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  • Evil MIL Mocked me as just a “Trophy wife” at her Anniversary party and said Cruel Things about my Miscarriage. Her Husband Shocked everyone and now she's Paying the Price.

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  • @Goodgame215
    @Goodgame215 Před měsícem +1020

    I don't care if the stories are fake or not ;they are always entertaining

    • @arasaychaviano3746
      @arasaychaviano3746 Před měsícem +46

      Exactly. I love me some fiction😁

    • @Gabbz737NEW
      @Gabbz737NEW Před měsícem +96

      ​@@arasaychaviano3746
      At this point, aren't we just listening to soap operas on the radio like our grandmother's generation did?
      Lol
      I can tell when the stories are real or fake but they usually are entertaining, either way.

    • @viceakin6401
      @viceakin6401 Před měsícem +13

      @@Gabbz737NEWhuh, didn’t think of it like that but yeah fair point

    • @exusiaixmostima7696
      @exusiaixmostima7696 Před měsícem +11

      it not about fake or not it about how they make the story enjoyable and entertaining

    • @BurghFinsFan
      @BurghFinsFan Před měsícem +18

      Same, I really don’t care if they’re fake as long as they’re entertaining. Usually I give the benefit of the doubt and believe them though, as long as the narrator is consistent in their storytelling.

  • @munchie3909
    @munchie3909 Před měsícem +858

    I like how the mom’s like “This POOR GIRL is so POOR!” Then is like “Stop making more money than my son, you POOR GIRL!”

  • @bakedandbeaded
    @bakedandbeaded Před měsícem +442

    Even if these are fake, I just treat them like mini soap opera podcasts lol.

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 Před měsícem +238

    imagine waking up in the gushing evidence of a miscarriage and then having your mom accuse your partner of "killing the baby." like wow, good job mil, you played yourself, you hammered that last nail right in huh?

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +24

      OPs hubby did a good job of protecting her from his Mom. As someone who was raised by a TOTAL B, believe me, there's no shutting a woman like that up. Also, she'll never admit that she was wrong. Too bad the gal that was pregnant didn't go over to her after she blamed the miscarriage on OP and gave her a solid jack slap upside the head. I wouldn't even blame FIL if he did.

    • @morganleanderblake678
      @morganleanderblake678 Před měsícem +16

      @@lindah3803 Oh I agree I'm just thinking from his POV. Imagine having woken up in gore and then have your mom do that at a party. HOrrifying.
      TBH, I think just about anyone could've smacked her mouth and gotten away with it right then. Accusing a person grieving a miscarriage of murder is just about the worst ever inlaw sin short of actual crimes.

  • @smorphous8928
    @smorphous8928 Před měsícem +347

    It’s 100x worse that the Mil blamed Op for the death of Ops child.

    • @HughJassMarioFan2009
      @HughJassMarioFan2009 Před měsícem +20

      But karma got her because she got divorced by her husband and got sued by OP's parents for harassment and defamation. And you know what? Idc if the stories are fake. As long as they're entertaining, I still watch them.

    • @christopherbull7856
      @christopherbull7856 Před měsícem +6

      At least FIL is one of the one good guys since most arent when MIL is evil in stories like this

    • @kgunitkeese17
      @kgunitkeese17 Před měsícem

      Link?

  • @palamedes4740
    @palamedes4740 Před měsícem +218

    Not the "What happened next will shock you"...alright facebook calm down

  • @MrMK211516
    @MrMK211516 Před měsícem +56

    Remember ladies, miscarriages are very common. Unless you're doing drugs, or extreme sports knowing you're pregnant, it's not your fault. I've seen people have one kid and miscarriage after miscarriage, until they quit trying. Or have one kid after many miscarriages. Either way it's not your fault.

    • @nekoboy56
      @nekoboy56 Před měsícem +5

      Exactly! I have a high school friend who has 4 kids and 4 angel babies. She and her husband both post videos and live streams about their lives and they're pretty awesome parents! No favoritisms there.

  • @notting2640
    @notting2640 Před měsícem +83

    15:58 The fact that Redditors immediately jumped to blame the husband even though he tried his best is the reason why people like the MIL exists 😂
    Taking away accountability from women will just enable them to act like children.

