaker

  • @Kiwi--nk6dq
    @Kiwi--nk6dq Před rokem +533

    Wow the first guy, you know he’s been raised right! Such a wonderful soul. I could feel the empathy and calmness he exudes..

    • @dirkauditore8413
      @dirkauditore8413 Před rokem +3

      🤢

    • @anshunath3290
      @anshunath3290 Před rokem +13

      If it was the girl hitting and yelling at the man, I am sure he wouldn't have batted an eye.

    • @Blackshadow164
      @Blackshadow164 Před rokem

      @@anshunath3290yeah, Simp

    • @GCKelloch
      @GCKelloch Před 11 měsíci +1

      How do you it has tondo with his parents? Maybe he is that way in spite of his childhood.

  • @nadyssb
    @nadyssb Před rokem +117

    As a woman who was being abused and screamed at in public by my ex, I would have loved if someone reacted.
    ❤️ God bless those people.

    • @micklyons8858
      @micklyons8858 Před rokem

      You probably thought he was hot and stuck around for the sex, I have no pity.

    • @RLamarre1
      @RLamarre1 Před rokem +4

      Build strength to leave on your own. Don't depend on anyone especially a Man to come to your aid in 2023. Blame feminism.

  • @definitelynotbrain
    @definitelynotbrain Před 4 lety +6260

    “You don’t treat women like that.” He’s damn right.

  • @roro5939
    @roro5939 Před 4 lety +3667

    *Sorry but can I marry that first guy.....his personality is outstanding !!!!*

  • @ivastoyan1543
    @ivastoyan1543 Před rokem +228

    Crying while watching it... Nobody ever said a word when he is treating me like that... MAD RESPECT FOR THESE PEOPLE WHO TRY HELPING HER!!!

    • @itsjhitnotjit6292
      @itsjhitnotjit6292 Před rokem +4

      🧢 🤡

    • @JDogVids
      @JDogVids Před rokem +11

      @ITSJHITNOTJIT you're the only clown here ✔️

    • @KittyKat8946
      @KittyKat8946 Před rokem

      Same. Not even my neighbours or in-law family said or did anything when my ex would talk to me and my son like that in front of them. One of his first cousins figured she wanted my husband so she let him know and they were cheating on me for years. Their mothers are sisters and are ok with them and their relationship, for real. Needless to say I ended the marriage when I learned of the cheating and have cut the ex and his whole sick and twisted family out of my life.

    • @RK-nq3fj
      @RK-nq3fj Před rokem

      @@KittyKat8946 omg - so sorry to hear about yours and @ivastoyan1543's abuse. Glad you were able to get out.

    • @kayemartin-bowers8348
      @kayemartin-bowers8348 Před rokem

      No one ever stood up for me when I was verbally or physically abused- there were times that his friends were present. I had already been taken away from my family and alienated from my friends. Thank goodness that part of my life is over. It makes me relieved to see that things have changed for women today!!! BTW, I've stood up for young women being abused by their boyfriend/husband a few times in public, even with my PTSD!

  • @Nimue56
    @Nimue56 Před rokem +105

    It's so refreshing to see people defending others thinking they're in danger. That's what we need to do. Help each other. Thank you Matt for sharing these with us.

    • @akshay9602
      @akshay9602 Před rokem

      Reverse the genders and nobody is going to help the man. Forget about helping, they will say "the man might have done something, so he deserves it" Nobody believes men in these types of cases, men are guilty by default in the eyes of the society.

    • @justinkanicki2761
      @justinkanicki2761 Před rokem +3

      Not minding your own business and situations like this can get you shot and stabbed

    • @dennisperkins4784
      @dennisperkins4784 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Keep the faith n honor jesus christ hes coming soon .repent n love people

  • @nikkoxshocker6239
    @nikkoxshocker6239 Před 4 lety +2629

    The black guy didn't even hesitate

  • @walkingingrace3112
    @walkingingrace3112 Před 4 lety +9365

    The first guy is a keeper he was so quick like wow

  • @mynaturelife1111
    @mynaturelife1111 Před 2 lety +8

    First guy is definition of a good man, & the man who got rid of the abuser👏👏 & the brave timid woman with ptsd💔

  • @ronvanhoose2130
    @ronvanhoose2130 Před rokem +6

    This woman stood up against overwhelming odds and faced her fears and that's a hero

  • @summonthedemons
    @summonthedemons Před 4 lety +25588

    The first guy reacted faster than my internet

  • @shanikamyers2897
    @shanikamyers2897 Před 4 lety +3314

    You should do this with a Black woman. I want to see if men are protective of us in the same manner....I will watch to see how everyone reacts when a male is the victim

    • @MattTV7
      @MattTV7  Před 4 lety +418

      I will do that sometime this summer. Thanks for the suggestion.

    • @yourmum1963
      @yourmum1963 Před 3 lety +82

      Yes they should also do a white male and black male

    • @betsyyvonne3710
      @betsyyvonne3710 Před 3 lety +32

      U just spoke my mind bro

    • @bitchimacat1098
      @bitchimacat1098 Před 3 lety +9

      Betsy Yvonne LoL Sam e

    • @sonajose5081
      @sonajose5081 Před 3 lety +11

      Tht would be great❤

  • @AriannaWhitacre
    @AriannaWhitacre Před rokem +109

    I was emotionally and verbally abused and even though it’s been two years since it happened and I’m no longer with them it still is tough. I’m glad they are raising awareness about this

    • @uncomfortabletruths7990
      @uncomfortabletruths7990 Před rokem

      Dude stfu, no u werent, u were just told to take accountability for ur actions but u didnt, grow the f up single mother

    • @cuprunnethover2509
      @cuprunnethover2509 Před rokem +5

      I am so sorry you were abused. You did not deserve to be treated like that. You are a really good person with a good heart! You are really smart. You have a great future ahead of you! You are so special. I pray that God will heal you. God loves you. I love you too! Be Blessed!

