Dear Future Wifey S4, E420 - Guard Your Mouth (Pastor Eben Conner)
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- We’re quite sure you’ve said something before that you wished you could take back. Right? Well, the old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” is the biggest lie. Today’s guest is Pastor Eben Conner and he’s keeping it L.I.T. during our discussion, “Guard Your Mouth.”
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I have a similar testimony....
I went back to college in my late 30s with my best friend and our first class was Algebra. Math in the past was never our strongest area so when we got in the class she said I'm not gonna pass this class. I said well I'm gonna make an A. She looked at me crazy and I said watch what you say. So then she changed it and said well maybe I'll make a C. She made her C and I made an A. She said I'm gonna do like you from now on I'm making all A's from here on out. I said good. We both graduated at the top of our class.
Love this!
That’s awesome!
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'Jesus go to the car, I'll be there in a minute' LOL 😆 Right!!! Love the transparency and episode!!! The angels 😇 have to harken to God's Word. They don't know the difference between us saying it and God saying it. 'His Will is His Word' #Chills 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 👏 🙌 God!!!!! Amen
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Amen!
This is definitely what I tell Jesus and I need to stop but that was very funny!!
I loved it!!!! He’s got a twin here!!! 😂😂😂 took words right out of my hot mouth😂😂😂!!❤
I am literally at a place where I am just operating on faith when it comes to a specific issue. This episode was so reassuring that God will come through for me, I don’t know how but he will. I will come back to testify.
Edit: Jesus did it. Wow I am in awe of God!
God will come through for you! Keep the faith!
Where two or three are gathered...we are in agreement with you!!! Do it Jesus!!!!
God will do it for you
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I'm believing too. Can't wait to come back to this comment.
I CAN CHANGE MY LIFE….BY CHANGING MY WORDS!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Say it! 🙌
Amen
Love this!
The Starbucks story is just too funny but a very valuable lesson.
Yes it is! lol!
It was funny..but the lesson!
So relatable 😆
@@wotfc 1q¹q
For the past year God has been telling me that "You can have whatever your faith will go shopping for. I believe that everything that God has for us is either within our reach, or its within the reach of our faith
I love that you said we can marry the person God chose and still fail at it. That's good word. I hear so many ppl say if it ended in divorce, it WASN'T of God.
When I tell you this message was for me I'm not joking!!! I keep keeping myself down due to my mouth and God sent this!! God please guard my lip gate!!! That's now my daily prayer 🙏
This brother is emotionally mature and wise. Bleed up, not down. Awesome mindset. How wonderful to have people in your life to bleed up to.
I need that. It’s been a CHALLENGE during the pandemic. I am online every Sunday, and most Tuesdays and Wednesdays, however I miss the fellowship, engagement of being in church in person, and having those Godly, wise people I can reach out to for council…
I SO GRATEFUL YOU CHOSE HIM AS YOUR PASTOR! REAL ANOINTING!
The Starbucks story 🤣🤣🤣🤣!!
I do struggle with negative words spoken to me when I was young. A cycle I'm trying to break - please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️.
We will definitely be praying for you!
@@wotfc Thank you so much! I really appreciate your prayers 🙏🏾❤️
Blessings!!!!!🎉❤😂
I can totally relate to how sharp your tongue can be. I too could cut someone with my words without a care on how they felt. Well, it’s been 5 years now since I’ve made a total change with everything in my life, it’s such a breath of fresh new attitude. ❤️👍🏾💪🏾🙏🏾
That’s amazing! A sign of spiritual maturity.
Wow, this episode just stirred my faith, I paused just after your discussion on declarations to declare what I would like to see, to recall the promises that are yet to come to pass. Awesome 👏🏽
Pastor Eben You've been a blessing to my friend JP and his family. Seeing his maturation ministered to me, now you minister to me online. Thank you for your diligence to the Lord.
So glad to hear this. Glad to have you as part of our online family!
The Starbucks gift card is brilliant because people who don’t attend, usually have a view of the church as always wanting money from them so to have a church give something to them(other than a track or a quick sermon to convince them to come) is powerful.
That’s good! And a whole word….”your mouth is either going to bless you or, curse you”…..SO true….and something I needed to hear. Right on time! Jesus!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Amen.
This episode is a confirmation on my intentions to speak life out of my mouth at all times. If I’m not speaking life, then it doesn’t need to be said. Whew, this series is speaking to my cells!!
