Do the Germans Prefer Dafing Foreigners?
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- I asked German men and women on the streets of Munich and Cologne, Germany if they would prefer to date a German or a foreigner. Here is what they had to say.
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2:00 “I‘m not really attracted to the people from my hometown“ can relate😂
Then marry a man from another European country.
Abdul: "my time has come"
I AM ARABIC HOT BLOOD NORTH AFRICAN NO BACKING DOWN
funny how they all love spanish and latin american "culture" thinking it's all passions and etc. but when they will realize that they are going to have fiesta every day, and when you have family dinner and all of a sudden half a town shows up. they going to get tired of it very very fast.
Are you really trying to scare us off with party everyday? 😂🎉
i used "fiesta" as a metaphor for every day nagging and emotional rollercoaster latin women are famous for. you will get tired from that very fast. there will be days you will be crying to god for a peaceful day. @@Johannathan187
Not to mention being super late.
oh, come on, they go to Mallorca every summer, THEY KNOW how it works ; D
Yeah, we throw parties for no reason. If you bought a new car, if you crashed it, you name it, we will just find an excuse to celebrate. The one thing that can drive Germans insane is that we're always late, and I mean 30 minutes or more late. Family gatherings, expect 700 people and lots of food. "May the odds be in your favor"
That last man is hilarious 😂 Why worry when we face apocalypse any minute?
Yes, he was hilarious. 😂
Liked him ¡ He's a hot mature man and has traveled so he's experienced and empathic, is he free by any chance ??
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@amiquigonzales7917probably, regarding the mess he is.
That older guy is wild 😂. Latinos seem to be popular in Europe . Maybe I should leave the US 😅
YES
Overall true. However, I don't think northern Italy likes them..based off of my travel experience there
Latinas Are incredibly popular. My wife who is Mexican is always surprised about all of her countrywomen being considered hot by German men (she is really pretty herself but she sometimes tells me, about certain Mexican girls that they would never be considered guapa in Mexico whereas German men are all over them).
based off of my experience with some German men that I have met, I agree with that statement
@@IzzyChopChop I have heard from many Latinas (friends of my Mexican wife) that they feel they get way more attention from German men than in their home countries. Was quite surprised as they seemed very good looking to me but my wife also said that those wouldn’t be considered pretty in Mexico. Different countries different preferences I guess.
I´m Canadian and met my German husband in Canada. we got married 1.5 years after meeting each other. Getting to know a German on an intimate level can be challenging but when you have a Canadian who is more outgoing and open it some how works. we have been married 8 years now and I would say we still have talks about how we culturally view things differently. for example as a German being too direct can be a little hurtful or beating around the bush as a Canadian is frustrating for a German, we´ve learned to be a little of both now.
Germany's economy and medicine are 10 times better than Canada's, why did he come to you? LOL
I'm Canadian too, congrats, hopefully you got out of Canada.
Where is it better than Canada? The US perhaps @@Ed-xv4sy
it seems to be the same for all the native english speaking countries: Indirect questions that keep beating arouind the bush rather than asking directly what you wanna know.....I just broke up with my english boyfriend because he found my directness hurtful and i found his beating around the bush infuriating, its like needing a translator and when it happens every other day and turns into a big fight cos of misunderstandings, then its just not worth it...
I had a Catalan girlfriend. We were together for 5 years, but in the end the cultural differences were too great. We argued too often and it was better to break up. I was also too direct for her and she was too impulsive over every little thing. I actually wanted to date foreign people, but after this experience I prefer to stick with German women.
Marina you should do what Nordics and Baltics think of each other. I think it would be really interesting.
❤
Don’t they hate each other?
@@johnwick7583 you’re thinking of the Balkans
@@saalvosegg8171 baltics and Balkans not the same? They are different countries?
@@johnwick7583 The Balkans hate each other. The Nordic and Baltic states don’t hate each other.
I'm half German half Romanian. I didn't date so far even there were a couple chances in the past.
But the point is that in my point of view it's easier to get along with Romanians, not just when it's about relationships but in general. They're friendlier, funnier and warmer. It doesn't take long to break the ice.
In Germany it's harder I think. Not saying that every1 is bad but compared to Romania it was harder for me to get in contact with people in Munich than in Romania.
Agree 100%. I am Romanian, my ex-boyfriend was german, and for my future relationships I would rather choose somebody from my own country.
sounds like youre a bit ignorant
The girl from Isreal nailed it. Most Germans might go on dates with foreigners, it's fun to meet but they don't progress. They are not that flexible, they prefer it easy and with less risk and effort for them in the long term 👉
Except Berlin... there you get to have 5 relationships at the same time.