    • @IBroLLyISePhIrOtH
      @IBroLLyISePhIrOtH Před rokem +1

      Weak!

  • @amandavanwyk5661
    @amandavanwyk5661 Před 2 lety +18

    Absolutely restores my faith in humanity when I watch this. Xx

  • @chevaughnchambers6288
    @chevaughnchambers6288 Před 3 lety +3434

    The first guy was quick can see he's a good guy

    • @susannahhoffs860
      @susannahhoffs860 Před 3 lety +25

      Aren’t they ALL good guys? 🤔

    • @drafusjokelol1335
      @drafusjokelol1335 Před 3 lety +26

      @@susannahhoffs860 he means as in you can see really quick that he was a good guy

    • @spicedogz4438
      @spicedogz4438 Před 3 lety +9

      Oh yeah for sure

    • @airploxdd9237
      @airploxdd9237 Před 3 lety +7

      @@susannahhoffs860 yeah but he hes even gooder

    • @spicedogz4438
      @spicedogz4438 Před 3 lety +10

      @@airploxdd9237 Gooder, bruh 😂😂😂😂😂. It’s more good or better

  • @jean-pierreuwimana342
    @jean-pierreuwimana342 Před 4 lety +2381

    THE FIRST GUY HIS THE MAN ✊✊✊🔥✊✊

    • @bbqsauce875
      @bbqsauce875 Před 4 lety

      C un comedie c un acteur

    • @justcryptical
      @justcryptical Před 4 lety

      Viettro Emanuel j’ai Aussi pensé sa

    • @bbqsauce875
      @bbqsauce875 Před 4 lety

      @@justcryptical t ou mon ami?

    • @evangelinesixta2969
      @evangelinesixta2969 Před 4 lety +17

      I was so surprised that the first guy didn't even hesitate
      Me: You're my man
      also me: I'll find you hahaha! 😂

    • @nocaca4599
      @nocaca4599 Před 4 lety +1

      REEEEEEEE

  • @lynnmorley9094
    @lynnmorley9094 Před rokem +24

    It's so about time that people are making videos to show what's really going on in the world with abuse and women!! Thank you for these videos

  • @Kayleigh169
    @Kayleigh169 Před rokem +4

    That first guy is amazing he reacted so quickly and was genuinely concerned about the girl

  • @unknownuser-ke8pr
    @unknownuser-ke8pr Před 3 lety +2193

    the first dude though, he was on it, not even hesitant, thats a keeper

    • @leslieanna6308
      @leslieanna6308 Před 3 lety +21

      Why do I get the feeling that these are all staged? 🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

    • @unknownuser-ke8pr
      @unknownuser-ke8pr Před 3 lety +2

      Leslie Anna uh maybe

    • @markhunt7080
      @markhunt7080 Před 3 lety

      Leslie Anna um . . .

    • @forever.meimei
      @forever.meimei Před 3 lety +1

      Leslie Anna nah, that’s just a man that knows that who she’s texting is none of his business and he shouldn’t raise his voice to her like that.

    • @ashleyhamilton2300
      @ashleyhamilton2300 Před 3 lety

      Agree

  • @d.7416
    @d.7416 Před 4 lety +4518

    The last woman is extremely brave. You clearly see how very scared and retraumatized she was, she clearly experienced it herself as a victim and yet she chose to stand up and help. Wow, just wow!

    • @emilyt6811
      @emilyt6811 Před 3 lety +33

      Deniz D. Yea I got retraumatized

    • @katrinajaramillo5495
      @katrinajaramillo5495 Před 3 lety +36

      Yeah and how every guy ask if she was okay, but the woman went through it a she knew she was not okay.

    • @aneeqshaffy7863
      @aneeqshaffy7863 Před 3 lety +3

      @@katrinajaramillo5495 itsjust an act u idiots

    • @akaliabrooks152
      @akaliabrooks152 Před 3 lety +21

      @@aneeqshaffy7863 don't call them idiots they were making a point

    • @ruslanmamedaliyev3912
      @ruslanmamedaliyev3912 Před 3 lety +13

      She did the right thing
      Because once u experience such things u shouldnt let that happen to others
      In thay way we can make society better

  • @yvonnemarie6275
    @yvonnemarie6275 Před rokem +1

    The"Take a walk" guy and then he nudged him on how to take a walk!!!! Bravo bystanders!!! 👏

  • @johnwoodward4319
    @johnwoodward4319 Před rokem +32

    Whilst I appreciate this was a social experiment, sadly this happens daily, so my utter respect and congratulations to those who decided to step in. Abuse of any description especially to a child, woman or older person is totally unacceptable.

  • @alexisalonso7714
    @alexisalonso7714 Před 4 lety +2293

    “You don’t treat women like that.” Correction, you don’t treat *anyone* like that

  • @beargregor5671
    @beargregor5671 Před 3 lety +3687

    "Are you a man or still a little kid?"... how 'bout that bruh? that guy was raised so right. Mad respect.

