This is so interesting! I didn’t apply to any ~super~ elite schools but even if I got in, I think I would’ve felt very uncomfortable being surrounded by mega rich students. I’m about to graduate from a CUNY (NY public college) and I’m so happy I transferred here. The tuition is very low (relative to other schools) and most of my costs have been covered by financial aid over the past two years. Sometimes I do imagine an alternate universe where I ended up at different schools, but my entire life path would’ve been completely different, and it’s all good bc I’m happy where I am.
It is really difficult to not be resentful of other people's blessings (esp. wealth, and if it is accompanied by the abilities that ensure academic and career success). It is very wise of you to be aware of it, and not want that negativity in your life. You are a really inspiring young woman and wise beyond your years. I applaud your family and community for having supported such a wonderful young woman. Keep up the good work, and I'd like to hear more on how you stay focused while using social media, your productivity tools, etc. Thanks.
I honestly feel the same way and I chose Winona State University (medium-sized school in MN) over MIT... what people don't realize is that a lot of people just don't "vibe" with the top universities. I knew instantly when I stepped onto MIT's campus that it wasn't for me. Edit: the financial aid was another big part of my decision.
@Karthik Kuppala Anshu Student loans are no joke. I have a friend who went to Columbia for Econ and is going to be paying back debt for the next fifteen years of his life.
The California idea is interesting - I have the feeling as well, with no rationale. I guess I like the idea of a completely different life. Recently I’ve been more appreciative of living in the Carolinas, though. We really do have great nature and great weather, I wish I would have appreciated it more growing up.
Not sure if you’ll see this but this video is a godsend. I’m literally in the same situation, and imposter syndrome hit so hard. A month ago I didn’t think I’d get into either. And now I’m like “who do you think you are turning down Stanford?” But UNC makes the most sense all around. Thank you for sharing.
Gosh, I wish I had realized the things you did and turned down my super elite school. I was oblivious, then got there and was a fish out of water with the ultra-privlidged.
I find it so Interesting to hear the other side of UNC. I always set myself to attend UNC and after spending my summer there I just felt like the only reason why UNC wanted me was only because I was another number to increase inclusivity and diversity. Although many universities that reached out to me used the “diverse Hispanic community” UNC made me feel like that was my only purpose for being there and it just felt fake. I’m glad chapel hill is a great fit for others, but I’m also so glad I didn’t commit just because of the “prestige.”
This was so interesting to watch and I love your perspective - my top schools are Duke, UNC, Stanford, and Berkeley and seeing you turn down the prestigious and elitist schools helps me with my decision! I am from South Carolina (only 30 minutes away from NC) and I am super interested in the Morehead Cain scholarship. I hope you keep making videos because you’re a very influential figure to me - you inspired me to go vegan, to challenge myself in school, and to think differently. :)
"High Interest Savings" does not exist. Real inflation, even 2yrs ago, was in the range of 10%. You cannot keep your fiat money in a savings any more than you can put it in a mattress. Buy gold or silver on the stablish anti-inflation end.. and BTC, ETH, ADA etc on the high-risk end... and some stocks in the middle.
I want to go to a snowy place and I dont live in a snowy place, but I am considering staying in my state, mostly because of the in-state tuition saving.
Malcom Gladwell has talked about this. Elite universities don't educate people significantly better than state schools, and the network opportunities on average aren't all that different. Instead, elite school graduates tend to do well because they would do well no matter what school they went to - they are just talented/driven people. In matched pair studies, students (like you) that could either go to elite universities or state-flagship universities are in about the same position 10 years down the road either way they play it, according to Gladwell. czcams.com/video/Yx7K-2oJq7g/video.html
I have one question if you see this: I live 30 minutes away from NC, but I don’t go to a Morehead Cain nominating school. Do you know if I’m still eligible to receive the scholarship?
@@danielledupreez Ah well I found you with you're "double major" video and for some reason gathered that you were an English major. Looking back I now realize I skipped the part where you said your majors. My bad. Btw, interesting combination, Linguistics and Comp Sci. I'd say it's just as odd as my combination (Physics and English). Good luck mate!
Im glad you re back, AP Queen
OMG I forgot that used to be her channel name hahah
This is so interesting! I didn’t apply to any ~super~ elite schools but even if I got in, I think I would’ve felt very uncomfortable being surrounded by mega rich students. I’m about to graduate from a CUNY (NY public college) and I’m so happy I transferred here. The tuition is very low (relative to other schools) and most of my costs have been covered by financial aid over the past two years. Sometimes I do imagine an alternate universe where I ended up at different schools, but my entire life path would’ve been completely different, and it’s all good bc I’m happy where I am.
It is really difficult to not be resentful of other people's blessings (esp. wealth, and if it is accompanied by the abilities that ensure academic and career success). It is very wise of you to be aware of it, and not want that negativity in your life. You are a really inspiring young woman and wise beyond your years. I applaud your family and community for having supported such a wonderful young woman. Keep up the good work, and I'd like to hear more on how you stay focused while using social media, your productivity tools, etc. Thanks.
