ITALIAN PHRASES FOR DATING (and avoiding a broken heart in Italy)
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- Here is an episode for those of you learning the Italian language and also hoping to navigate flirting, dating or falling in love with an Italian in Italy. Many of you have asked me to speak about my personal choice of not partaking in the whole hookup culture of casual sex and one-night stands. If that's what you enjoy - no judgement here - but if you want to express your values and communicate that you prefer to know and trust someone well before sleeping with them, it can be really tough - whether in your mother tongue or in Italian. So here is some 'big sister advice' because I care about your emotional welfare and I know it isn't always easy to stand up for your values. I don't want you to get your heart broken or find out you're being cheated on or lied to, which can really be hurtful and traumatic if you're all alone on exchange living in Italy as an expat.
I hope you find some of this love and dating advice useful. Please let me know if there are other phrases you would like to learn in Italian. Good luck with your language studies AND with love! I wonder which one is harder?! Some days they're both overwhelming!!!
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#love #learnItalian #dating
I'm so happy to find someone not following the trend today and sharing that its okay be more reserved and traditional. 😍
I am an Italian young woman and I can confirm, Kylie made a better interpretation of Italian men than many Italian women themselves make :) Approved 100%.
Even in the recent video that you've made, which have a 'ligher' content than usual, you never disappoint and you manage to always be personal and relevant.
Ti seguo da anni e questo è il primo commento, finalmente mi sono mossa! Ho in programma presto di supportarti su Patreon, sei un talento. Sono cresciuta in Veneto, ho vissuto a Milano e ora sono a Londra per lavoro e università da 3 anni, se mai ti servisse qualche raccomandazione o supporto in queste località, fammi un fischio!
Keep it up!
Un grande abbraccio,
Maddalena
Madlen Castelli Ah GRAZIE!!! This is so kind of you. Glad to hear you agree - I’m always a bit nervous when speaking about your country and culture in general terms when I’m an outsider. Thank you for your encouragement!! 🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘😘
Hello i have interest about you
Your video is so accurate ! I'm in love with an italian but he really had the words to make me succumb, behaved like a gentleman and had a part of romanticism. In the streets of Toscana, I was sometimes called out by men who were saying " Che bella ! ", " Bei capelli "
I couldn’t agree more! Call us old-fashioned, but there are women out there who prefer to wait to get to know him first. Thank you for your beautiful videos Kylie. I always find them tranquil and relaxing ☺️ Keep up the good work! ❤️
Mariam Tokhy lovely to know there are more old-fashioned ladies out there like me. 😘
it's easier to get to know him in bed. masks drop and you get more honest.
The girl loses the edge of her charm, and the elusive mystery of the female ..... So definitely not advisable!
OMG HOW DID I LAND ONTO YOUR PAGE. yes, im in love with italy. if he had been living in london where I live maybe i wouldnt be so swept off my feet by him but because hes italian living in italy...i have come to realise its italy that i have a love relationship. ABSOLUTELY on point. thank you for mentioning that.
The innocence in your eyes and the way you turn your look away from the camera when you say things that make you sensitive is disarming and cute. Ps il video è molto carino:)
Crickets.
Sound of Italian summer.
In some part of Tuscany you can drive for hours with that sound in your ears until late night. Tuscan pine woods.
You did good to keep it on the video.
pile333 il suono delle cicale is one of my favourite sounds!!! 😍🇮🇹
What a lovely video. You never disappoint. I love that we have the same values when it come to dating and meeting men.
quartz princess so happy to know you liked it and even happier to know we share the same values! 😘
Helo i,ve interest you
From a 57 year old who has lots of experience, kissing and flirting is the best and the most important part of intimacy, wait
ting and enjoying the get to know you and feeling that you can trust before anything else is so important!
Making him (or her) wait, is sexier and more respect garnering in EVERY country. And, unusual too!
I like your support, for more traditional relationships.
You are, absolutely, correct in your observations of a Man's "intentions" and a Woman's proper, intelligent yet playful and interested "responses" if she is interested in him......Bravo, Signora!