    • @BiggestLawSimp
      @BiggestLawSimp Před 3 lety +34

      The fact that i read this comment when he said it

    • @itzy_chaeryoung4359
      @itzy_chaeryoung4359 Před 3 lety +5

      @@BiggestLawSimp same

    • @sanchi7410
      @sanchi7410 Před 3 lety +20

      A gentleman is raised

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 Před 2 lety +21

      What I saw is just other blokes who can not mind their own buisiness and want to give her a Fck and paint themselves as some bullcrap knight in shining armour

    • @crosscountryman5642
      @crosscountryman5642 Před 2 lety +2

      @@iamasmurf1122 Yeah man our Nation is so FOS

  • @cailyncockburn4450
    @cailyncockburn4450 Před 2 lety +19

    I am so happy to see how these people react, and how they care. If only everyone was like that.

  • @naomiverdugo2180
    @naomiverdugo2180 Před rokem +4

    Boy oh boy does that bring back memories. Ladies! Ladies! Do not put up with this kind of behavior! You are so much better than this. It took me years to figure it out. I could only wish someone had come to my defense. If I ever see this going on, I am going into BIG SISTER MODE!!! Bravo to those that jumped in. Stay safe everyone.

  • @phemiaa
    @phemiaa Před 4 lety +2335

    that first guy had an immediate response. There’s still hope in this world

  • @masraxa3458
    @masraxa3458 Před 4 lety +2355

    Black people are so brave when it become defending someone who needs help.

    • @marufkibria1524
      @marufkibria1524 Před 4 lety +45

      I agree

    • @KiloMafia9
      @KiloMafia9 Před 4 lety +56

      Then why do a lot of them jump in and fight the guy who’s already fighting 3 other dudes?

    • @missionarymoses
      @missionarymoses Před 4 lety +48

      Troy Mathis let his comment be wholesome , if you wanna start a bigoted dialogue against somebody try doing it to a mans face instead of being brave on the internet.

    • @KiloMafia9
      @KiloMafia9 Před 4 lety +11

      Moses don’t say shit on the internet that you don’t want to be commented on. I’ll say it to your face too if you want to make a stupid remark. Pussy

    • @KiloMafia9
      @KiloMafia9 Před 4 lety +6

      Moses “bIgOtEd DiAlOgUe” stop crying, Noah

  • @vladaakavk370
    @vladaakavk370 Před 11 měsíci

    I was verbally abused in the street in Morocco. And 3 different young people interfered. Thank you, guys, you are real gentlemen❤

  • @lynnburton7873
    @lynnburton7873 Před rokem +3

    Thank you to everyone that stood up for her, I’ve been in her shoes, I was mentally, physically and emotionally abused for a few years, I finally got out 11 years ago and am now married to a great man that would literally kill for me or our home…..

  • @k0zuken
    @k0zuken Před 3 lety +1704

    "Dont treat Women like that"
    "Dont treat Anyone like that"
    "Dont treat the opposite Color Like that"
    Treat everyone equally. Not Mean or ...

    • @snickger
      @snickger Před 3 lety +55

      More like
      "Dont treat Women like that"
      "Dont treat Men like that"
      "Dont treat Anyone like that"
      "Dont treat the opposite color like that"
      U forgot about Men 😉

    • @k0zuken
      @k0zuken Před 3 lety +24

      @@snickger anyone is Including men tho-

    • @finnwhalen9164
      @finnwhalen9164 Před 3 lety +12

      Coffin Dance ur numb as hell

    • @k0zuken
      @k0zuken Před 3 lety +18

      @@coffindance3038 Nah bro Your very dumb...ngl George floyd was killed by a racist WHITE cop fyi and if you dont care about the George floyd death I dont care about you-even if your white cuz black lives has harder lives and gets Treated differently- so shut up and learn some history wait were in quarantine and you prob dont learn either way

    • @losermonolgue
      @losermonolgue Před 3 lety +13

      Coffin Dance Your so fucking dumb nobody is saying that white lives don’t matter yes all lives matter but black people are out there nearly getting killed everyday I love white people some are really genourous most of the time THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON TOO FUCKING LONG should we just sit there and be silenced NO WE ARE GONNA STAND UP FOR OUR RIGHTS
      Fucking run that back turbo check your self before you wreck your self

  • @sofiamondal379
    @sofiamondal379 Před 3 lety +4002

    That last woman was scared to take a stand but she still had the courage to do so BRAVO!!

    • @amberheard4147
      @amberheard4147 Před 3 lety +17

      I like jam

    • @uniriah24
      @uniriah24 Před 3 lety +15

      @@amberheard4147 ok

    • @ionareads4384
      @ionareads4384 Před 2 lety +60

      Yes I thought this too...that was so hard for her to stand up but she did!

    • @greenearthblueskies8556
      @greenearthblueskies8556 Před 2 lety +2

      @Justin Credible nope

    • @fuchsiaswing8545
      @fuchsiaswing8545 Před 2 lety +7

      The abuse is so over the top and the poor girl’s meekness so conspicuous, it would be hard not to intervene. Most emotional abuse does not happen in broad daylight in front of complete strangers like this. It's more discreet.

  • @booitis
    @booitis Před rokem +1

    All who have interviened when seeing abuse I applaud you because you did not harm the person. You spoke.. Speaking against any kind of abuse is like a intervention your not harming anyone. You bringing there attention to those that need to see it. And I thank you from a small that has been all that from men she loved and adored and believed in. Thank you for standing up to bullies

  • @shashwatsharma4420
    @shashwatsharma4420 Před 3 lety +3125

    Black guys are so sorted, they are just so respectful yet assertive.

    • @johnj.anthonymcquade6876
      @johnj.anthonymcquade6876 Před 3 lety +359

      whats colour got to do with how a man acts your wrong there on so many levels its unbelieveable

    • @lily1495
      @lily1495 Před 3 lety +177

      @ John j. anthony mcquade
      Couldn’t have said it better. Their are many and black people who have done many bad things, and their are many bad white people who have done many bad things. Their are also many good blacks people, variety of humble, or humorous, and the list goes on and same for white, and Asian, and all the other races. Color may change what you look like physically but we are still equal humans. Not like a bee hive for each culture.