The last part! “5 different relationships at the same time”, tell me why that’s the tale of all big/ major cities?! LMFAO🤣
pretty sad the thing with berlin
bullshit
The girl from Israel gives strong promiscuous vibes. Most German men dont fly with that.
Reason is probably the language barrier, when they want to invite their girlfriends to meet the parents. I actually had 2 girlfriends that weren't German, I dated long term, but both were fluent in German as well. If you're living in Germany for several years and are getting fluent, the barrier shouldn't be that high anymore. Unless you live in an expat bubble or parallel society with different religion of course. Then there are other obstacles as well. That would probably explain why she actually had dates, but it never went far. People are attracted to her, but she probably is not fluent in German. That fits to what the guys also said in the video as well.
@Dating Beyond Borders - do you think you'll ever do similar street interviews for East/South East/South Asians who either grew up in western countries or naturalized in western countries? I feel like there's a big gap between Asians that are accustomed living in the west, vs Asians who grew up in Asia.
These videos have a common trait, theoretically every culture is open to date foreigners but the ideal long term partner is always from your own country because its what you know and its more easy. So all these videos look the same, the only thing that make some stand apart are interesting personal stories of the people that are interviewed, sometimes. Of course falling in love with a foreigner happens everywhere, its just life.
and yet I can't get enough of this content, bring on the anecdotes!
well said i agree!
I'm German and I've actually never been with a German man. My first boyfriend was Italian and then I just kept dating foreigners. My husband is Greek. I have 8 cousins, of whom 4 are married to a foreigner.
Half of my childhood friends is also married to a foreigner.
So from my personal experience I would say that Germans really are very open to marry a foreigner and the ideal for us is not someone from our culture, but more someone we have enough in common to be able to agree on fundamental things and enough difference to be able to learn from each other.
But maybe my experience is flawed, because I grew up in Munich, where 25% of the population are foreigners, so foreigners feel familiar to us folks from Munich. I could imagine if you grew up in Zwickau it's a bit different.
Have they done france? I wonder if the mediterranean countries would be different. Seems they only focus on baltic and scandinavian - but those countries are pretty closed to foreigners.
Rubbish. Do you think a German would be as willing to date Thai, Fililipo, or Sri Lankan, as the latter would like to date German? If so, why are Germans in interracial, mostly happen to be middle aged fat divorced men in "relationship" with Thai and Filipina girl half their age?
As a person who has been traveling to Germany for over 20 times, German folks are quite nice and friendly actually. I like polite and organized people, though not the bossy types.
as someone from germany, i think those people who say that they want only someone from germany also mean that they would date foreigners that are born and raised in germany. in germany there are plenty of people with different cultures so i don’t think they need to look for someone outside of the country when they can have a foreigner that speaks german fluently and is raised in the german culture.
I believe this is only true for people from a closely related culture like Polish or Dutch as the problems with misunderstandings and different cultures would still persist e.g. with a Muslim person born here. Of course there would be much more familiarity however at least to me this seems like opening the same can of worms of cultural and value clashes they are wanting to avoid (e.g. I just learned recently that Muslims aren't allowed to touch dogs or have them in their house which would be a deal breaker to me, though of course it depends on the person and how secular and integrated they are. But since this is about preferences I think that a preference for dating someone from Germany is primarily about dating other native Germans or people from related cultures that the people feel like they understand and are familiar with)
@@hmvollbanane1259To be fair, Muslims are a special case even by foreign standards. They generally expect you to convert to their religion before getting married. Also, no alcohol, pork, dogs etc as it's against their beliefs. Some that are not religious may be a bit more flexible.
But if you had a Hindu Indian or Chinese Buddhist, for example, with a German person there's a greater chance they will meet you in the middle.
If they are born and raised in Germany then they aren't foreign....
@@S_goldman_ i think this case would be true in the states but in germany you are a foreigner if you are not ethnically german or at least don’t have a german passport
@@thecrimsondragon9744 it sounds more like having prejudices against muslim people 😅 there are lot of muslims who drink alcohol and If someone already knows from the beginning that he is not a Muslim, he will and could not force him to change his religion.
As a German, I married an Italian woman. We follow traditional values, and want many babies together.. but in my experience, German women prioritiese their career.
I thought you're British?.....
@@MabusNero-bb3sv I identify as an Englishman, because I was adopted by an Englishman. My parents were German/Norwegian
@@Fatherland927 wow, it's my first time hearing an adopted Norwegian........
