Dear Future Wifey S2, E209: Heal, Sis, Heal! (Brittainy Noel)
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- This is a new year to let go of your baggage of pain and finally walk in total healing. “Heal, Sis, Heal” is a life-changing episode to set you free. Today’s episode features Brittainy Noel. She’s a licensed therapist and mindset coach. Embrace this conversation and walk in freedom.
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I had to watch this episode in increments because I really needed to digest what I was hearing and cry a little bit. To all of you healing from toxic relationships give yourself grace from being in the relationship. Healing is a process and a journey where shortcuts are not allowed. Trust and seek God, cry if you need to and forgive the person and yourself. God bless you all.
Amen! You got it!!!
Just found it today and already listened 4 times. This is so powerful.
You and me both! Paused for notes and all!☺️
"You'll give away freely, of what you don't see as high value" wooohhhh
.......girl heavy right🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
facts !!
🤯mindblown
“I’ve been disappointed so much...that I’m afraid to dream again” Been there.
Lauren that is me .
sending u love 💛
When she said that I almost threw my phone & had to replay so I could digest that bc whew!!!
Gut punch for me right there. Brittainy is so intuitive😊
Preach this is exactly how I feel
“You cannot love with walls but you can love with boundaries”
I felt tht & have been learning to set & hold my boundaries since reading Boundaries by Henry Cloud last year. Setting boundaries helps you teach people how to treat you. Otherwise they will be left outside of the gate.
amen me too
That's a great book..
Her voice is so calming, it just helps to offload the baggage we unconsciously drag around. Plus her transparency 🙌🏾
“We downplay who we are to make ourselves easier to love.” I felt that. This beautiful Sis is dropping soooo many gems. Much needed conversation 💪🏽
I was looking for the offering basket bc whew
This is deep… I realized I had to heal the fact that I NEVER wanted to be a WIFE. Now that I did the work to HEAL and now being a Mentally and Spiritually HEALTHY Woman Married for 25 years I can admit that. I didn’t feel worthy of a HUSBAND that my parents wanted for me. Thank God I can admit that to my husband and myself.
Why didn't you want to be a wife if I may ask?
"Speak to the character of a man, sometimes they need reminders. Affirm your King, they need it"....I love this
"When I'm unhealed I can only see the negative about me." That is so true. Sadly, we take it to the next relationship, which is a recipe for disaster.
My 52 yr old self has found the blueprint to my healing. This young lady is wise beyond her years!! Bless her🥰. Already downloaded her book and looking fwd to joining her workshop 💞
Exactly! Hurt people, hurt people. As my online pastor says "don't bleed on me", which basically means to make sure you're healed first so you won't go into another relationship and damage that person. Y'all are dropping knowledge today!💯
Every episode leaves me speechless and in tears. God's is definitely hand picking your guests. Thank you so so much for being obedient.
Same here!! 🙋🏽♀️ I love this podcast. Every single episode I’ve watched has blessed me in some way!! 🙌🏾🥲
I started my abstinence back in 2015 and still am now today.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Keep going! It's worth it spiritually!
Hang on to promise, awaiting you is wholeness and strength in the your relationship
With 'Abstinence' I'm free and am clearer re what's authentically for me, nothing less.☮️💓🙇🏽♀️
Awesomeness..., congratulations. ☮️🙇🏽♀️
When she was talking about being negative every day... that was so me! Mad at folks who were smiling too early in the morning. Lol.....Finally realized after a number of years is that just because I’ve grown up in a toxic environment and at times still dealing with a negative father didn’t mean I need to use that as an excuse to be angry and act a fool.
PREACH
Thank you for healing. I lost jobs and promotions because of people in power like the old you who hated that I was happy, giving, well liked and highly capable. People call it "being a hater."
Right. I act like that too.
@@atlantasfaithsmom Now I will say even though I was like that I could and still and do get along with anyone. My problem would be when people would come at me wrong and even though I would have every right to be mad I would take it to a level that it didn’t need to be taken to because I’m minding my business. Also I should’ve stated that I would feel that way about the fake happy people. The ones who smile at you in the morning but would be main ones trying to come at you crazy in the parking lot that same morning and talking behind your back and now they are smiling in your face. I’m a Taurus so I will always have an issue with that behavior but I’m getting better 😏
Ooh wee I sniggled at that "mad cause you.smiling too early"... 😆
It took me awhile after a 20 year marriage ended. Decided to become celibate and start working on myself. Now in my 50's and learning me again.