I’ve just discovered you very recently and now I know why I love listening to you! I’m a Nonna! Before my first granddaughter was born I was trying to decide what I wanted to be called by her. I did not like Nanna, so I knew it wouldn’t be that. We finally decided on a name, but turns out “we” didn’t get to make that choice! My grandaughter did! “She” is the one who named me Nonna! And It’s spelled the way you spelled it here. Forever❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️ Under the Tuscan Sun you so remind me of Diane Lane
R I C - T A Y L O R 😊😊😊
I prefer to date a woman who is more traditional. I think your advice is excellent. As an American currently in Rome, I haven't tried to date anyone mainly because I don't speak Italian. My most desired dating information is where can I find you? People make dating so complicated when all we have to do is share our thoughts with one another and be absolutely truthful. I love the close up filming as your eyes are so beautiful they capture my attention and don't let go!
I think I have watched this video about 5 times already, love this so much thank you mille grazie!
Thank you for this kind and compassionate video, Kylie, and for investing in your sisters out there! 💕
Great advice! Whether you are in Italy or anywhere in the world! Good on you Kylie
I really like your videos about Italy and the Italian language!!!
Thankyou Kylie ..very interesting insights and thanks again for the Italian lesson
Amazing video!! Can’t wait to see more!!
A great video. Your content is wonderful and your delivery is so enchanting.
Lovely to watch your interesting videos, no time for shallow conversations here, refreshing I must say. I love the fact that you appreciate life, and have wonderful pleasing subjects.
I just re-started to support you on Patreon. I love your personality and your videos. Big hug and kisses😘😘😘
I'm latino, italian family, but I was raised to protect women's in my family, and protect women's in others families. My brothers and I tend to have friends that stand by this. For me it's not the "old way" is the correct one. (sorry bad english)
This video was so on point! Would love to see another video on the change from frequenti to fidanzati!
Hi I am so glad I come across you videos. I really enjoy listening to your stories .You talk about Italy with such passion .Now i love Italy it is one of my favourite countries .Thank you for explaining it so well .
Valerie
England
You are amazing! Italy is my dream and you really make it much easier for me to think of... seems more possible now. Pleas make more of these sentences 🙏🏽❤️
Hi Kylie! I'm so happy I discovered your channel! I'm planning on moving part-time to Italy hopefully by the end of the year. Italian men are so much fun! The energy over there is so much more fun than in the US. I love this video - what a great reminder not to confuse my love (and intoxication) with Italy for the man flirting with me - lol! Keep the videos coming :)
Hello beautiful!! Always so nice to watch you and learn how to deal with this situation. Hoping you are doing well and best wishes to you. 🤗🌷🌷
This was brilliant! Love how tactful you are whilst keeping things light & breezy! And it’s genuinely helping me pick up some Italian too!
Jean Byrne Your comments are always so sweet. Thank you Jean.
I LOVED every minute of this . Grazie grazie grazie mille !
As a man i not only completely admire these old fashioned values but also totally endorse them too ......well done Kylie for bravely voicing them particularly when such thinking tends to be forgotten about in our modern times or even ridiculed. Its a shame and perhaps a cruel stroke of biology/immaturity that so few men actually understand this from an early age or that some may take many years to not only learn /understand this but actually believe and practice it and develop that emotional maturity which is often so far behind that of a woman of the same age. It actually goes beyond just being a gentlemen. There is a good reason why its right, because its the best way as it values the person first and not just their physicality and what the other person can take from them physically. God designed it this way. If a person cannot appreciate the value of the person first and foremost by committing to be with that person then why should they expect to take from them so intimately straight away. There is simply no comparison in these two values, the person and their character vs their physicality in terms of whats most important. Understanding this will put any boy in good stead for his future relationships and understanding how to treat women. I think that most women would want to be treated this way ultimately if they are looking for a meaningful or serious relationship.
Buongiorno bellissima Kylie 😊
It’s been a while since my last comment and I must say your videos are continually providing me with much needed warmth and positivity Miss Flavell 😘
This video especially is so poignant for me, I have this fantasy of meeting a truly breathtaking Italian woman while living over there. We know very little of each other’s language, we stumble through the first few weeks with hand gestures and the like. Then over the next few months we finally learn each other’s language enough to the point we move in together. But alas in the real world I’ll probably have to learn conversational Italian well before I even fly out. I just have this romantic notion of the stumble, we’re in it together and we’ll be supporting ourselves through this 😘
From an eternally grateful Patron, keep up the awesome work Miss Flavell 😘
Glen
You are soo right Kylie!!! I love Italy too and I am romantic and traditional as well
Hi Kylie, Just want to drop by and say it is wonderful to see you well. I was watching your clip over lunch here in Canada. Fascinating and not only great Italian phrases for dating but also for insights on dating too! And men could learn a few things from you in how to treat women right!