This one is such a blessing! I laughed, hollered amen multiple times, all while being pierced with The Word of God causing me to reflect on what comes out of my mouth!!! whew!!! 🔥🔥🔥
I truly enjoyed Pastor Eben. He is my brother's pastor. When he said to guard your mouth no matter what I see. God has been on me about Proverbs 3:5-6. Thank you for the confirmation to shut up and trust God. I am not married but it blessed me.
"Ur mouth is going to bless you or curse you" that is powerful. Thank you for another inspiring podcast.
This episode is soooo enlightening! I skipped over it so many times...but I finally said let me see what it's about because EVERY episode this season has been absolute FIRE. And this one exceeded my expectations by far. So much wisdom!!!! I am spiritually full and overflowing. I need to sow some seeds.
This is so so on point. Thank you. Its so great to see black Kings supporting homeless black future Kings. Thank you and may God continue to bless you 🙏
This episode is powerful! Our words hold so much power! Thank you 💚✌🏾
Awesome message and word. I like how the Pastor's transparency reaffirms how we are mankind, before we are Christ like in a lot of instances. We will never be so Holy where we can cover up those flaws and imperfections. And with this, God gives grace🙏 Keep bringing that fire brother.
Well said!
Very true! We all fall short of God’s glory, but thank God for His grace!
Woaw amazing episode and I just can’t stop watching it because I have been believing God for $3700 so that I can evaluate all my credentials as a foreign trained nurse and register and start my nclex review classes and go to South Africa and write the exams..God have mercy on me because this will change my life and also help me to change my mothers life,this will be a great win for my family 🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank You Lord for You are able and that You are still in your miracle business🙏🙏 Lord I am going to stop crying because this episode has given more reasons not to cry because $3700 is not bigger than Your throne. Lord I pray for divine connections beyond human understanding and I know that whatever I am going through is nothing before your throne,thank You Lord 🙏🙏🙏
"Change your life by Changing your words"
"My heart controls what I say" Pastor !!..... My God....If this podcast didn't force you to pay attention to your mouth and heart, you missed the whole meaning of of GUARD Your Mouth. Thank you Gentlemen for your transparency. Thank you genuinely for speaking on how you need to honor GOD more in our mouth and heart. And how it will help you identify where you are in your walk! Maturity and wisdom over time should change your perspective and how you speak over your life! Feelings do tend to get us in to trouble and cause us to speak out of emotion instead of self-control and alignment with the word! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Your authenticity is awesome and much needed!! Another one Laterras, you gave us what is needed in this season!! Keep doing what you doing!! Kingdom Royale is coming to full fruition!! Blessings to you both!! 👏🙏😁🙌👏🙋♀️ "What if the words of your mouth can shift your life!!"
Am I wrong for thinking Pastor Eben is fine?🙈 Lord...let me close my eyes and just listen🤣
Let your words be seasoned with salt that you’ll always know what to say. (excerpt from Colossians 4:6)
This guard your words series is getting my thoughts, actions and words ALL together. 😫 This will be on repeat 🔂.
Amen! I said the same thing.
Greetings Kings 👑 thanks for the wonderful message and transparency. Mr. Laterras I sent a Zelle donation from my ministry for Kingdom Royale! Your Vision is a Legacy that’s already impacting lives!
Grace, Peace and Blessings to You, Pastor Eben and Kingdom Royale!
Thank you
This is so good, Had to watch this again!!! That is soo true. When I was going through my divorce my Pastor told me no matter how much I may want something to work, I can't force someone to stay in something they dont want to be in anymore....And with God's help and with no anger nor bitterness nor resentment in my heart towards my ex, I was able to let her go, and release her back to God...That was two years ago. And since then my life has catapulted to another level with my relationship with God, and in every area of my life
THIS IS ONE OF THE BESTTTTTTT PODCAST, HOLYSPIRIT IS DEALING WITH ME WITH MY HEART & MOUTH. THANK YOU FOR SHARING. GLORRRRY TO GOD.
I love his Jamaican story. Yeeees, that's awesome....He sounds like Pastor Colleen and Dennis Rouse, the highest giving was during Covid.At Victory World Church.... When I visit Texas, I'm coming to this Church.. Such an awesome story....Love it.