This was powerful! "What is it that you have to disown to become a better version of yourself"
Exactly! I was just reading this comment as she was discussing it!! I knew this truth but, I let go and took control over my last relationship because, he was heading down the physical abuse Lane! I do not do it and this was my way of bringing it to an end!!
That part
I absolutely love how you deeply feel and take in what your guest speaks!! It’s beautiful to see a black man talk so openly about how things make him feel!! You have such a sensitive side to you that you don’t mind to tap into it! Blessings to you and your journey 🙏🏾
Thank you! That's the only way I know to be. I show up as my authentic self daily. It's so freeing.
I know that woman, that woman was me
@@DearFutureWifey “It’s so freeing “ this been my motto all the time . It’s been about a week, your podcast pop on my feed, was you and Essence, I watched it, the message and lessons wowed me. Thank God I found your page. I have subscribed and recommended you to my family. God bless you
I had the same message from the Lord, if I don’t let go of the pain and move forward with authority, I will become the pain and not the Joy awaiting me on the other side of my bad experience.
"We downplay who we are to make ourselves easier to love" .... Was guilty of that until God reminded me that I am his daughter.
After my break up, God told me to think about everything that was good in him and my lesson learned. I used it to pray for him/myself and I was able to move on.
As I listened to this sister speak and bare her soul. I saw so much of myself in what she had to say. My walls were only meant to protect me, when did they become jail gates? Lord help. My desire to heal has been blinded because I did hide behind mothering, then grandmothering, then teaching, then churchwork. It was easier to be great at those things than to get my feet wet at love again. Then no one approached because they read the "Do Not Diaturb" signs that I unwittingly posted at my gateways . Lord help me to get out of this web of lies and barbed wire I've become entangled with.
When she said "You can look at yourself in the mirror and say "I'm pleased" I almost broke down crying... I needed to hear this, it spoke volumes to me.
Yes Brittany💕 Agreed. We must “Pick from a HEALED Perspective!”
Just now listening to this ep. Like. Share. Ironically I know the feeling of being in surgery. I spoke of having bi-pass survery to a guy friend. He asked me where had I been. I told him in surgery. A week later I started literally having chest contractions a biggest scare of my life so far. God was reconstructing my heart. Whew chile. This was the episode. Top#5
This interview left me speechless. Brittany expressed emotions and experiences that I lived but was too ashamed and hurt to dare turn into thoughts.
What kind life I would love to live. Single never married and now a woman of value....but still under construction.. I am happy ..joyfull and a great version of my self.
THIS RIGHT HERE 🙌🏾 Stop trying to impress everyone else and get to know who you are. Learn to love you and you will learn how to love all. This was awesome. 🤗💛
She’s so pretty 😍 do the inner work 💜💜
I listened to this podcast episode three times already and it’s just so refreshing as I’m in my healing season right now. I had such a difficult time telling someone who am I the other day 😣 but now I can say I’m dope, beautiful, chosen, predestined, fearfully and wonderfully made, and the list goes on 🙌🏽🙌🏽Thank you for creating this podcast, I ❤️ it very much. Also, I started a journal for my future husband and I look forward to presenting this to him on our honeymoon 😊
“Knowing that you are worthy is loving without walls” Brittany thank you for your gift.
Wasn't it deep
Virtual therapy just as effective. Thank you so much. Go on and cry no judgement here. Brittany was awesome she is a compliment to your podcast. 2021 brings transparency to the forefront, Brittany we thank you for breaking down WALLS.
Naw, if I would've cried at that point, the interview would've been unrecoverable. Lol.
@@DearFutureWifey Sometimes you have to cry pass your pain. When you feel the need to just be physically transparent too. Everyone needs that in their life - a part of virtual therapy healing 😊
@@cherlyclark5232 I usually do. Not this time.
As a man this episode really spoke to me. Thank you, I am working on healing first before I try to even consider a relationship at this time.
This episode touched home for me. I'm struggling to learn who I am after being married for most of my adult years. I want to be believe that God sees me and loves me as His child.
Your journey is impacting so many people.
Praise God!
Amen keep the faith Quantana you are not alone by any means. Trumpets are playing, GOD hears your prayers.
I absolutely agree.
@@cherlyclark5232 Ditto
God definitely loves you sis. He's always been there waiting for you. Crave an intimate relationship with him and he'll start downloading nuggets into you. The Lord has called you to flourish and thrive in what he's called you to do. Seek him, ask him and knock he'll surely answer as long as you don't cease wanting....God bless you.🙏🏽
I do not subscribe to that ideology.. (in order to get over one man you get under another) actually my goal is to isolate, heal , deal and Feel.. meditate 🧘🏽♀️ and refocus.. I do not think our lives should be completely centered around a relationship a man/woman.. this is where we mess up.. codependency becomes IT..