    • @MD-hy9jv
      @MD-hy9jv Před 3 lety +8

      Haha nice one

    • @buddy9684
      @buddy9684 Před 3 lety +24

      gang

    • @heatherfath1043
      @heatherfath1043 Před 3 lety +8

      @@lily1495 I agree

  • @jameselazegui3006
    @jameselazegui3006 Před 4 lety +2469

    I bet the first guy would make an awsome bf to some lucky girl

  • @milesboulton9885
    @milesboulton9885 Před rokem +3

    I have deep respect for those who cared so much that they were willing to risk retaliation in order to help this lady. There are still good people all around. God bless them. Miles

  • @kennethgodden
    @kennethgodden Před rokem +4

    The people that stepped in are what we need in this world.

  • @ashleychadwick7104
    @ashleychadwick7104 Před 4 lety +5197

    I’m so glad there are still good people in the world 🌎

    • @saira_6151
      @saira_6151 Před 4 lety +25

      This should be a natural response. He was only shouting for now. I say only, because in some societies, nobody would have batted an eye if he started beating her. It would be a man's right. Nothing gets me me more than pure kindness of people. Nothing. It's just so beautiful.

    • @Simply88Sweet
      @Simply88Sweet Před 4 lety +18

      These are fake

    • @olaoluwakolade9575
      @olaoluwakolade9575 Před 4 lety +2

      @Andrew Davis that's good.

    • @patriciacarey3380
      @patriciacarey3380 Před 4 lety +4

      @@Simply88Sweet Its just an example and an experiment to see what people would do.

    • @msfgeo9983
      @msfgeo9983 Před 4 lety

      Spread positive vibes

  • @silentlyanonymous306
    @silentlyanonymous306 Před 4 lety +938

    2:42 "are you a man or you're still a little kid?"
    That speech of bit time is damn good to hear.

  • @carebearkuz
    @carebearkuz Před rokem

    Thank you for doing this video!!! I know this is 3 years old but it popped up on my phone and I just have to say those people are heros!!! I went through emotional abuse for 14 years before I woke up and realized I didn't deserve it!! It made me depressed you basically think your no good!! You believe what the abuser says about you!! After a while it makes you have no laughter no emotions except scared and sad all the time!! When I finally divorced my husband and got away from him I became strong!! I never knew I had that kind of strength in me and when I met a guy the next year it took me a long time to believe him when he would call me beautiful because I was always put down by my husband!!! Please if a woman reads this know that you don't deserve this kind of abuse!!! Even if you think it's just words and he's not physically abusing you. It's not ok!!! It will destroy you inside!! It's not worth it!!! I wish I had left sooner than I did!! Be brave!! All guys are not like that!!! I promise!!! God bless you all!!!🙏 🙏 I hope this helps someone out there!!

  • @lauriegordon5591
    @lauriegordon5591 Před 11 měsíci

    Emotional/mental verbal abuse is worse than physical abuse... Once you have undergone this horrific treatment over and over for days weeks years your self esteem gradually declines! without self esteem even the simplest things like waking up in the morning is difficult. you become withdrawn from the world.... Physical abuse heals quicker bruises go away in time.... See, I know this because I was a victim of both for years... I am happy to see people intervening it never happened with me. Many People who are abusive like to pick public places to abuse their victims it gives them a greater feeling of power... Good for those who helped and thank you.

  • @brookewicker3745
    @brookewicker3745 Před 4 lety +534

    The first guy was FIRE

    • @sciurbs5787
      @sciurbs5787 Před 4 lety +18

      Took it calmly, like he should and made the situation turn out great. Great dude.

    • @madisonmsp8541
      @madisonmsp8541 Před 4 lety +16

      He jumped in right away. Good, good man 👏

    • @n9tdapro
      @n9tdapro Před 4 lety +2

      Ikr

    • @Mannypacquia0
      @Mannypacquia0 Před 4 lety

      @@sciurbs5787 damn yeah the first guy was like instant first responder lol

  • @Sisima13
    @Sisima13 Před 4 lety +705

    The first guy is an angel, he didn’t even let the boyfriend finish his sentence before jumping in. Good bless him ❤️

  • @annmuitaimemusic6977
    @annmuitaimemusic6977 Před rokem +1

    Am proud of those people...they didn't just watch but they chose to intervene

  • @patriciaplancon8520
    @patriciaplancon8520 Před rokem

    I'm so proud that these people intervened! Thank you!

  • @HG-qo9cx
    @HG-qo9cx Před 3 lety +2845

    The girl at 3:20 was so brave. Courage means to act even when scared and that woman was the very definition of the word.

    • @koemiseina4495
      @koemiseina4495 Před 3 lety +157

      you could see how terrified she was to speak up… that speaks so much of this world :"(

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +39

      I agree. It took courage for her to accept her acting part in this video

    • @sambrutus1211
      @sambrutus1211 Před 3 lety +19

      Agreed. I feel like thats how Id be because I get she doesnt know the backstory. For all she knows the girl could be a cheater but she stood up anyway. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @goat0472
      @goat0472 Před 3 lety +2

      It's fake lmao

    • @vtsv27
      @vtsv27 Před 3 lety

      @@goat0472 the two actors are not the strangers

  • @ashleywootton9556
    @ashleywootton9556 Před 3 lety +1997

    The first guy got up in less then a second what a legend

    • @carltonjackson5402
      @carltonjackson5402 Před 3 lety +15

      İ like a man talk ıs gırl or wife Respect fuly

    • @mr.censored5.082
      @mr.censored5.082 Před 3 lety +26

      If the boyfriend was a big buff guy. I wonder if that would still be the case lol

    • @briandunmore6030
      @briandunmore6030 Před 3 lety +29

      Black men in general don't take no shit from no one!!!!!