That coffee dash to the chest for Carmel on the cup's side Testimony, That's transparency 😂 Stay Humble and This podcast PREACHED betta than we shouted🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Pastor Eben and Laterras for this one! Keep speaking into Kingdom Royale's future and manifestation Laterras!!!💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This really Blessed me, the Word and the words❣
This is such an awesome episode....Getting black families back together again for the great wealth transfer and Kingdom dominion. When he talked about the coffee, I, laughed so hard. Even though I really don't have a problem with my mouth and attitude. My parents were married for 61 years. But I've experienced it before. The episode with RC & Lisa Blakes was the bomb.
I really appreciate this pastor wisdom I'm going through a divorce myself my husband call it quite.I refuse to bleed down I didn't know that what I was doing I was listening to the Holy Spirit thank you for this man of God 😇
So glad you were blessed by this!
I am watching this episode now and it blessing me so much thank you so much. Side note chicken foot soup is good for the soul.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
LOL! So glad you were blessed by it!
🗣🗣With the foot 🤣🤣
@@five5jamaica yes
I was screaming "I love chicken feet!" in my mind 😂😂
Best thing ever
This episode has encouraged me to be consistent with what I confess, and to believe in my heart that what I'm confessing will come to past. My husband and I are going trusting God with our finances due to a job loss. However, I confess that we are more than conquerors. Not only will we have provision to meet our needs, but we will have more than enough to meet the needs of others!! Also, I confess that my husband and I will be able to be a great blessing in helping your vision to help our young black boys. I claim it in Jesus Name!! Amen!!
This whole message is a small window into lessons learned in my life. Over the years in my life, the Lord has often humbled my heart, spirit, and tuned my conscious so sharp that when I am contiplating in my head to speak on a topic that I felt well within my right to do so, the Lord would mute me with peace and tell me to remain humbled because that isn't your battle, it is his. And this too shall pass.....This was another positive life message for me and so full of joy and laughter. I love the many blessings from this podcast. To God be the glory.
The angels don’t know the difference between us saying it and God saying it!!! WHAT???!!! Sir, you just made me happy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Never heard those true words before "the devil spoke to me first" LOLOL but thank you pastor for being so real; stay encouraged and let's all keep following God's path for our lives. Thanks to you too as always LW.
Every episode of Dear Future wifey is an eye opener so much that you have to reflect and change your path all in God's name...🔥🔥 Therefore I pray that all of us in this comment section is unconditionally loved,protected,anointed with his blood...Amen
Great teaching… as a teacher, i have to rephrase my thinking n words. I have to tell my students what I want them to do.
Laterras I needed a good laugh and this Pastor was very real and very hilarious. Episode with a lot of lessons. Keep on doing a good work. Shouting you out from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Glad you enjoyed it
Hey yadie, I love my chicken foot soup. 2% of these Yankees be sleeping, the rest love and can’t get enough of what Jamaica has to offer.
I absolutely enjoyed this episode.
So profound. So hilarious. So encouraging.
Gotta speak it in order to see it!
I love this pastor! Funny , honest, and a Man of God! Exactly what my husband will be! Love this Word, say and believe what you want to manifest.,Another great podcast! Amen
This was a great testimony on faith as well as guarding your mouth. I appreciate it. I'm struggling in an area, but this is truly helping me to stay focused. "Change your words."
You got this!
I had to watch this twice. Hilarious! The words that come out of my mouth can shift my life - that's a word right there. FACTS 💯! Pastor Eben 🙌🏽 If I ever have to bleed, I'm bleeding up - not down. Great podcast!
Wow! Thanks you so much ! This episode was amazing... I'm definitely full! I'm truly grateful...God is so faithful.
This blessed me greatly and was right in time! Praise God!
Thank you for this episode. I really needed this. I watched the episode with Pastor Connor and his fiancé this morning, and I had to find this one.
This conversation was WONDERFUL!!!!! Such a great Word!! THANK YOU SO MUCH to you both!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥💙💚💜
This is so powerful! Thank you Pastor Conner!
Good Word..I step.out from.25 year job, but God has been sooo Faithful
I thank God for the way he uses different methods to speak to us and teach us. This episode hit me directly between the eyes and straight through my spirit. I'll have listen again. God bless you mightily LRW!
God shall supply All my needs according to his riches in glory. Thank you Lord 🙏🙏🙏
This is what having faith and moving in obedience looks like. Partial obedience is total disobedience. The amount of Wisdom here 🙌🏿 👏🏾 🙏🏿. Wheeeeewwwww!!!!! Let me go get marinated. I know I will come back here to take notes 📝
This was a great episode “Guard your mouth” I have been working on guarding my tongue. Thank you so much for the amazing wisdom 🙏
So many gems in this podcast! Laterras may your son see himself as God sees him!!!