WOW...She's so on point that it's almost scary! 😳 I guess I'm not the only one who lived through an emotional roller coaster! 🎢 Anywho, now it's my time to blossom and shine! #selflove 😍
I took a vow of abstinence when dating. That vow protected me from diseases and missed anxieties of if the person was being faithful to me. I mean it made me not be so concerned with the attitude of giving “myself away” and to find out I was being used. Because they did not get that most precious thing from me, I was not too emotional if the person decided to ghost me. I later realized that by being obedient to that command, so many blessings were attached to it!!! I’m grateful. I’m now married, however.
I don't usually rewatch episodes, but I'm really glad I clicked on this one again! Wow! I like her 💕 That heart wall is REALLLLL
"We downplay who we are to make ourselves more easier to love"....my my!!!!!
No ones permission of who I am. Self worth. I am WORTHY! Thank you, so many of us needed this!
It was like Brittainy Noel was speaking directly to me. I've watched this episode 3 times today, thank you so much for blessing us with this gift.
My heart feels every last word. I have been seeking God to help me find myself again
I lost myself in a bad relationship. Hoping to overcome thank you
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That was an amazing podcast. I realized that I have been stuck in survival mode for so long that I did not think about healing.
Same. Thankfully it isn’t too late to fix that now. God is surely Gracious and Kind.
Healing is a process and so important, I don't want to take what happened to me from 1992 till 2011 to breakup my next relationship.
I share those same years with you! Praying for your healing!🙏
WOW!!! Knowing that you are WORTHY means LOVING without Walls!!! Now That’s Powerful!!!
Definitely
I know exactly how she feel God was able to bring me out of that mess in my Brokenness hallelujah praise you Jesus I felt completely alone but God cover me
Brittainy wasn’t just dropping gems, she is THE Gem! When her client said, “I’ve been disappointed so much that I am terrified to dream again,” that hit me a little deeper than I expected. Her break down of the psychology behind that statement was super insightful!
This is a healing season. This season on Dear Wifey is healing. Oh, I needed this. When I saw " Heal Sis, Heal" I was like Oh Lord, ugggh....I know I was going to hear something that challenged me in areas that are not fully healed. God has me in "alone" place literally. No distractions, don't have the same friends anymore. Not entertaining no relationships with men whatsoever. God revealed I had to heal from a relationship 8 years ago that ended and I thought I was over but I wasn't. So, this healing season is necessary!! Thank you for this message!
I have been married for 26yrs (27 in Nov) and you are helping me to continue to work on me, which can only make this good marriage GREAT. I thank God for your insight. Such a Blessing!!!
Wow! This episode is making me bawl in my bedroom. I had to stop to write this. Brittainy is ripping out all of my organ...therapy 101.
One year out of a toxic relationship. And she kind of dissected why l stayed.
I need more self reflecting to do and more therapy is definitely needed going forward.
Am thanking God l took the vow at Lestine Bell's ceremony last November and am hoping my future hubby did the same.
Am abstaining to gain so l can thrive in my purpose and calling.
Facts!
That's amazing!!
"Is this who I am or is this who I've become because of how I was raised" ~ Brittany Noel....
Wwwoooooowwwww
🌺🌸💕💕i love this episode.. I was in the way to work. I started crying. Because i left a toxic relationship i had with a Narcissist. I went threw physical an mental abuse. An i had to leave to live. Staying was slowly killing me. An im trying to heal. 💕💕💕
I understand 100%. Been there.
Today is my first time listening to this and this is the greatest podcast I have ever listened to…God has His own timing! This is powerful!!!
Look y’all, I’ve been on my healing journey for 3 days and I cannot stop weeping. I didn’t realize how broken my heart is and that I’ve been walking around burdened with pain. God help me🙏🏿
This is exactly where you're supposed to me. The pain will soon subside and you'll walk in freedom. There's light at the end of the tunnel.
Exactly! Find the purpose in the pain!
I’m currently fully immersed in my healing and listening to this message has opened my mind to other areas that I must explore. Thank you! 🙏
Yesssss you have to forgive in order to heal. That was a lesson I had to learn. Because people will never admit that they have wronged you. And they are living their life and we are still holding on. Forgiveness isn't for them it's for the person that was hurt.