I honestly feel the same way and I chose Winona State University (medium-sized school in MN) over MIT... what people don't realize is that a lot of people just don't "vibe" with the top universities. I knew instantly when I stepped onto MIT's campus that it wasn't for me.
Edit: the financial aid was another big part of my decision.
Ayyy my dad went to Winona state for a year lmao
@@io.rrracso nice!
@Karthik Kuppala Anshu Student loans are no joke. I have a friend who went to Columbia for Econ and is going to be paying back debt for the next fifteen years of his life.
The California idea is interesting - I have the feeling as well, with no rationale. I guess I like the idea of a completely different life. Recently I’ve been more appreciative of living in the Carolinas, though. We really do have great nature and great weather, I wish I would have appreciated it more growing up.
Not sure if you’ll see this but this video is a godsend. I’m literally in the same situation, and imposter syndrome hit so hard. A month ago I didn’t think I’d get into either. And now I’m like “who do you think you are turning down Stanford?” But UNC makes the most sense all around. Thank you for sharing.
Gosh, I wish I had realized the things you did and turned down my super elite school. I was oblivious, then got there and was a fish out of water with the ultra-privlidged.
I find it so Interesting to hear the other side of UNC. I always set myself to attend UNC and after spending my summer there I just felt like the only reason why UNC wanted me was only because I was another number to increase inclusivity and diversity. Although many universities that reached out to me used the “diverse Hispanic community” UNC made me feel like that was my only purpose for being there and it just felt fake. I’m glad chapel hill is a great fit for others, but I’m also so glad I didn’t commit just because of the “prestige.”
I feel you should start podcasting, your subscribers would enjoy it so much!
Love your content!
Welcome back! Missed you! Please stay safe.
P.s. Could you possibly have a video with your lovely cat?
So glad you're back!!!!!! Can't wait for you to be back at the essay editing game too
This was so interesting to watch and I love your perspective - my top schools are Duke, UNC, Stanford, and Berkeley and seeing you turn down the prestigious and elitist schools helps me with my decision! I am from South Carolina (only 30 minutes away from NC) and I am super interested in the Morehead Cain scholarship. I hope you keep making videos because you’re a very influential figure to me - you inspired me to go vegan, to challenge myself in school, and to think differently. :)
Finances are my main concern in choosing between these four schools. I appreciate the financial advice!
"High Interest Savings" does not exist. Real inflation, even 2yrs ago, was in the range of 10%. You cannot keep your fiat money in a savings any more than you can put it in a mattress. Buy gold or silver on the stablish anti-inflation end.. and BTC, ETH, ADA etc on the high-risk end... and some stocks in the middle.
Love your vids!!!
Keep it up!
So did you graduate this May? What are your plans next? Did you apply for jobs and if so what kind of jobs? I thought your degree was in linguistics?
I want to go to a snowy place and I dont live in a snowy place, but I am considering staying in my state, mostly because of the in-state tuition saving.
Glad you’re back!! I hope you keep posting!!! :)
I've missed your videos so much
great video ! ilearned about why you chose unc over stanford 💖😼😼💖
Thanks! 💕🐅
thank you for this
do you check essays for UK applications, too?
Great video!
Hello 👋 I’m new to this channel, your video gave really good insight on how to choose your college.
I wanted to ask you on how I can submit my essay to you...?
Hey，may i ask what is your STATS?
Hi Dani are you receiving essays??
Malcom Gladwell has talked about this. Elite universities don't educate people significantly better than state schools, and the network opportunities on average aren't all that different. Instead, elite school graduates tend to do well because they would do well no matter what school they went to - they are just talented/driven people. In matched pair studies, students (like you) that could either go to elite universities or state-flagship universities are in about the same position 10 years down the road either way they play it, according to Gladwell. czcams.com/video/Yx7K-2oJq7g/video.html
R u editing essays?
I know you won’t see this but may you help with my essay please
I have one question if you see this: I live 30 minutes away from NC, but I don’t go to a Morehead Cain nominating school. Do you know if I’m still eligible to receive the scholarship?
Why don't you call the school and ask them? The school will tell you who is eligible.
The outro tho😂😂 that called me out lmao
Wait... you go to UNC? And you're also a senior? Why have I never met or even seen you in the English department lol
Maybe because I've never been to the English department 😅
@@danielledupreez Ah well I found you with you're "double major" video and for some reason gathered that you were an English major. Looking back I now realize I skipped the part where you said your majors. My bad. Btw, interesting combination, Linguistics and Comp Sci. I'd say it's just as odd as my combination (Physics and English). Good luck mate!
Missed you, would you mind giving me some premed advice if I dmed you on instagram?
You are so cute and frank:)
Yo, are you vegan?