    • @AM-gm5jg
      @AM-gm5jg Před 3 lety +2

      I'd say what a simp

    • @noahelmatti6162
      @noahelmatti6162 Před 3 lety +19

      @@AM-gm5jg Plz shut the hell up- a simp is someone who loves a women and gives a women everything she wants in order to get something romantic in return - this man was not in any way seeking romance from the young lady he was merely stopping the sexist and abusive boyfriend from doing any more harm because he knew no HUMAN BEING- male or female- should be treated like that. I never thought I would see someone actually use the word simp on a hero like this man- this man was simply showing the young lady the respect she- and any human being deserves- I hope one day you come to understand that.

  • @Tammy-st7jf
    @Tammy-st7jf Před rokem +1

    Thank u for making this and for everyone to intervened. I have been a victim of abuse. No one helped me when I needed them - but I vowed many years ago that if I ever saw any I mean any type of abuse towards someone I would be heard. Little did i know when I was 7yrs old I did and now at well 48 I am still fighting for what I believe in… 💕 one voice can make a difference 💕

    • @uncomfortabletruths7990
      @uncomfortabletruths7990 Před rokem

      tammy ur coping no one abused u, u just dont want to take accountability for ur actions, and all u do is think for ur self

    • @IBroLLyISePhIrOtH
      @IBroLLyISePhIrOtH Před rokem

      hahahaha weak :D i love being a man!

  • @michellefucile7426
    @michellefucile7426 Před rokem +2

    I love how each of them acted period ‼️ I think a lot people have ignored it but it’s time to stand up and speak your mind. All 3 asked her if she was okay and wanted to help, the last guy pushing him away from her was 💯 right‼️ Thank you 🙏🏼 for this video it’s nice to know some people still care about a stranger ❤ The human condition

  • @ElizabethIDCA
    @ElizabethIDCA Před 4 lety +1421

    She's your girlfriend, BUT SHE'S NOT YOUR PROPERTY!

  • @yureiisu
    @yureiisu Před 3 lety +1150

    "You don't treat women like that." Damn right you don't 😤

    • @skittlepugs2401
      @skittlepugs2401 Před 3 lety +47

      You shouldn’t treat anyone like that tho which is so stupid how people do that 😡

    • @buddy9684
      @buddy9684 Před 3 lety +24

      You don’t treat humans like that

    • @JayStarMoney21
      @JayStarMoney21 Před 3 lety +12

      I think, “You don’t treat people like that.” Works as well. I’d bring it down to one gender, but seeing as how many men get abused as well, it ain’t fair for people to get away with that just because guys should be able to “take it”
      i could go on a whole rant butttt yeahhh

    • @alexuwu6826
      @alexuwu6826 Před 3 lety +10

      You don't treat anyone like that. It's not just women.

    • @kasibamus
      @kasibamus Před 3 lety +1

      @CosmicRyda G so you are saying that you should treat people like that? pathetic

  • @bxbxb1_800
    @bxbxb1_800 Před rokem +1

    "you don't treat women like that." man to man
    Idk why I love love that.

  • @julie6910
    @julie6910 Před 11 měsíci

    Yes. Abuse is abuse. Praise to those who reacted and take appropriate action!!

  • @nmolina39
    @nmolina39 Před 4 lety +1990

    I have four daughters and if I was to know that there boyfriend talk to my daughters that way, I'm on a mission

    • @albertoaguiar6293
      @albertoaguiar6293 Před 4 lety +70

      I agree with you and if I see a guy beat up a girl I am going to beat that guy up so hard so he can knock the fuck out

    • @donareegorrell5186
      @donareegorrell5186 Před 4 lety +12

      Omg

    • @iamseangray
      @iamseangray Před 4 lety +27

      Alberto Aguiar would you do the same if your daughter was talking to him like that?

    • @mayajuarez3484
      @mayajuarez3484 Před 4 lety +24

      my dad literally has a gun specifically for boys and men alike.

    • @raysunshine917
      @raysunshine917 Před 4 lety +1

      Me too..

  • @illspeakfrenchbetweenyourlegs
    @illspeakfrenchbetweenyourlegs Před 3 lety +1811

    That one guy was like go take a walk & just sent the boyfriend off 😂

  • @eponz4354
    @eponz4354 Před rokem

    Great job each one of you who intervened. God Bless you all

  • @MrsOutlawCaliber
    @MrsOutlawCaliber Před rokem

    The real angels......they put themselves in danger not knowing what could happened...to try and help/save a person they did not know.....much love to all these angels around the world...

  • @cxpidmwxh1084
    @cxpidmwxh1084 Před 4 lety +722

    The first guy was a angel 😇 he was amazing kind person

    • @jocao2831
      @jocao2831 Před 4 lety +1

      An angel*, Jeez I got bored of this...

    • @deetrigga736
      @deetrigga736 Před 4 lety

      An angel or a 🦇 bat

    • @bella_ishere
      @bella_ishere Před 4 lety

      @@deetrigga736 wdym?

    • @deetrigga736
      @deetrigga736 Před 4 lety

      Aayushi Majumder angels are usually seen as light colored and a black person would be closer looking to a bat 🦇 lol just a joke, I have black friends was told this by one of them a long long time ago, we joke about my kind also

    • @bella_ishere
      @bella_ishere Před 4 lety

      @@deetrigga736 oh... It's ok, I guess

  • @hennyverheij5969
    @hennyverheij5969 Před 4 lety +842

    Only one word, to those who helped: RESPECT!