“If They Want To... They Gone To:The Power To Choose “ by Shavon A. Hampton speaks on this exact thing.
It is hard & yet important to not allow your failures to decide your worthiness. It is hard & yet necessary.
“We talk ourselves into downplaying what we want so that we are easier to love.” Struck a chord!!
Healing is so beautiful. It’s being present. Feeling your emotions. Sitting with it. Developing coping mechanisms to deal with it. Moving on from it. Therapy heals and renews. So grateful to be on this journey.
Ladies, there are So Many Nuggets of Wisdom on this Podcast💕 Now, Imagine using Some of the Nuggets of Wisdom as Daily Affirmations to help you to Evolve into the Best Version of Yourself PRIOR to meeting your Purpose Partner (If this is one of your Desires).💭🙌🏾💕 Be Encouraged🥰
Your preaching sis, I am one of those women who didn't get to your point until I was 50, I didn't know my worth. So impactful 🙌 your purpose is going to help so many young women 🙏🙏
Forgiveness is POWER CHANGING LIFE!!!
"Our chemistry will become our ministry. "
Powerful stuff!
Ur on ur way!!!!
Amen!
You know. I think it’s a must to shed a tear or two watching these podcasts. Doing the work and "healing the first time" is so profound. I adopted this notion as a child when my mother made the statement, "Do it right the first time, and you won’t have to do it again." She was referring to cleaning at the time, but in that moment I understood the value associated with time and putting forth your best effort on the first attempt rather than time after time after time after time again. We have all heard the expression that “time is money.” Therefore, taking this into account, everyone should gravitate towards the understanding that their time is invaluable. It’s the one thing we can’t move forward or back, in spite of the semiannual attempts to either spring forward or fall back.
Now onto this breakdown. This podcast was everything I imagined it to be, and slightly a bit more. I knew her place of healing brought about this unwavering confidence of a woman who sat before me, spewing out these hard truths. She had done the work, and the shell, which may have once been unsure about its inner content, now appreciated and understood the substance of its core. So when I finally got to view more than the 90 seconds I shared on my Facebook page, I knew my discovery was meant to be.
Speaking from both perspectives, as someone in need of healing (a patient) and a therapist, her response was that people get really creative in ways to medicate the breakup instead of processing it, sometimes by any means necessary, and through the use of sex, eating, shopping, working, and so forth to distract themselves from healing. Then, while they may have felt powerless over the reality of the relationship's dissolution, these fictitious coping factors provided a false sense of control, self-control, and so on. Power, so to speak. And, just like the rest of the message that was to follow, the revelation was POWERFUL. I’ll just leave it right there. She said all that needed to be said. There are certainly no disagreements here.
Much like your aunt’s advice at 16 years old following the devastating breakup of a childhood or high school sweetheart, I’ve gotten my share of bad directions. It’s not pretty, to say the least, but, like you, I’m thankful that, despite my limited experience, something inside me nudged that that’s not right. Then arose my desire for interpretation of scripture, as it clearly expressed, "Seek, and you shall find." Let any man who lacks wisdom inquire. It was at this moment, in this very process of filtering the King James Version of chapters and verses, that I learned to ask for what I thought I lacked. And like the podcaster, his image of who I was was reshaped in me and not that of the outside world. You were right to say people can take on a false sense of control when operating or controlling situations via emotionally driven actions. A very bad place to guide or lead from, as our emotions are dependent on the shift or flow of the wind, meaning our reactions are influenced by our circumstances, and that’s a recipe for total disaster.
I will hold dear to my heart the phrase “we give away freely of what we don’t perceive as high value.” No more. This is a reminder that everything has a value, and my temple, much like explained in scripture, is deemed priceless.
I am rooting for the I Am Worthy Movement. Nothing but good things and positive outcomes can abound from it. Teaching women that they don’t need anyone’s permission to be who they are is surreal. Imagine the healing that is to arise from such fundamentals. Knowing that you are worthy of love with boundaries but without walls. #WithoutBarriers or #Bars These ladies are in for a real treat. Much like the one male who stated he didn’t want to do the assignment because he had been disappointed so many times that mentally he was afraid to dream again. These ladies will overcome that hurdle and thrive to help others do the same. Starting a healthy trend of caring for one another and creating healthier households around the world. #AGlobalMovement As a matter of fact, the work has already begun. The podcaster stated that God revealed to him in a vision that his obedience is connected to the freedom of other men. #GodQualifiedHim Reverse engineered to be exact and aligned both wills. Your movement will take flight as opposed to your aunt’s advice in that moment, as she gave you her coping mechanism from her experience, which you rejected; these women won’t reject the teachings or the work, and complete healing will be their divine portions.