Keep up the good work! P.S. If I remember right, some years ago your work setup (cameras, computer, hard disk array, etc) was featured in a case study and I remember asking you some technical questions and you were quite helpful. So I'm glad to see you very well and enjoying life in Italy. One day I should visit Italy! :)
Kempton Lam so happy you found it useful, Kempton! Thank you for following me all this time. Have a lovely day. Love to Canada. 🇨🇦
I am going to Italy for my fall semester and I loved this video, subscribed! Thank you for the thoughtful advice
Hi baby you well come italy
You are genius dear Kayla, great advices mostly for younger ones.
SUCH good advice, I have so much respect for u❤ you are such a quality woman
Veronica Marie ah you’re so KIND to write this! I was a bit nervous about being so open on this topic so thank you for making me feel supported. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I made the right choice passing your videos to grandchildren (a yr12 grand daughter heading to Europe next year)
Yet another video that gladdened my heart.
Just found your channel...and I am already in love with it..
Thank you for this video! I have lived in Italy yofor months at a time and I still learned a lot of strategic responses from you. Really useful! Also, thanks for honestly sharing your views. It's refreshing having someone encourage waiting, and enjoying getting to know someone, and hey- kissing! Better this way. Rushing leads to regret.
-Laurel
I wish I would find your chanell earlier❤️ sei belissima e i tuoi video sono la cosa più bella e interessante che abbia mai trovato sul youtube, grazie!
Wonderful advise!
Great job. So refreshing to hear. We need to hear this even for America.
Excellent advice!!!
Good advice! 😊👍
Yessss, please do more if italian lessons 😊
Kylie, you've got good values that will serve you well in life. And you are setting a great example for the younger generation.
I wish I listened to this last year when I was in Sicily.
Love this debate, I couldn't agree more with you ^_^
Thank you for doing this!
Organically Me thank YOU for watching and commenting!
Hi
Hello from Australia, love your videos.
Namasthe Kerala thank you!
Oh Kylie, grazie mille! It's such a sweet and useful episode cause it's really easy to fall for Italians because of the whole aura of the country :) I enjoyed it a lot, keep making these amazing videos! Hugs from Poland :)
I am so proud of how you respect your soul, body and heart girl. honestly, we need more women like this because then there would be little players left in the world if we all did that.
Brava Kylie!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
mike a 😘😘
As a man this video was also very helpful. At least to learn what to say to women or come up with the dating ideas you mentioned. We are guilty of being lazy but that could also be initiated from being shut down so many times. Maybe we already know that the rejection is coming so in order to save our selves from that we resort to the lazy one liners. Which is still not an excuse obviously. From your Iranian/Canadian fan who lives in Poland. Italy could be the next destination as I've found some new friends from Italy recently so the phrases you taught can help me as well haha Thanks again for your great videos.
I have been into an amazing Italian lady, we both live in holland and talk English to each other. I try to compliment her in Italian but fail mostly haha, fortunately she always laughes and says i'm sweet and cute... One time I said mi manchi, but I pronounced it wrong and she was like do you want to eat me? (in a laughing way) Of course I was like yea that too... xD
Thank you for this video, enjoyed it quite a bit. I was wondering could you give me some tips on other sweet sentences or things to say? (Tu sei bellissima focusses a little too much on her beauty.) I would love something more going into her personality, or how attractive I find her when she is in her element.
And maybe also some tips on greeting each other? what sweet thing could I say to make her blush? I really love teasing her in English but maybe it would be fun to try something like that in Italian. And yes she is also realllly tough but I like that about her, especially looking in her dark eyes I could do that for hours, they give off so much strength, it's hiptnotising.
A lot of questions I know! :$
Loved your video! I dated an italian guy but he was not as motivated as I am so things had to end. I find some are too con calma about preparing for the future. I am all about enjoying life and the moment but one must search for a job/passion at some point. Maybe a nice Italian man will come to me one day..speriamo bene!!. Very in love with italy as it is part of my culture as well. Love how you picked up and moved there on your own...very under the tuscan sun of you...maybe one day I would like to move to Italy for a little while to do some research and enjoy the beautiful Italian lifestyle...sending un abbraccio from NY
Hello
You are soooo cute!!!! Thank you for this video!!!