This was such an uplifting and hope-filled conversation!❤ It will be on repeat!! Thank you 🙏🏽
The stories were hilarious 😂 chicken foot soup is a staple Caribbean dish 🇧🇧
Some time ago, I developed a burning desire to open a school. I finally wrote this vision down at the beginning of 2020 I envisioned the doors opening to students September 2025. I'm not YET in possession of the finances, resources or connections nevertheless I am still believing God for this.
I have some serious work to do around guarding my mind, my heart and my mouth. I gave up my job in March 2020 to pursue a more meaningful life and I've felt lost, confused and uncertain over the last two years. It's been a struggle at times but God has consistently showed up for me so I know I only need to keep stepping and trusting. Thank you once again for sharing this conversation with the world. I certainly needed to hear it. Please pray for me 🙏🏽
Keep believing and stepping out on faith! Pastor Eben has more messages on faith that can help you in this season. God bless!
I haven't watched any uploads in a while. This episode has blessed me so much, especially when LW shared how he wanted to back down when God spoke. I've been there, some of the times I was disobedient. I am really blessed by this.
This Really Blessed Me and a lot of things the Pastor said... is confirmation of what I am taught at my church. I loved this podcast!!!!
This was absolutely beautiful! It blessed me so much ...the whole thing! My words are powerful. What you see is because of what you said...that part. Thank you
So glad I watched the full episode. Sharing with a few friends and currently searching for more of Pastor Evan on CZcams. Thanks fellas this was definitely a Word!!
This was powerful 👌🏾 I will pray that I take care of my words. I like when the pastor mentioned that our words can was destroyed us or lifted us up 🆙. Thank you for reminding me to be careful with the words that comes out of my mouth 👄
Yes! A lesson we al need to remember at all times.
The best reminder. I been taught this way for years. I don't 'Say it' Enough! I have to continually feed on the Word that produces life. Great Podcast. God's Word is EVERYTHING! Yes he sense of humor his a plus.
The power of the tongue - definitely an area I'll improve on, in Jesus' name.
Thanks for reminding me to obey God when he says open my mouth and speak his word, pray the petition, and receive it! Awesome thanks for sharing!
This was sooooo good. Had to REWATCH.
Amazing interview, loved the transparency and the Godly wisdom shared in a practical way. Thanks LW! I love this podcast, it’s truly a blessing to my life.
God has a great sense of humor. I was laughing to my heart’s content. And of course LT’s laughter and the many nuggets are a bonus.
Thank you so much. This episode hit home for me such a great eye opener. Very powerful!!
Whew wee! This was some good stuff! I remember over 30 years ago I was pregnant with my daughter and had just moved into my first apartment. Through a blessed set of circumstances my mom ended up moving in with me. I told her I wanted to move into a house. We was good and comfortable in our beautiful apartment and she couldn't see why we should move. I was a new Christian and I believed that God wanted us to move... so that's what I kept telling people. Exactly 1 year to the day later we moved into our townhouse in the city with a front and backyard close to all the major exits and walking distance to stores, metro etc. Less than 2 years later we purchased that house and it was and continues to be one of the biggest material blessings God gave us! This message reminded me of that because now we have some major stuff in the works, but I've been sufficiently reminded that the God who did THAT THING is well able to do THESE THINGS!😊
Your podcast has been such a blessing to my soul and spirit. May you continue to be lead by the Holy Spirit and be a blessing to your listeners. God bless you and your ministry.
Wow, each time I am afforded the opportunity to hear someone story through Dear Future Wifey. I gain so much insight. This one was not only needed but requires for growth not only for me but for the generations to come!❤
this episode is so powerful. thank you both for sharing. continued blessings to both of you men.
Wow! I enjoyed most of the episodes but this one is absolutely amazing, the best one for me thus far, from the coffee throwing story to the letter to future wifey! Thank you for this! Amazing initiative with foster/ homeless boys as well 👏🏽
Im not a christian or religious but I love and enjoy your Podcast.....thank you
Jesus loves you all the way😊
This was beautiful and needed 🙏🏼
Thank you for all you do 🙂
Thank You, thank You Father... You never miss an opportunity to speak Your mind. Glory be to God for this conversation 🙏🏽 🙌🏾 ❤ My word! Faith Faith Faith!