The brief discussion on brokenness was noteworthy and a great additional strong point. When we succumb to the idea that we will stop mandating problems rather than addressing them, because if we don't, we will run to other people, either spreading our brokenness or inheriting their brokenness, this is a fact. This holds nothing but truth. Thus, much like Maya Angelou’s “believe them the first time,” “heal the first time.” Don’t self-medicate with alcohol or any other means. You deserve to feel complete, as you alone are enough. Repeat. Paraphrasing, “You are enough and you’re worthy of completeness.” Like you, there’s a mirror of ugly truths awaiting all who haven’t done the proper work to heal. That moment when you no longer identify with the image looking back at you is the very moment you need to seek so that you can find. I Am Worthy, and so are you. Register to start your healing journey and become the best version of yourself, because, darling, you’re worthy. I'm wishing you both the best. The letter to your future wife said healing is your portion, and forgiveness is so powerful that it omits the need for any apology. It will continuously yield greater outside of restrictions. The walls you built are down, and who you are is already being revealed to your future wife. As you and she both do the work, the day will come when the letters won’t be necessary yet still be admired.
🙏🏾Blessings
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✝️Supporting Scripture(s):
Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
James 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
1 Corinthians 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Corinthians 6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
This is extremely beautiful, when we take accountability, there are no regrets, only lessons, progress growth etc. Powerful episode.
The title got me. This may be what I have been waiting for. Let me watch 😎
❤️❤️❤️❤️ so so helpful. God tell me what you see and what do you want me to be. Thank you.
Each One Teach One.....thank you Miss Brittainy Noel!
I picked up all the gems that she dropped! My last break-up was in 2019. This break-up brought me closer to God. My heart was truly broken because I thought we were going to get married, but I also had to realize that God answered my prayer. I asked Him to end the relationship if it was not for me and the relationship ended. So, I had to trust God that He knows what's best for me. Instead of being mad at my ex, I chose to reflect on me. I chose to reflect on the mistakes I made in the relationship. Although we did not have sexual intercourse, it was close, and this is what God revealed to me. He revealed to me that I did not keep my promise to Him and to myself to keep myself pure. And purity goes beyond intercourse. That break-up opened my eyes to what being obedient to God looks like and the blessings that come from it. My healing journey has been truly eye opening. Thank you, Lord! 🙌🙌🙌 Our chemistry will be our ministry. ❤
I am 50 years old and I am on a journey of healing. I believe God set things in your path for a reason. Although I wish this would have come earlier in my life. I can't change my past but I can do the work now. I still have life. Thank you Lord 😊.
This was another fantastic podcast. Britney was telling my story with every word she spoke. I started to write in my journal what I am going to disown. I applaud you for your forgiveness words at the end. Love your words and your work.😍🙏🏿
Thank you so much
This is a literal virtual therapy session ❤️
Oh my, She is so reading my story!! I am allowing myself to heal and gain understanding in areas that I did not value myself thus casting my "pearls to swine"
👏👏 another awesome confirming episode. A lot of times we get into relationships with high expectations of the other person( to fulfill us). when we must show up in high expectations of being our authentic self."Being Happy on Purpose" & allowing that other person to add to what God already placed inside of us.
The revelation of repeating the cycle until you heal is my life right now...I’m am coming out of the fog through therapy and realizing experiences in my chosen career were recreating trauma from my childhood. When we’re ready and the support is there the healing began and continues. Thanks for the video!! It was right on time for me and I’m sure many others
I know exactly that feeling. Trying to heal from an unwanted divorce of 20 plus years. I feel daily that I am on the operating table with my heart cut out, and the anesthesiologist has left the room without administering not an ounce of pain meds! My husband moved on, that’s why he divorced me. It’s easier to move on than to acknowledge what’s broken in you and attempt to heal. Instead, destroy your entire family and break the heart of your wife who loves and is praying for you. In counseling, many years ago, he said, if all that brokeness and hurt is in him, then that’s just where it needs to stay. 😮With the level of pain this has left me in, I know only God can heal me. Thank you for sharing your healing journey.
Whoo Chile! She shared part of my story as well. The Lord uses us to heal each other. I am a true believer in the light and energy of the Holy Spirit. Once we are disciplined and adhere to HIS teachings and learn from our own experiences and others…. I am still healing and healing others. I am grateful for the podcast because I don’t feel alone in this journey.