    • @panicwithcompulsion
      @panicwithcompulsion Před měsícem +19

      It is the husband's fault. He kept allowing his mother around his wife, who proceeded to predictably harass and degrade his wife, over and over.. Set boundaries is only step 1. Step 2 is to enforce by any means necessary, even if that results in permanent no contact. His attempts were always half-assed. People like MIL exist because others fail to set and maintain boundaries. He basically just issued empty threats to her. Why would she take it seriously? It's not anyone's job to raise an adult woman right; but it is the husband's job to protect his wife from his family and not let this carry on. A decent partner would have uninvited her from the wedding after MIL called his wife fat.

    • @itsharperoffi
      @itsharperoffi Před měsícem +6

      ​​@@panicwithcompulsionplus don"t forget Mark was berating OP for leaving his mother when she was mean to OP all day. The fact that he didn't even listened to OP's side of the story before he started berating her and automaticly belived his mother says a lot. And yes he said sorry later but the damage is already done

    • @panicwithcompulsion
      @panicwithcompulsion Před měsícem +2

      @@itsharperoffi Ye, that's a great point :0!

    • @aylanae4797
      @aylanae4797 Před 12 dny

      And before that time. OP said the MIL would ignore her in front of the husband. You damn right its her hubbys fault. But OP clearly seen what she was signing up for.

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 Před měsícem +28

    Im so amazed at how narcissists manage to be victims when their actual victim is protecting themselves

  • @PodcastStories123
    @PodcastStories123 Před měsícem +29

    I find it amusing how the mother switches from pitying the girl's financial situation to resenting her success, as if saying, "Oh, this girl is so unfortunate," but then suddenly exclaiming, "Stop surpassing my son in wealth, you unfortunate girl!"

  • @donkeyhigh8420
    @donkeyhigh8420 Před měsícem +43

    Mark should have done two things:
    1. Making sure that when you meet up at parties, everyone is exited to see YOU, much more so than MIL so she understands that no one cares about her wishes or thoughts.
    2. He should ignore his mom until she acknowledges his wife. Stand next to MIL and talk with wife as if MIL isn't there.
    In general, make it VERY clear to his mom that his wife comes first.

    • @Jerrrrrrrrrr
      @Jerrrrrrrrrr Před měsícem +5

      It's not easy for Mark either, family bonds are hard to break. Think and understand before you give suggestions like this. As much as he wanted to cut off, he also wanted his choices and his life to be accepted by both of his parents. It's hard when you have overbearing people as your caretakers.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +6

      Your idea may work for a subdued or regular person. Definitely won't work for a AAA Grade Raving B like his Mom.
      It seems that you have been fortunate to have not had dealings with the likes of his Mom.

    • @meandmeself
      @meandmeself Před měsícem

      The 2nd one is a good one I was thinking of too while listening to this

    • @iamsatanjr
      @iamsatanjr Před 18 dny

      @@lindah3803 100% agree. A normal person could maybe be able to take a step back. A person like this turbo-skank on meth would only get incresingly upset because she's "clearly wronged in some way"

  • @Steve-ni2mr
    @Steve-ni2mr Před měsícem +17

    The idea of "ignoring her" was a mistake. People like MIL will keep getting worse until someone stands up to them.

  • @Mightype
    @Mightype Před měsícem +52

    4:38 I like how it says shit instead of shut, gave me a good laugh.

  • @hinatakenpachi6564
    @hinatakenpachi6564 Před měsícem +12

    Wait... so FiL had a prenup. That means she either was a spoiled brat from her parents and had nothing to her name which makes her poor as well, Or she was "middle class" which in her eyes is poor as well. yet wants to attack op? lmao

    • @southernflight5078
      @southernflight5078 Před měsícem +4

      The B probably thought he'd never leave her. Woman got her Karma when she decided to live as a high schooler for eternity.

    • @IronWangCreates
      @IronWangCreates Před 12 dny +1

      You’d be surprised how classist people can be towards their own class. Mil probably had internalised feelings about the amount of money she grew up with, “married up” and then immediately started acting superior to show that she’s better than the others. She could be from the same class as OP, but would see herself as different, like “I’m from the same class as you but I’m not like you, I deserve to have money, you don’t”

  • @bookgirl2
    @bookgirl2 Před měsícem +21

    Why should she feel guilty? Even if this was in any way her fault, which it isn't, all of this was the catalyst that set her nice FIL free from 25 years of misery.