@@Fatherland927 since it's always the other way around English orphans
@@Fatherland927 your dad or mom is Norwegian?
I saw the video title and was curious what i would find. I grew up in Germany and left when I was 23 to live in a country far away from Europe . I married a girl from the country where I live.
My wife's ancestry includes 5 different nationalities from 2 different continents. I didn't marry her because of her nationality but because she is a very good person and fun to live with. I certainly have no problem with living with foreigners after all I am one as well. I didn't choose the country I was born in . I was always interested in what other countries are like. I decided to see more of the world and in the process i fund a place I liked and I chose it as my home.
I think it's also so hard for other people to date Germans they are cold sometimes too cold 😅
Depends i guess
As a french dude who traveled around Asia, Europe and Oceania I've met many Germans, I lived in Berlin and Hambourg for 6 months as well
And it's only fair to say that Germans where often the most open-minded and easy to talk to. Really easy to just start a conversation and get along for a drink right away, either as a friend with a dude or for a date with a German beauty
@@broflo8859 you must be lucky then 😄😄
@@broflo8859Germans are cold as ice
Bullshit.
@@broflo8859Berlin and Hamburg are exactly the two places where you get to meet the most "ungermanized Germans" 😂. They are not representative of the typical German
23yo. German here I have only dated foreign girls so far but always with a rather similar cultural background. Like Finnish they are reserved too and it takes time to break the ice. Not saying there were no differences at all. Currently dating a Japanese. I gotta say though I would go with anyone I can build a bond with. Neglecting their cultural background.
Uhm it kinda looks like youre still exploring...
Awesome video
Half these girls do not look German.
Happy Thursday, Marina! Great video and I hope to see more of these types of videos. As an American born Hispanic guy, I always prefer to date a foreign woman over an American woman. Latina women and European women are usually my favorites types. Sending my love from Miami, Florida, USA ❤
Lastly, you go girl!
The last man sums it up 😂❤
Can you do one for Toronto, Canada? I am from here 😂
Bruh when was this recorded? Because I've been in the English Gardens nearly every day for the past 2 weeks
About a month ago. You just missed me
@DatingBeyondBorders ah dang haha. I would've had nothing to add lol. I'm an auslander anyways
please do this in your home country canada. :)
Canadians are less open about their "controversial" opinions, it will be way harder to get honest answers lol
I thing someone to find, who you want to stay one life long is such a wonder, that you don't care if he/she is your nationality or not.
Yeah , they all would like to try the Alfa Romeos , Jaguars the Mazda MX 5s but will end up with the reliable but boring Golf .
if she didnt manage to go on second dates, amybe she needs to work on her personaliyt and not blame german men....the men that agreed to going out with her obv. liked her looks.... but not her personaliyt
The last guy is spot on.
@5:50 ahahahaha wtf??? this is dangerous lol
The Israeli girl was stunning! The attitude of the middle aged (mimicking Japanese) was hilarious but he was right about the security. At 4:50 I almost thought he would talk about spreading something else😂
It super much depends on the region. Most things happen in the West so the picture of Germany we get is mostly Bavaria and Frankfurt-Düsseldorf area.
In the East it is much different. It is far less diverse there. Therefore people really have no idea about what foreigners are like and how German life in the West is. The East-German racism can be partially explained that way. Most East Germans are very nice people though. I noticed that a lot of German middle aged men are dating women from Eastern Europe right now.
In the North, lets say in Schleswig Holstein and Hamburg people are living close to Denmark and are heavily influenced by Scandinavia.
About the video I can see the points. A lot of people in Germany are very rooted to their homes and from German perspective other countries are like dangerous and very chaotic places. The girl from Israel put it well. Mos German guys I know want a woman to live a safe and simple life with and when they learn there are complications or that they might need to move to other countries that scares them away.
I totally agree with the girl from Israel. I was born and raised in Germany and I've heard from almost every German that I know that they would date a foreigner for fun only but when it comes to long-term and serious relationships they would only go for fellow Germans. They see foreigners like a fun thing and thats it. Same with Dutch people. Its awful
Lol so not true. Many Germans prefer foreign women esiecislly those who are more traditional. Myself I am married to a Latina and I can name you 10 other of my friends with either Latinas, Russians or Asians (married or in serious long-term relationships).
It is what happens everywhere. It´s being a year since I started living in Germany (I come from Ecuador and I have a latina girlfriend) but if she were not with me, I might date a german girl for fun but at the end, for marriage, I would definitely marry a latina. I understand exactly the culture.