Coffee story 🤣🤣🤣the thoughts that went on in your head killed me!
This man is truly sent from God .I have been sharing his episodes with everyone. If you come hungry you will leave full! I come expecting something every episode. Never dissatisfied I've learned so much to add to my own relationship and life .. Truly a Blessing!
I needed to hear this right Now! I've been going through it this week and I've been staying positive but I need to speak more positively. This is 💯💯💯 true. We were created in God's image and just like he spoke things into existence. We have the same ability! Amen! Amen! My brothers! 🙌🏾
I love this Pastor..he is refreshing. Owning your faults is powerful. Lors help me to own my faults so that you can help me fix them.
"So many ppl put God inside the actions of man" The Devil uses man's actions to keep ppl away from God" This right here. I literary repented today because the holy spirit made it clear that I had been treating /seeing God like my ex, ppl who had hurt me. Played me etc. I had to change my perspective and focus on The Lord's character. His word says my thoughts are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are not my thoughts. I was being so cautious and protective of myself that I was not allowing God to be a father. I had to pray to God to help me see him with fresh eyes and a new heart to see Him like the Loving God He is. What a great interview. 🙌
That’s a powerful revelation. Glad you were blessed by the interview!
Man, I needed this! I am lining up my mouth, I will be testifying soon!
‘Human factor....’ talk about it
GOD has faith, the way He trusts us....amazing to me!
The Pastor put his phone down
Listen! Listen! When I say I am just staying plugged into this podcast!! There has been so much meat and potatoes in EVERY SINGLE ONE!! This episode has come at the best time for me as I have just had my birthday! I took notes when Laterras came with the scriptures. (Psalms 141:3; Proverbs 21:23; Proverbs 13:3; 1 Peter 3:10; James 1:19) I have some Homework to do frfr! The one nugget I took was “what I’m saying needs to match what I’m praying!!” 🔥🔥🤯🤯 Today I change what I am praying and saying going forward!! Intentionality is key! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you Laterras!! God bless you so much sir! 100 fold!! May you stay in overflow! 🙏🏽🗣♥️
We’re so glad you were blessed by this!
This is soooo good! I love the realness of the Pastor. Our mouths are the creative force that God has given us to be like Him 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Angels harken to His word They don't know the difference between us speaking and God speaking. So many good nuggets in this video.
Ok...just finished it and it was actually a life saver and changer...when I say life saver. I paused as I watched to actually seek God to repent, correct the contradictory speech and to speak what not only God promised, but my desires. I love the addition of so much word that navigates these discussions. Thank you to both of you for sharing so transparently. I appreciate you!
This episode was very timely. God has been speaking to me about the power of my words. He's showing me how my words are blocking my blessings! The article you read was right on point! I picked up so many gems in this episode. God is so amazing! Nothing happens before its time! Your letter was so beautiful, Laterras! ❤
At time stamp, on about 1:01:01 (approx) I had to stop the video because I felt something when I heard you say "I want to know the land better than anyone else" I had to replay that part a couple of times. I cannot put my finger on it but it is directly related to your future wife. Either way, a great session with Pastor Conner he is an out-of-the-box leader. Will put September on the calendar!
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@@wotfc will follow too… looking forward to the information coming out.
I love this discourse! Thank you Lord for the ways you show that you care for me and people in general. I have seen God move mightily in my life because of the choice of spoken and written words. Thanks for sharing.
All I feel....is GRATITUDE...all the way in Europe... You both touched my 🤎 and soul! Thank you for your honesty ...this is what I needed..to NEVER give up!!!
THIS is my new FAVORITE episode of 2022🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you Laterras & Pastor Conner for this WORD!!!!! I needed this more than even I KNEW!!!! Glory to God for you both!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
So glad you were blessed!
Man this episode really blessed me. I need to believe in my heart what I am truly speaking
Absolutely Love ❤️ this episode! Thanks DFW!!!
Amen. The mouth is powerful! I love it.
This was a GREAT episode. Very enriching!
Awesome Word about Guarding your Mouth! Thanks !
This episode has so many beautiful gems. It is definitely one that I will bookmark to listen again and again 🙏🏾
This podcast never fails. God is definitely the driver behind this podcast, the host, all its topics and guest! This one saved my life: has shifted my faith and has reinforced how the power of the tongue can make or break you! Changed my life and I will give my testimony soon.