    • @Arissiah
      @Arissiah Před měsícem +2

      Right? That's what I was thinking, even if she did somehow cause it, she gave that man an out to finally be free

  • @DrEtzor
    @DrEtzor Před měsícem +4

    "that dress makes your arms look fat" that's like... are we in highschool? has this 40 something 50 something year old woman never gone through their puberty? sheesh.

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 Před měsícem +68

    lol the guys name is always mark

    • @the-nina-beans88
      @the-nina-beans88 Před měsícem +6

      Well… “ right on the mark”

    • @Nevearima
      @Nevearima Před měsícem +1

      @@the-nina-beans88 lol

    • @seyi6295
      @seyi6295 Před měsícem +5

      Obvie they’re using fake names. They choose the most whitebread basic names to be generic (mark, alex, sarah, sam etc)

    • @HughJassMarioFan2009
      @HughJassMarioFan2009 Před měsícem

      Oh Great Heavens!

    • @the_lynel
      @the_lynel Před 13 dny

      Ouch that's gonna leave a mark

  • @Top_G69_69
    @Top_G69_69 Před měsícem +80

    People who like Reddit stories
    👇🏾

  • @scooterberry0605
    @scooterberry0605 Před měsícem +3

    Love how she tried using the drunk excuse, i believe there's a saying of "a drunkard's words are a sober person's thoughts" if anything it just loosened her lips.

  • @myself-vz7bv
    @myself-vz7bv Před měsícem +4

    I consider my commute to work teatime now. Thanks telltales! Your telltale tea blend is always served always piping hot with dainty saindwiches and pastry!

  • @aftersexhighfives
    @aftersexhighfives Před měsícem +63

    The cousin giving her a hug after realizing what must have happened. Very sweet small detail. Not everyone in that family is evil. Thank goodness for FIL.

    • @iamsatanjr
      @iamsatanjr Před 18 dny

      From the story it seems the entire family, apart from MIL, is allright. Sounds like they saw the in-laws once every few months for most of it, bet they saw the extended family even less - but from what I gather, everyone in the extended family was friendly.
      It's just that MIL was a nasty-ass skank.

  • @bententinger5169
    @bententinger5169 Před měsícem +23

    I find it ironic that the trophy wife is the one complaining

  • @Olivia-yx9dh
    @Olivia-yx9dh Před měsícem +11

    Not MIL calling OP an outfit repeater! 😭😭😭

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +3

      When MIL told OP at the wedding that her dress didn't make her arms look fat, I had hoped she would've had a smack back for her.
      Something along the lines: Thanks, I already knew this dress was perfect. I must say, I'm surprised by your dress. I really didn't think you would wear a dress that made your butt look 3 times bigger. Have fun at the reception.😏

    • @Olivia-yx9dh
      @Olivia-yx9dh Před měsícem

      @@lindah3803 Just SOMETHING to put her in her place! Big BOOTIES are hawttt tho. The older generations don’t like to hear that tho! 😆🤣

    • @keenahgamboa
      @keenahgamboa Před měsícem +2

      OP may be an outfit repeater but MIL is an outfit rememberer, which is just as pathetic!

    • @Olivia-yx9dh
      @Olivia-yx9dh Před měsícem

      @@keenahgamboa 🤣🤣😭

    • @dimimariereads1217
      @dimimariereads1217 Před měsícem

      Its especially funny to me because i purposefully buy my wardrobe to 100% match... like full of exact copies. It reduces my anxiety and everyone around me knows and understands this so nobody judges me. 😅

  • @adrianamurillo6721
    @adrianamurillo6721 Před měsícem +19

    25th wedding anniversary? Those numbers don't add up. The people that make up these stories don't have married elders? Do the math.

    • @angelasy1854
      @angelasy1854 Před měsícem +8

      I totally do not get this comment. I did "do the math" and it's entirely feasible if the son and OP got together when they were(or at least the son was) only 18. OP said they have been together for "nearly 8 years", so at least 7 years, maybe? If we add 7 and 18, that would give us 25. So the parents of the husband celebrating 25th wedding anniversary is not impossible. What are you on about, @adrianamurillo6721?

    • @nkarma_
      @nkarma_ Před měsícem +2

      It doesn't sound like they have any grandchildren, or are very old by any means.
      My grandparents have been married for 50 years, my mother is also 50.
      The difference is, the IL's are not that old.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +7

      You do realize that ages for any of the players in this story were not given. The 25th Wedding Anniversary means nothing when it comes to the numbers.