@@cnavarrete1999 because your a man men can have secual relations with women outside theyre race but when it comes emotional mental and pride for culture they will stay with their own but this is not common for women because they’re mentally different
Das ist aber nicht nur in Deutschland der Fall. Und daran ist auch nichts verwerflich.
@@lilli9927 würde echt mal gerne wissen wo ihr alle in Deutschland wohnt, ich kann dieses Phänomen in meinem Bekanntenkreis überhaupt nicht beobachten. Mindestens 50% meiner Freunde/Familie/arbeitskollegen sind mit Ausländerinnen verheiratet oder in ernsten Beziehungen. Latinas, Russinnen, Asiatinnen etc. Wenn hier der Feminismus in Deutschland noch lange wütet wird die Tendenz hier auch eher steigen.
Life lesson: Always explore. World is a big place. Don't limit yourself to a specific region or country. Mother Nature doesn't care who you date. In fact, she likes variety or to be blunt, genetic recombination.
Hi, I'm here!!! 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇺🇲🇺🇲
oh my 😆unfortunately I have to agree. As a foreign, dating germans so far was kind of impossible.. after 6 years. And after the moment you start to speak English, they just wanna run even faster 😂 I'm sorry! My flirting skills in German are just inexistent!! 😂
As a Norwegian I don't care where the lovely ladies are from, as long as they light up a smile when they see me.😍
Typical norwegain narcissist looking for attention and looking to serve their narcissistic suppy. Thanks for highlighting your grandiose needs once again clearly.
(Now i know you’re gona say ‘thanks’ and then ‘you know a lot’ then ‘you assume a lot’ ‘ put me in a place where you think you know me and make me question myself like you are a superior teacher making me think of myself)
😂
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
That's sweet af lol.
@@Me_di do you even know whats narcissist is its called been open minded everyone has their preferences some of us honestly dont care about what race you from
@@Me_di ???????
oh my god i kept laughing everytime they said that Spanish and Latin American cultures are more open minded. I’m Mexican and American and it’s more that some people outside have a fetish of Latinas that isn’t talked about and also Mexican and other Latin American countries are very traditional and conservative. Because I am also American it wasn’t a problem for my family that I brought my boyfriend over to sleep with in my own room, but in a Mexican household normally this would NOT be allowed unless the couple is officially married…and only by the church. I have a lot of family in Germany and it was honestly a nice experienced to suddenly not be met with so much caution as Mexicans are constantly stereotyped in the American media here, but please do not assume other cultures here are necessarily more open-minded, it’s more so we are very social cultures and we prioritize family. You WILL attend every single social event in your city, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know the family very well! 😂 If you don’t like to socialize well too bad, you will make a terrible impression 😂
Esto me pasó a mi también. Cuando visite la familia de mi esposa mexicana por primera vez su padre no quería q durmiéramos en el mismo cuarto ya que todavía no estábamos casados. Gracias a dios sus papás están divorciados y a su mamá (donde vivíamos) no le importaba. Su papá le dijo al moso (q todavía conocía) q separara nuestras camas cada día en la mañana, q fue muy estúpido porque simplemente las juntamos otra vez en la noche. Pero si puedo confirmar q en este sentido son muy tradicionales todavía.
I wonder where in the U.S. you're from. I'd say in most of the U.S., parents would NOT be ok with a daughter having a boyfriend sleep over. The U.S. is actually quite traditional and this doesn't get talked about a lot.
your talking about something that is sexual in nature lol those who say open minded are talking about friendliness and being warm to random people more inviting. most people will questio ln theyre daughters having a male in their house in their room alone
Excellent then
Sure if you live in a super conservatice family in a village... reallity is different, Latin America nowadays is more openminded than South Europe
The love of my life is German. Ultimately it should be about personality. If you're putting nationality boundaries in the way, you will only hurt yourself.
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@MrsYua-Cheni-BenyiHi I can be your friend
Who goes to Germany to date anyone in first place?, it is a no-go zone for romance. Only work work work.
It's a good video. I didn't know some people from Germany did like the latin culture.
Joss and Janik are one example
@@IzzyChopChopI think it's more about them being better wife's/friendlier in general than culture
German men are definitely into latinas. Easily have ten couples like this in my friend circle.
The Latin's rule! 👍
@@whatmeworry7184 definitely. Latinas Are very popular here.