Kylie's videos are a sort of ASMR.
pile333 😍😍😍
You are my new favorite person!!! If I ever met you I'm buying you food!
you are amazing, men in general love it when you make them work hard for it they respect you more.. I don't believe a woman should sleep with a guy on the first date you need time to get to know him well... even if he pressures you, thanks for sharing
Thank you for this nice video and the casual inclusion of the terms for same-sex couples :)
Great post Kylie. Sei molto dolce, come mia nonna. Muchas gracias guapa.
Love your values ❤️
Thank you so much kylie for your videos you give me always to much motivation ,hope and positive vibes to keep dreaming i'm thinking moving to italy ,i'm bet afraid to start my life again from zero but when i watch your vd i feel more sure about my dreams .love you from morocco ❤
hind samiri I’m so pleased to hear this! I know how it feels to be waiting and wishing and working for your dream to happen. Happy to be able to help you on your journey. 😊
I Love you Kylie 😍💜
How motivating
Get back on the motivation track again pleeeease
Pleeeaaase send some tracks to use them in motivating videos and I will send you my videos to tell your opinion
Thank you beautiful.
Smart Lady. Bacio.
Great, I did ok. I thought I was too hard on this Italian guy. Thank you.
So true!
Hahaha this is amazing and all soo true!! You have told it exactly how it is and how they do it haha. Daii daii. Sì sì ciaoo
Eline de Lange 😂😂😂 So happy you agree!!! 😘😘😘
CASPITA! che analisi stupenda e puntuale. Si, se il ragazzo non propone nulla, potete tranquillamente salutarlo. Normalmente l uomo chiede in quale mood la ragazza si senta e di conseguenza la porta in un locale conosciuto che si adatta al momento e al tipo di conoscenza (se la ragazza è stanca non la si fa attraversare mezza città, una cena con uno sconosciuto è un pessimo inizio, le basi... ) . Per iniziare va bene un gelato, aperitivo, Bar vino o cocktails bar. Se è bravo, sarà un locale carino e adatto alla conversazione. L'incontro per un caffè è ammesso sono in un contesto lavorativo poiché la pausa sarebbe troppo breve. Poi l'ormone può scattare ovunque ;)
So charming smile, i buy it!:))
tanto amore dall'India...be happy keep smiling stay strong
Well done Kylie, tell it how it is. Italian men do have a reputation, not necessarily all good...but it is who they are...and you just have to be aware if your female... equally you can't say they are all the same because it's true of any nation. Good and bad everywhere...
These dating scenarios happen here in the US too.
This is so funny! haha at one point I swear I thought you were gonna say okay,just tell him Vaffanculooooo haahaah Ive dated italian men, and honestly I think we will be friends Kylie. Long life to Nona's style !!! Un abbraccio!
Your love for love is lovely.. :,)
Ciao ho visto parecchi tuoi video e sei molto brava e trasmetti entusiasmo. Mi piace quando uno straniero si innamora del mio paese e cerca di approfondirne gli aspetti più belli al di là degli stereotipi. Però non ho capito se questo video è una lezione di italiano ad uso "romantico" o una lezione di principi relazionali che, francamente, dovrebbero funzionare più o meno allo stesso modo in ogni parte di mondo civilizzato! 😁😁😁 Continua così, sei bravissima!
Ciao Kylie, in tutti I tuoi video emerge quel " fattore positivo " derivato dalla visione che hai della vita e, quindi, anche della " BELLEZZA UNIVERSALE " ; quella attraverso la quale il filosofo Kant nel libro : [ Critique of judgment ] , considerava come elemento determinante capace di condurre l'intelletto umano a concepire il senso del " SUBLIME " ; di qui , LA FACOLTA' PIU' ALTA che distingue gli uomini dagli altri esseri viventi , cioè : LA LIBERTÀ. Nel caso specifico, il privilegio della tua propria libertà non è altro che il frutto dalla tua bellezza interiore che , evidentemente, trasmetti e che lasci alle nuove generazioni come un'eredità importante [ricca di valori etici e morali ].Ottimo video, perfetta spiegazione con un eccellente accento italiano...complimenti ! PS. Solo un appunto...( the myts of Latin lovers exists only, thanks to the fact that there have been as many compliant foreign girls ). Greetings from Sardinia
I love you so much, my love from Tetouan, Morocco
Omar Bakali you’re so sweet! And so fast - I only just published the video a few seconds ago!! ♥️♥️
Yea I'm in love with you!💖😊
What movie clip is shown in this?