    • @LetsGetPixeled
      @LetsGetPixeled Před měsícem +1

      If they are 50.that makes sense?

  • @NotTheOneInstigator
    @NotTheOneInstigator Před měsícem +2

    If I was mark, i would've told her
    "Run as fast as your lips then"
    Oh man, That would go well

  • @sarahreaume6659
    @sarahreaume6659 Před měsícem +2

    Yikes this was insane I’m glad that FIL was not toxic like MIL this is a lot worse than blaming op for the miscarriage of the child

  • @lazartestigus2414
    @lazartestigus2414 Před měsícem +4

    "Keep your mouth shit" im fucking using that on someone,im dying

  • @user-wg3uq9bn9f
    @user-wg3uq9bn9f Před měsícem +3

    Wow, this was big. I’m so sorry for your loss. Your child is in heaven❤😢 but not your mother-in-law. She’s in hell.

  • @konstantinnaumow505
    @konstantinnaumow505 Před měsícem +2

    NTA! Mil is just another level toxic. She did it herself, thats why Fil had enough

  • @rachelcampbell9733
    @rachelcampbell9733 Před dnem

    I was so blessed to have my MIL and I am still grieving the loss of that woman.

  • @niambidavis4295
    @niambidavis4295 Před měsícem +4

    Mil is a Massive AH, I hope FIL divorces her, that was not called for at all. Im glad that fil is divorcing her

  • @PrincessLala95
    @PrincessLala95 Před měsícem +3

    "made a comment about how I was repeating my clothes and how well-off people don't do this"
    Imagine what a sad existence rich people must live where they don't have a favourite shirt or pair of jeans or outfit or anything like that because they can't repeat clothing. There are few things in life as comforting and cozy as a favourite piece of clothing.

    • @the_lynel
      @the_lynel Před 13 dny

      Yes and the feeling of well worn clothes and I love the worn look of it too (not sarcasm it's actually kind of nice looking and people pay lots for pre-ripped jeans at stores instead of actually wearing them out themselves sometimes)

    • @IronWangCreates
      @IronWangCreates Před 12 dny +1

      It’s Nouveau Riche vs Old Money type of mindset I think. Old money considers visible wealth tacky and ostentatious spending to be “common” , nouveau riche is very into wearing their wealth and wealth signifiers etc. Think expensive tweed vs Gucci monogrammed jacket. Or the “ludicrously capacious bag” from Succession, or how Mark Zuckerberg and Steve Jobs dressed. Even the Queen was an outfit repeater!

  • @christophertolin7581
    @christophertolin7581 Před měsícem +37

    Why even marry Mark? I'm so tired of people saying I didn't expect this post to blow up. Yes, you did. That's why you posted it.

    • @the-nina-beans88
      @the-nina-beans88 Před měsícem +34

      Well it’s not Mark’s fault. He’s a decent guy who does deserve a wife. It’s just the Mil . The rest of his family had no issues with OP. That’s not fair that a decent man who has 1 bad parent who shouldn’t get married.
      That’s like saying my husband shouldn’t have married me when my Biological dad walked out on me my wedding day.

    • @FirePhoenix39
      @FirePhoenix39 Před měsícem +7

      @@the-nina-beans88 first, no one “deserves” a wife or husband. That’s not something you’re ever entitled to.
      Mark’s failure was not having a crazy mother, it was his reluctance to defend his wife from her. 10:35 This moment in the video pretty much sums up what Mark should’ve done, and not have waited through “years of disrespect” before he stepped in and protected his wife. Even then he doesn’t go through with his promise to cut his insane mother off, which later lets her mock his wife for having a miscarriage. Mark has failed way too many times, it doesn’t matter that he’s “a good guy” himself because his failure to act led to so much pain in his wife while he just stood by and watched.