"I want to date a Japanese girl"
This guy's a walking🚩
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
What's the problem
First, saying girl instead of woman, makes it seem like he fetishizes them @@flowershower6857
nah. Simply if you go to Japan you see many cute girls around who are very different from Western girls and you are curious. I had the same experience with Japanese guys and thought "wow, I'd date one of them if I could!" it's normal if you are interested in a different culture.
Nothing wrong with new cultural experiences.
From my experience as Greek girl German men are easier to date and more approachable and German men love foreign girls what the Israeli girl said its not true
From my experience talking to and befriending a lot of German men in various German cities, the Israeli girl definitely has a point. Perhaps you've just been lucky.
I would say that probably it depends on the looks of the woman, as usual, if they find you hot they will run, maybe they don't like the appearance of the israeli girl. I can't understand, she's slim, tall, speaks good English, beautiful skin tone and exotic enough for Germans coming from Israel ....
@@macroxela foreign wives are more than foreign husbands in Germany! Maybe they don't like the Israeli girl cause seriously she had a weird face
Who knows how this Israeli girl is in person. Maybe she has a horrible character. She said she never manages to her a second date, that means though that she got first dates (so her physical appearance does not seem to be the problem). Maybe she is really annoying at those first dates and turns men off, who knows. From my experience foreign women, exotic type are in very high demand here.
@@macroxela Not all Southern Europeans are "dark" as you're implying. Your logic is flawed.
feel sorry for the french lady getting harassed
I'm italian and I like sometimes french men🥺💘
But I don't know if I want a foreign men in my life...maybe a foreign men who loves italy and italians yes but a casual foreign men not because he could not be interested in my country and not respect my culture...
PS:Israeli girl is very cute. she's slim with dark healty skin and particular face.I don't understand why she feels so insecure about her look.
Maybe her bad experiences with Germans have led her to unconsciously have insecure and polemical attitudes that distance other Germans from her and she thinks it's all her appearance's fault.
Try with latinos *wink wink. We can understand each other quite well, we're passionate, family oriented, loud, we love to cook and if you say anything about our granmas, well you know how it goes...
yeah lets just blame the germans for everything
She met some people who weren’t very nice in b erlin
@@1158supersiriit's possible
@@marvin2678I didn't blame the Germans. Read the comment
I don't care where you are from...I'll take anyone that has a functioning brain at this point, which is apparently hard to find.
😂😂😂😂
Yo antes trabajaba con los alemanes, los alemanes que eran mayores sentí que eran demasiado directos. Y ojo, no digo que esté mal ser directo, pero unos ya rayaban en lo insultante.
Y me tocó que muchos se justificaban con "es que así somos". No sir, you are just being rude.
Los jóvenes eran más relajados, pero eso sí, siento que los alemanes son como una paleta de limón, al principio son bien fríos pero ya que los conoces mejor, son muy dulces.
I totally agree with the Israeli woman. I am an American expat who has been in Germany for 12 years, and during that time I have dated two German women. Two. It seems that German women are not into American men. I even had a German woman tell me that she was prejudiced against Americans. At least the directness was nice, but Jeez...
American men don't have the best image right now. Blame the podcasts bros
I'm not put off about it. My gf is Greek so it doesn't matter anyway. I just found this factoid interesting, especially when compared to eastern and southern Europeans.
I figured it was because of all of the US military bases in Germany that have been here since 1945. Only need a few American servicemen acting like total dipshits to sour the local populace, especially if this has been going on for almost 80 years.
They prever they english....💂😏
@@ndie8075 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
@@zufallig4377 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
I want girl with energy of a girl that mentioned of Helga Hoffman
In my expirience as gay in Germany yes I can say that white German gay just prefer another white gay so if you Are no white would be very difficult to date with some one
Peter Stormare is funny.
😊 Shout out to Helga Hoffmann!
Helga Hufflepuff?
the comment i was looking for 🤣🤣🤣
Im not attracted to people from my home town haha that’s typical german 😂❤
I heard rumors about German girls that they like black/brown men a lot.
I live in The Netherlands and I visited different places in Germany many times last summer and I was getting a lot of attention and stares from German girls and girls from Mid-Eastern. So I guess the rumors are true.
The German brunette ladies with brown eyes really attract me.
It's because Germans in general aren't very good looking.
If you are an average looking dude who wants some attention for the first time in your life then go to Germany.
@@MMOfreakOUT1 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
Wo hast du viele Deutsche Frauen mit dunkelhäutigen gesehen?Sie halten sich von denen fern in der Regel.Was ich an Unseren Frauen sehr schätze.Es waren eher Ukrainerinen, polinnen und andere weiber aus Osteuropa.Die lieben dunkle Keulen
The last guy has it all sussed out on our little blue dot .