  • @rvs1021
    @rvs1021 Před rokem +5

    2:58 bro took it too far

  • @SeokjinShizun
    @SeokjinShizun Před 2 lety

    The first guy won my heart!! Such a gentlemen!! & the last women was Amazing

  • @ashlyn3820
    @ashlyn3820 Před 4 lety +1131

    “Are you a man or a little kid?”
    Me: did you hear his voice? Of course he’s a little kid

  • @sergejrsima-ella7925
    @sergejrsima-ella7925 Před 4 lety +1727

    Number of people who said « are you okay? »
    👇🏽

    • @goldenbro439
      @goldenbro439 Před 4 lety +5

      @@supdramalertnation692 dude really

    • @aproblematicdesire
      @aproblematicdesire Před 4 lety +1

      sup dramalert nation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sergejrsima-ella7925
      @sergejrsima-ella7925 Před 4 lety +3

      Bomber Bro ikr geez

    • @sergejrsima-ella7925
      @sergejrsima-ella7925 Před 4 lety +7

      sup dramalert nation shut your dumb ass up you uneducated piece of shit with no life who has no friends and has a sad life with no one to talk to. 🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽

    • @goldenbro439
      @goldenbro439 Před 4 lety +4

      @@sergejrsima-ella7925 ikr also I liked your comments

  • @WhatDayIsItTrumpDay
    @WhatDayIsItTrumpDay Před rokem +7

    This scenario hits home with me as well. My sister's first boyfriend in HS was exactly like this, but worse. He wouldn't even let her talk to other dudes in a casual way. I hated the dude. Fortunately she dumped him during her Freshman year in college. And she's happily married for 18 years now to a guy 11 years her senior. They live in Nashville and he was an Extra of sorts in the Carrie Underwood/Miranda Lambert video "Somethin' Bad" My sis worked for CMT when they met.

  • @markbrown-sb2zm
    @markbrown-sb2zm Před rokem

    So good to see,the people were all fantastic,very well done.

  • @Ken4Pyro
    @Ken4Pyro Před 3 lety +1232

    My late grandfather once told me, "Kenneth my boy, there's a time and a place for a punch in the nose."

    • @DrSigma24-7
      @DrSigma24-7 Před 3 lety +82

      Your grandfather was a wise man.

    • @cloverscarrots937
      @cloverscarrots937 Před 3 lety +38

      I love him and i hope hes dancing with the angels 😇

    • @Ken4Pyro
      @Ken4Pyro Před 3 lety +19

      @@DrSigma24-7 Thank you, I thought so as well. He also interpreted the intent of Proverbs 14:7, which reads "Go from the presence of a foolish man, when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge," which he translated to "Don't waste your time arguing with an idiot."

    • @VV3ird0
      @VV3ird0 Před 3 lety +6

      My dad says stuff like that often

    • @randomstuff6088
      @randomstuff6088 Před 3 lety +1

      @@cloverscarrots937 what if he’s not dead-

  • @kashflow1661
    @kashflow1661 Před 4 lety +286

    The first guy is Loyal but everyone else is too! 😁

  • @robertlytle5574
    @robertlytle5574 Před 2 lety +4

    My daughter would never have taken that abuse. Not only was she very proud but she also had two black belts. As for my wife, I was 36 and she was 28 when we got married. We had only been dating nine months when we got married. I would never have laid a hand on her or verbally abuse her like that. She died a year and a half ago and I miss her terribly.

  • @amandasheasby8832
    @amandasheasby8832 Před 4 lety +464

    The third guy... If that was a movie they would date in the movie

  • @ingelaimite1766
    @ingelaimite1766 Před 3 lety +1505

    The actor was so lucky that everyone tried to talk with him first, not to punch him. :)

    • @SoundofMath
      @SoundofMath Před 3 lety +61

      So when you have an argument with your girlfriend ( just verbally) , other men can directly punch you out of nowhere ? wow... what a great mentality

    • @ingelaimite1766
      @ingelaimite1766 Před 3 lety +35

      @@SoundofMath I don't have girlfriends. I prefer boyfriends. Don't you look at photo before write your comments? And yes, with my mentality I would punch you if you were sarcastic like that with me in real life.

    • @SoundofMath
      @SoundofMath Před 3 lety +6

      I don't care about your profile picture omg... it was a general " you " . And what a terrible mentality you have. Full of anger, ... and nope, in real life, you would not do anything of course, that is why you are threatening a stranger on internet

    • @tomerph
      @tomerph Před 3 lety +15

      @@SoundofMath Publicly if you talked to a Lady that way I and many orhers would punch your attentioned hostile starved mug button being the coward you are you'd yell in closed doors im sure

    • @nom6072
      @nom6072 Před 3 lety +28

      @@SoundofMath He didn't only an argument whit her, Having an argument is completly normal but He was mistreating Her and thats not ok. If You think Mistreating Is okay, Your life must be shit.

  • @jejohn665
    @jejohn665 Před rokem

    You guys stepping up like that, are Awesome! True Heroes!❤️

  • @theburningruler7279
    @theburningruler7279 Před rokem

    That first guy. Literally no hesitation whatsoever, up in half a second to tell this guy off. You sir, were raised the correct way

  • @christfollower1768
    @christfollower1768 Před rokem +1

    Returns faith back to humanity ! There ARE good people in this world !!!!!!