    • @the-nina-beans88
      @the-nina-beans88 Před měsícem +9

      @@FirePhoenix39 ok… I guess I should rephrase it
      Mark wasn’t a mama’s boy, it’s not like he didn’t side with his mother. In the post you see him telling his mom to cut it out and the miscarriage one had him push to the limit that he cut his mom out.
      I guess “ deserve a spouse” wasn’t the correct word. I should have phrased it as “ mark isn’t a lost cause and he should have some love I. His life”
      His father is a good man the rest of the family was decent. This wasn’t totally
      Marks fault. But if you think having a shitty parent equals a person not allowed to fall in love or find a significant other then ok

    • @bakedandbeaded
      @bakedandbeaded Před měsícem

      @@FirePhoenix39 Oh for fuck’s sake, you know they mean they deserve someone to love them. Everyone deserves that, yes. If you think otherwise, you’re fucking insane.

    • @DeezSnowflakesAreInsane
      @DeezSnowflakesAreInsane Před měsícem +1

      LMAO for real

  • @npurohit11999988
    @npurohit11999988 Před měsícem +18

    Looks like an Indian story

  • @theogtimeclock
    @theogtimeclock Před měsícem +3

    IM ADDICTED TO THESE 1 HOUR STORYS I NEED THEMMMMM

  • @rmsiq148isstruggling3

    Medical advice, therapy and counselling is important after facing a miscarriage because it's a lot of emotional pain and knowing the biological truth about it helps with recovering and coping.

  • @gachagoddesskim7630
    @gachagoddesskim7630 Před 19 dny +1

    Idc if they might even be fake consider this free entertainment

  • @madisondean1074
    @madisondean1074 Před 19 dny

    Ironically, my own parents are celebrating their 25th anniversary this year as well. My mom also had a miscarriage just like OP and it still affects her to this day. I wasn't even aware of it until I turned 13. It was before my older sister was born. It's perfectly normal for a miscarriage to happen as it can be due to a number of different problems.

  • @chocolatemonster07
    @chocolatemonster07 Před 17 dny

    She's allowed to do this job if she wanted, as if MIL has a say in that WTF 🤬

  • @TheHestya
    @TheHestya Před měsícem

    MIL sounds like she's in love with her own son and wants to raise their baby as her own.

  • @mobslayerslayer7747
    @mobslayerslayer7747 Před 15 dny

    If this is real I feel so bad for this woman no woman should go through a miscarriage

  • @meatballman4585
    @meatballman4585 Před 26 dny

    Being a outfit remember is way worse than being a outfit repeater 😂

  • @emanuelepoma9046
    @emanuelepoma9046 Před měsícem +1

    It's not op's fault FIL divorced Mil, it's thanks to Op FIL divorced Mil

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 Před měsícem +2

    She's so lucky her spouse stood beside her through the entirety of that hell. It's not as common for spouses to genuinely defend each other like that which is sad.

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows Před 16 dny

    OP is doing it all wrong. clear she would never warm up to op. personally I would just wear the exact same t-shirt and jeans whenever I saw her

  • @juliejohnson7394
    @juliejohnson7394 Před 9 dny

    FIL should have never moved in with you. He needs his own place.

    • @Yo99753
      @Yo99753 Před 5 dny

      Why? He recently got separated from his wife, and no one can make arrangements that quickly.

  • @daphnepoon9380
    @daphnepoon9380 Před měsícem

    Thats a horrible mother

  • @Nsix4
    @Nsix4 Před měsícem

    "and I'm not even fat" finally a woman gets it.

  • @EmoMoondrop
    @EmoMoondrop Před měsícem +2

    I am so sorry for everything you have been through, I’m only 12 but I can fully understand how horrible that can be, but I have never experienced it. I am so sorry about you losing the baby and MIL had no right to say to say things to you, and I hope that you have many happy days ahead of you ❤

  • @Rin_Chawngthu
    @Rin_Chawngthu Před měsícem +3

    Mother-in-law has oedipus complex

    • @cheetahcreep
      @cheetahcreep Před měsícem +2

      Jocasta. When it's the mother it's called Jocasta complex, she's the mom who married Oedipus, the son, in the original story of Oedipus Rex

    • @Rin_Chawngthu
      @Rin_Chawngthu Před měsícem +3

      @@cheetahcreep ohh thanks . I didn't know that 👍 new info just dropped for me

    • @cheetahcreep
      @cheetahcreep Před měsícem +2

      @@Rin_Chawngthu no problem! Oedipus Rex was one of my favorite reads in high school 😆 I live to drop info ❤️ also because the psychological complex is absolutely wild to witness in real life (had an ex MIL with serious jocasta complex).