2:53 so are you saying that german men prefer a german woman? girl why do you make it seem strange, they are german its normal to be attracted to similar people
Noch mal zur Erinnerung: Es ist nicht verwerflich, lieber jemanden aus der eigenen Kultur zu heiraten!!!
Yes it's actually the norm and it is what most people in the world do.
Ich date nicht mehr, da ich die Beschwerden bekomme, dass ich sowieso jemanden aus meiner Kultur heiraten werde.
Sie sagen dann : dann verschwende nicht meine Zeit und date dein zukunftigen Ehemann. Passt für mich 😅
100%
@@Angelcynn_2001Hello brother from northwest Germany......home of the old Saxons........our flag bears the saxon horse \Ross.....aswell the flag of Kent......🤓
Wo ist Helga Hoffmann?
hell, i want helga hoffman too!
I'm a German and don't know who is "Helga Hoffmann" the lady is talking about at 2:55. For me her statement doesn't seem true.
IS it that she meant a typical very German beautiful polite blonde as the waitresses at the Oktoberfest?? Like saying Jane Doe in English.
@@amiquigonzales7917 I don't know. She explains "a good german girl from a good house". That is too unspecific. And why "Helga Hoffmann"?
@@Pewtah I was only guessing, I am Peruvian and live in South America, clueless.
A quick search on the internet showed that Helga's is a beer garden present at Oktoberfest and Helga Hoffman a very common German name. To me it explains everything. And I think that testimony is very very interesting. Her life experience may not resonate with your life experience but it's not less true because of that.
@@tj2375 because I also don't know who Helga Hoffman is, I googled the name and saw lots of obituaries of dead, old German women.
Guy at 4:03 said, manchvar schtinschvanstein drubast vich du hast scheisen
As a man who is a multilingual speaker, while also pro-international, I will always prefer women from other countries over American women.
“American women” encompasses a huge array of cultures but okay.
@@BelleMeuf420 true but at the end of the day, people born and raised in the US will ultimately exhibit the typical American culture, regardless of their racial/ethnic background and the subculture from their region
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@MrsYua-Cheni-Benyi I'm Zaylas, if you're talking to me.
@@zeldamachina6305 My parents would love you. I’m Japanese 🥲😅 Where are you from, I think I might need your email, to send you a message on Google chat?
That guy who said he'll want to date a Japanese, surely had a WWII flashback in that moment.
German men also like eastern European girls, from Poland. Rus etc
Every man loves Polish women
@@Proud_Stokieevery simps like them......
@@MabusNero-bb3svSlavic girls are cool, beautiful (probably the most beautiful) and caring.
I like them and I am no simp at all!
No sorry. Im a German guy and love my German ladies. Dont speak for every German please....
@@ICMFX you like creatures that hate you back?.......
No helge haufman was harmed in making of this video
I’d like to give props to the lovely❤ German women out there. 👍
I live in Germany and I ended up dating Asian girls only. My girlfriend now is Vietnamese. She is very loyal and caring 😊 I have dated latino girls in the past. Many of them make out with multiple man. I do not like that
As a german I personally like japanese guys. But at the end all that matters is that you like each other and enjoy each others company:)
What about Pakistani men 😢?
@@maar2001 I like japanese most😅
Have you ever dated a Japanese or are you basing your opinion on anime? Because 90% of Japanese men are hardcore traditional.
@@dagda3000 I have never dated one but I met some really really nice japanese people. I like how polite they are, that they have good manners etc. The japanese I was able to meet were really really nice people! I also like their appearance to be honest.
@@lakagranger3012 Japanese are famous for being friendly and well-mannered to other people, especially foreigners. However, do not confuse the "public face" with the "private face". If I were you, I would only go for a Japanese man if you liked traditional gender roles and suppressed emotions.
Introduce me to the guy that like mexicans, I like Germans ❤
But he said latinas only for fun haha 😂
nah you will ruin his life.....
It’s super clear a any woman needs security,love and trust regardless the nationality..but all these are not found in men now ,most of men are just looking for sex and leave ,this will leave the woman broken and unable to trust her next guy .it’s a chaos now
2:50 hmm, maybe it's rather because of her attitude. I was also once dating someone from Usbekistan. And while I liked her look quite a lot. However, I didn't like how negatively she kept speaking about Germans. I got her points partially, but in the end, I was wondering why she was still here and not in any other European country. So I grew tired of her. Also, she was obiously missing to adjust to German culture and habits according to which men and women are way more equal. As a consequence, it is not common that men always(!) pays for food and drinks.