Awesome content, so many of us men have the love language of Words Of Affirmation. And Ms. Noel touched on that with speaking to the King inside of him. It's so vital that we uplift each other, especially those we are in a relationship with. Thanks for another great message!
Woooooow ‘you were my moon, sun, earth everything and I was nothing but something you used to wipe your hands and walked away’ felt that!
Brittainy Noel has such a meek, quiet and humble spirit. She shared so many nuggets of truth.. I truly loved this session and I am only half way into watching this session.
It’s the morning after Yom Kippur, and I believe it was intentional that I saw this episode today. I have been up since last night, unable to sleep. I have and am doing the healing work from my previous relationship. But what hit home and designated the most was when you said you needed to forgive. Yes, I have forgiven him, but I haven’t forgiven myself. Self-giveness is often briefly mentioned but never fully explained. In my blog, I will help others know its importance. I love your podcast and your tours. This past season, you and your pastor helped me understand my worth through his engagement. Now, you have helped me close the final door. Yahweh is intentional. Thank you!
“My true value comes from a healed perspective. I'm solid whether you're here or not when i know who I am. When someone comes into my life they are an addition“. 🙌🏾 practical teaching. COME ON!
Love that!
"I need you to tell me who I'm supposed to be." THANK YOU.
Zambia in the building🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
"our chemistry will be our ministry", said no man before. Wow😭😭😭
This video has truly changed my perspective and life. Thank You Holy Spirit! Thank you both for doing this POWERFUL podcast! I love the letter at the end too!
That part about not needing the green light on who you are,& needing men's validation was deep. It hurt a little to hear but it was so good. 😔🤦🏾♀️💯
I'm blown right away!!! The episode title is beyond apt!!! God's speaking loudly to my past, my current healing journey and onto the future I can see God bringing to birth. Sis, I'm healing 🎉
...this message also applies to toxic relationships with emotionally unavailable and emotionally unintelligent parents...one, the other or both.... honoring them does not mean continue to subject yourself to their verbal and mental abuse... release them and be healed...
Such peace is found in the truth of ones testimony! Praise God for healing.❤
Whew, I watched this three times and each time I have a take-away/action item. Thank you for freely sharing.
Latteras! God is using you and your podcast to heal many...
I AM ON OF THE PEOPLE BEING HEALED
this one was very timely...
Much love and blessings sir❤️❤️
You are so welcome!
@@DearFutureWifey Miss Brittainy you made me Cry Cry Crying!!! Because I'm going through some of your testimony. GOD BLESS YOU.
Yes!!!!!! Being healed is just awesome. A healed person exudes beauty to their environment and those around them.
Oh my God the “kids left woman!” Was so me! And these podcasts are helping me heal!😢🙏🏾🥰🙌🏾🤗
The way I am nodding my head in agreement to what’s being said here. if anyone can see me am sure I appear to be crazy . Thank you so much for this
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"Our chemistry will be our ministry"....... You better SPEAK that!!!
This episode spoke volumes to me.... always a pleasure watching your podcast....
And that's a fact
@@DearFutureWifey👀 I see!! My, my, my.... I know that's right!!
This is really good!!
Give yourself permission! Stop looking for validation from other people.
That living with an ex after a break up is nuts... I've been there!!
Oh wow. God told me that same thing when I got the news about my son's medical issues while pregnant. He said, "If you don't get up right now you will go into a pit that you will not come out of." Wow.
Brittny, you are spot on about the healing of women through life.
The Bible says we overcome by the blood of the lamb and POWER of our Testimony. It is our transparency and truth of our journey with God and what He is doing in and through us that are the seeds and water from which God brings the increase and gets the glory. Thank you Brittainy and Laterras for showing up and sharing.
I've been watching a lot of the episodes lately. This is by far the best for ME thus far💜💜
This episode blessed me tenfold, I cried tears of joy at the end! I also live by Iyanla's quote "who I be" because my best friend pointed out years ago, I have a tendency to be mindful of what kind of experience i want people to receive from me. I'm thankful for the nuggets and jewels I received, I'm continuing on my journey of healing and on the way have received so many breakthroughs and revelations. I've also found myself in the process and am TRULY discovering and loving me for the first time at 32 years old. God bless this podcast, Mr. Whitfield and Brittany. 🙏🏾💜
Who am I? I am the light,warmth,love,peace. Thank you so much for this🇿🇦🇿🇦. I couldn’t have everything I wanted in my life but I have you God. Thank you for healing me🙏🏽
I’m living proof of everything she stated