  • @lifewithtenja8944
    @lifewithtenja8944 Před 4 lety +1264

    The third guy "you don't treat women like that" 😍 he's amazing...the first one tho,he reacted instantly
    Edit: thanks for the likes guys 💕😭
    Follow me on my Instagram @_honeyyy.y and I'll be starting my youtube channel soon.
    💕💕💕

  • @somethingknight8710
    @somethingknight8710 Před 3 lety +409

    That first guy is so chill, "Is that how you talk to somebody?" Seems like a great guy

  • @tamikirkman-young5860

    I truly am thankful for the ones who stepped in to help ❤️❤️see something say something 👏really 🤬🤬no more 💔💔💔 PEOPLE stand up!! 💔😭😭 Enough. 🙏🙏Pray for the all the children and family members in Texas 🙏🙏

  • @tomp5331
    @tomp5331 Před 4 lety +1256

    Loved how that African American gentleman jumped right into it

    • @saira_6151
      @saira_6151 Před 4 lety +31

      IKR? Such a gentleman. That's a real man, right there.

    • @saira_6151
      @saira_6151 Před 4 lety +54

      @Dmg Control i don't think that's what the guy meant. He stood out. He just jumped up and came to her rescue. He was so kind to her. Diplomatic too. Colour doesn't matter.

    • @naasei2223
      @naasei2223 Před 4 lety +45

      @Johnny James Ferreira u know what STFU with ur racist ass

    • @hotmess2766
      @hotmess2766 Před 4 lety +13

      @Dmg Control dude you have a chip on your shoulder with all these comment about him being black & getting praised easily. The fuck is wrong with you? anybody that does good will be praised.

    • @ickygorl43
      @ickygorl43 Před 4 lety +9

      just say black lol

  • @fatimamayet5227
    @fatimamayet5227 Před 3 lety +1529

    Boyfriend: What are you wearing?
    Me: I think she is wearing something called clothes?

  • @ulrichbehnke9656
    @ulrichbehnke9656 Před rokem +2

    Ok 👍, but …….
    Just two points:
    1. You see a man scolding his girlfriend in an aggressive manner 🤬 - you come to help her - result: by 100% chance the man will get aggressive to you, yelling at you to leave them alone - when you don‘t do this - the man will push you away and finally - beat you - you call the police 👮‍♀️- the police comes and ask everyone - „who started this?“ - the man will maintain you started this - the girl will suddenly take his side and say „yes, this man attacked us“ - and finally you get a nice cell in prison! 😱
    2. Make the same video but change roles and let the woman scold and intimidate her boyfriend - what will be the result?
    Of course absolutely no one will help the boy - some will look amused - the rest will ignore the scene - in the worst case come to the side of the girl, ask her „what the man has done to her“, offer her to teach him a lesson and beat him !!!! 🤕

  • @lauramayfair7887
    @lauramayfair7887 Před rokem

    All of the people who intervened were amazing. Props to all of them.

  • @learn-2-earnn
    @learn-2-earnn Před 4 lety +690

    The black guy is a great combo of firmness and balance with politness

    • @susanatkins297
      @susanatkins297 Před 4 lety +4

      Can people just say first instead of the black man k we get hes black geez pls guys just say first guy no hating btw

    • @susanatkins297
      @susanatkins297 Před 4 lety +1

      @@cheesy5651 I understand i promise i do I'm just saying u could say fisrt too

    • @susanatkins297
      @susanatkins297 Před 4 lety

      @Antara Mandal I agree

    • @sagearoon3193
      @sagearoon3193 Před 4 lety

      I agree completely

    • @vicvic553
      @vicvic553 Před 4 lety

      I have a question, because I learn English, but no one taught me how to proper talk about people whose colour skin is opposite to white. So I feel that 'black' may be insulting, and I don't want to insult anyone. Could anyone help me with this, please?

  • @belindahuth9464
    @belindahuth9464 Před 3 lety +833

    I feel like the guy sitting against the wall should be her boyfriend

  • @peterrodby2786
    @peterrodby2786 Před rokem +6

    Once I intervened on a guy yelling and slapping his girlfriend. When I pulled the fellow aside to chat she began beating me with her purse and started screaming at me. Never get between a couple that's fighting because you'll become the enemy.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 Před rokem +1

      Facts. Sometimes it's best to stay out of it. Depending on the situation.

    • @aamaravel2493
      @aamaravel2493 Před rokem

      then you should rape the female to teach her a lesson that she'll never forget

  • @sheilaF4713
    @sheilaF4713 Před rokem +1

    I was impressed everyone intervened, even a woman who he could have physically attacked. Renews my hope in the goodness of most people.

  • @gentlerat9045
    @gentlerat9045 Před 3 lety +505

    Bless the first man. He stood straight up ohmygod..
    That’s a real man right there😔❤️

    • @ursinethemadbear6965
      @ursinethemadbear6965 Před 3 lety +2

      That is an actor. Mind you, he is an actor that helped make a video to call attention to non-physical domestic abuse, so kudos to him for that. But still just an actor.

    • @gentlerat9045
      @gentlerat9045 Před 3 lety

      @@angelrivera6587 Dont tell me what to do😙✌️

    • @unknownuser5779
      @unknownuser5779 Před 3 lety +2

      He wouldn’t have got up so quick if the guy was bigger than him.