♥♥♥ 7:24
Helga Hoffman😂
Im 23 and i got interested in that older man 😅😅 unfortunately I'm not japonese 🇧🇷
Correction....... you're interested for his money.......I feel sorry for that guy if she meets you.......
@MabusNero-bb3sv why do you think it's about him money?
@@anajuliru because all women are like that........
@MabusNero-bb3sv KKKKK who broke your heart?
How are you doing
As a woman dating a German is much better than most other cultures. Other cultures are not so respectful towards women, especially cultures from warmer countries. Southern EU, Middle Eastern,Asian, and Mexican/central/South American cultures are not one's I would ever marry into. Give me German or Northern EU.
And then it’s when you discover that many of the North European countries have the highest rates of violence against women in Europe and you stop saying nonsense…
@@carolinac3005 do some research. There is little data about middle east countries as women have been conditioned to not say/report anything.
@@carolinac3005 that is the muslim migrant men violence against women
Some other cultures might not be that respectful towards women, that's right, but I wouldn't say german men are completely respectful towards us either....especially when they're drunk. In any case, I think it depends on each man specifically, rather than only the place where he comes from. I am with a guy of a "warm" country and he's more respectful than any other man I've ever met, plus, he makes me feel alive haha. When I dated germans it was so boring all the time. It definitely depends on taste :)
My girlfriend is german😊
@2:32 it's not about where you are from - it's about your impression given as a super spoiled ..., i'd never ever even talk to someone with such an attitude, i am not german - long live modern feminism!
I would do well in Germany as I look like a woman from Brazil, even though my family is not Spanish, I look Latino
Really? Where are you from?
@@flowershower6857 Canada 🇨🇦, you?
@@dishappywithlife2556 but what's your background? I'm brazilian
Mother is Polish my Dad is from Guyana 🇬🇾, it’s right beside Venezuela
1:16 who is this guy
That bald guy said something deep. Jeez people there are tall
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I'm 167 cm and with 4 cm heel, I'm taller than 80% people in Munich. They are not that tall anymore
Never been to Munich. Only Koeln, Berlin, Are you man or woman? Anyway, it was a long time ago. Thanks for the info @@tatjana7008
As a German living abroad I would definitely not seek out a German woman who also happens to live here. My girlfriend is from Iran.
Simp.....
@@MabusNero-bb3sv What does that have to do with the nationality?
@@erikt1713 you like women and form relationships with them............therefore you're a simp........
Ive heard that north european like to provide 😂
All my german male friends love Latinas. I’m a Latina and in love with a German 😘
I find That Germans are similar to Poland ! Poland girls also need security everything must be plan ahead !
Germans date every day people from all over the world with all kind of backgrounds. Germany is the dominant center/base of Europe with most borders to other countries in the EU (and most relevant ones in Europe). And because it is the economic powerhouse in Europe (surpassed now again like in old times Japan and being ow Nr. 3 Ecoonoy in the world after USA and China) with the biggest population in the EU and together with its neighbors also the most populated one and the wealthiest spot in Europe, there is always a high fluctuation - more so since Schengen free movement (but also due to the 21. century exchange). If people are not able to date one then its more of an individual problem (or with their own culture). True is that the attitudes are culturally a bit more individual and different (not just from Germany but in general central Europe and its neighbors) than in many other cultural spheres. But with a bit more knowledge about the globe you have much more problems to date one in Japan (outside of the international bubble). They are way more strict and still much more ritualized. Or people in especially Western Africa (especially Muslims. There you often still have the backward/ultraconservative mindset of not just about Islam but also about where you come from. Somali tend for instance only to marrage other Somali - similar here in Germany with many Turks. They usually would never marrage a black one). Quite similar in Afghanistan, Tchechenia etc.... general rule: Westernized people who have problems to date other Westernized people have INDIVIDUAL problems! Or in some cases its to remote, location etc. which lowers drastically the opportunity. But the German province is by far more urbanized and connected as for instance remote spots in Africa, Russia, US, Canada, Australia, Brazil etc..
Germans have no culture so I am not surprised.......
German guys >>>>>>>>>>>>>
Yes. My girlfriend is German, and I am an Englishman. My wife is a very serious, disciplined woman who actually wants a family. We both work: 2 well paid incomes. She bought me a realistic baby doll to learn how to become a father.. seriously 😂 it helps and she is pregnant. It's working so far. I am too dominant / stubborn.
dominant for what ?