The first thing a straniera must say to an Italiano who approaches her in the street and asks to take her for a caffe or a drink is, "Sei sposato?"
Hi how are you baby sei single
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@xtreme survival ahahah
😂 😂
Why? Are you jealous!?
Hai un sorriso incredibile
luigi pascolo 😄 grazie
how many dating phrases did you get in Italy?
What is the name of the song in the intro? Sounds like a version of carina by Nicola Arigliano
Samantha G It’s actually Sofia Loren singing from the film ‘It Started in Naples’ 😊
Hi
14:02 - 14:06 You are welcome!
When another person does not feel the same way you feel ..
Piu facile amare, o di essere amato?
Is it easier to love, or to be loved?
Why didn’t I watch this before my Sicilian heart break 😢😂
HOLA! KYLIE LOVE IS PERFECT ,HUMAN NOT PERFECT. TAKE CARE, ENJOY.
Ciaoo Kilie fai anche dei video in italiano..grazieee
Beautiful content. So thoughtful
Fritzi thank you
Very well done... Can you talk about an American guy looking to find and date an Italian woman.
Any women who could give me any advice on what to do about feelings for a guy you have known for very little time though seem to have a connection with, and his response to you saying to him 'you are a good and handsome man inside and out' his response being 'thank you you have beautiful soul and i wish for you to find someone like you', he's Italian and we write in Italian though I'm still learning, and I misread a message he sent me saying that 'i wish for you to find someone like you' i thought he wrote 'i wish for me to find someone like you' to which I said to him that I liked him and was nervous to tell him for fear of how he might take it etc even though he is seeing someone, and that I would always be here for him if he needs me (in regards to language exchange, and we had spoke about his ideas of farming). Any advice on what if anything to do next
. He hasn't replied and I'm unsure he will. Don't know really. However, I know we have all felt for a guy in this situation I know I'm not the only one!
Ciao carissima Kylie! Da italiana confermo tutte le cose che hai detto, incluso il triste pregiudizio degli italiani verso le straniere :( . Caratterialmente sono molto simile a te. Negli anni però ho cominciato a vedere il sesso come una cosa normale della relazione, che avviene in maniera completamente naturale quando ce lo si sente e che essendo anche parte della relazione, ci aiuta a capire se la persona può essere compatibile con noi. Mi sono capitati periodi della vita in cui con alcune persone sono andata a letto subito, così come altri periodi in cui ho preferito aspettare e stare in osservazione della situazione. Dipende da come ci sentiamo, da cosa proviamo quando stiamo con quella persona, e soprattutto se sentiamo di fidarci e di poterci lasciar andare tranquillamente. In genere cerco di ascoltare le mie sensazioni del momento, se mettessi come regola fissa quella dell'aspettare la farei diventare una cosa innaturale, e sono sicura, ci metterei sopra troppe aspettative , la farei diventare insomma una cosa più grande di quello che è e infine le darei troppo potere. Ps per quello che ho sempre vissuto si dice "siamo fidanzati " quando si sta in una relazione molto seria, in cui spesso si sta programmando il matrimonio; quando invece si sta insieme in una relazione usiamo molto il "stiamo insieme" "lui è il mio ragazzo" "io sono la sua ragazza". Un abbraccio! sono molto felice di averti conosciuta, continua così!!! :)
As a 52 year old single man who is moving to Florence this October, I wonder what it may be like to date. Perhaps I'll meet a nice woman but I have not had the best of luck in love and I don't expect moving to Italy to change that? ❤🇮🇹
Amazing hehe.. But you really have to do one for the non Italian MEN going to Italy and dating Italian women :)
Rafael de la Rosa I have no experience in that! But feel free to comment about your experience if you have some! 😊 I would be curious to know what it’s like to date Italian women.
@@KylieFlavell hi, there are several rules that it works on Italian girls.
Basic for the first date with Italian woman:
the man must propose an idea, somewhere that he already know, near from her house, a wine bar o cocktail bar that has similar style of the woman or something completely unusual, where the talking can be the main activity, and with small tables but confortable. All of that just to be both relaxed, in a nice place, been physically cosler each other as much it can be possible. No too formal and no food (first date is something light). What do you think? Will you agree for a date like that?
However nice video.
poor you Rafael poor you...