  • @D0LLC0R3
    @D0LLC0R3 Před 22 dny

    13:22 the way my jaw DROPPED.

  • @roxycauldwell544
    @roxycauldwell544 Před měsícem +2

    This whole story is unessecary lol just BLOCK HER.

    • @thousandyardgavri2785
      @thousandyardgavri2785 Před měsícem

      it probably happened in a long span of time. they most likely never had contact in between. MIL had the opportunity to attack and did which is why the story exists

  • @silviaborges3505
    @silviaborges3505 Před 16 dny

    We all know it’s fake, but can you we have more complex characters? We need faulty ppl and reasonable villains

  • @edenfieldjason
    @edenfieldjason Před měsícem +1

    So rewearing clothes makes you poor?

  • @epimetheaus1214
    @epimetheaus1214 Před měsícem

    Love the little bugger?
    I sense my fellow countrymen in this story.

  • @chessieray1465
    @chessieray1465 Před měsícem +1

    Thank God for karma.

  • @nouxiong7293
    @nouxiong7293 Před měsícem

    I FINALLY RECOGNIZE THIS MUSIC IN THE BACKGROUND,ITS FROM OVERCOOKED.

  • @cosmicrae
    @cosmicrae Před měsícem

    Best FIL ever.

  • @failingartist3524
    @failingartist3524 Před měsícem

    Im not sure their problem was keeping her in their life

  • @JamesWithDeeds
    @JamesWithDeeds Před měsícem

    NPD

  • @tylergreene8018
    @tylergreene8018 Před měsícem

    i swear i heard this story before

  • @evanduckworth9681
    @evanduckworth9681 Před měsícem

    I’m the type of petty mfer to wear sweatpants to your anniversary party

  • @lizxu322
    @lizxu322 Před měsícem

    Both mark and FIL sucks for putting up with MIL so long.

  • @phenyobrander4515
    @phenyobrander4515 Před 11 dny

    You are not at fault

  • @RealAlbertFingernoodle
    @RealAlbertFingernoodle Před měsícem

    7:46 (personal timestamp)

  • @f687sNFM
    @f687sNFM Před měsícem +2

    Op pretty much brought this on herself, she always needs someone to defend her and doesn't reject the mils insults and just cries. But then again it's an AI story that just compiles all the cliches

    • @Friday1207
      @Friday1207 Před měsícem +5

      Try not to blame women for everything challenge go!

    • @zucc51
      @zucc51 Před měsícem +3

      Typical blaming the victim

    • @bakedandbeaded
      @bakedandbeaded Před měsícem

      @@Friday1207 Oh please. Women aren’t the ones to blame in every situation but in this one? She needed to grow a backbone man.

  • @andrewroyle2847
    @andrewroyle2847 Před měsícem

    Fake but really fun to read

  • @hollywu7768
    @hollywu7768 Před měsícem +1

    I don't think she fits this family. Get mil buy more things to you and call her mom. Never be straight about your finances. Bigger rock in the ring? It is to show that your son is was raised well and went one step higher in life.
    Being sly can safe family from extra drama.

  • @grim_reapepper
    @grim_reapepper Před měsícem

    4:38 💩💀💀💀

  • @BlackHawk21ification
    @BlackHawk21ification Před 3 dny

    It's always kinda sad to hear about a married couple not wanting kids

  • @clay5291
    @clay5291 Před měsícem

    Strange when people don’t want kids. Unless it’s economical reasons

    • @lunarsensitive1
      @lunarsensitive1 Před měsícem +1

      Some people don't have nurturing energy and that is totally valid. Better to not have kids than to have kids you don't want to take care of.

    • @zucc51
      @zucc51 Před měsícem +1

      Breeding is not the reason people have relationships I personally don't want kids because I think it's a waste of time

    • @clay5291
      @clay5291 Před měsícem

      @@zucc51 that’s sad. I think it’s a concern over economics or not wanting the tiredness of responsibility of another human.

    • @clay5291
      @clay5291 Před měsícem

      @@lunarsensitive1 if someone doesn’t have that energy then how can they get deep emotionally on a relationship? It’s more about sex and companionship at that point.