@@marvin2678 I am aggressive (physically), there's a bit of muscle on me, very macho personality so I struggle being gentle with small things as they are as fragile as twigs
@@2024_EuropesLastBattle thats sounds ...fun
chap.....english and germans are the perfect match.....they complement each other.....similar ancestry
@@ndie8075 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
Israeli girl ? Lmao 2:36
what ?
@@marvin2678 2:36
This video captures the very subliminal racist bias. The most exotic that can grab their interest is "Südland" - extended Mediterranean world (including Latin America) - bit of Spanish fiesta to balance out regimented culture of German Ordnung. But not a step further. Implicitly they claim that civilised world ends with Mediterranean.
How are you
Something tells me the problem with the Israeli girl isn’t really the Germans she dated😂
I think the israeli girl is right. Also I feel like germans prefer blonds
Really?! I heard a lot of the men in Germany like latinas (brunette)
They are spontaneous = they don't plan so much ahead. E.g let's go have lunch with my parents today.
German women are generally more interested in foreign men, whether for dating or life partmenr. German guys will gladly date foreign women but ultimately want a German wife who understands her role and "Pflicht". This video largely supports this.
Why do you think that is? I’m very curious
That is wrong. Many German men are into foreign women. German women are way too spoilt by feminism.
@@cobrakaineverdies5006 but it definitely seems like German woman are more open to being with foreign men.
@@eujinlee9936 not really there are some of them but those are mostly leftovers. On the men’s side even top men are very open for foreign women.
@@cobrakaineverdies5006 okay but there are definitely those German women who prefer certain men from abroad, it's well known in the states among people who travel
Half German / Half Persian guy, do you want to be friends? I’m half German / half (other) too and I always love to hear about other people with mixed ethnicity backgrounds experiences!
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I am half german / half turkish
Why are latinos and asians desired in Europe but arabs and muslims are not?
I think it’s because of religious differences
Arab girls are considered very good looking to Germans but mostly seen as a forbidden fruit, nobody wants to take the hussle with their families or brothers.
Well the wave of Syrian refugees back in the 2010s, plus the amounts of African and Northern African refugees in Europe has left a bad taste in the mouths of most Europeans....makes sense why they won't consider them as an option for romantic partners
Latinas in europe almost no exist lool, but europeans like the closest to them, after european women/white, they prefer latinas/mixed according to surveys, it's because latinas are mixed with european dna and culture
Because in Arab/ „Muslim“ culture they only marry they don’t date!
I was in Berlin, Hamburg, Hannover, Lubëck a few months ago and I was SURPRISED that many germans even young ones(18-35) dont or can't talk in english. I would go to big stores like Rewe, Rossman, Lidl, and most of the time they couldn't speak or understand it, it was so annoying and I'm from a "third world country" man.
This made dating difficult, but hookups are definitely possible and very interesting xD
How did you hook up? Any Tipps :p?
Der Grund ist, dass unsere Filme synchronisiert werden. Außerdem gibt es quasi alles auch auf Deutsch. So wie in Spanien.
I'm really confused by the fact that in most of your videos, people say the same thing about Southern Europeans and Latinos. Are we in such demand in Europe? Lol
because the videos came from the North (Scandinavia, Poland, Germany), in Southern Europe they would prefer partners from the Northern Europe in many cases
Not really! All southern Europeans like Northern Europeans ( Swedish, Austrians, etc.)
Here in Sweden we dont give a shit Latin America.
no bro dont make your self false hopes ahahha
@@ae-jo5gc they said "latinos (a)" in sweden as well lool
01:49 : F U !!!! 👿
I'm a 27yo dude from the US who also speaks German and is of German descent. I'd love to find a nice German girl to build a life with. If you or anyone out there knows one, let me know! Thanks for reading!
Ähm, komm her und angel dir eine? 😅
Aber warum nicht Latinas? Meiner Erfahrung nach wesentlich freundlicher und weniger eingebildet
@@felixg.6493 Das werde ich vielleicht müssen haha. Ich habe ebenfalls etwas Erfahrung mit Latinas, da ich einige Jahre in MX verbracht habe und die meisten davon haben mir gefallen, doch so eine Beziehung habe nie mit einer Deutschen gehabt, also ich würde es gerne mit einer versuchen. Mal sehen, ob ich am Ende zu den Latinas zurückkehre haha
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German women and men are more friendly in palma di mallorca..