    • @Mildlyinconvenienced
      @Mildlyinconvenienced Před 2 lety

      @@unknownuser5779 frrrr if it was some 6'4 tatted up buff dude he wouldnt do that shit lmao

    • @teddyflowers2798
      @teddyflowers2798 Před 2 lety +1

      If it was the other way around no one would say anything

  • @eh-dl2fz
    @eh-dl2fz Před 4 lety +7629

    Only 1% will read this,
    But the 1% that is reading this, you are beautiful in every single way. 🥰😁🤗
    Edit: Awww thx for all the likes! And yes everybody is beautiful 😋

  • @PeteFredrickson
    @PeteFredrickson Před rokem +3

    The thing is it often doesn't happen like this. Usually abusers are smarter than this. They don't start yelling at their partners out in public where anyone can come and intervene. They save this stuff for when they're in private with the victim, and put on a facade of being nice and charming in public so that no one is aware of it.

  • @valiaudet3415
    @valiaudet3415 Před rokem

    I'm so happy to see men reacting to a woman being mistreated.

  • @punisher6
    @punisher6 Před 3 lety +689

    I'd love to see this same idea with a tougher looking boyfriend

    • @aestheticmizo6444
      @aestheticmizo6444 Před 3 lety +33

      Good idea 😂

    • @RaiderGannon12
      @RaiderGannon12 Před 3 lety +39

      Yeah exactly, it's much easier to step in if the guy looks like a soft target, this dude looked wimpy to where he was not going to be a challenge on the physical level.

    • @mtmarrowthegamer6079
      @mtmarrowthegamer6079 Před 3 lety +6

      😂yeah

    • @muinoel3335
      @muinoel3335 Před 3 lety +11

      Just threaten to call the cops.Brawns don't mean anything in front of a gun

    • @mr.censored5.082
      @mr.censored5.082 Před 3 lety +2

      Big buff dude, it would be different for sure. Lol

  • @clienty1227
    @clienty1227 Před 4 lety +276

    "Are you a man or a little kid?" That one was awesome

  • @robinznaidi1293
    @robinznaidi1293 Před rokem

    Good for these men standing up for her !!!!

  • @Aesthetic_123
    @Aesthetic_123 Před 3 lety +418

    THE FIRST GUYS IS A LEGEND AYYYYY

    • @azandeveronica7503
      @azandeveronica7503 Před 3 lety +2

      😂😂

    • @ryanlogan9792
      @ryanlogan9792 Před 3 lety

      Americans suck at intervening

    • @user-DreamJordan
      @user-DreamJordan Před 3 lety +1

      @@ryanlogan9792 I don't know what you mean

    • @ryanlogan9792
      @ryanlogan9792 Před 3 lety +1

      Dream Jordan black people intervene way to powerful than any other American as they cheer on while African Americans break up the fight and become a hero

    • @user-DreamJordan
      @user-DreamJordan Před 3 lety

      @@ryanlogan9792 Oh ok I get it now

  • @faizankhatri1089
    @faizankhatri1089 Před 3 lety +1253

    Dislikers on this video are the ones who abuse women like that.

    • @kaleebrown3688
      @kaleebrown3688 Před 3 lety +8

      Faizan khatri so true

    • @TopHammer384
      @TopHammer384 Před 3 lety +3

      Maybe not

    • @snickger
      @snickger Před 3 lety +17

      Or womens who abuse mens like that? Not only womans are getting abused.

    • @snickger
      @snickger Před 3 lety +7

      @『Loli Moon』 Cuz they dont like video thats why they dislike it.

    • @OuterWorldMovement
      @OuterWorldMovement Před 3 lety +3

      @『Loli Moon』 because they dont want to admit that theyre abusing their partners

  • @reaper7472
    @reaper7472 Před rokem +5

    I have to say this hits home....i was physically abused for a year by my ex boyfriend..he used to beat me every day...when i tried to leave he threatened to shoot me..these were conversations on a daily. The video is very accurate. Edit: The only reason i got out the relationship is that my best friend found out about it and kept him away from me. He got put in juvie multiple times and house arrest so it was scary cause he knows where i live but im safer knowing the cops have him on house arrest. My step dad and mom watched him beat me......they did nothing for a whole year. It hurts but i still have my dad

  • @tgal164
    @tgal164 Před 11 měsíci

    My favorite was the girl at 3:20. Bashful, probably even scared/traumatized from her own experience, but she still gathered the gumption to speak up. That's true courage.

  • @diamondcookiecream2872
    @diamondcookiecream2872 Před 4 lety +461

    The one who was sitting on the floor was my fav He was so NICEEE everyone was nice :)

    • @addypierson1661
      @addypierson1661 Před 4 lety +4

      I know right he was So nice I like how he pushed the guy who was being rude away they all are really nice but the boy on the floor was my favorite treat you gf or bf like you should your dating them for a reason and that reason should be because of the personality not the looks MEN BE NICE OR I WILL STAB YOU

    • @lb6473
      @lb6473 Před 4 lety +2

      Yea, all of the people were legit awesome

    • @elaizabonaventerp9146
      @elaizabonaventerp9146 Před 4 lety

      Yeaa

    • @teacup4785
      @teacup4785 Před 3 lety +2

      And the first guy he reacted so quickly and got up

    • @demoda.7712
      @demoda.7712 Před 3 lety

      Same

  • @bubbililygacha4116
    @bubbililygacha4116 Před 3 lety +355

    "Do you want me to call the cops?"
    I want someone like thaaaaat. I'd take that any day. Personality 100/10, and that's all that matters

    • @smiringhoy4979
      @smiringhoy4979 Před 3 lety +2

      The way I look at it, dude was just trying to get in her pants.

    • @purple6242
      @purple6242 Před 3 lety +6

      @@smiringhoy4979 bro are you saying men can't be kind to women for no reason??

    • @shreyasridhar3323
      @shreyasridhar3323 Před 3 lety

      Don't wait for that "someone"..be that "someone".