    • @IronWangCreates
      @IronWangCreates Před 12 dny

      @@clay5291there’s a huge difference between having and raising a child, and being in a relationship, energy wise.
      Being in a relationship doesn’t require you to be exclusively responsible for keeping someone alive for a few years solid, I’ve never had a relationship that required me to wake up multiple times in the night for months on end.
      And when I’ve been struggling, with health or just mentally, I’ve been able to take time to myself when in a relationship. You can’t do that with a child, you can’t take a break from being a parent.
      I don’t want kids, because I’ve never had a maternal urge. Kids are cool, but I don’t desperately want one, and I don’t want to have a kid if I’m anything less than 100% invested because it’s not fair to the kid. I also have health issues, so even adopting it would be difficult to take care of a kid the way they deserve.
      Not everyone wants kids, and realistically the best thing to do is be accepting of that, rather than encouraging people who shouldn’t be parents to be parents because “wanting kids is natural” or whatever

  • @JuliaJuanaAlvarez
    @JuliaJuanaAlvarez Před měsícem +3

    Telltales is just the new version of fake as reddit storys. Still don't know what is more sad, people wasting time to actually make up and writte that crap or people who watch it and actually believe those storys are real

    • @-venomblustudios-7069
      @-venomblustudios-7069 Před měsícem +3

      I don't think a single person believes that any of these stories are real. They still find such videos entertaining, so you don't need to be sad

    • @JuliaJuanaAlvarez
      @JuliaJuanaAlvarez Před měsícem

      @@-venomblustudios-7069 Well if you go through the comments, people have quite the arguments over these storys

    • @sm3dwplessie765
      @sm3dwplessie765 Před měsícem +2

      ⁠​⁠@@JuliaJuanaAlvarezYes, because like any other story people like to discuss it

    • @yourdagan
      @yourdagan Před měsícem

      I guess that's what happens when committing to 3 times a day uploads.

    • @southernflight5078
      @southernflight5078 Před měsícem

      🤔 pretty sure fiction, fantasy, and drama are favorable genres all around the world.

  • @taylorhoge4378
    @taylorhoge4378 Před měsícem

    1 Corinthians 15:1-4
    Authorized (King James) Version
    15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 by which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @cameron765
    @cameron765 Před měsícem +2

    Why do you keep taking the MIL install so seriously when she don't even like her in the first place
    The only thing the MIL actually said that was correct why even get in a marriage if you're not going to have kids

    • @aparnathakur8239
      @aparnathakur8239 Před měsícem +17

      This is so stupid?? Ppl get married because they want to be with the love of their life forever and not just be "boyfriend girlfriend". Having kids is a choice and in marriage it is not mandatory, people only say this question "why marry if you are not having kids" is because everybody is seen being married for kids and when they see a marriage where the couple has different opinions on having kids they freak out.

    • @indigofeilds9520
      @indigofeilds9520 Před měsícem +2

      wtf? people get married because they love each other and want a more permanent relationship, not because they want to breed. the fuck is wrong with you?

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 Před měsícem

      @@aparnathakur8239
      Marriage is a religious ceremony that is supposed to bring both families together and have kids to keep the legacy of both families going and marriage was never about love that is a new age thing

    • @kittycat120
      @kittycat120 Před měsícem +4

      ​@@cameron765people changes so does there there opinions. We cannot forever stay in anciet setting of family. Although I do agree your opinion but not entirely. Let the people / couple in picture decide if they want to continue there family legecy?

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 Před měsícem

      @@kittycat120
      Your right things do change but not always for the better just look at the happiness of ppl without kids and ppl with them and if I know that someone is more likely to be happy with kids why wouldn't I not convince them to have them to keep long term happiness

  • @helixx92
    @helixx92 Před měsícem

    Why do people get married if they dont want kids? Makes no sense.

    • @zucc51
      @zucc51 Před měsícem +2

      Because breeding is not the only reason for a relationship

    • @IronWangCreates
      @IronWangCreates Před 12 dny

      If you can’t comprehend love, it still Makes a lot of sense if you consider the legal aspects.
      If your partner is injured, some country’s hospitals won’t consider you as family and so won’t let you into their room to see them without families consent. If you are seriously, seriously injured, your family gets legal power over medical decisions instead of your partner, even if you’ve been in a relationship for decades.
      If one of you dies, family could contest the will if you aren’t married. I’ve seen stories where someone’s life partner has died, and their estranged family had claimed their pets and property from under them.
      But also, what does marriage have to do with making kids? You don’t need to be married to have kids, you don’t lose any legal rights if you aren’t married?